What is Peer Pressure and Who is at Risk?

Petter Pan

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00:04Today's question is, what is peer pressure and who is at risk?

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00:20The term peer pressure refers to the influence that our friends or people of similar age or status exert on us.

00:27We all want to be accepted by our peers, which is why most people try to fit in.

00:34But sometimes fitting in means doing things that go against your morals or beliefs.

00:39This can lead to some risky behaviors such as smoking, drinking, stealing, vandalizing, taking drugs, and having unsafe sex.

00:49And when someone pressures you into doing something you're not comfortable with, you may feel like you have no choice but to give in.

00:56Peer pressure can be very powerful and dangerous.

01:00It can lead young people to make bad decisions that they will regret later on in life.

01:06It can also put them at risk of physical and emotional harm.

01:10Peer pressure happens all the time in schools, workplaces, and even online.

01:15In fact, it's so common that most of us have experienced it at some point in our lives.

01:21But what exactly causes peer pressure?

01:23Why do people feel compelled to do things that they do and want to do just because their friends ask them to?

01:30There are many factors that contribute to peer pressure.

01:34One of the most important is the need for acceptance.

01:37We are social creatures who need to feel like we belong.

01:41When we are not accepted by our peers, we feel rejected and alone.

01:45This is especially true during adolescence when kids are developing their identities.

01:52That S.Y. teens who are not accepted by their peers are more likely to engage in risky behavior.

01:58They are trying to find a way to fit in and be accepted.

02:01Some may turn to drugs or alcohol to help them forget their problems.

02:06Others may join a gang to feel like they belong to something bigger than themselves.

02:11Some teens may feel pressured to conform to certain standards of appearance.

02:16They may feel like they have to dress a certain way, look a certain way, or act a certain way in order to be accepted.

02:24This is especially true for girls who are often pressured to conform to unrealistic beauty standards.

02:30Some may resort to extreme measures such as anorexia or cutting in order to meet these standards.

02:38Another factor that contributes to peer pressure is the desire to be popular.

02:44We all want to be liked and respected by our peers.

02:47And sometimes we think that the only way to achieve popularity is to conform to certain standards.

02:54For example, some teens may feel pressured to start smoking or drinking just because it's S. what the popular kids do.

03:03They think that if they don't conform, they will never be popular.

03:08But the truth is that popularity is not everything.

03:12There are many different types of intelligence and beauty.

03:16And conforming to certain standards does not make you a better person.

03:20Another reason why teens may feel pressured to conform is because they are still developing their sense of identity.

03:28They are trying to figure out who they are and where they fit in the world.

03:32That's why it's so important for teens to have a strong support system.

03:37When teens have a positive self-image and a strong sense of identity,

03:41they are less likely to feel pressured to conform.

03:44They know who they are and they don't need anyone else's approval.

03:48So who exactly is at risk of experiencing peer pressure?

03:53The truth is that everyone is at risk.

03:56However, some people are more vulnerable than others.

04:00For example, children who have low self-esteem or who are struggling with mental health issues

04:06are more likely to experience peer pressure.

04:10That's why it's so important to seek help if you are struggling.

04:14There's no shame in asking for help.

04:16It is a sign of strength, not weakness.

04:20You should also talk to your parents or guardians about peer pressure.

04:24They can help you develop a plan to deal with this issue.

04:28If you're a teenager, you can also talk to a trusted adult such as a teacher, counselor, or religious leader.

04:35These people can provide you with the support and guidance you need to resist peer pressure.

04:41But how can you resist peer pressure if you find yourself in a situation

04:45where others are pressuring you to do something you do and want to do?

04:49Here are some tips to help you say no to peer pressure.

04:53The first step is to be assertive.

04:55This means standing up for yourself and letting others know what you want.

04:59Assertiveness is an important skill that everyone needs to learn.

05:04It is not selfish to stand up for yourself.

05:07It is necessary to set boundaries and make sure that your voice is heard.

05:12When you are assertive, you let others know that you are not willing to be taken advantage of.

05:18You are not a doormat.

05:20You are a valuable person who deserves to be respected.

05:23Another tip is to stay true to yourself.

05:25This means staying true to your values and beliefs,

05:29even when others try to pressure you to do things you are not comfortable with.

05:34It's not easy to stay true to yourself,

05:36especially when you're being pressured by your friends.

05:40But it's important to remember that you are not defined by what other people think of you.

05:46You are defined by who you are and what you believe in.

05:48If you compromise your values and beliefs to please others,

05:53you will eventually lose yourself.

05:55Another tip is to walk away from the situation.

05:58If you're not comfortable with what's going on,

06:02remove yourself from the situation.

06:04This may mean leaving the room or going outside for a walk.

06:08When you take a break from a situation,

06:10you give yourself time to calm down and think clearly.

06:14You don't have to make any rash decisions.

06:16You can take some time to assess the situation

06:19and decide what is the best course of action.

06:23And finally, another tip is to seek support from others.

06:27If you're struggling to resist peer pressure,

06:29don't be afraid to reach out for help.

06:32Talk to a trusted adult about what you're going through.

06:35They can offer you guidance and support.

06:38Remember, you're not alone.

06:40There are people who care about you and want to help.

06:44Don't be afraid to ask for help.

06:45In conclusion, peer pressure is a real problem

06:50that affects millions of people around the world.

06:54It can be difficult to resist, but it is possible.

06:57By following the tips above,

06:59you can set boundaries,

07:01stay true to yourself,

07:03walk away from uncomfortable situations,

07:06and seek support from others.

07:08Remember, you are not alone.

07:10There are people who care about you and want to help.

07:14Don't be afraid to ask for help.

07:16We hope this video has answered your question.

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