00:00you and that's the girl you like so you want to win her heart what you see in front of you now
00:05is nonsense this is not how you attract girls you need to flip this arrow she should be the
00:09one wanting you if you are the one chasing her she will never come to you you must imagine
00:14yourself as a magnet that attracts girls this is the correct and only way to make any girl no
00:19matter who she is fall for you how will you do that this is the topic of our video so welcome
00:23to our series on how to attract women in this video we will delve into a girl's mind and
00:29understand what she is looking for the cornerstone to success with women and dating hinges on one
00:34crucial understanding attraction grasping the dynamics of attraction is imperative without
00:40this understanding you won't achieve success in the dating realm women's decision making process
00:45is typically driven by emotions rather than pure logic they react based on feelings that a particular
00:51situation person or object elicits in them consequently they don't control who they are attracted to or who
00:57they aren't it's all a subconscious response to certain behaviors exhibited by men you can't make
01:03a woman attracted to you by presenting a powerpoint on your best qualities in essence igniting attraction
01:09requires you to embody these behaviors in your personality however before we delve into its
01:15intricacies let's underline two important facts women don't control whom they are attracted to women
01:21don't control whom they are not attracted to in some attraction operates on an unconscious level and
01:27it's beyond women's conscious control so let's get into her mind and find out who the men she is
01:32looking for are one someone they can't have picture this you're at a store idly scanning the shelves
01:39when a shiny state-of-the-art television catches your eye now you didn't step in to buy anything you
01:44were just killing time but out of curiosity you ask the salesperson about the tv he looks apologetic and
01:51says oh i'm sorry that's the last one and it's sold out suddenly the tv you were merely curious about a
01:57minute ago seems like the coolest gadget in the world when the salesperson calls you later saying
02:01he found an extra piece in the warehouse but it's a little pricier you're like heck yeah i'll take it
02:07so what just happened there that tv just turned into a limited edition gadget something you just had
02:12to have women's attraction to men works on a similar principle guys they can't easily have are like
02:17those limited edition products unavailability increases their value making them more attractive
02:23so being the limited edition guy in the dating market definitely a win
02:282. someone somebody else has interestingly if a man is in a relationship engaged or even married
02:34he instantly becomes more appealing this sounds counterintuitive but attraction is a funny game
02:40it seems to intensify when the prize is harder to reach so when a man is already claimed by someone
02:45else his desirability index skyrockets kind of like the last slice of pizza everyone wants a bite
02:513. a guy who is wanted by other girls imagine this you're strolling down the street when suddenly
02:56you notice a crowd gathering intrigued you edge closer and find them all staring at a box an
03:02ordinary looking box there's nothing visually extraordinary about it yet you're drawn in
03:07just like everyone else wondering what's so fascinating about this box similarly when a man is
03:13surrounded by a bevy of women he naturally becomes more attractive to other women it's as though a
03:18spotlight has been thrown on him making other women curious they start thinking what's so special
03:24about this guy that all these women are hovering around him this curiosity can be a potent magnet
03:29drawing more women towards him so in essence being popular with women makes you more popular with
03:34women it's the ultimate crowd puller strategy 4. a man who does not do what he is expected to do
03:41which means being unpredictable predictability can lead to monotony and this is why being unpredictable
03:47can sometimes ignite instant attraction in women picture this most men approach women in a very
03:53transparent and predictable way they wear their intentions on their sleeves and it's often this
03:58predictability that can cause women to pull away why because women have a knack for reading body
04:03language and cues they can often make snap judgments about whether they want to continue interacting with
04:09someone attractive women in particular are used to getting approached by regular guys the average joes
04:15they expect men to react in certain ways especially when they've spent a good deal of time making
04:20themselves look attractive she's used to attention and she expects it but when she encounters something
04:25unique and unpredictable it can spark an instant attraction it's doing the unexpected that's the
04:31real key to attraction imagine being in conversation with a beautiful woman and saying i really like
04:36you you're pretty and have a great personality would you date me these i like you but i'm not sure if we get
04:43along i mean i don't think you can handle me now which one do you think will make her more curious
04:47the second line right because it's unexpected it throws her off balance and piques her interest
04:52she might think wait he's suggesting that i can't handle him does that mean i'm not good enough he's
04:57so different from other guys i need to know more her emotions are instantly engaged and there's nothing
05:02she can do but feel attracted being unpredictable is definitely a game changer
05:07five someone who has high value finally the fifth type is the high value man just as antique items
05:13can be sold at astounding prices even if they aren't usable so too can a high value man be incredibly
05:20attractive even if he's not traditionally perfect you see these antique items are seen as high value
05:26and their worth isn't necessarily tied to their usability but rather the perception of their value
05:31similarly a man can be seen as attractive in the eyes of a woman if he's perceived as high value
05:37now you might be asking what does it mean to be a high value man simply put a woman considers a man
05:43high value when she sees him as more important than her as long as you can maintain this upper hand
05:48you'll be seen as a high value man so how do you cultivate this perception here are a few pointers
05:54a high value man never tries to impress a woman just for the sake of it he doesn't seek attention or approval
06:00from women he doesn't place a woman on a pedestal just because she's attractive he never settles for
06:05anything less than the best women aren't at the top of his priority list his life and passions come
06:11first he's willing to walk away if his principles are violated he makes a woman work for his attention
06:16rather than giving it away freely he has options and he's not desperate to settle instead of adapting to
06:22a woman's reality he invites her into his lastly a high value man never chases women by embodying these
06:29traits you'll be considered a high value man
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