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If you want to know how to attract women, then this video is for you! Learn some easy tips and tricks to get the attention of the ladies.
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00:00for how to make a girl like you. You'll find some people say you need to have a strong body,
00:04others say you need money, and some say you need to learn seduction. But when we look at reality,
00:09most people who enter healthy relationships and attract girls don't have any of these things.
00:14This is because attracting women is very easy and easier than you think. All you need to do
00:18is forget all those superficial tips and return to the basic principles of attraction.
00:24I will walk you through step by step and explain everything you need to know to make any girl,
00:29no matter who she is, like you, and desire you.
00:38When I was in university, like any other guy, I tried my best to make girls like me and get their
00:44attention. However, all my attempts ended in failure until a friend gave me a book. I finished it in a
00:50week, and when I did, it felt like a fog had lifted from my eyes. Believe me, attracting women is
00:55incredibly easy. All you need to do is learn this formula and apply it. Please, listen to me
01:01carefully because I'm going to change your life. By the way, if this video reaches 1k likes, I will put
01:07the name of the book in the first comment. Success with women is a state of mind and nothing else
01:13because what is in your mind will reflect in your actions. Which is why, when a great majority of men
01:19don't even feel they deserve the company of an attractive woman, they don't get any. The most
01:24important statement you must remember is, she feels what you feel. Women will never judge you
01:29based on your looks, words, or even how much money you have. They will always judge you based on what
01:34sort of feelings are circulating inside of you. What you feel will reflect on your personality.
01:40And this is the reason why, when you are nervous, you have a very high chance of being rejected,
01:45because the girl senses that you aren't confident enough around her. But at the same time, if you
01:50were to make your approach seeming very confident, calm, and relaxed, she will respond to you more
01:55positively. Consequentially, you have to demonstrate that you consider yourself as a man who women
02:00naturally desire. Our character of the day is the chap who tries to win a girl over by pandering to her
02:06every whim. Don't put a girl on a pedestal as though she's your future spouse. If you catch yourself
02:11saying things you shouldn't, or going out of your way to make an impression, you're probably trying
02:15to mask an inner sense of inadequacy. It's this hidden deficiency that makes you pull out all the
02:21stops to impress the girl. The best way to wow a girl is actually by not trying to wow her. When
02:26you're making a song and dance about getting her attention, she's not going to be impressed. The
02:31moment you stop seeking her approval, that's when she'll genuinely be wowed. Why, you wonder? It's
02:36because she's seen so many men trying to woo her that when someone doesn't, it gets her attention.
02:40Consider these two instances. Situation 1. Guy. Hi, can I get you a drink? Girl. I'm good thanks.
02:46Guy. Speechless. Situation 2. Guy. Hey, what's the best drink here? Girl. It's the XYZ. Guy. Great.
02:53Fancy buying me one? Spot the difference? The second approach gets a stronger reaction because it's not a
02:58clear-cut pick-up attempt. The guy isn't trying to win her over. Most women are so used to men trying to
03:03impress them that when they come across something unexpected, it piques their interest. The quest for
03:09validation is deeply rooted in our self-perception and self-esteem. It's a story unfolding in your
03:15mind, revolving around how you perceive yourself. Men who constantly seek approval often struggle
03:21with low self-esteem, surrendering their own power in exchange for acceptance or validation from women.
03:27This implies an underlying fear of losing the girl even before the dialogue has initiated. As a result,
03:33they engage in any action that might avert potential rejection. Such a man is often unsure about the
03:39appropriateness of his actions, prompting him to seek validation from the woman, merely to confirm he's on the
03:45right path. In essence, here's the mental journey an approval seeker takes upon seeing an attractive woman.
03:51A strong interest in her ensues. She's strikingly beautiful. I hope everything unfolds well. This mindset leads him to
03:58try too hard, sacrificing his own power for a smidgen of approval. But what impact does this have on the
04:04woman? Here's a glimpse into her thoughts. Gosh, he's really pulling out all the stops to get my
04:08attention. Yet, he's unexciting. When will this night be over? The instant a woman senses you're
04:14craving her approval, she could lose interest almost immediately. Bear in mind that attraction isn't a
04:19switch she can consciously flip. The desperate need for approval is a major attraction deterrent. As long as
04:24you're seeking her approval, she's unlikely to exhibit genuine interest in you.
04:29Men who effortlessly attract women do not tie themselves to the outcome. Picture this, you approach a woman and
04:36get rejected. Or even graver, you get rejected in front of your buddies. How would that make you feel? For many,
04:42there's nothing more devastating than facing rejection. However, those who excel at attracting women grasp that
04:49rejection is insignificant. It's merely a component of the dating landscape and they aren't perturbed
04:54by the woman's reaction. Their primary concern is to enjoy the experience and nothing more. Consider
04:59these two scenarios. Hello, how are you? Girl. Go away, jerk. Guy. Oh, I'm sorry. And leaves. Guy.
05:06Hello, how are you? Girl. Go away, jerk. Guy. Ouch. Seems like a rough day for you. My mom warned me about
05:12angry birds. I'm scared. Goodbye. Now, who do you think had a better time? No competition there. When you're
05:18indifferent to the outcome, you don't fret about the girl's response. Your focus remains on how to make the
05:23most out of every interaction. One tendency among men that irks me is the propensity to lose all sense
05:30of control at the sight of an attractive woman. I fail to understand why a woman should be awarded
05:36extra points merely for her looks. Physical attractiveness is something she didn't necessarily
05:40work for, so why place her on a divine pedestal? When you start behaving unusually jittery around an
05:46attractive woman, you're bound to fumble and ruin things. However, if you avoid doling out extra niceties
05:51solely based on her looks, an intriguing phenomenon occurs. For example, envision a scenario where a man
05:58is engaging in a conversation with a stunning woman. Man. My buddy believes it's hard to come
06:02across smart women. Woman. Why does he think so? Man. Well, I share the same belief. I mean,
06:08beauty is pretty commonplace nowadays, but most beautiful women don't quite cut it in the
06:12intelligence department. How does the woman process this? She's unaccustomed to such reactions.
06:17Her thoughts might go like, wait, is he insinuating that I'm not attractive enough for him? What's
06:22with the smart women are hard to find remark? Am I projecting myself as dim witted? And just like
06:27that, she begins to seek your validation. Since you didn't readily hand it over like the average guy
06:33would around an attractive woman. Now, she'll strive to prove her worth to you because indirectly,
06:38she's been led to believe that she might not measure up. This immediately categorizes you as that
06:42different and unique guy a woman would be genuinely interested in. Essentially, it's about understanding
06:48that no matter how strikingly beautiful a woman is, with the right approach to attraction, any woman
06:53can be captivated. Imagine you're a man who knows how to attract women. You're not rushing to get
06:59married. Instead, you choose the women you date rather than accepting whoever comes along. Imagine this
07:05situation. You're at a restaurant and you order chicken soup. The waiter says, sorry, we don't have
07:10chicken soup today. You ask for vegetable soup instead, but they don't have that either. You ask,
07:15what do you have then? The waiter replies, we only have tomato soup. You settle and order the tomato
07:20soup. Do you see what happened there? You wanted chicken soup, but settle for tomato because it's
07:25what was available. What you should have done was look for another restaurant that has what you really
07:30want. A lot of guys do the same thing with women. They have an idea of the perfect woman they'd like
07:34to be with. But when they face reality and see that their ideal woman seems unattainable,
07:40they start to settle. A guy who really understands attraction never settles. He always goes for the
07:45best and chooses the kind of women he truly wants to date. He doesn't just accept any woman. He has
07:50high standards and sticks to them. A man of value puts his principles above all else, even the woman
07:56he's with. He's not afraid to step back if his principles are being violated. Let's say you're having a
08:02heated discussion with your girlfriend and she threatens to leave you. What do you do? The average
08:06guy would immediately apologize, worried that he's upset her. He might even do things he doesn't want
08:11to or agree to things he actually disagrees with just to prevent her from leaving him. But a high
08:16value man reacts differently. The woman says, I'm going to leave you. His response, it seems we're not
08:21really compatible anyway. Charlie might be a better match for you. Then he calmly walks away. A high value
08:26man won't compromise his principles. He knows there are plenty of other options out there. He's
08:31confident in his worth and is not afraid to stand alone. We often overlook the things that come too
08:37easily to us. There's a significant difference in the worth we attach to things we're given
08:41effortlessly and things we strive hard to obtain. The same principle applies to relationships. Women
08:47tend to value men. They have to put effort into understanding. When you don't react like the average
08:52man would, she starts to think there must be something special about you. That's why it's crucial to
08:56learn how to make a woman strive for your attention. Don't be an open book she can read in one go. One
09:02strategy involves showing interest and then quickly showing disinterest. For example, an average man
09:08might simply compliment her, hey, you're really pretty. He'd then wait for her reaction and she'd
09:13probably see him as just another guy. But a high value man might say something like, you're pretty,
09:18sure, but I'm not convinced we'd get along. You seem like too much of a goody two shoes for me. Can you
09:22see the difference? The second statement will provoke a strong emotional reaction. She will be
09:26left wondering, he said, I'm pretty, but why doesn't he think we'd get along? This guy is different. I
09:32need to find out more about him. So when a woman has to work for your attention, she becomes incredibly
09:37curious about you because you're not afraid to challenge her. A common mistake many men make is
09:42to modify their behavior or lifestyle to align with the preferences of the woman they're with. This
09:48usually stems from the fear of not meeting her expectations. Adapting to a woman's preferences
09:52can be likened to a dead fish in the stream. You have no control over where you're going and
09:57ultimately, when she decides to end things, you're left with no control at all. By reshaping your life
10:03to suit hers, you're sending a message that you view her as higher value and you need to change to
10:08match that value. Ultimately, you shouldn't alter who you are just to make a woman feel at ease. The
10:13truth is simple. If she doesn't appreciate certain aspects about you, she doesn't deserve you. If she
10:18can't accept you as you are, then she's the one who needs to change. You don't need to change anything
10:23to cater to her needs. But if she wants to be with you, she definitely needs to adapt to your reality.
10:29Remember, a high value man isn't overly concerned with other people's opinions or judgments.
10:34He shapes his own reality and follows his own course. A high value man understands that there's no
10:41shortage of attractive women out there. He doesn't fixate on one woman, putting all his hopes in her.
10:46If one woman rejects him, he knows that there are plenty of other opportunities. He sees the
10:51abundance, not scarcity, when it comes to women. And there you have it, the untold psychological
10:56playbook to level up your dating game. This isn't just advice, it's a mindset shift. As always,
11:02remember to put these strategies into action because
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