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00:00Previously on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
00:03While Nell was ragtagging me in LA,
00:06she know that boy had a baby on the way.
00:07Would you be open to having Destiny as a daughter-in-law?
00:11I can't honestly say that I feel that way now.
00:13If you want her there, I need to assess our relationship
00:16going forward.
00:17I told Trisha that I might try to have
00:19another conversation with my kids.
00:20Bruh, I have one conversation, then I
00:23start talking with Dee.
00:24Is the divorce final?
00:26Everything?
00:27Hold on a second.
00:29What we?
00:30I literally came and dropped my daughter off.
00:31I don't know what's going on.
00:33The day that I came over, it's automatic hostility.
00:35You came into my house uninvited.
00:38I called the courthouse.
00:40They said we waiting for a court date,
00:41because obviously you put on there
00:42and said we had no minor choice.
00:43Bruh, that's a lie, bruh.
00:44Look, it says it right there.
00:46Hey, stop playing.
00:47Relax, bruh.
00:48Hey, Marquez, sit down.
00:49Just sit down.
00:50Or you're going to get the out.
00:53We keep it moving all day, all night, yeah.
00:59Ain't no stopping us.
01:00Drop that.
01:01We ain't stopping.
01:04You know, you know.
01:07We keep it moving all day, all night, yeah.
01:16Yeah.
01:17All day, all night, yeah.
01:20Ain't no stopping us.
01:23Yeah.
01:28Are you going to get out?
01:29I'll put you out.
01:30It's black and white.
01:31We can do it that way.
01:32Are we moving forward?
01:33That's right.
01:33We can't move forward.
01:34We're going to get behind.
01:35What did you say, dude?
01:36Worst of all, you were displeveled by walking in my house.
01:38Ken, come on.
01:39Are we moving forward tonight?
01:40You just did it again.
01:41Hey, y'all better, bro.
01:42Y'all better do what?
01:43Better do what?
01:44Get out.
01:45Get out.
01:45Get out of here.
01:46This is going to be dangerous.
01:47Get it.
01:48Get it.
01:49Get it.
01:50Get it.
01:51Stop.
01:52Oh, my gosh.
01:54Y'all got me up.
01:56You told me so.
01:59Because that's exactly what happened.
02:00You definitely told me that it would happen.
02:02Yeah.
02:03I didn't want to believe it.
02:04I thought that I could be super saver and make things,
02:09you know, work.
02:10But it bit me.
02:11I told you it's only going to last so long.
02:12It bit me an ass.
02:13Definitely.
02:14Todd be disrespectful.
02:15I don't give a what y'all do.
02:16Don't keep being disrespectful.
02:17Make me be the bad guy you want.
02:37Hello.
02:38Hey, T.
02:39Hey, girl.
02:40How are you?
02:41I'm good.
02:43You had a busy week?
02:46Girl, yes.
02:47I don't have mercy.
02:48And I'm going to try to work on some numbers right now.
02:52Listen, I wanted to try to get everybody together,
02:54like the ladies anyway, not, you know, the dudes right now.
02:57Okay, I'm down.
02:59Just send me the information.
03:00I'll be there.
03:00Okay.
03:01Okay, sounds good.
03:02Thanks, dear.
03:03This is my annual effort at gathering the ladies
03:07and kind of do a check-in, do a temperature check.
03:09We haven't seen each other since we were in L.A.
03:11and the streets say that these women got a lot going on.
03:17And now that that's in order, it's date night with the hubby.
03:21Got us some blankets.
03:23Thank y'all.
03:24Just in case.
03:25We're going to have fire.
03:25No, it's not going to be just in case.
03:27It's going to be for sure.
03:29What you mean?
03:30I mean some tea.
03:32Because I don't want to be cold.
03:36You know what?
03:37We're going to do some, uh, some date nighting around the fire.
03:42I like it.
03:43Yeah.
03:45But all we have is tea, though.
03:47Yeah, I just made tea.
03:49I didn't make nothing but tea.
03:51Oh, nothing but tea.
03:53Oh, this one I brought for you.
03:54Oh, thank you, sir.
03:55It's hot.
03:56It don't feel like that.
03:57Okay.
03:58It might be cold out here.
03:59Then the hot tea will help.
04:01Did you have a good day?
04:02Yeah, man.
04:03It's been busy.
04:04Grinding.
04:06Grinding.
04:06A lot of work.
04:07A little bit of time.
04:08I know.
04:09I did run by Jalen's house, though.
04:11You did?
04:11Mm-hmm.
04:12I haven't been over there just kind of chilling in a while.
04:15Mm-hmm.
04:15I told him, I said, you're like my bestie, like my little friend.
04:19You know what I'm saying?
04:20Like, our relationship changed a lot after college.
04:24Mm-hmm.
04:24Listen, I was telling Jalen about us doing business together
04:27and the family business, me, you, Monster, and him.
04:32And, you know, the kids got reservations.
04:35Yes, Maurice.
04:39Why?
04:39Because you do this whole dictator type thing.
04:42Y'all don't even want to work with me because of rule.
04:45No, it's not.
04:46It's because you talk a lot.
04:48Oh, that's what it is.
04:48Yeah.
04:49Oh, okay.
04:49Work little, talk lot.
04:51Nobody wants that.
04:54We want hands-on and get the work done kind of thing.
04:58That's it.
05:00And so I was talking to Jalen about that, and he felt like, um, you know, there were maybe
05:06some missteps as far as him growing up with father figures.
05:12He said he didn't really look at you like a father figure.
05:18He just never felt like a father figure.
05:21It was always more just the homie.
05:25He never made me feel like, you know, a son.
05:31As the years went on, I kind of looked at Marcel as like the father figure.
05:39He said he felt his relationship with you was more homeboy, like mentor, homeboy.
05:46He actually said he looked to Marcel more of a father figure than you.
05:55The fact that Jalen said that he looked up more to Marcel as a father figure, you know,
05:59felt like a little gut punch.
06:00I think that no parent wants to hear, um, that they're not doing as well as they think
06:06that they should be.
06:09I would have liked to have that kind of impact on Jalen.
06:13Yeah.
06:14I don't want it to ever feel like I don't adore you as a human, and I don't want the
06:20best for you emotionally, spiritually, physically, financially, right?
06:26And I want you to chase, you know, chase your dreams, too.
06:31I want to talk to Jalen.
06:39Oh, look at you getting dinner right there.
06:57Well, we're going to eat some wings.
06:59I'm cheating today.
07:00Oh, well, I guess we're both here.
07:02Oh, they're going to run on the ground.
07:03We're not going to worry about that.
07:05So, um, how was class?
07:07Class was actually interesting.
07:10We have a lot to cover and a lot of work that I need you to do.
07:16Oh.
07:16We talked about you spiffing up some things at the daycare center for us.
07:22Okay.
07:22So we can get these four stars.
07:24Oh, we need the stars now.
07:26Yes.
07:26We need to get that certification going for the daycare.
07:29That would be excellent.
07:30Well, right now, we have a real estate company.
07:32We also have a daycare center, Growing Smiles, and we do have a cleaning company, Crystal Clear
07:37Cleaning.
07:37So I've been taking classes for my quality stars for the daycare, for Growing Smiles.
07:42With having quality stars, the more stars you receive, the more funding you receive.
07:47I have to take this serious.
07:49Gotcha.
07:49There's, like, money involved in it.
07:53And then, of course, you know, it's very educational for the kids as well.
07:58Sounds great.
07:59All right?
08:00Yep.
08:00Sounds great.
08:02So what else is going on?
08:03What else you get done today?
08:06Kimmy, like, called me.
08:08Called you for what?
08:10To ask me out.
08:12Like she said, we hadn't talked.
08:13We need to catch up.
08:14Actually, probably being, like, the girls, because I really don't talk to no women.
08:20You haven't talked to Leticia?
08:21I have not talked to Leticia.
08:22She was really quiet in L.A.
08:24She was very quiet.
08:25I want to know where we stand.
08:28Like we've spoken with Destiny?
08:29Um, she called.
08:31And I want to say, I do think Destiny missed me.
08:35Called you Miss Nell?
08:36Because I miss Nell, of course.
08:38Mm-hmm.
08:39And I'm very level-headed when it comes to other people's problems.
08:42I have counseled Destiny.
08:46Long conversation, long sit-down.
08:49I spent a lot of time with her.
08:51So when she made the statement, I got to reevaluate our friendship.
08:54I do not like what Sonny did.
08:58But I have to judge for myself.
09:00If you want her there, I understand.
09:03But for me now, I need to assess our relationship going forward.
09:08What you reevaluating, boo?
09:11I've been there for you, too.
09:13All because I invited Sonny to a bachelorette party?
09:19Or was it really because of your relationship with Lance?
09:22I don't know.
09:23My relationship with Destiny right now is kind of shaky.
09:27This is the reason why I did not want Destiny to get involved with our son, Lance.
09:34We don't do size.
09:36That's my son.
09:38You've been just as wrong as he is.
09:41It is what it is.
09:42If she feel like she got to reevaluate her friendship, then hell, I can reevaluate mine.
09:48Do you think I should say something to her?
09:51Because I was planning on saying something to her.
09:54Well, I mean, if she's asking you to come out with the girls and this, that, and the other,
10:00and you feel like you need to pull her to the side and ask her about it,
10:04then yeah, I would love to hear her response.
10:09Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
10:11So we all had a sit down.
10:13You, Ken, and Marquez.
10:15And my friend.
10:16So Ken started getting mad.
10:17And next thing I know, they got to touch them.
10:19Are you serious?
10:20What?
10:20What the hell?
10:22Did you feel difference in love?
10:25Like I love Monster more or differently than you?
10:28Well, I mean, of course.
10:30He's your son.
10:31I'm not your actual son.
10:33Hey, beautiful.
10:55How are you?
10:57Fine.
10:57I mean, I think I have a table for four hours.
11:00I like to eat.
11:02Everybody knows that.
11:03I decided to gather up the ladies.
11:10Hey, girl.
11:11Hey.
11:12Hey, such a little.
11:14So this whole dinner is twofold because I kind of want to hang out with the ladies,
11:19get the download.
11:20But I really kind of want to get to know Trisha and Nell better.
11:28Hey, sweetie.
11:30Of course, I invited Destiny because I wanted all of the ladies to get together and download.
11:37But Destiny's out in those TikTok streets.
11:40She couldn't make it.
11:41Look at y'all looking all sick.
11:44Country guard.
11:46I see you coming up.
11:48Y'all looking all sick.
11:50No, it's not a queen.
11:51How are you doing, beautiful?
11:54Awesome.
11:54Awesome.
11:55It looks just like it.
11:56Yes.
11:57Yes.
11:58Uh-uh.
11:59You got your boots on?
12:01No.
12:01I got on some boots, but just some regular boots.
12:04I'm glad all y'all came.
12:06Well, I'm glad you invited me.
12:07And it was pleasant calling everybody.
12:10Like, literally, I called Nell.
12:11She said, hey!
12:15I was like, I need to call more often if I'm going to get that kind of recognition.
12:19And so I wanted us to be able to kind of talk about how we get to know each other better,
12:24what that looks like.
12:25I think just being around each other more, I think that's how you get to know each other
12:29a little bit better.
12:30Mm-hmm.
12:31I definitely feel like I need to grow my relationship with the ladies.
12:35We're not really transparent.
12:36We always have that block of, we're only going to go so far in getting each other's
12:41opinions and just venting to each other.
12:44So Ken and Marquez have been on this, um, friendship thing.
12:48Oscar!
12:49Well, no.
12:50Let me tell you the beginning of it.
12:52So he came to the, he brought Zari to the house, and he walked straight in the house.
12:58That's disrespectful.
12:59So we all had a sit down.
13:01You, Ken, and Marquez.
13:03And my friend.
13:03So then he started talking about the divorce papers and how I didn't have the kids on
13:08there, and that's why he contested it.
13:09So, well, they got the papers, brought it to him, and he started getting mad and disrespectful
13:13after that.
13:14Just, like, going crazy.
13:15So, he...
13:16Disrespecting towards you?
13:16Everybody.
13:17So, kids started getting mad.
13:18And next thing I know, they got to touch them.
13:20Are you serious?
13:21What?
13:21What the hell?
13:23I hate that for y'all.
13:25The little...
13:25Well, that just, like, sets you back, like, ten steps when you're trying to make friends.
13:29It was.
13:30That's a lot.
13:31Right.
13:31Well, I don't have, like, a bunch of drama in my house, but I did find out one thing.
13:35Jaylen told me that he felt like his relationship with Maurice was more of a homie, like, mentor
13:43relationship.
13:44He actually said he felt like Marceau was more of a father figure to him.
13:48A father figure?
13:49For what?
13:50Maybe because he worked with Marceau.
13:51He worked with Marceau at Monaco.
13:53He worked with Marceau at Black.
13:55He used to have more time, one-on-one time with Marceau.
13:59And me and Marceau be like, Jaylen's his oldest son.
14:01You know, he does that too, so.
14:03I feel like Marceau felt the way.
14:05But Marceau is very hands-off.
14:08Like, he is very hands-off.
14:10And so I think Jaylen, in that time of his life, he gravitated to people who gravitated
14:15to him.
14:17It was a tough conversation.
14:18Jaylen and Kimmy, they was together for so long just the two of them.
14:22So with Marceau coming in, Jaylen has to also embrace Marceau as a father so he can have
14:29those conversations with Marce and not just have it with Kimmy and Kimmy related to Marce.
14:35I think that as comfortable as Jaylen is talking to Kimmy, he also should be comfortable talking
14:40to Marce as well.
14:41You did stress in L.A., you didn't hang out with us at all.
14:44Not this year, you sure did.
14:46I didn't really have a chance.
14:48You know, normally we don't leave early.
14:49We hang out with everyone.
14:51Lance had mentioned wanting to hang out with Kim, but he had got a call saying he needed
14:56to get back.
14:58He had a baby on the way in labor.
15:00I saw that on social media.
15:01Me too.
15:02We all did.
15:04It was like, what the hell?
15:06So that's when you found out why you were in L.A.?
15:10Yeah.
15:11So you didn't know beforehand?
15:14So he didn't know she was pregnant the whole time either?
15:19So she didn't tell him?
15:22I mean, he's dealt with her for, what, five years?
15:25Oh.
15:27So he spun the block.
15:30Chris had a baby too.
15:31Yeah, at the same time.
15:32So you got two great kids at the same time?
15:34I have two.
15:35Well, I don't have them at the same time.
15:38We're like a month.
15:41They're five months apart.
15:43Wow.
15:43Oh.
15:44How are you feeling about everything?
15:45How are you doing?
15:48I'm doing better.
15:49At first, it took a toll on me.
15:52I can imagine.
15:53That's a lot.
15:54I'm putting on the table because when I saw that on social media, I was sad on you.
15:58I was like, not Nell having him and Destiny dating.
16:01He had a whole girl pregnant the whole time.
16:04No, I didn't know.
16:06Even though it didn't have nothing to do with me.
16:08Okay.
16:08Because I can't tell him who to go in the wrong way.
16:10Right, right, right.
16:10But I was like, you was for him and Destiny dating.
16:13That's what's between him and Destiny.
16:15Tisha felt like you were for the relationship.
16:18Yeah, with him and Destiny.
16:20For him and Destiny, at first I was.
16:23I was at first.
16:24And then once you found out he was having a baby, you changed your mind?
16:28It was before the baby.
16:29Why?
16:29What happened?
16:30I think me and Destiny kind of had on with some things we went through.
16:34And then it was like, uh-uh, red flag for me.
16:38So, yeah.
16:40So I thought I was coming to a girl's dinner.
16:43But Leticia Scott Esquire seems to have a lot of questions tonight.
16:47So I got a lot for her too.
16:49Kimmy and Leticia.
16:51Mm-hmm.
16:51So how do you two ladies feel about what Martell said about your husbands?
16:58Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville, did you feel a difference in love?
17:10Like, I love Monster Moor.
17:12Uh.
17:14If I have a problem with any of you all, you will know it.
17:17Okay.
17:18Because I was telling Kim, I was like, I don't know about the flexions.
17:22So how do you two ladies feel about what Martell said about your husbands in the interview?
17:36Mm.
17:37How did you feel about it?
17:39How did I feel about it?
17:41Mm-hmm.
17:42I was blown back.
17:43Me too.
17:44I was like, whoa, that's a lot.
17:47I ain't gonna lie.
17:48Did you listen to the whole thing?
17:48I said, me neither.
17:49I said, this ain't the fakest ghetto, backwoods, looking I've ever seen in my damn life.
17:55So I feel like Leticia is deflecting, trying to take the heat off of her, asking me how I feel.
18:02It really wasn't a way for me to feel I'm not married to Martell.
18:06She is.
18:07As soon as I saw it, I laughed.
18:11Me too.
18:11Because if he was going to make an effort to make that believable, that was the worst depiction.
18:17Even if it was believable, I'd be like, yeah, no, bruh.
18:23Not that.
18:24That and that.
18:25No, ma'am.
18:26Okay.
18:27Well, you know why he did it?
18:29It was terrible.
18:29Because Tisha's live with Carlos had me dying laughing.
18:33No lie told.
18:34No lie told.
18:35Did you and Tisha have a conversation with Marcel and Martell about it?
18:39Me and my husband did a live, and we absolutely discussed how we felt about it.
18:43I know.
18:43So if you want to know how I feel about it, I'm going to watch the live.
18:46She's not going to create my story anymore for me.
18:49So, yeah, I'm done with it.
18:50I think I was very direct and honest about how I felt, me and Marcel together, on our IG page.
18:56I feel like I'm an open book.
18:58So, I don't even know if Nell is being transparent.
19:01Like, there's some things going on in the streets about her that she don't speak on, and I'm not calling her out on it.
19:07Like, girl, do you.
19:09Speak on what you want to speak on.
19:10If we have a problem with somebody that's here, then we have to make sure we're talking to that person about it,
19:16and not talking, like, about it to other people, and then to get back to that person.
19:21I agree.
19:22Me too, Hale.
19:23You said me too, Hale.
19:26I'm not holding a grudge with anyone at this point.
19:30I have released every damn thing.
19:32Now, do I may have a choice of words to say?
19:34Come here, sir.
19:35Uh-oh.
19:36Yeah.
19:36Of course.
19:37Of course.
19:38But I'm good.
19:39If I have a problem with any of you all, you will know it.
19:43I'm not good at holding how I feel.
19:46I'm glad.
19:47Okay.
19:48Because I was telling Kim, I was like, I don't know about the flexors.
19:53I don't know.
19:56Even with Chris, I told Marceau, I said, you need to talk to Chris.
20:00Because when Chris made that statement...
20:02That sound more like Maurice or some Marceau to sign an NDA.
20:06I cannot.
20:07That's my husband.
20:10I'm going to stay in...
20:11I'm going to stick by his side.
20:12Right.
20:13No, I get that.
20:13Because that's my significant other.
20:15But I cannot control everything that comes out of his mouth.
20:19Right.
20:20Well, Maurice felt away.
20:23He felt away because he feels like he's been cool with Fletch.
20:26And even for information that is common knowledge, you know, you are speaking on your infidelity
20:34and that kind of thing.
20:35Maurice says he's never made a joke.
20:36He's never, like, put nothing out there.
20:38He's never said anything, like, on toward.
20:40So he kind of felt the way that his name was put in that.
20:46When Kimmy tells me that Maurice felt a certain way that Fletcher made that statement, it did
20:52actually bother me because I don't have no ill-willed feelings towards Maurice.
20:58And I didn't think Fletcher does neither.
21:00So it's just something I have to speak with him about.
21:05I had no idea.
21:06Hopefully that's going to be fast.
21:09That's in 2024.
21:10Leave it back there.
21:112025 is a new year.
21:13So what are we going to do next?
21:15To get all the girls together.
21:17Oh, yeah!
21:19I am having a Western-themed birthday party.
21:22You're going to come?
21:23I'll get the wedding.
21:24Of course.
21:25Give me a couple of them.
21:25Absolutely.
21:26Absolutely.
21:27This is not my cowboy hat.
21:29It's got the little feather on there.
21:31It's a Western hat.
21:32I'm going to have on a cowboy hat there.
21:33How about that?
21:36Coming up on Love & Marriage Huntsville.
21:40What are you going to do when Marquez pops back up?
21:42You can't get away from this guy.
21:43So here's the thing.
21:45I'm not dealing with it.
21:46But you do, though.
21:47You guys keep trying to talk and then get upset.
21:48No, no, no, it's not.
21:49I'm trying to cater to his emotions and his feelings and trying to...
21:53I'm almost treating him...
21:53You ain't trying to marry him.
21:57I got a couple of people that I know from the steps.
22:00Shoot me a text and call me collect.
22:03Ain't got a big chain, but I got their respect.
22:05Cause when they come to the gang, they know where y'all gonna step.
22:08They be like, damn, dang you, that's a hell of a flex.
22:10They be like, damn, dang you, that's a hell of a flex.
22:13Uh-huh.
22:14I feel like it's really important that I talk to Jalen.
22:16One of the things that you never want to do as a parent is disappoint your children.
22:20And I kind of want to get Jalen's side of it.
22:23You know, gotten some feedback from Kimmy and it's, you know, concerning.
22:26How you been doing, man?
22:33Hey, man, chilling, working.
22:35That's what's up.
22:35Working, trying to get this rental property going on the side as well.
22:40How's it coming?
22:41It's coming along good.
22:42We got stuck with the HVAC.
22:45And so now I got somebody putting in the HVAC today.
22:49I'm actually supposed to be meeting up with them.
22:51How's the transition going?
22:53I know that you were talking about getting into cyber.
22:57Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
22:58Uh-huh.
22:59You know, I'm doing IT work now.
23:01Uh-huh.
23:02IT specialist.
23:03But I've been, you know, applying to a bunch of different jobs, you know.
23:08And one job actually reached back and said they wanted to do an interview.
23:15And the job is actually in Colorado.
23:19Yeah, Kimmy was telling me about it.
23:21She was like, you're really considering leaving?
23:25Yeah, man.
23:26Yeah.
23:27I kind of want something a little new.
23:31I've been here my whole life.
23:33Uh-huh.
23:33Been here with my mom my whole life.
23:35So trying to figure out, I don't know, a new path.
23:42And you feel like leaving helps you do that?
23:46I don't know.
23:47I'm trying to figure out what's going to help.
23:49Like, honestly.
23:51You know, figuring yourself out, that's important too, you know.
23:56I was even thinking about, um,
23:58because I talked to Kimmy about the family business.
24:02What was your thoughts about that?
24:05Uh.
24:10I was a little hesitant.
24:13I was a little, I was a little hesitant.
24:15Just because I feel like I've come to know the Scots.
24:21What does that mean, man?
24:23What does that mean?
24:24Both of y'all's tendencies are, especially, like, towards me,
24:29it's just like, hey, look, get out there and figure it out.
24:35Everybody has their hands in?
24:36Or is it going to be, like, Maurice at the top
24:39pointing to us, talking about, hey, look, handle this.
24:43I need you to pick Monster up, take him here so he can do this.
24:46This is...
24:47Take him here so he can do that.
24:48I don't think y'all give...
24:52Well, not y'all.
24:54You...
24:54Give Monster the same leash.
25:00Or, uh, not leash.
25:03I can't think of a word.
25:04I know what you're saying.
25:05I know what you're saying.
25:06Like...
25:06The leniency.
25:07Yeah.
25:07Growing up, uh, when me and him were both in the house,
25:12you would always come ask me to do stuff.
25:15And I'm sitting here, like, your son's sitting right in there
25:20playing the video game just like I am.
25:22Like, I mean, I didn't really like that, you know, too much.
25:27You parent each child differently.
25:30Did it work?
25:31And right now, it seems like it worked.
25:34Did you feel a difference in love?
25:36Like, I love Monster more or differently than you?
25:40I mean, of course.
25:42He's your son.
25:43I'm not your actual son.
25:46You're not?
25:47No, I'm saying I am.
25:49But you would have more love for your actual flesh and blood.
25:57This is the thing.
25:58When Kimmy told me that you said that Marceau was more of a father figure than I was,
26:05at first, it's like a kick in the stomach.
26:07Then you start thinking about, like, dang, man.
26:10As a parent, the whole time you're like, okay, if being too hard doesn't work,
26:15you want to loosen up some.
26:18Your formative years, parents are busy trying to make sure they get it right
26:22because they always want their children to do better than them.
26:28Where did I fail?
26:29You did help me, like, change first toilet, change the first dishwasher, change first tire.
26:40And so, I'm forever grateful for stuff like that.
26:44But you were more like a mentor to me.
26:47But as I got older, when I started working with Marceau,
26:51I kind of gravitated to more for the father figure aspect.
27:04It wasn't mainly, like, you, per se.
27:07It was definitely me trying to, you know, hide myself
27:11and not trying to, you know, I guess, get hopes up.
27:18You were with my mom.
27:20I just chose not to, I guess, in a way, not to gravitate towards you
27:26because I didn't want to get, you know, I guess, attached.
27:30Disappointed if it didn't work out.
27:31This is the thing about children that you marry into and decide to be a parent to.
27:43They're actually your kid by choice.
27:46Yeah.
27:47Right?
27:47You actually choose that relationship.
27:50You choose that situation.
27:57Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
27:59I was actually talking to Jalen.
28:02He came by.
28:02Did he actually fail?
28:03He's not asking me for help.
28:04He thinks of me like a dad.
28:05What up, what up, what up?
28:32Hey.
28:32What up?
28:33What brings you to this side of town?
28:34I'm over at my boy Will's shop to fill him in on all the craziness that's been going
28:39now.
28:39Hey, man.
28:40How's it going?
28:41Get up in this town.
28:42Oh, yeah, this is members only, baby.
28:44Baby mama proof.
28:45Oh, baby mama proof.
28:48I invited Chris Fletcher over because, one, I want him to get to know Will.
28:51You know, Will's my boy.
28:53And I kind of wanted to get some feedback from somebody who's, you know, outside of the
28:57situation, not too aware of what goes on and within my family dynamic.
29:01And Chris is a lot older.
29:03And he's been through, you know, a 30-plus year marriage.
29:06And I think he can give me some good insight on my relationship.
29:10We're going to get you in the gym one day, right?
29:12Hey, I don't mind.
29:13I'll get in the gym.
29:13Let's do it.
29:14I heard you painted it.
29:16No, Lance.
29:16No?
29:17That was my son.
29:18Yeah, yeah, yeah.
29:18Oh, your son.
29:19All right, he did a great job.
29:20Yeah.
29:20Yeah, it was nice.
29:21Tell him he did his thing.
29:22Yeah, they did fine.
29:23It looks good.
29:23Well, that's good, man.
29:24It looks good.
29:25Like, I, like, the whole process, like, I literally hit him up on, like, and I think
29:30within a couple of days, he had my gym painted.
29:32Like that?
29:32Yeah, it was like that.
29:33All right.
29:34That's good.
29:34I wish he could do that for his mama.
29:37Hey, I mean, I guess when money talk, you know.
29:39Yeah, you move.
29:40Money's still talking.
29:41Money talking over here, too?
29:43He seemed to be able to get everybody else's done.
29:46All right, we're not going to get on.
29:48We're not going to get on my boy.
29:49I feel good.
29:51And you ain't the only one.
29:53He gets everybody else done, but getting his mama's stuff, Tass, done?
29:57Listen, he good, though.
29:59Yeah, he's real good.
30:00He definitely got me together.
30:02We definitely needed a gym for a more mental stimulation, too, because, man, Buddy's not
30:08making this situation any tougher.
30:10I mean, what's going on, man?
30:13Marquez walked in my house, and Marquez just decides, because, you know, I'm bringing
30:18my daughter home, and me and Ken cool now, I can just walk in his house.
30:23Maybe your daughter walked in.
30:25Maybe the daughter in the house.
30:25He just walked in with her.
30:27What'd you do when he walked in the house?
30:28I wasn't there.
30:29I was actually on the road.
30:31Oh.
30:31So it was just Trish then?
30:32It was Trish and her friend.
30:34You know, him and Trish and Sharon done got into it, and they done had this all, this
30:40big fallout.
30:41I invite him over again, because I'm like, hey, dude, we need to have a conversation.
30:45Okay.
30:46Y'all know, I'm the most gentlest big person you probably know.
30:50Like, I will literally give somebody a million chances to poke me before I actually wake
30:56up.
30:56And it's like, dude, it's like you're constantly trying to, I think you're playing on my niceness.
31:03You're playing on the kindness now, because, oh, Ken, he's soft.
31:06He ain't gonna do nothing.
31:08Well, no matter how you look at anything else, this is my home, and you have to respect me
31:12and everybody inside this home.
31:16So I stand up, and I'm like, hey, bro, just go.
31:19Get out of my house.
31:20He don't move.
31:21He's still da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da.
31:23So I'm like, dude, I'm getting more and more pissed off, and then, like, it got kind of
31:30physical.
31:31Oh.
31:32So I'm like, man, I told you to get out of my house.
31:35Once you put him out the door, what happened after that?
31:38We haven't heard from him.
31:39What are you gonna do when Marquez pops back up?
31:41Because he's gotta pop back up.
31:42You can't get away from this guy.
31:44So here's the thing.
31:45I'm not dealing with him.
31:46But you do, though.
31:47You guys keep trying to talk, and then you get upset.
31:49No, no, no, it's not.
31:50I'm trying to cater to his emotions and his feelings and trying to...
31:53Why?
31:54You ain't trying to marry him.
31:57Why deal with what you're dealing with going through what you're going through?
32:02Because that's the only way we can go to the next step.
32:04But it's not her hindering it.
32:06It's him hindering it.
32:07And most people move on first, and then they get divorced.
32:10Because it's just typically how the situation goes.
32:12But it don't generally take seven, eight years, though.
32:15We have no issues outside of Marquez.
32:18Since Marquez hasn't been around since the incident, bro, we've been perfectly fine.
32:22We have no issues.
32:23Everybody's happy.
32:24We don't argue.
32:25Like, I've done all the things that I'm supposed to do to take care of that family and make sure I put my family in the best position possible.
32:31You think this whole thing is just a challenge to you?
32:34That's why you don't leave?
32:35You're trying to figure out how to solve this puzzle?
32:37You just won't let the puzzle go?
32:38To be honest with you, I haven't been trying to solve it.
32:40I just now recently...
32:41Yes, you have.
32:42That's what you've been telling me this whole time.
32:43Yes, you have.
32:44Literally, as you've been saying, this whole...
32:45Everything you've been saying is...
32:46You know what I'm saying?
32:47In the beginning, I didn't give a to try to make it work.
32:49But when I saw that it was a fake...
32:51Once he started coming up...
32:52Man, y'all have to understand.
32:53I didn't have to do it because he wasn't around.
32:55I don't know why y'all don't understand that.
32:57He wasn't around for me, too.
32:58I'm not talking about just him.
32:59I'm talking about everything is a puzzle.
33:01Everything, the puzzle...
33:02I mean, that's life, that's relationship, that's everybody.
33:04You don't think that this whole puzzle...
33:06Because this is a very, very difficult puzzle right here.
33:09You don't think you just accept taking it as a challenge and I'm going to figure this out.
33:12No, challenge is just life.
33:13Your life going...
33:14You got puzzle pieces that you got to...
33:16Everybody goes through it.
33:17But I'm supposed to wake up one day and be like,
33:19Damn.
33:20Nah, sometimes you got to put the puzzle back in the box and get another puzzle.
33:23Yeah, but that's if the puzzle is not mentally put together.
33:27Maybe the puzzle don't have all the pieces.
33:29You know, ours does.
33:30You know, it's an extra piece and it's Marquez that don't need to be there.
33:34That's the problem.
33:35He just don't need to be there.
33:36If he's not going to do right, what is his purpose?
33:38Outside of him, we don't have a problem.
33:41From what I can see, when I lay it all out and I bounce it all out,
33:46it's not really easy.
33:48So at this point, it kind of becomes your fault.
33:54Sometimes people don't know how to see themselves out of an uncomfortable situation.
33:58You get used to it.
33:59That's where...
33:59That's where...
34:00You're just kind of stuck.
34:01But this ain't my first time seeing you be the punching bag though, bro.
34:04You tend to put up with a whole lot of s***, dog.
34:06And I feel like I'll be wondering, like, why are you so in being that guy?
34:12Like, I'm just going to take it.
34:13At some point, I'm just...
34:14It's going to be, hey, one, two, three.
34:17Right.
34:17Or get as far away from my can and just breathe.
34:20You know what I'm saying?
34:21I'm with Trisha because I love her.
34:22And I know that the things that we have put in place are going to work.
34:26It's just him.
34:28What would you do if you was in this situation?
34:30The whole situation?
34:32This whole situation?
34:35Trish would have been a thing of the past.
34:37From my conversation with Jalen,
35:03I learned that he feels that he was treated differently than Monster.
35:06I want to have a conversation with Maurice about this because
35:09it's a very concerning thing as a father.
35:13You know, you're not going to be perfect,
35:15but you definitely don't want your children to feel that you favored one over the other.
35:20How them kids doing?
35:21MJ just got his National Honor Society information.
35:25That's so dope.
35:26I know, I was so proud.
35:27That's my little honey bunny boy.
35:29He's almost now going to update my application with Michigan.
35:32I said, you sure can update all the applications.
35:35Has it not heard from Michigan yet?
35:37No, girl.
35:37It got pushed back.
35:38That's a shoe in it.
35:39I believe because of everything that's dealing with the whole DEI situation.
35:45I feel like that's...
35:46Really?
35:47Yeah.
35:47I feel like that's so close.
35:48This is a little merit-based thing.
35:51Well, first of all, he's merit-based.
35:53But everybody wants a...
35:54DEI is just an idea to say,
35:56oh, the Negroes are ruining the country.
35:59And personally, I don't care if they think that.
36:01They cannot accept anybody to anything in the world.
36:03That's why we even started to come back through.
36:05That's true.
36:06Because we don't need that.
36:07We don't need acceptance.
36:08That's true.
36:09And if you think you can go it alone, go it alone.
36:10It's working the system so that we can provide those things for people
36:13instead of having to depend on the government to provide them.
36:15That's bottom line.
36:16So, Jalen came by the office the other day.
36:21And I was walking with him, and we were talking about construction.
36:25Did he ask you for help?
36:26Um, he's not asking me for help.
36:28He asked me for a contractor.
36:29Do I know this guy and stuff like that?
36:31But he knows...
36:32But our relationship is different.
36:34I look at you like a father figure.
36:37So, what do you consider Reese?
36:39I consider him more like a big brother.
36:42The other part of it is, me and Monster are treated a little bit differently.
36:50Monster, you just can do no wrong.
36:55He's like, you know, he knows that I'm in this business.
36:58I mean, he used to work at Skoal.
36:59No, his relationship is different because he thinks of you like a dad.
37:07No, Moise, he had his conversation with me, by the way.
37:10He didn't say, I think of you as a dad.
37:12He said a father figure.
37:13He said he's a father figure.
37:14Yeah, but I'm saying, well, a father figure is kind of like a dad, right?
37:18I think a father figure is a little different than a dad.
37:22At the end of the day, I just, I don't know, it's kind of a little concerned.
37:26He was talking about you guys working together?
37:29Yeah, yeah.
37:30We were talking about a family business.
37:32Who's we?
37:33Me, Kimmy.
37:34I wanted Jalen and Monster in there, too.
37:37Yeah, the Jalen and Monster thing.
37:39Yeah, that's, that's, that's what you're talking about.
37:42It's concerning.
37:44That, yeah, a little bit.
37:45I'm not sure why Marceau is bringing up this whole, you know, family business and Jalen and
37:50those concerns, considering that I talked to Jalen and I think we had a pretty good conversation.
37:55He kind of knows where I stand.
37:56Jalen was like, he felt like I was harder on him than I am on Monster.
38:01I'm not treating you differently because you're a child that I chose to father, right?
38:09I'm saying that at the end of the day, Jalen, I'm treating you differently because the way
38:12we grew up, it was like the older kids were like next in line as far as parents are concerned.
38:19And we also know younger siblings.
38:21They look up to the older siblings.
38:23So, of course, I'm going to treat you differently than I treat Monster as he's coming along.
38:27Growing up, there was a hierarchy in our family and it meant something that your older brothers
38:34or older sisters, they were like the parents when the parents were gone.
38:39And there's a level of expectation that you get from that next level.
38:44I think that Jalen was an excellently raised child.
38:49You don't give correction until correction is needed.
38:52So, if I'm giving Jalen correction, that's probably when he's feeling like, you know
38:59what, now he's coming down on me or whatever.
39:04Maurice and I have had these conversations, I felt like he treated Jalen different too.
39:10And I told him that before Monster ever even got here.
39:13I said, let's see when Monster gets here if you're going to do this same kind of thing.
39:17You know, because he seemed harder on him.
39:19And I think when you're blending a family, when you're getting to know each other, I
39:23think that was hard for Jalen.
39:25I mean, I think people gravitate to people that they feel like they like him.
39:29And I think that he felt like Marshall actually liked him more.
39:33He talked to him.
39:35He didn't seem like he was always getting in trouble or fussed at or something.
39:38But Jalen, I mean, Rhys, if you're going to start your sentence off after we say something
39:43with a butt, I think that you're defending your position.
39:46No, you didn't even hear what I said.
39:48I know, but you started off with a butt.
39:50Okay, what was I going to say?
39:51I know, I don't know what you're going to say.
39:52But what I'm going to say is that it's hard enough as it is to talk to you sometimes.
39:58I'm delivering information to you.
39:59I think that that is concerning, right?
40:02Because I know you don't want this.
40:03I grew up with the golden child.
40:06And Jalen sees Monster as the golden child 2.0.
40:10So I understand it.
40:12I don't even know where you're getting this from.
40:13You sound like Chris Fletcher.
40:15You sound pathetic.
40:16You know what you're going to do?
40:17You're going to tell me the truth.
40:19What, you're saying lying?
40:20Oh, yeah, you do lie.
40:22It's all the time.
40:28Next on Love and Maritonsville.
40:30The more and more we talk about it, it doesn't sound like a family thing.
40:36It sounds like a dictatorship.
40:40I felt like the other day at the dinner, Letitia Scott was very standoffish when I asked
40:45her about Martell saying something about you all's husband.
40:48And maybe that was a touchy situation.
40:50The mind is touchy, but I talk about it.
40:52Everyone is not going to be transparent.
40:54But who knows?
40:55We shall soon find out at my party.
40:58I feel like you two are not transparent.
41:06I'm very transparent about my life.
41:09I felt like you just blew me off.
41:10But you're going to be transparent about your infidelity.
41:13It's been coming to me.
41:15My guy, Fletch, has been going around saying,
41:18Maurice and Martel told Martel to get chicks to sign NDA.
41:23Oh, no.
41:24No.
41:25You got the whole story wrong.
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