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00:00Previously on Ready to Love.
00:02Get ready to meet the 11 from the heaven.
00:06Let's go.
00:07This week, I will be sitting down with the ladies
00:09to discuss which of you fellas are staying, which are leading.
00:15Why are you not texting me back?
00:17First of all, why am I texting in green bubbles?
00:19Yo, dude, I got the Google Doc number.
00:21I don't care if it's a green bubble, blue bubble, purple number.
00:24You didn't call.
00:25We were good together.
00:26Because y'all look good together.
00:27I honestly feel blessed that I was given a second opportunity.
00:31I felt connected to you because I know you lost your dad.
00:35It just never gets easier.
00:39If you do have a connection with me, I would want you to pursue them.
00:43The choice is yours, but don't wait too long
00:45because there are decisions that have to be made.
00:48Unfortunately, they don't feel as though you're ready to love.
00:51Damn, okay.
00:53I know it took me some time to get to the place that you wanted me to be.
00:59Oh, but now I'm ready.
01:03I'm ready to love.
01:07Let's go.
01:22Brother, how you doing?
01:23You about the only one that can open that vault.
01:25What's up?
01:26What's going on?
01:27Peace, peace.
01:28What's up, brother?
01:29First time in time you bought gold on the walls.
01:32I see purple chairs.
01:34It's definitely a swanky spot.
01:36Nice.
01:37I like it.
01:38All right, gentlemen.
01:39Welcome to your first visit.
01:40Woo.
01:41This is the Tommy vault.
01:42In order to find some value, but you got to surround yourself by some gold.
01:45You understand?
01:46All right.
01:47Let me explain my vault.
01:49The name may have changed, but the same rules apply.
01:53The vault is where we come in and chop it up about the connections that you all are making.
01:58And not making.
02:00Here, we keep it real.
02:03And you know the golden rule.
02:05What happens in the vault stays in the vault.
02:08Let's get down to it.
02:10I know it's early in the journey, but this week, I want you to really get to know each
02:15other.
02:16Y'all already know, early in the dating process, people always do what?
02:20Send their representative.
02:22So this week, y'all are about to let these ladies check underneath the hood.
02:26Take them on dates and places that matter to you the most.
02:30You're going to set up dates at your homes or your job if you like.
02:34The objective is to let them dive a little deeper.
02:37At the end of the week, we're going to meet back here to discuss how everything went down.
02:41That sound good?
02:42Yes, sir.
02:43Tommy has challenged us with the assignment to, you know, dig deeper and try to build deeper connections with the ladies.
02:48And that's the main one I'm struggling with.
02:50I just need to learn how to be a little bit more outgoing and being a little bit more open to new experiences.
02:55I'm a happy dog, man.
02:56It's a new, new, new, new, new, new day.
02:57New day.
02:58So don't you take a trip.
02:59Hey, Lee.
03:00What's up, Lee?
03:01Yes.
03:02Welcome.
03:03Welcome.
03:04How are you?
03:05Beautiful, beautiful.
03:07Welcome to Weave Nutrition.
03:08When Tommy gave us the assignment to bring ladies into our personal space, I automatically thought, listen, I'm bringing them to my gym.
03:13It'll give them the opportunity to get to know me a little bit more on a personal level.
03:14You ready to switch your edges out?
03:15Yes, I'm ready to do it.
03:16Listen.
03:17I'm ready to do it.
03:18Listen.
03:19Listen.
03:20Listen.
03:21Listen.
03:22Listen.
03:23Listen.
03:24Listen.
03:25Listen.
03:26Listen.
03:27Listen.
03:28Listen.
03:29Listen.
03:30Listen.
03:31Listen.
03:32Listen.
03:33Listen.
03:34Yes, I'm ready to do it.
03:35Listen.
03:36We're working out today.
03:37I know.
03:38Yo, yo.
03:39What's the deal?
03:40What's up, baby?
03:41You already know.
03:42You all right?
03:43How you doing?
03:44All good.
03:45All good.
03:46So I'm invited.
03:47Fritz, Lil, Deanna, True, and Sahara.
03:49I was just excited.
03:50The energy, the vibe.
03:51Let me come around here with y'all, man.
03:52We're going to work out, kick it, and get to know each other a little bit better.
03:55We've been here for seven years now.
03:56Okay.
03:57There's no excuse for black people not to be working out.
03:59Yeah.
04:00So that's really what it is.
04:01My purpose really is just getting our community.
04:03Yeah.
04:04Introducing them to a healthy act of life.
04:05Absolutely.
04:06Absolutely.
04:07How y'all feel about working out?
04:08Oh, yeah.
04:09You're good.
04:10Let's get it in, y'all.
04:11Come on, brother, man.
04:12I was looking forward to being around all three of these ladies a little bit more, but
04:15probably true the most.
04:16But I kind of was disappointed when I'm giving everybody my story, and there's no true insight
04:20for me to even give you a piece of me so you can get to know me a little bit more.
04:24All right, look.
04:25Give each other space like your ex told you.
04:26Here we go.
04:29Come on, kick.
04:30Go.
04:31One, two, three.
04:32Now hold those feet still.
04:33Three, two, one.
04:34You got this.
04:35Time.
04:36If you can't high-five your neighbor, just air-five your neighbor.
04:39Tell your neighbor good job.
04:40Somebody check on me.
04:42The workout is going good.
04:45We got some legs, some core in there, but Sahara and Fritz, they going through it.
04:50Fritz ain't been working out in a minute.
04:52I got to get my brother in the gym on a consistent basis.
04:55You can't have them out here looking like that, man.
04:58Good job, y'all.
04:59Good job, everyone.
05:01Let's get this party stylin'.
05:03You know I'm party, party.
05:05Let's get this party stylin'.
05:07Tommy's assignment is to get more personal, so this week I invited Tay, Rocky, and Hussain over to my house.
05:15So play a few games and let them see a deeper side of me to show more of myself.
05:21Oh, okay.
05:22My man.
05:23Hey, Rocky brought this in.
05:24Oh, okay.
05:25So blame her for the temptations.
05:27Man, what's this hair?
05:28What we got?
05:29What we got?
05:30So this is going to be a game that we're going to play.
05:31It's called Let's Get Personal.
05:33It's just questions to let us get deeper.
05:35It's going to warm these seats up, huh?
05:37Let's see what I pull up out of here.
05:40Woo.
05:41What is my favorite body part to be kissed?
05:43Okay.
05:44Oh, you went from zero to a hundred.
05:46Damn.
05:47Okay.
05:48I can do that.
05:49So my number one is my neck.
05:51All right.
05:52Number two down here.
05:54Like around the pelvis.
05:55Yeah.
05:56Okay.
05:57On the V.
05:58Let me trickle my way down here.
05:59I get it.
06:00I got the vision.
06:01Don't just go straight down here.
06:02You don't kiss around here.
06:03Take your time.
06:04My man got to get warmed up a little bit.
06:06Okay.
06:08Ooh.
06:10I have a big straws.
06:11Big straws.
06:12Let me know what y'all think.
06:13Appreciate you, bro.
06:14Cheers to a good workout.
06:15Yes, definitely.
06:16You know what I mean?
06:17Good rest of the day.
06:18Definitely.
06:19I'm looking to connect with Khalil some more because there's a lot of things that we have
06:22in common.
06:23You said you're from Erie though, right?
06:24Yeah, yeah.
06:25What high school?
06:26So I went to boarding school.
06:27Oh, okay.
06:28All right, all right, all right, all right.
06:29So I went to African school.
06:30Nice.
06:31But it was a disciplinary school.
06:32Oh.
06:33So they was allowed to whip your ass.
06:35They had a paddle called Babadurai, right?
06:37Oh my God.
06:38So if you got into any trouble or anything in school, they was allowed to whip your ass
06:42with it.
06:43Yeah, like my mom and dad, they do.
06:45Wow.
06:46Hanging out with Dia is great.
06:47If we laugh and joke a lot, if she likes to smile a lot, I do.
06:50I think humor is a great thing to have in a relationship.
06:53I think that we connect real good because it's super easy.
06:55So I feel like that's the reason why I kind of like, you know, I do have discipline.
06:59If you ain't doing right, there's consequences for it.
07:01Yeah, there's consequences for it.
07:02Yeah, there's consequences for it.
07:03How did they name it then?
07:04I don't know.
07:05We just tried to be with some African about it.
07:09All right, so what has been a life-defying moment for y'all?
07:12Ooh.
07:13I have to say when I graduated, accomplishing my dreams and my goals, you know, like, especially
07:18being an African-American woman, that's a big accomplishment to me.
07:20That's good.
07:21That's good.
07:23It was just a natural beauty at first.
07:25And, you know, the outfit that she came in with Tay's so approachable.
07:28Just looking at her eyes, I definitely want to get to learn a little more about Tay.
07:31Okay.
07:32Oh, boy.
07:33I like to go to the final moment for me.
07:35This may not be an up one.
07:36This will be a down one.
07:37I'm sorry.
07:38No.
07:39It is.
07:40It is.
07:41I was in my 20s.
07:42Lost my job.
07:43And at that point, since I didn't have a job, I went to the streets and I started selling
07:47drugs.
07:48And that just made me realize what I didn't want out of life and how you should always be
07:52humble and always be grateful for what you do have because it could be fake like that.
07:56I definitely appreciate Rocky opening up.
07:58Rocky's always been a real person and that's why I like her.
08:01She's just super authentic.
08:03All right.
08:04Get personal, I guess.
08:05Yeah, get personal.
08:06My life-defining moment has a lot to do with my mental health.
08:10I used to be, like, a depressed-ass person.
08:13I always was just on my own and I had to make it work.
08:16I was on food stamps.
08:17I was struggling.
08:18Just didn't feel like I wanted to be here anymore, to be honest with you.
08:21Your worth.
08:22Yeah.
08:23No self-worth.
08:24My niece kept popping in my head.
08:26Like, I can't go because of her.
08:28Keep her there.
08:29Yeah.
08:30So I'm like, all right, what do I got to do to get better?
08:32Right.
08:33So I just had to, like, change my mindset.
08:34And honestly, I'm a way, way, way happier person than what I was.
08:38That's probably the most life-defining thing for us because that literally involved my life.
08:43Yeah.
08:44That's great for you to just share with us.
08:45So, like, we appreciate you saying that I'm giving you a hug.
08:48Because that's weird.
08:49It's not easy to let people into your personal life.
08:51This is a good game.
08:52Close-up and personal.
08:53So I'm feeling good about everything.
08:55The game allowed me to have the chance to open up, take Tay's advice, and to break down a few walls and really let people in.
09:01Cheers.
09:02Cheers.
09:03Cheers.
09:04It's getting personal.
09:05Getting personal to find the love.
09:06All right.
09:07There you go.
09:13What's up?
09:14What's up?
09:15What's up?
09:16Where you been?
09:17Sorry.
09:18We're cold.
09:19I was definitely looking forward to see Naive, but I was a little late.
09:23Happy Friday.
09:24It's Friday?
09:25It is.
09:26Friday.
09:27I lost track of time.
09:28I was like...
09:29But I came right on time.
09:30Right on time to figure out what was going on and why I haven't heard from him.
09:34What took you so long?
09:35I told you a word.
09:36Oh, okay.
09:37Are you not understanding?
09:38I was like, damn.
09:39I was looking forward to working out with you.
09:41Aww.
09:42So how long was the circuit?
09:43How long was you late?
09:45Naeem, you gotta let go.
09:47I'm here now.
09:48And we're here.
09:49Okay.
09:50So...
09:51I really haven't heard from you.
09:53As far as what?
09:54Today?
09:55As far as I gave you my number, which...
09:57You gave me the Google Doc number.
09:58No, no, no, no, no.
09:59Why did you give me a fake number?
10:01Nobody gave you a fake number.
10:02What was that?
10:03That was a business number?
10:04You show up late to wave and we didn't really get a chance to connect.
10:07And you're asking me why didn't I use your number?
10:09Which I did and it wasn't the real one.
10:11Yeah, you gave me a Google Doc number.
10:13I did call you.
10:14So what does that have to do with the fact that I still don't receive texts, phone calls, or anything?
10:21When I called you the other day, you gave me three questions.
10:23Yes, because I could not call.
10:25Yeah, I didn't know that.
10:26But then you read it and you have not responded to me since.
10:29Because I didn't know where to respond to with three question marks.
10:32That's your way of communicating.
10:33I know a lot of entrepreneurs that have several phones and several phone numbers.
10:37He's had my number for a couple of weeks and he never used it.
10:42The reality is fake number, real number, you still didn't contact me.
10:45I did.
10:46So it does not matter.
10:47So you're using that as an excuse and it's really corny.
10:53Is that the real or the fake phone?
10:57I was just curious.
10:59It was time for me to exit stage love.
11:01I'm looking forward to an opportunity to meet one of these guys I'm actually interested in.
11:13How your neck feel?
11:14My neck hurt.
11:15I'm serious.
11:16Let me see.
11:17Right here.
11:18All right.
11:19I appreciate it.
11:20Oh, because I got to ask you a few questions.
11:21So don't.
11:22Get up off me in the back.
11:23Get up off me.
11:24Unhand me, sorry.
11:25Because I need to.
11:26Ask me some questions.
11:27Yeah.
11:28I'm trying to figure out what's going on with Fritz.
11:29I just don't like the way he be texting me.
11:31Like, he texts me like, hey, friend.
11:33And it's like, hey, friend.
11:36Like, he should be texting, hey, boo.
11:39Hey, honey.
11:40I don't know.
11:41Hey, friend is giving friend zone.
11:43We text, but I'm.
11:44We do text.
11:45I feel like you was giving me, like, copied and pasted responses.
11:49Oh, don't say that.
11:50There's a lot of miscommunication in texts.
11:53No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
11:54The day before I asked you how was your day, you responded in three different text messages,
11:59right?
12:00Yeah, I remember that.
12:01So, the next day, I asked you, how was your day?
12:02Yep.
12:03And you sent me the exact same thing.
12:04I'm doing all three of them.
12:05I'm consistent.
12:06It's a consistent seat.
12:07You know what?
12:08I like consistent seat.
12:09Sahara's energy and personality is a lot.
12:10And then you'll be texting me like, yo, and I'm like, is this?
12:11I can't do that.
12:12What is that?
12:13What is that?
12:14What is that?
12:15What is that?
12:16It's aggressive, rambunctious.
12:17Text me something nice.
12:18They're giving me friend zone.
12:19I'm gonna year you back, and that's not where I wanna be.
12:21It's excessive, loud, but authentic, raw, and unfiltered.
12:25Like, tonight, can I get, like, a nice text?
12:27I got you.
12:28Send a heart eye.
12:29Send a smile.
12:30I got you.
12:31I got you.
12:32I got you.
12:33I got you.
12:34I got you.
12:35I got you.
12:36I got you.
12:37I got you.
12:38I got you.
12:39I got you.
12:40I got you.
12:41I got you.
12:42Send a heart eye.
12:43Send a smile.
12:44They got this emoji.
12:45They got that.
12:46When you think about missing me there, and I know we, you know what I'm saying?
12:49Okay.
12:50I'm really learning how you think now.
12:53So what's up?
12:54What's going on?
12:55Good seeing you again.
12:56My fault.
12:57That's what I'm seeing with brunch.
12:59I definitely, you know, was intrigued.
13:01I think you had a really good conversation.
13:02Yeah, yeah, we did.
13:03We did.
13:04Absolutely.
13:05So, yeah, how's the process been going for you so far?
13:07Are you enjoying it?
13:08I definitely wouldn't date 10 guys at work.
13:10Yeah, yeah, I know.
13:11I would tell you it's definitely difficult, you know what I mean?
13:15Trying to, like, juggle that.
13:16Like, it's something I've never done it either.
13:17How do you do?
13:18Yeah, I don't know.
13:19I don't know.
13:20It's hard.
13:21Yeah, yeah, it's tough.
13:22But having these conversations, like, I feel like I'm really dating with intention now.
13:26I'm the same.
13:27Okay.
13:28I'm very intentional.
13:29Yeah.
13:30And, like, my questions and everything, that's why some of the guys were just like,
13:32oh, wow, true's not playing.
13:33Like, yeah, I'm not.
13:34Yeah, ain't no wrong with that.
13:35Because there's certain stuff that you need to know.
13:36Right.
13:37You know what I mean?
13:38So, um, you got kids?
13:39Not yet.
13:40I'm a husband.
13:41Okay.
13:42How many do you think you want?
13:43As many as he wants.
13:44Okay.
13:45All right.
13:46I mean, let's do this.
13:47Where?
13:48How old are you?
13:49I don't think I used to.
13:50Um, you know, I'm definitely a grown woman.
13:51Okay.
13:52Definitely the grown.
13:53But, um, like, I mean.
13:55Well, that's a very easy question to answer.
13:58And we here to get to know each other.
14:00And I figured a bit of information like that is just an easy response.
14:03I'm sure you're in the growns, too.
14:04Yeah, we're grown, man.
14:05Yes, we're in the mid, the mid-grown.
14:06Okay.
14:07The mid-grown.
14:08You ain't gonna tell me?
14:09Mid-grown.
14:10All right.
14:11All right.
14:12We gonna get to the bottom of it.
14:13Mid-grown.
14:14Yeah.
14:15Yeah.
14:16I don't know what she was trying to hide or why she felt uncomfortable saying her age,
14:20but it was definitely a red flag for sure.
14:22Yeah, yeah.
14:23I don't hear that that often.
14:36So this week, the men of power.
14:37So I'm kind of looking to connect with Rose a little bit more, see what she's about.
14:42We have a connection, so I'm just excited to see where that goes.
14:45Hi.
14:46Hey.
14:47Miss Rose.
14:48How you doing?
14:49Oh, my goodness.
14:50You're so good.
14:51I know.
14:52It's good to see you, too.
14:53Look at your own smiling.
14:54You're happy to see me?
14:55I am.
14:56I see Chocolates sitting over at the table, cheesing.
14:59All I see is pearly whites.
15:01You can tell he's super excited to see me just as much as I'm excited to see him.
15:10Oh, my goodness.
15:11Then you all smiles and stuff.
15:13We're both smiling.
15:14That's a good thing.
15:15I know.
15:16It is a good thing.
15:17You thought we all cheesing?
15:20Hi.
15:21Hey, how you doing?
15:22Thanks, man.
15:23Much like today.
15:24You know what?
15:25I think I'll try your scallops.
15:26I'll have the oysters.
15:27Mmm.
15:28They say that's an aphrodisiac.
15:30Why do you know that?
15:32Because I do my homework.
15:34I do your homework.
15:35Okay.
15:36So what quality do you need in a partner?
15:39Stability, for sure.
15:41Okay.
15:42Communication.
15:43Trust is big.
15:44I've been cheated on by every man I've been with.
15:47Yeah?
15:48But I don't lose hope.
15:49I don't lose faith.
15:50Because I understand you gotta keep getting off and dust yourself off and try again.
15:55Sometimes you gotta dig to that garbage to find your dynamite.
15:59So, like, what pulls you through that?
16:01I don't believe in giving up.
16:02Okay.
16:03I believe in my happily ever after.
16:05And I also don't believe that every person is the same.
16:08Okay.
16:09I am not the woman or a type to make anybody pay for what my past relationships has done.
16:16That's just not me.
16:18Each time my heart gets broken, I just sew it back up and I live to fight another day.
16:23Oh, thank you!
16:26Want some oysters?
16:27Can I be honest?
16:28You don't like oysters?
16:29You don't like oysters?
16:30It looks like a vagina.
16:31Well, maybe that's why I like it so much.
16:34I was about to say, I wonder why I eat so many oysters.
16:38I love that for you.
16:40So, I know you're not a religious man, but we also just have to give things and be grateful.
16:47Okay?
16:48For sure.
16:49Are you open to that?
16:50We can always practice gratitude.
16:51Absolutely.
16:52So, for me, I pray before I indulge in anything.
16:56So, I know this spirituality thing has been a little constant back and forth between Cam and I.
17:02I pray that you bless their hands and prepare this meal and bless the bellies that's going to receive it.
17:07Amen.
17:08Amen.
17:09Short, sweet, to the point, right?
17:10To the point.
17:11Can you get down with that?
17:12I can get down with that.
17:13Okay.
17:14When I keep praying.
17:15And he actually acknowledged it.
17:17He took the time to pray with me and sealed it.
17:20I was like, alright.
17:21I see you.
17:22You got my back a little bit.
17:24You're your own person.
17:25I don't want to change your viewpoint.
17:27viewpoint i don't want to change who you are as a person because if i fall for you i'm falling for
17:32you right but no that's i never want to change you i want you to be authentic with you yeah
17:43because that's why i'm here okay i definitely see me and rose lives blending
17:49almost perfectly like she's definitely a woman that i want to pursue
17:53it's thomas assignment to bring people into our personal space so i'm hosting a pool party at my
18:17house the men are still in power this week the pool is clean i'm ready let's have some fun
18:23yeah thanks for coming out man hey the whole gang is here
18:41what are we doing what are we doing shawnee's looking amazing angie she looking amazing coley she
18:47looked amazing kiera she definitely looked amazing all the ladies looked amazing it was eddie
18:51myself fritz and francisco pool party barbecue let's get busy that looks good like chicken business yeah
18:59i do sorry that's so nice you're gonna like these i definitely want to spend more time with coley
19:04she just have a lot of confidence i love it you look good thank you you look nice too
19:11they go together real good don't be blushing i am this your forever home or oh no it's a temporary
19:19situation why is it somewhere it's gorgeous here i'm a team of one so i really don't fill up this home
19:25well we're here for love so hey it might change now you're talking let's talk about what you're
19:32looking for to the nitty-gritty okay i think like laughter is so important somebody who is loyal who
19:38appreciates being loved and supported i believe having like a really good connection with someone
19:44that's also spiritual you have to be able to cover each other pray for each other pray together
19:49if that's what i believe in so like i just want to know where do you stand same like i definitely
19:55believe in the higher power um i pray every day at that moment i'm like man like shawnee's a beautiful
20:01woman that i can possibly see myself with definitely enjoyed having a conversation and knowing that side
20:06of her as well i don't want to be like your answer is my answer but like it they they coincide
20:10yeah we cooking thank you thank you you good what you want next angie was doing her thing showing her
20:18wife equality she was being real supportive while i was on the road bringing the food out to me that
20:23was a beautiful thing to see thank you thank you thank you there's a few more
20:29this is so cool oh let me get one
20:34you going in you gotta come here with me in the pool oh you want me to jump in with me right now yeah don't
20:40pull me i jump i'm not going to pull you i know as the host the people weren't going to jump in
20:45until i jumped in but i didn't want to jump in by myself
20:51no let's go hey
21:01we don't play fair over here we ain't losing
21:05i don't even know what the name of the game was i just know that i had angie on my shoulders and
21:14she's supposed to knock down charnice i'm like listen man i'm knocking everybody down i'm too
21:19competitive and i'm definitely not trying to lose to no fritz
21:22the energy at the pool party was really nice everyone just tighten it and getting along i love it
21:42how you feeling i feel good how are you feeling i actually feel all right so um
21:49not to make it weird like where do we actually stand so i was doing my due diligence and i looked
21:55at your like instagram and i saw you were following hashtags about like poly life
22:02and like me personally i'm looking for a monogamous relationship felt weird knowing that fritz is
22:08following poly influencers on instagram i'm looking for a monogamous relationship so i need to get some
22:15clarity on how we're going to handle this oh so you think that reflects what i actually believe in
22:20i mean i just don't know why else no i following that no i follow it out of curiosity i'm curious
22:28but no i wouldn't actually engage in that i was a little taken back when she asked me about that
22:33poly thing judging somebody based on hashtags is a bit of a reach i follow nasa i've never been to
22:40space i follow chefs i don't cook so yes i follow poly i don't poly get your head out the gutter
22:48i couldn't even pull that off i'm glad we talked because this is ready to love not ready to love
22:53everybody no no no that would never happen what you want to know what's your story like you have two
23:07kids you're working you're gorgeous but i don't really know what's behind all that yeah so i'm just
23:12kind of happy to like be at this point i was in a relationship with someone that i was with since
23:17we were teenagers and we have two kids together he was like a pro boxer like i literally thought we
23:22were going to be married but he did cheat i was hurt and i took him back i just couldn't let go um
23:31but then he went to jail he got sentenced to a very long time in jail and i think that that was like
23:37a sign from god like you couldn't do it on your own so i kind of did it for you my children's father he
23:42is currently incarcerated he will be coming home soon but right now it is just me taking care of
23:49the kids it's been six years okay so so how you feeling now i'm good now it was just like a whole big
23:56drama filled part of my life that i would never ever want to go back to but me and my son's father
24:03are in a good space he respects me i respect him we're just really just in it for the children
24:08i did the work and i really had to be by myself and i was dead and i was crying and i was depressed
24:14i prayed my way through it it's hard for a single mother let alone an african-american mother and i
24:20have a real soft spot for that me being adopted certain things i've been through so i see that
24:25fits in with me being a father but just seeing things through very attractive so i'm trying to allow
24:33love to find me absolutely
24:39it's chilly in philly i enjoyed a pool party it was nice you had a good time i played done you try
24:45to jump dunk me fake dunk me i was being nice oh i was being nice i didn't want to get you know
24:51too hard on you okay i feel like angie you know she stepped it up but she just gave real partnership
24:57vibes that's something that's big to me so yeah shout out to you angie just know i'm paying attention
25:02i see you baby i love how you was you know being that partner with me on the grill yeah i think
25:07that um spoke a lot i think it got elevated the connection made things a little bit more more
25:14deeper okay i feel the same way i mean it was natural that's important to me i'm happy that's
25:19important to you that's important to me eddie oh my god i'm happy our connection is growing because
25:28i'm feeling the same way about him as well it's really nice to have that confirmation and reassurance
25:33every time i see you i'm like oh my god we gotta do this again we gotta do this again
25:37keep me in better and better and better and better that's my thing
25:55holy good to see you again oh you know i had to set this date up for you yeah thank you so much going
26:01into this date with coley i'm definitely looking forward to see what kind of qualities that's
26:06compatible with me so how was your day it was really good it was real good i don't know how
26:11was yours it was good better now too i'm gonna steal your line i love to hear it i'm really excited that
26:15jay invited me to play golf because that's right up my alley it'll be fun to do it with jay because
26:20it's a great date to match his personality golf is my jam let's go
26:24go ahead hold on which hole would you hit i was going for that one and i exactly is what happened
26:32look look look don't jump to conclusions don't jump to conclusions i'm gonna try to get that hole up
26:36there all right look at the wrist okay look at that thank you you know it honestly coley wouldn't
26:46necessarily be my type i got a surprise for you i love surprises i'll sit down i'll be right back
26:51i looked at it as a rich spoiled daddy's girl but as i got to know her more no i'm definitely
26:57interested in coley and seeing where ahead i like your necklace thank you thank you it's an anchor
27:01with someone in the navy and i'm anger i hold down i'm a single dad so yeah i like that you
27:06led with that too like that was one of the first things that i learned about you right right yeah
27:11coming into this process like dating a man who had kids was not anything that i ever considered
27:18but now i feel like they definitely make me feel more safe they definitely just seem to be on a
27:25different level than the men who don't have kids so tell me like love though like you say you're here
27:30looking for love right yeah what makes you like know that that person is the person for you that's
27:36a really hard question to answer okay because a lot of people paint like pretty pictures and
27:43everything with their words but i'm more like action oriented okay how do you know love is communication
27:50love is loyalty being empathetic when your partner's going through something you know being there for
27:56them yeah is sex a big thing for you how do you mean like is it a thing like some people like oh no
28:03i'm not really don't mean much to me okay sex does mean a lot to me so like i don't just like to
28:08have sex with anyone like it has to be someone special i like that i like that yeah okay well so
28:14we gonna do this date again yeah i'd love to okay coley i'm definitely interested in her and it was
28:20a great experience great date i got to see her in her golf attire and i got to see her open up i'm
28:26definitely looking forward to seeing more of her you got me sweating is that me or is it the sun
28:31no we have no sun going down no sun over here that's you
28:35i know what you do i can't believe you
28:44hey tommy what's up sack my man who's that prince what's up we're back in tommy's vault we got drinks
29:04over there oh this is how we loosen up it's the men's week time for us to chop somebody out
29:14well if i could have a ponytail like that well i wouldn't be sitting here talking to y'all
29:19come on not too much timey man man i ain't had houses i was 25.
29:26all right fellas welcome back to the vault yes sir thank you so this week i asked y'all to dig deep
29:32i opened up your homes and your world to your potential ladies right i want to know where the
29:37sparks are really flying here we go hey yo i want to talk about growing connections kiera she's very
29:44aware of herself the fact that she is a mother too shows resilience and i like them a little hood
29:51the way me and her vibes since day one it's been growing and i would like to see where it goes there
29:56you go i got a little bit closer to d physical attraction is there she's very strong she's
30:02resilient i respect what she does every day you know what i mean oh that's that's yeah yeah i made
30:07a little connection macaulay she cool she wanted to drink she want to have fun you got to bring it out
30:13of her you know what i mean but here she's still on the top of my list right now okay okay that's good
30:18so for me right now my number one is tay that's a pretty girl what's after all the pretty it's just a
30:23conversation it's just so wholesome and it's intentional and we get deep it's not like i'm
30:28i'm just talking i got a very very strong connection with her i can let my guard down with her you know
30:33what i'm saying i can talk about my rough upbringing okay um rose is just what i look for in a woman
30:42she's very soft she's feminine she wants to be a good woman to a good man
30:47okay prince you invited a group to your house i did tell me about that and shani was dolled up
30:56she's caring she's maternal and i think shani's one of those types that she's definitely ready
31:02to have a man in her life so angie she's a warrior and she's fun i like to have fun i feel like we can
31:09like play fight you know what i'm saying in the crib on a regular night have game night just have fun
31:15the more i see angie the more i like it okay all right who are you not feeling at all prince i mean
31:23that's easy for me uh kiara you know she spoke about her baby father got a lot of time up north
31:29and he might be coming out soon and i'm not playing against her i just know i can rule myself out
31:36all right i'm gonna say true because who came late to the workout i wanted to get to know you
31:42said you want to get to know me some more you should have probably been here on time but then
31:45she said hey i gave you my phone number you didn't use it and i said hey you gave me a fake number
31:49you gave me like a google doc number you know what no you know for business purposes a lot of
31:54people use it i don't think you want to give me a fake number she knew what she was doing when she
31:57gave you this yeah she knew what she was doing she was very aware of it i actually had a decent
32:01conversation with true i was connecting with her but the only thing that threw me off i asked her
32:05age and she just didn't want to tell me she literally said yeah we're around the middle
32:10age i said wait like you know what's your age like if we're here to get to know each other
32:16at some point i'm gonna find out anyway yeah it rubbed me the wrong way and i think right there
32:20trying to find the truth through true is hard right now trying to find the truth through truth
32:25you can't get the truth out of truth hell i'm not connecting with d where are you stationed 43s okay yeah we
32:33had a weird conversation too far it ain't gonna be no fire department love story on this show
32:40i think shani i feel her vibe like she's beautiful she's got everything going on but i'm a jokester i
32:46like to have fun i think i'm too immature for her you know what that is a genuine statement i have no
32:51problem with you saying it sahara i really do just get a friend vibe from her and she's a high energy
32:56individual which in some places is cool but like we want something a little bit softer a little bit
33:01more reserved and um i think that's why she just fall into that homie category yeah understood and
33:07there's a ceiling with me and sahara she's always gonna say how she feel give it to you real but i
33:11need a little bit more decorum explain brother i need somebody that i feel comfortable introducing
33:17to my family my cousins does that feel like a loose cannon unpredictable okay all right fellas i think
33:26we have done what we need to do in the vault now i think it might be time to make a withdrawal from the
33:33group of ladies i want you to take each of these ladies that we discussed out on a date and let one
33:40of them know that they just not ready to love first and foremost with respect respect sound good
33:50sound good yes sir easier said than done though it's definitely hard sending one of the ladies home
33:57this week it's never a good feeling because everybody is here to find something y'all
34:02ready to man up and get this job done ready to man up man okay y'all gonna find love all right
34:08i'm gonna go find me i'm feeling cheeseste
34:13i know it's a heavy responsibility but that's what this process is for we gotta show other people
34:19that we're here to love it just puts the pressure on
34:32i'm on my way to meet cam at the beer garden knowing that the men are in power this week knowing
34:38that they can send a woman home hola puppy i'm a little nervous but i'm excited to see
34:45daddy when the last time we seen each other years where you been i've been here there everywhere here
34:53and there that's your problem you don't need to be here and there you need to be but where have you been
34:57though because you right at me oh yeah yeah
35:08your girl is sweating right now everything's going through my head true what's going on
35:13looking amazing how are you good how are you thank you every single day every single conversation
35:20i don't know what's to come i'm gonna pray for the best but i'm definitely thinking it's the worst
35:28how's the process going for you so far um how you feeling interesting you know it just got to focus
35:32on me and you know the why thank you very much appreciate it thank you do a little cheers yeah
35:39cheers to people finding love absolutely
35:41us guys know what tommy today yeah and your name came up and what was that everybody said that you
35:50cool like you are everybody said that you the homie vibe you're gonna be the ride or die chick
35:56you're authentic and that's what they like about you but but what they said that like your good is
36:04your bad you're cool but you give up the homie vibes and people want to break through that well
36:10that's what they need to do then but that's what you need to show too am i not do i not um so me
36:17and the guys spoke to tommy the guys thought you were cool they thought you were professional
36:21um they thought they all thought you had something going on the bad things to say um
36:27they thought that it was some like honesty in question as far as um being up front about
36:34phone numbers about that was one person yeah yeah that's a privacy thing so i don't know you
36:41it's about being honest about it about a phone number yep this is what the guys say i'm just i'm
36:46just delivering that one of the guys i am the guys did i give you a wrong number no it wasn't me
36:51but it was it was one of the guys naive yeah so well whatever the case may be the guys the guys
36:57all right um that's fine they want to actually like get past that like tough exterior
37:05they say that you kind of like too high energy and they don't see the other side of it you got
37:10to show up a size of you too you feel me so i'm saying so sometimes you got to show that when you're
37:16your home that's nonsense they saying this for a reason right listen i don't know what's going on
37:21everything i'm saying you already know you gotta take it seriously you do it i don't feel like i'm
37:28not taking it seriously okay like this is wild like this is beyond me maybe i should just eliminate
37:34myself and then people didn't know your age i so did anybody ask you i asked your age you said we're
37:42around that middle range if you remember correct okay you know i thought we was trying to get to
37:46know each other i thought we was being honest and it kind of just threw a little curveball with me
37:50because i feel like we've had deeper conversations yes absolutely wow i don't know there's a lot of
37:56mystery going on um with you so ask the question how old are you 35 all right see that was easy
38:02simple exactly that was easy it could have been easy question i did though but i told you you just told
38:07me just now yeah well why should i have to ask two to three times for somebody that's supposed to be
38:12getting to know somebody exactly exactly i don't want to make i don't want you to be irritated i'm not
38:19i'm not everything i'm what's going on you know so like the fellas have decided that
38:29so we decided
38:30they decided she's still ready to love i felt like i was oh so so look we want to get to the
38:40softer side of you i want you to show people that you have other sides to you because that's what other
38:46people was not seeing that's all okay cam the men's perception is absolutely can i say that am i
38:53allowed i don't feel like i'm giving homie vibes i am ready to love so stop playing don't sit me down here
38:59again you gotta take it seriously like i have to break down your walls to see you that's fine for me
39:04because i'm actually interested but that's not fine for other people okay you dope okay cam i'm
39:10gonna be better sahara she's very brash a lot of men don't like that but once you break that down
39:17it's just like a soft woman that just want to be loved it's a thank you promise this is serious
39:22yeah i definitely can't handle sahara it's my little firecracker and i always got her under control
39:27in a good way this sucks so we decided that i'm not really love you're not ready okay that's it
39:39okay hopefully there's no food coming i don't know okay well yeah shout out to the guys that um
39:44you know felt this way yeah that couldn't communicate it so it was some sort of confusion
39:48conversation from one person he's like a little cancer he went and he spread and he got in your head
39:54naeem wasn't the only person that put you at the bottom obviously you already know that we asked
39:57the guys because there's women that are older than you cannot wait to see how everything plays out
40:03god bless peace and love i don't let people get the best of me i'm loyal i have great communication
40:10skills i don't come with any baggage i'm smart i can continue take a little chairs you want chairs no all
40:18all right i'm gonna sit i'm gonna have another terrain and though these men didn't see it i am ready to love
40:28next time on ready to love welcome to thomas philly block park
40:32dr
40:41i see you deeper than you realize
40:43i
40:47opened up about my past
40:50with tape yeah i feel like the spark and the connection that was there in the beginning is
40:55When this opportunity first started, I was playing.
41:03You're saying you were not playing now, but I never was.
41:05Yeah, I'm gonna help you get some hard out of here.
41:07Fritz, stop with the bulls**t, bro.
41:10You over there in Jay's ear.
41:11It's a hard, it's a hard, it's a hard.
41:13What are you doing by saying, hey, I'm trying to get some hard out of here.
41:16Yo, let's...
41:16Hang on a second.
41:17Hang on a second.
41:18We see straight through the bulls**t immediately, and he get no respect from me.
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