TANYA and Josue are back! Love Don't Judge first met the pair in 2022 and now the couple have an exciting update. Josue revealed, "I'm twice her age and I want to get her pregnant." Despite their age gap, the couple remain madly in love - but, that doesn't mean that the judgement has gone. "We get all kinds of judgement. They call me a groomer, they say I groomed him, but I don't really see how that's possible," Tanya explained. While the couple are steady now, they have faced some challenges. "I was kind of toxic. And when I mean toxic, I mean checking through her phone," Josue said. But the couple have overcome the hurdles and are now stronger than ever, ready to embark on the joys of parenthood together. Tanya admitted, "It wasn't easy in the beginning, but we stuck next to each other and he's a great human being, I love him a lot."
00:00My name is Tanya. This is my husband Josue. I'm 44. I'm 26. She's twice my age and I want to get
00:06her pregnant. We met through my oldest two sons. People always judge our relationship. This is
00:11low-key giving cougar desperation vibes. Is that your mom? She had to pay him to stay, huh? I mean
00:18they call me groomer. The difference in maturity is significant. I was kind of toxic checking
00:24through her phone. She looks left. I'm over here like don't look left because I see a dude there.
00:29We broke up. And I had to walk away from you. Alright. How you gonna change his diaper? When
00:41we first met, he was 19. I was 38. There you go. Let me see what you gonna do. He was pretty
00:49close to my kids. When I first seen her, first thing I said was, is that your mom? And the
00:54first thing that came to my mind was, she's hot. I just knew you had a loud
00:59mouth and you were annoying. I was annoying. We both broke up with our exes and we were
01:05together about a year later. She's mine now. We got married in Vegas in 2022. We get all
01:13kinds of judgment. If you ain't got haters, then you're not important. There's some
01:17comments that I laugh at. Is that your mom? Is that your son? And for the people who
01:22keep saying I got mommy issues, I'm just putting this out in the air, I don't got
01:25mommy issues. Me and my mom get along. Just great. I'm just in love. Wait until
01:31he hits 30. He's gonna realize what he signed up for. Why? Because I'm almost 30. You
01:36better start realizing then soon. He's clearly using her for stability. This is
01:40low-key giving cougar desperation vibes. She had to pay him to stay, huh? He
01:46probably needs a green card. I'm from here. I mean, they call me groomer and they say
01:54that, oh, I groomed him and this and that, but I don't really see how that's
02:00possible. I was dating girls more my age before I got with her, so I went through
02:04like a lot of bad relationships. So actually being with somebody who actually
02:08truly shows me love, it was kind of hard for me to believe, so I was kind of toxic.
02:12And when I mean toxic, I mean checking through her phone. She looks left. I'm over
02:18here like don't look left because I see a dude there.
02:21We broke up and I had to walk away from you.
02:30I don't even know why I still get emotional.
02:36I don't even know why I still get emotional about that.
02:42I genuinely loved you. Even back then, I feel like you just didn't believe it.
02:49And like, I don't know. I just wanted us to get along better.
02:59When I was out there, I realized that nobody's like you. You were my home. After that, I matured a lot.
03:09We've been talking about having a baby for a couple of years now, but I think it's about time.
03:14I knew I wanted to give you a baby as soon as I fell in love with you.
03:18I have four children. One is 22 years old, one is 19 years old, and the others are five and eight.
03:27I want to give him a child. When you're in love with somebody, you want to give them the world.
03:34And as a woman, I would love to give my husband a baby.
03:38We've been cleared for IVF, and I've been cleared from my doctor to carry another baby.
03:47She got four. I'll give her two more. Six ain't bad. Six ain't bad.
03:51What?
03:52Six kids is cool. So, yeah, two. I'll give her two kids.
03:57Originally, my oldest two were affected negatively, and I'm not going to say that social media and the previous show that we did didn't help fuel their negative responses to our relationship.
04:15But I don't think that my older kids would want anyone else to be here help raising their little siblings other than him.
04:23They weren't best friends. They didn't grow up together.
04:26It was more of like a big brother mentor relationship that they had because they also love him a lot, and they have a great bond.
04:34I'm still very close with her sons. We still hang out every day. I don't think anything changed.
04:40You can make it work as long as you make sure that there's no power imbalance in the relationship.
04:48I don't tell him what to do. I don't mommy him. Sometimes I try. I'm not going to lie.
04:55Oh, you definitely mommy.
04:57But we know.
04:59Babe, eat now.
05:04You're leaving your food on the table.
05:06You pick up your dishes.
05:08I bet he only stays because of that influencer money.
05:11We started doing social media influencing during the COVID pandemic.
05:16It was just a way for us to kind of supplement income and still provide for the kids.
05:21I remember in the beginning, he really didn't want any part of social media.
05:25It was already on a couple of different platforms, and he just kind of made fun of it.
05:31And he used to say, I'm not doing that. That's cringy.
05:34And then here we are. And I think it's definitely made us stronger.
05:39So all together, we have about 170,000 followers across all social media platforms.
05:44People don't understand. It's literally a job.
05:48Yeah.
05:49It's hard too.
05:50To our haters.
05:51Y'all are fans too.
05:52Y'all are fans too.
05:53Just remember that.
05:54The hate just gets the bag.
05:56100%.
05:57I've been making music for about 13 years, and I'm hoping to one day make it.
06:02I'm about to play a new song for my wife, and I'm going to see what she thinks about it.
06:06So baby, call me, please don't care, please don't play here.
06:10I don't understand the finish, yeah.
06:14I know that stress is harder than it is, yeah.
06:17I don't want to make something better.
06:20Dude, that smile is cute.
06:22So please pick up your fight, let me lie.
06:25You showed me videos of you when you were younger,
06:29and you're sitting at a computer doing the same thing, doing music.
06:35Did you like it?
06:36I love it.
06:37This is about you.
06:38I'm going to be honest, every song I make is about you.
06:41Every song.
06:42The difference in maturity between a male from 20 to 25 or 26,
06:49sometimes it felt like I was dating a teenager at some point.
06:54I still have my immature side sometimes.
06:56I think a lot of men, no offense to men in general,
06:59but I think a lot of men have their immature kid side no matter what age they are.
07:04Remember to be honest?
07:05You do too.
07:06Oh yeah?
07:07Yeah.
07:08Leave me alone.
07:09We're both allowed to be crazy together.
07:11That's right.
07:12When we got together, he was 21 and I was 38.
07:16You're 21 years old, you're able to drink alcohol, you're able to gamble,
07:23you're able to go to war for your country.
07:25Why are you not able to love who you want?
07:28It wasn't easy in the beginning, but we stuck next to each other and he's definitely a great
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