Second Date Update - Not So Special

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9 months ago

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00:00All right, we're trying to know about Aiden this morning on the 7.15 second date update.

00:04He is very confused because he goes, listen, I listened to the 7.15 second date update

00:09and people say, oh, nothing never happened.

00:11And then something crazy happens.

00:12He goes, I know what you guys ask.

00:14I know how this goes.

00:15I'm telling you, we had a good conversation.

00:18No politics.

00:19I didn't do anything crazy.

00:20I didn't smell bad.

00:21I'm just telling you, I covered all my bases.

00:23Well, and I asked him, too, if she was into him.

00:27And he's like, oh, definitely.

00:28We talked about going out again.

00:30He goes, but he's had no contact from her.

00:32He's like, she's just gone.

00:34All right, so we are going to try to call her right now and see if we can get her on the phone.

00:51Hello?

00:52Good morning.

00:53Is this Brittany?

00:54Yes, who's speaking?

00:55Hey, Brittany, this is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5QIK.

01:00How are you doing?

01:03I'm fine.

01:06That's the proper response, by the way, when a radio station calls you.

01:10I'm fine.

01:11Listen, we want to see if we can talk to you for a minute on the air, just a couple minutes.

01:15Would you have just a spare few minutes for us this morning?

01:18Well, I mean, I do have to go to work, but I mean, I guess just if it's quickly.

01:22Okay, great.

01:23We want to ask you about this guy, Aiden, that you went on a date with, and I'll just

01:27tell you what we know.

01:27We know where you guys met online.

01:29You guys went to the Salt Shack.

01:31He said that he had a great conversation with you.

01:33A lot of things you guys talked about seem to, you guys seem to line up as far as interests

01:37go and what you guys want to do and goals and all that.

01:41Just basically, he was really into you, and he really wants to see you again, and he's

01:46just really confused why he hasn't heard from you since the date, and I guess he has reached

01:49out to you.

01:52You know, Aiden's a nice guy, but this was our first date, and there's just nothing he

01:58did that made me feel special.

02:01It was just a very kind of blah date, you know, and a woman needs to feel like she's the most

02:08attractive person in the room, especially on the first date.

02:11You got to kind of, you know, he didn't bring any flowers, he didn't order champagne, he

02:15didn't compliment my dress, or my hair, or my smile, or anything.

02:20Oh.

02:21I mean, he's a good conversationalist, but, you know, I could have a conversation with

02:27my mom, or my girlfriend.

02:29I don't need a date to, you know, just be a conversationalist.

02:33I need him to make me feel like I am the prettiest girl there, and to make a really good impression.

02:40I mean, it's the first date, right?

02:43It's supposed to be over the top.

02:45Okay, so you're saying you didn't feel special because he didn't kind of go over the top

02:49with things.

02:51He didn't even reach for the top.

02:53He didn't even come, it was way, way in the mid.

02:55It was just like, you know, going to lunch with your brother or something.

02:59Ouch.

02:59Aww.

03:00I mean, nice guy, but he just didn't create any sparks, and you know, that's really his job

03:06as a man.

03:07Whoa.

03:08So, it was just nice to meet him, and I just kind of let it go at that.

03:13You know, I don't even know guys bring flowers on first dates still.

03:17I mean, I know that's kind of an old-fashioned thing.

03:18Is that something people do?

03:19Well, you've been out of the game for a little bit.

03:21I mean, yeah, but, okay.

03:24Well, let me just, let me ask you this.

03:26You said he's a great conversationalist.

03:28Would you be willing to talk to him right now?

03:30Because we actually have him on the other line.

03:32Would that be okay, Brittany, if you brought him back on?

03:35Oh, you're going to anyway, so go ahead.

03:38Oh, I appreciate that.

03:39Aiden?

03:40Yeah, hey.

03:42How are you doing?

03:45I'm a little confused.

03:47I mean, I kind of heard what you were saying, and I mean, I felt like I was a gentleman.

03:55I paid for the date.

03:56I even, like, I walked you to your car, and it is, like, kind of the first date, so I

04:01don't know.

04:02I don't know how, do men just bring flowers on the first date?

04:06I don't know.

04:07I never got that memo.

04:09Yes, they do.

04:10Every man that I date does, but there was no spark with us.

04:15There was nothing that you tried to just spark a little bit to light a fire, because that's

04:21what dating is about, is lighting that fire.

04:22And there wasn't even a smolder.

04:25Oh, man.

04:26Oh, okay.

04:27I mean, I thought there was.

04:29I definitely thought we had more than just brotherly conversation and sisterly.

04:34I'm sorry I wasn't over the top, is I guess what I'm trying to say.

04:37I thought you should, like, the second date.

04:40I mean, I don't know.

04:42This is kind of not fair to me.

04:43I don't know.

04:44I feel like I need a do-over, maybe, you know?

04:47There are no do-overs in life.

04:48You get one chance at a first date, and now I'm always just going to think of you in

04:53that friend, brother, cousin zone.

04:57You're just, you're a good guy, and I'm sure that there's a great place for good guys in

05:01the world, but it's not day me.

05:04You've got to be better.

05:06So this is for sure a no?

05:08You wouldn't want to see him again at all?

05:10I mean, now that he knows what you're looking for?

05:11I mean, if he'd be willing to, I don't know.

05:13I hate to even ask him to step up, but I'm just saying, but he brings you flowers?

05:19Yeah, I mean, would you be willing to give him a shot?

05:21The problem is that I had to ask.

05:24You know, I'm not going to sit here and dictate our relationship for the rest of our lives and

05:29tell him everything he should and should not do.

05:31He's a man.

05:32He should know what to do, and that's what sweeps women off their feet, is, you know, men

05:36know what to do.

05:37So I'm not swept.

05:39My feet are on the ground, and I'm going to sadly just walk forward.

05:43Wow.

05:44Wow.

05:45All right.

05:46Well, listen, I think, Aiden, you're going to look back at this day sometime and be like,

05:50you know what?

05:50It didn't work out for a reason.

05:52So I do appreciate you reaching out to us, Aiden.

05:54I'm sorry we couldn't make a second date happen.

05:56Brittany, I know you got to get to work, so thank you for your time, and you guys have

05:59a great day.

06:00Thanks, guys.

06:01Okay.

06:01All right.

06:01Thanks.

06:03Like I said, he'll look back and be like, I'm so glad I did not go back out with that

06:08woman again.

06:09She was a lot.

06:09Because she said it wasn't like he just showed him as a slob.

06:13She said he was nice.

06:15He was a conversationalist.

06:16She said if she wanted to go with her brother, she'd go with her brother.

06:19But I mean, that's insane to me.

06:21Yeah.

06:22I don't know.

06:23I thought she was a lot.

06:24But maybe she wasn't asking too much.

06:26I want to know what you think.

06:26800-992-1099.

06:28800-992-1099.

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