00:00Hey there, it's J.R. Arlana talking about the 7-15 second date update between Carrie and Lucas.
00:06They went on a date, Dunedin. They had a great date, we thought, because they just played 20 questions.
00:11And then she said, yeah, we kept it light. It was kind of a fun game.
00:13Nope, nope, not a good idea. They should not have played that game because he opened up to her about something.
00:19And then things got bad.
00:22Salt and an open wound. This was tough. Check it out.
00:24Well, Carrie said that her date with Lucas, very lighthearted.
00:27They went to Marker 8 in Dunedin, said, hey, the guy was super funny. We hung out.
00:32I'd really like to see him again. I've reached out to him. I've heard nothing. And I'm confused.
00:37She said she thought they had a connection, so I think we should call him.
00:39All right, let's do it right now.
00:40Hello?
00:56Hey, this is Lucas.
00:58Yeah, this is he. Who's this?
01:00Hey, Lucas, this is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5QIK. How you doing?
01:05Good morning.
01:08Okay.
01:10Why is the radio calling me right now?
01:12Well, we actually are calling you to talk to you for a second, if it's okay with you, on the air, about a date, actually, that you went on.
01:21All right. Go for it.
01:23All right. Well, I appreciate that, man.
01:26Well, here's the deal. We heard from this girl, Carrie, that you went on a date with, and she said you guys hung out in Dunedin.
01:32You guys went to Marker 8. She said you were super funny, man, and she had a great time with you, wants to see you again, and has reached out, got nothing back.
01:41And it's like, everything was cool. We didn't get too personal about stuff. We didn't get into the heavy conversations.
01:46We were just hanging out. Now she doesn't know what happened and where you went.
01:51So we're trying to help her out and get her some answers. So what's going on, man?
01:54Well, all right. We did have some nice conversation. We were clicking. Everything was going well.
02:00And then to break the ice and to kind of, like, find out a little bit more about each other, I came up with the idea to, like, play 20 questions.
02:07You know what I mean? And then so we were, you know, just kind of going back and forth.
02:10That's a good way to get to know somebody.
02:11Yeah. And it started off light and great and funny. You know, we were just kind of, you know, asking stupid questions, meaningless questions.
02:19And then, you know, to be honest, like, from there I kind of took a turn and I got a little offended.
02:26You know, she asked me something and I was honest with her. And then it kind of turned from there.
02:32So basically she asked, you know, what my biggest insecurity is. And I was honest with her.
02:38You know, I said it was my teeth. You know, my teeth aren't exactly straight. You know, there's a little gap.
02:43And, you know, I have it's something that's kind of been on my mind since I was a kid.
02:48And my family really couldn't afford to get me braces. So I never I never got a chance to get braces to fix them.
02:53And it's not terrible. You know, I'm not like snaggletooth. But, you know, it's it's a little insecurity.
02:58I have that they're not exactly perfect. And I thought that would be it, you know, and that, you know, we would just move on.
03:03And she now she knows something about me that's personal. But instead, she turned around and just like put it right back in my face and was like, oh, yeah, no, I definitely noticed.
03:14Yeah, you're right. You know, that gap there. Oh, look at that crooked one over there. Yeah.
03:18You should do something about that. It's really it's really noticeable. And I was just like, was she being sarcastic, though?
03:24No, no. Like and we just kept talking about it. She's just like, you know, you know, they have so many things you can do about that today.
03:32You know, now you should you know, you should do it. So this way you have a little bit more respect for yourself.
03:36And it was just like talking about my teeth. And like I just I just finished saying it's one of my biggest insecurities.
03:43And she's putting it right back in my face that I just I laughed it off at the moment, you know, in the moment I just kind of laughed.
03:50And we continued. And but when I got home, I was talking to my roommate and he was like, no, dude, that's imagine if it was reversed.
03:58And you said something about her that she just told you. Absolutely. You know, that that you, you know, you'd get slapped, you know, like it when someone kind of pours their heart out to you and let their walls down.
04:09You don't you don't come charging through, you know, I don't know. It just offended me. And I it just rubbed me the wrong way.
04:16You know, Lucas, we actually have I'm sorry that was, you know, said to you, you're being honest.
04:24You kind of got a brutal response. We actually have Carrie on the phone with us, Lucas.
04:28I want to bring him back or bring her back on because that is that would be tough.
04:31Carrie. Yeah. Little rough, huh? I mean, I really feel like I did something wrong.
04:37And just to hear him say that I'm just flabbergasted because he brought it up and I just expanded on it pretty much.
04:43I mean, there's things like Invisalign, Embrace, if he really feels the kind of way, he can just pay for that.
04:48I don't I don't see what the big deal is. Do you not want to be honest with you?
04:53Not everyone has money to just throw around. Right now, I can't afford those options.
04:57I wish I could, but I can't.
05:00I mean, if you really feel so bad about it, why don't you just invest in yourself?
05:03Isn't that what we all should do if you don't like something? You should just invest in yourself.
05:07So are you are you saying you don't really care about how you look and you don't care about yourself?
05:11Is that what you're saying? Because you're like, I don't understand why what I'm saying.
05:15But maybe that wasn't a conversation for a first date.
05:18You know, I was I was trying to be honest with you.
05:21I just said what I said. I don't I didn't think you were going to feel so.
05:26I mean, like hurt about it. I mean, were you bullied or something about this?
05:28Because I'm just confused. Like, I really put out what you're doing.
05:31But I'm really just being honest with you.
05:34Just invest into yourself. And if you don't really care about how you look, then that's up to you.
05:38I'd like to get the fat sucked out of my legs, but I can't just go do that.
05:42Oh, that's the hobby.
05:43You can't just I mean, I'm just like, you know, I mean, that costs money to do some of that kind of stuff.
05:50And the other thing is, Carrie, I think it's the telling someone what to do with their money,
05:54especially when it comes to their appearance.
05:55I don't think that's necessarily the coolest thing to do to somebody, especially someone you like because you called us.
06:01You like this guy. I mean, why would you say that?
06:04I do like him. But at the end of the day, I'm a very honest and direct person.
06:08Obviously my intentions to hurt him.
06:11I am just telling him like it is.
06:13And if you can't handle that, then I don't understand.
06:15I mean, like, again, invest in you.
06:17If you don't like something, then take care of it.
06:19I don't see what the big deal is.
06:21Are you guys listening to this?
06:22I can't believe that I'm even having this conversation.
06:25Get braces. Don't you have insurance or something like there's braces?
06:28Like I had braces back in the day and me got to do insurance.
06:31I think insurance is covered.
06:32Not all insurance is covered dental.
06:34I mean, well, money aside every day.
06:38I mean, if you spend money on coffee, you can invest $10 a day to put that towards your braces.
06:43It's just bothering you so much.
06:44Carrie, what if he would have said something about, let's say, whatever you're in.
06:46Let's just think of an insecurity.
06:48You don't need to say it to us.
06:49But what if he would have, you know, piled on about some insecurity that you have?
06:56Wouldn't you kind of be interested in like, oh, yeah, get that fixed.
06:59What would you have said to that?
07:00I'm like, OK, that's who I am.
07:02Take it and move on.
07:03Like, I mean, like everyone is so it's like everyone's so stuck now that you can't even say anything without making someone feel uncomfortable.
07:10I mean, like, I really feel like I did something wrong for him and I was so confused as to why he wouldn't hit me back in his bit.
07:17This is the reason?
07:18I don't know.
07:19I mean, look, it's like, just get over it.
07:21That's not that doesn't work for me.
07:22I'm sorry.
07:23I appreciate someone who can be forward and direct, but there's got to be some lines somewhere.
07:28You know, you are acting like a little like I'm just.
07:33All right.
07:34I'm done.
07:35Thanks.
07:35All right.
07:35Well, listen, Lucas, thank you for your time, man.
07:37I'm sorry.
07:38This kind of got a little bit brutal.
07:39Yeah.
07:40But I do appreciate you coming on with us.
07:42And, you know, it sounds like you do have, you know, self-confidence as well.
07:45So I appreciate that as well.
07:47Carrie, it's not going to happen.
07:49You're not going to go on a date with Lucas.
07:50He's just not looking for another date with you.
07:52And I got to be honest, I kind of don't blame him.
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