00:00I started with 5B, by the way,
00:01because 5A is something we don't think about.
00:04I started with 5B.
00:055B is the act of intimacy.
00:08The conjugal act is a very important manifestation.
00:11Now, generally speaking,
00:13again, I have to be stereotypical,
00:14statistically wise,
00:16for most men,
00:17this is a very important language.
00:19And a lot of times,
00:21in most couples,
00:22across all cultures,
00:24not just Muslim culture,
00:25but across the globe,
00:26most couples,
00:27the man will complain about 5B.
00:30I don't get enough of 5B.
00:32Okay, I don't get enough of this language of love.
00:34But see, of course,
00:35sometimes it's the other way
00:36that the wife is complaining,
00:37and it's true both ways.
00:38But the majority is that the men are complaining.
00:40And this is, again, across all cultures.
00:42But see, one of the reasons why
00:44is that the other four languages
00:46and language 5A is not given.
00:49So when the wife is not getting any of the four,
00:52and we're gonna come to 5A,
00:53I'm waiting for it to the end, don't worry.
00:55But I'm trying to explain to you.
00:56When she is not receiving any language of love,
01:00she doesn't feel like giving the language of 5B.
01:03She doesn't feel appreciated.
01:045B, the language of intimacy,
01:07becomes a chore.
01:08She begins to despise it sometimes.
01:11Oh, he only comes to me when he needs me.
01:13He takes me for complete advantage.
01:15He has no clue as to the effort,
01:17the sacrifice, the love, the dedication.
01:19He only comes to me for one need of his.
01:22And it becomes a burden and a chore
01:24rather than becoming the most beautiful,
01:27the most romantic, the most intimate.
01:29Why?
01:30Because either the husband is not expressing
01:32or she is not understanding the other languages.
01:35The first four and 5A.
01:37And now we get to 5A.
01:38So,
01:40let's see if he's stuck there.
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