00:00You know, we haven't seen Denise in a long, long time, so I don't know what we're going to talk about, what we're not going to talk about.
00:13But you know, I remember this, and I'll be very, very direct.
00:16I remember when you got pregnant, okay?
00:19When you got pregnant, the people were saying, you're at the peak of your career.
00:22You're here.
00:23You know, and people were saying...
00:26Why do you look like that, Tita Boy? Are you mad at me?
00:29You're still wondering. You're acting up again.
00:31I'm acting up.
00:32That's when I remember, what a waste.
00:35Do you remember that? What a waste.
00:37Our ad together, everybody was like, I'm a waste.
00:41Right.
00:42How did you manage that?
00:44I think, Tita Boy, to be honest, and we talked about this before.
00:47Yes.
00:48I really didn't know that it would be a big deal.
00:50Because I was already 23, and at the same time, I'm a character actress, Tita Boy.
00:55I'm not a princess.
00:57You know, there are some artists that were really bred and taken care of
01:02and are shielded by a lot of things and have a lot of pressure.
01:05I'm a character actress. I can play bida, kontrabida, support.
01:08So, you didn't expect that it would be a big deal.
01:10I didn't think anybody would care, especially since I'm 23.
01:13But a lot of people cared.
01:14It was touching, but also pressuring.
01:16Right.
01:17Because I always want to leave a good...
01:20I want people to have somebody to look up to.
01:23No, I'm talking about it.
01:25I remember your speech about being a single mother.
01:29Yes.
01:30I remember you talk about...
01:31Correct me if I'm wrong.
01:33Why is it a big deal when a woman decides to have a baby outside of marriage?
01:40Yes.
01:41When it is a guy, he becomes a stud.
01:43Yes.
01:44Remember that.
01:45Yes. Oh, my gosh. Twenty...
01:46Right?
01:47Twenty-something.
01:48And until now, that's still so relevant.
01:51Not that I'm promoting becoming a single mother.
01:54No, we're not.
01:55But I just feel like I am totally me.
01:59And whatever happens in my life, I will always own up to it.
02:02I will always step forward and I will always embrace it and be proud of it.
02:06Whether it's apologizing for a mistake or being proud of an achievement
02:11or embracing where my life is at.
02:14So, I also want people to feel that way.
02:16That no matter where you are, no matter what you're doing,
02:19you're always where you're meant to be.
02:22So, you just got to rock it.
02:23Correct.
02:24And whatever choices you make, if you need to apologize, do it.
02:27Step up.
02:28If you don't, don't.
02:29Nobody else is going to live your life except you.
02:32And you don't want to get older and have regrets.
02:34And Uncle Boy, I really wanted to push that we're women.
02:38And it's part of our gift that we get to bring life into this world.
02:41Correct.
02:42I was very excited and I always wanted to be a mom.
02:44So, a lot of the time, single parents are like,
02:46Oh, no. It's going to be hard.
02:48Oh, no. This is too much.
02:50Uncle Boy, it's all about bringing it.
02:52If you think that something is going to be hard, it's going to be heavier.
02:56Correct.
02:57But if you think, I'm excited. This is going to be fun.
03:00This is a blessing.
03:01And that's what it's going to be.
03:16I love you.
03:17I love you.
03:18I love you.
03:19I love you.
03:46I love you.
03:47I love you.
04:16Hey!
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