00:00Ate, they were asking us in the briefing, what is your favorite question that you look forward to being asked?
00:09I'll be the devil's advocate for a bit.
00:11Because as a gay, you're being lauded by a lot of female comedians.
00:15You're the first, the most successful.
00:18You're a career peg for a lot of us.
00:21But I want to be honest, when it comes to love life, sometimes it's like we're copying you.
00:26Even though we're not doing it on purpose.
00:29Even though I'm a smart woman, I'm not one of those guys who...
00:34But it's like I'm I.I.ing.
00:36I'm loving the whole thing.
00:39That's all.
00:40Because you love me, that's all.
00:44You're becoming an adjective for us.
00:46So, I'll be the devil's advocate for a bit, Ate.
00:49It's not like we're laughing or masking the problem.
00:53In a way, we're putting the problem aside.
00:56We're not really dealing with it head on.
00:58Therefore, we keep on repeating the same wrong decisions,
01:02meeting the same type of people,
01:04who are giving us the same type of problems and pain.
01:07So, sometimes, Ate, now...
01:09Because I noticed in your interview and what the staff said in the Fast Talk,
01:13you're calm when you're answering Uncle Boy.
01:16Your attack is different.
01:18Your response to the problem is different this time around.
01:21So, would you say, have you learned?
01:24Are you already facing the problem?
01:26Or are you just not laughing at it?
01:27What are you doing right now?
01:29Because, first of all, when I put one thing in,
01:33I'm not lecturing, but first,
01:37I'm positively saying,
01:40I hope at this time, it's enough.
01:43Because, to be honest, no one wants to be separated.
01:46No one wants this to happen.
01:48Actually, I was really shocked.
01:51My son told me yesterday,
01:54he said, Mama, to be honest,
01:58no one really wants this to happen to us, right?
02:01To us, to you.
02:02And not all of us are ready for what happened to you.
02:06So, I said, except, you know who's ready.
02:10She's the one who started it.
02:12She's ready.
02:13She's ready.
02:14And not all of us are ready.
02:15You sent a message, I'm ready.
02:17So, I told her, except, not all of us are ready,
02:20but she's ready.
02:21Yes, Mama, but no one really wants this.
02:24And that's one thing.
02:25Since no one really wants this,
02:28so, you have to, you put that in,
02:33so, you have to learn to exit in a good way.
02:38Especially in this part of our lives,
02:41where there's a lot of social media,
02:43where everyone has a lot of opinions, right?
02:47To be honest, all of us in our lives,
02:50not just artists,
02:51those who are on social media,
02:53there are a lot of comments,
02:54but the people who are feeling it,
02:56they don't know what that person is going through, right?
03:00There's just a button.
03:01Yes, there's just a button,
03:02there's just a button, right?
03:04That's why I'm trying to show them that
03:08this is the way to exit,
03:11or a grand pain that you'll talk about.
03:14That's great.
03:15So, it's like you already have your eyes open.
03:18When I did this, I accepted it.
03:20That's the demeanor.
03:22Yes, that's why no one really wants this,
03:24but it already happened,
03:27so, let's accept the good.
03:29And let's show that even if people get hurt,
03:33we always have to be thankful for everything.
03:37Yes.
03:38In all circumstances,
03:39we need to be thankful to the Lord
03:41and for all the blessings that He gave us.
03:44It's just a coincidence that this is a blessing
03:49that I don't know about.
03:51I'll just go through it,
03:52but there's something beautiful that He'll give us.
03:55Part of the process.
03:56Perfect.
03:57Part of the process.
03:58I'm going to share a Japanese art form.
04:01We understand that.
04:02I don't know if it's Japanese.
04:03It's in Tagalog.
04:04We really understand that.
04:05I'm sorry?
04:06It's better if she speaks,
04:08because you'll understand her.
04:10I used to be an announcer in Dividendaso.
04:13Dividendaso.
04:14And finally, like that.
04:16Just kidding.
04:17But anyway,
04:18this is called Kintsugi.
04:20Kint?
04:21Kint?
04:22Kint?
04:23Is it like that?
04:24Kintsugi?
04:25Kintsugi.
04:26When the porcelain is broken,
04:27for example, vase or plate,
04:29they put it back together,
04:30then they put gold lining on the broken parts,
04:34and then they display it again.
04:36So to the Japanese people,
04:38what I understand from that,
04:40the lesson that's being taught,
04:41no matter how broken we are,
04:43what we've been through,
04:44there is beauty in a breakdown.
04:46There is love to be found
04:49in a depressed state of mind.
04:52No matter how depressed you are,
04:54there's still love left, right?
04:56Right.
04:57If not us as mothers.
04:58We love ourselves,
05:00our children,
05:01our loved ones,
05:03and we are so...
05:04To our fans.
05:05To our fans.
05:06We are so grateful leading to that,
05:08that we have this type of work.
05:09We have a job that allows us to extend ourselves.
05:13So if someone's watching,
05:15I always think of this,
05:16for example,
05:17a casino show.
05:18It's dark,
05:19you have a spotlight.
05:20There's a shout that's so loud,
05:23I hope I gave you something today,
05:25sister or brother,
05:27that you forgot a little about your problem.
05:29Did someone come up to you like that,
05:31that you changed your life because of your joke?
05:33A lot.
05:34Did you solve the problem?
05:35Tell us, how did you solve the problem?
05:38I read a lot, for example,
05:40on my social media,
05:44I don't read outside,
05:46because you know,
05:48there are a lot of negative comments,
05:49so what do you do?
05:50You block them right away.
05:51Yes, I block them.
05:52But they say,
05:53you just don't know,
05:55when I had a problem,
05:57I watched your movie,
05:58so I'm okay.
06:00She said,
06:01so I'm okay.
06:02I became okay.
06:03So if it's like that,
06:05they're very thankful to me.
06:07So when I go through this,
06:11I remember that a lot of people love me,
06:14so I become stronger.
06:15Yes!
06:16Always positive, positive.
06:17This is really a seminar,
06:18I'll do it,
06:19Day 1,
06:20World Trade.
06:21I don't know how to do it.
06:22Huh?
06:23Arnelie, you're a guest here!
06:25She's beautiful.
06:26She can say a lot of things.
06:28She's quick,
06:29and she's also very smart.
06:30That's another one,
06:31it's like an encyclopedia.
06:33Ask her everything,
06:34chemistry, she knows it all.
06:36She knows it all.
06:37Physics, physics.
06:38She knows it all.
06:39Yes, she's very good at it.
06:40She's from the Conservatory of Music.
06:43Yes.
06:44She can make music,
06:47but she can't play it,
06:48because it's very hard.
06:49Her music sheet,
06:50it's hard for her.
06:53She makes music for others.
06:54So she's also the most challenging.
06:55Yes.
06:56That's another one,
06:57you know our friends,
06:58Bading Ate,
06:59they're another source
07:00of happiness in life.
07:01Yes, that's true.
07:03If we have a problem,
07:04they think it's a lens.
07:06Yes.
07:07Then we're happy again.
07:09Gays,
07:10they'll be like this.
07:11You're gay,
07:12because you have a penis, right?
07:13Yes.
07:14They'll scold you.
07:15You're not gay,
07:16you have a penis.
07:17So they're happy
07:18because they have a penis.
07:19They don't forget their penis.
07:20It doesn't hurt.
07:21Because you'll follow them
07:23with your penis.
07:24Why are you gay?
07:25Right?
07:26That's why I don't know.
07:28They'll be like that.
07:30Back to you.
07:31Back to you.
07:32There's an acceptance
07:33that happens.
07:34Especially when you're
07:35friends for a long time.
07:36Yes.
07:37Sometimes there's no words,
07:38right Ate?
07:39No words.
07:40Your eyes are like,
07:41hmm,
07:42you're gay.
07:43Yes.
07:44Because,
07:45hmm,
07:46it's enough.
07:47It's all hmm.
07:48I hugged Aniel.
07:49No words?
07:50No.
07:51He bought me a perfume.
07:52He didn't want to buy it.
07:54I said,
07:55let's buy him one.
07:56You were a kid.
07:57You were given candy.
07:58I was a kid.
07:59Let's spoil him today.
08:00You deserve it.
08:01You deserve it.
08:02And you know,
08:03it's time
08:04for something to happen
08:05in your life
08:06that will make you
08:07like that.
08:08Yes.
08:09No,
08:10and maybe
08:11love,
08:12my love for myself,
08:13I'll add more.
08:14Because in 10 years time
08:16when I got married,
08:18I didn't do a lot of things
08:20that I used to do.
08:22So maybe that's one of the reasons
08:24that maybe the Lord said,
08:26let's do what you used to do
08:28so that you'll be happy.
08:29It's good that he pivoted
08:30the experience right away.
08:31It's not easy.
08:32It's hard.
08:33It's hard.
08:34Especially in our job.
08:35True.
08:36Making people laugh.
08:37True.
08:38Oh my, it's true.
08:39It's hard.
08:40How do you make people laugh,
08:41Ate?
08:42There,
08:43aside from Alden.
08:44I get nervous.
08:45Aside from Alden.
08:46On stage,
08:47I get nervous.
08:48That's why I cried,
08:49right?
08:50I said thank you
08:51because I got touched.
08:52On AOS,
08:53they thought
08:54it was a birthday
08:55touching moment.
08:56I cried so much,
08:57thank you
08:58because you touched me
08:59on the surprise stage.
09:03You always say,
09:04comedy is pain.
09:05Yes,
09:06comedy is pain.
09:07Why, Ate?
09:08In my experience,
09:09when I go through
09:11those experiences,
09:13I perform better.
09:15I don't know why,
09:16maybe I dedicate
09:17all my pain to them.
09:19Like,
09:20even if it's painful,
09:22but you're all there
09:24to love me.
09:25That's why I do better
09:26when they're happy.
09:27Maybe it's like that.
09:28Yes.
09:29I can't explain it.
09:30It's the same with people.
09:32When they see you,
09:34do they think
09:35you have a problem?
09:36Yes.
09:37It's so easy.
09:38It's personal.
09:39It's funny.
09:40It's like that, right?
09:41They just think
09:42you have a problem.
09:44Yes.
09:46Oh, she's going through it.
09:48But they're laughing
09:50because they always do this.
09:52Fighting!
09:53Yes, they do that.
09:54That's what they do.
09:55Oh, fighting!
09:56They do that.
09:57It's funny.
09:58I'm happy.
09:59I think you have a lot.
10:00Arnel is right
10:01about what she said.
10:02Aside from the seminar,
10:03you have a lot of life
10:04that you've lived.
10:05Yes.
10:06Because of your
10:08comedy,
10:09your inspirational words,
10:11your interviews.
10:12So, okay.
10:13Maybe they're copying
10:14you.
10:15Oh, you can do that.
10:16I can do that too.
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