00:00I'm so amazed by other people who can do that.
00:02Because I'm the one who gets affected easily.
00:07I have a line for you, which is a beautiful beautiful saying.
00:11You are who you respond to.
00:13If you're called... This is online, right?
00:15If you're called *** and you turn around, you're ***.
00:19But if someone calls you handsome and you turn around, you're handsome.
00:23You are who you respond to.
00:27Now I know.
00:29The power to identify who you are belongs only to you.
00:35Boy, Abunda, 2 juice babes, still 0.
00:39You're so good, Booboy.
00:41We're now Dr. Abunda.
00:43I'm just listening.
00:44I'm learning a lot too.
00:46Yes, because if that's the case, you're right, Tito Boy.
00:49Sometimes, I just let it be.
00:50It's tiring.
00:51It's really tiring, Tito Boy.
00:52That's why when someone calls me handsome, I really say thank you.
00:55Even though I know they're lying sometimes.
00:57No, Booboy. You're blooming.
00:59This is from the bottom of my heart.
01:00Tito Boy, thank you so much.
01:01No, it's true.
01:02Thank you, Tito Boy.
01:04Because I don't get affected by negative comments.
01:07I choose to be happy, Tito Boy.
01:09That's true.
01:10But here's the thing.
01:11Let's talk about it.
01:12A lot of kids are listening.
01:14How can we not get affected?
01:15We're just humans.
01:16Sometimes, give it to yourself.
01:18Get affected.
01:19But don't be obsessed about what other people say.
01:22Because if you force yourself to not get hurt,
01:25you'll get hurt.
01:26That's okay.
01:28I also think that, Tito Boy,
01:29even getting hurt is harmful.
01:32Because all repressed emotions,
01:34if you don't stand up for yourself,
01:36if you don't say,
01:37that's enough, don't be like that.
01:39In effect, your anger,
01:41all that you feel,
01:42you keep it bottled inside.
01:44Based on the research recently,
01:46most autoimmune diseases come from repressed emotions.
01:50And it's inflicting women more than men.
01:54So if a woman is gossipy,
01:56she doesn't want to say what she really feels,
02:01what she really sees.
02:02Sometimes, it's like that.
02:03So let's also be careful.
02:04Because gossip is killing us, Tito Boy.
02:07That's right.
02:08I would agree.
02:09I would agree.
02:10It's like Vice Chair is saying something.
02:12Tito Boy, I also want to ask you.
02:15How has gossip culture changed?
02:18Especially now that there's social media.
02:19Oh my.
02:20Yes.
02:21Imagine.
02:22Because Tito Boy,
02:23now everyone can message you and comment to you.
02:27But double-edged sword,
02:30there are two aspects to it.
02:34Yes.
02:35Because there are so many platforms
02:37where people can get news.
02:40There are people who easily believe.
02:42There are people who say,
02:43I read that.
02:44Do you believe?
02:45Sometimes, I read about my friends.
02:47And sometimes, about me.
02:48It's like,
02:49is it true?
02:50Or is it you?
02:51The advantage is,
02:54with so many people,
02:57the power is diminished.
02:59It's like,
03:01there is this cultural pivot now.
03:05People say,
03:06it's from online.
03:07It's not true.
03:08You should ask.
03:09I mean,
03:10you should research first.
03:11Check.
03:12Yes.
03:13You should check if it's true.
03:14So there are two.
03:15It's very powerful
03:16because it spreads very fast.
03:19But also,
03:20in terms of credibility,
03:21people,
03:22especially those who watch us,
03:23they also know that,
03:24wait a minute,
03:25this is not true.
03:26So it's more discerning.
03:28So people are thinking now.
03:30There are two.
03:32And we have to be aware of that.
03:34I believe that there is a kind of gossip
03:38that can be spread.
03:40It's like,
03:41you should cover it up.
03:42You will just get tired.
03:44We always say that.
03:46But there is a kind of gossip
03:48that needs to be covered up.
03:49What is that?
03:50That's it.
03:51That's what's destroying you.
03:52That's it.
03:53Especially when you love.
03:54The question is,
03:55when social media came in,
03:56nothing.
03:57It exploded.
03:58That's why it's more important
04:00that children and parents talk.
04:02Okay.
04:03It's important that they hold on.
04:05You know what I'm trying to say?
04:08Yes.
04:09It's important that you see
04:10the eyes of your child,
04:11of your sibling.
04:12The personal relationships,
04:14the togetherness,
04:15is very important.
04:17Because now,
04:18it's a trend that
04:19it's just a camera,
04:20FaceTime.
04:21It's different.
04:22It's still different.
04:23You can still hear your mother's voice.
04:25You can still hear the tone
04:27of your sibling's anger.
04:29That anger is different.
04:30That anger has love.
04:32So, even the essence of relationships
04:36has exponentially changed.
04:47Oh, my God.
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