00:00When you're at work and you're a newbie, you don't feel the mentoring that you're being taught.
00:07It's not like that.
00:09I'm the one being scolded by Uge, right?
00:11Yes, because you're hitting me.
00:13You're hitting him.
00:14Share it.
00:15Because this is what happens.
00:17Share it.
00:19I have a heart problem. We're taping.
00:21Yes, we're taping.
00:22And Direk Neto is still alive.
00:24And Direk Neto is the first one to smell.
00:27It's like there's a problem with the juice table.
00:29Eugene Domingo was called.
00:31Because we're so close.
00:33He's like my younger sister.
00:36That's how he treats me.
00:38He's the one who's the mentor.
00:40So when he scolds me,
00:41it's because of you.
00:42When you're making decisions,
00:44when you trust a guy,
00:45you trust him.
00:46He's being sarcastic.
00:48Yes.
00:49He's being sarcastic.
00:50He's being sarcastic.
00:51You know what I mean?
00:52He's really being sarcastic.
00:53Yes, that's how it is.
00:54He's just reminding you that you're beautiful.
00:56He's really an auntie.
00:57We were in his dressing room.
00:59He was just quiet.
01:00It was his dressing room.
01:01We were messing with him.
01:02Then he suddenly called.
01:04He was just quiet.
01:05Uge was quiet.
01:06He was like this.
01:07He was like this.
01:08He said,
01:09why are you making him angry on Tuesday?
01:11He's still young.
01:12Don't let him make mistakes.
01:13That's how it is.
01:14That's how it is.
01:15What Uge did was,
01:16you're the only one.
01:18You're the only one.
01:19You too.
01:20Your decisions.
01:21Your decisions.
01:22In your life.
01:23Here it is.
01:24She's defending her.
01:25She even got hit.
01:26She said,
01:27let him be.
01:28He's really a jerk.
01:29That's what she said.
01:30You're the only one.
01:31You're the only one.
01:32If you get mad,
01:33I'll still be mad.
01:35She got mad at me again.
01:36She's the only one.
01:37I'm okay.
01:38I'm the only one again.
01:39She's the only one again.
01:41But the point there is,
01:42when she's solving a problem,
01:44she always takes it easy.
01:45She doesn't want to dwell.
01:47I noticed that in her.
01:48I don't want to dwell.
01:49And also,
01:50why would you dwell on pain?
01:52You can dwell on positivity.
01:55What do you do, Ate?
01:56So you can get...
01:57Oh, there's a lot.
01:58Give them a seminar.
02:00Zumba.
02:01Day one.
02:02First,
02:03you have to go to church.
02:05You have to say,
02:06Lord, give me a new heart.
02:08Lord, give me a new heart.
02:10Lord, give me a new heart.
02:12A loving heart.
02:13A peaceful heart.
02:14Like that.
02:15And then,
02:16you can do Zumba.
02:17Zumba.
02:18Zumba in the morning.
02:19Zumba in the afternoon.
02:20Zumba in the evening.
02:22It's almost December 16th.
02:24You can already do Zumba.
02:26You can also go to the gym.
02:28You can also enroll in
02:30taekwondo,
02:32boxing,
02:33like that.
02:34And now,
02:35I started reading.
02:37I read books.
02:40Again,
02:41I used to read books.
02:43Now, I read again.
02:45I read books
02:46so I won't be stupid.
02:48Because I'm already stupid in love.
02:50I'm even more stupid in the world.
02:52I should be smart in the world.
02:54Right?
02:55You're so focused on yourself.
02:57We can see that.
02:58Yes.
02:59Super focused.
03:00And then,
03:01next year,
03:02I'll have a lot of friends.
03:04We'll go to Bangkok.
03:06Friend trip.
03:07I'll go to Abu Dhabi.
03:08I'll go to Mama Mary Pilgrimage in October.
03:12Things like that.
03:13So you planned your year
03:15so you'll be a busybody.
03:16Yes.
03:17Looking forward.
03:18Beautiful.
03:19I'm looking forward
03:20for healing process.
03:22Yes.
03:23That's perfect.
03:24Process with a Z.
03:26Processing.
03:27Processes.
03:30But these are what we call
03:32coping mechanisms.
03:34How we handle our problems.
03:37How it manifests in our bodies.
03:40Mr. Second Honor,
03:41can you explain
03:42what coping mechanism is?
03:43Thank you so much
03:44for turning me into
03:46Kineso.
03:47Kineso?
03:48There's nothing like that in Kineso.
03:50There's nothing like that?
03:51There's nothing like that in Kineso.
03:52There's nothing like that?
03:53Well, according to my source.
03:55Who's source is that?
03:56Catch him.
03:58Coping mechanism
03:59is our ability to manage
04:01stress,
04:02anxiety,
04:03and unpleasant emotions.
04:05Who's your source?
04:06Where did you get that?
04:07It's Maring Wiki.
04:08Wikipedia.
04:11It's free.
04:12It's free.
04:13It's Paringoogs.
04:14There.
04:15That's my second source.
04:16Yes.
04:17I put Wiki first
04:18because she's more
04:19reliable.
04:21Reliable?
04:22You don't know that?
04:23Sorry,
04:24that's the only thing I didn't read.
04:25I apologize
04:26to the viewers.
04:27Re?
04:28Reliable.
04:29Yeah, very good.
04:30Okay.
04:31And I have research
04:32that studies show
04:33that one of the most
04:34effective mechanisms
04:36is laughter.
04:37Oh.
04:38I have that here.
04:39For example,
04:40what you did,
04:41that's also a coping mechanism.
04:43Oh.
04:44So you agree with that,
04:45right?
04:46Don't just laugh
04:47by yourself.
04:48They might think
04:49you're crazy.
04:51And they might think
04:52you just bought
04:53your own food.
04:55From her source.
04:58That's a different source,
04:59Madam Chair.
05:00Let's avoid that.
05:01Is this it?
05:02Order, order, order.
05:03No.
05:04Anyway,
05:05what our second owner
05:06is saying is
05:07what you do
05:08to make other people
05:09laugh
05:11is a way for you
05:12to heal also.
05:13If you see them
05:14happy,
05:15you're okay.
05:16How do you do that?
05:17No.
05:18You know,
05:19it's true.
05:20Right now,
05:21I'm doing a live show.
05:22So,
05:23when I see people
05:24and they do that,
05:25it means
05:26fighting.
05:27Fighting.
05:28It's like you're fighting.
05:29And they say,
05:30we love you,
05:31this and that.
05:32So,
05:33she said,
05:34we love you.
05:35You know why?
05:36Because you make us happy.
05:37So,
05:38they know
05:39that I'm going through
05:40something
05:41and yet,
05:42I'm not.
05:43And so,
05:44I think
05:45it's a huge blessing
05:46to make people
05:47around you happy
05:48while you're going
05:49through something
05:50in life.
05:51Right?
05:52You're grateful
05:53for our work.
05:54Yes.
05:55I'm so grateful.
05:56It's true.
05:57And aside from
05:58being grateful,
05:59because
06:00not all people
06:01have work.
06:02It's true.
06:03We do.
06:04We have work.
06:05So,
06:06we should be
06:07very grateful
06:08because the Lord
06:09has a lot of blessings
06:10for us.
06:11So,
06:12whatever it is,
06:13whatever work it is,
06:14as long as we have
06:15work and we're able
06:16to eat,
06:17actually,
06:18in your prayer,
06:19you said,
06:20thank you.
06:21The little things.
06:22Yes.
06:24We have a house.
06:25Yes.
06:26We have food.
06:27Yes.
06:28Our house has a roof.
06:29We don't get rained on.
06:30Yes.
06:31It's so touching
06:32because
06:33some people
06:34forget that.
06:35Yes.
06:36That the little things
06:37are a blessing.
06:38Yes.
06:39Money is not
06:40like what you're saying.
06:41That's right.
06:42I learned from my mom
06:43that
06:44we don't
06:45because I didn't
06:46grow up
06:47in a rich family.
06:48So,
06:49my mom,
06:50every Christmas,
06:51for example,
06:52this Christmas,
06:53we don't really
06:54have anything
06:55to celebrate.
06:56Yes,
06:57a lot of things.
06:58It's like we're just
06:59experiencing this now.
07:00Yes,
07:01it's true.
07:02Before,
07:03if I look at my life
07:04before,
07:05our house was
07:06even dirtier
07:07than a person.
07:08That's amazing.
07:09Before,
07:10when I joined the GM,
07:11a director asked me,
07:12Director Dominic Zapata,
07:13I was just a newbie then,
07:14what's your favorite food?
07:15I said,
07:16chicken.
07:17It's simple.
07:18It's simple.
07:19Then they sent
07:20a lot of chicken.
07:21I was so happy.
07:22I fell in love
07:23with chicken.
07:24It's the simple things.
07:25It's because
07:26there's a lot of chicken.
07:27Yes,
07:28yes.
07:29So,
07:30for those
07:31small things,
07:32I can see it.
07:33That's why
07:34I'm always thankful
07:35for those things.
07:36It's beautiful.
07:37Your prayer was beautiful earlier.
07:38We don't know
07:39the things
07:40that we have
07:41that we ignore
07:42are the prayers
07:43of other people.
07:44So, we should be grateful
07:45even if it's small.
07:46Correct, correct, correct.
07:47And one more thing,
07:48you know,
07:49this is another blessing,
07:50honestly.
07:51If you have a lot of problems
07:52or you go through a lot
07:53in life,
07:54sometimes,
07:55you can't sleep,
07:56right?
07:57Yes.
07:58So,
07:59that's one of my blessings
08:00that God gave me
08:01that's like nothing.
08:02I'm always sleepy.
08:03Ah,
08:04you can sleep
08:05anywhere,
08:06anytime,
08:07anywhere.
08:08Even if you ask
08:09my R.M.,
08:10if you ask him,
08:11he's always
08:12asking me to go home.
08:13I'm already sleepy.
08:15Since I was a kid,
08:16I've been sleeping
08:17since 10 o'clock.
08:18I think it's because
08:19I'm old.
08:20That's too much.
08:21No, it's true.
08:22That's why
08:23whenever I go through
08:24something,
08:25I say,
08:26Lord,
08:27I hope I can sleep
08:28now,
08:29quickly,
08:30like that.
08:31I can sleep.
08:32God gives you sleep.
08:33Yes.
08:34God gives you sleep.
08:35And I think
08:37you know.
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