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00:00I only saw her for 3 days
00:01The 2nd day after the wedding
00:04Incidents?
00:05Yes, yes
00:07Why is he getting angry?
00:09I am the one who is getting angry
00:10I don't have a problem
00:11I don't know how to get angry
00:12But in these videos...
00:14You should have called Cheetha
00:16Yes, I know that
00:17But I didn't ask you to call Cheetha
00:23I commented that I married Divya so that I could have a daughter
00:28I don't have sympathy for the person who wrote that
00:33Because I don't want to think so badly
00:35I don't know what's wrong with some people
00:38The concept is that the marriage material should be young
00:42It's in our society
00:44It's only beautiful when the skin is white
00:45Life is not a child's play
00:47Because I experienced a lot
00:49It's not a child's play
00:50Like I said, when you get married tomorrow
00:52When you ask who is with you
00:54Is this my husband? Is this my child's father?
00:56If I love someone
01:00If they haven't married me
01:02When I ask who is with me when I marry my daughter
01:04Is this my husband?
01:05I can say that
01:06I don't know what to say
01:09Hello viewers, welcome to our show Untold with Ajith
01:12Today we have some untold stories with us
01:15We have Chris Venugopal and Divya Sridhar
01:17Welcome to the show
01:18Thank you
01:19On the second day of the wedding
01:22Wedding?
01:23Nothing like that happened
01:26After the wedding
01:28Did you start to see things normally?
01:32How did you get rid of the rush?
01:35I started to see things normally
01:39Because this is a marriage that the three of us organized
01:45Me, Divya and my younger sister
01:50The three of us, Sowmya
01:51It's a marriage that the three of us organized
01:53Even if a small spoon or egg suji gets mixed
02:00The three of us did it
02:02So the normalcy is that
02:04We did it
02:06That's it
02:07So it went better than we thought
02:11We can say it's God's blessing
02:13How is that in the wedding hall
02:16Guruvayoor had a social media issue
02:19Because of the high court ruling
02:21How is it going to happen?
02:22Will there be any problem?
02:23Or we personally have a lot of issues
02:27How to overcome
02:29When we were thinking about how to do it
02:31There were no problems
02:33The marriage happened in a good way
02:35It's more of a blessing than normalcy
02:39Often when we go to the wedding
02:41There is smoke in the sambar
02:43Or more salt for the aviyal
02:45Less sweetness for the payasam
02:47Or as our Prakashan said
02:49Less salt for the payasam
02:51There were no such issues
02:53Everyone was happy
02:55We were happy
02:57I would say there was a lot of divine touch
03:01Everywhere
03:03We planned a lot of things
03:05Like this, this, that
03:07There was a wetting process
03:11So that process
03:13We designed the wedding card
03:16Is this ok?
03:18That's it
03:20We designed it
03:22Even the gift cover
03:24We designed it and executed it
03:26When that happens
03:28When we say that it went well
03:30Somewhere the efforts were made
03:32On August 8th
03:34There was a video
03:36It was your video
03:38Do you know who is behind this voice over?
03:42I had put it
03:44At that time
03:46The wedding was almost confirmed
03:50I saw him on April 18, 19, 20
03:52I saw him only for 3 days
03:54After that
03:56On that date
03:58On that date
04:00My cousin
04:02My cousin
04:04She proposed to me
04:06She proposed to me
04:08After that
04:10Not at home
04:12I told my daughter
04:14She agreed
04:16Don't look at me
04:18How long will you stay like this?
04:20How long will we move forward like this?
04:22Without anyone
04:24I have a lot of issues
04:26I have a lot of issues
04:28I have been living in Trivandrum for 6 years
04:30I have been living in Trivandrum for 6 years
04:32How long will you stay like this?
04:34We don't have a house
04:36We don't have anyone
04:38When my daughter first agreed
04:40My daughter first agreed
04:42She asked me to check my horoscope
04:44My daughter first agreed
04:46She asked me to check my horoscope
04:48But the wedding took place one day
04:50But the wedding took place one day
04:52The wedding is not an auspicious occasion
04:54The wedding is not an auspicious occasion
04:56At first, I made such a mistake
04:58Later
05:00My husband's family and friends
05:02My husband's family and friends
05:04I should have an identity
05:06If someone comes in love
05:08If they hadn't married me, I would have been able to say that it was my husband who asked me who I was when I married my daughter.
05:15I realized that such a person came into my life.
05:19When my daughter agreed, I told her that I wanted to tell her as a family member.
05:24Because no one supported me at that time.
05:26Because I know the situation of hiding.
05:28They would say that I experienced everything that I had.
05:31Whether it was the people or the family, it would have been like that.
05:34That was what happened in my life.
05:36I was like that from the age of 18 to 32.
05:41After that, I was alone again.
05:44I am happy that I got such a life.
05:47There is a kind of happiness that cannot be expressed in words.
05:52When I told my family that I wanted to tell them, they said that I was not a fake person at all.
05:57Many people have said this.
06:00At first, they took me to my brother's mother.
06:07At that time, I had a cousin, Swamiji.
06:09My father took me to my mother.
06:11He showed me Divya.
06:13He took me to my house.
06:16My children and I went to my brother's house.
06:19Everyone was happy that I got such a life.
06:22I lived alone for a long time.
06:25I wanted to live a good life.
06:27When all these problems happened, my brother and I were happy.
06:33But when I came to know that I got such a life,
06:35I didn't know what to do.
06:37Even today, I see my brother's eyes.
06:39I saw my mother's eyes.
06:41I got a life that even I didn't dream of.
06:46I came home and looked at the horoscopes.
06:50I prayed to the Goddess.
06:52I asked for the Guruvayur temple to be built in Nadai.
06:55My daughter was the happiest.
06:57She said,
06:59Amma, please say yes.
07:01She was like this.
07:03At that time, my brother and I were talking over the video call.
07:05She was standing at the back and listening.
07:07When I asked her,
07:09Guruvayur, is it difficult to get married?
07:11When I looked at the side,
07:13she was standing at the back.
07:15I said, Amma, please say yes.
07:17My daughter was completely supportive.
07:19My son was not a child.
07:21Yesterday, he said to the media,
07:23he spoke like a big man.
07:25I was shocked.
07:27I said, why are you talking like that?
07:29He is still a small boy.
07:31I am getting married at the age of one and a quarter.
07:33My daughter knows a little.
07:35She is seeing everything.
07:37She might have some experiences.
07:39She is ready to talk about it.
07:41She was running to the window.
07:43She was running to the window.
07:45She was running to the window.
07:47She was running to the window.
07:49She was running to the window.
07:51She was running to the window.
07:53She was running to the window.
07:55I had many enemies.
07:57There was some...
08:01If you want,
08:03we can put a disclaimer on the channel.
08:05This is only their opinion.
08:07Viji said that I am not fake.
08:09There will be people who say they are a big fake.
08:11People who don't know me and people who know me.
08:13Anyone can say anything.
08:15No one can say anything.
08:17I cannot say that. I cannot tie that hair.
08:19They can comment or call me a scoundrel.
08:21I will do anything.
08:23I am not bothered.
08:25Because anyone can say anything.
08:27I have been beaten up by my mother.
08:29I have said it many times.
08:31People say it anyway.
08:33I
08:35did a documentary for
08:37Santosh Sivan sir's work.
08:39It was a national level
08:41government documentary.
08:43It was a Rishi's character.
08:45I spoke to the people
08:47who were with me.
08:49There were junior writers,
08:51technicians. We interacted.
08:53Santosh Sivan sir started
08:55doing a work.
08:57I spoke to the people
08:59who worked there.
09:01After this,
09:03after a few days,
09:05in some interaction,
09:07someone in this,
09:09I am not saying his name.
09:11Someone asked
09:13me a question.
09:15Do you know him?
09:17He said a lot about me.
09:19He called me a scoundrel.
09:21After hearing that,
09:23I asked him,
09:25what did I do to you
09:27to judge me?
09:29He cut the call.
09:31I did not have the courage to take it.
09:33I still say,
09:35I make fun of people
09:37for the fun and entertainment
09:39at that moment.
09:41He can brand me
09:43as a bad person.
09:45He can call me a scoundrel.
09:47Let it be.
09:49That is his perspective.
09:51When he saw a
09:53scorpion going in a pond,
09:55a sanyasi got down
09:57and took it with a leaf.
09:59It bit the sanyasi
10:01and went back to the pond.
10:03The sanyasi caught it and
10:05took it back.
10:07After a while,
10:09he saw a scorpion.
10:11He saved the scorpion
10:13and stabbed it.
10:15The sanyasi said,
10:17stabbing is the nature of a scorpion.
10:19Saving is my nature.
10:21I will do that till I die.
10:23There will be a perspective like that.
10:25There will be people who will
10:27speak ill of me.
10:29Negative comments will be there.
10:31Let them speak.
10:33That is their nature.
10:35Forgiveness is my nature.
10:37Let them speak.
10:39Is it true that
10:41a lot of people can realize marriage?
10:47Do you understand what I am saying?
10:49I agree.
10:51A lot of people realize it.
10:53It is situational.
10:55It is situational.
10:57A person cannot come to you
10:59because you did not invite him.
11:01He can come because of love.
11:03There are people who
11:05say,
11:07let them speak.
11:09It is not a realization.
11:11It is just a situation.
11:13If they need us tomorrow,
11:15they can come to us
11:17until we close the door.
11:19Why should we close the door?
11:21Let them come.
11:23Whoever said this,
11:25they can come.
11:27There will be no problem in our house.
11:29Whoever said this,
11:31they can come.
11:33This is what I have read in your book.
11:35I always work for a good tomorrow.
11:39My dream is a good tomorrow.
11:41I think about
11:43what is good for people.
11:45I always
11:47do my work for that.
11:49How much
11:51has that nature influenced you?
11:55If you ask me like this,
11:57I cannot answer.
11:59What do you like to eat?
12:01What do you like to eat?
12:03What do you like to cook?
12:05You should ask like this.
12:09Do you think
12:11what I do for tomorrow
12:13is for the people?
12:15Do you think
12:17the society works for you?
12:19It is not like that.
12:21I wanted to ask you this.
12:27You said this just now.
12:29What did you say when you came here?
12:31That is it.
12:33That is the nature of a good person.
12:35That is their disease.
12:39When we bring a lot of
12:41insults in life,
12:43in many ways,
12:45if we hurt the people we love,
12:47if it happens many times,
12:49if it happens just once,
12:51there will be no pain.
12:53You get seasoned.
12:55If we
12:57hit someone
12:59with an iron,
13:01it will become so strong,
13:03it will take a good form.
13:05A piece of iron
13:07that does not have the courage to hit
13:09will not do anything.
13:11It will just rot.
13:13If I want to be a good weapon,
13:15I have to hit.
13:17I have done that in a good way.
13:19I have hit the people I love.
13:21I have cheated them.
13:23People who are close to me
13:25have cheated me
13:27in a way that
13:29I could not even imagine.
13:33When we ask for money,
13:35people fall at our feet.
13:37When we ask back,
13:39they raise their hands
13:41or don't pick up the phone.
13:43I have seen all this.
13:45What if I don't study anymore?
13:49That's it.
13:51In some situations,
13:53my close friends
13:57ask me for a favour.
13:59I may not be able to do it back then.
14:03I have faith that they will understand.
14:05Because I have the nature
14:07to cheat someone.
14:11If I do that,
14:13people will blame my parents.
14:15I cannot tolerate that.
14:17Whatever it is,
14:19I will go to the level
14:21that people say to me.
14:23I think about my children.
14:25No one
14:27says such a thing about my children.
14:29I have to do
14:31something for that.
14:33I will do my best.
14:35Tomorrow,
14:37if someone says
14:39such things about my children,
14:41I will get
14:43the biggest award.
14:45In an interview,
14:47I said that
14:49my son, Sandro,
14:51is my elder brother.
14:53A mother
14:55is 10 times more than
14:57her child's happiness.
14:59She is a good person.
15:01She is a good person.
15:03She is a good person.
15:07I completed my law degree.
15:09When my parents came
15:11for the induction process,
15:13when I came out of the stage,
15:15my mother asked me,
15:17why don't you want to become a pilot?
15:19When I studied for 3 years,
15:21I didn't get that experience.
15:23Was it before that?
15:25Yes, it was before that.
15:27I cleared my PAVT,
15:29and I got a call from the
15:31Air Force Defence Academy.
15:33If I don't go,
15:35it will be for my own good.
15:37Maybe,
15:39if I learn to fly a micro light,
15:41we can go somewhere.
15:43I will fly it.
15:45That's fine.
15:47You are always very simple.
15:49When I look at you,
15:51I feel that you are a
15:53very simple person.
15:55Is that true?
15:57Your first impression was
15:59that you are a person
16:01who lives in a different league.
16:03Isn't it?
16:05Yes.
16:07You are very simple.
16:11I have a question.
16:13What is the smallest unit
16:15to measure distance?
16:19Millimetre.
16:21Millimetre, micrometre, nanometre,
16:23and so on.
16:25What about weight?
16:27Gram, milligram.
16:29Gram, milligram, centigram,
16:31and so on.
16:33What is the measure of thought?
16:35What is the unit of thought?
16:37Thought.
16:39It is very simple.
16:41The smallest unit of thought
16:43is a word.
16:45Word?
16:47Yes.
16:49A bigger unit than that is a phrase.
16:51A bigger unit than that is a sentence.
16:53A bigger unit than that is a paragraph.
16:55A bigger unit than a paragraph is a chapter.
16:57A bigger unit than a chapter is a book.
16:59It is a volume.
17:01It is a compendium.
17:03It is simple.
17:05I am saying red.
17:07Red is a thought.
17:09Red is a thought.
17:11It is a word.
17:13I can understand it.
17:15I can understand it.
17:17I normally
17:19don't say this.
17:21But I
17:23tell my daughter.
17:25In a reel, a person comments.
17:27You have to think about what you are thinking.
17:29He commented.
17:31It became like this.
17:33It became like that.
17:35Red is a thought.
17:37A word is a unit.
17:39I am simple.
17:41I am thinking a lot.
17:43I can understand it.
17:45I can understand it.
17:47I can understand it.
17:53A word is a sentence.
17:55A red flag
17:57is a quota.
17:59An Indian flag
18:01is a car.
18:03These are all thoughts.
18:05You will get it when you say it.
18:07That is a word,
18:09phrase and sentence.
18:11You have studied it.
18:13I don't know.
18:15I don't know.
18:17I don't know how to read.
18:19I don't know how to read.
18:21Before the marriage,
18:23how was the
18:25relationship
18:27between you?
18:29What was it?
18:35It's not like that.
18:37Normally, we talk about things when we are hungry.
18:39Okay.
18:41No.
18:43I don't want to talk about it.
18:45I will support you.
18:47I don't want to talk about it.
18:49I don't want to talk about it.
18:51I don't want to talk about it.
18:55I don't want to talk about it.
18:57It's not like that.
18:59When I share things with you,
19:01you support me.
19:03I will share whatever I have.
19:05Even if I am sad,
19:07or happy,
19:09if someone calls me,
19:11I will tell them.
19:13In life,
19:15I was alone with my children.
19:17I am your mother.
19:19I love you more than my own mother.
19:21I love you more than my own mother.
19:23Now,
19:25I don't have a mother.
19:27I have a father.
19:29He is my father.
19:31My children
19:33are your children.
19:35They have accepted you.
19:37My family is like a home to me.
19:39That is how
19:41I decided.
19:43After a month,
19:45I will go to your house as your children.
19:47You will take me out.
19:49You will buy me food.
19:51You will take me to a place
19:53that my children like.
19:55I have work.
19:57I don't want my children to be alone.
19:59I used to have that before.
20:01I don't have it now.
20:03Even if I don't have it,
20:05I will go to your house
20:07as your children.
20:09You will give me whatever you make.
20:11I really enjoyed
20:13that family life.
20:15After I met you.
20:17When you live
20:19as a single mother,
20:21people tend to
20:23think too much
20:25about your perspective.
20:27When they know
20:29that you are living
20:31in someone else's perspective,
20:33they will see you in a different way.
20:35Did you have such thoughts
20:37at that time?
20:39If you rent a house,
20:41the next question is
20:43if you don't have a husband.
20:45I don't have a husband.
20:47Whatever it is,
20:49even if it is my job,
20:51even if I don't have a husband,
20:53people will see me in a different way.
20:55Once, I rented a house.
20:57It was my 6th house.
20:59One year passed.
21:03I didn't have money
21:05to pay the advance.
21:07The actor
21:09himself
21:11gave me 20,000 rupees.
21:13At that time,
21:15I didn't have much work.
21:17I told him that
21:19I don't have to pay the advance.
21:21He gave me 25,000 rupees
21:23to pay the advance.
21:25I paid the advance.
21:27After a long time,
21:29that actor
21:31asked me
21:35to come to Munnar.
21:37He asked me
21:39to come to Munnar.
21:41He asked me to come.
21:43If I don't come,
21:45he will return the money.
21:49I told him that
21:51I don't want to come.
21:53I paid the advance.
21:55But I couldn't pay the advance.
21:57After a long time,
21:59I couldn't pay the advance.
22:03If I don't have a husband,
22:05I know very well
22:07how people will look at me.
22:09People look at me only for money.
22:11There are a lot of people.
22:13When I didn't have a husband,
22:15there were a lot of proposals.
22:17People younger than me,
22:19people of the same age,
22:21people of the same age.
22:23But I understood that
22:25only those people
22:27will leave me.
22:29They need me.
22:31When I talk to people,
22:33they say,
22:35that I am talking nonsense.
22:37But that is not a lie.
22:39I know that very well.
22:41In my life,
22:43it is not about that.
22:45I want to save my children.
22:47I want my husband.
22:49I want my children.
22:51I want a father.
22:53I want someone close to me.
22:55Life is not a child's play.
22:57I have experienced a lot.
22:59Like I said,
23:01when my daughter gets married tomorrow,
23:03when I ask her who is going to be with her,
23:05she says,
23:07her husband, her children,
23:09her father.
23:11That is the decision.
23:13That is the decision.
23:15I want my daughter.
23:17I want her to accept this proposal.
23:19What else do I need?
23:21In 2010,
23:23according to the ruling of the Supreme Court,
23:25any woman can live with any man
23:27in the society.
23:29The concept of adultery was changed.
23:31When the concept of adultery was changed,
23:33people had a misconception.
23:35I can do anything.
23:37That is what happened in this society.
23:39No matter what I do with anyone,
23:41no one can question me.
23:45Relationships have become contractual.
23:47Today, I met someone in college.
23:49I liked him.
23:51Next week, I met someone else.
23:53I went with him.
23:55People who try everything,
23:57forget one thing.
23:59If you have lived from tomorrow,
24:01there will be a repercussion
24:03for everything.
24:05People who say
24:07we have to try everything,
24:09we have to do everything,
24:11even in life,
24:13we have to try.
24:15If possible,
24:17try to live the right way.
24:19I am not becoming preachy,
24:21but the life I have seen
24:23they take things for granted.
24:25Living together is not wrong.
24:27Provided,
24:29you will support her more than her family.
24:31That is how living together is good.
24:33Marriage is
24:35a courage to take up a responsibility.
24:37I have two children.
24:39The first question is
24:41if I am ready to take up that responsibility.
24:43Yes, I am.
24:45They are my children. I have to take care of them.
24:47I went to Kannur
24:49and told my mother
24:51that I will take care of my children
24:53like my own daughter.
24:55I will take good care of them.
24:57The assurance I can give them is not that much.
24:59I tell my daughter
25:01that I will take care of my children.
25:03Only then
25:05can I assure her.
25:07What can I do more than that?
25:09I have to try to live today as a good person.
25:11I don't know about tomorrow.
25:13I don't know what tomorrow is.
25:15If I live today, I can live well.
25:17So, I will try my level best
25:19to live up to the expectations.
25:21Many times in my life,
25:23I have tried to live up to
25:25everyone's expectations.
25:27They have blamed me.
25:29But still, I will take a chance.
25:31It is not a chance. I know that.
25:33I am not the type of person
25:35who blames others
25:37and goes away.
25:39I am not that type of person.
25:41Whatever it is,
25:43like
25:45every human,
25:47we are also bound to go through
25:49problems.
25:51No matter how many problems we face,
25:53I have faith that you will be with me.
25:55Not only today, but also in the future.
25:57I am the same with my children.
25:59I want to ask you something.
26:01Was communication and
26:03conversations with your children
26:05very important at that time?
26:07How did you manage to do that?
26:09Thank you, mom.
26:11I don't have to say it.
26:13Well,
26:15my children
26:17were not born
26:19to a good father.
26:21I used to say that
26:23I don't have a good father.
26:25But now, I have a good father.
26:29When I came to know about this,
26:31I thought that
26:33it would be difficult
26:35for my children to call me dad.
26:37It would be difficult,
26:39even if they don't accept it.
26:41Before that, I have to say
26:43about my brother's mother.
26:45When I went home,
26:47I used to talk to her
26:49on the phone.
26:51She told me that
26:53her children were not born
26:55to a good father.
26:57She told me that
26:59she didn't want her children
27:01to get married.
27:03That's why she went to the temple
27:05and other places.
27:07After a while,
27:09I went there.
27:11I got married.
27:13Do you think so?
27:15Yes, I think so.
27:21My mother told me that
27:23she didn't get
27:25two children.
27:27That's the most important thing.
27:29But she got three children.
27:31Yes, she got three children.
27:33My father was fine.
27:35He was happy.
27:37My mother was happy.
27:39She told me that
27:41she didn't want her children
27:43to call me dad.
27:45My son asked me
27:47whether I should call him
27:49father or dad.
27:51I told him not to call him
27:53father.
27:55He told me to call him
27:57brother-in-law's father.
27:59She called me father.
28:01But they got married
28:03very soon.
28:05She has a very
28:07good heart.
28:09She sends me a message
28:11every day.
28:13Even if I send her a good morning,
28:15she sends me a message every day.
28:17She sends me a message
28:19every day.
28:21That's enough.
28:23Because I have everything
28:25in me.
28:27Every time
28:29when I talk to her
28:31and hang up the phone,
28:33the last dialogue
28:35we say
28:37Hare Krishna, God bless you.
28:39Love you.
28:41That dialogue
28:43will come to me
28:45no matter how much I sleep.
28:47He knows
28:49when I hang up the phone.
28:51Hare Krishna, God bless you.
28:53Love you.
28:55Good night.
28:57I have to say it every day.
28:59Wherever I am,
29:01I have to say it.
29:03That's the recognition
29:05she gives me.
29:07She calls me father.
29:09She has everything
29:11in her.
29:13Sometimes she sends me a message
29:15in the evening,
29:17asking me to have tea.
29:19My daughter feels like
29:21asking me that.
29:23Do her friends feel the same?
29:25Yes.
29:27She tells me
29:29how her friends call her.
29:31They know
29:33how much she loves her children.
29:35They watch her live.
29:37She says she doesn't have a father.
29:39I always ask her
29:41to call her father.
29:43She says she knows
29:45because her mother has told her.
29:49At the end of the day,
29:51you are artists.
29:53You have to pay attention
29:55to the way artists eat.
29:57Is that so?
29:59We don't pay attention.
30:01We don't pay attention.
30:03Do you cook?
30:05He cooks. I cook.
30:07Now we have to cook
30:09together.
30:11We have to help each other.
30:13Do you cook
30:15something special for him?
30:17Not like that.
30:19If I don't have food at home,
30:21my mother will cook for me.
30:23She can make Neer Dosa.
30:25I know that.
30:27Neer Dosa?
30:29Yes.
30:31She can make Neer Dosa.
30:33She can make great chutney.
30:35She can make great curries.
30:37She has made
30:39a lot of curries.
30:41It was good.
30:43When my mother was alive,
30:45I made a lot of curries.
30:47I was like a family.
30:49I had a life.
30:51If you get green papaya,
30:53you can make a lot of curries.
30:55It's a different style.
30:57It's a different taste.
30:59When I have time,
31:01I make kesari, gulab jamun, sweets.
31:03He can make gulab jamun and kesari.
31:05My daughter likes it.
31:07Are you a vegetarian?
31:09I am a vegetarian.
31:11He is a vegetarian.
31:13He likes to make chicken biriyani.
31:15I am not like that.
31:17When I go with him,
31:19I am not a vegetarian.
31:21My children like chicken.
31:23He is the one
31:25who buys me a lot of food.
31:27I don't buy food for him.
31:29He buys it for me.
31:31When I go out for shoots,
31:33he calls me Appa.
31:35He calls me Appa.
31:37He calls me Appa.
31:39He calls me Appa.
31:41He calls me Appa.
31:43He calls me Appa.
31:45He calls me Appa.
31:47He calls me Appa.
31:49Now,
31:51all the conversations will start.
31:53Appa, can I ask you a question?
31:55Inquisitive nature
31:57is something
31:59that an inborn child needs.
32:01They need to ask questions.
32:03The best thing about parenting
32:05is to answer the question
32:07if they don't know the answer.
32:09Try to be a good parent
32:11as much as you can.
32:13Last day,
32:15in a school in Ayur,
32:17I told a story
32:19to my children
32:21and parents.
32:23When a mother and her child
32:25were walking down the street,
32:27she saw a beggar.
32:29She said,
32:31if you don't study well,
32:33you will become like him.
32:35Another mother and her son
32:37were walking down the same street.
32:39She said,
32:41if you study well,
32:43you will be able to help
32:45the beggar.
32:47Perspective is the only difference.
32:49I want to be the second parent.
32:53I have a small doubt.
32:57Your old videos
32:59and interviews
33:01have a lot of reference materials
33:03in the media.
33:05Really?
33:07Yes.
33:09Did your son ask you
33:11any difficult questions?
33:13All questions are like that.
33:15There is no stupid question.
33:17There are only stupid answers.
33:23He asked,
33:25will there be a bathroom
33:27in Burj Khalifa in Dubai?
33:29I asked him,
33:31he said, there is no pipe outside.
33:33Which is true.
33:35In Indian construction style,
33:37all the buildings he saw
33:39had a pipe outside.
33:41What did he see?
33:43If there is a pipe outside,
33:45there is no bathroom in the whole of Burj Khalifa.
33:47Because there is no pipe outside.
33:49So, what is ducting?
33:51How does the sewage duct come?
33:53How does piping come?
33:55What is plumbing?
33:57This is probably an interesting
33:59nature to learn.
34:01I said, it is not like that.
34:03Because it goes through the duct
34:05inside.
34:07He has understood that.
34:09So, I asked him a question.
34:11He said,
34:13after going to the pet zoo,
34:15he is also comfortable
34:17when I hold a snake.
34:19We should be an example
34:21of what they should be.
34:23You should not go there.
34:25Why should we tell
34:27you not to go there?
34:29That parenting
34:31attitude is
34:33what I would like to follow.
34:35So,
34:37all this is over.
34:39Do you have any ideas
34:41on how to settle down in life?
34:43How to settle down?
34:45After marriage?
34:47After marriage,
34:49I have a husband,
34:51I have a family.
34:53Have you ever thought
34:55of discussing all this in the videos?
34:57Did you know that you would be called a cheetah?
34:59Yes, I knew that.
35:01But I never thought that they would call me a cheetah.
35:03Before I got married,
35:05I had told him
35:07not to feel anything,
35:09not to get tensed,
35:11that such comments would come.
35:13But in those comments,
35:15I was the one
35:17who got tensed.
35:19I was cool about it.
35:21In some comments,
35:23we noticed that
35:25you were 60 years old.
35:27We knew that
35:29it would come in the media.
35:31But not this much.
35:33Because, wherever I go,
35:35when I go to
35:37Ernakulam in Ernakulam,
35:39even the elderly people call me Muthasha.
35:41That is my character.
35:43Muthasha is the character
35:45of the serial that I do.
35:47I don't believe that it is me.
35:49I can't do anything.
35:51Maybe it is because I have done so well.
35:53But there is no chance that it would be me.
35:55Because, till now,
35:57apart from the audience,
35:59the technicians
36:01don't think it is a big deal.
36:03It is okay.
36:05There is a way to see it.
36:07Do you like this look?
36:09My friends
36:11and many other
36:13men
36:15tell me
36:17that it is a good look.
36:19They have asked
36:21about the beard.
36:23But,
36:25I don't understand
36:27the beard.
36:29What is wrong with the beard and hair?
36:33That is because
36:35of Shalini.
36:39Marriage material
36:41should be young.
36:43That is the concept.
36:45It is in our society.
36:47It is beautiful when the skin is white.
36:49It is beautiful when the hair is black.
36:51I don't know who brought all this.
36:53I don't believe.
36:55The most beautiful woman
36:57is Mother Teresa.
36:59Mother Teresa's face is
37:01completely dark.
37:03The best character
37:05is Mahatma Gandhi
37:07or Nelson Mandela.
37:09They both are dark.
37:11Rajinikanth is black.
37:13I like him a lot.
37:15Kamal Haasan is fair.
37:17I like the characters they play.
37:19I don't know the difference
37:21in hair color.
37:23I can't laugh
37:25when they talk about hair color.
37:27Many people
37:29don't like the beard.
37:33Swamiji in the temple
37:35said something wrong.
37:37He said,
37:39she is so beautiful.
37:41I didn't understand
37:43what he meant.
37:45There were hurtful comments.
37:47Was there?
37:49Let him say.
37:51Let him say.
37:53The worst
37:55perspective of a society
37:57is that
37:59I married Divya
38:01to get a daughter.
38:03I don't agree
38:05with the person
38:07who wrote that.
38:09I don't have the right
38:11to say bad things about my daughter.
38:13What he said is wrong.
38:15Because
38:17she is my daughter.
38:19I have never called
38:21any of my students
38:23bad.
38:25I have treated them like my own children.
38:27I wanted them to be happy.
38:29In that case,
38:31I don't have
38:33the right to
38:35marry a girl
38:37to win her heart.
38:39Because
38:41my parents name
38:43is at stake.
38:45I will not do that.
38:47If someone
38:49thinks like that,
38:51he should be treated as soon as possible.
38:53I feel sorry for that person.
38:55I don't want to say bad things.
38:57It is fun.
38:59I am 60 years old.
39:01I am 75 years old.
39:03It is a great thing
39:05to become a priest.
39:07I have never done that.
39:09I am a preacher.
39:11I am a writer.
39:13I am a book writer.
39:15What can you do?
39:17I have to remove my beard.
39:19I have to shave.
39:21Why should they shave?
39:23I am the one who should shave.
39:25I don't have any problem.
39:27I don't have to shave.
39:29They can't do anything.
39:31They can't do anything about it.
39:33Before it concludes,
39:35you came here.
39:37How is your life going to be?
39:39How are you going to change?
39:41Nothing.
39:43I am acting now.
39:45I have told them
39:47that after marriage,
39:49I will stop acting.
39:51I will stay at home.
39:53I will take care of the kids.
39:55I will cook food.
39:57I will become a housewife.
39:59I have such a wish.
40:01I told them not to stop acting.
40:03I told them not to stop
40:05after marriage.
40:07I told them
40:09what they should do.
40:11I told them not to do anything
40:13to change.
40:15I told them what they like.
40:19So,
40:21your life is going to be
40:23like this?
40:25In my opinion,
40:27my life will be like the world.
40:29I can't stay in one place.
40:31Yesterday was Thursday.
40:33Tomorrow is Thursday.
40:35You said you are going to take a class.
40:37I will take a class.
40:39People who know will know.
40:41People who don't know will not know.
40:43Where is the honeymoon?
40:45I have already told you the answer.
40:47Honeymoon?
40:49Everyday in my life.
40:51As you said,
40:53you are a happy couple.
40:55All your wishes are true.
40:57I wish you to be together
40:59for another 100 years.
41:01Another 100 years?
41:03You always say it is a honeymoon.
41:05No.
41:07I have calculated it.
41:09160 years.
41:11No one has lived that long.
41:13I believe I am 60 years old.
41:15All the best.
41:17Kids are a new beginning
41:19in life.
41:21All the best.
41:23Thank you for the time.
41:25Thank you very much.