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00:00 In the name of Allah, the most Gracious, the most Merciful.
00:07 All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
00:11 And peace and blessings be upon the Seal of the Prophets.
00:14 Respected viewers, peace and blessings of Allah be upon you.
00:18 Your host for today is Dr. Mehmet Waznavi,
00:22 the favorite scholar of all of us, Mr. Shijratuddin Shaikh.
00:30 Your channel is ARYQ TV.
00:33 We meet you every Friday and Saturday at 9pm.
00:37 This is a studio, but in reality it is a drawing room
00:43 where we sit and have a direct conversation.
00:45 There is no scripted program.
00:47 We discuss social issues, religion, and the light of the Prophet's biography.
00:55 You may remember that the last program was on the family system
00:59 and the relationship between husband and wife.
01:02 The fact is that the problems in our family system,
01:07 may Allah protect us,
01:09 are mostly due to the lack of cleanliness in the house,
01:15 the friction between husband and wife,
01:19 and the negative effects on children.
01:22 The reason for this is that we are moving away from the
01:26 religious guidelines in our marital relations and family system.
01:31 When we are going to follow the Sunnah of Nikah,
01:34 there is a Sunnah of Nikah and there are a thousand superstitions.
01:39 The result is that the little reward of Nikah is buried in a thousand superstitions.
01:45 The blessings are lost.
01:47 When we come home, the mothers of daughters,
01:52 now they have been bailed out,
01:54 the mothers of daughters explain to their husbands
01:56 what the status of their husbands is.
01:58 Now they explain to them,
01:59 "Don't stay in hiding from anyone, your father is a policeman."
02:02 Obviously, it is the attitude of a policeman.
02:05 We were discussing this.
02:07 We will take a recap of the previous program from Shuja Sahib.
02:10 And then we will move forward.
02:12 Assalamu Alaikum.
02:13 Walaikum Assalam.
02:14 How are you?
02:15 Alhamdulillah.
02:16 Are you well?
02:17 Yes, thanks to Allah.
02:18 I think that our generation,
02:21 which is the third generation,
02:25 we had heard that parents used to advise their daughters,
02:30 in fact they used to say such sentences,
02:33 "That is your home, now your mother will come from there,
02:35 may Allah protect you, may this not happen."
02:37 They used to say this so that the relationship of the daughter
02:40 would be less from the parents' side.
02:42 Now that is her real home, she can feel at home there.
02:44 So, if you don't come with your husband,
02:46 then never come, you have to bring him along.
02:48 It means that the relations should be strong.
02:50 Now it happens that,
02:51 "Look, don't stay in hiding, we are your five brothers,
02:55 your father is a policeman,
02:57 and you have your family behind you,
03:00 so don't be in hiding."
03:02 Then he hides so well that,
03:04 "Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajoo."
03:06 Astaghfirullah.
03:07 Yes, Doctor, JazakAllah Khair.
03:09 Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim.
03:10 Allahumma salli wa sallim 'ala nabiyyina Muhammad
03:13 Rabbi sharauh li sadri wa yassir li amri
03:15 wa hulul khudatam min lisani yafqahum qawli
03:18 baj'ali wazeeran min ahli.
03:20 Ameen, Ya Rabbil Alameen.
03:21 Yes, you have explained the point perfectly.
03:23 Now, you are saying that we should not be less than anyone,
03:26 we are your five brothers,
03:28 your father is in the institution of art,
03:30 and your father is in this institution,
03:32 so are we going to the wrestling pavilion?
03:35 Are we going to the wrestling ring?
03:37 Where are we going?
03:39 May Allah protect us.
03:40 What is the main point in this?
03:42 We should understand the divine scheme of Allah.
03:45 Allah sent man to the earth,
03:47 the first couple was Adam and Eve,
03:50 and as a result of their union,
03:52 the progeny and the caravan of the human race
03:54 kept on moving forward.
03:56 Now, if there is a refusal of marriage,
03:58 like many countries are now doing,
04:00 many societies are doing,
04:01 and the world is global,
04:03 and as a result of smart phones,
04:05 global disorder has entered every home,
04:07 and some people in Muslim societies
04:09 are refusing to marry.
04:11 This is not a natural thing.
04:12 Now, you ask the people of Japan,
04:14 ask the people of France,
04:16 the oldest people in the world are in these countries,
04:18 and the youth are less.
04:20 What is the reason?
04:21 The marriages are decreasing.
04:22 So, there will come a time when,
04:24 who will be left?
04:25 The old people.
04:26 And they will be of no use.
04:27 They will be of no use.
04:28 So, if we understand that
04:30 the caravan of the human race should move forward,
04:32 then it is necessary to tie the knot of marriage.
04:34 One thing is necessary.
04:35 It is not necessary to tie the knot,
04:37 it is necessary to keep it strong.
04:39 It is necessary to tie a well-trained knot.
04:41 Yes.
04:42 Not like animals,
04:43 that the child does not know
04:45 who is his father, who is his mother,
04:47 and who will train him.
04:49 Absolutely.
04:50 Then, what is the next thing?
04:52 Man and woman are two people.
04:55 They have their own circumstances,
04:57 their own temperaments,
04:59 their own physique.
05:00 This is a matter of stupidity,
05:01 which talks about being equal.
05:03 This is a matter of stupidity,
05:04 this is a matter of ignorance.
05:05 This is a non-natural thing.
05:06 It is not possible, right?
05:07 That you consider man and woman to be exactly equal.
05:09 This is wrong.
05:10 Anyway, Allah is the creator of both.
05:12 Allah is the creator of man and woman.
05:14 Does Allah know about his creation?
05:16 Allah says,
05:18 "Does Allah not know about the One who created?"
05:21 So, Allah knows very well
05:22 what are the limitations of man,
05:24 what are his emotions,
05:25 what are his feelings.
05:26 What are the limitations of woman,
05:27 what are her emotions,
05:28 what are her feelings.
05:29 If we follow the teachings of the Creator,
05:31 which His Prophet (pbuh) taught us,
05:33 then our families will be very good.
05:37 And, Alhamdulillah, we are Muslims.
05:40 I said a few days ago,
05:41 that we will be treated like non-Muslims,
05:43 who are deniers of the Creator of the Universe.
05:45 You and I are Muslims,
05:46 and we believe in Allah the most.
05:49 We believe in the Prophet (pbuh)
05:51 as the Imam of all Prophets.
05:53 We believe in the Holy Quran as the Book of Guidance.
05:56 We have the example of the Prophet (pbuh) with us.
05:58 This is the title of our program,
06:00 "Illa qad kaha nalakum fee rasoolillahi uswatun hasana"
06:03 So, we have such a great treasure of guidance and guidance,
06:07 that we need to refer to it.
06:10 If these things are clear,
06:12 then the group of the human race will move forward.
06:14 You see it in another way.
06:16 In the last program, we talked about
06:18 the woman's responsibilities.
06:19 Agree.
06:20 You think,
06:21 if a man has to wash his clothes from outside,
06:24 has to order food from outside,
06:26 and has to do other things from outside,
06:28 then how strange it will be.
06:30 "Khawateen naraz nao"
06:31 I want to say,
06:32 what a system Allah has given to these two,
06:35 husband and wife,
06:36 that if this woman works,
06:38 then for the man and for the whole society,
06:40 how much economic point of view,
06:42 how much economic point of view,
06:44 if a woman thinks,
06:45 if she goes out,
06:46 she has to face men,
06:48 has to face difficulties,
06:50 has to face high, low, high, low,
06:52 has to face the world,
06:54 has to face so many difficulties,
06:56 but if she understands,
06:58 she has been made the queen of the house,
07:01 and she has been given the responsibility of taking care of the house,
07:06 and she has been given the responsibility of taking care of the house,
07:08 then how good her life will be.
07:09 She should be thankful.
07:10 She should be thankful.
07:11 If we see it in this way,
07:12 we are talking about the principles,
07:14 the exceptional things are different,
07:15 if you marry someone's husband,
07:16 he is your father, he is your brother,
07:17 that woman will have to earn,
07:19 if she has hard times,
07:20 then she will have to earn,
07:21 then the rules of Satar Hijab,
07:23 she should take care of those,
07:24 those are the rules of exceptions,
07:26 what are the rules?
07:27 The man should be made the ruler,
07:30 the work outside should be his responsibility,
07:32 the wife should be made the queen of the house,
07:34 and the homemaker should be made,
07:36 and the future generation,
07:38 the one who is to be the leader,
07:39 should be the one who has brought her in the lap,
07:41 so that the mother's love,
07:43 compassion,
07:44 sympathy,
07:45 all these emotions should be transferred to the children.
07:48 So if we see this divine scheme,
07:50 and if we follow the teachings of Allah and His Prophet,
07:53 then our matters will be better,
07:56 and the situations of disputes and disputes,
07:58 will be minimized,
07:59 they will not end.
08:00 Keep this in mind.
08:01 In lakhs of houses,
08:02 there will be a problem of 2-4 houses.
08:04 Subhan Allah.
08:05 That is why Allah has given the permission for divorce,
08:08 according to the blessed hadith,
08:10 divorce is not liked among the lawful things,
08:16 but Allah knows,
08:17 He is the Creator,
08:18 that at some point of no return,
08:20 the wife or the husband can divorce.
08:24 If we follow this divine scheme,
08:26 with full objectivity,
08:28 with purpose,
08:30 then each and every commandment,
08:31 is very beautiful in our matters,
08:33 and in terms of improving our families.
08:36 Some of the things that we are discussing,
08:39 are only because,
08:40 the family system,
08:42 if it is run in the light of the Seerat-e-Tayyabah,
08:44 and in the light of religion,
08:46 then many men get irritated.
08:48 Nowadays, it is the time of inflation,
08:50 and the expenses have increased a lot,
08:52 and one man is going to earn,
08:56 and if four or five are going to eat,
08:58 then it becomes more difficult.
09:00 So the man is irritated,
09:02 I have earned and died,
09:04 what should I do,
09:06 I have become this, I have become that,
09:08 you have not become anything.
09:10 You just think about one thing,
09:12 that the way of Allah,
09:14 is that He does not put as much burden on a person,
09:18 as He can bear.
09:20 If Allah has put this burden on you,
09:24 then it means that,
09:26 first you have created the strength to bear it.
09:28 You have created so much energy,
09:32 that you can bear this burden.
09:34 Then Allah has put the burden on you.
09:36 This is the way of Allah.
09:38 Women should also think,
09:40 I have become so arrogant,
09:42 Allah has created the ability for me,
09:44 so He has put it on me.
09:46 When we think that Allah has given us strength,
09:48 I think that if there is a problem,
09:50 I say that Allah has never put more strength on anyone,
09:52 than He has created energy in me,
09:54 which has put me in a problem.
09:56 That bear it.
09:58 And if we also think that,
10:00 I am working day and night for these children,
10:02 I am tired, I am exhausted,
10:04 I have stopped eating and drinking.
10:06 So, Allah has given me this responsibility,
10:08 this is a charity,
10:10 it is my responsibility to take care of them,
10:12 Allah will reward me for it.
10:14 Then the matter will end automatically.
10:16 - You were saying the same thing in the verse of the Holy Quran,
10:18 "Allah does not burden a soul,
10:20 except by its capacity."
10:22 Allah gives responsibility to every human being,
10:24 according to his capacity.
10:26 He is the Creator,
10:28 so He is responsible for everything.
10:30 He is the Creator,
10:32 so He has the same responsibility,
10:34 as He has given capacity to the human being.
10:36 So, it should never happen that,
10:38 if there is a problem, we get upset,
10:40 but, "Allah sabar ke dhaane ham par khol de"
10:42 "Allah opens the doors of patience upon us"
10:44 And Allah Himself says,
10:46 "ista'eenu bi sabri was sala"
10:48 "Get help through patience and prayer"
10:50 These are big things,
10:52 we are only talking about the house,
10:54 otherwise patience is also in Taif.
10:56 So, patience is in the field of Uhud,
10:58 and help through patience is also in Badr,
11:00 and in Uhud.
11:02 These are big things.
11:04 I will say one more thing from my heart,
11:06 in the last program,
11:08 we said that,
11:10 today our Nikah is difficult,
11:12 we should know the details of the Nikah of the Prophet (pbuh)
11:14 We should know the details of the Nikah
11:16 of the Companions (pbuh)
11:18 We should see the details of the Nikah
11:20 of the Ahl-e-Bayt-e-Athar
11:22 There was a very big mission,
11:24 Nikah was easy.
11:26 These are minor things,
11:28 Nikah was easy,
11:30 establishing the family,
11:32 these are small things.
11:34 We left the mission,
11:36 so these small things are not even possible.
11:38 The mission was very big,
11:40 the effort was very high,
11:42 the efforts were very high,
11:44 the standards of patience were very high,
11:46 Nikah was easy.
11:48 Today we left that effort,
11:50 we should know the details of the Nikah of the Prophet (pbuh)
11:52 We should know the details of the Nikah
11:54 of the Ahl-e-Bayt-e-Athar
11:56 We left the mission,
11:58 so the family was like a battlefield,
12:00 the society was like a battlefield,
12:02 we should fight each other,
12:04 we should not be jealous of each other,
12:06 we should not be angry with each other,
12:08 we should not hate each other,
12:10 we should not be jealous of each other,
12:12 we should not be angry with each other,
12:14 we should not be jealous of each other,
12:16 we should not be angry with each other,
12:18 we should not be jealous of each other,
12:20 because the Prophet (pbuh)
12:22 is the Messenger of Allah.
12:24 "And those who are with him are the most severe against the disbelievers,
12:26 and the most merciful among them."
12:28 The companions of the Prophet (pbuh)
12:30 are very severe against the disbelievers,
12:32 one meaning is that their grief and anger
12:34 comes out on the disbelievers,
12:36 and another meaning is that the retaliation
12:38 coming from the disbelievers
12:40 is a very firm step against it.
12:42 What is in between?
12:44 "And the most merciful among them."
12:46 If the anger of the enemies of the religion
12:48 is in the heart,
12:50 then our efforts and anger
12:52 will come out there,
12:54 here there will be mercy.
12:56 Today there is no mercy,
12:58 there is no hatred of the enemies of the religion,
13:00 there is no pain on the religion,
13:02 so the anger will come out somewhere.
13:04 It is coming out on the wives,
13:06 on the children, on the parents,
13:08 on the servants, on the imam of the mosque,
13:10 on the worshippers of the mosque,
13:12 on the children of the neighborhood.
13:14 This is wrong.
13:16 If we do not do this,
13:18 then these small issues will be solved.
13:20 In the family system,
13:22 as was said earlier,
13:24 this is the first relationship
13:26 of husband and wife,
13:28 through which the family is formed.
13:30 The Prophet (pbuh) was an example of a husband in this world.
13:32 So until we see the responsibilities
13:34 of the Prophet (pbuh) as a husband,
13:36 we will not understand the matter
13:38 until then,
13:40 so let's take a break and then we will talk.
13:42 Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh
13:44 After the break,
13:46 we will continue with the story of the Prophet (pbuh)
13:48 and his good deeds.
13:50 The first relationship of the world
13:52 is the relationship of husband and wife,
13:54 then the family,
13:56 and after the family,
13:58 after the tribes,
14:00 after the nations,
14:02 all the matters progress.
14:04 But the fundamental relationship is the same
14:06 which Allah established between
14:08 Adam and Eve.
14:10 This was the first relationship of the universe.
14:12 The Prophet (pbuh)
14:14 has established many relations
14:16 of marriage.
14:18 And you have equal treatment
14:20 with everyone.
14:22 You are an example of a husband.
14:24 And do you know what is an example of a husband?
14:26 I have learned some things
14:28 from the biography of the Prophet (pbuh)
14:30 that
14:32 a woman should feel
14:34 peace with her husband,
14:36 trust in him,
14:38 and
14:40 the comfort of his heart.
14:42 An example of a husband
14:44 is the responsibility of these three things.
14:46 Yes.
14:48 What is the Prophet's (pbuh)
14:50 saying? Allah is giving
14:52 a certification.
14:54 "And you are of the highest moral character."
14:56 You are the highest moral character.
14:58 "I have certainly given you in the Messenger of Allah
15:00 a good example."
15:02 People are certainly
15:04 the best example of the life
15:06 of the Prophet (pbuh) for you.
15:08 "And you are of the highest moral character."
15:10 "And you do not say anything
15:12 to yourself,
15:14 but Allah says it."
15:16 You have been told three times
15:18 "And you follow only
15:20 what Allah says to you."
15:22 I follow only what Allah says to me.
15:24 Remember one principle.
15:26 The Prophet (pbuh)
15:28 is the best husband,
15:30 the best father,
15:32 the best friend,
15:34 the best addresser,
15:36 the best judge,
15:38 the best judge.
15:40 However, the greatest glory of the Prophet (pbuh)
15:42 is that he is the Messenger of Allah.
15:44 And this is the relationship
15:46 with which I have given
15:48 four points in the Holy Quran.
15:50 Allah is saying at the highest moral level.
15:52 He is the Creator of the universe.
15:54 And the best example of you is
15:56 that the Creator is saying.
15:58 He is saying according to the revelation.
16:00 And he does according to the revelation.
16:02 Now this is only the characteristic of the Prophet (pbuh)
16:04 that your whole life is divinely certified.
16:06 According to the revelation.
16:08 And yes,
16:10 now what you said,
16:12 the aspect of protection and
16:14 the aspect of peace.
16:16 This is very natural.
16:18 The Holy Quran says in Surah Rum,
16:20 verse 21, Allah says
16:22 "Allah has made your partners
16:24 to be peace to them,
16:26 so that you may go to your partner
16:28 and obtain peace."
16:30 So this relationship of husband and wife,
16:32 has a big purpose of obtaining peace.
16:34 And yes,
16:36 where there is the objective of obtaining peace,
16:38 there is also the objective of protecting the modesty.
16:40 And there,
16:42 the objective of obtaining children is also required.
16:44 This is mentioned in the Holy Quran.
16:46 The objective of protecting the modesty is this.
16:48 The objective of obtaining children is also required.
16:50 And the big purpose of Nikah is to find peace.
16:52 To find the means of peace.
16:54 Today, the world is in an artificial world.
16:56 I don't know where,
16:58 it is looking for peace in an unnatural way.
17:00 In the ways of adultery,
17:02 in the ways of immorality,
17:04 in the ways of satanic acts.
17:06 Allah says, "I have given peace to your wife
17:08 at your doorstep."
17:10 And the dress of the Holy Quran,
17:12 "Hunna libaasul lakum,
17:14 wa antum libaasul lahunna."
17:16 In Surah Al-Baqarah,
17:18 "You are the dress for your husbands,
17:20 and you are the dress for your wives."
17:22 And the dress becomes the means of peace.
17:24 So, peace and protection.
17:26 Allah has also declared the man as a Qawwam.
17:28 In Surah Al-Baqarah, Chapter 34,
17:30 "Ar-rijalu qawwamuna 'alam nisa
17:32 bima fadhal lahu ba'dahum 'ala ba'din
17:34 wabi ma anfaqoo."
17:36 Allah has declared the men as Qawwam.
17:38 Qawwam means ruler.
17:40 Qawwam means to be a regulator,
17:42 to be a guardian.
17:44 As it is mentioned in Hadith Mubarak,
17:46 "Syedul qawmi khadimun."
17:48 The leader of the nation is the servant of the nation.
17:50 Similarly, the head of the house.
17:52 Who is the ruler of the house?
17:54 Allah has made the man.
17:56 Allah has also said,
17:58 in Surah Nisa, Verse 34,
18:00 "bima fadhal lahu ba'dahum 'ala ba'din
18:02 wabi ma anfaqoo."
18:04 Allah has given the authority to some
18:06 over others, physically and otherwise.
18:08 And that they spend from their wealth.
18:10 So, who is responsible for spending?
18:12 The husband.
18:14 As we have said before,
18:16 both need to be married.
18:18 The husband has to distribute the dowry.
18:20 The husband has to pay the dowry.
18:22 The husband has to take care of the child.
18:24 The husband has to fulfill all the needs.
18:26 So, in this regard,
18:28 the responsibility of protection,
18:30 protection from the effects of the weather,
18:32 food, clothing, housing,
18:34 and medicine,
18:36 all these are included in the
18:38 but natural aspect of marriage.
18:40 So, it is a matter of peace.
18:42 Similarly, the protection.
18:44 - A third thing, Shahid Afar Mad.
18:46 - Subhan Allah.
18:48 - Without this, a married life
18:50 cannot be lived.
18:52 - And especially for women.
18:54 Forgive me, I am saying a sentence.
18:56 It is not good, but I am just saying it.
18:58 Half of the life is spent
19:00 in the search of a wife's husband
19:02 and half of the life is spent
19:04 in doubting him.
19:06 - Subhan Allah. No, this is important
19:08 on both sides. And I will tell you
19:10 a matter of the heart. It is bitter.
19:12 Nowadays, we all use smartphones.
19:14 And there is a concept of
19:16 putting a lock on a smartphone.
19:18 Lock nowadays comes from fingerprints,
19:20 or from face expressions,
19:22 or it is a passcode of a digit.
19:24 So, there is a gentleman,
19:26 a very good scholar,
19:28 from Malaysia,
19:30 a reverted Muslim,
19:32 he accepted Islam,
19:34 and he also obtained religious education.
19:36 In a public speech, he was saying,
19:38 "I have two smartphones,
19:40 and my wife knows the passcode of both."
19:42 He said, "I have two smartphones,
19:44 and my wife knows the passcode
19:46 of both."
19:48 He said,
19:50 "I have two smartphones,
19:52 and my wife knows the passcode
19:54 of both."
19:56 I should say in his speech
19:58 that nowadays,
20:00 the trust between husband and wife
20:02 is also a sign
20:04 that both their smartphones
20:06 are open to each other.
20:08 If there is a necessity
20:10 to lock,
20:12 then both know
20:14 the passcode.
20:16 What all they saw,
20:18 where they went,
20:20 which websites, channels,
20:22 they visited,
20:24 they can check the history of each other.
20:26 If this is happening,
20:28 then today, in the year 2024,
20:30 I am saying,
20:32 this is a sign of mutual trust.
20:34 I know the next thing from this.
20:36 Sir,
20:38 history gets deleted.
20:40 So, it is fine.
20:42 Ask your heart,
20:44 it is not a problem.
20:46 This is basically related to
20:48 the intention of the heart.
20:50 Since I have started
20:52 keeping my phone,
20:54 there has never been a passcode on my phone.
20:56 Same here.
20:58 There is no passcode.
21:00 My wife uses my phone,
21:02 my daughter uses it,
21:04 my sister uses it,
21:06 I am not at home,
21:08 my children use my phone.
21:10 And often it happens that
21:12 the chat system is open.
21:14 Obviously,
21:16 there is no such thing
21:18 where there is a problem.
21:20 See, whoever wants to see,
21:22 see the history,
21:24 till date, there is no passcode.
21:26 I never felt the need to put a passcode.
21:28 If someone is stealing,
21:30 if someone is committing adultery,
21:32 then passcode is also there.
21:34 There is no passcode.
21:36 Let us see one more aspect.
21:38 The word 'libaas' that Allah has used,
21:40 this is so vast.
21:42 Vast is the word.
21:44 One is 'libaas',
21:46 now see, if it is a little cold,
21:48 you must have worn a sweater.
21:50 I have worn relatively thick clothes.
21:52 I am a little weak.
21:54 Even in weakness,
21:56 the clothes are a little thick.
21:58 So now what is there?
22:00 To save from the severity of the cold,
22:02 I have worn thick clothes.
22:04 You have used clothes plus sweater.
22:06 Someone took a jacket.
22:08 This gives peace.
22:10 Husband and wife,
22:12 the reason for peace and comfort.
22:14 Doctor, do you cover the clothes?
22:16 Yes, I hide it.
22:18 [Hindi]
22:20 That is the will of Allah.
22:22 In this sense,
22:24 if I have a cut here,
22:26 if there is a wound here,
22:28 it is covered,
22:30 it is hidden.
22:32 Then it hides my 'barhanagi'.
22:34 'Barhanagi' is both physical
22:36 and psychological.
22:38 So this 'libas' covers it.
22:40 So what will husband and wife become for each other?
22:42 They will cover each other.
22:44 And if there is a mistake,
22:46 they will try to hide it.
22:48 This is a very deep thing.
22:50 If there is a mistake,
22:52 then not even for the sake of suspicion,
22:54 but by dealing with each other,
22:56 they will become a means of protecting
22:58 each other's modesty.
23:00 These are very deep things in 'libas'.
23:02 So without trust,
23:04 this relationship
23:06 cannot work.
23:08 And yes,
23:10 which is the biggest
23:12 disciple of Satan
23:14 with whom Satan is happy?
23:16 The one who makes
23:18 husband and wife not agree.
23:20 This is a Hadith of Muslim Sharif.
23:22 Satan sets up his court on the sea.
23:24 His disciples and agents come
23:26 and present their deeds.
23:28 One stands up and says,
23:30 "I have put a disloyalty in husband and wife."
23:32 This disloyalty can go to the extreme
23:34 like divorce, fight,
23:36 disloyalty, enmity, whatever you say.
23:38 So Satan says,
23:40 "Okay, he stands up and hugs this agent
23:42 that you have fulfilled the right of my
23:44 'janashini'."
23:46 So the first attack of Satan
23:48 on 'libas' is the incident of
23:50 Amma Abba and Adam (AS)
23:52 and on the modesty of humans.
23:54 And Satan wants to break this family system.
23:56 See how far it has come.
23:58 Today the family system is being destroyed.
24:00 So Satan is happy.
24:02 And he is happy with that agent
24:04 who is trying to destroy the family system
24:06 by creating disloyalty in husband and wife.
24:08 He is trying to destroy the families.
24:10 So without trust, we cannot survive.
24:12 Without trust, we cannot face Satan.
24:14 Without trust, we cannot empower each other.
24:16 Without trust, we cannot save this family.
24:18 And without trust,
24:20 what will we raise our children?
24:22 Without trust,
24:24 what will we raise our children?
24:26 See, there will be no agreement
24:28 between the parents.
24:30 There will be no love.
24:32 There will be no atmosphere
24:34 of laughter and smiles.
24:36 There will be a tense atmosphere.
24:38 So the children will be like what they are now.
24:40 Absolutely. They will be in a bad mood.
24:42 And what you have said,
24:44 there will be a tense atmosphere at home.
24:46 So there will be tension.
24:48 Will the small children not have heart problems?
24:50 Will the small children not have mental problems?
24:52 Will the small children not have psychological problems?
24:54 What is the problem?
24:56 There will be many other reasons.
24:58 One reason is that the tense atmosphere at home
25:00 is teaching them tension, frustration,
25:02 depression, hypertension and many other things.
25:04 How much we are doing
25:06 the destruction for ourselves
25:08 by forgetting the divine teachings.
25:10 Psychological problems arise.
25:12 Family problems arise.
25:14 The future generation is in frustration.
25:16 There is a difference between husband and wife.
25:18 And if there is no love,
25:20 there is no love.
25:22 Forgive me,
25:24 I may not like this.
25:26 If there is no fight
25:28 and no disagreement
25:30 between you,
25:32 it means there is no love.
25:34 You are living an imaginary life.
25:36 You are a robot.
25:38 You are living an imaginary life.
25:40 He said, look at the moon,
25:42 how beautiful it is.
25:44 You also said that the moon is beautiful.
25:46 Let's take a break and then we will talk.
25:48 Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh.
25:50 Welcome back to Seeratun Nabi.
25:52 How are you?
25:54 This 100% agreement of opinion
25:56 cannot take a step forward in life.
25:58 This whole universe
26:00 is moving ahead
26:02 with disagreement.
26:04 I said this is not like this.
26:06 It will not be like this.
26:08 I will say, look at the moon,
26:10 how beautiful it is.
26:12 The conversation is over.
26:14 He said, the night is very cold.
26:16 Yes, it is cold.
26:18 It is over.
26:20 Such cold nights are common.
26:22 You must be feeling cold,
26:24 I am not.
26:26 Then the matter will be a mess.
26:28 And when the matter will be a mess,
26:30 there will be disagreement,
26:32 tension,
26:34 then a beauty will be born in life.
26:36 Disagreement should never be considered bad.
26:38 It is a sign of goodness.
26:40 Look, there are two or three aspects.
26:42 We are human beings.
26:44 A human being thinks, thinks,
26:46 his thoughts are there.
26:48 If there is a loss,
26:50 then it is a different matter.
26:52 So, disagreement is natural.
26:54 We are not stone-hearted people.
26:56 Emotions and feelings are not like humans.
26:58 There is a sense.
27:00 Yes, stones also have a sense.
27:02 That Satoon-e-Handana,
27:04 that poem,
27:06 when it was presented
27:08 to the Prophet (pbuh)
27:10 Anyway, we are not human beings.
27:12 Humans are not stone.
27:14 Humans have heart, emotions and feelings.
27:16 This is one thing.
27:18 And the second thing is that
27:20 people say that there is nothing in our house.
27:22 They lie.
27:24 I have a doubt.
27:26 I am sure that they are lying.
27:28 I think that you are angels.
27:30 You are not human.
27:32 We will see in our tradition,
27:34 we will see their incidents.
27:36 What is the beauty of it?
27:38 The beauty is that how those matters were tackled.
27:40 To study the life of the Prophet (pbuh)
27:42 I am not narrating any incident.
27:44 Now, people are not able to tolerate.
27:46 They will not be able to tolerate.
27:48 Otherwise, the Prophet's (pbuh)
27:50 wives and daughters-in-law
27:52 also had some light-hearted matters.
27:54 You read it yourself.
27:56 And those scholars who have faith,
27:58 should have faith, read it.
28:00 If we narrate it publicly,
28:02 people are not able to tolerate.
28:04 But Allah has made the Prophet (pbuh)
28:06 an example for humans.
28:08 He is an example for us.
28:10 If there is coldness in the relationship
28:12 of a husband and wife,
28:14 then the Prophet's (pbuh)
28:16 life is also cold.
28:18 If these matters were not there,
28:20 how would we know how the Prophet
28:22 tackled these matters.
28:24 What is the beauty?
28:26 These things will be there.
28:28 They have to be tackled in a better way.
28:30 And the Prophet's (pbuh)
28:32 example will be taken from there.
28:34 If Allah has given children,
28:36 then, for example,
28:38 if we say that we should solve
28:40 the problem of children,
28:42 then we should come to the drawing
28:44 room and talk to the whole family.
28:46 And if someone's house is small,
28:48 then it is okay.
28:50 The children will go to school in the
28:52 morning, and then they will talk.
28:54 The children will sleep at night,
28:56 and then they will talk.
28:58 But not in front of them.
29:00 This also has a negative impact on the children.
29:02 They should be careful.
29:04 And usually, they take the side of the mother.
29:06 Then there is a storm of misbehavior
29:08 in the house, which destroys the family.
29:10 Anyway, what I mean to say is
29:12 that it is not a big deal to solve these issues.
29:14 They have to be tackled in a better way.
29:16 And the Prophet's (pbuh)
29:18 gave very beautiful
29:20 and beautiful hadiths about it.
29:22 For example, the Prophet (pbuh)
29:24 said that no husband should
29:26 hate his wife.
29:28 If he does not like
29:30 one thing, one action,
29:32 one act, then he should
29:34 look for it.
29:36 And then he will become
29:38 a source of love and
29:40 love for his wife.
29:42 Look for it.
29:44 If a husband gives his wife
29:46 to his mother, father,
29:48 brothers, and sisters,
29:50 and leaves them to their
29:52 own comforts, and says two
29:54 words to her, then he
29:56 gives her to her for the rest of her life.
29:58 This is a small sacrifice.
30:00 Husbands should think about it.
30:02 Similarly, wives should also think about it.
30:04 Until the Prophet (pbuh) got married,
30:06 he was free.
30:08 He earned money.
30:10 On the 25th, he spent
30:12 all his money on
30:14 clothes, travel,
30:16 and other things.
30:18 When he got married,
30:20 he lost his hair.
30:22 His parents said that
30:24 he should cut his hair.
30:26 He should tie his hair.
30:28 He should get married.
30:30 Wives should also think about it.
30:32 It is easy to earn money
30:34 in small towns.
30:36 You are a family man.
30:38 I am a family man.
30:40 We meet many people.
30:42 We all know the financial crisis.
30:44 We all know the financial crisis.
30:46 40,000 passports were made
30:48 in Pakistan daily in 2023.
30:50 The situation has gone further.
30:52 65 lakh passports were made
30:54 in Pakistan in 2023.
30:56 More than 8 lakh people
30:58 left Pakistan.
31:00 It is not easy to earn money.
31:02 Wives should think about it.
31:04 Husband works hard all day.
31:06 He listens to his boss.
31:08 He works hard in summer.
31:10 He listens to people's taunts.
31:12 He fights with people.
31:14 He earns money and returns home.
31:16 He tries to fulfill his needs
31:18 with the help of Allah.
31:20 We should not underestimate him.
31:22 If we see each other's positive side,
31:24 then, God willing,
31:26 we will have more trust
31:28 and respect for each other.
31:30 It will be easier to tackle the issues.
31:32 Both sides are responsible.
31:34 Both sides are responsible.
31:36 Husband should think about it.
31:38 If my wife was not at home,
31:40 I would have to pay
31:42 the maid,
31:44 the washer,
31:46 the sweeper,
31:48 the cook,
31:50 the ironer,
31:52 the washer,
31:54 the cleaner,
31:56 the maid,
31:58 the maid,
32:00 the cook,
32:02 the washer,
32:04 the ironer,
32:06 the washer,
32:08 the cook,
32:10 the washer,
32:12 the cleaner,
32:14 the washer,
32:16 the ironer,
32:18 the washer,
32:20 the cook,
32:22 the washer,
32:24 10% of the food is provided by the husband, otherwise 5% is provided by the wife.
32:30 But even that husband is not able to provide the food.
32:33 He is left with only an idea of how much food he can get for his children.
32:40 And he decides to let his kids live on Bun Kebabs.
32:43 If the husband and wife ever realise their role in the family,
32:46 they will realise that they are both making sacrifices but no one is aware of it.
32:51 If they keep an eye on each other's sacrifices, sacrifices and qualities,
32:58 then the small issues will be settled and will be resolved.
33:06 In short, although it is a difficult matter for 10-20% of the society,
33:12 no one is aware that the wife washes clothes, cooks food and does everything.
33:18 In my family, this is not the case. Allah has given my husband a lot.
33:22 In my family, two maids work, two maids work, so what is there for my husband?
33:27 His credit is also going to him.
33:29 Yes, so this is what needs to be seen.
33:31 And the second thing is that if Allah has given you financial prosperity through your husband,
33:35 and two or one employee is working in your house,
33:39 then consider it as Allah's blessing that you treat him with this,
33:43 then Allah will bless you with his blessings.
33:46 And the second thing is that if you have got the opportunity through these works,
33:51 then pay more attention to the upbringing of your children.
33:54 And if Allah has given you ease in that too, then there are millions of children in this nation,
33:59 you should also worry about them.
34:01 Allah has given the qualities of softness, gentleness, gentleness, compassion and sympathy to the woman,
34:13 this is very important for upbringing.
34:16 So if someone gets the opportunity from here,
34:19 then see how the creation of God can be useful in fulfilling religious beliefs,
34:24 keeping in mind the commandments of the veil, see that.
34:28 And if there is a department like teaching, upbringing,
34:33 spending time with children and making them follow the religion,
34:38 and if the whole nation is morally correct, then these will be the most important matters.
34:43 And this will happen only when the whole divine scheme will be in front of us,
34:47 then inshallah our families will be better,
34:50 and because our families are better, other families will also get better.
34:55 In this I will add, with your permission,
34:58 sometimes when there are fights in the families,
35:01 then who will resolve it, angels will come from above.
35:04 There will be some elders, some ladies, who will have good experiences,
35:08 and who will have been given the opportunity by Allah,
35:11 opportunity is very important, so they will go and resolve their fights.
35:15 So there will be a lot to do, even if there are two servants in your house.
35:20 All these things are necessary to improve the home environment.
35:24 All these things we are saying because the home environment will be peaceful,
35:29 mentally the husband and wife will be relaxed,
35:33 then they will think about the future, what to do,
35:36 they will keep fighting among themselves, forgive me,
35:39 they will keep fighting, so they will think about the next phase.
35:42 When you will be better than your home environment, then the ways of progress will open up.
35:47 Otherwise, if there is tension in the house,
35:50 like if you know that you have to go home in the evening,
35:52 so someone's face will be made, you will say, "make food",
35:55 so they will make a face, instead of making food,
35:59 so what will happen, there will be tension,
36:01 so they will not be able to decide what to do in the next morning.
36:05 They will be relaxed at home and think about the next phase,
36:08 or tomorrow they will think about a new task,
36:11 they will think about the work of religion, planning,
36:14 office work, work of progress, all these things are related to mental peace.
36:19 If they are not there, then there will be no pleasure of worship,
36:25 no pleasure of household chores, no attention in the matters of livelihood,
36:30 no worry of fixing the matter with the creation of God.
36:33 They will fight with their family in the morning,
36:36 even after going to the office, they will talk all fall,
36:39 they will listen to everything, they will not be interested in work,
36:42 the work will be upside down, they will keep on getting slaps from above,
36:46 they will not know what is happening,
36:49 and it is possible that they will have to give up their job.
36:52 This situation will be there at home,
36:54 if the boys leave in the morning, then the work will be bad,
36:57 things will be thrown away, children will get angry,
37:00 the house will not be a house,
37:02 but it will become a port,
37:04 where some people will come, stay and pass by.
37:07 Absolutely, may Allah have mercy on us.
37:09 We have said all this because if the houses are strong,
37:13 then the society will be strong.
37:16 There is a very good couplet,
37:18 "My God, at least make me so much content,
37:22 the house in which I live, make it a home".
37:26 Yes, there is a big difference between a house and a home.
37:31 Now think that your house has to be made a home,
37:34 and in the light of the Seerah.
37:37 So, my message for you for today's program was
37:40 that try to make a house a home,
37:42 the society will continue to develop on its own.
37:45 I would request Shri Raj Sahib to give the hadith of today's program,
37:48 then we will leave.
37:49 In this sequence, the blessed hadith is in the heart,
37:52 Allah's Messenger (pbuh) said,
37:54 "Khairukum khairukum li ahlihi, wa ana khairukum li ahlihi".
37:57 There is a narration in Jamia Tirmidhi,
37:59 the Prophet (pbuh) said,
38:01 "The best of you are those who are best for their family,
38:05 and I am the best for my family".
38:09 So, we have to work hard in our homes,
38:12 may Allah grant us the opportunity to do so.
38:14 And with this, our time for today's program has come to an end.
38:17 For the next program,
38:18 I would like to take permission from Shujauddin Sheikh and his guest, Dr. Mehmood Ghaznavi.
38:22 May Allah be with you.
38:23 Wa-Salamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakatuhu.
38:25 As-salāmu 'alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
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