Woman gets her ex-boyfriend back after she signed up for text service which told her exactly what to do

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A woman got her ex-boyfriend back after she signed up for a daily text service which told her exactly what to do - and now they are happily married and have a toddler.  Natalie Iraola, 28, felt her partner, Diego, 32, was “the one” despite only knowing him for two months and was crushed when their relationship ended.   The pair - who met through mutual friends at a house party in May 2014 - had decided to split after moving in together and finding things too intense.  But Natalie was set on winning her guy back, and Googled ‘how to get your ex-boyfriend back’.  She found a website which offered a text service to guide her to get her boyfriend back.  Natalie got daily text messages which told her what to do and advised her to not be “desperate” and “text him emotionally.”  The couple individually worked on themselves and realised they missed each other and started dating again in September 2014 - and Natalie says their reunion was down to her following the text advice.  Diego proposed in April 2017 and the pair wed a month later in May.  They welcomed their three-year-old daughter, Stella, in June 2019, and Natalie is “so glad” she followed the steps to get Diego back.  Natalie, a HR team leader, from Miami, Florida, US, said: “It shattered my soul when we broke up and I knew in my heart that he was the one.  “I Googled how to get your ex-boyfriend back and found this website called ‘How to get your ex back permanently.’  “I signed up for daily text messages to tell me what to do to achieve that.  “It would tell me not to be desperate or text him emotionally.  “It told me to go no contact at first and if he reached out it told me to talk about the positives in my life.  “I’d want to text ‘I want to get back together’ but I waited and just told him how I was doing well at university.  “It meant we each worked on ourselves and then just organically got back together.  “It was meant to be.”  Natalie and Diego first met in May 2014 at a house party and hit it off.  “He was into Disney like me and was a family guy,” she said.  “We became inseparable.  “But we moved in together early on when I had no where else to live and it became really intense too quickly so we ended things.”  Determined to get him back, Natalie signed up to the text service.   “I’d get texts like ‘today you’re going to be strong and not text your ex,’" she said.  “There was no pressure to get back together.  “I didn’t want to force anything but I’d never felt anything like I felt for Diego.  “We gave each other the space and would just check in with each other.  “It worked because we got back together two months later and the rest is history.”  Diego and Natalie moved back in together in February 2015 once they started dating again in September 2014.  “I think if I hadn’t used the website I would have made it emotional and messier,” Natalie said.  The couple tied the knot on 9th May 2017 - three years to the day that they first met - and have now started a family together.

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00:00 alright if you're new, go watch these videos

00:03 pretty much, my now husband and i broke up for a few months after we first started dating

00:09 and then i signed up for a "how to get your ex boyfriend back" text message situation

00:14 so did we both get with other people during the time apart?

00:18 i mean, i was going out with friends, i wasn't particularly dating other people

00:23 but i did go on a few dates, and i knew, i was just yucked by all the men out there

00:29 i was just like, nope, i know that my husband's the one, i'm just distracting myself

00:33 i think he went out with friends, to be honest we don't talk about that time

00:36 it was a really dark and twisty time for me, i was going through a lot of other crap

00:39 we don't talk about it a lot, but i don't think he was, i think we were just like

00:44 we had dived into our relationship so quickly that we pretty much were married two weeks in

00:51 so i think it was just like, we're gonna go out and party and drink and yada yada

00:56 how long were we apart for?

00:59 like two to three months, we were not together for two to three months

01:03 you guys really know how to embarrass me and blow up my silliest video, but we're gonna get into it

01:10 go back to this video, long story short, my husband and i broke up early on in our relationship for like three months

01:17 and i knew he was the one, like, i don't know, you just know, you know?

01:21 so i made it a point to not throw bad energy at him, there's a lot that really goes into this

01:26 and i won't get into it, like, feel free to ask questions

01:29 long story short, i'm 18, i had just moved out of my house, i met diego, we dated for two months

01:34 it was a very tumultuous beginning, i moved in with him very early on for different reasons

01:40 and we broke up because we moved very quickly

01:42 during that breakup, it shattered my soul because i knew in my heart that he was the one

01:47 so what does 18 year old little me do? i google "how to get your ex boyfriend back"

01:50 and this comes up first, and i'm gonna show you the emails as proof

01:53 so these are the emails i was getting, but i was actually getting daily text messages

01:59 i don't have the text messages because obviously, i've gotten a new phone, this was in 2014

02:07 that was, like, this is proof that this happens, you know?

02:10 and if you go on my page, like, my husband and i are together, we're happy, we have a child, we're healing, we're doing all this stuff

02:14 this is literally the website, "how to get your ex back permanently, five step plan"

02:19 it's based on a method called "relationship rewind" by ryan... something

02:24 i looked up this guy kevin thompson, i don't think he exists in the world, if you do, thank you

02:30 there's a few people that have reviewed relationship rewind, if you look into it

02:34 the text messages that i was getting were pretty much, like, telling me what to do daily

02:38 the whole gist of it was to not be desperate, to not text them emotionally, to not be calling them emotionally

02:45 after a breakup, there's a lot of emotion. i'm a pisces, so do with that what you will

02:50 so i feel like this really helped me contain my emotions

02:53 it focuses a lot on, like, not focusing on getting your ex back, but focusing on making yourself a better person

02:59 so much so that your ex wants you back

03:01 so it's like, go no contact for x amount of time, if they text you, don't make it about getting back together

03:09 just make it about talking about all the great things that are going on in your life

03:12 i want to say almost like playing hard to get, but not necessarily, it's more like focusing on making your life better

03:17 i think that this really works, if you truly are meant to be

03:21 this isn't some voodoo crap, this isn't... it's just... i don't know

03:25 i can go more into it, but that's the gist of it

03:28 pretty much, when diego would text me, i would just kind of like...

03:31 even though i wanted to be like, oh my god, let's get back together, let's meet up, let's do this

03:35 i wouldn't. i waited, i waited a few months

03:38 i used to just be like, oh, i'm doing school, i'm doing work, everything's going great, i'm going out with friends

03:43 even though i was hella depressed, i focused on getting my shit together

03:46 and then eventually, it organically happened. do i think it was just a method? no

03:50 i was doing a lot of internal work, he was doing his work

03:53 we were very compatible, we are very compatible

03:56 so i think that's why it worked, but that is the gist of it, let me know if you want to hear more

04:00 *laughs*

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