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00:37 - Hey, I've been seeing a lot of comments
00:44 and messages lately in an honor of Oberon release day.
00:48 Here's some vulnerable stuff.
00:50 We've gotten a lot of you to make life look easy.
00:54 You have the perfect life.
00:55 Thank you.
00:57 But let me put it here like this.
00:59 We have a once in a lifetime love.
01:02 We are definitely not perfect by any means,
01:04 but we are perfect for each other.
01:06 And life is definitely not easy.
01:09 Please remember that social media
01:11 captures the highlight real.
01:13 And with that being said,
01:13 I promised myself as a revived creator,
01:17 I would always be authentic and real.
01:19 And what you see is real.
01:21 Sure, we don't document our fights and we fight good
01:25 or our depression files.
01:27 And we don't talk about the meds that we take for our pain
01:29 and we don't wake up free from demons every day,
01:32 but those things are real for us too.
01:35 We both have trauma.
01:36 We both have pain.
01:38 I had a very visible panic attack
01:40 on our TikTok live recently
01:42 because I was triggered by the past
01:45 when a phone call came on my screen
01:47 and Michelle is going through her painful things
01:50 from her divorce.
01:52 And we have deep hurts that we have to work through.
01:55 And I think we all can say that if we're honest.
01:59 So let me remind you beautiful souls
02:02 that we might put our best here.
02:05 We might put our smiles and our best improv
02:09 and we might create things to make you laugh
02:12 or to give you hope.
02:13 But please know, please know that we're real people too.
02:16 And we fight too.
02:17 And we cry too.
02:19 And we feel alone too.
02:20 We are here for each of you the best that we can be
02:25 while still remembering
02:27 that we have to take care of ourselves
02:29 and each other first
02:30 before we can pour into each of you.
02:33 But we are real.
02:35 We are here.
02:36 We are happy.
02:37 We are not perfect.
02:39 And we are okay with that.
02:41 So keep on being authentic.
02:43 Keep on keeping on.
02:44 And know you've got people in your corner, real people.
02:47 Cheers to that baby.
02:48 - Cheers to that.
02:49 Love and light all of you.
02:50 - Love and light.
02:51 Thanks for being here.
02:53 - Choose happy.
02:53 - Happy O'Brien day.
02:55 - Happy O'Brien release day.
02:56 Woo hoo.
02:57 Gotta celebrate Michigan here.
03:00 - Love you.
03:00 - Love you too.
03:02 - Thank you for that.
03:05 Any filmmakers or authors want to pick up our story?
03:08 Michelle and I met in 2004.
03:10 She taught middle school science.
03:12 I was her student.
03:14 Yay, science.
03:16 We didn't see each other for 17 years.
03:19 I came out of the closet
03:20 and I knew Michelle was a safe friend.
03:22 Boom, we met for lunch.
03:24 We spent a lot of time camping, being vulnerable.
03:27 We became really, really close friends.
03:30 One day I told her, I see you.
03:33 Then another day she realized the importance of that.
03:36 She moved into my house.
03:37 She taught me how to make dippy eggs properly.
03:42 ♪ Ah ♪
03:45 We made really hard decisions
03:47 and changed our lives in massive, massive ways.
03:49 We started dating.
03:51 My gosh, that woman is so sexy.
03:55 We recognized our 25 year age gap,
03:57 but we barely noticed it.
03:59 We started using words like forever and always.
04:02 We built a life together.
04:03 We did the hard things.
04:05 We accidentally went viral.
04:08 We took the harassment that came with it.
04:10 We decided we wanted pasties one day
04:12 and drove up across the Mackinac Bridge,
04:14 ate it and turned around because that's how we roll.
04:18 And then one day I got down on one knee
04:22 and asked her to be my wife.
04:23 And then she got down on one knee
04:25 and asked me the same thing.
04:27 And we keep going.
04:29 The kids love their mama, Michelle.
04:31 We stay vulnerable.
04:32 We do the hard things.
04:35 We aren't perfect, but we're perfect for each other.
04:38 We're eloping on a Lake Michigan beach in July.
04:42 ♪ My cougar and I ♪
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