How to Get Past Being CHEATED ON Even if You Stay With Your Partner

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Credit: SWNS   A professional 'infidelity coach' has shared how women can get past being cheated on - even if they stay with their partner.  Annabelle Taylor, 33, 'coaches' women whose partners have been unfaithful - enabling them to stay with their significant other if they 'choose to do so'.  She offers tailored advice and online sessions, depending on what support her clients need, and runs a free online community forum where women can share their experiences.  Annabelle started her business after her husband admitted he was having an affair in 2019, after a series of other betrayals, but is still with him.  Annabelle chose to remain with her husband of two years - who she does not wish to name - and began coaching others once she felt more 'comfortable in healing' herself.  If her clients choose to remain in their partnership, Annabelle urges them to follow some steps to ensure they heal appropriately - including listening to their body, taking space if they need it, speaking about the infidelity openly with their partner daily, and allowing them space to look into why they might have been betrayed.

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00:00 Listen to that, you know, listen to what's best for your life here.

00:05 My name is Annabelle, I'm an infidelity coach and I help people navigate the aftermath of infidelity.

00:12 I've gone through this myself and let's talk about this question that's asking me,

00:17 "Did my warm fuzzy feelings ever return for my spouse?"

00:20 Because mine haven't and I look at him differently now.

00:23 This is such a difficult thing to talk about and reminisce upon.

00:30 My warm fuzzy feelings are really different now.

00:35 They are not the same because the trust was broken.

00:41 And I think that such a massive weight needs to be put on that because it is so important.

00:50 This person, while I love him differently and I love new different things about him now,

00:58 this is still the person that shattered my trust.

01:01 This is still the person that shattered a lot of my life that I thought I knew.

01:09 The thing is, is that we've grown so much as individuals and as a relationship

01:16 and we have absolutely new goals together.

01:21 We have new perspective on life and each other and just everything.

01:27 I was told that when this happened to me that it is possible for people to remain together

01:33 and actually rebuild stronger than they were before.

01:38 And that is certainly what happened for us.

01:41 When I speak about my experience, I never want to underestimate or discount

01:47 the intense deep work that rebuilding from infidelity is.

01:52 It is a huge undertaking for both people individually and then also for our relationship.

02:01 And that's not even mentioning family members, friends, and all types of relationships

02:07 within your life that will need healing and all sorts of processing and things like that.

02:13 It's a lot.

02:15 And so if your warm fuzzy feelings aren't coming back, listen to that.

02:21 Listen to what's best for your life here.

02:25 Ultimately, what's most important here is that you have the opportunity and chance

02:32 to live the most fullest, expansive, beautiful, soul-filled life that you can possibly live.

02:41 You deserve that and you deserve to give that to yourself, however that looks.

02:46 [Music]

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