Men can never truly know the agony of childbirth, but that didnât stop Charlene Gardinerâs fiance from at least giving it a try.In a video shared to social media on May 17, Charleneâs fiance is seen lying back in a sofa with what is described as a tens machine attached to his abdomen. Charlene, who is out of frame, gradually turns up the machine until he screams for her to get it off.âJoe wanted to see what labour pains felt like,â she wrote in the description of the video.