00:00You start by, it's like if there's like a little piece of salt on the counter.
00:03At M.O.C.D., it's a small living space, you have to keep it clean.
00:12I really wanted to eat a hamburger.
00:15And Eric really wanted to eat pizza.
00:19It was about if pickles are a fruit or a vegetable, and I won.
00:25You were cleaning up after I made the soup.
00:28You threw away my soup?
00:30I wanted to watch Kung Fu Panda 3.
00:32I was like, don't do that, and you were like, why, why can't I do that?
00:34And I was like, I have you!
00:35Breastfeeding and rocking the baby with my foot.
00:38I called her a bitch, and then she didn't talk to me for two weeks.
00:43That was like last year though, it's okay.
00:48There has to be screaming involved.
00:49We kind of stopped listening to one another, like at the point where we're like not talking anymore,
00:54that's when we were like in a fight.
00:55Because I don't want to come to the kitchen.
00:58I don't want to put the dishes in the oven, because I don't want to make it clean.
01:06We argue about once a week, every day.
01:09More lately, but it's just out of exhaustion.
01:12We used to argue all the time, but at this point I think we've both matured, so we don't argue
01:16that much.
01:17But when we do, it's an argument.
01:19When we do, it's epic.
01:20We don't argue much, because we're perfect.
01:29I think arguing is healthy because I've been in relationships before where I wasn't as passionate about the person,
01:35and so we never fought because I didn't care.
01:37I feel like when you argue, usually something comes out of it.
01:41Everything that changes or grows comes out of some sort of conflict.
01:47When I like dismiss her, like get out of my face, or like leave me alone, she hates that.
01:53It escalates things, but I'm like, no, let's just not talk about him.
01:56When I'm like in a text fight, and I don't text back, I ignore him.
01:59That's the best way to like, ew, give him like an uppercut, you know?
02:03He's very patient and calm, and then like, that makes me even more mad.
02:07So I'm like, you know, and then when he blows up, I'm like, I don't understand why he's so mad
02:11at me.
02:13Sometimes I fight for fun.
02:14It's like, gets the fire going.
02:18I was disappointed in my birthday, and he had signs all over about a magilla?
02:25Is that the, what's the golf term for?
02:27Mulligan.
02:28Mulligan.
02:29I drew her a picture once.
02:31Remember when I got my knuckles tattooed?
02:32Oh my god.
02:34That was the biggest fight we've ever gotten to.
02:36I thought he ruined our unborn children's life by tattooing his knuckles.
02:41He did.
02:42I am always apologizing to you.
02:45Yeah, because an apology means nothing.
02:48Sometimes he'll apologize and turn around and do the thing that I just got mad at him about.
02:54I've always had to do things a couple times to get them right.
02:57He broke up with me, and then proposed.
03:00For a little bit.
03:00I think you needed a break.
03:01You got too serious.
03:02It was like so intense.
03:03He's like, I think I want to marry you.
03:04And I was like, ew.
03:05So we broke up, and then you stalked me, didn't you?
03:09I sure did.
03:10Mm-hmm.
03:10What?
03:11If we haven't left it.
03:13Leave it.
03:14Leave it.
03:15Leave it.
03:16Leave it.
03:16Leave it.
03:16No, no, no.
03:21No.
03:28No.
03:32No.
03:38Hell no.
03:43The hardest thing and the best thing is not saying something that you'll regret, so like
03:49taking a couple breaths before you react to something.
03:52I think not digging your heels in on something because you have to be right, let it go.
04:00I need to take a deep breath and realize why I'm angry and most of the time I'm angry because
04:05I'm being a dick.
04:06I think when someone's like in the mood to fight and they keep picking fights if you
04:09just ignore them, you're supposed to communicate, that's how you avoid arguments.
04:13Another thing I think is also to want to solve the problem, like if people aren't ready to
04:19be friends again then it's not going to work.
04:21The best advice I got is to try to understand before being understood.
04:26Do not go to bed angry, it's the worst thing that you can do.
04:29I almost always take my anger to bed and wake up and feel differently.
04:34I actually gave myself some good advice.
04:36Yes you do.
04:37But I don't go to bed mad.
04:39Ever.
04:40Then you wake up mad the next day.
04:41I wake up mad the next day.
04:42The best advice I do is to go ahead and get to see if there is a game of power.
04:42And I'll definitely be the biggest advice I have.
04:43Bye bye!
04:43Bye bye!
04:43Bye bye!
04:44All right.
