00:03uh this says dear freak show uh i work in payroll for a pretty big company here in saint pete
00:10and i got called into hr for not wearing a bra regularly most days i have a cardigan or a
00:18blazer
00:18on because it's cold in our office but sometimes apparently when i don't it's an issue by the way
00:25i'm a 32 c cup and not some double d well let me check in as your double d therapist
00:31here um having
00:33if you don't like wearing bras you have other things that you can wear sports bra this and that
00:37i think um if you're in hr payroll payroll yeah you want to be looked at as a professional and
00:45i
00:45think part of that is wearing a bra or something that lifts up a little bit and i understand wearing
00:49bras trust me uncomfortable i can't wait to be home to like take it off yank it off all that
00:53kind of
00:54stuff but if you want to be respected in the office i think that you know having the girls
00:58um covered and making sure that they're lifted and all that kind of stuff is important i mean it's
01:03just part of society these days i i gotta tell you i believe everything you just said is correct
01:10except i i don't know this to be totally true but i believe you can't force an employee to wear
01:19a bra
01:20well just look at me as like a big sister because there was there was listen to me right i
01:24mean that's
01:24what i'm saying i'm like i totally believe what you're saying but i remember we had somebody here
01:28when the sundress season was going through and they pulled them in the office yeah and i was i saw
01:33her
01:34in the hallway i was like oh this ain't gonna this ain't gonna go well and she didn't make it
01:37through
01:37the day because the next time we saw her she had changed clothes they made her go home and that's
01:43when it was told by someone else who was sticking up for her saying i don't think they're allowed to
01:48really do that i get it you're talking about undergarments and stuff like that but if it's
01:52a female hr person or something maybe they can i mean if your things are just hanging and swinging
01:58and i can see when you're really cold in the office and all that kind of stuff you know that's
02:02the
02:02distraction it is a distraction if you're distracting people in the office i'm pretty sure a job can say
02:07hey you are being a distraction we need you to you have to be professional do you want to be
02:13respected at work you know how many times i've been in my office and somebody has had
02:18headlights up and i haven't had to act like i ain't see him like because i'm just like ah
02:24why are you looking you're supposed to work i'm stevie wonder
02:30somebody said y'all leave babs alone
02:34that's not about that it's not about babs babs is not out here just shaking them
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