00:01now see this is where it gets nasty because deadbeat grandma doesn't even make sense to me
00:08but it makes sense to somebody in the room it makes sense to me if you don't if you don't
00:12somebody in the room says they understand that i don't know who it was there's no such thing as a
00:18deadbeat grandma yes there is there's deadbeat grandparents that want nothing to do with their
00:22grandkids whatsoever that's a deadbeat grandparent that's not a deadbeat grandparent that's a that's
00:26a disengaged or uninvolved grandparent but like if you deadbeat means that you're shirking your
00:33responsibility okay like this person just said my baby daddy told me a month and a half ago he was
00:38gonna send me money for some emergency dental work for our son he is now unreachable that's deadbeat
00:46that means that you have a responsibility you're running away from your responsibility not fulfilling
00:52your role yeah because it's your role when you had that baby and they handed you that baby and
00:57paperwork yes that means it's yours so if they need something they can lean on you but they can't lean
01:03on you if they can't get you to pick up the phone that's debbie then let me ask you gentlemen
01:07a
01:07question what is the responsibility of a grandparent to help you out when you need to be a human drone
01:12a what to float in okay drop off some candy pull a couple dollars out your bra and then float
01:20on out
01:21of there that's what you do that's what that's what a grandparent is you drone your way in hey your
01:26grandparents drone your way out that is not your responsibility that is your that you sit back
01:31as a grandparent and just enjoy what you built
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