00:01and it's it's a sad situation but i mean people do move on sometimes quickly after somebody passes
00:07it's not this isn't unusual yeah are we mad because we think that this happened because
00:14yeah you don't have when they were together we're mad because he's bad because his mom passed and
00:20his dad got married like five months later but he thinks that something was going on while they
00:26were still together that's what it says in the thing it says he even thinks that it was going on
00:31because that's how it got so fast he's only worried about the fact that his dad went on and moved
00:35on
00:36without he's holding a grudge you know i'm saying so i mean so he's got beef whatever the beef is
00:41he's got a solid beef yeah the eight-year-old is like man give me my granddad right and so
00:47they've
00:47written this i guess grandparents day is coming up so they've written these letters so mom is now
00:54stuck in the middle does mom keep it quiet or does mom tell the husband because she's like
00:59hey i don't want you to freak out i mean but the grandparent it's not like he has to see
01:06the grandparent at grandparent's day the grandparent shows up and then they they eat together with the
01:10grandkid with the teachers and stuff unless you're volunteering or something so i mean it's not like
01:14he has to be around his dad but if mom keeps this secret yeah you you have to say something
01:19for sure
01:20the last thing you want is for dad to show up and then grandfather to be there and then you
01:25have a
01:25situation in the middle of class i wouldn't keep it from him i would just be open about how you
01:31feel
01:31and how they should have a relationship whether you like it or not like him just showing up for 30
01:36minutes to go have some breakfast with the grandkid is is easy work have you haven't seen an eighth
01:41grader i mean an eight-year-old say damn mama why you tell him because that's what i'm expecting
01:47because if the boy didn't tell his dad but told his mom and he's like oh we got to use
01:52a mailbox
01:53and blah blah and doesn't pivot it to dad that means that that kid knows that there's friction with
01:59dad he knows what he's doing
02:01mm-hmm
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