00:00what are your thoughts on the season so far because i'm loving it i i'm loving it too i think
00:06honestly it's so nice to have vicky back because she's just you know she picked up right where we
00:14left her off you know and she's so who she is and whether she is right or wrong for good
00:21bad ugly or
00:22worse somewhere in between she's so real and so herself and and i just find her so entertaining
00:28honestly so i think it's cool to have her back i think it interests it gave the group like more
00:34synergy in a way i feel like she kind of like kind of fused and some ways she i mean
00:39didn't fuse with
00:40everybody but the group as a whole i think felt more comfortable right and i think something that's
00:47important about vicky is she can really wrangle tamra and shannon and and isn't that interesting
00:55it is she really can yeah was it was brokering that piece between the two of them something that
01:02had to be done so the group could move forward this season i think so yes because i think we
01:07were just
01:08really stuck with that and i think that but also i i do think that vicky was able to sort
01:15of broker
01:15that but i also think that the both of them are just so over it i really do i think
01:20that they finally
01:20got themselves to a point where they were like let's just put our weapons down we're exhausted
01:25we can't do this anymore like there's nowhere to go but move forward and um i'm happy that that's the
01:33way that went me too yeah yeah i think everybody is yeah it was exhausting for all of us yes
01:38well and
01:40we did find out in last week's episode that the worst thing you can call vicky is a debbie downer
01:45i'm not a debbie downer i'm a positive well i just feel like every time i bet i said the
01:50debbie
01:50downer box i just feel like every time i've been around you that was rude oh my god the way
01:55she
01:56harped i was so thankful that i did not put that in that box because the way that she harped
02:02on that
02:02i've never seen her she brought it up in at every event every table every every place that she was
02:11multiple times like she was really offended by it something about like boomers not wanting to be
02:17boring or something you know i think it's like a really big thing to them like they're a good time
02:23and they will let you know they're a good time i mean she's the original whoop it up girl she
02:29is
02:29but i think that's why it was such a hard hit for her because she's like no i am the
02:33queen of whoop it
02:34you cannot call me boring and also i think that vicky was dealing with a lot of very real like
02:40physical and health stuff going on and i think it was hard for her to kind of like come to
02:44terms with
02:45the fact that like that stuff was kind of slowing her down or affecting her when we spoke to tamra
02:51a couple weeks ago she told me that she was going to step back from causing mess but then she
02:56comes
02:56up with a game called friend in a box this game should have been called you heather okay so each
03:02player receives a box we decorate after we decorate we anonymously put in how we feel about
03:10each person what were your thoughts on that evening well you know my thoughts the game should have been
03:15called you heather it's actually you know i mean you know what i do think that tamra had a right
03:22to
03:22want to explore that you know because you hear these things and whatever i i thought i didn't think
03:28she was out of bounds i thought it was ballsy but i mean do we expect tamra to like not
03:33even be ballsy
03:34that just wouldn't be normal you know so i don't think it was the worst thing and actually i think
03:39it ended up being a really good thing because they worked out a lot though i was surprised uh how
03:45emotional heather was over her and emily's exchange at tamra's party and then emily told me to
03:52stop talking how many wants to hear that i know i'm overly sensitive whatever but i'm so upset
04:04were you also surprised at how hard heather took this no heather is super sensitive she is super
04:10sensitive and also the i felt like the energy of how you saw it on the show wasn't true to
04:18how
04:18how it actually felt that night it did actually feel like pretty intense in the moment it was kind
04:26of like this is uncomfortable you know and and heather also had been like getting a lot feeling a lot
04:32of questions there wasn't like that much nice stuff in her box so i think she was just feeling
04:38overwhelmed and it was like a lot of stuff coming down on her at once and i felt bad for
04:42her she was
04:43really upset clearly yeah she was like crying yeah i felt bad during this week's episode you do try to
04:50help facilitate a conversation between heather and emily and emily you know tells you not to jump in
04:58um which you sort of took to heart yeah i don't need you to jump in
05:04oh wow don't say you don't need me that's not nice i meant for this conversation not in general
05:11i'm just trying to get you to see that you hurt her feelings because she loved you can you talk
05:15me
05:16about that moment what a bitch okay really when i'm being serious i was so mad at her i was
05:23so angry i
05:24i can't even tell you that moment too it was like way more intense at that table i was so
05:30angry at her
05:31because she literally looked around the table and she was like i don't need you i don't need you and
05:37then she looked me in the eyes and she goes i i don't need you and i was like are
05:42you on drugs like
05:43what is happening i was so offended by it because we do need each other and like we do love
05:48each other
05:48so much and it might seem like such a minor thing but to me i i just didn't like it
05:55i also didn't like
05:55that i was being put in the same finger pointing bucket as like two other people at the table you
06:01know so i just take it personally but at the end of the day like isn't that big of a
06:06deal like we
06:07talked it out like immediately in the moment i'm like no i don't like that you know so i think
06:11that's
06:11what allows us to move forward each other is like our honesty with each other yeah and i mean
06:17more of these women in this group should strive for that same amount of honesty i think so i think
06:22it's helpful i think it's indicative of a real relationship yeah um and i i do want to get into
06:28the carmella of it all why did that gift to emily of the dior clutch and the vibrator bother you
06:34so
06:34much you know what i just thought it was weird i just thought it was an odd gift and like
06:41i it's not
06:42that it bothered me so much but like i just come from a logical place and i'm sorry but it
06:49is just
06:49you don't really know this person that well you what you do know of her you're kind of like still
06:55figuring out if you even really like this person or like what her vibe is and so i just feel
07:01like
07:01that's a really sort of sensational type gift and it wouldn't be in my nature maybe it's just the east
07:07coaster in me if i think something's weird i'm gonna say it right and i say by the way to
07:12my friends
07:14not to carmella it's not like i wanted to go be like carmella you're weird like you know and then
07:20emily told her so you know it is what it is at the end of the day she even said
07:26it to carmella you
07:27know she said they asked somebody asked her at some point do you do this usually and she said well
07:32we
07:32usually all pull in on one designer item which i do in my circle of friends too we'll all pull
07:37in so
07:38we can get you know our friend a nicer gift or whatever but that's not what that was so it's
07:42like
07:42you're admitting you're you're giving an out of the ordinary gift why is it weird for me to have
07:48a response it's like you're giving a gift that would garner a response and now everybody's surprised
07:53that i had one you know and i feel like that's a little bit unfair i wasn't trying to like
07:58and no
08:00i did i questioned her motives because it was odd but like i don't know at the end of the
08:05day
08:05we talked it out i have no problem talking to her about it i see her perspective she saw mine
08:10it's fine
08:10and in the teaser for next week it seems like you and heather get into it a little bit i
08:15know
08:15heather brought up that it bothers her that we room together she doesn't have the control i don't want
08:20to feel micromanaged you know do you think heather stressful i know no one wants i know people say
08:27no one wants to fight with tamar but i wouldn't want to fight no it's the worst fighting with fancy
08:31pants for sure and every year we just i don't know what it is we just we are very close
08:38and like we
08:39really do have a lot of love and respect for each other but there's always something that happens
08:45and i don't know maybe it's both because we're both new yorkers it's like she does something and
08:49then i just can't let it go or i do something and she just can't let it go and it
08:53is what it is
08:54but it's not my favorite thing i also feel like i try so hard to stay out of everything and
08:59i'm like
08:59why am i so involved why maybe that's the east coaster in you i i know it's frustrating it's
09:07frustrating what are you most looking forward to fans seeing the rest of the season our trip to
09:13tokyo was just sensational um so i think that was just such a cool cool experience and um i'm really
09:22looking forward to the fans seeing that um i'm also like really happy that emily and i both look
09:28good this season you know so i'm i'm really happy that they're going to see us continue to like look
09:36decent on television that's very good for us we've come a long way since those extensions right
09:42great yes and i love that for me
09:45yes
09:45yes
09:46yes
09:46yes
09:46yes
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