00:00Treat the whole world like it is your dating arena.
00:04So when I'm walking through my neighborhood, I almost act like I'm the mayor.
00:07So I say hi to every single person I meet on the street.
00:10I try to get to know people's stories.
00:12I tell people I'm looking for love and, you know, if they know anyone great, that they
00:16can help me out.
00:18And so try to like really be a member of your community and really use the resources of
00:23the real people that know you and that are around you.
00:25Tip number two, throw out your crazy list of arbitrary things that you think you're
00:31looking for any match.
00:32Whether a person has a certain kind of job or they're hyped, none of these things really
00:37matter.
00:38What you should be paying attention to when you're meeting a new person is how do they make me
00:42feel?
00:43Do I feel seen, heard, understood, and can I connect with them?
00:46Tip number three, stop acting like love is something that's going to happen to you.
00:52Learn social generosity.
00:54Go up to people and approach them from a place of like high self-esteem and give them the gift
01:00of getting to know you.
01:01So instead of being like, oh, what is this person doing for me?
01:05Ask yourself, how can I activate or unlock what's awesome about another person?
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