00:00If somebody says, I could fuck you all night,
00:03that really makes you feel hot because you would only
00:06fuck someone really hot all night, right?
00:08It's a style of dirty talk sentence
00:10that I like to refer to as the hyperbole, right?
00:12Because it's like, you can say that, but then go to sleep,
00:16right?
00:17Like, you don't actually have to fuck someone all night.
00:25I'm Tina Horn, and I'm really excited to be here
00:29to talk to you guys about dirty talk, talking about talking.
00:33If you're worried about sounding silly,
00:35if you are self-conscious that you're going to sound
00:37like a porn star, first of all, don't.
00:39The way to build confidence in your dirty talk
00:41is to feel like you have a dirty talk style
00:44that's totally your own.
00:46We're all going to come up with the nouns and verbs
00:50that we really, really like when it comes to dirty talk.
00:55Does anybody have a favorite dirty noun?
00:59Can we just go ahead and do cock?
01:01Once you have those and you know the ones that you really like,
01:04you can build endless sentences out of them.
01:07Let's take the words to the next level and put them in a sentence.
01:17If you memorize this one sentence as a template,
01:22you'll always have something to say in bed.
01:24It does so much.
01:26It's a compliment.
01:28It establishes consent, the all-important consent,
01:31and it gives guidance, and it gives praise.
01:37If you are excited about getting started with dirty talk,
01:42but it's not something that you have a lot of experience in,
01:45one thing that I always really like to suggest for people
01:47if they find that they clam up in the heat of the moment
01:50actually is dirty talking to yourself.
01:55If you're not entirely sure like where to start
01:58with saying dirty words or sentences to yourself
02:00while you're having solo sex time, write it down.
02:04Have your own little dirty notebook, write dirty stories,
02:09make a yes, no, maybe list of words that you like,
02:12ones that are definitely off limits,
02:13and really actually like talk to yourself and turn yourself on
02:17and again, use language and storytelling as a vibrator
02:22for that big sex organ between your ears.
02:25Maybe you've never really dirty talked before.
02:28I would say start in first gear, you know,
02:32with something a little light, maybe loving,
02:35maybe the way that you're used to communicating,
02:37then maybe slowly getting a little bit more naughty.
02:40I think that the thing that is really important to remember
02:43besides the fact that language is a sex toy
02:48is also that dirty talk is about communication.
02:51It's about communication between yourself and your partner,
02:55whether it's a one-night stand or a long-term relationship,
02:58and communication is about deeper connection,
03:01which is really, I think, what we're all looking for
03:04from sex anyway.
03:06and
03:06you
03:06you
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