00:00I'll just go weeks where it wouldn't even really occur to me to like masturbate and then it'll be like
00:04Sunday and I'm like well I have eight hours and then I'll just masturbate the whole day almost. Yeah, which
00:10I understand sounds insane now that I'm saying it out loud but um.
00:13When guys do it, it's to relieve stress or just because they're bored. I don't think it's any different for
00:20girls.
00:21I masturbate because I'm very stressed out. I have a lot of different things going on in my life.
00:27But also if there's like a really great Nicholas Sparks movie and like the hands start to tingle, you have
00:33to just go for it.
00:35Yeah, it feels good. I'm a horny woman and I'm allowed to masturbate so I do.
00:40Like it's totally not gross for a 60 year old to masturbate or for somebody my age to masturbate or
00:46younger. It's just totally normal. Feels great.
00:48Yeah, I guess maybe my, I've been doing it for so long. I'm such an old hand at it that
00:52I'm like oh maybe I'll give it a break.
00:54But if you're just getting into it, you know, feel free to go nuts. That's sort of how I would
00:57think about it.
00:58For females, there's so much talk out there about guys masturbating.
01:07It would be nice for there to be some more discussion about what ladies do and in a way that's
01:16ladies in charge of the conversation.
01:19When I was growing up, nobody talked about it for girls.
01:22It should just be an open conversation. It should be like giving beauty tips.
01:26We should be able to give masturbation tips on the reg, in magazines, on the internet, you know, over Gchat,
01:34email, whatever.
01:36There aren't enough of them. I would like tips. Send me tips.
01:40There are 12-year-old girls out there rubbing up against pillows and the sides of desks who have no
01:47idea that what they're doing is like a natural part of their sexual development and it puts them, it puts
01:53girls at a disadvantage to not talk about masturbation.
01:56You know that expression, you can actually love others if you can love yourself. I think sexuality is the same
02:02way.
02:02So you can help your partner, help you have more fun. It's fun!
02:07I guess the nice thing about masturbation is I feel like when you're younger, you sort of have this idea
02:12like if you like think too much about sex, you have too much sex, you're like a slut.
02:16And then if you don't, if you're not interested or you feel uncomfortable about it, then you're a prude or
02:21you're sort of like something else.
02:22And what's nice about masturbation is no one else has to know what you're doing and there's a lot of
02:26power in that because you don't have to tell anyone if you don't want to.
02:29It's your body and you can do whatever you want.
02:31There's so many reasons why we're made to fear our body and like this is it. This is what we
02:37live in and I don't see a reason to be so afraid of it.
02:40The idea of like nudity and sexuality. Some people end their lives over it because they don't know how to
02:49accept it and they aren't made to feel that they can.
02:52And you can read about it on the internet, you can watch videos, it's just like figuring out your body
02:59and figuring out yourself and what you like and there's nothing to be ashamed of with that.
03:03It's natural, it's fun and it actually does help you to become like a more sexually empowered person which is
03:11an important thing for just living your life.
03:13Just do it. Just masturbate like a human being. You don't have to like take yourself out to dinner. Just
03:19get on it.
03:21So sometimes we are so much in our bubble and things are taboo like that we don't discuss that. But
03:25everybody, most people do it. Or at least play a bit with it. And so if it can demystify that,
03:32I think it's good.
03:33Unfortunately, I know quite a few girls who are uncomfortable with those things. I am not certain that it's directly
03:43related with having been sexually assaulted in their lifetime, but I've noticed that that's quite a trend.
03:49I think that masturbation is a wonderful opportunity for people to take that power back. It's worth exploring for that
04:02self-healing that can happen.
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