00:00Ayan naman!
00:02Mga kapuso, hot topic po ngayon yung kasal, diba?
00:05Sa ating mga Pinoy, madalas asahan mo, big celebration, big bonkang celebration.
00:09Barangay nga eh.
00:10Correct, isang buong barangay.
00:11Pero ngayon, nauuso na rin nga yung simple and intimate weddings, diba?
00:16Yan nga yung pag-uusapan natin ngayong umaga.
00:18Usapang kasal tayo dito sa In Real Life!
00:23At ito ka mga kapuso, maraming nga nagulat at tatua ng ipost ng aktres si Bea Alonzo
00:27na siya ay kasal na.
00:30Simple at super intimate ang naging civil wedding ni Bea at asawang si Vincent Cole.
00:36Ginanap ang much-awaited wedding nila sa Makati City Municipal Hall.
00:40At si Bea nga, very pretty.
00:42Always.
00:44Her chic white dress at si Vincent naman nakabarong Tagalog.
00:48Congratulations sa newlyweds!
00:50Indeed, congratulations!
00:52Siya lang din nag-makeup sa sarili niya.
00:53Ah, talaga?
00:54Oh, she's so beautiful.
00:56Kahit na walang makeup, maganda si Bea.
00:58Correct.
00:58Pero guys, may iba't ibang klase po ng wedding na yung ginagawa sa panahon ngayon ha.
01:03Alam nyo ba na meron na rin tinatawag na elopement wedding, Mars?
01:07Elopement wedding.
01:08Tulad ng kasal na ito sa Batanes na couple na si Eugene at Rosie Vargas.
01:12Ang ganda sa Batanes naman kasi.
01:15Ang bongga.
01:16At ang elopement wedding daw po ay kasal na mas intimate at strictly for couples lang daw.
01:24So, sila lang?
01:25Oo, sila lang talaga.
01:26At saka photographer.
01:27Okay, so kung minsan may limited guests lang din.
01:29Okay, so pwede pa rin naman pala.
01:31So, madalas destination wedding yan tulad nitong kasal nga sa Batanes.
01:34Naku, alam ko na kung anong gagawin ko yung two years time.
01:36Pwede, no?
01:37Oo, sa abing 25th anniversary.
01:40At ito naman, meron din namang mga kasal na biglaan lang.
01:43Naisipan.
01:44Very spontaneous.
01:45Tulad ng kasal din na Lawrence at SJ Velasco.
01:49Ito lamang May 25.
01:50Ang babagong-bago nga.
01:52At ang couple, biglaan nga lang daw naisip magpakasal sa kanilang 7th anniversary.
01:58Wow!
01:58Dalawang araw lang daw silang nag-asikaso ng requirements nila.
02:02At habang nasa mall, agad silang nagpa-picture at kumuha ng documents.
02:07Tapos, bumili na rin sila ng sing-sing at damit.
02:10Yan ang tinatawag na mabilis talaga kumilos.
02:13At ngayong umaga, para mas kwentuhan tayo sa biglaang kasal nila,
02:17makakasama natin si na SJ at si Lawrence.
02:21Good morning!
02:21Good morning!
02:22Good morning to you guys!
02:24At syempre, makakasama rin natin isang relationship consultant,
02:28Ms. Maribel Dionisio.
02:30Hello po! Good morning, Jose.
02:32Ayan, si Lawrence at si SJ.
02:36Kwentuhan nyo naman kami sa naging kasal ninyo, biglaan.
02:40So, but we have to know, we have to clear na
02:427 years na kasi kayong together as a couple.
02:45Pero itong kasal na ito, bakit bigla din naisip na?
02:47Let's get married!
02:50Nag-ano ba? Nag-propose ka sa kanya beforehand?
02:54Noong 2024 po, nag-propose po ako sa kanya sa Vietnam.
02:57Ah!
02:59Okay, okay.
03:00So talaga, you're engaged to marriage.
03:01Engaged na pa na si marriage.
03:03Okay, but during that time, from the proposal,
03:07hanggang sa kinasal kayo,
03:09gumagawa na ba kayong plano na,
03:10okay, ito yung church natin, ganun-ganun?
03:12Were there plans already?
03:13Yes, yung initial plan talaga, gusto talaga namin is church wedding.
03:17Kaso dahil nga, super busy kami, mga workaholic kasi kami eh.
03:21So, parang hindi kami nagkaroon talaga ng time na mag-plan talaga ng for church wedding.
03:27So, sakto din nung, yun nga, nung namamishal kami sa mall,
03:30parang one week before na lang pala, anniversary na namin.
03:33So, sabarang busy namin, summer.
03:35Nakalimutan niyo rin.
03:36Nakalimutan namin.
03:37So, din?
03:38Yeah, tinanong ko siya kung anong plano natin ngayong...
03:41Ako yung nagtanong?
03:42Ah, siya yung nagtanong kung anong plano ngayong anniversary.
03:45Sabi ko magpakasal tayo.
03:46Buti pumayag.
03:47Alam, how cute!
03:49Pero you really meant ito, when you say, pakasal tayo.
03:51Hindi siya in jest lang, ha?
03:53Talagang totoo siya.
03:55Kasi since 2024, talagang alam ko na,
03:57sinula namin nag-propose ako sa kanya,
03:59alam ko na na siya yung taong papakasalang ko.
04:01Of course!
04:03At ano naman yung syempre yung reaction ng mga kaibigan?
04:06Yung pamilya ninyo, after nilang malaman na kasal na kayo?
04:09Oo, was it na, seryoso kayo?
04:11Nagulat sila, at is, nung una, parang ayaw papunta ng parents namin.
04:15Kasi nga, wala silang outfit or anything.
04:17Sabi nga, huwag iyong intindihan.
04:18Basta pumunta kayo, maging present kayo.
04:20Yung naman yung mas nagmamatter.
04:23Oo, yung cute!
04:23At ang tanong ng marami sa inyo, sa comment section,
04:26magkano daw ba yung inastos ninyo?
04:28Oo, oo, totoo yan.
04:28Sa ganitong bigla ang kasal?
04:30Oo.
04:30More or less 50,000.
04:32Kasama na dyan yung outfit,
04:34mga senomar yung requirements,
04:37and then yung...
04:37Photographer?
04:38Hindi po.
04:39Wala pa?
04:40Wala pa po dun.
04:41Okay.
04:42Kasama na rin po dun yung reception after the wedding.
04:47Pero spontaneous lang din po yung reception namin.
04:49Nag-inap lang kami ng available na buffet restaurant.
04:53Oo, ang yan.
04:54Ang yan.
04:55Gusto ko natinirin ko po may buffet.
04:59Wait, pero sa'yo.
05:00Oo, pero talongin natin si Ms. Maribel,
05:01siyempre, bakit marang uso ngayon yung simple
05:03at intimate weddings?
05:06Katulad na sabi nila,
05:08they were very busy, di ba?
05:10Yes.
05:10So, daming ginagawa.
05:11Parang, siguro,
05:13para mag-ipon din, di ba?
05:14At saka siguro,
05:15nang galing din to sa mga,
05:16dahil sa COVID,
05:17maraming COVID weddings noon.
05:19Biglang nalaman ng tao,
05:20pwede palang tatlo lang kami.
05:22Yung simplified wedding nalang.
05:24Simplified wedding,
05:25sampu,
05:26and hindi kailangan gumastos ng malaki.
05:28Para noon,
05:28pwede i-save yung pera.
05:30Para doon sa mga,
05:31for the married life already.
05:33And of course,
05:34to get away from the stress,
05:36the family dynamics,
05:38and focus,
05:39maganding sa kanila,
05:40focus on each other,
05:42on the marriage and intimacy.
05:43Actually,
05:44gusto kong sinabi ni SJ,
05:45it's not the,
05:46it's not the wedding that's important,
05:48it is the marriage.
05:50That's correct.
05:51Kung paghandaan yung kasal,
05:52paghandaan mo yung after ng kasal,
05:53di ba?
05:54Pagsasama ninyo.
05:56At ito nga po,
05:57miss,
05:57yung kasal ni Nabea at Vincent,
05:59pati na nga,
06:00ito kay SJ at kay Lauren,
06:01simple lang,
06:02at very intimate, di ba?
06:03Ano po ba yung mga pros and cons nito,
06:05mga intimate weddings na to?
06:08Siyempre yung pros,
06:09you get what you want.
06:10Yes.
06:10May mga plano tayo,
06:12gusto natin yung small,
06:13hindi natin type yung malaki,
06:15at saka yung,
06:17taw dito,
06:18yung focus on the vows,
06:19and the meaning of the marriage,
06:22so that is really good.
06:24Siyempre ang cons yan,
06:25magagalit sa,
06:25lalo na sa kanila,
06:26yung mga fans,
06:27yung mga magulang,
06:28mga kaibigan,
06:29ano?
06:30But,
06:31many times,
06:31hindi mo lang kayo nagyaya,
06:33ba't hindi kami kasama sa wedding nyo,
06:35mga ganyan.
06:36True, true.
06:36Pero many times,
06:37like them,
06:39mag nagkakaroon ng party afterwards,
06:41but at least,
06:41they had that focal point,
06:43na sila lang dalawa,
06:44na gusto special.
06:46You can celebrate after,
06:47why not?
06:47Tiba?
06:48So, dito din ko sa kasalan ni Bea,
06:50at saka ni Vince,
06:50na nag-i-issue before,
06:51yung prenuptial agreement.
06:53Sa tingin nyo,
06:54gano'n ba ka-importante ito sa mga couple?
06:56Not everyone has to have that.
06:58Not everyone,
06:58pero kung gusto nyo,
06:59okay lang naman eh,
07:00kasi nagiging maliwanag,
07:02ang maraming bagay.
07:03At pero sana,
07:04pag-usapan bagong mag-engage.
07:06Kasi,
07:07baka mag-break pa yung engagement,
07:10because maraming mga,
07:11siguro dagdag ni nanay,
07:13ni tatay,
07:13so you want to clarify things,
07:16and it's important na nakaklarify.
07:19Kaya,
07:20sabi namin,
07:21yung marriage preparation is important.
07:23Para,
07:24claro,
07:25ano bang klaseng buhay mag-asawa,
07:26gusto natin?
07:27Will we live on our own?
07:28Will we be independent?
07:30Ano ba yung,
07:31role ng parents and in-laws in our life?
07:34Yes.
07:35Kasi importante dyan,
07:36pag-usapan nyo,
07:36lagi religion.
07:37Kasi pagpapalaki ng bata yan eh,
07:39di ba,
07:39religion.
07:40Pera,
07:41naku,
07:41importante yung pera yan.
07:43Nakakasira ng pamilya yan.
07:44Pamilya,
07:45yung,
07:45yung,
07:46anong,
07:46boundaries,
07:47boundaries,
07:48and in-laws.
07:50That only in-laws,
07:51pati parents.
07:52Oo,
07:54importante yung mga issue na yan.
07:55So,
07:55Lawrence and SJ,
07:56yung mga tips yun sa mga gusto,
07:57itry ang intimate at bigla ang wedding,
07:59kagaya ng sa inyo.
08:01Which,
08:01obviously,
08:01it's working for you guys.
08:03Ayun,
08:04for me,
08:05ma-advise ko lang sa kanila,
08:06basta maging,
08:07ano ka lang,
08:08intentional lang kayo dun sa magiging,
08:11wedding preparations nyo.
08:12And sa mga gusto nyo gawin.
08:14Kasi nga,
08:15kagaya ng sinabi ko kanina,
08:16marriage is more important than the wedding date.
08:20So, yun.
08:20Hindi to trip-trip lang, ha?
08:22Totoo to.
08:23Pagkasal ka, kasal ka na.
08:24Correct, correct.
08:25At make sure na sigurado kayo dun talaga,
08:27sa gagawin nyo.
08:28Oo.
08:28May dadagdag ka lang.
08:30Siguraduhin nyo na mahal nyo yung partner nyo talaga.
08:32Oo naman.
08:33Talaga.
08:34Kasi hindi siya laro.
08:36Forever na yun.
08:37At kung ano yung tested over time,
08:39minimum max yung sabi namin,
08:40three years,
08:40boyfriend,
08:41girlfriend.
08:42Naka seven years nila.
08:43So they really know each other.
08:44Seven years?
08:45Yes.
08:45Ten years?
08:46Twelve years?
08:47Twelve years?
08:48Kasi kasama na yung paghahanda.
08:50Twelve years?
08:51Kami niyang asawa ko,
08:52three years.
08:55At syempre,
08:56sa inyo naman po,
08:57Miss Maribel,
08:57ano po yung maipapayan nyo
08:59sa mga couple ngayon
09:00na na sa deciding stage na
09:02kung paano,
09:03ano magagawin nila,
09:04bonggabok
09:04or simplify yung wedding nila
09:06or yung mga
09:07worried na magalit
09:08yung mga kamag-anak
09:10dahil hindi naimlita.
09:11Ano po ba?
09:12Dapat marinig yan
09:12ng mga kapuso natin eh.
09:14Dapat marinig yan
09:15ng mga kamag-anak din.
09:16Mga kamag-anak,
09:17parikiyo, parikiyo.
09:18Okay, ito totoo na.
09:19Ito,
09:20ang magpa-plano,
09:21yung nagbabalak,
09:23the bride and the groom,
09:23you decide
09:24ano yung gusto nyo.
09:25Kung anong gusto
09:26ng bagulang nyo,
09:27yung madla,
09:28bahala na sila.
09:29So, yun,
09:30maganda yung inform them
09:31one or two days beforehand.
09:33Wala na silang masasabi.
09:34Prepare yourself
09:35na magagalit.
09:36Pero sabihin nyo na lang,
09:37ito yung gusto namin eh.
09:38Gusto namin
09:39mag-focus sa intentionality
09:41about the marriage
09:42and the relationship,
09:43which is really very good.
09:45At remember,
09:45pagating sa kasal,
09:46sa kasal ko yan,
09:47kasal mo, di ba?
09:48Kung anong gusto
09:49ng bride and groom,
09:50yun, yun dapat.
09:51Huwag kayo yung,
09:52hindi,
09:53dapat kasama anak ko,
09:54hindi.
09:55Hindi talaga.
09:56Alam nyo,
09:56ang laking tulong
09:57ni Miss Lynn nun.
09:58Totoo,
09:59ang dami yung advice.
10:00Hindi para sa,
10:00no.
10:01Advice and tips
10:02sa binigay ni Miss Lynn nun
10:03bago ako ikasal
10:04na dapat kami lang talaga,
10:05dapat kayo lang mag-asawa.
10:07Ang masusunod kasi
10:08kasal mo yan
10:08at kayo ang gagastos.
10:10Oo.
10:11Yun,
10:11ito yan.
10:12Yung maganda.
10:13Kung kayo ang gagastos,
10:14then you have control over it.
10:15Dati kasi,
10:17ang magulang gumagastos.
10:18Sasabihin,
10:19magdadagdag ako,
10:20basta iibitahin yung kaibigan ko.
10:22At kung kayo kaibigan
10:23o kamag-anak,
10:24kung mahal nyo yung ikakasal,
10:26huwag kayo mag-impose.
10:27Kung hindi kayo imbitado,
10:29okay lang.
10:30Kung inimbita kayo,
10:30huwag kayo magsabi,
10:31natarin ko siya na,
10:32huwag.
10:33Oo,
10:33dahil maintindihan niyo.
10:34Huwag.
10:35Lahat ang tao nito
10:35naka-intindihan.
10:37Huwag,
10:37okay?
10:38Hindi nyo kasal yun.
10:39Okay.
10:4050,000 wedding,
10:41hindi doable,
10:42di ba?
10:43kaya.
10:44Ako ang tanong ninyo.
10:46Ang ganda na usapan na to,
10:47in fairness.
10:49Baka marami ang makaaway dito,
10:50hindi nga.
10:51Anyway,
10:52thank you so much
10:53for sharing your love story.
10:54Thank you,
10:55S.J. and Lawrence,
10:57and congratulations.
10:57Oh,
10:58congrats.
10:59At salamat din po
11:00sa ating nakasamang
11:01relationship consultant
11:02kasi Ms. Madibel Dionysio.
11:03Thank you po.
11:05Sige ko,
11:05Mars.
11:06Mas nausapang buhay-buhay.
11:07Tara na,
11:08pag-usapan natin yan
11:09in real life.
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