00:01all right back to grief math
00:06i wasn't aware that this had a listen i understand that this could be a thing i just
00:11didn't know that it had a term so this woman is 17 years younger than her husband oh and when
00:22they were both younger it wasn't really an issue as he starts climbing up in age
00:28she's doing the grief math how he's like nearly 20 years older and you know you kind of get that
00:37accelerated aging thing going on and she's doing the math on how little time they have together
00:44yeah yeah that's that's what that is what's elicited from you i mean that's just kind of morbid
00:54yeah don't you think about the time that you have together instead of
00:57like in a positive way not like oh we only have
01:01you