00:06you didn't want that job it's different i need stability i have money and if you wanted to do
00:13anything i'd i'd back you you don't even know me i don't think that's true you forgot to vote no
00:21i
00:21just didn't vote well if everyone thought that way we could have lost what do you mean by we
00:25was i meant to give you a bullet point list of all my political beliefs i feel like i don't
00:29even
00:29know you was i supposed to change my personality become a new human being just to make you more
00:34comfortable in your own insecurities emily if you want to go you can go but do it on your own
00:38you tell me to fuck off
01:19in my beginning is my end
01:23in succession houses rise and fall
01:27crumble
01:29are extended
01:30are removed
01:32destroyed
01:34restored
01:36we're in their place as an open field
01:38or a factory or a bypass
01:41old stone to new building
01:43old timber to new fires
01:45old fires to ashes
01:48ashes to the earth
01:51of
01:55oh
01:56oh
01:56oh
01:56oh
01:57oh
01:58oh
01:59oh
02:01oh
02:01oh
02:10oh
02:12oh
02:13oh
02:13oh
02:15oh
02:15oh
02:53I will remember many years ago my dear brother very patiently trying to teach me leg spin bowling with a
03:02tennis ball in our backyard cricket game. Never really got the hang of that.
03:09May we live our lives inspired by Morgan's example, his kindness, his strength.
03:20Let us pray.
03:23Almighty God, in our sorrow, we turn to you for comfort and for healing.
03:32We thank you for the great gift of Morgan's life and for the many ways he's touched our lives.
03:59This is the hope and light that Morgan shared with us every day.
04:03The hope and the light within us all.
04:09We're now going to hear from Ryan, Morgan and Lorna's grandson, who will share with us his own memories of
04:16Morgan.
04:17Ryan?
04:22Thank you, Ian.
04:41Hi, thanks for coming.
04:51I don't know.
05:02Bob never liked being in here, in the church.
05:07That's not a secret.
05:08After Mum died, he always said that he would only come here for weddings and funerals.
05:14So I guess he's kind of keeping that pledge.
05:16I hope this is okay with him.
05:29Nan and I were there when he passed.
05:31It was...
05:35something that happened very quickly.
05:41Morgan?
05:43Darling, you all right?
05:48Get the aspirin, get the aspirin.
05:51What is it, darling?
05:53Oh my God, he's in pain.
05:54Get me the aspirin.
05:56Here, darling.
06:00Morgan, what's wrong?
06:04And it was weirdly...
06:08It was weirdly peaceful.
06:11He just took one long breath and looked at Nan.
06:16And said,
06:17I can see your light.
06:22Not the light.
06:24Hers.
06:30And then he started smiling like he knew something.
06:34And then he started smiling like he knew something.
06:38And then that was it.
07:00So many memories have flooded back to me over the last couple of days.
07:08Strange memories of my mum.
07:15I remember when I was younger.
07:19She used to sit with me and sing me to sleep.
07:33I did.
07:34It wasn't always like that.
07:39It was really tough for Nan and Pop sometimes.
07:54I think we all just
07:56dealt with that a bit differently
08:00and lately I'm beginning to wonder
08:02if maybe Pop handled it better than the rest of us
08:10it was always open to how people could be more hopeful
08:15and I thought I was like that too until recently
08:18I thought maybe I'm not
08:23maybe I'm not
08:33I remember once I told him about something I'd read
08:37that time is not a line but a loop
08:40and that each moment we're in is a fixed point
08:42that we travel through many times
08:44and that's why we feel deja vu
08:46or that we've been there before
08:48or that we have certain connections to certain people
08:53even if we mess it up sometimes
09:00especially today I hope it's true
09:21here's a poem that Pop loved
09:23from T.S. Eliot
09:26in my beginning is my end
09:29in succession houses rise and fall
09:33crumble
09:35are extended
09:37are removed
09:39destroyed
09:41thanks for organising everything
09:49you too
09:49reach out of your two
09:50be two seconds
09:51excuse me
10:00hey
10:04I'm so sorry for your loss
10:08thanks for coming
10:13another beautiful speech
10:16that was a bit random
10:24Brian I should um
10:30sorry I have to
10:31yeah
10:33I
10:33be coming to the house
10:35later
10:37could you
10:41sure
11:08I'm asking you to stay
11:15between all these whispers
11:17I won't go away
11:22it's been a while
11:24since you and I woke up
11:29they drift in and out
11:32we're up and down
11:39I won't be tempted by people that lead me straight
11:41I'll look the other way
11:46I won't be tempted by people that lead me straight
11:52cause it's been a while since you and I woke up
11:59do I settle down
12:03do I settle down
12:04and show you how
12:06for good
12:11I'm asking you to stay
12:15stay this day
12:24Can I get you anything?
12:49To fall in love and fuck it up for good
13:36Do you mind if I sit?
13:41Oh, yes, please, goodness.
13:44They're either all over me are trying to avoid me.
13:52Thank you for coming.
13:54I'm so sorry.
13:57Did you kill him?
13:58I'm sorry, that's not funny.
14:05It's just so sad.
14:08It would have been a lot sadder if I hadn't spent the last 50 years with him.
14:13Oh, I will miss him.
14:15But we didn't miss anything.
14:18Oh, we had a long time.
14:22Did he say that before he died, that he could see your light?
14:30Yes, he did.
14:32That's beautiful.
14:36It's very beautiful.
14:43Did you really get married after eight days?
14:46No, we did.
14:53How did you know that he was the right person for you?
15:04I didn't know.
15:06I mean, we were just silly kids.
15:09It's wild.
15:11It was a bit wild, isn't it?
15:14Oh, I don't know.
15:15We just had this...
15:19feeling.
15:22Yeah.
15:24I don't think it was any one thing.
15:28It's just that...
15:32He calmed me.
15:35And I challenged him.
15:37And we just sort of grew up together.
15:44And then we got old.
15:48And we never, ever tried to change each other.
15:55Even in the hard times.
15:59There were some very hard times.
16:05Of course, there were many things we did not agree on.
16:10But we did agree on the things that really matter.
16:13And I really think that that, that is what counts.
16:25Oh, I don't know.
16:27We might have missed out on some things.
16:28But I don't think we did.
16:30I don't think you did either.
16:31You don't think so?
16:32No, I don't think so.
16:34We had it all.
16:38Thanks, Mary.
16:39Thanks for coming.
16:46I really appreciate it.
16:49You had a fight.
16:51He was very upset.
16:54Yeah, well, it was pretty bad.
16:59Was it the last one?
17:02Totally the last one that really matters.
17:07I don't know.
17:13He really hurt you.
17:15I think he should know then.
17:23Excuse me.
17:24Yeah.
17:30Did he get off okay?
17:33He did.
17:35Good.
17:38I'll call and organise her time next week to pick up the ashes.
17:42Good.
17:44They tried to upsell us on the urn.
17:48Of course they did.
17:57Well, I'm going to make a cup of tea.
17:59I'll get it.
18:00You sit.
18:01I'll help.
18:03I'll help.
18:03Well, I'm going to make a cup of tea.
18:21How are you?
18:24Okay.
18:30What a day, huh?
18:32What a day.
18:37Thanks for coming, Bailey.
18:54How are you?
18:58Why didn't you call me and tell me?
19:04I didn't think you'd want to hear from me.
19:06Why? Because I got pissed and acted like an asshole and offloaded all my insecurities on you.
19:13No, I was the asshole. You were right.
19:17It's something I need to work on.
19:26Maybe we were both assholes.
19:31I think it's okay that we don't agree on everything.
19:35That's not the point.
19:37The point is there is something real here between us.
19:43And that's the most important thing.
20:01Please don't not call me again.
20:07Okay.
20:35I'm sorry.
20:36I'm sorry.
20:37I'm sorry too.
20:41I missed you.
20:42I missed you too.
21:12Well, I guess it's my turn for the next one.
21:17Mate, are you calling this a date?
21:19I've been on way worse.
21:30Wanna take this to Lana?
21:32Sure.
21:36Okay.
22:11Hey, you sweetheart.
22:12Thanks for coming.
22:17That was a beautiful speech.
22:20I'm glad you liked it.
22:23I painted this for you.
22:30You work really hard so that people don't feel lonely in your presence.
22:36That must be exhausting.
22:40So I wanted you to have this so that you know that I see you.
22:44And that you are not alone.
22:47Not ever.
22:50Okay?
22:53Okay.
22:57Excuse me.
22:58Okay.
23:00Okay.
23:11Okay.
23:15Okay.
23:17Oh, my God.
23:47Oh, my God.
24:19Oh, my God.
24:49Oh, my God.
25:16Oh, my God.
25:39Oh, my God.
25:57Oh, my God.
26:55Oh, my God.
26:57Oh, my God.
27:27Oh, my God.
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