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90 Day Diaries Season 8 Episode 4
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00:11You
00:13Guys I'm so happy to be here
00:17It's like a Mexico reunion
00:24I just got back from Ireland
00:26I've been with Ronnie for a while now
00:28So I was a hundred percent ready to propose to that man
00:31I wanted to propose to Ronnie, my boyfriend
00:34But he found the ring
00:36And since then our relationship status has changed
00:39You need a man's man and he's just not it
00:44Cheers
00:45One thing that I do miss is the touch and feel of a woman
00:49You know intimate moments and that kind of thing
00:51Let me show you something
01:03Jen
01:04The good times would be overshadowed by the bad times
01:08Break up with her
01:09Call her ask
01:10You're saying call her right now
01:12Since meeting Jen at the singles retreat in Mexico
01:15It's toxic and I know I need to break up with her
01:18But she's not going to make this easy at all
01:21You got it
01:22You got it
01:51Are you excited for my husband to get here?
01:52If you are, say
01:53Oh
01:54All right
01:55Oh, he's really excited
01:57My 90 day journey started when I met a demon
02:03One of my best friends said let's go to South Africa
02:06And that's where I met Ronald number one
02:08I can't believe it's been nine months since I've seen you
02:13He was attractive, he was fun
02:16And we hit it off
02:17Soon after got engaged, got married
02:20You may kiss your bride
02:25Next thing I knew I was pregnant
02:27And we welcomed our beautiful daughter Carly to the world
02:31But our relationship escalated pretty quickly
02:34But kind of fell apart and went downhill twice as quick
02:38Know your place
02:40I know my place
02:41Your place is not on top of my head
02:42You're used to a little bitch, right?
02:44You can literally go back to America
02:48After my divorce, I was super single
02:51So I decided to give love a chance
02:54So I went to a singles retreat in Mexico
02:56Tiffany, who would you like to choose to come stand here next to you?
03:03Rocky
03:09After Mexico, Rocky and I decided that we'd probably be better off as friends
03:14And that's when Ronnie number two came into my life
03:17He was this Irish man living in Montenegro when he slid into my DMs
03:22He's so kind, he's such a gentleman
03:24He definitely gave me a little bit of that like princess treatment
03:27And we very quickly fell in love
03:33I love you, baby
03:34The long distance was really hard on us
03:37So I wanted to take matters into my own hands
03:40And propose to Ronnie when he was visiting me in the US
03:44Oh God, I planned to propose today
03:48So I got him his beautiful ring and had it engraved
03:52And it says Tamil
03:53And it has our anniversary date
03:55But I never even got the chance to propose before he had to leave
04:00My dad needs my help
04:01So I definitely need to go back to Ireland sooner than I thought
04:06And you know he's retiring at the moment
04:08So there is an opportunity for me to step in and take over the family business
04:12Does that mean you have to be there always?
04:16I don't know
04:18But since then our relationship status has changed and my husband is on his way to see me now
04:24Get lost in the moment
04:30Lift off in the motion
04:36Hello, where's my wife?
04:38Come on
04:39It's cold outside, hurry up
04:46It's the love of my life Tim, duh
04:49He's not just like my pretend husband or my temporary husband
04:53That is my man, okay?
04:55And he's coming to visit me for the weekend
04:57Look at your tree
04:58Uh-huh, thank you
05:00It's pre-lit
05:02Oh my God, you got a fake tree?
05:03Yeah, come on
05:05We can't
05:05Budget family, you can use me every week
05:07Nah, we gotta get you a real tree
05:08You gotta get that pine smell
05:11You gonna get me a tree and put it on top of my car?
05:14I'm your daddy, right?
05:16That's right
05:16Daddy's by a tree
05:17All right, fine
05:18My 90 day journey began when I met a girl named Jennifer in Columbia, South America
05:23And I traveled all the way there to meet her to see if I could find love
05:37However, the spark that we felt online sizzled out in person really fast
05:43Maybe you're not the right for me
05:44Maybe
05:45You're too pussy for everything
05:48Can you look at me for a second?
05:50Are you finished?
05:52Then go, what are you doing here?
05:54Waiting on you to do your thing
05:56Go, go, you can go
05:58It became very clear pretty much instantaneously that Jennifer and I were not meant for each other
06:04And then about a year and a half ago, I decided to go to Mexico for a singles retreat experience
06:10to find love
06:11And of course, to my surprise, Jennifer was there
06:15And that led to a very exciting time for me getting to try to hunt for love, having the worst
06:21ex of my life there in attendance
06:23It was seven years ago
06:25So what the f*** are you talking about?
06:27Move the f*** on
06:28You're not gonna ruin my trip
06:30Don't f***ing ruin my trip
06:32Talk to me
06:32You're f***ing crazy
06:34Romantically, Mexico was a bust
06:37But, you know, I did get super close with my pretend wifey Tiffany
06:41And she supported me the whole time that we were there
06:45Someone's like, can you see me all over you?
06:47You have to miss me, our son
06:47Are you ready for the plans?
06:49The plans?
06:50What is that?
06:51I've got plans for us
06:51Like what?
06:54Don't worry about it, don't worry about it
06:55Oh, here we go
06:57The first time I met Tim was when I did Single Life season three
07:03I met him at the tell-all
07:05And where are you originally from?
07:06I'm from, I'm Colombian and Cuban
07:07I was born and raised in Jersey
07:09Oh God
07:10I'm a Jersey girl on top of it all
07:11Oh my God
07:13That's a bad combination
07:15So Tiffany and I were friends before Mexico
07:18But we spent a month living together
07:20We slept together almost every night
07:22There wasn't, you know, anything funny going on
07:24And, you know, there is flirting
07:26But it's never crossed that line
07:27And we became best friends
07:29When I have my moments where I'm throwing a tantrum
07:33Or I'm angry or I'm sad
07:34He knows exactly how to deal with me
07:35So I would say Tim is like my platonic husband
07:40He takes care of me
07:41I take care of him
07:42Just not sexual
07:45Well, yet
07:48Stop it, stop it
07:50Let me show you where you're going to be sleeping
07:53Oh, where I'm sleeping
07:54Or where we're sleeping
07:56This is it
07:57Very plain, white, comfy bed
08:00Is this where the magic happens?
08:01Not enough for my liking
08:03So what's going on with you?
08:06Well, you know, I just got back from Ireland
08:08I've been with Ronnie for a while now
08:10When he was here last time
08:12Things got a little weird towards the end
08:14Because I know he wanted
08:16I thought he wanted to get married soon
08:19So I was 100% ready to propose to that man
08:22Just so we could be together
08:24And we could start the process of him coming here
08:27I did buy a ring
08:30But he found the ring
08:32He was like, that's very sweet
08:33But don't you dare
08:34Like, that's my job as a man
08:37To propose to you
08:38And then I went to Ireland
08:39While I was in Ireland
08:40I was like, oh, he's going to propose
08:42No, he did not
08:43And I'm just like, ah
08:46And then he was supposed to come
08:47And he canceled his flight
08:49And changed his date for like
08:50A later month
08:51I'm like, I'm not doing this anymore
08:52I can't waste any more of my time
08:53I need someone who's like
08:55If this is what it takes to be with her
08:57I'm doing it now
08:58Not like, let me think about this
09:00But I just kind of feel mad
09:02Because like, am I not worth
09:04Jumping at the opportunity for it
09:05Did he not see that like
09:07I need to take my chance now
09:08Before I lose her
09:09He's too beta for you
09:11I told you
09:12You need a man's man
09:13And he's just not it
09:15If at this point
09:17You're still not ready
09:19Then maybe we don't need to be together
09:21So I ended up breaking things off with Ronnie
09:25If he wanted to marry me right now
09:26If he wanted a life with me
09:28He would make it happen
09:29And he's not so
09:32We're going to make a pact right now
09:34That you're not ever proposing to anybody
09:36No, I'm not doing that
09:38I can't believe I even thought that
09:39Like, I feel so stupid
09:40Like, me proposing
09:41That's hilarious
09:42But I was willing to do that for him
09:44Like, I was willing to do that to be with him
09:46Like, that's how in I was
09:48And it just sucks
09:51So I'm feeling kind of
09:52I'm sorry
09:53That really sucks
09:54Yeah
09:55Oh
09:56You're beautiful
09:57You're going to bounce back
09:58And that guy wasn't right for you anyway
10:00Why?
10:01The first one
10:01Because again, like
10:02He just struck me as a type
10:04That wasn't going to give you
10:05The type of attention that I know you need
10:09Tiffany needs attention all the time
10:11And when she doesn't get it
10:12She gets in her feelings
10:13And thinks that she's not good enough
10:15And this guy just doesn't understand
10:17That she wants to be queen
10:19And yeah, she deserves to be treated that way
10:21So I'm going to cheer Tiffany up this weekend
10:24Because I'm really worried that
10:26Out of her fear for being single
10:27She'll go back to running number two
10:29And I just don't want that
10:30Come on
10:31Oh my god
10:32All right, let's get out of here
10:33I don't know, this bed's kind of comfy
10:34I don't know
10:34Ah, don't worry
10:35We're sleeping in it till the next week
10:36Oh, good
10:42Before you really got to hang out with me
10:44Did you think that I was gay?
10:47No
10:47I just thought
10:48You know what I thought?
10:50I thought you were straight for sure
10:51But you thought maybe I was like
10:53Every once in a while switch batters?
10:55Nope
10:56I thought that you were straight
10:57But you were into some kinky
10:59Like what?
11:00Like you like girls who are
11:05The first time me and Veronica hooked up
11:07I was super nervous
11:09Because she at the time was the hottest girl I'd ever gotten
11:12Because I was a nerd
11:13And we were like on our third date or something
11:15And we're on the bed
11:16She's been me and we've been for like an hour and a half
11:19And I can't
11:21So out of frustration
11:23And all of a sudden
11:24She just takes her finger and shoves it in my a**
11:27And I legit jumped off the a** bed
11:31And said
11:33I'm not really comfortable with that
11:35So like we almost weren't a couple
11:37Because she tried to stick her finger in my a**
11:38Oh my god
11:39Yeah
11:40Nice
11:41You ever had a creeper?
11:43What's a creeper?
11:44You ain't ever had a guy like with his finger
11:46Just trying to like
11:47No, no, no
11:48Butt play only happens for special occasions
11:50And if you've been a very good boy
11:51Like birthdays?
11:52No, not even
11:54Like what does that man have to do to try to earn butt play with you?
11:58Upgrade my car
11:59Like get me a new car
11:59Upgrade your car?
12:01Yeah
12:01Upgrade my car
12:02You're getting some butt
12:04I invited Tim to come kind of have my back through this time after this breakup
12:10But that's like half of it
12:12The other half is kind of a surprise
12:14Because I really want to force him to get back into the dating pool
12:18And so step one of my plan is to get him some color
12:21Because homeboy is looking like your neighborhood friendly ghost
12:25Like that man is white
12:26Here we go
12:27We're about to get some spray tans
12:29Look at us now
12:30Here take your thing on
12:31Look at us now
12:32Okay
12:32Because we're about to be sexy
12:34I'm white white
12:34Sexy and bronze
12:38We're here to get our tans
12:40We're here to get our tan
12:41I haven't gotten a tan in a long ass time
12:44Hello
12:44Hello
12:45Hi Tiffany
12:47Time to get bronzy
12:49You know i'm cool with this vampire white shade that i've got going on
12:55But you know i'm just going to do this so that tiffany has a distraction from thinking about ronnie number
13:00two
13:01Okay turn back
13:02Turn more time
13:03Back here
13:04All right ready
13:05All right don't think about it
13:11Oh my god
13:17That liquid is freezing and i don't think that the bulge is looking that great because it's 10 degrees outside
13:26But i think the older you get the less you care
13:30You're looking so good
13:36Forget his face he needs some color on that face
13:39All right ready
13:40So i feel like tim has completely given up on dating and that really worries me
13:45Because i know how important it is for him to find that person
13:48But recently he's been more pessimistic and i'm worried that he's genuinely giving up on love
13:54And himself
13:56How i look
13:57Even your feet are tan
13:59And i'm not just going to sit by and let that happen
14:02So i invited another friend to help tim get out there to find love
14:06Because giving up is not an option
14:09Do you feel better if you have fun?
14:11I have fun
14:22So i've got this poster board and some markers we are gonna make a sign for call
14:30I want to give him the full 90 day welcome
14:32Like we gotta jump up and down and scream
14:34Yeah
14:37In addition to tim coming to maryland to visit me for the weekend i've also invited cole
14:43And he's coming all the way from california
14:45We met cole at the singles retreat in mexico
14:48He's like oh hi i'm a pilot and i was like oh no get out of here
14:52But then i got to see like more of his personality and i was like oh he's a sweet angel
14:57baby
14:58But there's only one problem
15:00That he's dating tim's psycho ex jennifer
15:04I'm friends with the two guys that
15:11Like the girl that i don't like and they both i don't know
15:17Whatever
15:18Isn't it crazy like this mexico trip like brought us all together and now somehow some way we're like involved
15:24in each other's lives
15:24Especially because me and cole's relationship did not start off very well
15:28I don't know what you think i really don't
15:30I know i know you don't like you're a good looking dude you're nice but this is none of your
15:34business
15:34It only becomes my business when you come up and start an argument
15:38But you know when i actually spent time with cole i realized that cole was a really cool dude and
15:44like we can jive and be friends
15:45Where you want me you're the girl you gotta get down here
15:48Like doggie get on your belly first
15:51Right here it's consensual right yeah i do it
15:56Dude i gotta tell you like i spend more time with cole probably than anybody else in my life
16:01I even thought i had more of you
16:04Well he games
16:05The three of us together make a very interesting uh trio you know tiffany's kind of like the female mind
16:11and like tells me and cole what
16:13We're doing wrong and then cole is like he's kind of like our child in a way
16:17Like we're trying to help him navigate all the stuff that we think we're experts on because we're older and
16:22wiser
16:24Let's go we're gonna be late
16:29Okay we're here we're getting our boy show the sign
16:33We didn't finish coloring it but it's the thought that counts honestly
16:36It's good enough let's go get let's go get our boy
16:42You look happy i'm i'm very happy
16:58We got you the full 90 day experience
17:13I'm cole i'm 30 years old i'm from danapoint california and i'm ecstatic to be back
17:18With tim and tiffany let's go it's been a long trip yeah it's been a long trip let's go
17:24My journey began about a year ago when i went to mexico looking for love
17:28And there was one person in particular that stood out to me
17:40Jen was absolutely perfect and i just felt like i
17:44Connected with her on a spiritual mental and physical level
17:47The problem is jen would lie to me about who she was hanging out with and i made the conscious
18:04decision only to date jen
18:07So it kind of put me in a weird spot don't talk about loyalty you did not you are controlling
18:13I'm not controlling you're turning this back on he's pushing me away with his controlling
18:18No that's gaslighting right there that's what that is you're gaslighting
18:23But at the end of the retreat jen did choose me so jen you are leaving with cole
18:31Yes
18:36Since the retreat i've been to columbia twice she's been to california twice
18:41We've had all kinds of different adventures together but things have been a little strained between us lately
18:50Oh my god guys i'm so happy to be here
18:53See you guys it's been so long
18:54I can't believe you actually came
18:57It's like a mexico reunion yeah
19:00I feel like i absolutely need to be here
19:02We're gonna have to figure out your situation
19:04Yeah we'll talk about that
19:05Let's just have a good time between us first
19:08Hey i just got here and let me relax a little bit as soon
19:19Here we go happy family
19:22All right my girl
19:24Uncle tim can get you
19:27Carefully
19:29So we're at a christmas tree farm because tim insisted that i get rid of my fake tree and get
19:34a real one
19:34Which is funny because it's such a guy thing like we're gonna chop one down for you like
19:39And this one i can literally assemble and disassemble like this is easy
19:55So we have to take a hayride all the way to the other side of the farm
19:59All just because tim wants to be a manly man and chop down a tree
20:18This is a bumpy ass ride like at one point my ass lifted off the hay so i feel like
20:24i'm gonna fall off the side of the
20:26Tractor thingy oh we're here
20:32That wasn't that bad
20:34If anything this is the part that makes you a man not cutting the tree down like this hayride i
20:39grew hair on my chest
20:40All right can you hold my hand yeah okay come on you got it buddy thank you
20:49Let's look around and you tell me what tree you want
20:52The tree will speak to you it'll call you of which one you need the gods of the christmas tree
20:57so
21:01Little tree let me in
21:10So mommy did you make up your mind what's it gonna be
21:13What is it mamita that's the one tim get to work that's not the one we gotta back up while
21:19he works with that saw
21:21Oh my god i got sacked on my hand already
21:25You got it the angle's wrong tell them harder
21:28i thought when we got here they were gonna be like here's your chainsaw
21:34Uh you know which i can handle a chainsaw i'm from north carolina but they hand me a hand saw
21:40Can you help me push what do you mean like this so yeah push my back you gotta change the
21:45angle
21:45So now i'm starting to panic a little bit like i'm the one that was like oh yeah
21:49i can cut a tree down and now i'm gonna look like a real
21:51Pussy that doesn't know how to cut a tree
21:54Let me try here keep trying two men okay
21:58And i gotta get down here i've never used a saw in my life oh my gosh
22:03You're doing better than tim already
22:05Tim burr
22:08Got it
22:10I did it all by myself easy work
22:12I cut 90 of that
22:16As per usual tim can't seal the deal so
22:20I had to go in and oh no that didn't look good that did not look good i meant like
22:25This is what i'm not making it any better i meant like
22:30No
22:33I even saw the tree that's what i bet
22:37All right familia we got the tree
22:39I think we need a hot cocoa
22:42Hot cocoa
22:42Yes
22:42Tyler needs a hot cocoa
22:43Hot jacuzzi and a sauna
22:44Oh my god what a diva
22:54Let me see your dating profile
22:59Well i'm gonna warn you you might uh get a little hot and bothered here because it's pretty pretty dope
23:04My goal this weekend has been to get tim back into the dating pool step one was packaging right get
23:11him looking good feeling
23:12Good tan ready to go perfect check done step two would be branding to see
23:17What he's really got going on if he's got the right pictures on his dating profile what he's writing about
23:23himself
23:23Just to see if he's really putting his best foot forward
23:27That totally sums up who i am
23:30Okay first of all that first picture you know
23:34You're in one of the pictures
23:35I know don't put pictures with you and other girls
23:38No, that's my friends the first thing a girl doesn't want to see is
23:42Who are all these bitches like number one number two?
23:46Do you hate life and people we might be made for each other?
23:50That's me
23:52That's the most honest dating profile ever
23:57I would get rid of the one where you're rolling your eyes. That's my main profile pic
24:03Yeah, it is a picture of him and his ex
24:06Like you know what it is people tell you to do something and you don't really want to do it
24:09So you half-ass and that's exactly what my dating profile is. It's like yeah, okay. No one can say
24:14i'm not trying
24:15So the point is my profile is not made to find an actual wife because i'm kind of past that
24:21you know
24:22I'm just so irritated
24:25This is what makes it so hard to help tim like he doesn't let anyone help him and he
24:30Most definitely doesn't let anyone see him struggling
24:33Maybe you could show me your skills because you're such a mac
24:36Nobody cares what you're doing your profile it. It's about you and what you want
24:40Tim says he's fine being alone and like it's easier for him to say like I don't give about a
24:44relationship
24:44I just want someone to bang
24:45It's easier for him to say that than to actually say like I want someone to love me
24:49But I know he wants someone to love him
24:53It's ironic out of all of us here. You're the one that met my ex in mexico
24:59And a year later are still with her tell me the d's like what's going on with that
25:05That's another story
25:09I feel like you're not telling us the whole story
25:12I'll tell you later
25:14I haven't wanted to open up about my relationship with jen just yet because there's been some big developments
25:19And i'm really not sure how they're going to react so i'm waiting for the perfect time to give them
25:24the big news
25:24I'm ready to get out of here. It's chilly. It is indeed
25:43I'm not
25:45Wasting time
25:47I can't love this
25:48Life will live
25:50Christmas came early
25:51Here we go
25:52Where do I want it?
25:53Just put it here in this corner
25:54Okay
25:56After my breakup with ronnie i've been feeling kind of down and you know crappy so i've invited my friends
26:02tim and cole to spend the weekend with me
26:04Cheer me up
26:05How do you make them stand?
26:08There's a christmas tree stand with bolts that you screw into the trunk
26:12They bring this tree in and have put zero thought to what happens once you bring the tree home
26:18No tree stand no no nothing maybe throw like a ornament on it
26:25So now it's just laying there depressed looking and i'm like thank you so much for getting me a christmas
26:33tree
26:33I think i just want to leave that there for a little bit and just chill out
26:37Snow time
26:38I agree let's change
26:46I'm glad you guys came
26:47You want me snuggling
26:49Carly and daniel are sleeping over at my mom's tonight so it looks like it's just gonna be me and
26:54the boys having a sleepover
26:55um
26:56That sounded really slutty i didn't mean it that way it's just like me and my boyfriends me and my
27:01guy
27:01Me and my friends that are boys is what i mean
27:04No one would have ever told me that you two would be on the same couch
27:07I would have never
27:08No one this right here. This is a real love story
27:12So cool spill it
27:14Because like you have been sidestepping like what is going on?
27:19I really want to know what's going on with him and jen because every time we bring it up
27:23He kind of avoids the question, but I feel like right now it's two against one
27:28We're gonna figure it out and get these answers out of him
27:31I mean it's a lot to unpack honestly
27:34So we were doing trips back and forth I went down to columbia a couple times jen came up to
27:38california a couple times
27:39And the last time that she came to california the good times were overshadowed by the bad times
27:46Where it just all of a sudden became about jen
27:50And how her feelings and what she cared about you want to get more of that good side of her
27:55And teach her to make less of the bad
27:58Yeah, so that's been much of our relationship where I feel like i'm putting in the work to to try
28:01and
28:02For a lack of better terms make her a better person and just be more aware of how she feels
28:05and what she does
28:07Seriously affects our relationship for the long term. Yeah
28:11In our best times jen and i's relationship is nirvana. It's exciting. It's adventurous
28:18But unfortunately in our worst times jen could be very toxic and she could get very aggressive
28:23She liked to throw things sometimes and play this game where she liked to threaten to break my
28:29Yeah, the problem is anytime that you feel the need to change someone it's not gonna work people don't change
28:39And you shouldn't need to change someone that big to make a relationship work
28:43I see a lot of myself and cole and what happens is you meet somebody you really like and
28:50You realize oh god, they're like a nightmare
28:52But there's enough good things that you hold and you just stay in it thinking that they're gonna change
28:58But this is who she is and it's always gonna be like that
29:03I'll be completely honest. I expected after maybe a couple weeks of her being gone
29:07I'd be like, okay, i'm ready to have jen back and I have not felt that way
29:12I said you don't miss her
29:14I can't say that I do
29:16My top winner
29:17I haven't even ended that yeah like what are you waiting on?
29:20The longer you're in the harder it's gonna be to get out
29:24I know cole hates confrontation
29:26But I feel like we have a very small window of time to like push him and get him to
29:31end that relationship
29:32And if we don't do it right now jen will leave cole baroque and miserable
29:37I say like let's do it now
29:40Call her ass
29:40Let's set you free right now
29:42You're saying call her right now
29:43I'm saying set yourself free man like it sucks, but you gotta do it
29:49So I know I need to break things off with jet
29:52I don't like the toxicity. I don't like the inconsistency
29:57But she's hot-headed and she's not gonna take it well or make this easy at all
30:02Why am I nervous?
30:04I'm kind of nervous too
30:05My heart beating back
30:07And I'm already broke
30:08I'm in the room
30:09I think we're all scared of jen
30:13Mother is so nervous
30:14I could hear his bones going like
30:16I should have had another beard
30:21You got it
30:23This is so crazy
30:24I got it
30:44Since meeting jen at the singles retreat we've spent a year together. There's been beautiful times, but unfortunately in our
30:52worst times
30:52It's toxic and I know I need to break up with her, but i'm terrified because I don't like confrontation
30:58especially with jen
31:04Hey, jen
31:07How are you?
31:12That's good. Um, hey, I
31:15I did want to take the time to talk to you
31:18So yeah, I just wanted to have that conversation with you. I've had a bit of time to self-reflect
31:23a little bit and just
31:24I've come to the conclusion that I think we're in a
31:28Very toxic relationship
31:31And uh
31:32I think I've decided that I want to add things with you
31:40Bye, please
31:41Well, you got it out before she hung up. Yeah, you're single
31:47Thank you guys so much for that. You did it. You're a free man. No more of that. No more
31:52of that
31:55How does it feel? Honestly, just like when she left the weight lifted off my shoulder
32:02Yeah, like my boy
32:06It's like we just we saw someone like be liberated
32:09Wow, it sounds like we've got a full day tomorrow
32:12So we should hit the hay. We need our beauty rest. Yes, let's kiss your mouth
32:16Yeah
32:18After breaking up with jen honestly i'm so relieved
32:22Who's going to wear them? I just feel so much lighter. No more arguments and no more stress in my
32:28life
32:29I just get it in the snuggly-bugly bed
32:33If you snore, you're slipping in the shower
32:43How long does it be in the shower?
32:46Get your asses ready. We're going out
32:50Even though Tim has been a lot more resistant to dating than I expected and I knew it was gonna
32:55be bad
32:55I'm not giving up on my plan to get it back out there
32:58And now cole is no longer in this horrible relationship
33:01So i'm taking these guys out for a night on the town to meet some women because i'm the perfect
33:07wing woman and i'm gonna push him
33:17Frederick maryland downtown baby
33:20From the streets to the cellar
33:22Let's get our asses in here and let's find somewhere to sit
33:29Let's go
33:30Somebody has this thing to hold the streets
33:32Cheers
33:33Cheers betty
33:35I'm gonna pee out there right now
33:40Tim's a lost cause
33:41Yeah, no, he's been a lost cause
33:43He's a f***ing lost cause
33:45I think honestly he is so set in his ways, he's not willing to step out of his comfort zone
33:52So I think he has to build up his confidence and go on the dates
33:57We are just holding back
34:01Sexy ass teeth
34:03How do most of your first kisses happen though?
34:08I find that like being too like what this ass is doing
34:15But that's how it might happen, I trick him
34:19Nooo
34:19I know, I know
34:22All right
34:22So you struck me on posh
34:24I prefer a gentle touch
34:27I'm not gonna go for a full like
34:29Like kiss me
34:31Usually it'll either be like a sidearm touch
34:35Or maybe just a little chin graph
34:39So if we're sitting here and it feels like the right one I'm gonna do
34:42That's as close to stop getting
34:44Bring you in
34:44And then the hand will move though
34:46And then it'll just kind of come down
34:50I got pretty boy McFloid over here
34:53Who like girls fawn over putting the moves on me
34:56And it's just like how the did I get myself into this
35:00I didn't sign up for this one
35:01I said I was coming to Maryland
35:02But what do you say?
35:04The problem is it's not that what do you say at that point
35:06There's tension
35:07You're like, dude, I just I want to kiss you
35:10There you go
35:12You got it, you got it
35:14You got it
35:16Listen, relax
35:16Zach Bryan is a cool dude
35:18You guys can't
35:19I mean
35:20There's a cool dude
35:20That's cool
35:26Oh
35:42My goal this weekend is to help Tim build the confidence
35:47To put himself out there and get his spark back
36:06Yeah, so that happened
36:08That was a good kiss
36:11And for that millisecond there was that like
36:14And then I was like, wait, this is Tim, stop
36:18Kissing Tim was not in my 2025 bingo card
36:21No, that made flying across the country worth it
36:23But that was a good kiss
36:24I have bad kisses
36:26So you've redeemed yourself
36:29Did you teach me how to
36:30Tiffany?
36:31That was good
36:32It felt good to kiss Tiffany
36:34Like she's a beautiful girl
36:36I really like Tiffany
36:37I don't know
36:38Maybe under a different circumstance
36:39I might be interested in dating
36:41But the relationship we have right now is very platonic
36:44And we're very close
36:45And I don't want to do anything to jeopardize that
36:47I thought it was a good kiss
36:50What did you think about it?
36:52One thing that I, I guess I'm realizing I do miss
36:55Is the touch and feel of a woman
36:57You know, intimate moments
36:59I have kind of shut the door on trying to find my partner
37:01But you know, maybe with this
37:03That's just telling me that like
37:05Hey, I need to get back out there and try again
37:08All right, so now that we're all warmed up
37:10I think we can just go out and enjoy ourselves
37:12No pressure
37:13Just have a good time
37:15After the kiss
37:16I could see such a clear shift in Tim's like energy
37:20He had this like, this like proud like
37:35Okay, so now I'm just going to talk to another girl
37:42How dare you?
37:44So honestly, I've been told before that my kisses are magical
37:47You know, but this is not about me
37:48I'm just, I'm just happy for Tim
37:50I'm happy for him to put himself out there and like talk to women
37:54But yeah, I can say, um, I give him a spark back
37:57It's fine
37:59Let go because Tim found his girl
38:02Yeah
38:05You can have it like this
38:09You can have it like that
38:11Good morning
38:13Oh my God, look at the biggest whore
38:17A whore
38:20A night that started off like
38:22My personal health turned out to be a really good night
38:25I got one girl's phone number
38:27Who knows if that's my next wife or not
38:29But you know, I'm thinking that maybe
38:31Maybe I am ready to start dating again
38:34Hopefully one day I'll get lucky
38:36I'm gonna miss you guys
38:38Thank you so much for having us here
38:39The airport's an hour away
38:45The day has come where I have to take these guys to the airport
38:48And I'm like sad about it
38:51And I'm so happy that they came because they definitely cheered me up
38:55But I think we all in our own weird way cheered each other up and we really needed that
39:02This was a freaking amazing trip
39:04I have already slept with Tim in the bed
39:07But now adding you to that, that was something new
39:10Yeah, it's an experience I never thought I would have had a year ago
39:14But I'm here for it
39:15But your dreams can come true
39:17Yeah
39:18I came here feeling hurt and confused about my relationship with Jed
39:21And as much as it was hard to let her go
39:23I'm happy that my friends helped me to see that I deserve better and I can do better
39:28I'm gonna miss you guys
39:30And we had a great time
39:32So master plan, get Tim's spark back, have him feeling good and looking good, check check
39:37And then we got Cole out of that crappy relationship
39:40Oh, this is where, this is where you guys have to leave me
39:43Honestly, I feel like a dating fairy godmother for these men
39:46And I'm loving it
40:00Say hi, hey
40:04Let me show you something special
40:07Look at that
40:08This is your piece of jerky
40:11Welcome to Washington, gentlemen
40:13Wow
40:15These are the options
40:16Let's see what Ashley thinks
40:18Ashley, I need your help
40:20Man, she has no idea what's coming
40:22I'm about to propose to Chantel over this weekend
40:24I am so nervous
40:26I just hope she says yes
40:27Chantel, I really, really gotta say this
40:34I didn't love you
40:39A couple weeks ago
40:41I relapsed
40:43I up really bad
40:44I don't know if she's gonna feel the same way about me and forgive me this time
40:48How many times do I have to say I'm sorry?
40:51Someone really started
40:54We just got off the plane
40:57It really feels so surreal
40:58Evelyn finally got her residency visa
41:01So we're gonna move to Washington
41:03But I've been hiding something huge from Evelyn
41:06So how long are you guys gonna be here?
41:09It's my fault for not preparing better
41:14I don't feel too well
41:16I am so pissed
41:18This man just lies
41:21Please open the door
41:23Are you insane?
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