00:04But let me back up.
00:05For example,
00:07si Ina,
00:08were you against that relationship?
00:10I wasn't against the relationship
00:12kasi hindi naman ako
00:14ang makakasama nila.
00:15Ikaw naman yan.
00:16Anong karapatan ko
00:17maging against
00:18their relationship?
00:20Diba?
00:21I'm not,
00:22I'm no saint.
00:23So,
00:24alam ko yung kontra din yung nanay ko
00:26o kontra din yung tatay ko.
00:28Diba?
00:28So,
00:29I know how it feels for them.
00:31My point at that time was,
00:33let's do it right.
00:35Let's do it right.
00:37We had,
00:38it was very tumultuous for a while
00:40until
00:41things just
00:43fell in their places.
00:45Okay na?
00:46Okay,
00:47okay naman pala.
00:48Ang ganda.
00:48Oo,
00:48meron talaga.
00:50Maaantayin mo lang.
00:51You have to wait.
00:52And then,
00:52when things are okay,
00:54that's when you say,
00:56o, diba?
00:56Okay naman.
00:57Correct.
00:58Ang ibig kong sabihin nun sa pag-aantay,
01:01minsan,
01:02pinipilit natin as parents,
01:03but you wait for the right time
01:05and that's God's time.
01:06Exactly.
01:07Kasi,
01:08pag parents tayo,
01:09diba,
01:09feeling ko,
01:10kaya rin siguro tayo nagiging ganyan.
01:12We're always worried about,
01:15ano yung sasabihin nila?
01:16You're coming from that space.
01:17Anong sasabihin nung kapitbahay?
01:19Anong klaseng nanay ito?
01:20Whether we like it or not,
01:22we think that way.
01:22Ayokong pagdaanan ang pinagdaanan ko.
01:25Ayokong mahirapan ng aking...
01:25Ayokong sabihin nila na ganito.
01:27Right.
01:28Then after a while,
01:29buhay ko too.
01:31Buhay namin ito.
01:32Pakialam nila.
01:32Moira,
01:33but has gotten married?
01:34Moira is getting married next year.
01:36She is.
01:37Yes.
01:38She is about you.
01:39Engaged na.
01:40How nice.
01:41Oo.
01:41What about Danielle and Kyla?
01:44Are they as open to you?
01:48Patawa, DJ.
01:49Ako nanonood ka.
01:50Ako'y nabigla.
01:52I am just happy
01:55that Kyla is happy.
01:56Yun lang.
01:56Para sa isang parent,
01:58ang gusto mo lang magkina sa sila.
02:00Lahat.
02:00Diba?
02:01When you see that your child is happy,
02:05anong karapatan mong makialam
02:07at gumit na do sa happiness?
02:09Right.
02:09Basta happy ka,
02:10yun lang ang gusto ko.
02:11And she's a very good actor.
02:12Oh, thank you.
02:13She is.
02:14Oo, napakahusay.
02:15And I always tell my children kasi,
02:18since gusto nyo yung relationship na yan,
02:21there will always be misgivings coming from me.
02:23Kasi ang gusto mo lang naman na sa parent,
02:25hindi sila masaktan, diba?
02:27Yun lang yun.
02:27Yun lang yun.
02:28Huwag masaktan.
02:29Huwag mahirapan.
02:31At saka yung may sinabi yan kanina,
02:32I'm no saint.
02:33You know?
02:33I'm no saint.
02:34Marami akong pinagdaanan.
02:35Pumapasok ba doon ang elemento na,
02:37sa lahat ng pinagdaanan ko,
02:38ayoko kayong masaktan,
02:39katulad ng sakit na pinagdaanan.
02:41Of course.
02:41Diba?
02:42Pumapasok yun.
02:42Of course.
02:43Pero, again,
02:45I will not impose.
02:46I will not impose.
02:47And because,
02:48naging rebelde din ako in a way.
02:50And I've always asked my parents to trust me.
02:54So, nagra-ring yun sa ulo ko
02:57every time na naiinis ako,
02:59or parang,
03:01tama ba to?
03:02Nagra-ring yun.
03:03Ragi ko naiisip yun,
03:04huwag, Janice,
03:06Diba?
03:07Sinasabi mo rin yung dati,
03:08pagkatiwalaan ka.
03:10So,
03:11I have to trust my children
03:13na kaya nila,
03:15kaya nilang panindigan,
03:17and whatever happens,
03:19they'll come out of it okay.
03:20When one...
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