00:05I mean, kids have started to go, diba?
00:09Ang tawag nila ngayon ay empty nesting.
00:12Although, Yuan is still in the house.
00:13Yuan is still in the house.
00:14So, Yuan, but he works everyday.
00:16Right.
00:17He works at night.
00:20So, sa araw, tulog siya.
00:23Diba?
00:23So, nakikita ko lang siya very briefly.
00:26Right.
00:26Right before he goes to work.
00:29Minsan, nakakasabay ko siya mag-lunch.
00:32And on weekends.
00:34Kasi weekends, off siya.
00:36Okay.
00:37Because...
00:38At saka si dad.
00:39Dad is with you at home.
00:41How nice.
00:42But that's for another longer conversation.
00:44Pero, how does it feel?
00:46Ito yung mga bata nakasama mo sa hapagkainan
00:49for breakfast, for lunch, for dinner.
00:51But, and suddenly, you know, Moira is in another house.
00:55Ina.
00:56Kyla.
00:57Kyla is living separately, independently.
01:01Yes.
01:01Ano yun?
01:02I mean, is this the reason why madalas ka magpa-makeup ngayon?
01:06Hindi naman.
01:07Hindi naman.
01:07I just realized...
01:09Well, having said that, magkakasama kami one time.
01:14And then, I was on my way home.
01:16Sabi ko, malalaki na talaga yung mga anak ko.
01:21I have so much time.
01:23I have so much time.
01:25Yung talaga yung iniisip ko.
01:26Tapos, kinocompare ko.
01:27Dati ba, wala kang time?
01:29Hindi naman.
01:29May time din naman ako.
01:31Pero...
01:32It's just that I choose to stay home.
01:35Okay.
01:36Right.
01:37I choose to stay home kasi nandun yung mga kids.
01:40Mga ating mga anak ko pagdating sa pagkain.
01:43So, asi ka, sumin mo yung pagkain nila.
01:44Kailangan alam mo kung ano yung isa-serve sa kanila.
01:47And...
01:48You're there.
01:49At home.
01:50Right.
01:51Pero meron bang Sunday lunches?
01:53Meron bang...
01:54Are you slowly...
01:55I don't demand that, Tito Boy.
01:56You don't.
01:56I don't demand that because I know si Kyla, naga-artista.
02:00We're in the same industry.
02:02Right.
02:02Ines in the same industry.
02:04Si Moira's quite busy.
02:05I understand that they have lives of their own.
02:08And I don't want to burden them with a feeling na naku.
02:15Kailangan mag-lunch.
02:17Kailangan mag-lunch sa bahay.
02:18Right.
02:19Ayokong isipin pa nila yun.
02:21Oo.
02:22Right.
02:22When they're free, when they're okay,
02:25kayo ang magsabi sa akin.
02:26Saka may pride ako.
02:28May pride ako.
02:29Aba, ako tawagin nyo.
02:30Sinong pinakamalambing?
02:33Iba-iba kasi sila ng lambing eh.
02:35Si Ina kasi, there was a time in our lives na medyo lagi kaming kontrapelo.
02:42And that was, I think, phase yun talaga na pinagdadaanan.
02:45Na nung una, syempre, I felt bad.
02:48Kinu-question ko na yung pagiging nanay ko.
02:50Kasi, am I doing things wrong?
02:52Or, ano ba, masama ba akong ina?
02:54Nakikpaki-alamera ba ako?
02:56And when she started living separately,
03:01nakita ko yung change sa kanya.
03:03For the better.
03:04Oo.
03:05She became sweeter.
03:06She became nicer.
03:07So, sabi ko, siguro, even with Moira and Kyla,
03:12nagkaroon din kami ng time na parang,
03:16ano ba itong mga anak ko?
03:17Tinatanong ko lang naman kung saan sila pupunta.
03:19Not because I'm going there or I will stop them,
03:23but because I'm a parent, I need to know where you are.
03:27I don't care where you are.
03:29I just want to know where you are.
03:31That's a matter.
03:32Diba?
03:33Yun lang naman.
03:33Tapos, yung nagda-disagreements na kami
03:36or naiinis na ako kasi hindi siya naglilinis ng kwarto,
03:40naiinis na ako kasi yung peanut butter,
03:42hindi nila masaray yung takip mainggi,
03:44or yung ilaw sa kwarto nila, lahat bukas.
03:49So, when they said that they were going to move out,
03:52initially, parang,
03:56okay, malulukot na ako.
03:57Mayumiss ko sila.
03:58I'm used to hovering.
04:00I'm used to hearing their laughter in the morning,
04:04or I'm used to seeing them exercise.
04:07Ano yung what's funny?
04:09Nasanay ka na rin mainis dahil nakabukas ang ilaw.
04:12Nasanay ka na rin dahil peanut butter nakabukas.
04:14Sasanay na ako.
04:16Okay, I think I'm going to be sad.
04:19But you know what?
04:20What I realized after,
04:24I'm not as sad as I thought I would be.
04:27Do you know
04:28sort of that.
04:30Talk to you officially new news
04:32But if something doesn't mean,
04:33.
04:36Well,
04:56we all complains on twenty.
05:08Transcription by CastingWords
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