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00:11:24I know I need to focus on you more.
00:11:28Should we both make commitments?
00:11:33And maybe one commitment you can make is to not keep kissing other people.
00:11:42I think that she makes out with people partly from insecurity
00:11:49and partly I think she gets a bit of an impulsive rush from playing with fire.
00:11:56I think she also knows that it's hurtful and I think she knows that it's not right.
00:12:02And that's why I'm patient because I think her heart's in the right place.
00:12:06But I could very well say I don't like this and here's an ultimatum, stop it or I'm leaving.
00:12:14I don't know. I want to feel wanted.
00:12:17You know, we think in very different ways very often.
00:12:21And so if we can start out aligned, I think that's the best start we could kind of hope for.
00:12:31I think sex is an important part of what we're talking about.
00:12:34I think that it's intimacy and loving and...
00:12:37I don't feel loving if we're not having sex.
00:12:40I mean, I don't feel loving when you're playing with other guys.
00:12:45At least they want to have sex with me.
00:12:51Honestly, I'm like worried things won't change.
00:13:00Let's call poppy.
00:13:01I'm here.
00:13:03Hey, handsome.
00:13:05I'm Debbie and my fiance's name is Vito and he's an Egyptian movie star.
00:13:10I love you.
00:13:13He's already asking if I would be willing to, like, move.
00:13:17Move where?
00:13:19Hollywood, New York.
00:13:21I can't help but worry that Vito's just coming over here to become a star.
00:13:28I really want to see what this attorney going to say if the appeal is an option.
00:13:32There's Nigerian men here in the United States.
00:13:34There are.
00:13:36But that's not the one for me.
00:13:38It's not a realistic relationship, but she thinks so.
00:13:42I'm worried about your safety.
00:13:44I mean, what if the embassy, they know something that we don't know?
00:14:02Oh, if I was a dog, wouldn't wear no button-up shirt.
00:14:09Morning.
00:14:10Good morning, Mallory.
00:14:11I'm good.
00:14:11How are you doing this morning?
00:14:12And I'd get all the plays I could want, though I'm just chasing my tail.
00:14:20Good girl, a little bit.
00:14:22In your spot.
00:14:23Honey, that's the life for me.
00:14:26That's a good girl.
00:14:28Okay.
00:14:30Hi.
00:14:31How can I help you?
00:14:32I'm Debbie.
00:14:33I'm 55 years old and I'm from New Orleans, Louisiana.
00:14:37Come on.
00:14:39Good girl.
00:14:41I am an insurance agent.
00:14:43It's a pretty monotonous day in and day out career.
00:14:58I am in charge of writing new business.
00:15:02Good morning.
00:15:03Hi, this is Debbie.
00:15:05We have metrics that we have to hit every day.
00:15:08I was going over that quote that we did for your auto insurance.
00:15:12Walking someone through a claim, anything that you can think of in the course of an insurance policy.
00:15:18We want to make sure that you are absolutely covered with all of your coverages.
00:15:22Freezing your deductibles from $500 to $1,000.
00:15:24The state of Louisiana allows for a five-year interval for an accident.
00:15:28It would be very important for you to carry higher bodily injury coverages.
00:15:34But outside of work, my life is way more exciting.
00:15:38Six years ago, I decided that I was going to take a trip to Egypt with my daughter and ended
00:15:44up meeting the love of my life.
00:15:49My fiancé's name is Mido.
00:15:51He is 41 years old, and he's an Egyptian movie star.
00:15:58Mido is an actor and a model.
00:16:01I mean, look at him.
00:16:03He has a fantastic smile, an absolutely gorgeous face, and he has a charm and a wit about him that
00:16:11makes all his physical attributes electrifying.
00:16:16Mido is famous.
00:16:20On social media, he's got hundreds of thousands of followers.
00:16:25People know who he is in Egypt.
00:16:29So, what kinds of movies and TV has Mido done in Egypt?
00:16:36Mido's...
00:16:37Honestly, he doesn't show me his work.
00:16:41I don't know why.
00:16:43I've asked him to send me, like, reels of stuff that he's done.
00:16:48But he says, I'm not going to understand what they're saying.
00:16:52So, he keeps telling me, I'll show you when I arrive, and I'll explain to you what's going on.
00:16:58But he's got hundreds of thousands of followers.
00:17:00So, obviously, he's built up some sort of following.
00:17:12Let's call it poppy.
00:17:14Let's call it poppy.
00:17:15Come on.
00:17:18Hey, Bibi.
00:17:20I'm here.
00:17:23Handsome.
00:17:24Look where I am.
00:17:25Okay.
00:17:26Let me see.
00:17:30Oh, my gosh.
00:17:32No, my pyramid's not finished yet.
00:17:33Maybe next year.
00:17:34Your pyramid is not finished yet.
00:17:37Okay.
00:17:38Yes, I'm the last emperor, you know that?
00:17:42The funnest thing about Mido is that we just have a really good banter.
00:17:48But at first, when I met Mido, he annoyed me.
00:17:53I was on a trip with my daughter, Devin, to Egypt, and he was our tour guide.
00:18:00He said probably one of the cheesiest things possible.
00:18:03He called me Cleopatra or some goddess.
00:18:07I don't remember which one, but it was enough that I was just like, oh, God.
00:18:15And then my daughter leans over, and she's like, he's flirting with you.
00:18:21And I went, no.
00:18:24She was like, mom, he's flirting with you.
00:18:27And so we climbed into the Great Pyramid of Khufu.
00:18:33And when we were climbing down, he kissed me.
00:18:37And I was really kind of, like, shocked.
00:18:40Being single for so long, I kind of didn't know what to do with it.
00:18:45You know, he's younger than I am, very handsome.
00:18:50He's very charismatic.
00:18:52It was just something that I didn't know if it was real.
00:18:59Are you nervous for your trip?
00:19:02Little bit.
00:19:03Little bit?
00:19:05No, you know, we'll leave everything here.
00:19:08My friend is my career.
00:19:09So I will start from the beginning.
00:19:14What are you going to be packing?
00:19:16Tuna fish.
00:19:16Tuna fish.
00:19:18Baby, we have tuna fish.
00:19:20You don't need to pack.
00:19:21Really?
00:19:22Yes.
00:19:23I think your tuna fish speak English, and my tuna fish speak Arabic.
00:19:27That's different.
00:19:29I miss you.
00:19:30I miss you too, Habibi.
00:19:32Can you print me headshots?
00:19:34Yeah, definitely.
00:19:36Send me some more of your modeling shots.
00:19:39Okay.
00:19:40So I can print those.
00:19:42Okay, Habibi.
00:19:42I will do.
00:19:43Okay.
00:19:45When Mido gets to America, his expectation is he definitely wants to be an actor, and he
00:19:51wants to be a major actor.
00:19:53I love you.
00:19:56Bye-bye.
00:19:57And that's also a great fear, because what if he arrives here, and after two months, realizes
00:20:04this is not going to be the place of opportunity?
00:20:08Is he going to be happy here?
00:20:25He's really photogenic.
00:20:27So he still wants to do the acting thing when he gets here?
00:20:30That's the plan.
00:20:31I don't know that the acting thing is really going to go anywhere, personally.
00:20:37I love this one.
00:20:39He's so photogenic.
00:20:41This looks like an amateur photo shoot thing for, like, Abercrombie and Fitch or something.
00:20:49What do you think of Mido's headshots?
00:20:53He knows how to find the light in pictures.
00:20:57To me, they don't really scream for, like, professional actor headshots.
00:21:01They look like Instagram model.
00:21:06I wish this one wouldn't have chopped his head off.
00:21:10I'm trying to be supportive, but he's already asking if I would be willing to, like, move.
00:21:18Move where?
00:21:21Hollywood, New York.
00:21:24He wants you to move to Hollywood with him.
00:21:28His first priority should be focus on the relationship with you.
00:21:34He's very talented.
00:21:36He loves the camera.
00:21:38The camera obviously loves him, too.
00:21:44He just needs a reality check, because I know that there has been a lot of weird sketchiness going on.
00:21:54Let's be real here.
00:21:55I know.
00:21:57Mido is semi-famous on social media, but he does not post me on social media at all.
00:22:06He says that social media is for work.
00:22:10And I don't get as upset that he doesn't post about me as when he posts with other women.
00:22:20That gets on my nerves.
00:22:22I need to hear him more and see him.
00:22:27Yeah.
00:22:27Act like.
00:22:28Not acting acting, but see how he acts.
00:22:31Right, like how what he does.
00:22:33The relationship is going to have to be more important than the dream.
00:22:36Like if he walked it.
00:22:39Exactly.
00:22:40So, to me, I don't really care what you do, so long as what you do makes you happy.
00:22:46I know that, but I still, I'm still mom.
00:22:51I still want you and your brother to be able to look at me and say, I'm proud of my
00:22:57mom.
00:22:59We are.
00:23:02And I know y'all are grown, and I know that y'all are on your own.
00:23:08But at the end of it all, if I don't make y'all proud.
00:23:17My mom is a very strong woman, but that strength only goes so far.
00:23:23So, I really do genuinely hope that Nido's intentions are pure.
00:23:28I mean, this is already crazy enough.
00:23:33It's good, mom.
00:23:34It's okay.
00:23:36But it's true.
00:23:38She really, truly does deserve happiness and a good, healthy relationship.
00:23:44I can't help but worry that Nido's just coming over here to become a star.
00:23:54Ah, I'm out.
00:23:55My divorce with my ex-husband, Michael, was challenging for the kids.
00:23:59I don't want him to replace your dad.
00:24:02Yeah.
00:24:03If the kids tell me this is not what they want, then I'm going to have to call it quits.
00:24:10I know I've crossed some boundaries in the past while, like, drunk.
00:24:13And I just want to be really transparent with you.
00:24:17It's the respect thing.
00:24:18And, like, when it's people like Wasp who have been together, that's not cool.
00:24:50Got it.
00:24:52I am a ninja.
00:24:55So, I have 50-50 custody with my ex-husband, Michael, for the boys.
00:25:00And that's what allows me to live in Pennsylvania and then work in New York City.
00:25:06I live as a high-powered career woman.
00:25:09And then I go home and, like, you know, I'm your basic baseball and football mom and picking up the
00:25:14kids,
00:25:15cooking dinner, getting them to all their events.
00:25:17And I don't have time for Edward.
00:25:19And that's when he typically feels not paid attention to.
00:25:21And he gets angry.
00:25:22That's one of the fights that we really have on a frequent basis.
00:25:26And when he sees me in action, I hope that he understands why I have, you know, neglected to call
00:25:33him sometimes
00:25:33or I'm just too tired at the end of the night to get on a phone call.
00:25:39I'm very grateful for the opportunity to still get to spend some time in New York, but I personally don't
00:25:46like the hustle and bustle of every single day.
00:25:48Like, I'd rather, like, come back to Pennsylvania and relax.
00:25:56So this is my neighborhood.
00:25:57You could take a look around.
00:25:59I love the streets are tree-lined and the neighbors are really nice, but mostly that it's super quiet and
00:26:05it's quite a shift for me.
00:26:07But it's just like a, it's a happier place to be than New York City.
00:26:18Derek, Cole!
00:26:20I kind of separate my mom life versus my career life.
00:26:23Cole, it's my pig.
00:26:25I...
00:26:26Derek is the oldest and he is currently 11 years old.
00:26:30And Cole is the younger one and he's 10.
00:26:33All right, so...
00:26:34All right, I'll go first.
00:26:35Okay, go.
00:26:37They don't even look like brothers.
00:26:38They look completely opposite.
00:26:42Got it.
00:26:43Derek is my little athlete and Cole...
00:26:48No!
00:26:49...is more of my artistic child.
00:26:53Loves art, loves music, loves creating things.
00:26:57Wait, do I have a PI already?
00:26:58Yeah.
00:27:01I'm out.
00:27:02But for me, I love having the contrast in their personalities in my life.
00:27:08And Derek wins.
00:27:10I missed on purpose, actually.
00:27:12Good game, good game, good game.
00:27:13Good game, good game.
00:27:14Nice job.
00:27:16Prior to Edward, I've never let the kids meet a boyfriend in person.
00:27:23So, this is one of the biggest changes that we're ever going to experience, you know?
00:27:28It's...
00:27:29It's been like a rollercoaster of emotions every single day.
00:27:33All right, so we know Edward's going to be here in a couple days.
00:27:36So, like, I just want to, like, lay out what's happening exactly because our lives are changing.
00:27:41Yeah.
00:27:42So, how's everybody feeling about that?
00:27:45Uh, when you first told me, um, that Edward was moving here, I was, like, super excited.
00:27:53Yeah?
00:27:54What excites you about having someone live here with us?
00:27:56Dog.
00:27:56Dog.
00:27:57Oh, because I promise you a dog when Edward ever gets here?
00:27:59Yes.
00:28:00Mm.
00:28:01Well, we'll see.
00:28:03We'll see.
00:28:03We've been talking about this for, like, six months.
00:28:06I keep promising.
00:28:07We can keep pushing the date back.
00:28:09I didn't even know they were dating for, like, until, like, last year.
00:28:14So, it's only been, like, a year since I've known him.
00:28:17And he's just coming to live with us.
00:28:18So, it's just, like, oh, like a weird reaction in my body.
00:28:24Well, I have a question.
00:28:25Yeah.
00:28:26Like, when Edward comes, like, here, will he have, like, money?
00:28:30That's a good question.
00:28:32He had a job when he was there, right?
00:28:35So, where did he work?
00:28:36He worked at a hotel.
00:28:38Fancy hotels, like resorts?
00:28:39Or just, like, a resort.
00:28:41But here, we don't have, like, all-inclusive resorts like they do over there.
00:28:45And, you know, that skill set isn't really useful here.
00:28:48Is he going to get an allowance?
00:28:52Probably.
00:28:52I mean, I'm going to have to, like, help pay for things for him while he gets settled here.
00:28:58But, you know, the paychecks there, like, let me put this into perspective.
00:29:01The amount of money that we would, like, a normal person maybe here would get for, like, one week is,
00:29:10like, what Edward would get in his country for, like, a whole month.
00:29:13Do you know what I mean?
00:29:14Mm-hmm.
00:29:16I'm, like, a bit, like, nervous.
00:29:19Yeah?
00:29:19Because, like, it's just going to be, like, another guy coming to live with us.
00:29:23Mm-hmm.
00:29:23Like, I'm not really ready because, like, I met him, but I don't know him.
00:29:27Yeah.
00:29:28That's, like...
00:29:28It's a little scary.
00:29:29Mm.
00:29:29Yeah.
00:29:30I mean, like, I don't want him to replace his dad.
00:29:35Yeah.
00:29:37I mean, I think that you have to remember, like, your dad's always going to be your dad, right?
00:29:41And nobody's ever going to replace him in life.
00:29:45And Edward is kind of just going to be here as, like, another adult to love you guys and play
00:29:49with you.
00:29:50I'm definitely going to say, if we could take it slow.
00:29:53Not, like, coming in and, like, being like, oh, hello, hello, my son.
00:30:00Mm-hmm.
00:30:01You know, I want to make sure that, like, you feel comfortable.
00:30:04So I'm going to have a conversation with Edward.
00:30:06Because if you're not happy in any way, then this isn't going to work out for all of us, you
00:30:09know?
00:30:09Oh.
00:30:11My divorce with Michael was challenging for the kids.
00:30:15Mostly for Derek.
00:30:16He was a little older than Cole.
00:30:18And because of that, the boys are the number one priority in my life.
00:30:23Making sure that they feel comfortable is critical to me.
00:30:30Nothing comes above them.
00:30:32And in the 90 days, if the kids tell me this is not what they want, then I'm going to
00:30:36have to call it quits.
00:30:37And that's just a lot of pressure on me to try to make a lot of things work in such
00:30:41a short amount of time.
00:30:43Well, let's stay positive.
00:30:45All right.
00:30:46All right?
00:30:47Mm-hmm.
00:30:52Is it your desire
00:30:55To fool me twice too many times?
00:31:01Did you want cream?
00:31:03Yeah.
00:31:04There's, like, heavy cream in the fridge.
00:31:06Can you just pour some in it?
00:31:08Thanks, babe.
00:31:09Rain on fire
00:31:11You got me flying round in circles
00:31:18How'd you sleep?
00:31:21I slept so well.
00:31:24You woke up early.
00:31:26Yeah.
00:31:26Because we totally just passed out.
00:31:28I woke up at, like, 6 a.m.
00:31:29Was that about it?
00:31:30I did, too.
00:31:31I woke up when you woke up.
00:31:32Yeah.
00:31:32And then we were just kind of, like...
00:31:37Well, that's...
00:31:39Sorry.
00:31:42Me and Josh had sex.
00:31:44We didn't have sex that night.
00:31:46We had sex in the morning because I was dead.
00:31:48And he was dead also.
00:31:49But, yeah, I just want to feel like this again.
00:31:54Last night you were just, like, I'm ready.
00:31:56Which made me happy that you...
00:31:57Yeah, you like that.
00:31:58I really like that you were...
00:31:59That's just what I like.
00:32:00That you're able to, like, tell me that you want me.
00:32:04Yeah.
00:32:04I think it's that kind of, like, open conversation
00:32:07that we just need to keep doing.
00:32:10And, like, it's on me and a big way to, like,
00:32:13say that to you
00:32:14because I know that you hearing that helps.
00:32:20I know that, like, with Katie and I,
00:32:22when we don't have sex,
00:32:24she closes up a bit.
00:32:25And I don't have that same reaction.
00:32:28But I know that sex is so important to her.
00:32:30So I feel that she's, I think, a bit more relaxed today.
00:32:36And that's good.
00:32:38I want my other half to feel relaxed.
00:32:41I felt, like, just totally different
00:32:44to how I've felt over the past, like, however long.
00:32:48Why do you think that is?
00:32:50Just, like, a big thing is not having, like, immigration looming over
00:32:55because, like, pretty much every thought I've had over the past year
00:33:00has been, you know, whatever I'm thinking about
00:33:04and then immigration.
00:33:06Like, it's just with you all the time.
00:33:08And now that it's happened and I'm here,
00:33:10it's just a massive weight that has gone.
00:33:13And I think that when I'm stressed,
00:33:16sex is, like, another thing on the to-do list.
00:33:19Now it feels like something I want to run into
00:33:22because the stress is going away.
00:33:24Does that make sense?
00:33:25Yeah.
00:33:26I think that's good.
00:33:27Yeah?
00:33:30Love you.
00:33:31Love you.
00:33:33I definitely feel more connected to Josh after having sex.
00:33:37It feels like we're in a good place,
00:33:39and so I'm hoping that in the next 90 days
00:33:42we'll be more sexually compatible
00:33:44and ready for marriage.
00:33:47I've been feeding lies
00:33:49and my hands are tied
00:33:51by the secret that controls me.
00:33:54So where are we going?
00:33:56Uh, this way.
00:33:59I'm excited to show you around the neighborhood.
00:34:02Nice.
00:34:03I think Portland is just so beautiful from what I've seen.
00:34:06Ah!
00:34:10That's cute.
00:34:12There's a goat.
00:34:14Hello!
00:34:16Hi!
00:34:17This is very cute.
00:34:18Hi!
00:34:19I'm not feeding you.
00:34:20Aw.
00:34:23No donuts.
00:34:24No donuts.
00:34:26I love...
00:34:27We should watch a goat someday.
00:34:29Yeah.
00:34:30That's a collar, like a dog.
00:34:31I feel like that's very Portland,
00:34:33it's like urban goat farming.
00:34:35Yeah, that's so cute.
00:34:38Okay, anyways.
00:34:40So what do you want to do tonight?
00:34:42Um, I have a surprise welcome party planned for you.
00:34:47Oh, wow!
00:34:47That'd be fun.
00:34:48I wanted to tell you ahead of time.
00:34:49Yeah.
00:34:49Because surprise parties are weird, but...
00:34:51Yeah.
00:34:51Who's going to be there?
00:34:53Um, I think it's just, like, running club people.
00:34:56Christine, Claire, Danica, Eddie.
00:35:00Like, um, let me think.
00:35:01It's like Mark, you know, like how we're dated,
00:35:04like, casually dated for, like, two weeks.
00:35:06I know the story of in talk.
00:35:09Yeah.
00:35:09So you remember.
00:35:12I think I've made out with 90% of the single men
00:35:16at the run club.
00:35:20Have any of these makeouts happened
00:35:22after you already had a relationship with Josh?
00:35:24Yeah, some of the makeouts have happened
00:35:27after I met and was already in a relationship with Josh.
00:35:33I know I've done things that haven't been fair to you,
00:35:36like, in the past while, like, drunk
00:35:37and crossed some boundaries.
00:35:39So I just, like, wanted to, like, start off Portland.
00:35:43Just, I don't know.
00:35:44I just want to be really transparent with you.
00:35:47Like, I'm not really a jealous person.
00:35:49It's a respect thing.
00:35:50And, like, when it's people whilst we've been together,
00:35:53that's not cool.
00:35:56It's really hard for me to resist kissing other people.
00:35:59Like, the compulsion part of OCD is, like,
00:36:02you do a thing to, like, neutralize the obsession.
00:36:06But then when you do the compulsion,
00:36:08it actually makes it all worse,
00:36:09and then it turns into a time-consuming,
00:36:12stressful, useless cycle.
00:36:15I know that Josh forgives me when I make out with people.
00:36:19But I'm, sometimes I'm worried,
00:36:21oh, is this the last time?
00:36:22Like, I don't think I could do it every week,
00:36:25or I don't even want, I don't want to do it every week,
00:36:27but I don't think I could do it, like,
00:36:29for the next, like, few years
00:36:31and have him forgive me every time.
00:36:33I feel like I'm in a good headspace with us.
00:36:36Nice.
00:36:37Especially after last night,
00:36:38because I know I've been particularly unhinged in London.
00:36:44Yeah.
00:36:44And I'll try to let you know
00:36:46before we start drinking
00:36:47what kind of headspace I am in in the future.
00:36:50I feel like I've come to the US
00:36:52willing to, like, have a new chapter with Katie
00:36:55and move forwards,
00:36:56and we've got these 90 days
00:36:58to prove to each other
00:37:00that we're here,
00:37:01and we're here with, like, meaning and intent.
00:37:05Katie needs to settle down a bit
00:37:06and have some level of stability,
00:37:09or this relationship, it won't work.
00:37:12And I think she just needs to curb the bull...
00:37:30The love that you're laying down
00:37:35It is a part of the other side's plan
00:37:42We won't run, we won't hide
00:37:47We won't live like a broken angel
00:37:55All right, Ma.
00:37:57I'm about to go see that attorney about Maxwell.
00:38:01So you think the attorney
00:38:03gonna be able to work things out?
00:38:04I don't know. I hope so.
00:38:05How is Maxwell handling this situation?
00:38:07He devastated.
00:38:09You know, he already started the moving process.
00:38:12You know, he got his stuff ready to go.
00:38:14You know, he done made his plans.
00:38:16He done told his family.
00:38:17So right now, I'm just gonna talk to his attorney
00:38:19and see what options they give us.
00:38:23It never crossed my mind for a second
00:38:26that that application would be denied
00:38:28because I have God on my side.
00:38:30I feel very upset, enraged, and angry.
00:38:35If this attorney don't work, who would you do next?
00:38:38I don't know.
00:38:39We're gonna have to get some advice from them.
00:38:41The appeal would be the best option,
00:38:43and we can get another person to interview them,
00:38:45and then hopefully we don't have to restart this process over again.
00:38:49So I guess I'm gonna head on out.
00:38:51I don't want to be late,
00:38:52and then I gotta pick up Rod.
00:38:54Where Rod at?
00:38:55At the coffee shop, honey.
00:38:56But I feel like he'll have good expertise on,
00:38:58you know, trying to help me navigate everything.
00:39:00Yeah, he will, yeah.
00:39:05Rod is my godbrother,
00:39:08so we have a really close relationship,
00:39:10like almost as if he was my real brother,
00:39:13and he treats me as so.
00:39:15Is Rod overly protective of you?
00:39:17Rod is crazy.
00:39:19So, I kid you not.
00:39:22Hey, Rod, I'm outside.
00:39:23I'm over here to the left,
00:39:25and I hope you got me some coffee.
00:39:26Okay.
00:39:27All right, bye-bye.
00:39:29When I first told Rod about Maxwell,
00:39:33he was a little confused, I think,
00:39:36as far as, like, how did you meet this man?
00:39:39And then Rod is stuck on Nigerians or scammers
00:39:43rather than looking at the one person who is Maxwell.
00:39:48What up, Rod?
00:39:49Hey.
00:39:50You okay?
00:39:51You okay?
00:39:52You okay?
00:39:53You okay?
00:39:57I'm glad you able to go with me today.
00:39:59I really want to see what this attorney going to say
00:40:01if the appeal is an option.
00:40:04Mm-hmm.
00:40:06Tell me.
00:40:08American men,
00:40:11you just gave up.
00:40:15No, I'm not saying I gave up on American men.
00:40:17There's Nigerian men here in the United States.
00:40:20There are.
00:40:22But that's not the one for me.
00:40:26But to go back to all the guys I tried to hook you up with,
00:40:30all these type of guys that wasn't,
00:40:32you had a big, tall list.
00:40:34And this guy is none of that, so...
00:40:37Oh, don't do that.
00:40:38Now, he's most of that.
00:40:41As far back as I can remember,
00:40:43I've had this list of characteristics
00:40:46I want my husband to have.
00:40:47I had an AOL account when I first made that list,
00:40:50so you know how old that was.
00:40:53Every time that I would come in contact with a guy
00:40:56that, like, had a flaw or something I didn't like,
00:40:58I'll just keep adding and adding to this list.
00:41:01Honey, that list was everywhere.
00:41:05Like, the list was everywhere.
00:41:07Do you have that list?
00:41:10It's on my phone.
00:41:11Oh, go get it.
00:41:12Girl, go get that list.
00:41:13Oh, okay.
00:41:14Well, hold on, girl.
00:41:15It's stuff every man just about should possess.
00:41:20So here we go.
00:41:22First, no smoking, no drinking, no kids.
00:41:26Great job.
00:41:27Has ambition.
00:41:28I don't want him, like, just so diehard God
00:41:30that you can't have fun, you know?
00:41:32Understanding.
00:41:34Organized, because I'm not organized.
00:41:36Athletic built.
00:41:37Great lover.
00:41:38I don't like men with big feet.
00:41:43Wealthy.
00:41:44Knows his purpose.
00:41:45Good hygiene.
00:41:46Good hair.
00:41:47Pretty teeth.
00:41:48I put love God again, so I guess I just really want that to be on the list.
00:41:53But that's just part of it.
00:41:54It was long.
00:41:56It was long.
00:41:58Like, one of my friend's mom was like,
00:42:00girl, you need to burn that list.
00:42:02Like, get rid of that list.
00:42:03You'll never get a husband.
00:42:04Like, this, you more worried about the list than me.
00:42:07Well, I'm worried about your safety.
00:42:10This is a scary situation for everybody.
00:42:13And then it may be-
00:42:13A scary situation for everybody, a scary situation for you.
00:42:18Let's just keep it real, you know?
00:42:20It should be a scary situation for everybody, because there's so much unknown.
00:42:26It is a lot of unknown.
00:42:27I mean, what if the embassy, they know something that we don't know?
00:42:34Aisha, biological clock is ticking, and she thinks she should be married by now, and I
00:42:40think she's rushing into this.
00:42:42I don't really know the guy, so I don't want to say that he's a bad guy, but it's not
00:42:47a
00:42:47realistic relationship.
00:42:49But she thinks so.
00:42:52I'm just trying to protect you, but I don't know.
00:42:54I don't know.
00:42:56I feel like this ain't the time for protection.
00:42:59I feel like this is the time where it needs to be support.
00:43:02Looking out for your well-being is support.
00:43:08I feel like Rod has lost his mind by questioning my choices.
00:43:12It's hurtful that he does not think that I'm wise enough to make good decisions, and we
00:43:20already have enough problems with this denial.
00:43:23So the last thing I need is Rod saying nay, nay, nay.
00:43:27Are you determined to get your man to the U.S.?
00:43:30Oh, 100%, 110%.
00:43:34Maybe the way that I thought it was going to be done is different than what God had planned.
00:43:40But at the end of the day, I'm getting Maxwell to the U.S.A.
00:43:44I don't know.
00:43:45Everything is just a question mark for me.
00:43:47I mean, what is the rush?
00:43:49What is the rush?
00:44:01Hey, pretty precious.
00:44:05Hey, pretty girl.
00:44:07What's that little girl doing?
00:44:09Is she being snuggly?
00:44:10There you are.
00:44:12Papi doesn't want you sleeping in the bed.
00:44:14Mito wants you sleeping out in your own spot.
00:44:16What?
00:44:18Okay.
00:44:19We're going to find a spot just for you.
00:44:21I'm your chicory mama.
00:44:24I don't take long to brew.
00:44:28Because your chicory mama always had a girl.
00:44:33Where's that big girl?
00:44:34Where's my pretty girl?
00:44:36All right, sweetheart.
00:44:37I'll be home in a little bit.
00:44:39Little bit.
00:44:40Mito has set rules for little bit that she cannot sleep in the bed with him.
00:44:46You can't use him loving.
00:44:48I mean, in the Muslim faith, dogs are not to be inside your home.
00:44:55It's haram, is what they say.
00:44:58They're looked at as dirty.
00:45:00Little bit has spent every night of her life with me in my bed.
00:45:05So, I don't know how them two are going to fight that out.
00:45:15But, I mean, I have not shared a bed or lived with a man in almost 20 years.
00:45:21So, the dog is the least of our worries.
00:45:25Hey, how are you?
00:45:28Good to see you.
00:45:30Good girl.
00:45:30Oh my gosh, you look so good.
00:45:32Yeah.
00:45:34Girl, how's it going?
00:45:36It's so good to see you.
00:45:38I know.
00:45:38Oh my God.
00:45:39How's it going?
00:45:40It's doing pretty good.
00:45:41And how about you?
00:45:45What's going on, Debbie?
00:45:46When I tell you everything feels like it's coming 150 miles per hour.
00:45:51Well, because it is.
00:45:53What's going to be like the sleeping arrangements in the apartment?
00:45:55Like, is...
00:45:56Devin's on the couch for now.
00:45:58Does he know y'all are going to be sharing a bedroom?
00:46:00Yeah, he...
00:46:01I think he does.
00:46:03I mean, unless he wants to sleep on the air mattress.
00:46:06So, y'all have never slept in the same bed together?
00:46:09Him being Muslim, there's like some pretty tight parameters of pre-marriage and post-marriage.
00:46:15So, what do Muslims believe that you're allowed to do before marriage?
00:46:19Nothing.
00:46:20So, you guys have straight up never had sex?
00:46:24Never.
00:46:25Is he a virgin?
00:46:30Whoa.
00:46:33Wow.
00:46:36Mito is a 41-year-old virgin.
00:46:39He's going to kill me for saying that.
00:46:43I mean, have you ever, like, kissed?
00:46:46Yes.
00:46:47Okay.
00:46:48At first, because he abstained, I didn't think that he was interested in me until he explained
00:46:56to me he had never been with a woman before.
00:46:59I just found the whole situation so bizarre.
00:47:03Because how do you believe a 30-something-year-old that's telling you this?
00:47:08From the U.S., where are you going to find that?
00:47:13Or at least you're not going to find somebody that's going to admit it.
00:47:17How old is he?
00:47:1941.
00:47:21Wow.
00:47:22And I know.
00:47:24I've actually had people tell me, I don't believe you.
00:47:27Why were you surprised?
00:47:29Because I'm a slut.
00:47:33Sorry.
00:47:36When I hear that somebody is 40 years old in a virgin, I'm kind of skeptical.
00:47:44I mean, 40 years?
00:47:45Really?
00:47:47It's so unlikely that they even made a movie with that title.
00:47:52I just want to make sure I have this straight.
00:47:54You're going to be marrying somebody in, like, two and a half months.
00:47:58Two and a half months that you haven't physically seen or touched in three years.
00:48:05And you're going to sleep in the same bed with him for 90 days and not have any sex?
00:48:11That's the goal.
00:48:13Wow.
00:48:13Is it attainable?
00:48:15I have no idea.
00:48:17I give it up on the third date, girl.
00:48:19I don't know how you're going to do it.
00:48:21How do you feel about how stable your relationship has been over the last six years?
00:48:27Like, have you felt like, yep.
00:48:30I mean, we're in it.
00:48:31So, I mean, at this rate, yeah.
00:48:35You guys had a rough patch.
00:48:37Categorical.
00:48:37There were some times when y'all were not all lollipops and rainbows.
00:48:41Yeah.
00:48:42No?
00:48:43That damn social media.
00:48:44With that girl.
00:48:44That social media.
00:48:46That girl.
00:48:46Yep.
00:48:47That girl.
00:48:49I can't believe I got to talk about this bitch.
00:48:52Um, I'm like grinding teeth to even have to bring her up.
00:49:00And she's not anywhere near him anymore?
00:49:04Not that I know of.
00:49:05And it's been over a year.
00:49:08So we actually broke up for a while.
00:49:11He was posting, um, with this one Egyptian actress that's very famous.
00:49:18He thinks that I'm being ridiculous and that this is just work and that's his friend.
00:49:25I'm not dumb.
00:49:26I can definitely read a situation pretty well.
00:49:31And if something doesn't feel right, something's not right.
00:49:37I mean, I'm not deluding myself to think any of this is going to be an easy walk.
00:49:42Right.
00:49:44The biggest thing that I'm worried about is you getting hurt.
00:49:47We know that you're in this for love.
00:49:50But we don't know him.
00:49:51Yeah.
00:49:52At all.
00:49:52So we have no idea what his, like, agenda is.
00:49:58I think from the beginning, it's been a lot of blind faith.
00:50:02With the acting, with the, the abstaining, with the social media battle.
00:50:09So I really, really, really am concerned.
00:50:13But then people write books about stuff like this.
00:50:17I may get lucky enough and have the dream.
00:50:21May not.
00:50:24But I also might.
00:50:27And why not take that chance?
00:50:30This is going to be a real trip.
00:50:33It's going to be a real trip.
00:50:35It's going to be a hard one.
00:50:45A clean man is a sexy man for me.
00:50:48Okay, let's clean your ass.
00:50:51Even if I take a poop, Annabelle is trying to get me in the shower.
00:50:57You get this one?
00:50:57I'm excited tonight.
00:50:59I just like his penis a bad smell.
00:51:13I think I'm right up here, bud.
00:51:15I think that's one?
00:51:16That's not it, no.
00:51:18Okay.
00:51:18But it's over here somewhere.
00:51:20In the Philippines, it's very different.
00:51:22They're all little trucks or anything, baby.
00:51:23Everybody here's got big trucks.
00:51:25Philippines, little.
00:51:26This one, babe, your truck?
00:51:27Yeah, right here, baby.
00:51:30Oh, thank you.
00:51:31You're welcome.
00:51:42It's my first time to ride in the big truck.
00:51:46Very nice to ride in the big truck.
00:51:49Smooth, right there, babe?
00:51:51Very smooth.
00:51:53In the Philippines, we're...
00:51:54Bang, bang, bang, bang, bang.
00:51:59Oh, so you see at the left, that's the St. Louis Arch.
00:52:03They call that the gateway to the west, because coming from our way, all the settlers would
00:52:10cross Mississippi River, and they'd go west.
00:52:12It looks amazing.
00:52:14It is.
00:52:15It's like your gateway to your new life in America.
00:52:21All right, I think this is it, baby.
00:52:24It looks kind of like a church or a castle, doesn't it?
00:52:26Mm-hmm.
00:52:27Very nice.
00:52:28I don't know if I got in the parking spot right or not.
00:52:32Whew.
00:52:38Wow.
00:52:39This looks amazing.
00:52:42Wow.
00:52:42Hi, welcome to Gothic Heights Inn.
00:52:45How's it going?
00:52:45What's your name?
00:52:45I'm Shay.
00:52:46Hi, I'm Ken.
00:52:47Welcome.
00:52:47Nice to meet you.
00:52:48This is Annabelle.
00:52:49Hi, nice to meet you.
00:52:50Hello.
00:52:51Welcome.
00:52:51This is a former Methodist church that's been converted to a four-bedroom inn.
00:52:56Wow.
00:52:57I wanted Annabelle to feel special the first night.
00:53:01So, you know, I got this room, and I just wanted to show her how excited I was for her
00:53:07to get here.
00:53:07I like it.
00:53:08It looks like old charts.
00:53:10I knew you'd like to stay in glass.
00:53:13It's my first time to see a hotel with charts.
00:53:17So, you guys are staying in our botanical suite?
00:53:20Let's go.
00:53:21Can I show you?
00:53:22Yeah, sure.
00:53:22We'll just follow you, sir.
00:53:24But I think the things we might do tonight aren't really appropriate for a church, so
00:53:30we might have to turn the Jesus pictures around so he's not looking at you.
00:53:34You do it.
00:53:38Okay.
00:53:41All right.
00:53:42Wow.
00:53:44Mmm.
00:53:45Oh.
00:53:46Dang.
00:53:48Look at the bath.
00:53:49Look how big the tub is.
00:53:51Wow.
00:53:51Wow.
00:53:52Big bath.
00:53:53I need you to make it.
00:53:55Get the water going.
00:53:57A clean man is a sexy man for me.
00:53:59I'm not going to touch him if he's dirty.
00:54:03I can't wait to scrub.
00:54:04Are you ready?
00:54:06Oh.
00:54:07Yeah.
00:54:08I clean it good.
00:54:10His ass, his ball, his egg.
00:54:13What can I call him?
00:54:14Egg no ball.
00:54:15Okay.
00:54:16Let's go.
00:54:17All right.
00:54:18I clean his penis, and I rub it good inside.
00:54:22I don't like his penis a bad smell.
00:54:26Hold on.
00:54:27We might cause a tsunami here.
00:54:29Tsunami.
00:54:31No, it's good.
00:54:32It's hot?
00:54:33Yeah.
00:54:34Oh.
00:54:34I started from here at the back.
00:54:40Oh.
00:54:41Good?
00:54:41Yeah.
00:54:42And the armpit.
00:54:44And it's in the chest, especially here.
00:54:50This reminds me of the Philippines.
00:54:52Yeah.
00:54:53You're right when I met you the first time.
00:54:56That's why you fall in love with me.
00:54:58You get this one?
00:54:59Mmm.
00:55:00I will do this.
00:55:03That's true.
00:55:03Can I say, mmm, get the a**?
00:55:06Keep scrubbing down there, but you have to get in there with me.
00:55:09Right?
00:55:11Yeah, I'm excited tonight.
00:55:14I'll have to admit, it was kind of a turn on.
00:55:17First time I met her, but since then, she's got a little more comfortable with it.
00:55:21And, you know, I have to tell her, just calm down.
00:55:24And you get real fast.
00:55:27She scratched me several times, like, where it hurt and left a mark.
00:55:34Okay, let's clean your a**, and then you're going to get me your a**.
00:55:38Even if I take a poop, Annabelle is trying to get me in the shower or a wet rag, and
00:55:45I'm
00:55:45like, that's not, that's not what we do here.
00:55:48In the Philippines, after you poop, you wash with water.
00:55:52Toilet paper works good, too.
00:55:53But we can't take a bath every time we use a restroom, baby.
00:55:59Can I check your toenail, babe?
00:56:00Oh, yeah.
00:56:03Okay.
00:56:04How do they look, babe?
00:56:05Too long, but it's still can't manage my baby.
00:56:09Toonails is very important to cut it.
00:56:12If his toenails get too long, he scratch on my legs.
00:56:16They look good?
00:56:17Yeah.
00:56:17I don't mind you clipping my toenails, because it's definitely something I don't enjoy doing.
00:56:25I want to try some champagne, baby.
00:56:28Oh!
00:56:29Oh, baby.
00:56:33It's my first day in America, but you want to get my face off.
00:56:38Enough, baby.
00:56:39Thank you.
00:56:39Okay.
00:56:40Bottle, thank you.
00:56:42Mm-hmm.
00:56:44Mm-hmm.
00:56:46Okay.
00:56:46Mm-hmm.
00:56:47Yeah, very good taste, baby.
00:56:49Yeah.
00:56:51Mm!
00:56:54Tastes good.
00:56:55Let me taste the champagne, babe.
00:56:57Mm.
00:56:59Mm.
00:57:00When it comes to sex, usually Annabelle tells me what to do, what she wants.
00:57:06Yeah, yum-yum.
00:57:07Mm-hmm.
00:57:08Yum-yum.
00:57:09This one, yum-yum.
00:57:12I am 54 years old, but my sex drive is like a 25 years old woman.
00:57:20Of course.
00:57:22It's been two years.
00:57:23I did not make love to Shea.
00:57:26It's time to get dirty.
00:57:28Mm.
00:57:29Sounds interesting, man.
00:57:37I miss you too much, baby.
00:57:46Mm.
00:57:49Oh, baby.
00:57:50Grab me.
00:57:51Mm.
00:57:52Yum-yum.
00:57:55Let me have the able-bodys say, amen, and amen.
00:58:03Thank you, Lord.
00:58:08Hello, hello.
00:58:09How are you?
00:58:10Doing well, Asha.
00:58:11Good.
00:58:11Share around.
00:58:12I do not take no for an answer at all.
00:58:15If there is a solution, oh, I'm going to find it.
00:58:18Another option would be you could get married.
00:58:21She do not need to, like, go get married to try to rush this thing or anything that she...
00:58:26If you're going to be on the board and be support, be support.
00:58:28I'm being support.
00:58:29No, not really.
00:58:33Love, oh, love, don't give up, oh, love, keep on looking up, there's too wide for we
00:58:45go, oh, the devil we know, oh, the devil we know.
00:58:51Oh, wow.
00:58:52Love, immigration.
00:58:54So you look at it, I have love sticking out right there.
00:58:56Yeah, I'm already, I'm not impressed.
00:58:59I feel some type of way already.
00:59:01You better get some love in your heart.
00:59:02I feel like this is a marketing scheme here with the word love.
00:59:06I love it.
00:59:07I think it's cute.
00:59:09All right.
00:59:12I'll pray for you, pray for me.
00:59:20Ready?
00:59:22Hello, good morning.
00:59:23How can I help you today?
00:59:24Yes, I had an appointment.
00:59:26If you fall after me, I can show you where that's at.
00:59:29Okay, thank you.
00:59:29Yeah.
00:59:31I'm the type of person, I do not take no for an answer at all.
00:59:36Because if there is a solution, oh, I'm going to find it.
00:59:40Right this way.
00:59:42Hello, hello.
00:59:43How are you?
00:59:44Doing well, Asha.
00:59:45Jeremy.
00:59:46Ideally, I would love for this attorney to say, it's a possibility that this case can
00:59:53go back to the embassy.
00:59:54That I do not have to restart this process because I just feel like this case went before
00:59:58the right person.
01:00:00Then it could convince anybody that the relationship is real because the relationship is real.
01:00:04How are y'all doing today?
01:00:05We're doing good.
01:00:06Good, good.
01:00:07Well, I know a little bit about the situation from when the appointment was made, but I'll
01:00:11let you start off.
01:00:11How can I help you?
01:00:12I really do hope you can help us because I feel like my story is more special than any
01:00:17story because it was God our day.
01:00:19Wow.
01:00:20Okay.
01:00:21So my fiance's name is Maxwell, and I introduced my best friend to his best friend.
01:00:26Right.
01:00:26And so we did the entire K-1 visa process together.
01:00:31Right.
01:00:32So when they went in for their interview, the guy was like, there's no way two friends
01:00:38are engaged to two friends.
01:00:40So he felt like we were helping them get to America.
01:00:43So they denied it.
01:00:45So I just want to know about the appeal process.
01:00:47Have you ever done an appeal?
01:00:49There's not really an appeal process that we could go through.
01:00:54Without a shadow of a doubt, there's no possibility of an appeal.
01:00:58Not in this situation.
01:01:02Applying for this visa is taking almost two years of our lives away.
01:01:06And literally, me, him, his family has spent thousands of dollars on this visa.
01:01:12And then for what?
01:01:14I was hoping for an appeal.
01:01:16The attorney is saying that's not an option.
01:01:18And I just feel, you know, defeated, disgusted.
01:01:22Irritated.
01:01:23Like, this is unreal.
01:01:26The options that I see going forward is that you could file another K-1 petition.
01:01:31Another option would be you could get married.
01:01:36And you could file the CR-1 spousal petition.
01:01:38So you'd have to go there and get married.
01:01:40And you could file a petition as a spouse.
01:01:43She do not need to, like, go get married to try to rush this thing or anything that she...
01:01:48No, she definitely does not have to go get married in order to get this case approved and get him
01:01:52here.
01:01:52So you would recommend to her that she don't need to...
01:01:55No, don't coach him.
01:01:57No, you're good.
01:01:57My job is to let you know what your options are.
01:01:59And then y'all make the decision.
01:02:03If you're going to be on the board and be support, be support.
01:02:05I'm being supportive.
01:02:06No, not really.
01:02:07Yeah, I'm supportive.
01:02:09But supportive is you first.
01:02:13I'm sorry, attorney love.
01:02:15I'm sorry.
01:02:16I'm just making sure.
01:02:17I'm just making sure.
01:02:21I don't want Aisha to go over and marry this guy in Nigeria at all.
01:02:26It doesn't give me an opportunity to really see who this guy really is.
01:02:32I'm her protector.
01:02:33I don't want her to be scammed or I don't want her to be hurt either.
01:02:38What would you say the K-1, like, how long do you think versus the CR-1?
01:02:43So the K-1 right now, it really varies.
01:02:45But you're looking at probably around a year and a half.
01:02:48Okay.
01:02:49Now, if we do the other process, the CR-1, you're looking at probably around two years or so.
01:02:54I would doubt what I would think.
01:02:56If I go through this process and then you're saying a year to two,
01:02:59is there a possibility that it might be denied for any reason?
01:03:04It's possible.
01:03:06Oh, that ain't what I want to hear.
01:03:10Because there were some immigration issues in the past where there was actually findings of fraud or misrepresentation,
01:03:18they could still find that again.
01:03:20I mean, so what options are they leaving us?
01:03:23Literally, for me to marry Maxwell, live thousands of miles away, and continue life like that,
01:03:29that doesn't even make sense.
01:03:30Because I'm 38, my biological clock is ticking, I do not have time for this.
01:03:35I literally came to this meeting looking for answers, and at the end of the day, I'm left with more
01:03:40questions.
01:03:41Well, I have a lot of things to think about.
01:03:44Of course, we'll discuss, and hopefully, we can get them here.
01:03:48I truly believe, you know, and I stand on it, and I have faith in God,
01:03:53that this relationship is going to work, but I just don't know how.
01:03:57Yeah.
01:04:07I don't know if they'll look at me just like, like I'm an idiot, or?
01:04:13We've known Katie for a while.
01:04:15She does come with that level of craziness, where you're like, okay, hold on, like, let's slow down,
01:04:19like, what are you doing here?
01:04:20I'm not sure whether it's one of those situations where everyone else in the room knows something,
01:04:27and they don't want to tell me.
01:04:33Cruising late, end of play, and everyone was like, that's the way.
01:04:39Came in strong, out the gate, and you got me like,
01:04:45Okay.
01:04:46Is this the place?
01:04:47Yes, it is.
01:04:48Are you excited?
01:04:49Yes.
01:04:53We're pretty good!
01:04:55Yay!
01:04:57It's so good to see everyone.
01:04:58Oh, wow.
01:05:01You've got me like, oh my God.
01:05:04Yay!
01:05:06Yay!
01:05:07Hey!
01:05:07Hi, buddy!
01:05:09Hi, buddy!
01:05:11Hi, buddy!
01:05:12Welcome back, buddy!
01:05:13Hi!
01:05:14Hey!
01:05:15Hey!
01:05:15Hey!
01:05:16Look out, look out!
01:05:17Nice!
01:05:18Nice!
01:05:18Hey!
01:05:18Yeah, yes!
01:05:19I actually worked through the immigration.
01:05:21I'm joking.
01:05:22I'm joking.
01:05:23Do you feel like an American now?
01:05:25Um, I'm getting there!
01:05:27Like, I feel less British every day.
01:05:31Tonight, Katie's throwing me a welcome party, which is such a lovely gesture.
01:05:36Um, but there are a couple of people that she has made out with before, and that might be really
01:05:45awkward.
01:05:45I don't know. I don't know if they'll look at me just like, like I'm an idiot, or...
01:05:52Oh, yeah.
01:05:53Oh, my God.
01:05:54Hey!
01:05:55There you go.
01:05:56I'm going to get drinks.
01:05:57Yes.
01:05:58Oh, if you put me to the tequila shuttle, I'll do it with you.
01:06:02So, Katie's obviously going to have a few drinks.
01:06:05Um, she thinks she can drink anyone under the table, and she can't.
01:06:10Um, so, I need Katie to just show me that she's getting her act together,
01:06:17and that being here and getting into marriage is not going to be the same story that we've had.
01:06:23I don't think Katie should think that my forgiveness is unlimited.
01:06:31What's going on, girl?
01:06:32How are you doing?
01:06:33I'm doing great.
01:06:34What about you?
01:06:36Josh is here.
01:06:37Yeah.
01:06:38Did you like his new look?
01:06:39I like the new look.
01:06:43I knew Katie all of a week before we hooked up, and she's a lioness on the prowl.
01:06:51If you're just close enough, she'll just like go in that extra step for the kiss.
01:06:56Made out with me.
01:06:57Uh, Katie is made out with my roommate at this party that I'm aware of, uh, myself.
01:07:04She's kissed me, she's kissed Bella, Fred, and our Josh, British Josh.
01:07:11Like, I had to ban her from sticking her tongue in my mouth, because I, that's, that's too much.
01:07:15That's, yeah.
01:07:18Dude, it's your turn for darts.
01:07:20Oh, boy.
01:07:21Okay.
01:07:22We will chat later.
01:07:23Okay, yeah.
01:07:24Can I steal you for a sec?
01:07:26Can I steal you for a sec?
01:07:27Can I steal you for a sec?
01:07:28Can I steal you for a sec?
01:07:30Nice.
01:07:32Oh, that's good.
01:07:33Like that.
01:07:34Wait, really?
01:07:35Like, I'm not going to hurt anyone.
01:07:38Like, like, no.
01:07:39I mean, no, no, no.
01:07:40Like, you like pull, like...
01:07:44Oh, yeah.
01:07:45This is actually fun.
01:07:47How was picking him up?
01:07:48I surprised him with the America decorations.
01:07:51Yes, I love that he's into that.
01:07:52What's the biggest culture shock when you first visit Portland?
01:07:55Oh, that's, I mean, just generally how people communicate.
01:08:00Like, I've been trying very hard to be less, like, like, closed and reserved,
01:08:05because I think Americans are quite, um, you know, you say what you think.
01:08:10Yeah.
01:08:11When we went home, we, like, got ready for bed.
01:08:14And we were gonna...
01:08:16We did not have sex in the night.
01:08:19But in the morning, we had sex.
01:08:23For you guys, how does it feel to see Katie after?
01:08:25I don't know, when you asked for the scene.
01:08:27Oh, it's different.
01:08:28Oh, she's had, like, these quick in and outs, you know, over the time.
01:08:31Yeah, yeah.
01:08:32And, like, we've known Katie for a while.
01:08:34She's built a bit of a loose cannon, right?
01:08:37Like...
01:08:38What does that mean?
01:08:40Well, she was just so, like, loose before.
01:08:45Just, like, very much just, like, everything was a party, yes.
01:08:50100%, like, she was just going off the rails.
01:08:55So, I'm not sure whether it's one of those situations
01:08:58where everyone else in the room knows something
01:09:02and they don't want to tell me.
01:09:04On the other hand, we excluded everyone,
01:09:06that Katie's kissed from being friends.
01:09:09Then we would have a friendship of two,
01:09:12which would be Katie and I.
01:09:14We had some good conversations about, like,
01:09:17how, what I need versus what he needs.
01:09:20Um, in that, like, he said,
01:09:22he'll be, like, more sexually available
01:09:24and, like, more open to that.
01:09:25And I promise, like, I'm going to stop,
01:09:28like, get too drunk and seek out attention.
01:09:31When she's going about all these wild, crazy stunts,
01:09:34like, how have you dealt with that?
01:09:36As in, like, why am I...
01:09:38Like, what, like, you're moving halfway around the world.
01:09:41Like, that's a huge change.
01:09:43For me to make this commitment
01:09:44of kind of leaving my home country,
01:09:46I need to know it's going somewhere.
01:09:49and then I feel that with Katie.
01:09:52But she does come with that level of craziness
01:09:55where you're like, okay, hold on.
01:09:57Like, let's slow down.
01:09:58Like, what are you doing here type thing?
01:10:00And I don't know.
01:10:00I think you just, you roll through those punches
01:10:03way better than I ever could.
01:10:07What stuck out about Josh tonight
01:10:10was that he's all in.
01:10:14Yeah, let's go get another drink.
01:10:15Yes, I'd love that.
01:10:17He's got his heart and his mind, you know,
01:10:20just in the correct place.
01:10:21But I am worried that she will make big mistakes.
01:10:25Hey.
01:10:26Hey, babe.
01:10:27Katie can be wild.
01:10:29You know, she'll drive the crowd,
01:10:31you know, just push everybody to, like,
01:10:33you know, let's all go karaoke.
01:10:34You know, let's all make out.
01:10:36Once she's been drinking a certain amount,
01:10:37I mean, that definitely gets cranked up.
01:10:43We saw you and Mark and Josh talking.
01:10:45I just like the label is the ex-lovers chat.
01:10:48Okay.
01:10:48I guess you're not my ex-lover.
01:10:50What were you guys talking about?
01:10:53They were, like, essentially, like, checking,
01:10:55checking in with me.
01:10:56Like, seeing how I'm doing.
01:10:58Like, um...
01:11:00Why?
01:11:00Or, like, how did it go?
01:11:03It went great.
01:11:05Like, I...
01:11:06It doesn't bug you.
01:11:08That we've banged before.
01:11:11I banged both Josh and Mark one time.
01:11:14Not one time, like, three times.
01:11:17No.
01:11:20You're not insecure?
01:11:21I mean, like, do you want to be with me?
01:11:24Yeah.
01:11:24Okay, well, there we go.
01:11:26I feel like sometimes I feel like, oh,
01:11:30maybe I'll think about, like, the chemistry I used to have.
01:11:34or, like, a brief thought will cross my mind.
01:11:37Sorry?
01:11:38But it's more of, like, oh, I know that didn't work out.
01:11:43Like...
01:11:44Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:11:46Well, I hope you guys can, like, hang out.
01:11:48Yeah, no, we're planning to.
01:11:51Ah, yeah, that's good.
01:11:55Sometimes Katie can say something in the hope that it will become true.
01:12:01And I hope that this isn't one of those situations,
01:12:04and I don't want to be living in a relationship
01:12:08where I'm second-guessing things.
01:12:11You know, this would have been a massive waste of my time
01:12:13and money and emotions to come here
01:12:17for, um, me to be made a fool of.
01:12:20Katie needs to prove her commitment to me and to us
01:12:24or this relationship.
01:12:25It won't work.
01:12:27Um, should we go that way?
01:12:28How do you feel?
01:12:29I feel like it's time to go that way.
01:12:31Did you have a good night's sleep?
01:12:33Yeah.
01:12:46There's a strong possibility that this is all going to fall apart.
01:12:53Baby, you know, you understand what's wrong.
01:12:56I need 10 days.
01:12:59I'm really worried.
01:13:01It's just maybe too much.
01:13:27I've been trying to get in touch with Mido,
01:13:30and haven't been able to get through.
01:13:32I've been trying to get in touch with Mido,
01:13:34Mido's flight is tomorrow.
01:13:36There's a strong possibility that he's not going to be on that flight,
01:13:41and this is all going to fall apart.
01:13:51It's at night.
01:13:52Cause you made me lose my mind.
01:13:58And now I stand to lose my mind.
01:14:04You wait for me too.
01:14:10It's been a couple days since I heard from Mido.
01:14:14It's been tough.
01:14:17Um, his father's not well.
01:14:21We don't know what the prognosis may be.
01:14:26His father is going through a series of tests,
01:14:29but there's still a ways to go before we have any idea of what this is actually going to be.
01:14:36I know he's stressed.
01:14:38I know he's got a million and one things going on.
01:14:40At the same point, I'm not getting much communication.
01:14:45I definitely go times without hearing from Mido,
01:14:49because he is just the type of person that he needs that break from people.
01:14:56When Mido goes silent, it can last a couple of days, two, three days.
01:15:00That part of his personality was hard to become accustomed to.
01:15:04And when he is in his mode of no contact, it becomes frustrating.
01:15:14We're about 20-something hours away from the flight,
01:15:18so him changing the ticket at this point in the game,
01:15:21I don't think it's logical.
01:15:26There's a lot of unknowns going on at the moment.
01:15:44Let's go.
01:15:47Let's go.
01:15:49Here we go.
01:15:58We'll play now.
01:15:59There'll be a later…
01:16:18İzlediğiniz için teşekkür ederim.
01:16:31I'm not trying to, like, aggravate you. I'm just trying to be there.
01:16:44Why do you... What will... Baby, what will be done in 10 days that it's not done now?
01:16:54Mito, what do you want me to do?
01:16:59I told you, you need just two weeks. If something happens, not you to return back. I told you that.
01:17:09Do you want me to check the airlines to find out how much the ticket would be for you to
01:17:13go later?
01:17:14You can do that?
01:17:15I don't know what I can do.
01:17:28Okay. Mito's extremely agitated at the moment. And I definitely am concerned that he's getting cold feet about coming to
01:17:35America.
01:17:36It just feels to me like it's just always something. And I'm tired.
01:17:44Bye-bye.
01:17:45Bye-bye.
01:17:52At what point do you decide on a journey or on a decision what's a test of a commitment and
01:18:01what's a sign of something that's just not meant to be?
01:18:08And I'm not sure where to put that anymore.
01:18:13I'm really worried that Mito's not going to get on that flight.
01:18:19I'm really worried when it's going to be time.
01:18:45I'm really worried. It just made me too much.
01:18:54Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:18:58This is my miniatures.
01:19:00I like to collect tiny things.
01:19:02They are a tool for manifestation.
01:19:05It's a toilet. Oops.
01:19:07There's a poop here.
01:19:08I always wanted to get married with a gringo.
01:19:13Universe introduced me, Thomas.
01:19:23Polly gives the universe way too much credit.
01:19:29Especially when it's me.
01:19:33When I be there, I can't work.
01:19:36For a little bit, yeah.
01:19:38We are now on our way to America.
01:19:41If my mom called me like, Rashid, can you send me like 10,000 Turkish liru?
01:19:49People think Americans are so rich.
01:19:52But my parents need to help.
01:19:54I don't make that much money.
01:19:59Oh, hey, guys.
01:20:02When I walk in, I can't believe that it's a mess.
01:20:06We're probably going to head on home.
01:20:08Can we get a couple of dollars?
01:20:10Here you go.
01:20:12Thank you.
01:20:13Okay, bye, guys.
01:20:15It should be the children taking of the parents, not the parents who are taking care of the children.
01:20:23It's just a few dollars.
01:20:25You need to fix.
01:20:27But that's my daughter.
01:20:29I don't care.
01:20:32I'm worried about how the dynamic of our family is going to change.
01:20:37I'm going to keep it real.
01:20:39She's 32 years old, and she's about to be 46 years old.
01:20:42I just want to make sure that, you know, she's not being taken advantage of, and the boys don't get
01:20:47hurt.
01:20:48Especially when it comes to my kids, I'll bite someone's face off my kids.
01:20:50I know anything to do...
01:20:50I know my Englishman.
01:20:51I know, since one of my kids are I'm running—
01:20:52I know my e-m plaies.
01:20:52I see you…
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