00:00It's just growing up. It's not really about going out and drinking and getting
00:03drunk and all that stuff.
00:06Some of my closest friendships were built around nights out, bars and shared chaos.
00:11Now I'm craving quieter, more chill plans, but those friendships don't really exist outside of drinking.
00:16Am I abandoning people I love or just growing into a different version of myself?
00:20Just growing up. Just growing up.
00:22It's not really about going out and drinking and getting drunk and all that stuff.
00:27Now it's about developing relationships that really are the next chapter of your life.
00:32And sometimes those same people will also mature and be doing the same next thing that you're doing.
00:38But if they don't, you know what? Those are just casual acquaintances anyway that you're hooked up with.
00:44It's so hard because sometimes you don't mature at the same level as your friends.
00:49You feel like you owe these people your friendship still because you went to college together
00:54or you were co-workers or like went through some formative time together.
00:58Those are chapters. They're passages.
01:00And each chapter adds a different sense of feeling.
01:06And you can't help it if it changes with the times.
01:09And that's growing up.
01:10So maybe it's like the activity you do together is somewhere in the middle.
01:14Or if they can come over to your side and be like, come over for dinner one night.
01:18If it's worth it. If it's really worth it.
01:19Yeah, I guess it's like how much effort are you really putting in to make something work?
01:23And if it's too much, I think it's totally okay to grow into that different version of yourself.
01:29I agree.
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