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00:00:00Previously on The Single Life.

00:00:02You have to do your pickleball dance.

00:00:07Phil is my new boyfriend.

00:00:10But Colt is living in Phillip's house.

00:00:12It's not the best situation.

00:00:15I think Colt has a thing for you still.

00:00:18I don't trust him.

00:00:19I don't want to jeopardize my new relationship with Phillip

00:00:21by prioritizing Colt.

00:00:23We need to get him out of our home.

00:00:26It's time to make him a little uncomfortable.

00:00:30I mean, ever since LA, I guess,

00:00:31I've just been thinking about it.

00:00:33I don't want to put my heart and energy into something

00:00:35that could be pulled out from underneath me at any moment.

00:00:39So are you breaking this off?

00:00:41I mean, as far as boyfriend and girlfriend kind of thing,

00:00:44I don't think that's for us.

00:00:47Yeah.

00:00:48I guess I'm just going to be straightforward.

00:00:51There is somebody back at home that I have been seeing.

00:00:55Didn't expect that.

00:00:56Coming on this girl's trip,

00:00:58I never expected to fall for someone.

00:01:00It's just such a tricky situation I put myself in.

00:01:04Hi.

00:01:05How are you?

00:01:06It's so nice to meet you.

00:01:07I'm Vanya.

00:01:08What I know about Tony's parents is they are very religious.

00:01:12And I am not.

00:01:15Do you want to come to church and see how we are doing?

00:01:18I'm scared to death that this is going to be a huge problem.

00:01:22I would prefer to stay away.

00:01:27When I was 20, I got a woman pregnant.

00:01:30I did get married because I thought every child needs a father figure

00:01:33and another figure as well.

00:01:35Wayne might think, oh, she has two children that she placed for adoption.

00:01:38She's the most selfish person on earth.

00:01:42How was your day?

00:01:43Tell me.

00:01:44Have you kissed a guy?

00:01:47Yeah.

00:01:47Because I told you I want to have time being single.

00:01:50If that's one thing you want to do, bye.

00:01:54You're making me feel like I'm the most person in the world.

00:01:57And I'm not.

00:01:58I'm not.

00:01:59Like, I just, I'm not ready for a relationship.

00:02:01this.

00:02:02This is crazy.

00:02:16Right now, I'm not feeling great.

00:02:18Like, things with Pedro obviously was really bad.

00:02:23I texted him yesterday.

00:02:24I also texted him again today.

00:02:26He still hasn't replied to me.

00:02:27So I'm upset that things have turned out this way.

00:02:30And I really hope he at least has a conversation with me

00:02:33before I go home.

00:02:46Oh, the girls are here.

00:02:48Hello.

00:02:49Hello.

00:02:50We're here.

00:02:51Run some champagne.

00:02:53Yeah, I need some champagne.

00:02:55Today's my last day in the DI.

00:02:57And the hotel's doing a phone party at the pool.

00:02:59And me and the girls have decided to go.

00:03:01It was like a fun end to our trip.

00:03:04Oh, that's it?

00:03:05That was it?

00:03:06That's it?

00:03:07I've also invited Pedro.

00:03:08And I really hope that he shows up.

00:03:11This is the last opportunity we have to talk

00:03:13before we both go home.

00:03:16Julia told me that you and Pedro aren't talking right now.

00:03:20Yeah, I went on that date with that guy.

00:03:23And he kind of blew up after it.

00:03:24And he's just not texting me.

00:03:25He still haven't heard from him.

00:03:27Oh, wow.

00:03:28Yeah.

00:03:29Yeah.

00:03:31I wish he at least reached out and said, even tell me, look, Sophie.

00:03:34I just need some time to take it all in.

00:03:36Yeah.

00:03:36Or even if he's...

00:03:37Or just leave me alone.

00:03:38Yeah, but let me know.

00:03:39Don't leave me, like, hanging here.

00:03:40Like, does he hate me?

00:03:41Is he here?

00:03:42Is he not?

00:03:42Like, I don't know what's going on.

00:03:43It's like the uncertainty is just, like, stressful, you know?

00:03:46I really like Pedro, and I do really care about him.

00:03:48And I am upset.

00:03:49This is how it ends.

00:03:50He just ignores me, and that was that.

00:03:52And we leave on such a horrible fight that we had.

00:03:54Like, that is upsetting to me.

00:03:55He just disappeared.

00:03:58Well, we are planning to go into this party.

00:04:00You think that he come?

00:04:02I invite him.

00:04:03Like, he's supposed to be at this party,

00:04:04but I don't think he's coming.

00:04:06I know Viya is coming.

00:04:07Viya is coming?

00:04:08Yeah.

00:04:08What's been going on with you and Viya?

00:04:10Um, I have enjoyed every single moment with him,

00:04:14but, like, it sucks that now I have feelings for two guys,

00:04:17but that's not what was supposed to happen at all on this trip.

00:04:20I have a friend who have open marriage.

00:04:24I know.

00:04:26I mean, let's see what is going to happen.

00:04:28I mean, Viya come.

00:04:29Maybe Pedro come.

00:04:31You're going to have a conversation.

00:04:34Do you think he'll be OK, like, if he doesn't show up?

00:04:38I mean, if he doesn't come, I'm going to be really upset.

00:04:42Right, let's not think about it.

00:04:43Yes, not think about it now, but eventually this will be happening.

00:04:45So, now let's have fun.

00:04:47Yeah.

00:04:49Let's go.

00:04:50I love the taste of your kiss.

00:04:52I love the feel of your lips.

00:04:55I've been waiting for this when I'm thinking about you.

00:04:59I love the taste of your kiss.

00:05:01I love the feel of your lips.

00:05:04I've been waiting for this when I'm thinking about you.

00:05:08You're listening.

00:05:11You're listening.

00:05:11There's the bartender that brings the chant.

00:05:15Everyone looks like Pedro from the back.

00:05:17Maybe people think I'm dumb.

00:05:19Don't lose your hope, maybe.

00:05:22Hello, ladies.

00:05:23What's up?

00:05:24Hi!

00:05:26I like the phone.

00:05:27Are you coming in?

00:05:28Are you coming in like that?

00:05:30No, you're going to have to help me here.

00:05:35He is here and Pedro isn't with him.

00:05:37I feel like he's just playing games with me.

00:05:40Like, maybe he's done with me.

00:05:42Because that's not how you would act if you actually want to be with me.

00:05:52Pedro isn't here.

00:05:53So, I kind of keep him like...

00:05:57Is he coming?

00:06:00Is he coming?

00:06:06We talked earlier and...

00:06:09Stop coming.

00:06:09Can you come or no?

00:06:16He's not going to come today.

00:06:18He is not?

00:06:19No.

00:06:22Like, really?

00:06:23I tried to convince him to come out, but he doesn't want to come.

00:06:28But he's not going to change his way.

00:06:29He's not going to change his mind.

00:06:30At all.

00:06:31You sure?

00:06:33Yeah, 100%.

00:06:34Did he tell you why he's not coming?

00:06:36You kiss somebody else?

00:06:39I do understand he's upset, but I do feel like he's being a little bit much when we're not together.

00:06:47I can understand if, like, you don't want to talk to me again, but at least communicate that with me.

00:06:53Honestly, even if he just said,

00:06:55I'm going to f*** off.

00:06:55That would let me know, okay, and let me start to move on from this.

00:07:00I think he's just being very spiteful and honestly very emotionally immature.

00:07:07You think you're pretty clever, but lucky for me, I know better.

00:07:13I've seen your type before.

00:07:16I know what I'm in for.

00:07:20Seems like Colt gets more mail here than we do.

00:07:23More medical bills?

00:07:24Yes.

00:07:25Oh my god.

00:07:40You're going to back me up, right?

00:07:41Of course, babe.

00:07:42I always have your back.

00:07:43Okay.

00:07:47Cole overseeing his welcome has been hurting my relationship with Phil because he's caused

00:07:51a lot of jealousy and trust issues.

00:07:54So, if I want my relationship to survive, I think Colt needs to get out of the picture.

00:07:59Oh my god, what is that?

00:08:02Oh.

00:08:03He's just, like, laying out there.

00:08:04Oh my god.

00:08:06Feeding Colt before we kick him out is kind of like being fed your last meal

00:08:10before you go to the electrocution chair.

00:08:13So, you don't.

00:08:16Ahoy.

00:08:17Hey.

00:08:18I have your mail here.

00:08:19Hey.

00:08:28Yo.

00:08:29How'd you bring?

00:08:31Charcuterie.

00:08:33I made it myself.

00:08:35Wow.

00:08:37You're the best.

00:08:38Can you get some olives?

00:08:39I'm good.

00:08:40I'm trying to wash my weight a little bit.

00:08:44How's your leg doing?

00:08:46It's doing better.

00:08:47It probably looks worse than it actually is at this point.

00:08:51I'm good.

00:08:51I'm surprised I'm walking again.

00:08:52I really thought it would be a long time if ever.

00:08:57Now that you can walk, what plans have you made?

00:09:01So it's time for that talk, huh?

00:09:05Yeah.

00:09:05I think it's time for you to move on.

00:09:08Our relationship is still pretty new, but I feel for us to move forward, things have

00:09:13to change.

00:09:18I mean, you have some time to think we're not kicking you out right now, but I mean, start

00:09:24figuring out what you're doing.

00:09:25Oh, sure.

00:09:25Yeah.

00:09:26A couple days.

00:09:30Yeah.

00:09:33I'm not surprised that they want me to move out.

00:09:36I feel like they didn't really want me to be here to begin with.

00:09:39And now that my leg is healed, it's time to go.

00:09:47I just want to give this relationship like a real chance.

00:09:52So once you've moved out, I think I need to cut off communication with you.

00:09:58Because I don't want to be disrespectful to him.

00:10:06I can't blame you.

00:10:08I mean, I want you to have a fresh start, but that's things.

00:10:11You were my ride or die.

00:10:14I felt bad telling Colt I'm totally done with him, but it had to be done.

00:10:18He's like a leech.

00:10:19I feel he will take advantage of me as long as I'm willing.

00:10:27Well, I feel a little greasy.

00:10:28I think I got to wash off some of this suntan lotion.

00:10:31Okay.

00:10:33Be careful.

00:10:33Thank you for understanding.

00:10:34Oh, yeah.

00:10:39I'm sad.

00:10:41My life has been entangled with Courtney for so long now.

00:10:43I feel like having her not in it is like losing my entire life.

00:10:49But Courtney has found love in whatever weird way that she did.

00:10:53And I hope that she's happy and has a great life.

00:10:58What will you do now?

00:11:00At this point, I feel like it's the next logical step.

00:11:02Going back to Brazil, seeing Diana and seeing if we can actually have a relationship.

00:11:07And if I can be honest and truthful and do all the things that I couldn't do with Courtney.

00:11:12Do you think you can do that?

00:11:15I want.

00:11:16I need to do better.

00:11:22Well, that was awkward.

00:11:24I think it went okay.

00:11:25He understands what we're saying.

00:11:27It's time to move on.

00:11:33So what made you want to come to meet my dad?

00:11:35Isn't that weird for you guys?

00:11:37Yeah.

00:11:38Really?

00:11:38I'm really excited to get to know Wayne's daughters tonight.

00:11:41But I'm a little nervous.

00:11:42I think you go into every relationship expecting people to have no baggage.

00:11:46Yeah.

00:11:47When sometimes that just isn't realistic.

00:11:49My heart just sunk.

00:11:51I don't really want to call my children baggage.

00:11:53But, oh God, he's going to judge me for what I've done.

00:12:12Do you want to come to church and see how we are doing?

00:12:16I would probably prefer to stay away.

00:12:23Oh, oh, need to break walls down.

00:12:26Don't know when and I don't know how.

00:12:31It's just not something that I would enjoy.

00:12:36I am meeting Tony's parents for the first time.

00:12:40And, of course, I was prepared for them to bring up religion.

00:12:43But I never expected it five minutes after arriving.

00:12:48Inviting me to church is very sweet and kind of them.

00:12:50But my response is always going to be no.

00:12:53It's never going to change.

00:12:56I really hope that they can just see me for the person who I am

00:13:00and the person that makes their son happy.

00:13:04My relationship with God, he's always there.

00:13:09Mm-hmm.

00:13:09He understands you.

00:13:10He's there listening.

00:13:12I feel so good going to the mass and praying.

00:13:16The way we think is we need association with something.

00:13:24Now, because in Bosnia, it's very normal to be religious.

00:13:28It's very normal to not be religious.

00:13:31What's common in Bosnia, you know?

00:13:34We have three religions in Bosnia.

00:13:36Muslim, Catholic, and Orthodox Christian.

00:13:39And my family essentially has all three, but my parents were not religious.

00:13:44Oh.

00:13:48So what language do you follow there?

00:13:50So we have, before the war in Yugoslavia, it was called Serbo-Croatian.

00:13:55So I learned English here, yeah.

00:13:57Oh.

00:13:58So you had a lot of problem when you moved over here in schooling and all?

00:14:01It was very hard because I had to work, help support the family,

00:14:06help my parents find jobs, take my brother to daycare,

00:14:10help my sister with her homework, and then do my schoolwork as well.

00:14:14So it was, it was like an instant adult overnight, yeah.

00:14:17I think when you came here, you really worked hard, no?

00:14:21Absolutely.

00:14:22Still work hard.

00:14:23It hasn't stopped.

00:14:27Molly is a nice girl, hardworking.

00:14:30Professional, very sweet lady.

00:14:34She has gone through a lot.

00:14:35But I don't know if it's the right person for my son.

00:14:40The only thing we can do is to pray.

00:14:42And she can get closer to God.

00:14:45If it is God's will, let it happen.

00:14:47If not, I don't want it to happen.

00:14:49I'm just super happy to have met your son.

00:14:53And so I'm just, I'm happy that I finally got to meet you.

00:14:57You are so nice and you are so beautiful and hardworking.

00:15:00Hardworking, yeah.

00:15:02I'll pray for you.

00:15:03Thank you so much.

00:15:06I think this is a good step in the right direction.

00:15:09My parents, they want someone that has faith and belief, but I know more importantly, they want to make sure

00:15:14that the person that I'm with will love me as equally as I love them to as well.

00:15:19So it's nice meeting you.

00:15:20It was such a pleasure meeting you.

00:15:21Nice to meet you.

00:15:22Thank you so much.

00:15:23So I have a feeling my mom is overlooking a lot of her previous thoughts about, oh, she doesn't have

00:15:29that faith.

00:15:30But now at least she does love my son and that's going to go a long way.

00:15:36Bye-bye.

00:15:37Bye.

00:15:40That wasn't so bad.

00:15:42I told you, right?

00:15:44You really weren't kidding about your mom and religion.

00:15:47She really is all about it.

00:15:49They're always going to try.

00:15:51I think they were asking quite a few questions and they really wanted to get to know you.

00:15:56That's big.

00:15:57And that's what I saw in the conversation was that they were very happy to see us together.

00:16:02So you think they approved?

00:16:03Absolutely.

00:16:03And I think they really enjoyed talking to you.

00:16:05That's a very good sign.

00:16:07So I do want to present you with something as like a symbol of acceptance and into our family.

00:16:16And also, more importantly, a bigger step for me into our lives.

00:16:21What?

00:16:22You wait right here.

00:16:26No looking.

00:16:27What?

00:16:28What's happening?

00:16:29Close your eyes.

00:16:30Oh, my God.

00:16:31Okay.

00:16:33Oh, my God.

00:16:34All right.

00:16:35Oh, my God.

00:16:38All right.

00:16:39I want you to take this box and open it.

00:16:43What is this?

00:16:46And...

00:16:49There's a heart in here.

00:16:51There's a heart.

00:16:52It's a good symbol.

00:16:57It's a key.

00:16:58So this is a key to my house.

00:17:00I mean, I really think that the next step for us is to have you move in.

00:17:06Are you serious?

00:17:10Absolutely.

00:17:14What did you think was in the box?

00:17:16Not a key.

00:17:18Of course, I thought it was a ring.

00:17:19It's what any normal woman would think.

00:17:23But, wah, wah, wah, it's a key.

00:17:27I mean, it's fine.

00:17:29I'm not like ungrateful, but it's not a ring.

00:17:36You know, I feel like this is the next step.

00:17:38And this is my promise to you that I do want you in my life.

00:17:42Yes.

00:17:43Of course, I will.

00:17:45This is amazing.

00:17:46You know.

00:17:49The key is great and all, but I'm not looking for a roommate.

00:17:54I want a husband.

00:17:57So, I will move into his house for now.

00:18:01But pretty soon, he better be giving me another box while he's down on one knee.

00:18:07I love you, baby.

00:18:08This is amazing.

00:18:11I'm so glad.

00:18:16I always wanted a kitchen like this.

00:18:19I love you, baby.

00:18:25I love you.

00:18:27This is going to be incredible.

00:18:40Hi.

00:18:41Hi.

00:18:42Hiya.

00:18:43Hi.

00:18:43Hi, Talia.

00:18:44All right.

00:18:45Hi.

00:18:46This is Aisha.

00:18:47Hi, Aisha.

00:18:48Nice to meet you.

00:18:50This is Aisha.

00:18:51Hi.

00:18:51How are you?

00:18:52This is Kim.

00:18:53Nice to see you.

00:18:53I stepped on your shoes.

00:18:54And that's Kim's son, Jamal.

00:18:56Hi, Jamal.

00:18:56Nice to meet you.

00:19:05Well, nice to meet you, ladies.

00:19:07You're beautiful.

00:19:09So pretty.

00:19:10I'm really excited to get to know Wayne's daughters tonight at the pub.

00:19:14They're so cute.

00:19:15And they're so tiny.

00:19:16And they look just like Wayne.

00:19:18Shall we go and play Skittles?

00:19:19Let's go.

00:19:50Okay.

00:19:50If you hit the ball, then you have to hit this first pin.

00:19:52You have to hit the first one.

00:19:53You have to hit the first pin to start scoring.

00:19:56Okay.

00:19:56I will show you.

00:19:58Yeah, you will.

00:19:59Because I've played this before.

00:20:00It sounds like a difficult game, but it's really, really easy.

00:20:04Okay.

00:20:05It's not about strength.

00:20:07And it's not about skill.

00:20:08It's about pure luck.

00:20:11Yay!

00:20:12Good job!

00:20:13So, one, two, three, four, five, six, seven.

00:20:16So, hopefully, we all can connect and get to know each other.

00:20:20Kim, it's your go now.

00:20:21Are you ready?

00:20:21Yeah, I'm ready.

00:20:22You've got this.

00:20:23You've got this, Kim.

00:20:24And you know I'm good at pulling.

00:20:25Okay, go.

00:20:26This is the deal breaker, by the way.

00:20:28Oh, .

00:20:30Okay.

00:20:30Yeah.

00:20:31Okay.

00:20:33Oh, .

00:20:34All right.

00:20:36Kim, you've scored today, right?

00:20:37But well done.

00:20:37Thank you for saying it out loud.

00:20:39I appreciate it.

00:20:40All right.

00:20:40So, boom, boom.

00:20:41All right.

00:20:42Tomorrow's gonna get it.

00:20:43Watch.

00:20:44Come on.

00:20:46Oh!

00:20:47Hey!

00:20:48Nice!

00:20:49Wow!

00:20:49Good job!

00:20:52Some competition there, Wayne.

00:20:53Yeah.

00:20:54That's eight.

00:20:58Oh!

00:20:58Yay!

00:20:59Hey!

00:21:00Whoa!

00:21:01Whoa!

00:21:04She's bowling.

00:21:05I love it.

00:21:06I'm gonna fix that.

00:21:07I let her go again.

00:21:08That was crazy.

00:21:09Skittles is a really fun game, and it's a good way to let loose, break the ice a little

00:21:13bit.

00:21:14Throw it.

00:21:14Throw it underhand.

00:21:16You got it.

00:21:17Oh!

00:21:18Oh!

00:21:19Good job!

00:21:20Okay, okay.

00:21:21You know the best part?

00:21:22Watching Wayne be, like, competitive and, like, watching his arm muscles, like, throw

00:21:27the ball.

00:21:29I was like, hey, Wayne.

00:21:32Hey.

00:21:33I'm standing right over here.

00:21:35Hi, cutie.

00:21:39So, what made you want to come to meet my dad?

00:21:42We just, I don't know, it was really weird, because you just popped up on my social media

00:21:46one day.

00:21:46And then I sent him a DM, and we started talking pretty quick, like, every day.

00:21:50Yeah.

00:21:50Wow.

00:21:51And then, yeah, he invited me to come here.

00:21:53So, here I am.

00:21:54Okay.

00:21:55Isn't that weird for you guys?

00:21:56Yeah.

00:21:57Yeah.

00:21:57Really?

00:21:58Do you normally move quite fast?

00:22:01No.

00:22:02No.

00:22:03I have in the past.

00:22:04I have in the past.

00:22:06No, but I have in the past, but I've learned from my past relationships.

00:22:10So, yeah.

00:22:11Well, her last, like, international relationship, I think, really, way too fast, for sure.

00:22:18Um.

00:22:18Yeah, it did.

00:22:18But he also is not like your dad.

00:22:20Mm.

00:22:21Um, he was, uh, let's just say different.

00:22:24And 20 years younger, too.

00:22:2620 years younger?

00:22:27Oh, wow.

00:22:28Yeah.

00:22:29So, you both like them younger, then?

00:22:31Because I feel like my dad used to go for younger women.

00:22:33Oh!

00:22:34Oh!

00:22:35I didn't know that.

00:22:36I used to attract younger women.

00:22:37Okay.

00:22:38Okay.

00:22:38And you would just feel attraction back.

00:22:41It's okay.

00:22:42I attract older women, younger women.

00:22:44It's fine.

00:22:45You know how it is.

00:22:46Okay.

00:22:47But, like, I've seen, like, everything great.

00:22:49You know what I mean?

00:22:50I've seen everything great.

00:22:51He's really honest with me when I've asked him questions about, like, red flags and stuff.

00:22:55What do you guys see as, like, a red flag?

00:22:58Oh, I don't want to know.

00:23:00I'm just joking.

00:23:01Uh-huh.

00:23:01I'm just joking.

00:23:02I think sometimes you will really like somebody and then kind of change

00:23:08yourself to be how they want to be.

00:23:10Oh, no.

00:23:10Like, when you dated a vegetarian.

00:23:13That's what we found.

00:23:14That, you know, after a certain amount of time, he's not acting like himself.

00:23:18And then he becomes unhappy in the relationship.

00:23:21I get it.

00:23:22Yeah, yeah.

00:23:23You think they are?

00:23:23Well, I can guarantee you I want him to be his own person.

00:23:26Like, I don't want him to morph into me or me to morph into him.

00:23:29Anything else?

00:23:30I think you go into every relationship expecting people to have no baggage.

00:23:34Yeah.

00:23:34When sometimes that just isn't realistic.

00:23:37In fact, it's not realistic at all.

00:23:40My heart just sunk.

00:23:43Because I don't really want to call my children baggage, but I do have baggage.

00:23:48So we're just taking it, taking it slow.

00:23:50Yeah, taking it slow.

00:23:51But I felt like it was, we both thought it was time for us to just meet in person just

00:23:54to see, like, why keep going on, you know?

00:23:57Yeah.

00:23:57So that was really nice of us all getting together.

00:23:59It was.

00:24:00But you guys have got to get home.

00:24:01Yeah.

00:24:02Thank you for coming, driving up here to meet me.

00:24:04I feel so special.

00:24:05So thank you.

00:24:06Thank you for flying.

00:24:07So nice to meet you.

00:24:08You're lovely.

00:24:09Thank you so much.

00:24:11What kind of person in their 50s doesn't have baggage?

00:24:14We all have past relationships.

00:24:15We all have past trauma.

00:24:17All right.

00:24:17Nice to meet you.

00:24:18Kim, I'll see you tomorrow.

00:24:19All right.

00:24:20I'll see you tomorrow.

00:24:21All right.

00:24:21Get them home safe.

00:24:22Nobody comes into a relationship perfect.

00:24:24Nobody does.

00:24:27Are you ready to go?

00:24:28Yeah, I'm ready to go.

00:24:29Okay.

00:24:30Now I'm starting to see why Wayne is single.

00:24:36Okay.

00:24:36Mama drank two ciders.

00:24:37All right.

00:24:38Let's get out of here.

00:24:51I'm about to do something really big tonight.

00:24:55I need to have closure for myself and move forward in my life.

00:25:00And this is how I can do that.

00:25:05I'm always on a mission to find out what is missing.

00:25:14I really want to get this weight off my shoulders and, you know, take action tonight.

00:25:22Ultimately, I know things didn't work out between Natalie and I, but I'm not going to give up on love

00:25:29because I know there's someone out there for me.

00:25:33I just got to go find her.

00:25:34But tonight.

00:25:36But tonight, I have something that's very important that I really need to focus my attention on.

00:25:42Hello.

00:25:44Hello.

00:25:44Hi.

00:25:54Is there anything I can help you with today?

00:25:56I'm not sure I'm in the right place here.

00:26:00When you came in, I immediately got a vibe of, like, a renewal, a fresh start.

00:26:05We do have green adventurine, which is for good luck.

00:26:09If you wanted to, like, take a look at these, maybe hold them in your hand,

00:26:13see if you can feel, like, the weight, the energy, if one, like, feels better than the other.

00:26:19Wow.

00:26:22Actually, the reason I'm here is to see my lawyer.

00:26:26Oh, absolutely. Let me go and get them.

00:26:30Did I wake up in Oz? I mean, I'm seeing quartz rocks, candles, weird jewelry.

00:26:40Where am I? This does not feel like a lawyer's office.

00:26:44Gino, right?

00:26:45Hey, Thomas.

00:26:46Pleasure to meet you in person.

00:26:48Nice to meet you in person.

00:26:49For the last few weeks, I've been searching for a lawyer

00:26:53because I'm finally ready to file for a divorce from Jasmine.

00:26:57I walked in here and I was like, am I in the right place?

00:27:01It can be a little confusing.

00:27:03The idea behind it is law is very stressful,

00:27:05so I want to try to get you as relaxed as possible.

00:27:08My friend referred me to Thomas.

00:27:11He has very good credentials, graduated from Harvard,

00:27:15and the fact that he owns this crystal shop is freaking awesome.

00:27:21Why don't you step into my office?

00:27:23Oh, no kidding.

00:27:24Secret door.

00:27:25Secret door.

00:27:26Wow, how cool is this?

00:27:28I'm Tom.

00:27:30I've been an attorney for roughly 13 years,

00:27:32but my day-to-day life, I'm a spiritual explorer.

00:27:36I've studied basically everything from hypnosis.

00:27:39I'm certified in Reiki.

00:27:41That helps me in my law practice

00:27:43because if you're able to handle high levels of stress,

00:27:46it gives you a huge advantage.

00:27:48So Monday, I might be doing meditation, Tuesday yoga,

00:27:51but by Thursday, I'll definitely be back in the courtroom.

00:27:55So, Gino, I know we have a lot to go through.

00:27:57Where would you like to start?

00:27:59Well, actually, I did speak to a lawyer once

00:28:03before I hired you, and he told me

00:28:07that because Jasmine had a baby with another guy

00:28:12during our marriage,

00:28:14I'm presumed to be the father of the child legally.

00:28:17Yeah, unfortunately, that is true,

00:28:19and so now you're going to be responsible for child support

00:28:22unless we take care of it.

00:28:24From what I hear, and my understanding is,

00:28:26I can take a DNA test and prove that I'm not the father

00:28:30and clear my name,

00:28:31but she had the child in Florida,

00:28:34so, you know, I don't know what kind of wrench

00:28:36that throws into the whole thing.

00:28:38Here, I feel like if you had your paternity test,

00:28:40we could easily get that taken care of for you,

00:28:43but as for what Florida law says,

00:28:45I'm not going to lie to you, we'll have to research it.

00:28:47We may have to consult with a Florida lawyer,

00:28:49so it's going to get very, very complex.

00:28:52The longer you wait,

00:28:53unfortunately, she could take out debt.

00:28:55That could become half yours.

00:28:57I mean, the situation just gets worse,

00:28:59you know, as time passes.

00:29:01Oh, my gosh.

00:29:02I didn't know how serious some of this stuff is.

00:29:04Yeah.

00:29:05Yeah, I mean, I've waited too long already.

00:29:08I need to file, like, now.

00:29:11This possibly could be

00:29:13one of the most complicated divorces

00:29:15I've ever tried to tackle.

00:29:16There's a child out of wedlock.

00:29:18There's two different states.

00:29:19There's immigration issues.

00:29:21And there's premarital significant assets

00:29:24to separate out between both parties.

00:29:26And so I'm trying to put some Band-Aids on things,

00:29:30but I'm not going to lie.

00:29:31It's probably going to be a pretty painful divorce.

00:29:34Do you think I would have to end up seeing

00:29:38this narcissist in court?

00:29:41If everybody agrees,

00:29:43you can get out with one hearing.

00:29:45However, there could be multiple hearings,

00:29:47and it could proceed all the way to trial.

00:29:50Divorces can usually get as nasty

00:29:52as somebody wants to make them.

00:29:54I think she's going to try to hurt me

00:29:57as much as she can, you know, destroy me.

00:29:59But, you know, I'm ready for it.

00:30:01I'll give her a fight.

00:30:04What I think a good game plan for us legally is,

00:30:07is we rush and file this complaint.

00:30:09We try to serve her as quick as we can

00:30:11and then take it from there here in Michigan.

00:30:13Does that sound like a good plan?

00:30:15Yeah, I'm definitely all in

00:30:18because I don't want to wait any longer.

00:30:21Marrying Jasmine was the biggest mistake

00:30:25of my freaking life.

00:30:27But I am going to get out of this mess

00:30:29because today I am filing for a divorce finally.

00:30:33I think you're going to feel a lot better

00:30:35once we get you through this process.

00:30:36Yeah, yeah, I will for sure.

00:30:42You don't have to choose to call,

00:30:45just go away.

00:30:49I understand he's upset for sure.

00:30:51I'm not saying he's not valid for feeling that way.

00:30:52He is.

00:30:53It's just annoying because I like him.

00:30:55But you don't know.

00:30:56Maybe he's right here back.

00:30:58You don't know.

00:30:58Your phone right there.

00:31:00So maybe we need to check it.

00:31:01I've already checked my phone so many times.

00:31:03Can we check it now?

00:31:04Last time because now I feel stupid.

00:31:06Let's go.

00:31:06Last time checking.

00:31:18Let's see if you text me.

00:31:19I'm scared.

00:31:22You're going to look first?

00:31:25You want me to look first?

00:31:26Look.

00:31:30He hasn't texted me.

00:31:32Look, there's no text.

00:31:34Oh, he's online.

00:31:35He texts me now?

00:31:35No.

00:31:36One second.

00:31:37No, no, no.

00:31:37Can I look?

00:31:38Can I look?

00:31:38No, no, no, no.

00:31:39I just want to look.

00:31:43Julia.

00:31:43I really am.

00:31:47That's Sophie.

00:31:49I need to answer.

00:31:50She can do whatever she wants right now.

00:31:53He hung up.

00:31:54No answer.

00:31:54He hung up.

00:31:55He hung up.

00:31:56You're upset?

00:31:57You know, it's just like, yeah, I am upset.

00:31:59I'm upset because I just called him.

00:32:00He's not answering me.

00:32:01Like, I still wanted to build on my connection with him.

00:32:05You know, he wants a relationship.

00:32:06I do, that's, eventually I do want a relationship, you know.

00:32:11Because it could get to a point where I'd want to be with him and I'd be ready.

00:32:18What are you doing?

00:32:20Like parking.

00:32:22Like parking.

00:32:24I'm going to be.

00:32:25I post to leave the yard tomorrow, but I change my flight.

00:32:29I'm going to leave it right now.

00:32:32Last night she sent me a text like, are you fine?

00:32:36I didn't answer.

00:32:38And this morning she's sending another text.

00:32:41Say, are you having me?

00:32:43Yeah.

00:32:45Sophie been texting to me.

00:32:48Nice stuff.

00:32:49Same yesterday.

00:32:51Like, are you coming to the pool party?

00:32:53Are you okay?

00:32:55Are you having me?

00:32:57You don't care.

00:32:59Just suddenly leave me alone.

00:33:02She used me like a paper towel.

00:33:04She wore her ass.

00:33:05And threw me away.

00:33:07She break my heart.

00:33:08Completely.

00:33:09She chattered my heart in pieces.

00:33:13I know I'm going to be okay, but I will be okay.

00:33:16If I suffer from my divorce, you know, this is like a little rock in my way.

00:33:20It's nothing else.

00:33:23Telling to see you later.

00:33:25She can enjoy the guys.

00:33:29Because, you know, I got some dignity.

00:33:32I got a lot of dignity.

00:33:35Why not my stinking with love and lust?

00:33:40Where will I learn?

00:33:41It's my head I should trust.

00:33:44Sophie made me feel like a freaking idiot.

00:33:46And my mom and my sister, they were right.

00:33:49She's nothing good.

00:33:50I was freaking blind.

00:33:53And I was my time with somebody that doesn't deserve a shit.

00:33:56You tried to love all the night, left it up.

00:33:59Now I'm just a fool.

00:34:02A fool that got love on my...

00:34:06I'm not giving up about love.

00:34:08I'm giving up to somebody that doesn't appreciate me.

00:34:11And clearly, Sophie didn't appreciate me.

00:34:16She will regret because she doesn't want to find somebody like me never again.

00:34:21Good luck.

00:34:22Because nobody's going to take her like anything with you.

00:34:25Don't fuck your body.

00:34:38You're welcome.

00:34:43I'm excited to see your house.

00:34:45I'm very nervous about cooking.

00:34:47Why?

00:34:48Well, it's the first time I've cooked somebody.

00:34:50Really?

00:34:50That's not my kids or family.

00:34:52It's all right.

00:34:53Don't be nervous.

00:34:54It's going to be great.

00:34:55And if you mess it up, we'll just order some food.

00:35:09It was really a pleasure to meet your daughters last night.

00:35:13Yeah, they sent me a message and said that it was nice meeting you as well.

00:35:16Oh, did they really?

00:35:16Yeah.

00:35:16Oh, that's nice.

00:35:17I really think things went well with Wayne's daughters.

00:35:20But they told me a couple things that gave me a little pause.

00:35:23Because, like, he can't handle a woman with baggage.

00:35:26And I'm like, oh, honey, I have all the bags.

00:35:29All of them.

00:35:31No women are going to run out of your bedroom or anything?

00:35:32No.

00:35:33Okay.

00:35:34Just be careful you don't slip over.

00:35:37Oh, it's icy.

00:35:38Yeah.

00:35:38Now I'm starting to get doubtful.

00:35:40Like, is he going to accept me for everything that I am?

00:35:42Oh, this is so cute.

00:35:45It's a bachelor pad.

00:35:46That's what we call it.

00:35:47Oh, look at your little squirrel door knacker.

00:35:51That's so cute.

00:35:54This is my humble abode.

00:35:55I love your kitchen.

00:35:57I love the color.

00:35:58It's so cute.

00:35:59Is that me and Jamal?

00:36:00Yeah.

00:36:01Can I see it?

00:36:02I thought I'd do a little surprise for you.

00:36:03What is this?

00:36:04Aw.

00:36:05It's that picture you sent me and I've got somebody to draw it.

00:36:08Aw, thank you.

00:36:09That's so cute.

00:36:10I love it.

00:36:12The first thing I saw was this sketch of me and Jamal.

00:36:15And I'm like, what the is he stalking me?

00:36:17Like, is this like a Silence of the Lambs vibe?

00:36:19I've got to go.

00:36:21Who drew this?

00:36:22One of my friend's daughters.

00:36:25Wow.

00:36:28I want to be a bit.

00:36:30You're keeping this here though, right?

00:36:31No, that's a gift for you.

00:36:32Oh, is it for me?

00:36:33Yeah.

00:36:33Oh, I love it.

00:36:34It's very thoughtful.

00:36:36I've never had that done for me.

00:36:37But it's like, do I look that old?

00:36:40Do I have that many wrinkles?

00:36:44So what are we, what are you cooking?

00:36:46It's Jamaican chicken and rice.

00:36:48It's my mom's recipe.

00:36:49Oh, okay.

00:36:50And I promise it won't be too spicy.

00:36:52Okay.

00:36:54I don't do it the professional way.

00:36:55You don't have to do it the professional way.

00:36:57I've never, ever, ever had a man just cook just for me.

00:37:02And I feel like so special and I feel like appreciated.

00:37:08You sure you don't want to spice it up?

00:37:09You can spice it up.

00:37:10No, I'm not putting it too spicy for you.

00:37:12But I'm getting really, really nervous.

00:37:14We have to have a conversation about if we're going to be in a relationship.

00:37:18And I have to tell him about the children I placed for adoption.

00:37:22And I feel like everything's just starting to bubble up.

00:37:25So I'm going to let that simmer.

00:37:26Do you want to have a little sit down and chill?

00:37:29Sure.

00:37:29I can have a break from cooking then.

00:37:30Oh my gosh, it was so nice to watch you do that.

00:37:32I just feel like everything is just going to start word vomiting out of my mouth.

00:37:38There you go.

00:37:40This is nice.

00:37:41Yeah.

00:37:41So how do you think this week went?

00:37:43Um, so far so good.

00:37:46So far so good.

00:37:47I leave tomorrow.

00:37:49No, I mean, like, I don't know.

00:37:52Like, I had such a good time.

00:37:53Like, with you, I just feel like it's such a good fit.

00:37:56Yeah.

00:37:56You know, I really do.

00:37:57Like, I love being in your company.

00:38:00It's gone very quick, which is a good thing.

00:38:02So sometimes I think, and if you're talking to someone and it's dragging, that means you're not enjoying it.

00:38:07And it's just like, it's just gone just like that.

00:38:10Like, how do you feel about the long distance thing?

00:38:12Like, are you willing to give this a try and try it out?

00:38:16Yeah.

00:38:17What we're doing so far, I think, is working.

00:38:20Mm-hmm.

00:38:21So it'd be nice if we do see each other again.

00:38:25Yeah?

00:38:26Yeah.

00:38:26Okay.

00:38:27So are you like my man now?

00:38:29My boyfriend?

00:38:30Yeah.

00:38:34Um, I like not to put no pressure on stuff, though.

00:38:38That's important to me.

00:38:40And sometimes relationships scare me.

00:38:44I've been on my own for a while, and I've enjoyed it on my own.

00:38:48Yeah.

00:38:49So I don't want the pressure of, we're doing this, we're doing that.

00:38:53Oh, no, no.

00:38:54He is not saying that we are boyfriend and girlfriend, but we're not seeing anybody else.

00:38:58So technically, in my head, we're in a relationship.

00:39:01But the last thing I want to do is put pressure on Wayne,

00:39:05because I know that is a surefire way to kill a relationship.

00:39:09I think we try it out, see what happens.

00:39:12And if it doesn't work, if it doesn't work, we'll be great friends.

00:39:14You know what I mean?

00:39:15But I like you.

00:39:15I'm interested in you.

00:39:17I feel the connection with you.

00:39:18And then, like, so there is one thing before we continue that I want to tell you about.

00:39:28And it's not easy.

00:39:29I'm sorry.

00:39:31It's very, very, um, sorry.

00:39:36I didn't know it was going to be this hard.

00:39:38Sorry.

00:39:39Give me a second.

00:39:41I have other children.

00:39:42I put up for adoption.

00:39:44Oh, wow.

00:39:44Please don't judge me, okay?

00:40:00Today is a big day.

00:40:03I feel like my life is about to take a really good turn in the right direction.

00:40:14Bustin' the place I want.

00:40:17Wastin' my knees for once.

00:40:18But baby, you're trapped in me.

00:40:22Today I brought my natural charm and also a little science with me, too.

00:40:29So this is pheromone spray, and this is supposed to attract the ladies.

00:40:37Since breaking up with Natalie, it's taken me some time, but I finally have started talking

00:40:44to women online, and I actually met someone that I'm really interested in.

00:40:49I have to give it the test.

00:40:52I feel like Lexi and I, we just have a natural chemistry together, and we talk every day.

00:40:59At first, we decided to meet up as friends, and we had such a good time together.

00:41:05Whew.

00:41:05I had to ask her out on a date.

00:41:09Heck yeah.

00:41:12You know, extra.

00:41:14Hopefully, she will say something like, Gino, you make me crazy.

00:41:19I think she's going to like this.

00:41:25I'm very excited, but I still have some nerves about, like, what's going to happen, you know?

00:41:32Is this going to turn out good, or is it not going to be good, so?

00:41:45Holy cow.

00:41:46Good to see you.

00:41:47Nice to see you.

00:41:49Oh, my God.

00:41:49How are we going?

00:41:51I'm good.

00:41:52How are you?

00:41:52You look beautiful.

00:41:55Gosh.

00:41:57I think they actually have a wine tasting room in here.

00:42:01Yes.

00:42:02This should be fun.

00:42:02I've never been in the winery.

00:42:04The last time, I was just looking at the animals.

00:42:07When Gino first wrote me on the app, I figured, why not?

00:42:12It was fun getting to know each other.

00:42:14We had really good conversations.

00:42:17Ooh.

00:42:18Those look good.

00:42:20I really like his sense of humor.

00:42:23I kind of have a quirky sense of humor, too, so we decided to meet up.

00:42:29Hi.

00:42:30Have you decided what you'd like?

00:42:31Oh, yeah.

00:42:32I think so.

00:42:33All right.

00:42:34Can we start with your ID, please?

00:42:35Yeah.

00:42:36All right.

00:42:39Aren't you going to ask me for my ID?

00:42:42Well, I'm going to check it if you insist.

00:42:45No, that's only if you need to check my ID.

00:42:48If you look like me, sweetheart, we're good.

00:42:50I am 56 years old, and Lexi is 30, and that's a lot, okay?

00:42:57It is a lot.

00:42:59But, I mean, when I'm with Lexi, I do not feel like we have a 26-year age difference.

00:43:05And, honestly, I feel like age doesn't even matter.

00:43:09Is the age difference thing, like, is that a problem for you yourself?

00:43:14For me, I don't really have any problems with it, but I would be a little concerned about what my

00:43:20family might think.

00:43:33What happens, like, if your dad, what if your dad kicks your ass?

00:43:37No, like, what if your dad, he might do that.

00:43:40He might do that.

00:43:41I think if your dad likes me as a person, you know, maybe age won't matter to him.

00:43:49Yeah.

00:43:53She's saying, give me a drink, but let's have a toast.

00:43:57Yes.

00:43:58To new beginnings.

00:43:59New beginnings.

00:44:01Yeah.

00:44:01Yeah, new beginnings.

00:44:02That's a good one.

00:44:06I know you mentioned before, but have you been to a lot of orchards around this area?

00:44:11Yeah.

00:44:11Mila really likes coming to them.

00:44:13She loves feeding the animals.

00:44:16I'm a single mom.

00:44:17I have a four-year-old daughter.

00:44:18So if I'm going to be in a relationship with somebody, it's absolutely mandatory that they

00:44:24would have a good relationship with my daughter.

00:44:26I feel like he would be really good with kids.

00:44:29So speaking of animals, if you were an animal, what kind of animal would you be?

00:44:35Um, I've always wanted to be like a cheetah, like running across the landscape 70 miles an hour.

00:44:44You know, being a cheetah, um, it doesn't really make sense.

00:44:50He's more like a platypus.

00:44:57Do you want to go see the animals?

00:44:59Of course.

00:45:00Let's go.

00:45:05Animals.

00:45:07Is this my bag of food?

00:45:09Oh, look it.

00:45:09He's ready.

00:45:13That's good.

00:45:15Aw.

00:45:16My daughter would love feeding these guys.

00:45:20I would like to meet her.

00:45:22Mm-hmm.

00:45:23Yeah.

00:45:24That would be fun.

00:45:27You know, obviously, this is only our very first date, but to me, like, the benefits of

00:45:33dating a younger woman like Lexi, I could have a baby with this person naturally.

00:45:41Oh, my God, I feel like a little kid again.

00:45:44And have the child that I've always wanted to have.

00:45:48Is this your first date in a corn maze?

00:45:50Yeah, it's the corniest date I've ever been on.

00:45:53I mean, look at it all.

00:45:55We made it.

00:45:58My divorce is in process now, and I feel free.

00:46:06Well, I had a lot of fun on our date today.

00:46:09I had a lot of fun, too.

00:46:11Yeah?

00:46:12Yeah, I would love to go on more dates with you.

00:46:15Goodbye.

00:46:20Well, goodbye.

00:46:21Goodbye.

00:46:25Wow, that was fast.

00:46:28Do I get one more quick one?

00:46:31Oh, my God.

00:46:33Maybe next time.

00:46:34Maybe next time?

00:46:35Yeah.

00:46:37Okay.

00:46:40I have a good feeling about Lexi, but if it doesn't work out, I'm okay, because I know

00:46:48there's a woman out there for me.

00:46:50Good night.

00:46:51Bye.

00:46:53Honestly, I'm hopeful for the future for the first time in a very long time.

00:47:03I got a kiss.

00:47:04Woo!

00:47:08An amazing time here with you, and I don't regret any of it.

00:47:13Like, what if I just push this amazing guy away, and, like, I lost my chance to have my forever?

00:47:20How are you feeling now?

00:47:22I mean, I guess I'll just come out and say it.

00:47:41It's a little bit bittersweet to be packing right now.

00:47:43Um, I've had some great highlights on this trip, but also, it's just so nice to be able to go

00:47:51home.

00:47:52I'm still you in my dreams.

00:47:55You that I see.

00:47:57You that kiss me up.

00:47:59You that drives me crazy.

00:48:02You that I want.

00:48:03You in my heart.

00:48:06You.

00:48:07Still you.

00:48:09Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh,

00:48:13oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.

00:48:17Oh.

00:48:18Hey, cutie.

00:48:18Hey.

00:48:20How are you?

00:48:22I'm good.

00:48:23Good?

00:48:23Yeah.

00:48:25When it came down to this trip, I wanted to be open to anything and everything that came my way.

00:48:31But never in a million years did I think that I'd be someone who'd be in some type of love

00:48:37triangle.

00:48:39Oh.

00:48:40How are you?

00:48:43I'm good.

00:48:43I mean, I haven't finished packing yet.

00:48:46Well, I haven't even started.

00:48:47Jeez.

00:48:48I'm mad at myself.

00:48:50I can be hurting two people right now.

00:48:53It's just such a tricky situation to put myself in.

00:49:00So, how are you feeling now?

00:49:05I have, like, an anxious feeling in my stomach.

00:49:10Um, I don't know if it's just hot outside or I'm just anxious.

00:49:19Uh, well, I mean, I guess I'll just come out and say it.

00:49:29Um, I think you really just came into my life unexpectedly, and we've had nothing but good times.

00:49:36But I feel like I need to be true to myself.

00:49:40And trying to pursue anything long term is not in the cards for me.

00:49:48Okay.

00:49:50Well, what made you, I guess, decide that now?

00:49:58I think a lot of it does still have to do with, like, my sickness and everything that just scares

00:50:04me.

00:50:04You know, like, have to try to do that with someone who is long distance.

00:50:09I don't want you to think that I led you on.

00:50:13And I'm really sorry if I hurt you in any way.

00:50:20It sucks.

00:50:27I mean, I understood from the beginning.

00:50:31And I kind of felt it couldn't end this way.

00:50:36You and I just met.

00:50:39You have a lot more back home.

00:50:41You know, what am I right now?

00:50:42I'm just a friend.

00:50:57As much as I do have feelings for Via, it's just way too complicated for me right now.

00:51:03I have a child.

00:51:04He has a child.

00:51:06We live on opposite sides of the country.

00:51:08And there are days when my sickness takes a toll on me.

00:51:12And I want someone who can be there by my side.

00:51:20I've fought really hard to make relationships in the past work.

00:51:23And, like, I don't have any more fight left in me, especially while being sick.

00:51:33Honestly, no hard feelings.

00:51:35Don't feel bad.

00:51:36You know, I don't want you to feel like any type of pity or anything.

00:51:41I had an amazing time here with you.

00:51:44And, like I said, I don't regret any of it.

00:51:51It's okay.

00:51:52It just felt really bad.

00:51:55It's okay.

00:52:00I'm sorry.

00:52:01Don't be sorry.

00:52:03Don't be.

00:52:05I am.

00:52:06There's nothing to be sorry about.

00:52:08You're such a good person.

00:52:13You just became a huge part of my life.

00:52:15And I don't think you understand how much you did help change me throughout this.

00:52:20I'm glad you're saying that, because I'll at least know that.

00:52:26And I appreciate you for that as well.

00:52:33Crazy for you, it was whirlwinds of lightning.

00:52:37I'm shocked.

00:52:38I felt we had something.

00:52:40Liz was a genuine person with me.

00:52:43And I fell in love with Liz.

00:52:48I think we could probably be something and work something out.

00:52:52Be together, whatever.

00:52:55Yeah, it sucks.

00:52:58It does suck.

00:53:00You know, me and the girls are heading home.

00:53:03So, I'm going to miss you.

00:53:05I know, I know I'm going to miss you, for sure.

00:53:08Weird.

00:53:18Great.

00:53:19That we do?

00:53:20I hope you take your stuff home.

00:53:21Yes, please.

00:53:24I'm going to carry your purse.

00:53:25Are you going to carry my purse?

00:53:28I'll carry your purse.

00:53:29It's okay.

00:53:30I think my biggest fear is, like, going home and realizing that, like, our love wasn't just a love on

00:53:35vacation.

00:53:36That it could have been something more.

00:53:39Why is it that this one seems heavier than this one?

00:53:41I don't ask questions.

00:53:43I am a female.

00:53:46Like, what if I just push this amazing guy away, and, like, I lost my chance to, like, have my

00:53:55forever?

00:53:57I'm just hoping that when I get home, I don't realize that I made one of the biggest mistakes of

00:54:01my life.

00:54:11I'd absolutely hate myself if I made the wrong decision.

00:54:16All right.

00:54:17Let's get you home.

00:54:41Sorry.

00:54:42Give me a second.

00:54:44I have other children.

00:54:45I put up for adoption.

00:54:46Oh, wow.

00:54:48Please don't judge me, okay?

00:54:51They're Jamal's full brother and full sister.

00:54:56I have a son, Larry.

00:54:58He found me through, like, one of those DNA websites.

00:55:01And I had a daughter after that.

00:55:04Uh-huh.

00:55:05It's not like I was really irresponsible.

00:55:08I was with the same man for years.

00:55:11And he was just not there.

00:55:13You know, if I would have had somebody like you, it would have been a totally different story.

00:55:16But I didn't have that.

00:55:17I was by myself all the time.

00:55:18You know?

00:55:19But it's, like, my past, and it's my baggage.

00:55:21But when you said that yesterday...

00:55:22Not to say something.

00:55:24Don't use the word baggage.

00:55:27Just use the word it's history.

00:55:28It's your life.

00:55:29It's what happened.

00:55:31Not baggage.

00:55:33Baggage is a horrible word to use.

00:55:35It's just history.

00:55:35Well, it was brought up yesterday.

00:55:38Yeah.

00:55:38And it was, like, I just feel like this is who I am.

00:55:41And either you accept me for all of this or you don't.

00:55:44You know?

00:55:44It's just that simple.

00:55:45Yeah.

00:55:46I know it's a big deal to you.

00:55:48I see you.

00:55:49Because you've gone through it all and you've lived it.

00:55:51Yeah.

00:55:52To me, it's not that much of a big deal.

00:55:55I can do it on my own.

00:55:57I honestly can do it on my own.

00:55:59I'm happy you told me.

00:56:01We've all got a past.

00:56:02Some people's past is different than other people's.

00:56:05But it's hard to talk about for me.

00:56:07And now I feel like I can trust you and I can talk to you about it.

00:56:10You know?

00:56:10Yeah.

00:56:11I don't feel no different about Kim after what she's told me tonight.

00:56:15I'm not that sort of person.

00:56:17I don't judge people.

00:56:18I don't like people to judge me.

00:56:20She's had a past.

00:56:22We've all got a past.

00:56:24And all I'm concentrating on now is the future.

00:56:28You're okay?

00:56:28You sure?

00:56:29Yeah.

00:56:29Yeah, I'm fine.

00:56:30But I felt like if we're going to take this further, then I needed to tell you.

00:56:34I wasn't going to keep it.

00:56:35You're fine.

00:56:37We're good.

00:56:38Cheers.

00:56:39Cheers.

00:56:40Can I just down this now?

00:56:43I feel better, actually.

00:56:45Right now, I see this person in front of me.

00:56:48And I see someone that's really, really strong.

00:56:52Someone that's been through a lot in life.

00:56:53And they come out of it.

00:56:55And they're still breathing.

00:56:59That looks so good.

00:57:01You like juice on it?

00:57:03Yeah.

00:57:05I never thought that I would find somebody that would be so accepting

00:57:09of my past.

00:57:11And now I know that Wayne likes me and that he accepts me for who I am.

00:57:15All right.

00:57:15Let me try.

00:57:20Oh.

00:57:21It's really good.

00:57:23I'm impressed.

00:57:24I'm going to take you home with me and my suitcase now.

00:57:26Okay?

00:57:28He's just a wonderful, wonderful guy.

00:57:30And this is what I deserve.

00:57:32I've waited a long time for this.

00:57:34Oh, I hate the fact I have such an early flight tomorrow.

00:57:37I know.

00:57:37You know, you're welcome to stay here tonight.

00:57:40Uh-huh.

00:57:41I would.

00:57:42But I'm really tired and I do have an early flight.

00:57:45I think I'm emotionally tired, too.

00:57:47Yeah, I get that.

00:57:48Is it okay?

00:57:49Do you mind taking me home?

00:57:50Yeah.

00:57:50I'll give you a lift back.

00:57:51Are you sure?

00:57:52Are you sure?

00:57:53Okay.

00:57:54Next trip.

00:57:57I wasn't really sure if Wayne and I were going to be intimate on this trip.

00:58:00I mean, I'm very attracted to him.

00:58:02But this just isn't the trip for that.

00:58:05We've talked about so much heavy stuff and established our relationship.

00:58:09But next time I come, look out, Mr. Wayne.

00:58:14You're such a gentleman.

00:58:15You put my jacket on for me.

00:58:17Is this what you do when you're dating someone?

00:58:20Are you just...

00:58:21Seeing someone.

00:58:22Seeing someone.

00:58:23Oh, my God.

00:58:23Is that the thing?

00:58:24We're seeing each other.

00:58:26Okay.

00:58:26So I won't change my relationship status.

00:58:29Well, yeah, I will.

00:58:31I'm seeing someone.

00:58:32Hashtag leave me alone.

00:58:33That sounds good.

00:58:36Like, all the qualities you have, I'm like,

00:58:38this is exactly what I've been looking for for so long.

00:58:41Tonight, me and Phillip are celebrating our three-month anniversary.

00:58:45The last three months have been very nice together.

00:58:47Now that Colt is out of our relationship,

00:58:50I think we should go to the next level of our relationship.

00:58:53No.

00:58:57No.

00:59:11Is there a silver lining or does it always send us...

00:59:15Oh, you're ready?

00:59:17Yeah.

00:59:21You're okay?

00:59:23Yeah, I'm coming in.

00:59:24I just want to go home, right?

00:59:25Me too.

00:59:27Let's go.

00:59:28We know we've reached the end

00:59:31Before we begin

00:59:34And you're in the room of your hands

00:59:37He still doesn't respond?

00:59:39No.

00:59:40He's had time now.

00:59:41He's had space now.

00:59:43How it's, like, coming from

00:59:44I want to be with you,

00:59:45I want everything for you,

00:59:46Like, I ghosting you,

00:59:48I ignoring you.

00:59:49Like, say something.

00:59:50If this hurt him that much,

00:59:52Really, he should be like,

00:59:53Look, Sophie,

00:59:54This has really hurt me.

00:59:55Moving forward,

00:59:56I want us to be exclusive.

00:59:58Don't kiss anyone else.

00:59:59Yeah.

01:00:00Or he could be like,

01:00:01Sophie, that really hurt me.

01:00:02This isn't worth it to me.

01:00:03Walk away.

01:00:04At least say something,

01:00:05But he ain't just saying nothing.

01:00:06Yeah.

01:00:09You know, I would just continue being single.

01:00:11Like, I want to do anyway, so...

01:00:14I was honest with Pedro from the start

01:00:16About what I was ready for

01:00:17And my intentions.

01:00:18He's the one that chose to just not listen to me

01:00:21And make assumptions about our relationship.

01:00:23Let's go.

01:00:25But looking back,

01:00:26Me even just coming to the DR,

01:00:29I could see why maybe that would give him

01:00:30The wrong impression.

01:00:31And, you know, if that's the case,

01:00:33I am sorry.

01:00:33Like, I never wanted to lead him on.

01:00:36If I could do things over,

01:00:38Probably wouldn't have come.

01:00:47Look at you, lovebirds.

01:00:50Lovebirds.

01:00:51Lovebirds.

01:00:52A lot in this expression in America.

01:00:55Well,

01:00:57Vivi and I talked,

01:00:58And

01:00:59Yeah, we are parting our ways.

01:01:02What?

01:01:03We're going to be parting our ways.

01:01:05What does this mean?

01:01:08What is part?

01:01:10We're parting our ways.

01:01:11Like, we're just going to be friends.

01:01:13Ah, you decided to be friends?

01:01:16Yeah.

01:01:16We're just friends.

01:01:18Yeah.

01:01:20I mean, at least you have something good from the strip.

01:01:22You have a friend.

01:01:23Yeah.

01:01:29All right.

01:01:30Let's go.

01:01:30All right.

01:01:37Friends.

01:01:39Okay.

01:01:40I'm going to miss you.

01:01:42I'm going to miss you.

01:01:44I'm going to miss you.

01:01:45All right.

01:01:46Well,

01:01:47This is goodbye.

01:01:50Hold on.

01:01:50Move up a little bit.

01:01:51Oh.

01:01:54What are you saying?

01:01:55Excuse me.

01:01:57You're doing?

01:01:57I'm good.

01:01:58I'm good.

01:01:58I'm good for the...

01:01:59You girls be safe, okay?

01:02:02Bye.

01:02:03Bye.

01:02:09This is how you actually feel.

01:02:11It's just, like, hard, because it's, like, we, like, you know, he developed feelings, and,

01:02:14like, he was really sad.

01:02:15Like, I...

01:02:16You're sad, too.

01:02:17I'm sad, too.

01:02:18But I guess I did get something out of this trip.

01:02:22Did you learn something from this trip?

01:02:26Not really.

01:02:28So, what are you going to do when you're back home?

01:02:30I think I'm going to just take some time that I need, still a bit for myself, to figure

01:02:35out what I actually want.

01:02:37But then I definitely want to try dating again.

01:02:41You want to take this ball with you?

01:02:43Let's just remind you of Pedro.

01:02:45No.

01:02:46A right man is out there for you, and when it's the right time, he will find you.

01:02:52Now I know.

01:02:53If I see even a tiny red flag, goodbye.

01:02:55Block.

01:02:56Block.

01:02:58Who's picking you up from the airport?

01:03:00My dog.

01:03:02He will become a sign.

01:03:04This will be the only man, only boy that you should be excited for for a little bit.

01:03:08Live your life.

01:03:10Next ghost trip, no voice allowed.

01:03:14All right, we should have just did a trip.

01:03:17I don't want to miss one yet.

01:03:30That's where we met that bar back there.

01:03:33That's where you originally met.

01:03:34I remember, I was like, oh, hey, when I walked by, and then you were kind of like, giving me

01:03:38the cold shoulder.

01:03:39I was shy.

01:03:40I didn't have enough nerve to come and talk to you.

01:03:42But then after you left, I was kicking myself.

01:03:44I asked my friend Liz, the bartender, about you, and she said you come in on Fridays.

01:03:48So I went back on Fridays looking for you.

01:03:50For how long?

01:03:52Six months.

01:03:52Oh, wow.

01:03:53Before you came back.

01:03:54That's cute.

01:03:57That's cute.

01:03:59That's cute.

01:04:10Hello.

01:04:11How are you doing tonight?

01:04:12Good.

01:04:13A tube, please?

01:04:13Perfect.

01:04:14Inside or out today?

01:04:15Let's do it outside.

01:04:16Outside.

01:04:17You guys can follow me this way.

01:04:20Cole left Phillip's house about a week ago.

01:04:23I have no idea where he went.

01:04:25I blocked him.

01:04:25I don't know if he's in Canada with his mom, Brazil with Diana, Orlando with another girl.

01:04:31Who knows where he is in the world, honestly?

01:04:33And I don't really care.

01:04:35Hi, folks.

01:04:36Welcome in.

01:04:37Hi.

01:04:37How are you doing tonight?

01:04:38I'm good.

01:04:38How are you?

01:04:39Good, good.

01:04:39You guys want to put in any food at the moment?

01:04:41I think I'm going to do the charcuterie.

01:04:43I'm going to have the oysters.

01:04:46I'll get those put in for you guys.

01:04:48Tonight, me and Phillip are celebrating our three-month anniversary.

01:04:52This is our first date night since Colt left.

01:04:54And I was like, this is the first time I finally feel free in six months.

01:05:02Do you notice a difference in the house now that Colt's gone?

01:05:06Yes.

01:05:06It's peaceful.

01:05:08I mean, he wasn't just serving us, though.

01:05:11He was just, like, in his room being, like, depressed or, like, fighting with Diana.

01:05:16But now it's just us.

01:05:17Yes.

01:05:18Oh, thank you.

01:05:19That looks so good.

01:05:21You guys enjoy.

01:05:27Suck it.

01:05:28How was that?

01:05:30Good.

01:05:30What do they taste like?

01:05:32Oysters.

01:05:33Oh.

01:05:34Have you never tried a oyster before?

01:05:36I'm allergic to seafood.

01:05:38I didn't know you were allergic to seafood.

01:05:40We've only been together three months.

01:05:42What don't I know about you?

01:05:44Mmm.

01:05:47My favorite sex position is missionary.

01:05:50Duh.

01:05:51I know that.

01:05:53The sex is great with Phillip.

01:05:55We do it every day.

01:05:57Like, no issues at all.

01:05:58No complaints.

01:05:59Compared to limp over there.

01:06:03Phillip is 66, but he gets easily aroused.

01:06:07Like, he doesn't take any pills.

01:06:09He's just good to go.

01:06:11He's active.

01:06:12He has a lot of energy.

01:06:15He drinks a lot of soda.

01:06:16Maybe, like, a 12-pack a day.

01:06:19Ah!

01:06:20So one thing I didn't know about you was I didn't realize you were so old.

01:06:24When you found out, did it bother you?

01:06:26When I first saw your birth year, I was, like, surprised.

01:06:30But, like, who you are as a person and, like, all the qualities you have,

01:06:34I'm like, this is exactly what I've been looking for for so long.

01:06:37That's good to hear.

01:06:38If we stay together long term, I'll have more grandkids than my mom.

01:06:43Then you're going to, like, more, because we're going to stay together.

01:06:48The last three months has been very nice together.

01:06:51Now that Colt is out of our relationship,

01:06:54I think we should go to the next level of our relationship.

01:07:00I love you.

01:07:01I want to be with you forever.

01:07:08No.

01:07:08Will you marry me?

01:07:10No.

01:07:12Is that a no or a yes?

01:07:14Yes.

01:07:15Babe.

01:07:18You're now my fiancé.

01:07:20Are you serious?

01:07:21I'm serious.

01:07:26Babe.

01:07:27I love it.

01:07:29Wow.

01:07:30I'm engaged.

01:07:32Cheers.

01:07:33Cheers.

01:07:34To us.

01:07:34To my fiancé.

01:07:36Woohoo.

01:07:37So how quickly are we going to get married?

01:07:40Tomorrow?

01:07:41Babe.

01:07:42There's so much I need to plan.

01:07:44I'm, like, DJ, photographer, caterer, venue.

01:07:47I just want to enjoy the whole process.

01:07:49I don't want to feel, like, stressed.

01:07:50But I don't want to wait too long.

01:07:52We'll make it happen this year.

01:07:53Yeah.

01:07:55You're what I've been envisioning or, like, waiting for all these years.

01:07:59Like, I didn't want to settle with anybody else.

01:08:01Like, that's why I haven't been engaged or married.

01:08:04Oh, I'm going to cry.

01:08:08I've just waited so long to meet, like, a good man or me.

01:08:17Don't cry.

01:08:20Because, like, I picture my life.

01:08:22I'm, like, am I ever going to get engaged?

01:08:23Am I ever going to get married?

01:08:25Am I ever going to find my person?

01:08:28You don't have to worry about that.

01:08:29Because I feel like I just keep going through heartbreak after heartbreak.

01:08:32And it's, like...

01:08:34You don't have to worry about that anymore.

01:08:39Make sure my lashes don't fall off.

01:08:43What a crazy journey.

01:08:45It's been a chaotic six months.

01:08:47Like, I went to a singles retreat in Mexico.

01:08:49Colt broke his leg.

01:08:51He was living with me and my parents.

01:08:53Sending jerk-off videos to other women.

01:08:54He goes to Brazil.

01:08:56He comes back to have surgery.

01:08:58I move him into my boyfriend's house.

01:08:59We kick him out.

01:09:00And then it's, like, now I'm here.

01:09:02I think the universe finally rewarded me some good karma.

01:09:10Oh, you made me very happy tonight.

01:09:12Glad I can.

01:09:13Should we go home so I can make you happy?

01:09:16See if the oysters have the effect that they say they do?

01:09:19What effect?

01:09:20Oh, is that a fact?

01:09:21That's my favorite.

01:09:24Glad you said yes.

01:09:25Because I believe we will have a happy future together.

01:09:27Babe, you're so corny.

01:09:30That's why you love me.

01:09:31Yes.

01:09:32I'm engaged!

01:09:39I love you.

01:09:45I love you too.

01:09:48Obviously, it would be nice to live with you.

01:09:50But to me, this is such a weird order of events.

01:09:53Buying a house together and you're not even making any sort of commitment towards marriage.

01:09:59Like, what am I doing here?

01:10:00It has to happen in my time when I feel comfortable.

01:10:11What to wear, what to wear?

01:10:13Maybe your title will drown me.

01:10:16I feel like I'm okay with that.

01:10:19Even with all these clothes, I always feel like I have nothing to wear for the day.

01:10:23Some choices to start with.

01:10:26More of a ride.

01:10:27So, this pull-up bar is used more for hanging the clothes than it is for actual exercise.

01:10:35Life's much better when we fall in love, not falling apart.

01:10:42So much better when you're breaking my fall, not breaking my heart.

01:10:47So pretty.

01:10:51When Tony asked me to move in with him last month, I was so excited.

01:10:55Because it seemed like I was the one making all the first steps in this relationship.

01:10:59I was making all the first moves.

01:11:01And he finally asked me to do something, which feels amazing.

01:11:06Oh, it's Tony.

01:11:09Hey, baby.

01:11:10Hi.

01:11:11Hey, baby.

01:11:13Oh, this is good.

01:11:15I love this dress.

01:11:16But then he changed his mind.

01:11:19Instead of me moving into his house, he wants us to start fresh and buy a new house together.

01:11:25Let's do this.

01:11:27So today, we're going to go take a look at a house that he found online.

01:11:32Thank you very much.

01:11:34I'm trying to keep an open mind, but buying a new home together is a much bigger deal than just

01:11:41me moving into his house.

01:11:43This is such a huge decision, you know, tying my finances with him when there's not even an engagement yet.

01:11:52So excited.

01:11:53The beach house had open house hours today, so I thought it would be a good way to be spontaneous

01:11:58and kind of really see what we're really looking at, like, in terms of the future and, you know,

01:12:03where we might end up and start fresh for us, you know.

01:12:07And so I know that you asked me to, like, move in with you.

01:12:12What made you have a change of heart?

01:12:15You've been establishing your home for so long, and I have been the same way.

01:12:18And that was kind of more of a gesture saying that, hey, I think it's time for us to just

01:12:22really combine our lives together.

01:12:25And I think this is the best way to start is to look for something new, you know.

01:12:30Yeah.

01:12:33I think it's this one.

01:12:35Oh.

01:12:36All right.

01:12:37This is it.

01:12:38We are here.

01:12:40Are you ready?

01:12:43All right.

01:12:44This is going to be, oh, just getting out of this car is an adventure in itself.

01:12:50Yeah.

01:12:51What do you think?

01:12:52All right.

01:12:52Let's take a look.

01:12:53Wow.

01:12:54It's pretty big.

01:12:55Yeah.

01:12:56It's definitely, uh, looks voluminous.

01:12:59Voluminous.

01:12:59Hey, Tony.

01:13:00Yeah.

01:13:01Oh, here we are.

01:13:01Oh.

01:13:02You must be Duane.

01:13:03Yeah.

01:13:04Nice to see you.

01:13:04Good to put a face with a name.

01:13:05Yeah, absolutely.

01:13:06Hi, Vanya.

01:13:07Nice to meet you.

01:13:08Nice to meet you as well.

01:13:09Come take a look.

01:13:10I love it, Vanya.

01:13:10It's all about ocean living, right?

01:13:12Ocean living.

01:13:15Oh, my goodness.

01:13:16Look at this light.

01:13:19It's incredible.

01:13:22Wow.

01:13:24It's amazing.

01:13:25So let's just head upstairs.

01:13:27Wow, there's a lot of stairs, so no stair master needed.

01:13:32Whoa.

01:13:33Look at this double door situation.

01:13:34The master quarters.

01:13:35Yeah.

01:13:36Oh, wow.

01:13:38All, ooh.

01:13:40Like, oh.

01:13:41Bathroom.

01:13:42Oh, my God.

01:13:43With the bathtub.

01:13:45Oh, my God.

01:13:46Look at this bathroom.

01:13:48Soak it in, literally.

01:13:49Oh.

01:13:50Wow.

01:13:51Every room has an amazing view.

01:13:52What the heck?

01:13:53This is beautiful.

01:13:54This is gorgeous.

01:13:56Wow.

01:13:57What I really love is how bright this home is, how full of light it is, how spacious it is.

01:14:03Wow.

01:14:04Oh, my God.

01:14:05This is incredible.

01:14:07The location is right on the beach.

01:14:09It is absolutely spectacular.

01:14:11This house was just meant for me.

01:14:13So I want to let you guys just go down the staircase, enjoy the beach, and then just let me

01:14:19know.

01:14:19Amazing.

01:14:20Thank you so much.

01:14:21However, looking at homes with Tony as just a boyfriend feels very weird to me.

01:14:28You know, this is something that you do at least as a fiancé, if not a wife.

01:14:34We're putting the carriage before the horse.

01:14:37And I really don't understand what Tony's thinking.

01:14:42Oh, I love it.

01:14:43I love it.

01:14:44This is spectacular.

01:14:45Stunning.

01:14:47Stunning.

01:14:48I mean...

01:14:49So how did you experience the day?

01:14:52I mean, for me, the whole point of bringing you here was to kind of envision a house for us

01:14:57that we can make things easier for us.

01:15:00I mean, I don't like commuting 45 minutes to work.

01:15:03You know, I want to have some place that we can call home and, you know, think about, obviously, saving

01:15:09time and spending more time together, you know?

01:15:12It just sounds like this is, like, a very practical decision for you.

01:15:17You know, it just sounds like you just want to save time.

01:15:20I'm not saying it's, um...

01:15:23It's just about that.

01:15:24You know, obviously, it would be nice to live with you.

01:15:27But to me, this is such a weird order of events, buying a house together without being engaged.

01:15:34I don't think I can do that.

01:15:36I'm totally not down with that.

01:15:39No, I don't want you to think that I'm not, in a sense, planning that or thinking about that, because

01:15:44I am.

01:15:45But we just started dating six months ago.

01:15:47No, we haven't just started dating a few months ago.

01:15:50We've been friends in each other's lives for the last two years.

01:15:53And you're not even making any sort of, you know, commitment towards marriage.

01:15:59Like, what am I doing here?

01:16:00It has to happen in my time when I feel comfortable.

01:16:03And I'm not ready for that step right now.

01:16:11Vanya is ready to be engaged.

01:16:14It's something I'm thinking about, and I really am looking at her as the one.

01:16:19It's just, I definitely need more time.

01:16:20And I thought house hunting may be an idea of trying to not distract her or sway her away from

01:16:26it, but to show her that we're serious.

01:16:28But now I'm seeing that this definitely backfired.

01:16:31You know, if you don't think it's time for us to get engaged, then it's not time for us to

01:16:35buy a house together.

01:16:36I mean, it's as simple as that.

01:16:37This is a huge financial commitment.

01:16:39And if you're not sure about if you want to marry me, then how are you sure that you want

01:16:44to share a home together?

01:16:45I never said that.

01:16:46I never said I wasn't sure.

01:16:48Obviously, you're not ready.

01:17:00I don't want to get this big house with you.

01:17:03Then you become complacent, and then it never gets towards marriage.

01:17:07Because that would not be an acceptable scenario for me at all.

01:17:11I don't want a roommate.

01:17:13I want a husband.

01:17:15I want to marry Tony.

01:17:17It's all going to happen, but I just feel super pressured right now.

01:17:22This is just so frustrating.

01:17:25But as much as I love him, at 43 years old, I can't wait forever.

01:17:34I'm going to have to move on.

01:17:36When it all comes down

01:17:39When we're about to drown

01:17:43When you go downstairs

01:17:45Put your fists and brain

01:17:46Will you even make a sound

01:17:49When it all comes down

01:18:07I'm going back to California

01:18:09But of course Wayne is coming to say goodbye to me

01:18:11I can't wait to see my little English muffin

01:18:14I'm excited

01:18:25I guess I'm his girlfriend now

01:18:27I mean, it was weird

01:18:27He texted me last night

01:18:29Hashtag girlfriend

01:18:29I was like, wait a minute

01:18:31That's not what you said before

01:18:33But that's just the way he is, you know

01:18:36There's so many good things that happen on this trip to England

01:18:38The biggest top two things are

01:18:42I'm in a relationship

01:18:43And that I told him my past and he accepted it

01:18:53It's Wayne! Hello!

01:18:55You all right?

01:18:56Yeah, how are you?

01:18:56Not very bad

01:18:57No?

01:18:58Reception let me straight up

01:18:59They recognize me

01:19:00Oh, I did they?

01:19:00Yeah

01:19:01So you didn't have to come down

01:19:02You're a frequent visitor

01:19:03Have a seat

01:19:04I'm just finishing packing

01:19:05How's your packing going?

01:19:06Good

01:19:06I think I have too much stuff

01:19:08Well, I jump on your bed

01:19:09You don't mind, do you?

01:19:10Oh, no

01:19:10No, now you're on my bed

01:19:11It's that comfy

01:19:12It is comfy

01:19:13It makes a lot of noise, though

01:19:14How do you know?

01:19:15Who else you had up in here?

01:19:16Nobody

01:19:16But I sleep wild sometimes

01:19:21Oh!

01:19:22Done hand

01:19:22I got it

01:19:23So after, like, sleeping on it last night

01:19:25I did kind of have, like, a little panic moment this morning

01:19:29You don't feel any differently about us being in a relationship or anything?

01:19:33I'll be honest with you

01:19:34I did think about it

01:19:34Because obviously when someone tells you something

01:19:36And you have to process it

01:19:38And, um, no, I don't feel no different

01:19:41Okay

01:19:41No different at all

01:19:42I'm quite happy and proud that you trust me

01:19:46But at the same time, I felt a little bit bad

01:19:49I felt like I probably could have cuddled you

01:19:51Or even held your hand

01:19:54And, but I was listening

01:19:55And I didn't want to take the focus off

01:19:57While you're talking to me

01:19:59And I'm like that

01:20:00I will listen and I will focus

01:20:02But at the same time

01:20:03It don't mean that I don't care

01:20:04Yeah, I get it

01:20:05I appreciate that

01:20:06I figured it was just because you're English

01:20:09Come here, though

01:20:10I'll make up for it now

01:20:11Oh, you're so sweet

01:20:13You're so sweet

01:20:14Thank you

01:20:15You're so sweet

01:20:18I'm okay

01:20:19Good

01:20:20Who thought I would come to England

01:20:22And find the man of my dreams

01:20:23Who would have thought that?

01:20:25No

01:20:25Who would have thought that, seriously?

01:20:26I did

01:20:27You did?

01:20:28Oh, you knew?

01:20:29Oh, you're conceited, too

01:20:31You're such a smartass, I swear

01:20:32You know, I'm joking

01:20:34Kim's leaving to go back home today

01:20:35I feel quite sad

01:20:37I'm going to miss a smile

01:20:39I'm going to miss the laughter

01:20:41I'm going to miss her being tactile

01:20:43I'm going to miss the little touches that she's doing

01:20:45I've got used to that

01:20:46In a, not a weird kind of way

01:20:48In a nice kind of way that I like it

01:20:49Give me this

01:20:51All right

01:20:52I'm going to get up and finish packing

01:20:56Car's here

01:20:57We got to go

01:20:58I know

01:20:58Let's go

01:21:00Taking your sweet time, aren't you?

01:21:01I had a lot to do

01:21:02Ready?

01:21:03On the way

01:21:03Let's go

01:21:05I couldn't be more proud of my mom

01:21:07For telling Wayne the truth

01:21:08About my brother and my sister

01:21:10Her growth ever since

01:21:11I found about my brother

01:21:13Has been incredible

01:21:14And I've gained a lot more respect for her

01:21:17Jamal

01:21:18Oh Wayne

01:21:19See you later

01:21:20Lovely meeting

01:21:21So nice to meet you

01:21:22Keep doing what you're doing

01:21:25You're killing it

01:21:25Yeah

01:21:26She's really happy with you

01:21:27Thank you

01:21:28Glad I got your approval

01:21:30Yeah man

01:21:31All the best

01:21:32Have a good one

01:21:33Okay we have to take one last picture over here

01:21:36Oh that light

01:21:37It's too bright

01:21:37Wait this way

01:21:38There we go

01:21:39Perfect

01:21:40Ready

01:21:45Okay

01:21:45That's cute

01:21:46Come here

01:21:47I'm going to miss you

01:21:51I'm going to miss you

01:21:52I'm going to miss you

01:21:53I'm going to miss you

01:21:54Thank you for being so amazing

01:21:55Honestly

01:21:56Like from the beginning of this trip

01:21:57To the end

01:21:58You've just been amazing

01:21:59Honestly

01:21:59I've absolutely loved it

01:22:01Yeah

01:22:01It's been a privilege

01:22:02It's been a blessing

01:22:02It's been really nice

01:22:06I am definitely coming back

01:22:08To England

01:22:08Very very soon

01:22:10Next time

01:22:10I might be able to wake up

01:22:11In the morning with you

01:22:12I know there's that

01:22:13If you let me

01:22:13There's that

01:22:14All right

01:22:16But I have learned

01:22:17From past relationships

01:22:19Not to go 100% balls to the wall

01:22:22I'll be back though

01:22:23I'll be back very soon

01:22:24With Wayne

01:22:25I can take my time

01:22:26We can get to know each other better

01:22:28Get more on an intimate level

01:22:30And then

01:22:31If this is for me

01:22:32Then it's going to be for me

01:22:33And if it's not

01:22:34It's not

01:22:35I'm always going to be okay

01:22:36Hey

01:22:37Y'all are just so cute

01:22:38But we have to go

01:22:39Okay

01:22:41Tell your kids

01:22:42I said bye

01:22:43I will do

01:22:43I'll tell them too

01:22:44All right

01:22:45All right

01:22:45Let's go

01:22:46I don't think anybody

01:22:48Will ever understand

01:22:49How harshly I've judged myself

01:22:51How I never thought

01:22:53I was really worthy

01:22:54Of a really good love

01:22:55And now that I'm there

01:22:57And I've lost all my weight

01:22:59Getting the teeth fixed next

01:23:01And I have this wonderful man

01:23:02By my side

01:23:03And my sons

01:23:04With the hope of finding my daughter

01:23:05Life is pretty good

01:23:11Bye

01:23:15I'll be back in three months

01:23:17See you later

01:23:17See you Wayne

01:23:19See you

01:23:19All right brother

01:23:34I'm Ross Matthews

01:23:35And trust me when I tell you

01:23:36I cannot be more excited

01:23:37To be with all of you tonight

01:23:39I'm usually at home watching too

01:23:40I've got reason to be angry

01:23:42I showed what a lying cheating hoe you are

01:23:44That ruined the whole trip

01:23:48We're in territory I'm not prepared for

01:23:52Liz

01:23:54Why is your left hand so heavy?

01:23:56Woo

01:23:56I am engaged

01:23:59To

01:24:02Jasmine come on out here

01:24:06He's not happy to see me

01:24:07Also welcome Gino's friend

01:24:10Lexi

01:24:11Gino's been very respectful to me

01:24:14That's not the real Gino

01:24:15You liar

01:24:17Oh there it goes

01:24:18Lexi run

01:24:22Sophie and Pedro

01:24:23Have you seen each other

01:24:24Since that vacation?

01:24:26Um

01:24:27I feel this

01:24:28This is the love

01:24:28All my life

01:24:29Oh

01:24:31Pedro is a little bit naive

01:24:33It's like you don't want him

01:24:35To be happy

01:24:35Excuse me Sophie

01:24:36I am talking

01:24:37Shut up

01:24:39Courtney and Phil

01:24:40You two broke up

01:24:41Because of Colt

01:24:42Yeah

01:24:44No way

01:24:45And in that time

01:24:46Courtney

01:24:47Did you have any communication

01:24:48With Colt?

01:24:50Guilty

01:24:51And the plot thickens

01:24:56Please welcome Vanya's boyfriend

01:24:58Tony

01:24:58And cousin Cinella

01:25:00I don't think she can count

01:25:02How many times

01:25:03She's on the floor

01:25:04Crying

01:25:05Sometimes my reactions

01:25:06Are exaggerated

01:25:08There shouldn't be

01:25:09Any engagement talk

01:25:10Whoa

01:25:11He's my person

01:25:13And I love you

01:25:15I don't like the way

01:25:16They call

01:25:17Treats the women around him

01:25:18Who the f*** are you?

01:25:19Stop

01:25:19You're a leech

01:25:20I won't respect the man

01:25:21That comes out here

01:25:22And taxes another

01:25:23Man

01:25:23Like a

01:25:26Wow

01:25:26I'm sitting right here

01:25:27Get up

01:25:28What the f*** do you want to do?

01:25:30Oh guys

01:25:30You want to really do this?

01:25:32No, no, no, no, no

01:25:33I love you

01:25:35You're a leech

01:25:36I love you

01:25:37I love you

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