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00:00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:00:02You have to do your pickleball dance.
00:00:06Phil is my new boyfriend.
00:00:10But Colt is living in Phillip's house.
00:00:12It's not the best situation.
00:00:15I think Colt has a thing for you still.
00:00:18I don't trust him.
00:00:19I don't want to jeopardize my new relationship with Phillip
00:00:21by prioritizing Colt.
00:00:23We need to get him out of our home.
00:00:26It's time to make him a little uncomfortable.
00:00:29I mean, ever since LA, I guess I've just been thinking about it.
00:00:33I don't want to put my heart and energy into something
00:00:35that could be pulled out from underneath me at any moment.
00:00:39So are you breaking this off?
00:00:41I mean, as far as boyfriend and girlfriend kind of thing,
00:00:44I don't think that's for us.
00:00:47Yeah.
00:00:48I guess I'm just going to be straightforward.
00:00:51There is somebody back at home that I have been seeing.
00:00:55Didn't expect that.
00:00:56Coming on this girl's trip, I never expected to fall for someone.
00:01:00It's just such a tricky situation I put myself in.
00:01:04Hi.
00:01:05How are you?
00:01:06It's so nice to meet you.
00:01:07I'm Vanya.
00:01:08What I know about Tony's parents is they are very religious.
00:01:12And I am not.
00:01:15Do you want to come to church and see how we are doing?
00:01:18I'm scared to death that this is going to be a huge problem.
00:01:22I would prefer to stay away.
00:01:27When I was 20, I got a woman pregnant.
00:01:30I did get married because I thought every child needs a father figure and another figure as well.
00:01:35Wayne might think, oh, she has two children that she placed for adoption.
00:01:38She's the most selfish person on earth.
00:01:42How was your day?
00:01:43Tell me.
00:01:44Are you kissing a guy?
00:01:47Yeah.
00:01:47Because I told you I want to have time being single.
00:01:50If that's one thing you want to do, bye.
00:01:54You're making me feel like I'm the most person in the world.
00:01:57And I'm not.
00:01:58I'm not.
00:01:59Like, I just, I'm not ready for a relationship.
00:02:01this.
00:02:02This is crazy.
00:02:16Right now, I'm not feeling great.
00:02:18Like, things with Pedro obviously was really bad.
00:02:23I texted him yesterday.
00:02:24I also texted him again today.
00:02:26He still hasn't replied to me.
00:02:27So, I'm upset that things have turned out this way.
00:02:30And I really hope he at least has a conversation with me before I go home.
00:02:34And when you raise the stakes, when you're in my space, like something from above, it's a better rush.
00:02:46Oh, the girls are here.
00:02:48Hello.
00:02:49Hello.
00:02:50We're here.
00:02:51Grab some champagne.
00:02:53Yeah, I need some champagne.
00:02:55Today's my last day in the DR.
00:02:57And the hotel's doing a phone party at the pool.
00:02:59And me and the girls have decided to go.
00:03:01It was like a fun end to our trip.
00:03:04Oh, that's it.
00:03:05That was it.
00:03:06That's it.
00:03:07I've also invited Pedro.
00:03:08And I really hope that he shows up.
00:03:11This is the last opportunity we have to talk before we both go home.
00:03:16Julia told me that you and Pedro aren't talking right now.
00:03:20Yeah, I went on that date with that guy.
00:03:23And he kind of blew up after it.
00:03:24And he's just not texting me.
00:03:25He still haven't heard from him.
00:03:27Wow.
00:03:28Yeah.
00:03:29Yeah.
00:03:31I wish he at least reached out and said, even tell me, look, Sophie.
00:03:34I just need some time to take it all in.
00:03:36Or even if he's...
00:03:37Or just leave me alone.
00:03:38Just, yeah.
00:03:38Yeah, but let me know.
00:03:39Don't leave me like hanging here.
00:03:40Like, does he hate me?
00:03:41Is he here?
00:03:42Is he not?
00:03:42Like, I don't know what's going on.
00:03:43It's like the uncertainty is just like stressful, you know?
00:03:46I really like Pedro, and I do really care about him.
00:03:48And I am upset.
00:03:49If this is how it ends, he just ignores me.
00:03:51And that was that.
00:03:52And we leave on such a horrible fight that we had.
00:03:54Like, that is upsetting to me.
00:03:55Just disappeared.
00:03:58We are planning to go into this party.
00:04:00I invite him.
00:04:03Like, he's supposed to be at this party.
00:04:04But I don't think he's coming.
00:04:06I know Via is coming.
00:04:07Via is coming?
00:04:08Yeah.
00:04:09What's been going on with you and Via?
00:04:10Um, I have enjoyed every single moment with him.
00:04:14But, like, it sucks that now I have feelings for two guys.
00:04:17But that's not what was supposed to happen at all on this trip.
00:04:20I have a friend who have open marriage.
00:04:24I know.
00:04:25I mean, let's see what is going to happen.
00:04:28I mean, Via come.
00:04:29Maybe Pedro come.
00:04:31You're going to have a conversation.
00:04:34Do you think he'll be okay, like, if he doesn't show up?
00:04:38I mean, if he doesn't come, I'm going to be really upset.
00:04:42Right, let's not think about it.
00:04:43Yes, not think about it now, but eventually this will be happening.
00:04:45So, now let's have fun.
00:04:47Yeah.
00:04:49Let's go.
00:05:22Hello ladies, what's up?
00:05:26I like the phone.
00:05:27Are you coming in?
00:05:28Are you coming in like that?
00:05:30Uh, no, um, you're going to have to help me here.
00:05:35He is here and Pedro isn't with him.
00:05:37I feel like he's just playing games with me.
00:05:40Like, he's done with me.
00:05:42Because that's not how you would act if you actually want to be with me.
00:05:52Pedro isn't here, so I kind of keep him like...
00:05:56Do you know something?
00:05:58Is he coming?
00:06:00Is he coming?
00:06:03Um...
00:06:07We talked earlier, and...
00:06:09Stop filming.
00:06:09Is he coming or no?
00:06:16He's not going to come today.
00:06:18He is not?
00:06:19No.
00:06:21Like real, like really?
00:06:24I try to convince him to come out, but he doesn't want to come.
00:06:28Like, he's not going to change his life.
00:06:29He's not going to change his mind either.
00:06:31I don't...
00:06:31You sure?
00:06:33Yeah, 100%.
00:06:34You kiss somebody else.
00:06:39I do understand he's upset, but I do feel like he's being a little bit much when
00:06:44we're not together.
00:06:47I can understand if, like, you don't want to talk to me again, but at least communicate
00:06:52that with me.
00:06:53Honestly, even if he just said off, that would let me know, okay, and let me start to
00:06:58move on from this.
00:07:00I think he's just being very spiteful and honestly very emotionally immature.
00:07:07You think you're pretty, clever, but lucky for me, I know better.
00:07:13I've seen your type before, I know what I'm in for.
00:07:20Seems like Colt gets more mail here than we do.
00:07:23More medical, though?
00:07:24Yes.
00:07:25Oh my god.
00:07:26I don't want to hurt your feelings, but you'll be making it easy, so
00:07:32I think you should go, I think you should go.
00:07:40You're going to back me up, right?
00:07:41Of course, babe.
00:07:42I always have your back.
00:07:43Okay.
00:07:46Colt overseeing his welcome has been hurting my relationship with Phil because he's caused
00:07:51a lot of jealousy and trust issues.
00:07:54So if I want my relationship to survive, I think Colt needs to get out of the picture.
00:07:59Oh my god, what is that?
00:08:02Oh, he's just like laying out there.
00:08:05Oh my god.
00:08:06Feeding Colt before we kick him out is kind of like being
00:08:08fed your last meal before you go to the electrocution chair.
00:08:13So, you don't.
00:08:16Ahoy.
00:08:17Hey.
00:08:18I have your mail here.
00:08:19Hey.
00:08:28Yo, what'd you bring?
00:08:31Charcuterie.
00:08:33I made it myself.
00:08:35Wow.
00:08:37You're the best.
00:08:38You want some olives?
00:08:39I'm good.
00:08:40Trying to wash my weight a little bit.
00:08:44How's your leg doing?
00:08:46It's doing better.
00:08:47It probably looks worse than it actually is at this point.
00:08:51I'm surprised I'm walking again.
00:08:52I really thought it would be a long time, if ever.
00:08:57Now that you can walk, what plans have you made?
00:09:01Well, it's time for that talk, huh?
00:09:05I think it's time for you to move on.
00:09:08Our relationship is still pretty new, but I feel for us to move forward, things have to change.
00:09:18I mean, you have some time to think.
00:09:20We're not kicking you out right now, but I mean, start figuring out what you're doing.
00:09:25Oh, sure.
00:09:25Yeah.
00:09:26A couple days.
00:09:30Yeah.
00:09:33I'm not surprised that they want me to move out.
00:09:36I feel like they didn't really want me to be here to begin with.
00:09:39And now that my leg is healed, it's time to go.
00:09:47I just want to give this relationship like a real chance.
00:09:52So once you've moved out, I think I need to cut off communication with you.
00:09:58Because I don't want to be disrespectful to him.
00:10:05Well, I can't blame you.
00:10:08I mean, I want you to have a fresh start, but that's things.
00:10:11You were my ride or die.
00:10:14I felt bad telling Colt I'm totally done with him, but it had to be done.
00:10:18He's like a leech.
00:10:19I feel he will take advantage of me as long as I'm willing.
00:10:27Well, I feel a little greasy.
00:10:28I think I got to wash off some of this suntan lotion.
00:10:30Okay.
00:10:32Thank you for understanding.
00:10:34Oh, yeah.
00:10:39I'm sad.
00:10:41My life has been entangled with Courtney for so long now.
00:10:43I feel like having her not in it is like losing my entire life.
00:10:48But Courtney has found love in whatever weird way that she did.
00:10:53And I hope that she's happy and has a great life.
00:10:58What will you do now?
00:11:00At this point, I feel like it's the next logical step.
00:11:02Going back to Brazil, seeing Diana and seeing if we can actually have a relationship.
00:11:07And if I could be honest and truthful and do all the things that I couldn't do with Courtney.
00:11:12Do you think you can do that?
00:11:14I want, I need to do better.
00:11:22Well, that was awkward.
00:11:24I think it went okay.
00:11:25He understands what we're saying.
00:11:27It's time to move on.
00:11:33So what made you want to come to meet my dad?
00:11:35Isn't that weird for you guys?
00:11:37Yeah.
00:11:37Really?
00:11:38I'm really excited to get to know Wayne's daughters tonight.
00:11:41But I'm a little nervous.
00:11:42I think you're going to have a relationship expecting people to have no baggage.
00:11:46Yeah.
00:11:47When sometimes that just isn't realistic.
00:11:49My heart just sunk.
00:11:51I don't really want to call my children baggage.
00:11:53But, oh God, he's going to judge me for what I've done.
00:12:14Do you want to come to church and see how we are doing?
00:12:18I would probably prefer to stay away.
00:12:33It's just not something that I would enjoy.
00:12:38I am meeting Tony's parents for the first time.
00:12:41And of course, I was prepared for them to bring up religion.
00:12:45But I never expected it five minutes after arriving.
00:12:50Inviting me to church is very sweet and kind of them.
00:12:52But my response is always going to be no.
00:12:55It's never going to change.
00:12:57I really hope that they can just see me for the person who I am.
00:13:02And the person that makes their son happy.
00:13:06My relationship with God, he's always there.
00:13:11Mm-hmm.
00:13:11He understands you.
00:13:12He's there listening.
00:13:14I feel so good going to the Mass and praying.
00:13:18The way we think is, we need association with something.
00:13:26Now, because in Bosnia, it's very normal to be religious.
00:13:30It's very normal to not be religious.
00:13:33What's common in Bosnia, you know?
00:13:36We have three religions in Bosnia.
00:13:38Muslim, Catholic, and Orthodox Christian.
00:13:41And my family essentially has all three.
00:13:44But my parents were not religious.
00:13:46Oh.
00:13:49So what language do you follow there?
00:13:52So we have, before the war in Yugoslavia, it was called Serbo-Croatian.
00:13:57So I learned English here, yeah.
00:13:59Oh, so you had a lot of problem when you moved over here in schooling and all?
00:14:03It was very hard because I had to work, help support the family, help my parents find jobs,
00:14:10to take my brother to daycare, help my sister with her homework, and then do my schoolwork as well.
00:14:15So it was, it was like an instant adult overnight, yeah.
00:14:19I think when you came here, you really worked hard, you know?
00:14:23Taking that off.
00:14:23Absolutely, still work hard.
00:14:24Your family.
00:14:25It hasn't stopped.
00:14:29Molly is a nice girl, hardworking.
00:14:32Professional, very sweet lady.
00:14:35She has gone through a lot, but I don't know if it's the right person for my son.
00:14:42The only thing we can do is to pray.
00:14:43And she can get closer to God.
00:14:47If it is God's will, let it happen.
00:14:49If not, I don't want it to happen.
00:14:51I'm just super happy to have met your son.
00:14:54And so I'm just, I'm happy that I finally got to meet you.
00:14:59You are so nice and you are so beautiful and hardworking.
00:15:03Yeah.
00:15:04I'll pray for you.
00:15:05Thank you so much.
00:15:07I think this is a good step in the right direction.
00:15:11My parents, they want someone that has faith and belief, but I know more importantly, they want to
00:15:15make sure that the person that I'm with will love me as equally as I love them to as well.
00:15:20So it's nice meeting you.
00:15:22It was such a pleasure meeting you.
00:15:23Nice to meet you.
00:15:24Thank you so much.
00:15:25So I have a feeling my mom is overlooking a lot of her previous thoughts about, oh,
00:15:30she doesn't have that faith, but now at least she does love my son and that's going to go a
00:15:35long way.
00:15:38Bye-bye.
00:15:38Bye-bye.
00:15:39Bye.
00:15:42That wasn't so bad.
00:15:43I told you, right?
00:15:46You really weren't kidding about your mom and religion.
00:15:49She really is all about it.
00:15:51They're always going to try.
00:15:53I think they were asking quite a few questions and they really wanted to get to know you.
00:15:57That's big.
00:15:58And that's what I saw from the conversation was that they were very happy to see us together.
00:16:04So you think they approved?
00:16:04Absolutely.
00:16:05And I think they really enjoyed talking to you.
00:16:07That's a very good sign.
00:16:09So I do want to present you with something as like a symbol of acceptance and into our family.
00:16:18And also more importantly, a bigger step for me into our lives.
00:16:23What?
00:16:24You wait right here.
00:16:27No looking.
00:16:29What?
00:16:30What's happening?
00:16:31Close your eyes.
00:16:32Oh my God.
00:16:32Okay.
00:16:34All right.
00:16:35All right.
00:16:35Oh my God.
00:16:40I want you to take this box and open it.
00:16:45What is this?
00:16:47And...
00:16:50There's a heart in here.
00:16:53It's a heart.
00:16:54It's a good symbol.
00:16:58It's a key.
00:17:00So this is a key to my house.
00:17:02I mean, I really think that the next step for us is to have you move in.
00:17:09Are you serious?
00:17:11Are you serious?
00:17:12Absolutely.
00:17:16What did you think was in the box?
00:17:18Not a key.
00:17:20Of course I thought it was a ring.
00:17:21It's what any normal woman would think.
00:17:25But wah, wah, wah, it's a key.
00:17:29I mean, it's fine.
00:17:31I'm not, like, ungrateful.
00:17:33But it's not a ring.
00:17:37You know, I feel like this is the next step.
00:17:40And this is my promise to you that I do want you in my life.
00:17:44Yes, of course I will.
00:17:46This is amazing.
00:17:51The key is great and all, but I'm not looking for a roommate.
00:17:56I want a husband.
00:17:58So I will move into his house for now.
00:18:02But pretty soon, he better be giving me another box while he's down on one knee.
00:18:08I love you, baby.
00:18:10This is amazing.
00:18:13I'm so glad.
00:18:18I always wanted a kitchen like this.
00:18:21I love you, baby.
00:18:27I love you.
00:18:28It's going to be incredible.
00:18:42Hi.
00:18:42Hi.
00:18:43Hi, you all right?
00:18:44Hiya.
00:18:45Hi.
00:18:45Hi.
00:18:45Hi, Talia, you all right?
00:18:46I'm good, thank you.
00:18:47Hi.
00:18:48Hi.
00:18:48Hi.
00:18:48This is Aisha.
00:18:49Hi, Aisha.
00:18:50Nice to meet you.
00:18:52This is Atalia.
00:18:52Hi.
00:18:53How are you?
00:18:54This is Kim.
00:18:55Nice to see you.
00:18:55I stepped on your shoes.
00:18:56And that's Kim's son, Jamal.
00:18:57Hi, Jamal.
00:18:58Nice to meet you.
00:19:07Well, nice to meet you, ladies.
00:19:08You're beautiful.
00:19:10So pretty.
00:19:12I'm really excited to get to know Wayne's daughters tonight at the pub.
00:19:15They're so cute, and they're so tiny, and they look just like Wayne.
00:19:19Shall we go and play Skittles?
00:19:21Let's go.
00:19:22Okay.
00:19:22But I'm a little nervous, because Wayne just told Jamal and I that he had his children
00:19:27at a young age, and he sacrificed so much to be in their lives.
00:19:30This is Skittles.
00:19:32And I'm like, oh God, he's going to judge me for what I've done, because I placed my
00:19:37children up for adoption.
00:19:39But I just need to calm the hell down and focus on Jamal and Wayne getting to know each other,
00:19:44and me getting to know his daughters.
00:19:47So what you need to do, there's a wooden ball.
00:19:49We get three wooden balls.
00:19:50You have to throw the ball, then you have to hit this first pin.
00:19:54You have to hit the first one.
00:19:55You have to hit the first pin to start scoring.
00:19:58Okay.
00:19:58I will show you.
00:19:59Yeah, you will.
00:20:00Because I've played this before.
00:20:02It sounds like a difficult game, but it's really, really easy.
00:20:06Okay.
00:20:07It's not about strength, and it's not about skill.
00:20:10It's about pure luck.
00:20:13Yay!
00:20:14Good job.
00:20:15So one, two, three, four, five, six, seven.
00:20:18So hopefully we all can connect and get to know each other.
00:20:21Kim, it's your go now.
00:20:23Are you ready?
00:20:23Yeah, I'm ready.
00:20:24You've got this.
00:20:25You've got this, Kim.
00:20:26And you know I'm good at pulling.
00:20:27Okay, go.
00:20:28This is a deal breaker, by the way.
00:20:30Oh, .
00:20:32Okay.
00:20:32Yeah, like.
00:20:33Okay.
00:20:35Oh, .
00:20:36All right.
00:20:37Kim, you've scored today, right?
00:20:39But well done.
00:20:39Thank you for saying it out loud.
00:20:40I appreciate it.
00:20:41All right, so boom, boom.
00:20:43All right.
00:20:44Tomorrow's going to get it.
00:20:45Watch.
00:20:45Come on.
00:20:48Oh!
00:20:49Hey!
00:20:50Wow, good job!
00:20:53Some competition there, Wayne.
00:20:55Yeah.
00:20:55That's eight.
00:21:00Oh, yay!
00:21:01Hey!
00:21:02Whoa, whoa!
00:21:06She's bowling.
00:21:06I love it.
00:21:08I'm going to fix that.
00:21:09I let her go again.
00:21:10That was crazy.
00:21:11Skittles is a really fun game, and it's a good way to let loose,
00:21:14break the ice a little bit.
00:21:16Throw it.
00:21:16Throw it underhand.
00:21:18You got it.
00:21:19Oh!
00:21:19Oh!
00:21:21Good job!
00:21:23Okay, okay.
00:21:23You know the best part?
00:21:24Watching Wayne be, like, competitive and, like, watching his arm muscles, like,
00:21:29throw the ball, I was like, hey, Wayne.
00:21:34Hey, I'm standing right over here.
00:21:37Hi, cutie.
00:21:41So what made you want to come to meet my dad?
00:21:44We just, I don't know, it was really weird, because you just popped up on my social media
00:21:48one day, and then I sent him a DM, and we started talking pretty quick, like, every day.
00:21:52Yeah.
00:21:52Wow.
00:21:52And then, yeah, he invited me to come here, so here I am.
00:21:55Okay.
00:21:56All the way from America to meet him.
00:21:57Isn't that weird for you guys?
00:21:58Yeah.
00:21:59Yeah.
00:21:59Really?
00:22:00Do you normally move quite fast?
00:22:03No.
00:22:04No.
00:22:04I have in the past.
00:22:06I have in the past.
00:22:07I think that's different.
00:22:08No, but I have in the past, but I've learned from my past relationships, so, yeah.
00:22:13Well, her last, like, international relationship, I think, moved really way too fast, for sure.
00:22:19Yeah, I did.
00:22:20But he also is not like your dad.
00:22:23He was, let's just say, different.
00:22:26And 20 years younger, too.
00:22:2820 years younger?
00:22:29Oh, wow.
00:22:30Yeah.
00:22:31So you both like them younger, then?
00:22:33Because I feel like my dad used to go for younger women.
00:22:35Oh, I didn't know that.
00:22:37I used to attract younger women.
00:22:39Okay.
00:22:40Okay, and you would just feel attraction back.
00:22:43It's okay.
00:22:44I attract older women, younger women.
00:22:46It's fine.
00:22:46You know how it is.
00:22:48Okay, but, like, I've seen, like, everything great.
00:22:51You know what I mean?
00:22:52I've seen everything great.
00:22:53He's really honest with me when I've asked him questions about, like, red flags and stuff.
00:22:57What do you guys see as, like, a red flag?
00:23:00Oh, you don't want to know.
00:23:02I'm just joking.
00:23:03I'm just joking.
00:23:04I think sometimes you will really like somebody and then kind of change yourself to be how they
00:23:11want to be.
00:23:12Oh, no.
00:23:12Like, when you dated a vegetarian.
00:23:15That's what we found.
00:23:16That, you know, after a certain amount of time, he's not acting like himself.
00:23:20And then he becomes unhappy in the relationship.
00:23:23I get it.
00:23:24Yeah, yeah.
00:23:25You think they are?
00:23:25Well, I can guarantee you I want him to be his own person.
00:23:28Like, I don't want him to morph into me or me to morph into him.
00:23:31Anything else?
00:23:31I think you go into every relationship expecting people to have no baggage.
00:23:36Yeah.
00:23:36When sometimes that just isn't realistic.
00:23:38In fact, it's not realistic at all.
00:23:42My heart just sunk.
00:23:45Because I don't really want to call my children baggage, but I do have baggage.
00:23:50So we're just taking it, taking it slow, but I felt like it was, we both thought it was time
00:23:55for us to just meet in person just to see, like, why keep going on, you know?
00:23:58Yeah.
00:23:59So that was really nice of us all getting together.
00:24:01It was.
00:24:02But you guys have got to get home.
00:24:03Yeah.
00:24:04And thank you for coming, driving up here to meet me.
00:24:06I feel so special.
00:24:07So thank you.
00:24:08Thank you for flying.
00:24:08So nice to meet you.
00:24:09You're lovely.
00:24:10Thank you so much.
00:24:13What kind of person in their 50s doesn't have baggage?
00:24:15We all have past relationships.
00:24:17We all have past trauma.
00:24:19All right.
00:24:19Nice to meet you.
00:24:20Kim, I'll see you tomorrow.
00:24:21All right.
00:24:21I'll see you tomorrow.
00:24:23All right.
00:24:23Get them home safe.
00:24:24Nobody comes into a relationship perfect.
00:24:26Nobody does.
00:24:29Are you ready to go?
00:24:30Yeah, I'm ready to go.
00:24:31Okay.
00:24:32Now I'm starting to see why Wayne is single.
00:24:37Okay.
00:24:38Mama drank two ciders.
00:24:39Let's go.
00:24:39All right.
00:24:40Let's get out of here.
00:24:55I'm about to do something really big tonight.
00:24:58I need to have closure for myself and move forward in my life.
00:25:04And this is how I can do that.
00:25:18I really want to get this weight off my shoulders and, you know, take action tonight.
00:25:26Ultimately, I know things didn't work out between Natalie and I,
00:25:31but I'm not going to give up on love because I know there's someone out there for me.
00:25:37I just got to go find her.
00:25:38But tonight I have something that's very important that I really need to focus my attention on.
00:25:46Hello.
00:25:47Hi.
00:25:57Jeez.
00:25:58Is there anything I can help you with today?
00:26:00I'm not sure I'm in the right place here.
00:26:04When you came in, I immediately got a vibe of, like, a renewal, a fresh start.
00:26:09We do have green adventuring, which is for good luck.
00:26:13Oh, wow.
00:26:13If you wanted to, like, take a look at these, maybe hold them in your hands,
00:26:17see if you can feel, like, the weight, the energy, if one, like, feels better than the other.
00:26:22Wow.
00:26:24Um, actually, the reason I'm here is to see my lawyer.
00:26:30Oh, absolutely.
00:26:31Let me go get him.
00:26:34Did I wake up in Oz?
00:26:36I mean, I'm seeing quartz rocks, candles, weird jewelry.
00:26:43Where am I?
00:26:44This does not feel like a lawyer's office.
00:26:47Gino, right?
00:26:48Hey, Thomas.
00:26:50Pleasure to meet you in person.
00:26:51Finally, nice to meet you in person.
00:26:53For the last few weeks, I've been searching for a lawyer because I'm finally ready to file
00:26:59for a divorce from Jasmine.
00:27:01I walked in here and I was like, am I in the right place?
00:27:05It can be a little confusing.
00:27:07The idea behind it is law is very stressful.
00:27:08So I want to try to get you as relaxed as possible.
00:27:12My friend referred me to Thomas.
00:27:15He has very good credentials, graduated from Harvard,
00:27:19and the fact that he owns this crystal shop is freaking awesome.
00:27:25Why don't you step into my office?
00:27:27Oh, no kidding.
00:27:28Secret door.
00:27:29Secret door.
00:27:30Wow, how cool is this?
00:27:32I'm Tom.
00:27:33I've been an attorney for roughly 13 years,
00:27:36but in my day-to-day life, I'm a spiritual explorer.
00:27:40I've studied basically everything from hypnosis.
00:27:43I'm certified in Reiki.
00:27:45That helps me in my law practice because if you're able to handle high levels of stress,
00:27:49it gives you a huge advantage.
00:27:51So Monday, I might be doing meditation, Tuesday, yoga.
00:27:55But by Thursday, I'll definitely be back in the courtroom.
00:27:58So Gino, I know we have a lot to go through.
00:28:01Where would you like to start?
00:28:03Well, actually, I did speak to a lawyer once before I hired you.
00:28:08And he told me that because Jasmine had a baby with another guy during our marriage,
00:28:17I'm presumed to be the father of the child legally.
00:28:21Yeah, unfortunately, that is true.
00:28:23And so now you're going to be responsible for child support unless we take care of it.
00:28:27But from what I hear, and my understanding is I can take a DNA test and prove that I'm not
00:28:33the father
00:28:33and clear my name.
00:28:35But she had the child in Florida.
00:28:38So, you know, I don't know what kind of wrench that throws into the whole thing.
00:28:41Here, I feel like if you had your paternity test, we could easily get that taken care of for you.
00:28:47But as for what Florida law says, I'm not going to lie to you, we'll have to research it.
00:28:51We may have to consult with a Florida lawyer.
00:28:52So it's going to get very, very complex.
00:28:55The longer you wait, unfortunately, she could take out debt that could become half yours.
00:29:00I mean, the situation just gets worse, you know, as time passes.
00:29:04Oh, my gosh.
00:29:06I didn't know how serious some of this stuff is.
00:29:08Yeah.
00:29:08Yeah, I mean, I've waited too long already.
00:29:12I need to file, like, now.
00:29:15This possibly could be one of the most complicated divorces I've ever tried to tackle.
00:29:20There's a child out of wedlock.
00:29:21There's two different states.
00:29:23There's immigration issues.
00:29:25And there's premarital significant assets to separate out between both parties.
00:29:30And so I'm trying to put some Band-Aids on things, but I'm not going to lie.
00:29:34It's probably going to be a pretty painful divorce.
00:29:37Do you think I would have to end up seeing this narcissist in court?
00:29:45If everybody agrees, you can get out with one hearing.
00:29:49However, there could be multiple hearings, and it could proceed all the way to trial.
00:29:54Divorces can usually get as nasty as somebody wants to make them.
00:29:57I think she's going to try to hurt me as much as she can, you know, destroy me.
00:30:03But, you know, I'm ready for it. I'll give her a fight.
00:30:08What I think a good game plan for us legally is, is we rush and file this complaint.
00:30:12We try to serve her as quick as we can, and then take it from there here in Michigan.
00:30:17Does that sound like a good plan?
00:30:19Yeah, I'm definitely all in, because I don't want to wait any longer.
00:30:24Marrying Jasmine was the biggest mistake of my freaking life.
00:30:30But I am going to get out of this mess, because today I am filing for a divorce, finally.
00:30:37I think you're going to feel a lot better once we get you through this process.
00:30:40Yeah, yeah, I will, for sure.
00:30:53I understand he's upset for sure. I'm not saying he's not valid for feeling that way.
00:30:56He is. It's just annoying, because I like him.
00:30:59But you don't know, maybe he's right here back. You don't know, your phone right there.
00:31:03So maybe we need to check it. I've already checked my phone so many times.
00:31:06Can we check it now? Last time, because now I feel super.
00:31:09Let's go, last time checking.
00:31:22Let's see if you text me. I'm scared.
00:31:26You're going to look first?
00:31:28You want me to look first? Look.
00:31:34He hasn't texted me.
00:31:36Look, there's no text. Oh, he's online.
00:31:38He texts me now? No.
00:31:40One second. Can I look? No, no, no, no.
00:31:42I just want to look.
00:31:46Do you like him?
00:31:51That's Sophie.
00:31:53I need to answer. She can do whatever she wants right now.
00:31:57He hung up. No answer. He hung up. He hung up.
00:32:00You're upset?
00:32:01You know, it's just like, yeah, I am upset.
00:32:03I'm upset because I just called him. He's not answering me.
00:32:05Like, I still wanted to build on my connection with him.
00:32:08You know, he wants a relationship. I do.
00:32:11That's, eventually, I do want a relationship, you know?
00:32:15Because it could get to a point where I'd want to be with him,
00:32:16and I'd be ready.
00:32:22What are you doing?
00:32:23My parking.
00:32:25My parking on my .
00:32:28I supposed to leave the DR tomorrow, but I changed my flight.
00:32:33I'm going to leave it right now.
00:32:35Last night, she sent me a text like, are you fine?
00:32:39I didn't answer.
00:32:42And this morning, she's sending another text.
00:32:45Say, are you hating me?
00:32:47Yeah.
00:32:49Sophie been texting to me night stuff since yesterday.
00:32:54Like, are you coming to the pool party?
00:32:57Are you okay?
00:32:59Are you hating me?
00:33:01You don't care.
00:33:02Just suddenly leave me alone.
00:33:06She's using me like a paper towel.
00:33:07She wash her ass and throw me away.
00:33:10She break my hand completely.
00:33:13She's chattered my hand in pieces.
00:33:16I know I'm going to be okay, but I will be okay.
00:33:19If I suffer from my divorce, you know, this is like a little rock in my way.
00:33:24It's nothing else.
00:33:26Tell them to see you later.
00:33:29She can enjoy the other guys.
00:33:33Because, you know, I got some dignity.
00:33:36I got a lot of dignity.
00:33:47Sophie made me feel like a freaking idiot.
00:33:50And my mom and my sister, they were right.
00:33:53She's nothing good.
00:33:55I was freaking blind and I was my time with somebody that doesn't deserve
00:34:09I'm not giving up about love.
00:34:11I'm giving up to somebody that doesn't appreciate me.
00:34:14And clearly, Sophie didn't appreciate me.
00:34:19She will regret because she doesn't want to find somebody like me never again.
00:34:24Good luck.
00:34:26Because nobody's going to take care of you like anything with you.
00:34:29No body.
00:34:31Let's go to the airport this weekend.
00:34:33Until you go to the flight.
00:34:44You're welcome.
00:34:48I'm excited to see your house.
00:34:51I'm very nervous about cooking.
00:34:52Why?
00:34:53Well, it's the first time I've cooked somebody.
00:34:55Really?
00:34:56That's not my kids or family.
00:34:58It's all right.
00:34:58Don't be nervous.
00:34:59It's going to be great.
00:35:00And if you mess it up, we'll just order some food.
00:35:15It was really a pleasure to meet your daughters last night.
00:35:18Yeah, they sent me a message and said that it was nice meeting you as well.
00:35:21Oh, did they really?
00:35:22Yeah.
00:35:22Oh, that's nice.
00:35:23I really think things went well with Wayne's daughters.
00:35:26But they told me a couple things that gave me a little pause.
00:35:29Like, he can't handle a woman with baggage.
00:35:31And I'm like, oh, honey, I have all the bags.
00:35:35All of them.
00:35:36No women are going to run out of your bedroom or anything?
00:35:38No.
00:35:38Okay.
00:35:40Just be careful you don't slip over.
00:35:42Oh, it's icy.
00:35:43Yeah.
00:35:44Now I'm starting to get doubtful.
00:35:45Like, is he going to accept me for everything that I am?
00:35:48Oh, this is so cute.
00:35:50It's a bachelor pad.
00:35:53Oh, look at your little squirrel door knocker.
00:35:57That's so cute.
00:35:59This is my humble abode.
00:36:01Oh, I love it.
00:36:01I love your kitchen.
00:36:03I love the color.
00:36:04It's so cute.
00:36:04Is that me and Jamal?
00:36:06Yeah.
00:36:06What if, can I see it?
00:36:07Can I see it?
00:36:07A little surprise for you.
00:36:08What is this?
00:36:09Aw.
00:36:11It's that picture you sent me and I got somebody to draw it.
00:36:13Aw, thank you.
00:36:14That's so cute.
00:36:16I love it.
00:36:18The first thing I saw was this sketch of me and Jamal.
00:36:21And I'm like, what the is he stalking me?
00:36:23Like, is this like a Silence of the Lambs vibe I got going on here?
00:36:27Who drew this?
00:36:28Uh, one of my friend's daughters.
00:36:30Wow.
00:36:33I don't want to be a bitch.
00:36:35You're keeping this here though, right?
00:36:37No, that's a gift for you.
00:36:38Oh, is it for me?
00:36:39Yeah.
00:36:39Oh, I love it.
00:36:40It's very thoughtful.
00:36:41I've never had that done for me.
00:36:43But it's like, do I look that old?
00:36:46Do I have that many wrinkles?
00:36:49So what are we, what are you cooking?
00:36:51It's Jamaican chicken and rice.
00:36:54It's my mom's recipe.
00:36:55Oh, okay.
00:36:56And I promise it won't be too spicy.
00:36:58Okay.
00:36:59I don't do it the professional way.
00:37:01You don't have to do it the professional way.
00:37:03I've never, ever, ever had a man just cook just for me.
00:37:07And I feel like so special and I feel like appreciated.
00:37:13You sure you don't want to spice it up?
00:37:15You can spice it up.
00:37:15No, I'm not putting it too spicy for you.
00:37:18But I'm getting really, really nervous.
00:37:20We have to have a conversation about if we're going to be in a relationship.
00:37:24And I have to tell him about the children I placed for adoption.
00:37:28And I feel like everything's just starting to bubble up.
00:37:31So I'm going to let that simmer.
00:37:32Do you want to have a little sit down and chill?
00:37:34Sure, sure.
00:37:34I can have a break from cooking then.
00:37:36Oh my gosh, it was so nice to watch you do that.
00:37:38I just feel like everything is just going to start word vomiting out of my mouth.
00:37:43Oh, there you go.
00:37:45This is nice.
00:37:46Yeah.
00:37:47So how do you think this week went?
00:37:51So far, so good.
00:37:52So far, so good.
00:37:53I leave tomorrow.
00:37:55No, I mean, like, I don't know.
00:37:57Like, I had such a good time.
00:37:58Like with you, I just feel like it's such a good fit.
00:38:01Yeah.
00:38:02You know, I really do.
00:38:03Like, I love being in your company.
00:38:05It's gone very quick, which is a good thing.
00:38:08So sometimes I think if you're talking to someone and it's dragging,
00:38:11that means you're not enjoying it.
00:38:13Yeah, we haven't had that.
00:38:13And it's just like, it's just gone just like that.
00:38:16Like, how do you feel about the long distance thing?
00:38:18Like, are you willing to give this a try and try it out?
00:38:22Yeah.
00:38:23What we're doing so far, I think, is working.
00:38:26So it'd be nice if we do see each other again.
00:38:30Yeah?
00:38:31Yeah.
00:38:32Okay.
00:38:32So are you like my man now?
00:38:34My boyfriend?
00:38:35Yeah.
00:38:40I like not to put no pressure on stuff, though.
00:38:44That's important to me.
00:38:45And sometimes relationships scare me.
00:38:50I've been on my own for a while, and I've enjoyed it on my own.
00:38:54So I don't want the pressure of, we're doing this, we're doing that.
00:38:58Oh, no, no.
00:39:00He is not saying that we are boyfriend and girlfriend,
00:39:02but we're not seeing anybody else.
00:39:04So technically, in my head, we're in a relationship.
00:39:07But the last thing I want to do is put pressure on Wayne,
00:39:10because I know that is a surefire way to kill a relationship.
00:39:14I think we try it out, see what happens.
00:39:17And if it doesn't work, if it doesn't work, we'll be great friends.
00:39:19You know what I mean?
00:39:20But I like you.
00:39:21I'm interested in you.
00:39:22I feel the connection with you.
00:39:23And like, so there is one thing before we continue that I want to tell you about.
00:39:33And it's not easy.
00:39:35I'm sorry.
00:39:36It's very, very, um, sorry.
00:39:41I didn't know it was going to be this hard.
00:39:44Sorry.
00:39:44Give me a second.
00:39:46I have other children I put up for adoption.
00:39:49Oh, wow.
00:39:50Please don't judge me.
00:39:52Okay.
00:40:07Today is a big day.
00:40:11I feel like my life is about to take a really good turn in the right direction.
00:40:20I feel like my life is about to take a really good turn in the right direction.
00:40:21I feel like my life is about to take a really good turn in the right direction.
00:40:26But baby, you're trapped in me.
00:40:29Today I brought my natural charm and also a little science with me too.
00:40:36So this is pheromone spray and this is supposed to attract the ladies.
00:40:45Since breaking up with Natalie, it's taken me some time, but I finally have started talking to women
00:40:52online and I actually met someone that I'm really interested in.
00:40:57I have to give it the test.
00:40:59I feel like Lexi and I, we just have a natural chemistry together and we talk every day.
00:41:06At first, we decided to meet up as friends and we had such a good time together.
00:41:13I had to ask her out on a date.
00:41:17Heck yeah.
00:41:21Hopefully she will say something like,
00:41:24Gino, you make me crazy.
00:41:26I think she's going to like this.
00:41:33I'm very excited.
00:41:35I still have some nerves about like what's going to happen.
00:41:39You know, is this going to turn out good or is it not going to be good?
00:41:44So I see you like a shooting star, afraid that if I think that I could miss it all.
00:41:52Holy cow.
00:41:53Good to see you.
00:41:54Nice to see you.
00:41:56Oh my God.
00:41:57How are we going?
00:41:58I'm good.
00:41:59How are you?
00:42:00You look beautiful.
00:42:02Gosh.
00:42:04I think they actually have a wine tasting room in here.
00:42:08Yes.
00:42:09This should be fun.
00:42:10I've never been in the winery.
00:42:11The last time I was just looking at the animals.
00:42:14When Gino first wrote me on the app, I figured why not?
00:42:19It was fun getting to know each other.
00:42:22We had really good conversations.
00:42:25Ooh, those look good.
00:42:27I really like his sense of humor.
00:42:30I kind of have a quirky sense of humor too.
00:42:33So we decided to meet up.
00:42:37Hi, have you decided what you'd like?
00:42:38Oh yeah.
00:42:39I think so.
00:42:41All right.
00:42:41Can we start with your ID please?
00:42:43Yeah.
00:42:43All right.
00:42:46Aren't you going to ask me for my ID?
00:42:49Well, I could check it if you insist.
00:42:52No, that's only if you need to check my ID.
00:42:55If you look like me, sweetheart, we're good.
00:42:58I am 56 years old and Lexi is 30 and that's a lot, okay? It is a lot. But I
00:43:07mean, when I'm with Lexi, I do not feel like we have a 26 year age difference. And honestly, I
00:43:14feel like age doesn't even matter. Is the age difference thing like, is that a problem for you yourself?
00:43:21For me, I don't really have any problems with it. But I would be a little concerned about what my
00:43:27family might think.
00:43:40What happens if your dad, what if your dad kicks your ass?
00:43:45No, like what if your dad, he might do that. He might do that. I think if your dad likes
00:43:50me as a person, you know, maybe age won't matter to him.
00:43:55Yeah.
00:44:00She's saying, give me a drink. Let's have a toast.
00:44:04Yes.
00:44:05To new beginnings.
00:44:07New beginnings.
00:44:08Yeah.
00:44:08Yeah. New beginnings. That's a good one.
00:44:13I know you mentioned before, but have you been to a lot of orchards around this area?
00:44:18Yeah. Mila really likes coming to them. She loves feeding the animals.
00:44:23I'm a single mom. I have a four year old daughter. So if I'm going to be in a relationship
00:44:28with somebody, it's absolutely mandatory that they would have a good relationship with my daughter.
00:44:33I feel like he would be really good with kids.
00:44:37So speaking of animals, if you were an animal, what kind of animal would you be?
00:44:42Um, I've always wanted to be like a cheetah, like running across the landscape, 70 miles an hour.
00:44:51Do you know being a cheetah? Um, it doesn't really make sense. He's more like a platypus.
00:45:04Do you want to go see the animals?
00:45:06Of course.
00:45:07Let's go.
00:45:08Let's go.
00:45:14Animal. Is this my bag of food?
00:45:16Oh, look at it. He's ready.
00:45:20That's good.
00:45:22Aww.
00:45:24My daughter would love feeding these guys.
00:45:27I would like to meet her.
00:45:29Mm-hmm. Yeah.
00:45:31That would be fun.
00:45:35You know, obviously this is only our very first date.
00:45:38But to me, like the benefits of dating a younger woman, like Alexi, I could have a baby with this
00:45:46person naturally.
00:45:48Oh my God, I feel like a little kid again.
00:45:51And have the child that I've always wanted to have.
00:45:55Is this your first date in a corn maze?
00:45:57Yeah, it's the corniest date I've ever been on, I mean.
00:46:01Look at it all.
00:46:03We made it.
00:46:05My divorce is in process now, and I feel free.
00:46:13Well, I had a lot of fun on our date today.
00:46:17I had a lot of fun too.
00:46:18Yeah?
00:46:19Yeah, I would love to go on more dates with you.
00:46:27Well, goodbye.
00:46:29Goodbye.
00:46:32Wow, that was fast.
00:46:35Do I get one more quick one?
00:46:38Oh my God.
00:46:40Maybe next time.
00:46:41Maybe next time?
00:46:42Yeah.
00:46:47I have a good feeling about Alexi, but if it doesn't work out, I'm okay.
00:46:54Because I know there's a woman out there for me.
00:46:58Good night.
00:46:58Bye.
00:47:01Honestly, I'm hopeful for the future for the first time in a very long time.
00:47:10I got a kiss.
00:47:12Woo!
00:47:15An amazing time here with you.
00:47:18And I don't regret any of it.
00:47:20What if I just push this amazing guy away?
00:47:24And like, I lost my chance to have my forever.
00:47:28How are you feeling now?
00:47:29I mean, I guess I'll just come out and say it.
00:47:50It's a little bit bittersweet to be packing right now.
00:47:54I've had some great highlights on this trip, but also it's just so nice to be able to go home.
00:48:06I see you that kiss me up.
00:48:09You that drives me crazy.
00:48:11You that I want you in my heart.
00:48:15You, still you.
00:48:26Hey, cutie.
00:48:27Hey.
00:48:29How are you?
00:48:31I'm good.
00:48:32Good?
00:48:33Yeah.
00:48:35When it came down to this trip, I wanted to be open to anything and everything that came my way.
00:48:40But never in a million years did I think that I'd be someone who'd be in some type of love
00:48:46triangle.
00:48:49How are you?
00:48:52I'm good.
00:48:53I mean, I haven't finished packing yet.
00:48:55Well, I haven't even started.
00:48:56Jeez.
00:48:56Yeah.
00:48:57I'm mad at myself.
00:48:59I can be hurting two people right now.
00:49:02It's just such a tricky situation to put myself in.
00:49:10So, how are you feeling now?
00:49:14I have like, like an anxious feeling in my stomach.
00:49:19Um.
00:49:22I don't know if it's just hot outside or I'm just, like, just anxious.
00:49:28Uh.
00:49:30Uh.
00:49:30Well.
00:49:31I mean, I guess I'll just come out and say it.
00:49:35Uh.
00:49:38I think you really just came into my life unexpectedly and we've had nothing but good times.
00:49:45But I feel like I need to be true to myself.
00:49:49And trying to pursue anything long term is not, it's not in the cards for me.
00:49:57Okay.
00:49:59Well, what, I mean, what made you, I guess, decide that now?
00:50:08I think a lot of it does still have to do with, like, my sickness and everything that just scares
00:50:13me to, like, have to try to do that with someone who is long distance.
00:50:18I don't want you to think that I led you on.
00:50:22And I'm really sorry if I hurt you in any way.
00:50:30It sucks.
00:50:37I mean, I understood from the beginning.
00:50:40And I kind of felt it couldn't end this way.
00:50:45Like, you and I just met.
00:50:48You have a lot more back home.
00:50:50You know, what am I right now?
00:50:52I'm just a friend.
00:51:07As much as I do have feelings for VIA, it's just way too complicated for me right now.
00:51:12I have a child.
00:51:14He has a child.
00:51:15We live on opposite sides of the country.
00:51:18And there are days when my sickness takes a toll on me.
00:51:21And I want someone who can be there by my side.
00:51:29I've fought really hard to make relationships in the past work.
00:51:32And, like, I don't have any more fight left in me, especially while being sick.
00:51:42Honestly, no hard feelings.
00:51:44Don't feel bad.
00:51:45You know, I don't want you to feel like any type of pity or anything.
00:51:50I had an amazing time here with you.
00:51:53And, like I said, I don't regret any of it.
00:52:00It's okay.
00:52:10Don't be sorry.
00:52:12Don't be sorry.
00:52:16There's nothing to be sorry about.
00:52:17You're such a good person.
00:52:22You just became a huge part of my life.
00:52:24And I don't think you understand how much you did help change me through all this, so.
00:52:30I'm glad you're saying that, because I'll at least know that.
00:52:35And I appreciate you for that as well.
00:52:46I'm shocked.
00:52:47I felt we had something.
00:52:50Liz was a genuine person with me.
00:52:52And I fell in love with Liz.
00:52:57I think we could probably be something and work something out.
00:53:01Be together, whatever.
00:53:05Yeah, it f***ing sucks.
00:53:07It does suck.
00:53:10You know, me and the girls are heading home, so.
00:53:14I'm gonna miss you.
00:53:14I know I'm gonna miss you, for sure.
00:53:17Weird.
00:53:19So I'm leaving.
00:53:22We both know it's the end of the road.
00:53:26I love it.
00:53:27Great.
00:53:29Yeah, we do.
00:53:29I hope you take your stuff home.
00:53:31Yes, please.
00:53:32I'm gonna carry your purse.
00:53:34Are you gonna carry my purse?
00:53:37I'll carry your purse.
00:53:38I think my biggest fear is, like, going home and realizing that, like, our love wasn't just a love on
00:53:44vacation.
00:53:45That it could have been something more.
00:53:48Why is it that this one seems heavier than this one?
00:53:51I don't ask questions.
00:53:52I am a female.
00:53:55Like, what if I just push this amazing guy away?
00:53:59And, like, I lost my chance to, like, have my forever.
00:54:06I'm just hoping that when I get home, I don't realize that I made one of the biggest mistakes of
00:54:11my life.
00:54:20I'd absolutely hate myself if I made the wrong decision.
00:54:25All right. Let's get you home.
00:54:51Sorry. Give me a second.
00:54:53I have other children. I put up for adoption.
00:54:56Oh, wow.
00:54:57Please don't judge me, okay?
00:55:00They're Jamal's full brother and full sister.
00:55:05I have a son, Larry. He found me through, like, one of those DNA websites.
00:55:10And I had a daughter after that.
00:55:13Uh-huh.
00:55:15It's not like I was really irresponsible.
00:55:17I was with the same man for years.
00:55:20And he was just not there.
00:55:22You know, if I would have had somebody like you, it would have been a totally different story.
00:55:25But I didn't have that. I was by myself all the time.
00:55:28You know? But it's, like, my past and it's my baggage.
00:55:30But when you said that yesterday...
00:55:32I have to say something.
00:55:33Don't use the word baggage.
00:55:36Just use the word, it's history. It's your life. It's what happened.
00:55:40Not baggage.
00:55:42Baggage is a horrible word to use.
00:55:44It's just history.
00:55:45Well, it was brought up yesterday.
00:55:47Yeah.
00:55:47And it was like, I just feel like this is who I am.
00:55:50And either you accept me for all of this or you don't.
00:55:53You know? It's just that simple.
00:55:55Yeah.
00:55:55I know it's a big deal to you.
00:55:57Because you've gone through it all and you've lived it.
00:56:01To me, it's not that much of a big deal.
00:56:04I can do it on my own.
00:56:06I honestly can do it on my own.
00:56:08I'm happy you told me.
00:56:10Well, I've got a past.
00:56:11Some people's past are different than other people's.
00:56:13But...
00:56:14But it's hard to talk about for me.
00:56:16Yeah.
00:56:16And now I feel like I can trust you and I can talk to you about it.
00:56:19You know?
00:56:19Yeah.
00:56:20I don't feel no different about Kim after what she's told me tonight.
00:56:24I'm not that sort of person.
00:56:26I don't judge people.
00:56:27I don't like people to judge me.
00:56:29She's had a past.
00:56:31We've all got a past.
00:56:33And all I'm concentrating on now is the future.
00:56:37You're okay? You sure?
00:56:38Yeah. Yeah, I'm fine.
00:56:39But I felt like if we're going to take this further, then I needed to...
00:56:42Yeah.
00:56:42I needed to tell you.
00:56:43That's fine.
00:56:43I wasn't going to keep it.
00:56:44You're fine.
00:56:46We're good.
00:56:46We're good.
00:56:47Cheers.
00:56:48Cheers.
00:56:49Can I just down this now?
00:56:52I feel better, actually.
00:56:55Right now, I see this person in front of me, and I see someone that's really, really strong.
00:57:01Someone that's been through a lot in life, and they've come out of it, and they're still breathing.
00:57:08That looks so good.
00:57:10You like juice on it?
00:57:12Yeah.
00:57:14I never thought that I would find somebody that would be so accepting of my past.
00:57:21And now I know that Wayne likes me, and that he accepts me for who I am.
00:57:24All right, let me try.
00:57:29Mmm.
00:57:29Mmm.
00:57:30Oh.
00:57:31It's really good.
00:57:32I'm impressed.
00:57:33I'm going to take you home with me and my suitcase now.
00:57:35Okay?
00:57:37He's just a wonderful, wonderful guy.
00:57:40And this is what I deserve.
00:57:41I've waited a long time for this.
00:57:43Oh, I hate the fact I have such an early flight tomorrow.
00:57:46I know.
00:57:47You know, you're welcome to stay here tonight.
00:57:49Uh-huh.
00:57:51I would, but I'm really tired, and I do have an early flight.
00:57:54I think I'm emotionally tired, too.
00:57:56Yeah, I get that.
00:57:57Yeah.
00:57:58Is it okay?
00:57:58Do you mind taking me home?
00:57:59Yeah.
00:57:59Are you sure?
00:58:00Are you sure?
00:58:02Okay.
00:58:03Next trip.
00:58:06I wasn't really sure if Wayne and I were going to be intimate on this trip.
00:58:09I mean, I'm very attracted to him.
00:58:11But this just isn't the trip for that.
00:58:14We've talked about so much heavy stuff and established our relationship.
00:58:18But next time I come, look out, Mr. Wayne.
00:58:23You're such a gentleman.
00:58:24You put my jacket on for me.
00:58:27Is this what you do when you're dating someone?
00:58:29Are you just...
00:58:30Seeing someone.
00:58:31Seeing someone.
00:58:32My God, is that the thing?
00:58:34We're seeing each other.
00:58:35Yeah, it's good.
00:58:35Okay, so I won't change my relationship status.
00:58:38Well, yeah, I will.
00:58:40I'm seeing someone.
00:58:42Hashtag, leave me alone.
00:58:43That sounds good.
00:58:45Like, all the qualities you have, I'm like, this is exactly what I've been looking for
00:58:49for so long.
00:58:51Tonight, me and Phillip are celebrating our three-month anniversary.
00:58:54The last three months have been very nice together.
00:58:56Now that Colt is out of our relationship, I think we should go to the next level of our relationship.
00:59:01No.
00:59:08No.
00:59:09Are all the stars aligning?
00:59:11Or is it all bad timing?
00:59:13Wish we were on the same page.
00:59:18A heart of gold inside me.
00:59:21Is there a silver lining?
00:59:24Or does it always send us...
00:59:26Hello.
00:59:27You all right, Jim?
00:59:28Yeah.
00:59:32You all right?
00:59:34Yes, I'm kidding.
00:59:35I just want you to go all over it.
00:59:36Me too.
00:59:39Let's go.
00:59:39We know we've reached the end.
00:59:42Before we begin.
00:59:45You're in the world of your head.
00:59:48He still doesn't respond?
00:59:50No.
00:59:51He's had time now.
00:59:52He's had space now.
00:59:53How it's, like, coming from, I want to be with you, I want everything for you, like, to
00:59:58I ghosting you, I ignoring you.
01:00:00Like, say something.
01:00:01If this hurt him that much, really he should be like, look, Sophie, this has really hurt
01:00:06me.
01:00:06Moving forward, I want us to be exclusive, don't kiss anyone else.
01:00:10Yeah.
01:00:11Or he could be like, Sophie, that really hurt me, this isn't worth it to me, walk away.
01:00:15At least say something, but he ain't just saying nothing.
01:00:18Yeah.
01:00:20You know, I would just continue being single, like, I want to do anyway, so...
01:00:25I was honest with Pedro from the start about what I was ready for and my intentions.
01:00:29He's the one that chose to just not listen to me and make assumptions about our relationship.
01:00:34Let's go.
01:00:36But looking back, me even just coming to the DR, I could see why maybe that would give
01:00:41him the wrong impression.
01:00:42And, you know, if that's the case, I am sorry.
01:00:44Like, I never wanted to lead him on.
01:00:47If I could do things over, I probably wouldn't have come.
01:00:56Ooh.
01:00:58Look at you, lovebirds.
01:01:01Lovebirds.
01:01:02Lovebirds.
01:01:02That's a lot in this expression in America.
01:01:06Well, Vy and I talked and...
01:01:10Yeah, we're parting our ways.
01:01:13What?
01:01:14We're going to be parting our ways.
01:01:16What this mean?
01:01:19What is part...
01:01:20What...
01:01:21We're parting our ways...
01:01:23Like, we're just gonna be friends.
01:01:26Yeah.
01:01:27Just friends.
01:01:29Yeah.
01:01:30I mean, at least you have something good from this trip.
01:01:33You have a friend.
01:01:34Yeah.
01:01:40All right.
01:01:41Let's go.
01:01:41All right.
01:01:48Friends.
01:01:50OK.
01:01:52I'm going to miss you.
01:01:53I wish not to.
01:01:56All right.
01:01:57Well.
01:01:58This is a good vibe.
01:02:01Hold on.
01:02:01Move up a little bit.
01:02:05What are you saying?
01:02:06Excuse me.
01:02:08You're good.
01:02:08I'm good.
01:02:09I'm good for the.
01:02:11You girls be safe, OK?
01:02:13Bye.
01:02:13Bye.
01:02:20It's how you actually feel.
01:02:22It's just like hard because it's like, wait, like, you know, he developed feelings and like,
01:02:25he was really sad.
01:02:26Like I.
01:02:27You're sad too.
01:02:28I'm sad too.
01:02:29But I guess I did get something out of this trip.
01:02:33Did you learn something from this trip?
01:02:37Not really.
01:02:39So what are you going to do when you're back home?
01:02:41I think I'm going to just take some time that I need still a bit for myself to figure out
01:02:46what I actually want.
01:02:48But then I definitely want to try dating again.
01:02:52You want to take this ball with you?
01:02:54Let's just remind you of Pedro.
01:02:56No.
01:02:57A right man is out there for you.
01:03:00And when it's the right time, he will find you.
01:03:03Now I know.
01:03:04If I see even a tiny red flag, goodbye.
01:03:06Block.
01:03:07Block.
01:03:09Who's picking you up from the airport?
01:03:11My dog.
01:03:13He will become a sign.
01:03:15Just be the only man, only boy that you should be excited for for a little bit.
01:03:19Live your life.
01:03:21Next ghost trip, no boys allowed.
01:03:25All right, we should have just did a trip.
01:03:28I don't want to miss one yet.
01:03:30Yeah.
01:03:31Come on.
01:03:42That's where we met that bar back there.
01:03:44That's where you originally met.
01:03:45I remember I was like, oh, hey, when I walked by and then you were kind of like giving me
01:03:49the cold shoulder.
01:03:50I was shy.
01:03:51I didn't have enough nerve to come and talk to you.
01:03:53But then after you left, I was kicking myself.
01:03:55I asked my friend Liz, the bartender, about you and she said you come in on Fridays.
01:03:59So I went back on Fridays looking for you.
01:04:01For how long?
01:04:03Six months.
01:04:03Oh, wow.
01:04:04Before you came back.
01:04:06That's cute.
01:04:22Hello.
01:04:22How are you doing tonight?
01:04:23Good.
01:04:24A two, please.
01:04:24Perfect.
01:04:25Inside or out today?
01:04:26Let's do outside.
01:04:27Outside.
01:04:28You guys can follow me this way.
01:04:31Cole left Phillip's house about a week ago.
01:04:34I have no idea where he went.
01:04:35I blocked him.
01:04:36I don't know if he's in Canada with his mom, Brazil with Diana, Orlando with another girl.
01:04:42Who knows where he is in the world, honestly, and I don't really care.
01:04:46Hi, folks.
01:04:47Welcome in.
01:04:48Hi.
01:04:48How are we doing tonight?
01:04:49Good.
01:04:49How are you?
01:04:50Good, good.
01:04:50You guys want to put in any food at the moment?
01:04:52I think I'm going to do the charcuterie.
01:04:54I'm going to have the oysters.
01:04:57I'll get those for you guys.
01:04:59Tonight, me and Phillip are celebrating our three-month anniversary.
01:05:02This is our first date night since Colt left.
01:05:05I was like, this is the first time I finally feel free in six months.
01:05:11You're so welcome.
01:05:13Do you notice a difference in the house now that Colt's gone?
01:05:17Yes.
01:05:18It's peaceful.
01:05:19I mean, he wasn't disturbing us, though.
01:05:22He was just, like, in his room being, like, depressed or, like, fighting with Diana.
01:05:27But now it's just us.
01:05:28Yes.
01:05:29Oh, thank you.
01:05:30That looks so good, folks.
01:05:32You guys enjoy.
01:05:34Here's a little cake.
01:05:38Suck it.
01:05:39How was that?
01:05:41Good.
01:05:42What do they taste like?
01:05:43Oysters.
01:05:44Oh.
01:05:45Have you never tried a oyster before?
01:05:47I'm allergic to seafood.
01:05:49I didn't know you were allergic to seafood.
01:05:51We've only been together three months.
01:05:53What don't I know about you?
01:05:58My favorite sex position is missionary.
01:06:01Duh.
01:06:02I know that.
01:06:04The sex is great with Phillip.
01:06:06We do it every day.
01:06:08Like, no issues at all.
01:06:09No complaints.
01:06:10Compared to limp over there.
01:06:14Phillip is 66, but he gets easily aroused.
01:06:18Like, he doesn't take any pills.
01:06:20He's just good to go.
01:06:22He's active.
01:06:23He has a lot of energy.
01:06:25He drinks a lot of soda.
01:06:27Maybe, like, a 12-pack a day.
01:06:30Ah!
01:06:31So one thing I didn't know about you was I didn't realize you were so old.
01:06:35When you found out, did it bother you?
01:06:37When I first saw your birth year, I was, like, surprised.
01:06:41But, like, who you are as a person and, like, all the qualities you have, I'm like, this is exactly
01:06:46what I've been looking for for so long.
01:06:48That's good to hear.
01:06:49That's good to hear.
01:06:49If we stay together long-term, I'll have more grandkids than my mom.
01:06:54Then you're going to, like, more, because we're going to stay together.
01:06:59The last three months have been very nice together.
01:07:01Now that Colt is out of our relationship, I think we should go to the next level of our relationship.
01:07:11I love you.
01:07:12I want to be with you forever.
01:07:19No.
01:07:19Will you marry me?
01:07:21No.
01:07:23Is that a no or a yes?
01:07:25Yes.
01:07:25Yes.
01:07:26Babe.
01:07:29You're now my fiancé.
01:07:31Are you serious?
01:07:32I'm serious.
01:07:37Babe.
01:07:38I love it.
01:07:40Wow.
01:07:41I'm engaged.
01:07:43Cheers.
01:07:44Cheers.
01:07:45To us.
01:07:46To my fiancé.
01:07:47Woo-hoo.
01:07:48So how quickly are we going to get married?
01:07:51Tomorrow?
01:07:52Babe.
01:07:53There's so much I need to plan.
01:07:55I'm, like, DJ, photographer.
01:07:57The caterer.
01:07:57The venue.
01:07:58I just want to enjoy the whole process.
01:08:00I don't want to feel, like, stressed.
01:08:01But I don't want to wait too long.
01:08:03We'll make it happen this year.
01:08:04Yeah.
01:08:06You're what I've been envisioning or, like, waiting for all these years.
01:08:10Like, I didn't want to settle with anybody else.
01:08:12Like, that's why I haven't been engaged or married.
01:08:15Oh, I'm going to cry.
01:08:19I've just waited so long to meet, like, a good man or me.
01:08:28Don't cry.
01:08:31Because, like, I picture my life.
01:08:33I'm, like, am I ever going to get engaged?
01:08:34Am I ever going to get married?
01:08:36Am I ever going to find my person?
01:08:39You don't have to worry about it.
01:08:40Because I feel like I just keep going through heartbreak after heartbreak.
01:08:43And it's, like...
01:08:45You don't have to worry about that anymore.
01:08:50Make sure my lashes don't fall off.
01:08:54What a crazy journey.
01:08:56It's been a chaotic six months.
01:08:58Like, I went to a singles retreat in Mexico.
01:09:00Colt broke his leg.
01:09:02He was living with me and my parents.
01:09:04Sending jerk-off videos to other women.
01:09:05He goes to Brazil.
01:09:07He comes back to have surgery.
01:09:08I move him into my boyfriend's house.
01:09:10We kick him out.
01:09:11And then it's like, now I'm here.
01:09:13I think the universe finally rewarded me some good karma.
01:09:21Oh, you made me very happy tonight.
01:09:23Glad I can.
01:09:24Should we go home so I can make you happy?
01:09:27See if the oysters have the effect that they say later.
01:09:30What effect?
01:09:31Oh, that effect?
01:09:32That's my favorite.
01:09:35Glad you said yes.
01:09:36Because I believe we will have a happy future together.
01:09:39Babe, you're so corny.
01:09:41That's why you love me.
01:09:42Yes.
01:09:43I'm engaged.
01:09:45Woo!
01:09:49I love you.
01:09:56I love you too.
01:09:59Obviously, it would be nice to live with you, but to me, this is such a weird order of events.
01:10:04Buying a house together and you're not even making any sort of commitment towards marriage.
01:10:10Like, what am I doing here?
01:10:11It has to happen in my time and when I feel comfortable.
01:10:24What to wear, what to wear.
01:10:31Even with all these clothes, I always feel like I have nothing to wear for the day.
01:10:36Some choices to start with.
01:10:38All right.
01:10:40So this pull-up bar is used more for hanging the clothes than it is for actual exercise.
01:10:59So pretty.
01:11:04When Tony asked me to move in with him last month, I was so excited because it seemed like I
01:11:09was the one making all the first steps in this relationship.
01:11:12I was making all the first moves and he finally asked me to do something, which feels amazing.
01:11:19Oh, it's Tony.
01:11:22Hey, baby.
01:11:23Hi.
01:11:23Hey, baby.
01:11:26Oh, this is good.
01:11:27I love this dress.
01:11:29But then he changed his mind.
01:11:31Instead of me moving into his house, he wants us to start fresh and buy a new house together.
01:11:37Let's do this.
01:11:39So today we're going to go take a look at a house that he found online.
01:11:45Thank you very much.
01:11:48I have to keep an open mind, but buying a new home together is a much bigger deal than just
01:11:54me moving into his house.
01:11:56This is such a huge decision, you know, tying my finances with him when there's not even an engagement yet.
01:12:05So excited that the beach house had open house hours today.
01:12:08So I thought it would be a good way to be spontaneous and kind of really see what we're really
01:12:13looking at like in terms of the future.
01:12:15And, you know, where we might end up and start fresh for us, you know.
01:12:20And so I know that you asked me to move in with you.
01:12:24What made you have a change of heart?
01:12:28You've been established in your home for so long and I have been the same way.
01:12:31And that was kind of more of a gesture saying that, hey, I think it's time for us to just
01:12:35really combine our lives together.
01:12:38And I think this is the best way to start is to look for something new, you know.
01:12:43Yeah.
01:12:46I think it's this one.
01:12:48Oh.
01:12:49Right.
01:12:50This is it.
01:12:51We are here.
01:12:53Are you ready?
01:12:56All right.
01:12:57This is going to be, oh, just getting out of this car is an adventure in itself.
01:13:03Yeah.
01:13:04What do you think?
01:13:05All right.
01:13:05Let's take a look.
01:13:06Wow.
01:13:07It's pretty big.
01:13:08Yeah.
01:13:08It's definitely looks voluminous.
01:13:11Voluminous.
01:13:12Hey, Tony.
01:13:13Yeah.
01:13:14Oh, here we are.
01:13:14Oh.
01:13:15You must be Duane.
01:13:16Yeah.
01:13:17Nice to see you.
01:13:17Good to put a face to the name.
01:13:18Yeah, absolutely.
01:13:19Hi, Vanya.
01:13:20Nice to meet you.
01:13:20Nice to meet you as well.
01:13:23It's all about ocean living, right?
01:13:25Ocean living.
01:13:27Oh, my goodness.
01:13:29Look at this light.
01:13:33Incredible.
01:13:34Wow.
01:13:35Wow.
01:13:37Amazing.
01:13:38So let's just head upstairs.
01:13:40Wow.
01:13:40There's a lot of stairs.
01:13:41So no stair master needed.
01:13:44Whoa.
01:13:46Look at this double door situation.
01:13:47The master quarters.
01:13:48Yeah.
01:13:49Oh, wow.
01:13:51Oh.
01:13:51Oh.
01:13:52Oh.
01:13:53Bathroom.
01:13:55Oh, my God.
01:13:56With the bathtub.
01:13:58Oh, my God.
01:13:59Look at this bathroom.
01:14:00Soak it in, literally.
01:14:02Oh.
01:14:03Wow.
01:14:04Every room has an amazing view.
01:14:05What the heck?
01:14:05This is beautiful.
01:14:07This is gorgeous.
01:14:09Wow.
01:14:10What I really love is how bright this home is, how full of light it is, how spacious it is.
01:14:15Wow.
01:14:17Oh, my God.
01:14:18Oh, my God.
01:14:18This is incredible.
01:14:20The location is right on the beach.
01:14:22It is absolutely spectacular.
01:14:24This house was just meant for me.
01:14:26So I want to let you guys just go down the staircase, enjoy the beach, and then just let me
01:14:32know.
01:14:32Amazing.
01:14:33Thank you so much.
01:14:34I love that.
01:14:34However, looking at homes with Tony as just a boyfriend feels very weird to me.
01:14:41You know, this is something that you do at least as a fiancé, if not a wife.
01:14:47We're putting the carriage before the horse.
01:14:50And I really don't understand what Tony's thinking.
01:14:55Oh, I love it.
01:14:56I love it.
01:14:56This is spectacular.
01:14:58Stunning.
01:14:59Stunning.
01:15:01I mean.
01:15:02How did you experience the day?
01:15:04I mean, for me, the whole point of bringing you here was to kind of envision a house for us
01:15:10that we can make things easier for us.
01:15:12I mean, I don't like commuting 45 minutes to work.
01:15:16You know, I want to have someplace that we can call home and, you know, think about, obviously, saving time
01:15:22and spending more time together, you know?
01:15:25It just sounds like this is, like, a very practical decision for you.
01:15:30You know, it just sounds like you just want to save time.
01:15:32I'm not saying it's, um, it's just about that.
01:15:37You know, obviously, it would be nice to live with you.
01:15:40But to me, this is such a weird order of events, buying a house together without being engaged.
01:15:47I don't think I can do that.
01:15:49I'm totally not down with that.
01:15:52I don't want you to think that I'm not, in a sense, planning that or thinking about that because I
01:15:57am.
01:15:58But we just started dating six months ago.
01:16:00No, we haven't just started dating a few months ago.
01:16:03We've been friends in each other's lives for the last two years.
01:16:07And you're not even making any sort of, you know, commitment towards marriage.
01:16:11Like, what am I doing here?
01:16:13It has to happen in my time when I feel comfortable.
01:16:18And I'm not ready for that step right now.
01:16:24Vanya is ready to be engaged.
01:16:27It's something I'm thinking about, and I really am looking at her as the one.
01:16:31It's just, I definitely need more time.
01:16:34And I thought house hunting may be an idea of trying to not distract her or sway her away from
01:16:38it, but to show her that we're serious.
01:16:40But now I'm seeing that this definitely backfired.
01:16:44You know, if you don't think it's time for us to get engaged, then it's not time for us to
01:16:48buy a house together.
01:16:49I mean, it's as simple as that.
01:16:50This is a huge financial commitment.
01:16:52And if you're not sure about if you want to marry me, then how are you sure that you want
01:16:56to share a home together?
01:16:58I never said that.
01:16:59I never said I wasn't sure.
01:17:00Obviously, you're not ready.
01:17:04Yeah.
01:17:05I definitely thought a proposal was right around the corner, and my mind is blown to find out that it's
01:17:12not.
01:17:13I don't want to get this big house with you, then you become complacent, and then it never gets towards
01:17:19marriage.
01:17:20Because that would not be an acceptable scenario for me at all.
01:17:24I don't want a roommate.
01:17:26I want a husband.
01:17:28I want to marry Tony.
01:17:30It's all going to happen, but I just feel super pressured right now.
01:17:35This is just so frustrating.
01:17:38But as much as I love him, I'm 43 years old.
01:17:42I can't wait forever.
01:17:47I'm going to have to move on.
01:17:48When it all comes down.
01:17:52When we're about to drown.
01:17:56Will you go downstream?
01:17:58Could you be sembraing?
01:18:00Will you even make a sound?
01:18:02When it all comes down.
01:18:22I'm going back to California, but of course Wayne is coming to say goodbye to me.
01:18:26I can't wait to see my little English muffin.
01:18:29I'm excited.
01:18:36I guess I'm his girlfriend now.
01:18:41I mean, it was weird.
01:18:42He texted me last night, hashtag girlfriend.
01:18:44I was like, wait a minute.
01:18:46That's not what you said before, but that's just the way he is, you know?
01:18:50There's so many good things that happened on this trip to England.
01:18:53The biggest top two things are I'm in a relationship and that I told him my past and he accepted
01:19:01it.
01:19:08It's Wayne! Hello!
01:19:10You all right?
01:19:10Yeah, how are you?
01:19:11Not doing bad.
01:19:12No?
01:19:12Reception let me straight up, they recognize me.
01:19:14Oh, did they?
01:19:15Yeah.
01:19:16So you didn't have to come down the vet for this time?
01:19:18You're a frequent visitor.
01:19:18Have a seat.
01:19:19I'm just finishing packing.
01:19:19How's your packing going?
01:19:20Good.
01:19:21I think I have too much stuff.
01:19:23When I jump on your bed, you don't mind, do you?
01:19:25Oh, no.
01:19:25No, now you're on my bed.
01:19:26It's so comfy.
01:19:27It is comfy.
01:19:27It makes a lot of noise though.
01:19:29How do you know?
01:19:30Who else you had up in here?
01:19:31Nobody, but I sleep wild sometimes.
01:19:36Oh, .
01:19:36Done hump.
01:19:37I got it.
01:19:38So after like sleeping on it last night, I did kind of have like a little panic moment
01:19:42this morning.
01:19:44You don't feel any differently about us being in a relationship or anything?
01:19:47I'll be honest with you, I did think about it.
01:19:49Because obviously when someone tells you something, you have to process it.
01:19:53And no, I don't feel no different.
01:19:56Okay.
01:19:56No different at all.
01:19:57I'm quite happy and proud that you trust me.
01:20:01But at the same time, I felt a little bit bad.
01:20:03I felt like I probably could have cuddled you or even held your hand.
01:20:09But I was listening.
01:20:10And I didn't want to take the focus off while you're talking to me.
01:20:14And I'm like that.
01:20:14I will listen and I will focus.
01:20:16But at the same time, it don't mean that I don't care.
01:20:19Yeah, I get it.
01:20:20I appreciate that.
01:20:21I figured it was just because you're English.
01:20:24Come here though.
01:20:25I'll make up for it now.
01:20:26Oh, you're so sweet.
01:20:27You're so sweet.
01:20:33I'm okay.
01:20:34Good.
01:20:35Who thought I would come to England and find the man of my dreams?
01:20:38Who would have thought that?
01:20:40Who would have thought that, seriously?
01:20:41I did.
01:20:42You did?
01:20:43Oh, you knew?
01:20:44Oh, you're conceited too.
01:20:45You're such a smart ass, I swear.
01:20:47You know, MJ.
01:20:48Kim's leaving to go back home today.
01:20:50I feel quite sad.
01:20:52I'm going to miss her smile.
01:20:53I'm going to miss the laughter.
01:20:55I'm going to miss her being tactile.
01:20:58I'm going to miss the little touches that she's doing.
01:21:00I've got used to that in a, not a weird kind of way,
01:21:03in a nice kind of way that I like it.
01:21:04Give me this.
01:21:06All right.
01:21:07I'm going to get up and finish packing.
01:21:10Car's here.
01:21:12We got to go.
01:21:13I know.
01:21:13Let's go.
01:21:14Taking your sweet time, aren't you?
01:21:16I had a lot to do.
01:21:17Ready?
01:21:18On the way.
01:21:18Let's go.
01:21:20I couldn't be more proud of my mom for telling Wayne the truth
01:21:23about my brother and my sister.
01:21:25Her growth ever since I found about my brother
01:21:27has been incredible, and I've gained a lot more respect for her.
01:21:32Jamal?
01:21:32Huh?
01:21:33Oh, Wayne.
01:21:34See you later.
01:21:35Lovely meeting.
01:21:36Oh, so nice to meet you.
01:21:36Really nice meeting you.
01:21:37Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:21:38Keep doing what you're doing.
01:21:39You're killing it.
01:21:40Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:21:41She's really happy with you, so.
01:21:42Well, thank you.
01:21:43Glad I got your approval.
01:21:44Yeah, man.
01:21:45All the best.
01:21:47Have a good one.
01:21:47Okay.
01:21:48We have to take one last picture over here.
01:21:49Oh.
01:21:51Oh, that light.
01:21:51It's too bright.
01:21:52Wait, this way.
01:21:53This way.
01:21:53There.
01:21:53There we go.
01:21:54Perfect.
01:21:54Ready?
01:22:00Okay.
01:22:00That's cute.
01:22:01Come here, man.
01:22:05I'm gonna miss you.
01:22:06I know.
01:22:06I'm gonna miss you.
01:22:07I know.
01:22:07I'm gonna miss you.
01:22:07I'm gonna miss you.
01:22:08I'm gonna miss you.
01:22:09Thank you for being so amazing, honestly.
01:22:11Yeah.
01:22:11Like, from the beginning of this trip to the end, you've just been amazing.
01:22:14Honestly.
01:22:14I've absolutely loved it.
01:22:15Yeah.
01:22:16It's been a privilege.
01:22:17It's been a blessing.
01:22:18It's been really nice.
01:22:27It's been a pleasure.
01:22:48Oh.
01:22:48It's not.
01:22:49It's not.
01:22:50I'm always gonna be okay.
01:22:52Hey, y'all are just so cute, but we have to go.
01:22:54Okay.
01:22:56Tell your kids I said bye to you.
01:22:58I will do.
01:22:58I'll tell them, too.
01:22:59All right.
01:23:00All right.
01:23:00Let's go.
01:23:01I don't think anybody will ever understand how harshly I've judged myself, how I never thought
01:23:07I was really worthy of a really good love.
01:23:10And now that I'm there, and I've lost all my weight, getting the teeth fixed next, and I have this
01:23:16wonderful man by my side, and my sons with the hope of finding my daughter.
01:23:20Life is pretty good.
01:23:25All right.
01:23:27All right.
01:23:29I will.
01:23:30I promise.
01:23:30I'll be back in three months.
01:23:32See you later.
01:23:32See you, Wayne.
01:23:33See you.
01:23:34All right.
01:23:35Bye-bye.
01:23:35See you.
01:23:37Climb right into heaven.
01:23:39Climb right into heaven with me.
01:23:45Next time on 90 Day The Single Life Tell All.
01:23:49I'm Ross Matthews, and trust me when I tell you I cannot be more excited to be with all
01:23:53of you tonight.
01:23:53I'm usually at home watching, too.
01:23:55I've got reason to be angry.
01:23:57I showed what a lying, cheating hoe you are.
01:23:59That ruined the whole trip.
01:24:03We're in territory I'm not prepared for.
01:24:07Liz.
01:24:08Why is your left hand so heavy?
01:24:10Ooh.
01:24:12I am engaged.
01:24:14Two.
01:24:15Um.
01:24:17Jasmine, come on out here.
01:24:19Hi.
01:24:20Oh.
01:24:21He's not happy to see me.
01:24:23Also welcome Gino's friend, Lexi.
01:24:26Gino's been very respectful to me.
01:24:29That's not the real Gino.
01:24:30You liar.
01:24:31Oh.
01:24:32There it goes.
01:24:33Lexi, run.
01:24:37Sophie and Pedro.
01:24:38Have you seen each other since that vacation?
01:24:40Um.
01:24:42I feel this piece of love all my life.
01:24:44Oh.
01:24:46Pedro is a little bit naive.
01:24:48It's like you don't want him to be happy.
01:24:50Excuse me, Sophie.
01:24:51I am talking.
01:24:52Shut up.
01:24:54Courtney and Phil, you two broke up because of Colt.
01:24:57Yeah.
01:24:59No way.
01:25:00And in that time, Courtney, did you have any communication with Colt?
01:25:05Yieldy.
01:25:06And the plot thickens.
01:25:10Please welcome Vanya's boyfriend, Tony, and cousin Cinella.
01:25:15I don't think she can count how many times she's on the floor crying.
01:25:20Sometimes my reactions are exaggerated.
01:25:23There shouldn't be any engagement talk.
01:25:25Whoa.
01:25:26He's my person and I love you.
01:25:30I don't like the way the Colt treats the women around him.
01:25:33Who the are you?
01:25:34Stop.
01:25:34You're a leech.
01:25:35I wouldn't respect a man that comes out here and attacks another man like a .
01:25:40Whoa.
01:25:41I'm sitting right here.
01:25:42Oh, get up.
01:25:43What the do you want to do?
01:25:45Oh, guys.
01:25:45You want to really do this?
01:25:47No, no, no, no, no.
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