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90 Day- The Single Life S05E14
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00:00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:00:02You have to do your pickleball dance.
00:00:07Phil is my new boyfriend.
00:00:10But Colt is living in Phillip's house.
00:00:12It's not the best situation.
00:00:15I think Colt has a thing for you still.
00:00:18I don't trust him.
00:00:19I don't want to jeopardize my new relationship with Phillip
00:00:22by prioritizing Colt.
00:00:24We need to get him out of our home.
00:00:26It's time to make him a little uncomfortable.
00:00:29I mean, ever since LA, I guess I've just been thinking about it.
00:00:33I don't want to put my heart and energy into something
00:00:36that could be pulled out from underneath me at any moment.
00:00:39So, are you breaking this off?
00:00:41I mean, as far as boyfriend and girlfriend kind of thing,
00:00:44I don't think that's for us.
00:00:47Yeah.
00:00:49I guess I'm just going to be straightforward.
00:00:51There is somebody back at home that I have been seeing.
00:00:55Didn't expect that.
00:00:56Coming on this girl's trip,
00:00:58I never expected to fall for someone.
00:01:01It's just such a tricky situation I put myself in.
00:01:05Hi.
00:01:05How are you?
00:01:06How are you?
00:01:06It's so nice to meet you.
00:01:08I'm Vanya.
00:01:08What I know about Tony's parents is they are very religious.
00:01:12And I am not.
00:01:15Do you want to come to church and see how we are doing?
00:01:18I'm scared to death that this is going to be a huge problem.
00:01:22I would prefer to stay away.
00:01:27When I was 20, I got a woman pregnant.
00:01:30I did get married because I thought every child needs a father figure
00:01:33and another figure as well.
00:01:35Wayne might think, oh, she has two children that she placed for adoption.
00:01:38She's the most selfish person on earth.
00:01:42How was your day?
00:01:43Tell me.
00:01:45Are you kissing a guy?
00:01:47Yeah.
00:01:48Because I told you I want to have time being single.
00:01:51If that's one thing you want to do, bye.
00:01:54You're making me feel like I'm the most person in the world.
00:01:57And I'm not.
00:01:58I'm not.
00:01:59Like, I just, I'm not ready for a relationship.
00:02:01this.
00:02:02This is crazy.
00:02:17Right now, I'm not feeling great.
00:02:18Like, things with Pedro obviously was really bad.
00:02:23I texted him yesterday.
00:02:24I also texted him again today.
00:02:26He still hasn't replied to me.
00:02:28So I'm upset that things have turned out this way.
00:02:30And I really hope he at least has a conversation with me
00:02:33before I go home.
00:02:34Oh, when you raise the stakes, when you're in my space,
00:02:40like something from above, just another crush.
00:02:46Oh, the girls are here.
00:02:48Hello.
00:02:49Hello.
00:02:50We're here.
00:02:52Grab some champagne.
00:02:53Yeah, I need some champagne.
00:02:56Today's my last day in the DR.
00:02:57And the hotel's doing a phone party at the pool.
00:02:59And me and the girls have decided to go.
00:03:01It was like a fun end to our trip.
00:03:03Oh!
00:03:04Oh, my.
00:03:04That's it?
00:03:05That was it?
00:03:06That's it?
00:03:07I've also invited Pedro.
00:03:08And I really hope that he shows up.
00:03:11This is the last opportunity we have to talk before we both go home.
00:03:16Julia told me that you and Pedro aren't talking right now.
00:03:20Yeah, I went on that date with that guy.
00:03:23And he kind of blew up after, and he's just not texting me.
00:03:25He still haven't heard from him?
00:03:27Oh, wow.
00:03:28Yeah.
00:03:29Yeah.
00:03:31I wish he at least reached out and said, even tell me, look, Sophie.
00:03:34I just need some time to take it all in.
00:03:37Or even if he's...
00:03:37Or just leave me alone.
00:03:38Yeah, but let me know.
00:03:39Don't leave me, like, hanging here.
00:03:41Like, does he hate me?
00:03:42Is he here?
00:03:42Is he not?
00:03:42Like, I don't know what's going on.
00:03:44It's like, the uncertainty is just, like, stressful, you know?
00:03:46I really like Pedro, and I do really care about him.
00:03:49And I am upset.
00:03:49If this is how it ends, he just ignores me, and that was that.
00:03:52And we leave on such a horrible fight that we had.
00:03:54Like, that is upsetting to me.
00:03:55Just disappeared.
00:03:58We are planning to go into this party.
00:04:00You think he come?
00:04:02I invite him.
00:04:03Like, he's supposed to be at this party, but I don't think he's coming.
00:04:06I know Via is coming.
00:04:07Via is coming?
00:04:08Yeah.
00:04:09What's been going on with you and Via?
00:04:10Yeah.
00:04:10Um, I have enjoyed every single moment with him, but, like, it sucks that now I have feelings
00:04:16for two guys, but that's not what was supposed to happen at all on this trip.
00:04:20I have a friend who have open marriage.
00:04:24I know.
00:04:26I mean, let's see what's going to happen.
00:04:28I mean, Via come.
00:04:29Maybe Pedro come.
00:04:31You're going to have a conversation.
00:04:34Do you think he'll be okay, like, if he doesn't show up?
00:04:38I mean, if he doesn't come, I'm going to be really upset.
00:04:42Right.
00:04:42Let's not think about it.
00:04:43Yes.
00:04:43Not thinking about it now, but eventually this will be happening.
00:04:46So, now let's have fun.
00:04:47Yeah.
00:04:49Let's go.
00:04:50Let's take it.
00:04:50I love to touch base, style.
00:04:52I love to touch base, style, your keys, I love to глав your lips, what we handle this
00:04:55Judge, style, your keys, I love the flow of your lips.
00:04:55You're done away through Lavas Man, you're thinking about you.
00:04:59I love to touch base, style, your lips, I've been моей.
00:05:08You're easily identified.
00:05:09visits trees, neighbors, thats أنery.
00:05:11Contrast put the best are towards my crush, my obstinate conversation.�를
00:05:15look like Pedro with a bad investor. Entonces
00:05:18there's kind of weird, oraz the bartender that brings a shot.
00:05:19you have a lady hello ladies what's up
00:05:26i like the phone are you coming in like that uh no i'm you're gonna have to help me here
00:05:35he is here and pedro isn't with him i feel like he's just playing games with me
00:05:40but like he's done with me because that's not how you would act if you actually want to be with
00:05:45me
00:05:52pedro isn't here so i kind of keep him like
00:05:57do you know is he coming is he coming um
00:06:03um we talked earlier and he's not gonna come today he's not no like really like really i
00:06:24try to convince him to come out but he doesn't want to come like he's not gonna change his way
00:06:29he's not gonna teach his money you sure yeah 100 can you tell you why he's not coming
00:06:36you kiss somebody else
00:06:40i do understand he's upset but i do feel like he's being a little bit much when we're not together
00:06:47i can understand if like you don't want to talk to me again but at least communicate that with me
00:06:53honestly even if he just said off that would let me know okay and let me start to move on
00:06:59from this
00:07:00i think he's just being very spiteful and honestly very emotionally immature
00:07:07you think you're pretty clever but lucky for me i know better i've seen your type before i know what
00:07:17i'm in for
00:07:20it seems like colt gets more mail here than we do more medical though yes oh my god
00:07:40you're going to back me up right of course babe i always have your back okay
00:07:47cole overseeing his welcome has been hurting my relationship with phil because he's caused a lot
00:07:52of jealousy and trust issues so if i want my relationship to survive i think colt needs to
00:07:58get out of the picture oh my god what is that oh he's just like laying out there oh my
00:08:05god feeding
00:08:06colt before we kick him out it's kind of like being fed your last meal before you go to the
00:08:11electrocution
00:08:12chair so eat up ahoy hey i have your mail here hey yo what'd you bring charcuterie
00:08:34i made it myself wow thank you you're the best thank you i'm good trying to wash my my weight
00:08:42a little
00:08:42bit how's your leg doing it's doing better it probably looks worse than it actually is at this
00:08:50point surprised i'm walking again i really thought it would be a long time if if ever now that you
00:08:58can
00:08:58walk what plans have you made so it's time for that talk huh i think it's time for you to
00:09:07move on
00:09:09our relationship is still pretty new but i feel for us to move forward things have to change
00:09:18i mean you have some time to think we're not kicking you out right now but i mean start
00:09:24figuring out what you're doing oh sure yeah a couple days
00:09:33yeah i'm not surprised that they want me to move out i feel like they didn't really want me to
00:09:38be
00:09:38here to begin with then now that my leg is healed it's time to go
00:09:47i just want to give this relationship like a real chance so once you've moved out i think i need
00:09:54to
00:09:55cut off communication with you because i don't want to be disrespectful to him
00:10:06well i can't blame you i mean i want you to have a fresh start but that's things you were
00:10:12my
00:10:12right or die i felt bad telling colt i'm totally done with him but it had to be done he's
00:10:19like a
00:10:19leech i feel he will take advantage of me as long as i'm willing
00:10:27well i feel a little greasy i think i gotta wash off some of this suntan lotion okay thank you
00:10:33for
00:10:33understanding oh yeah
00:10:39i'm sad my life has been entangled with corny for so long now i feel like having her not in
00:10:46it is
00:10:46like losing my entire life but corny has found love in whatever weird way that she did and i hope
00:10:55that
00:10:55she's happy and has a great life what will you do now at this point i feel like it's the
00:11:01next logical
00:11:01step going back to brazil seeing diana and seeing if we can actually have a relationship and if i could
00:11:08be honest and truthful and do all the things that i couldn't do with corny do you think you can
00:11:13do that
00:11:15i want i need to do better
00:11:22well that was awkward i think it went okay he understands what we're saying it's time to move on
00:11:33so what made you want to come to meet my dad is that weird for you guys yeah really i'm
00:11:39really
00:11:39excited to get to know wayne's daughters tonight but i'm a little nervous i think you're going to have
00:11:43a relationship expecting people to have no baggage yeah when sometimes that just isn't realistic my
00:11:50heart just sunk i don't really want to call my children baggage but oh god he's going to judge me
00:11:55for what i've done
00:12:12do you want to come to church and see how we are doing i i would probably prefer to stay
00:12:19away
00:12:26don't know when and i don't know how
00:12:32it's just not something that i would enjoy
00:12:36i am meeting tony's parents for the first time and of course i was prepared for them to bring up
00:12:42religion but i never expected it five minutes after arriving inviting me to church is very sweet
00:12:50and kind of them but my response is always going to be no it's never going to change
00:12:56i really hope that they can just see me for the person who i am and the person that makes
00:13:01their son happy
00:13:04my relationship with the god he's always there he understands you he's there listening
00:13:12i feel so good going to the mass and praying
00:13:16the way we think is we need association with something
00:13:21now
00:13:24because in bosnia it's it's very normal to be religious it's very normal to not be religious
00:13:31what's the common um in bosnia you know we have three religions in bosnia muslim catholic and orthodox
00:13:38christian and my family essentially has all three but my parents were not religious
00:13:48so what language do you follow there so we have uh before the war in yugoslavia it was called serba
00:13:54croatian so i learned english here yeah oh so you're a lot of problem when you move over here in
00:14:00schooling and all it was very hard because i i had to work help support the family help my parents
00:14:07find
00:14:07jobs to take my brother to daycare help my sister with her homework and uh and then do my schoolwork
00:14:13as well so it was it was like an instant adult overnight yeah i think when you came here you
00:14:19really work hard you know thinking that absolutely still work okay it hasn't stopped
00:14:27one is a nice girl hard working professional very sweet lady she has gone through a lot but i don't
00:14:36know
00:14:36it is the right person from my son the only thing we can do is to pray and she can
00:14:43get closer to god
00:14:45if it is god's will let it happen if not i don't want it happen i'm just super happy to
00:14:52have met your
00:14:52son and so i'm just i'm happy that i finally got to meet you you are so nice and you
00:14:58are so beautiful
00:14:59and hard working hard working yeah i'll pray for you thank you so much i think this is a good
00:15:08step in
00:15:08the right direction my parents they want someone that has faith and belief but i know more importantly
00:15:13they want to make sure that the person that i'm with will love me as equally as i love them
00:15:18to as well
00:15:19so it's nice meeting you it was such a pleasure meeting you thank you so much thank you so i
00:15:24have a
00:15:25feeling my mom's overlooking a lot of her previous thoughts about oh she doesn't have that faith but
00:15:31now at least she does love my son and that's going to go a long way thank you bye bye
00:15:36bye bye
00:15:37i hope that wasn't so bad i told you right you really weren't kidding about your mom and religion she
00:15:47she really is all about it they're always gonna try i think they were asking quite a few questions and
00:15:54they really wanted to get to know you that's big and that's what i saw from the conversation was
00:16:00that they were very happy to see us together absolutely and i think they really enjoyed talking
00:16:05to you that's a very good sign so i do want to present you with something as like a symbol
00:16:14of
00:16:14acceptance and into our family and also more importantly a bigger step for me into our lives what
00:16:21you wait right here
00:16:26no looking what what's happening close your eyes oh my god okay
00:16:38i want you to take this box and open it what is this
00:16:49there's a heart in here there's a heart it's a good symbol
00:16:57it's a key so this is a key to my house i mean i really think that
00:17:03the next step for us is to have you move in are you serious absolutely
00:17:14what'd you think was in the box not a key of course i thought it was a ring it's what
00:17:20any normal woman would think but wah wah wah it's a key i mean it's fine i'm not like ungrateful
00:17:31but it's not a ring
00:17:36you know i i feel like this is the next step and this is my promise to you that
00:17:40i do want you in my life yes of course i i will this is amazing
00:17:49the key is great and all but i'm not looking for a roommate i want a husband
00:17:57so i will move into his house for now but pretty soon he better be giving me another box
00:18:04while he's down on one knee i love you baby this is amazing i'm so glad
00:18:16i always wanted a kitchen like this i love you baby
00:18:25i love you it's gonna be incredible
00:18:34yeah you've seen it all before
00:18:38you're writing on the wall
00:18:40hi hi hi you're all right hi hi hi hi hi this is ayesha hi are you sure nice to
00:18:49meet you
00:18:50this is a talia hi how are you this is nice to see you i stepped on your shoes and
00:18:55that's kim's son
00:18:55jamal hi jamal nice to meet you
00:19:05well nice to meet you ladies you're beautiful thank you so pretty i'm really excited to get to
00:19:12know wayne's daughters tonight at the pub they're so cute and they're so tiny and they look just like
00:19:17wayne shall we go and play skittles let's go okay but i'm a little nervous because wayne just told
00:19:23jamal and i that he had his children at a young age and he sacrificed so much to be in
00:19:28their lives
00:19:28this is skittles and i'm like oh god he's gonna judge me for what i've done because i placed my
00:19:36children up for adoption but i just need to calm the hill down and focus on jamal and wayne getting
00:19:42to know each other and me getting to know his daughters so what you need to do there's a wooden
00:19:47ball we get three wooden balls you have to throw the ball then you have to hit this first pin
00:19:52you
00:19:52have to hit the first one you have to hit the first pin to start scoring okay i will show
00:19:57you yeah you
00:19:58will because i played this before it sounds like a difficult game but it's really really easy okay
00:20:05it's not about strength and it's not about skill it's about pure luck
00:20:12yeah good job so one two three four five six seven so hopefully we all can connect and get
00:20:19to know each other kim it's your go now are you ready yeah i'm ready you've got this you've got
00:20:23this
00:20:24come and you know i'm good at pulling okay go this is a deal breaker by the way oh okay
00:20:30okay
00:20:31okay oh all right thank you for saying it out loud i appreciate it all right so boom boom all
00:20:42right
00:20:42tomorrow's gonna get it watch come on
00:20:46oh hey guys wow good job some competition there wayne yeah that's eight
00:20:58oh yay hey whoa whoa
00:21:04she's bowling i love it delta i'm gonna fix that i let her go again that was great skittles is
00:21:10a
00:21:10really fun game and it's a good way to let loose break the ice a little bit throw it throw
00:21:15it under
00:21:15hand you got it oh good job you know the best part watching wayne be like competitive and like watching
00:21:26his arm muscles like throw the ball i was like hey wayne hey i'm standing right over here hi cutie
00:21:39so what made you want to come to meet my dad we just i don't know it was really weird
00:21:44because he
00:21:45just popped up on my social media one day and then i sent him a dm and we started talking
00:21:49pretty
00:21:49quick like every day yeah wow and then yeah he invited me to come here so here i am all
00:21:54the way
00:21:54from america to meet him isn't that weird for you guys yeah yeah really do you normally move quite fast
00:22:01no no i have in the past i have in the past but i've learned from my past relationships so
00:22:10yeah
00:22:11well her last like international relationship i think moved really way too fast for sure
00:22:17um yeah it did but he also is not like your dad um he was uh let's just say different
00:22:24and 20 years younger too 20 years oh wow
00:22:29yeah so you both like them younger then because i feel like my dad used to go for younger women
00:22:33oh i didn't know that i used to attract younger women okay okay and you would just feel attraction
00:22:41back it's okay i attract older women younger women it's fine you know how it is yeah okay but like
00:22:47i've seen like everything great you know what i mean i've seen everything great he's really honest
00:22:52with me when i've asked him questions about like red flags and stuff what do you guys see it's like
00:22:57a
00:22:57red flag oh you don't want to know i'm just joking i'm just joking i think sometimes you will
00:23:06really like somebody and then kind of change yourself to be how they want to be like when you
00:23:11dated a vegetarian that's what we found that you know after a certain amount of time he's not acting
00:23:18like himself and then he becomes unhappy in the relationship i get it yeah yeah you think
00:23:23well i can guarantee you i want him to be his own person like i don't want him to morph
00:23:27into me or me
00:23:28to morph into him anything else i think you go into every relationship expecting people to have no
00:23:33baggage yeah when sometimes that just isn't realistic in fact it's not realistic at all
00:23:40my heart just sunk because i don't really want to call my children baggage but i do have baggage
00:23:48so we're just taking it taking it slow but i felt like it was we both thought it was time
00:23:53for us
00:23:53to just meet in person just to see like why keep going on you know yeah so that was really
00:23:58nice of us
00:23:59all getting together it was but you guys got to get home yeah thank you for coming driving up here
00:24:04to
00:24:04meet me i feel so special so thank you thank you for flying so nice to meet you lovely thank
00:24:09you so much
00:24:11what kind of person in their 50s doesn't have baggage we all have past relationships we all
00:24:16have past trauma all right nice to meet you i'll see you tomorrow all right i'll see you tomorrow
00:24:21all right get them home safe nobody comes into a relationship perfect nobody does
00:24:27are you ready to go yeah i'm ready to go okay now i'm starting to see why wayne is single
00:24:36okay mama drank two ciders all right let's get out of here
00:24:51i'm about to do something really big tonight i need to have closure for myself and move forward in my
00:25:00life
00:25:00and this is how i can do that i really want to get this weight off my shoulders and you
00:25:20know take
00:25:21action tonight ultimately i know things didn't work out between natalie and i but i'm not going to give up
00:25:29on love because i know there's someone out there for me i just gotta go find her but tonight i
00:25:36have
00:25:36something that's very important that i really need to focus my attention on hello hi
00:25:54jeez is there anything i can help you with today i'm not sure i'm in the right place here
00:26:00when you came in i immediately got a vibe of like a renewal a fresh start we do have green
00:26:07adventuring
00:26:08green which is for good luck if you wanted to like take a look at these maybe hold them in
00:26:13your hand
00:26:13see if you can feel like the weight the energy if one like feels better than the other wow um
00:26:22actually the reason i'm here is to see my lawyer oh absolutely let me go get him thank you
00:26:30did i wake up in oz i mean i'm seeing quartz rocks candles weird jewelry where am i this does
00:26:42not feel
00:26:42like a lawyer's office gino right hey hey thomas pleasure to meet you in person finally nice to meet
00:26:49you in person for the last few weeks i've been searching for a lawyer because i'm finally ready
00:26:55to file for divorce from jasmine i walked in here and i was like am i in the right place
00:27:01it can be a
00:27:02little confusing the idea behind it is law is very stressful so i want to try to get you as
00:27:07relaxed as
00:27:07possible my friend referred me to thomas he has very good credentials graduated from harvard and the fact
00:27:17that he owns this crystal shop is freaking awesome why don't you step into my office oh no kidding
00:27:24secret door secret door wow how cool is this i'm tom i've been an attorney for roughly 13 years
00:27:32but my day-to-day life i'm a spiritual explorer i've studied basically everything from hypnosis i'm
00:27:40certified in reiki that helps me in my law practice because if you're able to handle high levels of stress
00:27:46it gives you a huge advantage so monday i might be doing meditation tuesday yoga but by thursday i'll
00:27:53definitely be back in the courtroom so gino i know we have a lot to go through where would you
00:27:58like to
00:27:58start well actually i i did speak to a lawyer once before i hired you and he told me that
00:28:07because jasmine
00:28:09had a baby with another guy during our marriage i'm presumed to be the father of the child legally
00:28:17yeah unfortunately that is true and so now you're going to be responsible for child support unless we
00:28:23take care of it from what i hear and my understanding is i can take a dna test and prove
00:28:29that i'm not the
00:28:29father and clear my name but she had the child in florida so you know i don't know what kind
00:28:36of wrench
00:28:36that throws into the whole thing here i feel like if you had your paternity test we could easily get
00:28:42that
00:28:42taken care of for you but as for what florida law says i'm not going to lie to you we'll
00:28:46have to research
00:28:47it we may have to consult with a florida lawyer so it's going to get very very complex the longer
00:28:53you wait unfortunately she could take out debt that could become half yours i mean the situation just
00:28:59gets worse you know as time passes oh my gosh i didn't know how serious some of this stuff is
00:29:04yeah
00:29:05yeah i mean i've waited too long already i need to file like now this possibly could be one of
00:29:13the
00:29:13most complicated divorces i've ever tried to tackle there's a child out of wedlock there's two different
00:29:19states there's immigration issues and there's premarital significant assets to separate out
00:29:25between both parties and so i'm trying to put some band-aids on things but i'm not going to lie
00:29:31it's probably going to be a pretty painful divorce do you think i would have to end up seeing
00:29:38this narcissist uh in court if everybody agrees you can get out with one hearing however there
00:29:46could be multiple hearings and it could proceed all the way to trial divorces can usually get as nasty as
00:29:53somebody wants to make them i think she's gonna try to hurt me as much as she can you know
00:29:58destroy me
00:29:59but you know i'm ready for i'll give her a fight what i think a good game plan for us
00:30:06legally is is we
00:30:07rush and file this complaint we try to serve her as quick as we can and then take it from
00:30:12there here
00:30:13in michigan does that sound like a good plan yeah that i'm definitely all in because i i don't want
00:30:19to
00:30:20wait for the time we're waiting longer marrying jasmine was the biggest mistake of my freaking life but i
00:30:28am gonna get out of this mess because today i am filing for a divorce finally i think you're gonna
00:30:34feel a lot better once we get you through this process yeah yeah i will for sure
00:30:49i understand he's upset for sure i'm not saying he's not valid in that way he is
00:30:54it's just annoying because i like him but you don't know maybe he said he brought you back you
00:30:58know your phone right there so maybe we need to check i've checked my phone so many times can we
00:31:03check it now this is a lot of time because now it feels stupid let's go last time check-in
00:31:18see if you text me i'm scared
00:31:22you're gonna look first you want me look first look
00:31:30he hasn't text me like there's no text oh he's online he texts me now no one second let's
00:31:37know can i look out no no no no i just wanna look
00:31:43julia
00:31:47look sophie i need to answer she can do whatever she wants right now
00:31:53he hung up no answer he hung up he hung up you're upset you know it's just like yeah i
00:31:59am upset i'm
00:31:59upset because i just called him he's not answering me like i still wanted to build on my connection with
00:32:04him you know he wants a relationship i i do that's eventually i do want a relationship you know
00:32:11because he could get to a point and i'd want to be with him and i'd be ready
00:32:18what are you doing i'm parking
00:32:22like parking on my i post to leave the yard tomorrow but i change my flight i'm going to
00:32:30live in right now last night she sent me a text like are you fine i didn't answer
00:32:38yeah and this morning she's sending another text say are you hate me yeah
00:32:45sophie been testing to me nice stuff since yesterday like are you coming to the pool party
00:32:53are you okay are you paying me you don't care just only leave me alone
00:33:02she using me like a paper towel she was her ass and thrown me away she break my heart completely
00:33:09she chattered my heart in pieces
00:33:13i know i'm gonna be okay but i will be okay if i super for my divorce you know this
00:33:19is like
00:33:19little rock in my way it's nothing else uh telling to see you later she can enjoy you know the
00:33:27guys
00:33:30because you know i got some dignity i got a lot of dignity
00:33:44something made me feel like a freaking idiot and my mom and my sitter they were right
00:33:49she's nothing good i was freaking blind and i was my time with somebody that does this
00:34:05i'm not giving up about love i'm giving up to somebody that does does appreciate me
00:34:11and clear stuff you didn't appreciate me
00:34:16she will regret because she don't want to find somebody like me never again good luck
00:34:23because nobody's going to take care of you like anything with you nobody
00:34:37thank you you're welcome
00:34:43i'm excited to see your house i'm very nervous about cooking why why it's the first time i've
00:34:49picked up somebody really that's not my kids or family it's all right don't be nervous it's gonna
00:34:54be great and if you mess it up we'll just order some food
00:35:09it was really a pleasure to meet your daughters last night yeah they sent me a message and said that
00:35:15it was nice meeting you as well oh did they really yeah oh that's nice i really think things went
00:35:19well
00:35:19with wayne's daughters but they told me a couple things that gave me a little pause
00:35:24like he can't handle a woman with baggage and i'm like oh honey i have all the bags all of
00:35:30them
00:35:31no women are going to run out of your bedroom or anything okay just be careful you don't slip over
00:35:37oh it's icy yeah now i'm starting to get doubtful like is he going to accept me for everything that
00:35:42i am oh this is so cute it's a bachelor pad oh look at your little squirrel door knocker
00:35:51that's so cute this is my umbrella i love your kitchen i love the color it's so cute is that
00:36:00me and
00:36:00jamal yeah what can i do a little surprise for you oh it's that picture you sent me and i
00:36:07got
00:36:07somebody to draw oh thank you that's so cute i love it the first thing i saw was this sketch
00:36:15of me
00:36:15and jamal and i'm like what the is he stalking me like is this like a silence of the lambs
00:36:19vibe i got
00:36:20going on here who drew this uh one of my friend's daughters wow i don't want to be a bit
00:36:29you're
00:36:30keeping this here though right no that's a good oh is it for me yeah oh i love it it's
00:36:35very thoughtful
00:36:36i've never had that done for me but it's like do i look that old do i have that many
00:36:42wrinkles
00:36:44so what do we what are you cooking it's jamaican chicken and rice it's my mom's recipe oh okay and
00:36:51i promise it won't be too spicy okay i don't do it the professional way you don't have to do
00:36:56it the
00:36:56professional way i've never ever ever had a man just cook just for me and i feel like so special
00:37:04and i feel like appreciated you sure you don't want to spice it up you can spice it up no
00:37:10i'm not
00:37:11putting too spicy for you but i'm getting really really nervous we have to have a conversation
00:37:16about because we're going to be in a relationship and i have to tell him about the children i placed
00:37:21for adoption and i feel like everything's just starting to bubble up so i'm gonna let that simmer
00:37:26do you want to have a little sit down and chill sure i can have a break from cooking then
00:37:31oh my god
00:37:31it was so nice to watch you do that i just feel like everything is just going to start word
00:37:36vomiting
00:37:36out of my mouth there you go this is nice yeah so how do you think this week went um
00:37:44so far so good
00:37:46so far so good i leave tomorrow no i mean like i don't know like i had such a good
00:37:53time like with
00:37:54you i just feel like it's such a good fit yeah you know i really do like i love being
00:37:58in your company
00:38:00it's gone very quick which is a good thing so sometimes i think that if you're talking to someone
00:38:04and it's dragging that means you're not enjoying that and it's just like it's just gone just like
00:38:10that like how do you feel about the long distance thing like are you willing to give this a try
00:38:14and try it out yeah what we're doing so far i think is working so it'd be nice if we
00:38:23do see each other again yeah okay so are you like my man now my boyfriend um
00:38:35i like not to put no pressure on stuff though that's important to me and sometimes relationships
00:38:42scare me i've i've been on my own for a while and i've enjoyed it on my own so i
00:38:49don't want the
00:38:50i don't want the pressure of we're doing this we're doing oh no no he is not saying that we
00:38:56are
00:38:56boyfriend and girlfriend but we're not seeing anybody else so technically in my head we're in
00:39:01a relationship but the last thing i want to do is put pressure on wayne because i know that is
00:39:06a
00:39:07surefire way to kill a relationship i think we try it out see what happens and if it doesn't work
00:39:13it doesn't work we'll be great friends you know what i mean but i like you i'm interested in you
00:39:17i
00:39:17feel the connection with you and like
00:39:24so there is one thing before we continue that i want to tell you about
00:39:28and it's not easy i'm sorry it's very very um
00:39:35sorry i didn't know it's gonna be this hard sorry give me a second
00:39:41i have other children i put up for adoption oh well please don't judge me okay
00:39:57beautiful distraction baby today is a big day i feel like my life is
00:40:08about to take in a really good turn in the right direction
00:40:22today i brought my natural charm and also a little science with me too
00:40:30so this is pheromone spray and this is supposed to attract the ladies
00:40:38facebook and that lady is i want to take in penland and this이라 portal process
00:40:38pumpkin firmwareontinuer incidentally
00:40:39it's taken me some time but i finally have started talking to women online and i
00:40:46actually met someone that i'm really interested in
00:40:49i have to give it the test i
00:40:52i feel like lexi and i we just have a natural chemistry together
00:40:56and we talk every day
00:40:59At first, we decided to meet up as friends, and we had such a good time together, I had
00:41:07to ask her out on a date.
00:41:10Heck yeah.
00:41:14Hopefully, she will say something like, Gino, you make me crazy.
00:41:19I think she's going to like this.
00:41:26I'm very excited, but I still have some nerves about, like, what's going to happen, you
00:41:32know?
00:41:32Is this going to turn out good, or is it not going to be good, so.
00:41:45Holy cow.
00:41:46Good to see you.
00:41:47Nice to see you.
00:41:49Oh my god.
00:41:50How are we going?
00:41:51I'm good.
00:41:52How are you?
00:41:53You look beautiful.
00:41:55Gosh.
00:41:57I think they actually have a wine tasting room in here.
00:42:01Yes.
00:42:02This should be fun.
00:42:03I've never been in the winery.
00:42:04Last time, I was just looking at the animals.
00:42:07When Gino first wrote me on the app, I figured, why not?
00:42:12It was fun getting to know each other.
00:42:14We had really good conversations.
00:42:18Ooh.
00:42:18Those look good.
00:42:20I really like his sense of humor.
00:42:23I kind of have a quirky sense of humor, too, so we decided to meet up.
00:42:29Hi.
00:42:30Have you decided what you'd like?
00:42:31Oh, yeah.
00:42:32I think so.
00:42:34All right.
00:42:34Can we start with your ID, please?
00:42:35Yeah.
00:42:36All right.
00:42:39Aren't you going to ask me for my ID?
00:42:42Well, I could check it if you insist.
00:42:45No, that's only if you need to check my ID.
00:42:48If you look like me, sweetheart, we're good.
00:42:51I am 56 years old, and Lexi is 30, and that's a lot, okay?
00:42:58It is a lot.
00:42:59But, I mean, when I'm with Lexi, I do not feel like we have a 26-year age difference.
00:43:05And, honestly, I feel like age doesn't even matter.
00:43:09Is the age difference thing, like, is that a problem for you yourself?
00:43:14For me, I don't really have any problems with it.
00:43:17But I would be a little concerned about what my family might think.
00:43:23You are older than my dad.
00:43:33What happens, like, if your dad...
00:43:35What if your dad...
00:43:37He kicks your ass.
00:43:38No, like, what if your dad...
00:43:39He might do that.
00:43:40He might do that.
00:43:42I think if your dad likes me, as a person, you know, maybe age won't matter to him.
00:43:48Yeah.
00:43:53She's saying, give me a drink.
00:43:56Let's have a toast.
00:43:57Yes.
00:43:58To new beginnings.
00:44:00New beginnings.
00:44:01Yeah.
00:44:01Yeah, new beginnings.
00:44:02That's a good one.
00:44:06You mentioned before, have you been to a lot of orchards around this area?
00:44:10Yeah, Mila really likes coming to them.
00:44:14She loves feeding the animals.
00:44:16I'm a single mom.
00:44:17I have a four-year-old daughter.
00:44:19So, if I'm gonna be in a relationship with somebody, it's absolutely mandatory that they
00:44:24would have a good relationship with my daughter.
00:44:26I feel like he would be really good with kids.
00:44:29So, speaking of animals, if you were an animal, what kind of animal would you be?
00:44:35Um, I've always wanted to be like a cheetah, like running across the landscape, 70 miles an hour.
00:44:44You know, being a cheetah, um, it doesn't really make sense.
00:44:51He's more like a platypus.
00:44:57Do you want to go see the animals?
00:44:59Of course.
00:45:00Let's go.
00:45:01Let's go.
00:45:05Animal.
00:45:07Is this my bag of food?
00:45:09Oh, look at it.
00:45:10He's ready.
00:45:13That's good.
00:45:15Aw.
00:45:16My daughter would love feeding these guys.
00:45:20I would like to meet her.
00:45:22Mm-hmm.
00:45:23Yeah.
00:45:24That would be fun.
00:45:27You know, obviously, this is only our very first date.
00:45:31But to me, like the benefits of dating a younger woman like Lexi, I could have a baby with this
00:45:39person naturally.
00:45:41Oh, my God.
00:45:42I feel like a little kid again.
00:45:44And have the child that I've always wanted to have.
00:45:48Is this your first date in a corn maze?
00:45:51Yeah, it's the corniest date I've ever been on.
00:45:53I mean, look at it all.
00:45:56He made it.
00:45:58My divorce is in process now.
00:46:01And I feel free.
00:46:06Well, I had a lot of fun on our date today.
00:46:09I had a lot of fun, too.
00:46:11Yeah?
00:46:12Yeah, I would love to go on more dates with you.
00:46:20Well, goodbye.
00:46:22Goodbye.
00:46:24Wow, that was fast.
00:46:28Do I get one more quick one?
00:46:31Oh, my God.
00:46:33Maybe next time.
00:46:34Maybe next time?
00:46:35Yeah.
00:46:37Okay.
00:46:40I have a good feeling about Lexi.
00:46:43But if it doesn't work out, I'm okay.
00:46:46Because I know there's a woman out there for me.
00:46:50Thank you. Good night.
00:46:51Bye.
00:46:54Honestly, I'm hopeful for the future for the first time in a very long time.
00:47:03I got a kiss. Woo!
00:47:08I had an amazing time here with you.
00:47:11And I don't regret any of it.
00:47:13Like, what if I just push this amazing guy away?
00:47:17And, like, I lost my chance to have my forever.
00:47:21How are you feeling now?
00:47:22I mean, I guess I'll just come out and see it.
00:47:38I remember.
00:47:41It's a little bit bittersweet to be packing right now.
00:47:44Um, I've had some great highlights on this trip.
00:47:47But also, it's just so nice to be able to go home.
00:47:51But it's still you in my drinks.
00:47:55You that I see.
00:47:57You that kiss me up.
00:47:59You that drives me crazy.
00:48:02You that I want.
00:48:04You in my heart.
00:48:06You.
00:48:07Still like you.
00:48:16You.
00:48:18You.
00:48:19You.
00:48:21You.
00:48:22You.
00:48:25You.
00:48:32You.
00:48:39You.
00:48:42You.
00:48:44You.
00:48:46You.
00:48:47You.
00:48:48You.
00:48:48I'm mad at myself.
00:48:50I can't be hurting two people right now.
00:48:53It's just such a tricky situation to put myself in.
00:48:58Um...
00:48:58Okay.
00:48:59So...
00:49:01How are you feeling now?
00:49:05I have, like...
00:49:07Like, an anxious feeling in my stomach.
00:49:11Um...
00:49:13I don't know if it's just hot outside or I'm just...
00:49:16Like, just, uh, anxious.
00:49:19Uh, well, I mean, I guess I'll just come out and say it.
00:49:29Uh, I think you really just came into my life unexpectedly
00:49:33and we've had nothing but good times.
00:49:37But I feel like I need to be true to myself.
00:49:40And trying to pursue anything long-term,
00:49:43it's not in the cards for me.
00:49:48Okay.
00:49:50Well, I mean, what made you, I guess, decide that now?
00:49:59I think a lot of it does still have to do with, like, my sickness
00:50:03and everything that just scares me to, like,
00:50:05have to try to do that with someone who is long-distance.
00:50:09I don't want you to think that I led you on.
00:50:13And I'm really sorry if I hurt you in any way.
00:50:21It sucks.
00:50:28I mean, I understood from the beginning.
00:50:31And I kind of felt it couldn't end this way.
00:50:36And you and I just met.
00:50:39You have a lot more back home.
00:50:41You know, what am I right now?
00:50:42You know, I'm just a friend.
00:50:58As much as I do have feelings for Via, it's just way too complicated for me right now.
00:51:03I have a child.
00:51:05He has a child.
00:51:06We live on opposite sides of the country.
00:51:09And there are days when my sickness takes a toll on me.
00:51:12And I want someone who can be there by my side.
00:51:20I've fought really hard to make relationships in the past work.
00:51:23And, like, I don't have any more fight left in me, especially while being sick.
00:51:34Honestly, no hard feelings.
00:51:35Don't feel bad.
00:51:36You know, I don't want you to feel like any type of pity or anything.
00:51:41I had an amazing time here with you.
00:51:44And, like I said, I don't regret any of it.
00:51:51It's okay.
00:52:00I'm sorry.
00:52:01Don't be sorry.
00:52:03Don't be.
00:52:07There's nothing to be sorry about.
00:52:08You're such a good person.
00:52:13You just became a huge part of my life.
00:52:15And I don't think you understand how much you did help change me throughout this, so.
00:52:21I'm glad you're saying that, because I'll at least know that.
00:52:26And I appreciate you for that as well.
00:52:37I'm shocked.
00:52:38I felt we had something.
00:52:41Liz was a genuine person with me.
00:52:43And I fell in love with Liz.
00:52:48I think we could probably be something and work something out.
00:52:52Be together.
00:52:53Whatever.
00:52:56Yeah, it sucks.
00:52:58It does suck.
00:53:01You know, me and the girls are heading home, so.
00:53:05Gonna miss you?
00:53:05I know.
00:53:06I know I'm gonna miss you, for sure.
00:53:08Weird.
00:53:10So I'm leaving.
00:53:13We both know it's the end of the road.
00:53:17I'm leaving.
00:53:18Great.
00:53:20Yeah, we do.
00:53:20I'll help you take your stuff home.
00:53:22Yes, please.
00:53:24I'm gonna carry your purse.
00:53:25Are you gonna carry my purse?
00:53:28I'll carry your purse.
00:53:29Okay.
00:53:30I think my biggest fear is, like, going home and realizing that, like, our love wasn't just a love on
00:53:35vacation.
00:53:36That it could have been something more.
00:53:39Why is it that this one seems heavier than this one?
00:53:42I don't ask questions.
00:53:43I am a female.
00:53:46Like, what if I just push this amazing guy away and, like, I lost my chance to, like, have my
00:53:55forever.
00:53:57I'm just hoping that when I get home, I don't realize that I made one of the biggest mistakes of
00:54:02my life.
00:54:11I'd absolutely hate myself if I made the wrong decision.
00:54:16Alright.
00:54:17Let's get you home.
00:54:42Sorry.
00:54:42Give me a second.
00:54:44I have other children.
00:54:45I put up for adoption.
00:54:47Oh, wow.
00:54:48Please don't judge me.
00:54:49Okay?
00:54:51They're Jamal's full brother and full sister.
00:54:56I have a son, Larry.
00:54:58He found me through, like, one of those DNA websites.
00:55:01Yeah.
00:55:01And I had a daughter after that.
00:55:04Uh-huh.
00:55:06It's not like I was really irresponsible.
00:55:08I was with the same man for years.
00:55:11Yeah.
00:55:11And he was just not there.
00:55:13Yeah.
00:55:13You know, if I would have had somebody like you, it would have been a totally different story.
00:55:16But I didn't have that.
00:55:17I was by myself all the time.
00:55:19Yeah.
00:55:19You know?
00:55:19But it's, like, my past and it's my baggage.
00:55:22But when you said that yesterday...
00:55:23Can I have to say something?
00:55:24Don't use the word baggage.
00:55:27Just use the word, it's yesterday.
00:55:29It's your life.
00:55:29It's what happened.
00:55:31Not baggage.
00:55:33Baggage is a horrible word to use.
00:55:35It's just yesterday.
00:55:36Well, it was brought up yesterday.
00:55:38Yeah.
00:55:39And it was like, I just feel like this is who I am.
00:55:41And either you accept me for all of this or you don't.
00:55:44You know?
00:55:45It's just that simple.
00:55:46Yeah.
00:55:46I know it's a big deal to you.
00:55:48It's huge.
00:55:49Because you've gone through it all and you've lived it.
00:55:51Yeah.
00:55:52To me, it's not that much of a big deal.
00:55:55I couldn't do it on my own.
00:55:57I honestly couldn't do it on my own.
00:55:59I'm happy you told me.
00:56:01Well, I've got a past.
00:56:02Some people's past is different than other people's.
00:56:05But it's hard to talk about for me.
00:56:07Yeah.
00:56:07And now I feel like I can trust you and I can talk to you about it.
00:56:10You know?
00:56:10Yeah.
00:56:11I don't feel no different about Kim after what she's told me tonight.
00:56:15I'm not that sort of person.
00:56:17I don't judge people.
00:56:18I don't like people to judge me.
00:56:20She's had a past.
00:56:22We've all got a past.
00:56:24And all I'm concentrating on now is the future.
00:56:28You're OK?
00:56:29Are you sure?
00:56:29Yeah.
00:56:29Yeah, I'm fine.
00:56:30But I felt like if we're going to take this further, then I needed to tell you.
00:56:34I wasn't going to keep it.
00:56:35You're fine.
00:56:37We're good.
00:56:38We're good.
00:56:38Cheers.
00:56:39Cheers.
00:56:40Can I just down this now?
00:56:43I feel better, actually.
00:56:46Right now, I see this person in front of me.
00:56:48And I see someone that's really, really strong.
00:56:52Someone that's been through a lot in life.
00:56:54And they come out of it.
00:56:55And they're still breathing.
00:56:59That looks so good.
00:57:01You like juice on it?
00:57:03Yeah.
00:57:05I never thought that I would find somebody that would be so accepting
00:57:09of my past.
00:57:12And now I know that Wayne likes me and that he accepts me for who I am.
00:57:15All right.
00:57:16Let me try.
00:57:20Mmm.
00:57:21Oh.
00:57:22It's really good.
00:57:24I'm impressed.
00:57:24I'm going to take you home with me and my suitcase now.
00:57:26OK?
00:57:28He's just a wonderful, wonderful guy.
00:57:31And this is what I deserve.
00:57:32I've waited a long time for this.
00:57:34Oh, I hate the fact I have such an early flight tomorrow.
00:57:37I know.
00:57:38You know, you're welcome to stay here tonight.
00:57:40Uh-huh.
00:57:42I would.
00:57:43But I'm really tired and I do have an early flight.
00:57:45I think I'm emotionally tired too.
00:57:47Yeah, I get that.
00:57:48Is it OK?
00:57:49Do you mind taking me home?
00:57:50Yeah.
00:57:50Yeah, I'll give you a lift back.
00:57:51Are you sure?
00:57:52No problem at all.
00:57:52Are you sure?
00:57:53OK.
00:57:54Next trip.
00:57:57I wasn't really sure if Wayne and I were going to be intimate on this trip.
00:58:00I mean, I'm very attracted to him.
00:58:02But this just isn't the trip for that.
00:58:05We've talked about so much heavy stuff and established our relationship.
00:58:09But next time I come, look out, Mr. Wayne.
00:58:14You're such a gentleman.
00:58:15You put my jacket on for me.
00:58:18Is this what you do when you're dating someone?
00:58:21Are you just...
00:58:21Seeing someone.
00:58:22Seeing someone.
00:58:23My God.
00:58:24Is that the thing?
00:58:25We're seeing each other.
00:58:26OK, so I won't change my relationship status.
00:58:29Well, yeah, I will.
00:58:31I'm seeing someone.
00:58:33Hashtag, leave me alone.
00:58:34That sounds good.
00:58:36Like, all the qualities you have, I'm like, this is exactly what I've been looking for
00:58:40for so long.
00:58:42Tonight, me and Phillip are celebrating our three-month anniversary.
00:58:45The last three months has been very nice together.
00:58:47Now that Colt is out of our relationship, I think we should go to the next level of our relationship.
00:58:52No.
00:58:57No.
00:58:58Are all the stars aligning?
00:59:00Or is it all bad timing?
00:59:02Wish we were on the same page.
00:59:07A heart of gold inside me.
00:59:10Is there a silver lining?
00:59:13Or does it always send this to me?
00:59:15Oh, you all right, Jim?
00:59:17Yeah.
00:59:21You okay?
00:59:23You did something and I just want you to go along.
00:59:25Me too.
00:59:28Let's go.
00:59:29We always reach the end.
00:59:32Before we begin.
00:59:34And you're in over your head.
00:59:37He still doesn't respond?
00:59:39No.
00:59:40He's had time now.
00:59:41He's had space now.
00:59:42How it's like coming from, I want to be with you, I want everything for you, like, to
00:59:47I ghosting you, I ignoring you.
00:59:49Like, say something.
00:59:50If this hurt him that much, really he should be like, look, Sophie, this has really hurt
00:59:55me.
00:59:55Moving forward, I want us to be exclusive.
00:59:58Don't kiss anyone else.
00:59:59Yeah.
01:00:00Or he could be like, Sophie, that really hurt me.
01:00:02This isn't worth it to me.
01:00:04Walk away.
01:00:05At least say something, but he ain't just saying nothing.
01:00:07Yeah.
01:00:09You know, I would just continue being single, like I want to do anyway, so.
01:00:14I was honest with Pedro from the start about what I was ready for and my intentions.
01:00:19He's the one that chose to just not listen to me and make assumptions about our relationship.
01:00:23Let's go.
01:00:25But looking back, me even just coming to the DR, I could see why maybe that would give
01:00:30him the wrong impression.
01:00:31And, you know, if that's the case, I am sorry.
01:00:34Like, I never wanted to lead him on.
01:00:36If I could do things over, I probably wouldn't have come.
01:00:45Oh.
01:00:47Look at you, lovebirds.
01:00:50Lovebirds.
01:00:51Lovebirds.
01:00:51What's a lot in this expression in America?
01:00:55Well, cosa and I talked and, yeah, we're parting our ways.
01:01:02What?
01:01:03We're gonna be parting our ways.
01:01:10We're parting our ways.
01:01:12Wait.
01:01:12We're just gonna be friends.
01:01:15Yeah.
01:01:17We're just friends.
01:01:18Yeah.
01:01:19I mean, at least you have something good from the strip.
01:01:22You have a friend.
01:01:23Yeah.
01:01:29All right.
01:01:30Let's go.
01:01:31All right.
01:01:38Friends.
01:01:39OK.
01:01:41I'm going to miss you.
01:01:42You wish not, too.
01:01:46All right.
01:01:46Well.
01:01:47This is a good vibe.
01:01:50Hold on.
01:01:50Move up a little bit.
01:01:54What are you saying?
01:01:55Excuse me.
01:01:57You're good.
01:01:58I'm good.
01:01:58I'm good for those.
01:02:00You girls, be safe, OK?
01:02:02Bye.
01:02:03Bye.
01:02:03Bye.
01:02:09It's how you actually feel.
01:02:11It's just, like, hard because it's, like, we, like, you know, he developed feelings.
01:02:14And, like, he was really sad.
01:02:15Like, I...
01:02:16You're sad, too.
01:02:17I'm sad, too.
01:02:18But I guess I did get something out of this trip.
01:02:22Did you learn something from this trip?
01:02:26Not really.
01:02:28So, what are you going to do when you're back home?
01:02:30I think I'm going to just take some time that I need, still a bit for myself, to figure
01:02:35out what I actually want.
01:02:37But then I definitely want to try dating again.
01:02:41You want to take this ball with you?
01:02:43No.
01:02:44Does it remind you of Pedro?
01:02:45No.
01:02:47A right man is out there for you.
01:02:49And when it's the right time, he will find you.
01:02:52Now I know.
01:02:53If I see even a tiny red flag, goodbye.
01:02:56Block.
01:02:56Block.
01:02:58Who's picking you up from the airport?
01:03:00My dog.
01:03:01Oh.
01:03:02He will become a sign.
01:03:04Just be the only man, the only boy, that you should be excited for, for a little bit.
01:03:08Live your life, next ghost trip, no voice allowed.
01:03:15All right, we should have just did a trip.
01:03:17I don't want this for you.
01:03:31That's where we met that bar back there.
01:03:33That's where you originally met?
01:03:34I remember it was like, oh, hey, when I walked by,
01:03:37and then you were kind of like giving me the cold sugar.
01:03:39I was shy.
01:03:40I didn't have enough nerve to come and talk to you.
01:03:42But then after you left, I was kicking myself.
01:03:44I asked my friend Liz, the bartender, about you,
01:03:47and she said you come in on Fridays.
01:03:48So I went back on Fridays looking for you.
01:03:50For how long?
01:03:52Six months before you came back.
01:03:55Oh, wow.
01:03:55That's cute.
01:04:11Hello.
01:04:11How are you doing tonight?
01:04:12Good.
01:04:13Take a two, please.
01:04:14Perfect.
01:04:14Inside or out today?
01:04:15Let's do outside.
01:04:17Outside.
01:04:17You guys can follow me this way.
01:04:20Cole left Phillip's house about a week ago.
01:04:23I have no idea where he went.
01:04:25I blocked him.
01:04:26I don't know if he's in Canada with his mom,
01:04:28Brazil with Diana, Orlando with another girl.
01:04:31Who knows where he is in the world, honestly?
01:04:33And I don't really care.
01:04:35Hi, folks.
01:04:36Welcome in.
01:04:37Hi.
01:04:37How are we doing tonight?
01:04:38Good.
01:04:38How are you?
01:04:39Good, good.
01:04:39You guys want to put in any food at the moment?
01:04:41I think I'm going to do the charcuterie.
01:04:44I'm going to have the oysters.
01:04:46I'll get this for you guys.
01:04:49Tonight, me and Phillip are celebrating our three-month anniversary.
01:04:52This is our first date night since Colt left.
01:04:54And it's like, this is the first time I finally feel free in six months.
01:05:00You're so welcome.
01:05:02Do you notice a difference in the house now that Colt's gone?
01:05:06Yes.
01:05:07It's peaceful.
01:05:08I mean, he wasn't just serving us, though.
01:05:12He was just, like, in his room being, like, depressed or, like, fighting with Diana.
01:05:16But now it's just us.
01:05:18Yes.
01:05:18Oh, thank you.
01:05:20That looks so good.
01:05:21You guys enjoy.
01:05:23It's a little plate.
01:05:27Suck it.
01:05:29How was that?
01:05:30Good.
01:05:31What do they taste like?
01:05:32Oysters.
01:05:33Oh.
01:05:34Have you never tried an oyster before?
01:05:36I'm allergic to seafood.
01:05:38I didn't know you were allergic to seafood.
01:05:40We've only been together three months.
01:05:42What don't I know about you?
01:05:47My favorite sex position is missionary.
01:05:51Duh.
01:05:51I know that.
01:05:53The sex is great with Phillip.
01:05:56We do it every day.
01:05:57Like, no issues at all.
01:05:58No complaints.
01:05:59Compared to limp over there.
01:06:04Phillip is 66, but he gets easily aroused.
01:06:07Like, he doesn't take any pills.
01:06:09He's just good to go.
01:06:12He's active.
01:06:12He has a lot of energy.
01:06:15He drinks a lot of soda.
01:06:16Maybe, like, a 12-pack a day.
01:06:19Ah!
01:06:20So one thing I didn't know about you was I didn't realize you were so old.
01:06:25When you found out, did it bother you?
01:06:26When I first saw your birth year, I was, like, surprised.
01:06:30But, like, who you are as a person and, like, all the qualities you have,
01:06:34I'm like, this is exactly what I've been looking for for so long.
01:06:37That's good to hear.
01:06:38If we stay together long-term, I'll have more grandkids than my mom.
01:06:43Then you're going to, like, more because we're going to stay together.
01:06:48The last three months have been very nice together.
01:06:51Now that Colt is out of our relationship,
01:06:54I think we should go to the next level of our relationship.
01:07:00I love you.
01:07:01I want to be with you forever.
01:07:08No.
01:07:09Will you marry me?
01:07:10No.
01:07:12Is that a no or a yes?
01:07:14Yes.
01:07:15Yes.
01:07:15Babe.
01:07:18You're now my fiancé.
01:07:20Are you serious?
01:07:21I'm serious.
01:07:23Woo!
01:07:26Babe.
01:07:27I love it.
01:07:29Wow.
01:07:30I'm engaged!
01:07:33Cheers.
01:07:33Cheers.
01:07:34To us.
01:07:35To my fiancé.
01:07:37Woohoo!
01:07:38So, how quickly are we going to get married?
01:07:40Tomorrow?
01:07:42Babe.
01:07:42There's so much I need to plan.
01:07:44I'm, like, DJ, photographer, caterer, venue.
01:07:47I just want to enjoy the whole process.
01:07:49I don't want to feel, like, stressed.
01:07:50But I don't want to wait too long.
01:07:52We'll make it happen this year.
01:07:53Yeah.
01:07:55You're what I've been envisioning or, like, waiting for all these years.
01:07:59Like, I didn't want to settle with anybody else.
01:08:02Like, that's why I haven't been engaged or married.
01:08:04Oh, I'm going to cry.
01:08:08I've just waited so long to meet, like, a good man or me.
01:08:17Don't cry.
01:08:20Because, like, I picture my life.
01:08:22I'm like, am I ever going to get engaged?
01:08:24Am I ever going to get married?
01:08:25Am I ever going to find my person?
01:08:29You don't have to worry about it.
01:08:29Because I feel like I just kept going through heartbreak after heartbreak.
01:08:32And it's like...
01:08:34You don't have to worry about that anymore.
01:08:39Make sure my lashes don't fall off.
01:08:43What a crazy journey.
01:08:45It's been a chaotic six months.
01:08:47Like, I went to a singles retreat in Mexico.
01:08:50Colt broke his leg.
01:08:51He was living with me and my parents, sending jerk-off videos to other women.
01:08:55He goes to Brazil.
01:08:56He comes back to have surgery.
01:08:58I move him into my boyfriend's house.
01:09:00We kick him out.
01:09:00And then it's like, now I'm here.
01:09:03I think the universe finally rewarded me some good karma.
01:09:10Oh, you made me very happy tonight.
01:09:13Glad I can.
01:09:14Should we go home so I can make you happy?
01:09:16And see if the oysters have the effect that they say they do?
01:09:19What effect?
01:09:20Oh, that effect?
01:09:21That's my favorite.
01:09:24Glad you said yes.
01:09:25Because I believe we will have a happy future together.
01:09:28Babe, you're so corny.
01:09:30That's why you love me.
01:09:32Yes.
01:09:32I'm engaged!
01:09:43I love you.
01:09:45I love you too.
01:09:48Obviously, it would be nice to live with you.
01:09:50But to me, this is such a weird order of events.
01:09:54Buying a house together and you're not even making any sort of commitment towards marriage.
01:09:59Like, what am I doing here?
01:10:00It has to happen in my time when I feel comfortable.
01:10:12What to wear, what to wear?
01:10:19Even with all these clothes, I always feel like I have nothing to wear for the day.
01:10:23Some choices to start with.
01:10:26Right.
01:10:28So, this pull-up bar is used more for hanging the clothes than it is for actual exercise.
01:10:47So pretty.
01:10:51When Tony asked me to move in with him last month, I was so excited.
01:10:55Because it seemed like I was the one making all the first steps in this relationship.
01:10:59I was making all the first moves.
01:11:01And he finally asked me to do something, which feels amazing.
01:11:06Oh, it's Tony.
01:11:09Hey, baby.
01:11:10Hi.
01:11:11Hey, baby.
01:11:13Oh.
01:11:14You look good.
01:11:15I love this dress.
01:11:16But then, he changed his mind.
01:11:19Instead of me moving into his house, he wants us to start fresh and buy a new house together.
01:11:25Let's do this.
01:11:26So today, we're going to go take a look at a house that he found online.
01:11:32Thank you very much.
01:11:35I'm trying to keep an open mind, but buying a new home together is a much bigger deal than just
01:11:41me moving into his house.
01:11:43This is such a huge decision, you know, tying my finances with him when there's not even an engagement yet.
01:11:52So excited.
01:11:53The beach house had open house hours today, so I thought it would be a good way to be spontaneous
01:11:58and kind of really see what we're really looking at, like, in terms of the future and, you know, where
01:12:03we might end up and start fresh for us, you know?
01:12:08So I know that you asked me to, like, move in with you.
01:12:12What made you have a change of heart?
01:12:15You've been establishing your home for so long, and I have been the same way.
01:12:19And that was kind of more of a gesture saying that, hey, I think it's time for us to just
01:12:22really combine our lives together.
01:12:25And I think this is the best way to start is to look for something new, you know?
01:12:30Yeah.
01:12:33I think it's this one.
01:12:35Oh.
01:12:36All right.
01:12:37This is it.
01:12:39We are here.
01:12:40Are you ready?
01:12:43All right.
01:12:45This is going to be, oh, just getting out of this car is an adventure in itself.
01:12:50Yeah.
01:12:51What do you think?
01:12:52All right, let's take a look.
01:12:53Wow, it's pretty big.
01:12:55Yeah, it's definitely, uh, looks voluminous.
01:12:59Voluminous.
01:12:59Hey, Tony.
01:13:00Yeah.
01:13:01Oh, here we are.
01:13:02Oh.
01:13:02You must be Duane.
01:13:03Yeah.
01:13:04Nice to see you.
01:13:05Good to put a face to the name.
01:13:05Yeah, absolutely.
01:13:06Hi, Vanya.
01:13:07Nice to meet you.
01:13:08Nice to meet you as well.
01:13:09Come take a look.
01:13:10I love it, Vanya.
01:13:11It's all about ocean living, right?
01:13:12Ocean living.
01:13:14Oh my goodness.
01:13:17Look at this light.
01:13:20Incredible.
01:13:21Wow.
01:13:23Wow.
01:13:24Amazing.
01:13:26So let's just head upstairs.
01:13:27Wow.
01:13:28There's a lot of stairs.
01:13:29So no stair master needed.
01:13:32Whoa.
01:13:33Look at this double door situation.
01:13:35The master quarters.
01:13:36Yeah.
01:13:36Oh, wow.
01:13:38Oh.
01:13:40Oh.
01:13:41Bathroom.
01:13:42Oh my God.
01:13:44With the bathtub.
01:13:45Oh my God.
01:13:46Look at this bathroom.
01:13:48Soak it in, literally.
01:13:49Oh.
01:13:50Oh.
01:13:50Wow.
01:13:51Every room has an amazing view.
01:13:53What the heck?
01:13:53This is beautiful.
01:13:54This is gorgeous.
01:13:56Wow.
01:13:57What I really love is how bright this home is, how full of light it is, how spacious it is.
01:14:03Wow.
01:14:04Oh my God.
01:14:05This is incredible.
01:14:07The location is right on the beach.
01:14:09It is absolutely spectacular.
01:14:11This house was just meant for me.
01:14:13So I want to let you guys just go down the staircase, enjoy the beach, and then just let me
01:14:19know.
01:14:19Amazing.
01:14:20Thank you so much.
01:14:21I love that.
01:14:22However, looking at homes with Tony as just a boyfriend feels very weird to me.
01:14:28You know, this is something that you do at least as a fiance, if not a wife.
01:14:34We're putting the carriage before the horse.
01:14:37And I really don't understand what Tony's thinking.
01:14:42Oh, I love it.
01:14:43I love it.
01:14:44This is spectacular.
01:14:46Stunning.
01:14:47Stunning.
01:14:48I mean.
01:14:49So how did you experience the day?
01:14:52I mean, for me, the whole point of bringing you here was to kind of envision a house for us
01:14:57just that we can make things easier for us.
01:15:00I mean, I don't like commuting 45 minutes to work.
01:15:04You know, I want to have some place that we can call home and, you know, think about obviously saving
01:15:09time and spending more time together, you know?
01:15:12It just sounds like this is like a very practical decision for you.
01:15:17You know, it just sounds like you just want to save time.
01:15:20I'm not saying it's, um, it's just about that.
01:15:24You know, obviously, it would be nice to live with you.
01:15:27But to me, this is such a weird order of events, buying a house together without being engaged.
01:15:34I don't think I can do that. I'm totally not down with that.
01:15:39No, I don't want you to think that I'm not, in a sense, planning that or thinking about that because
01:15:45I am.
01:15:45But we just started dating six months ago.
01:15:47No, we haven't just started dating a few months ago.
01:15:50We've been friends in each other's lives for the last two years.
01:15:54And you're not even making any sort of, you know, commitment towards marriage.
01:15:59Like, what am I doing here?
01:16:00It has to happen in my time when I feel comfortable and I'm not ready for that step right now.
01:16:11Vanya is ready to be engaged.
01:16:14It's something I'm thinking about and I really am looking at her as the one.
01:16:19It's just I definitely need more time.
01:16:21And I thought house hunting may be an idea of trying to not distract her or sway her away from
01:16:26it, but to show her that we're serious.
01:16:28But now I'm seeing that this definitely backfired.
01:16:32You know, if you don't think it's time for us to get engaged, then it's not time for us to
01:16:35buy a house together.
01:16:36I mean, it's just simple as that. This is a huge financial commitment.
01:16:39And if you're not sure about if you want to marry me, then how are you sure that you want
01:16:44to share a home together?
01:16:45I never said that. I never said I wasn't sure.
01:16:48Obviously, you're not ready.
01:16:51Yeah.
01:16:53I definitely thought a proposal was right around the corner and my mind is blown to find out that it's
01:16:59not.
01:17:00I don't want to get this big house with you.
01:17:04Then you become complacent and then it never gets towards marriage because that would not be an acceptable scenario for
01:17:10me at all.
01:17:11I don't want a roommate. I want a husband.
01:17:15I want to marry Tony.
01:17:17It's all going to happen, but I just feel super pressured right now.
01:17:22This is just so frustrating.
01:17:25But as much as I love him, at 43 years old, I can't wait forever.
01:17:34I'm going to have to move on.
01:17:35When it all comes down.
01:17:39When we're about to drown.
01:17:43When you go down singing, put your visibly and breathe.
01:17:47Will you even make a sound when it all comes down.
01:18:08I'm going back to California, but of course Wayne is coming to say goodbye to me.
01:18:12I can't wait to see my little English muffin.
01:18:14I'm excited.
01:18:23I guess I'm his girlfriend now.
01:18:27I mean, it was weird.
01:18:28He texted me last night, hashtag girlfriend.
01:18:30I was like, wait a minute.
01:18:32That's not what she said before, but that's just the way he is, you know?
01:18:36There's so many good things that happened on this trip to England.
01:18:39The biggest top two things are I'm in a relationship and that I told him I passed and he accepted
01:18:46it.
01:18:53It's Wayne!
01:18:54Hello!
01:18:55You all right?
01:18:56Yeah, how are you?
01:18:57Not doing bad.
01:18:58No?
01:18:58Reception let me straight up.
01:18:59They recognize me.
01:19:00Oh, I did?
01:19:01Yeah.
01:19:01So you didn't have to come down the bed for this time?
01:19:02You're a frequent visitor.
01:19:03Have a seat.
01:19:04I'm just finishing packing.
01:19:05How's your packing going?
01:19:06Good.
01:19:06I think I have too much stuff.
01:19:08Well, I jump on your bed.
01:19:09You don't mind, do you?
01:19:10Oh, no.
01:19:11No, now you're on my bed.
01:19:11It's comfy.
01:19:12It is comfy.
01:19:13It makes a lot of noise, though.
01:19:14How do you know?
01:19:15Who else you had up in here?
01:19:16A nobody, but I sleep wild sometimes.
01:19:21Oh, done hand.
01:19:23I got it.
01:19:24So after, like, sleeping on it last night, I did kind of have, like, a little panic moment
01:19:28this morning.
01:19:29You don't feel any differently about us being in a relationship or anything?
01:19:33I'll be honest with you.
01:19:34I did think about it.
01:19:35Because obviously when someone tells you something and you have to process it.
01:19:38And, um, no, I don't feel no different.
01:19:41Okay.
01:19:42No different at all.
01:19:43I'm quite happy and proud that you trust me.
01:19:46But at the same time, I felt a little bit bad.
01:19:49I felt like I probably could have cuddled you or even held your hand.
01:19:54And, but I was listening.
01:19:56And I didn't want to take the focus off while you're talking to me.
01:19:59And I'm like that.
01:20:00I will listen and I will focus.
01:20:02But at the same time, it don't mean that I don't care.
01:20:04Yeah, I get it.
01:20:05I appreciate that.
01:20:06I figured it was just because you're English.
01:20:09Come here, though.
01:20:10I'll make up for it now.
01:20:11Oh, you're so sweet.
01:20:13You're so sweet.
01:20:16You're so sweet.
01:20:18I'm okay.
01:20:19Good.
01:20:21Who thought I would come to England and find the man of my dreams?
01:20:24Who would have thought that?
01:20:25No.
01:20:25Who would have thought that, seriously?
01:20:27I did.
01:20:27You did?
01:20:28Oh, you knew?
01:20:29Oh, you're conceited, too.
01:20:31You're such a smart ass, I swear.
01:20:32You know, I'm joking.
01:20:34Kim's leaving to go back home today.
01:20:35I feel quite sad.
01:20:37I'm going to miss a smile.
01:20:39I'm going to miss the laughter.
01:20:41I'm going to miss her being tactile.
01:20:43I'm going to miss the little touches that she's doing.
01:20:45I've got used to that in a, not a weird kind of way, in a nice kind of way that
01:20:49I like
01:20:49it.
01:20:50Give me this.
01:20:51All right.
01:20:52I'm going to get up and finish packing.
01:20:56Car's here.
01:20:57We got to go.
01:20:58I know.
01:20:59Let's go.
01:21:00Taking your sweet time, aren't you?
01:21:01I had a lot to do.
01:21:03Ready?
01:21:03On the way.
01:21:04Let's go.
01:21:05I couldn't be more proud of my mom for telling Wayne the truth about my brother and my sister.
01:21:10Her growth ever since I found about my brother has been incredible, and I've gained a lot
01:21:16more respect for her.
01:21:17Jamal?
01:21:18Huh?
01:21:18Oh, Wayne.
01:21:20See you later.
01:21:20Lovely meeting you.
01:21:21Oh, so nice to meet you.
01:21:22Really nice meeting you.
01:21:23Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:21:24Keep doing what you're doing.
01:21:25You're killing it.
01:21:25Yeah.
01:21:26Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:21:26She's really happy with you, so.
01:21:28Oh, thank you.
01:21:29Glad I got your approval.
01:21:30Yeah, man.
01:21:30Very safe.
01:21:31Yeah.
01:21:31All the best.
01:21:32Have a good one.
01:21:33Okay, we have to take one last picture over here.
01:21:36Oh, that light.
01:21:37It's too bright.
01:21:38Wait, this way.
01:21:38This way.
01:21:39There.
01:21:39There we go.
01:21:39That's perfect.
01:21:40Ready?
01:21:45Okay, that's cute.
01:21:47Come here, man.
01:21:47I'm going to miss you.
01:21:52I know.
01:21:52I'm going to miss you, too.
01:21:52I'm going to miss you.
01:21:54Thank you for being so amazing, honestly.
01:21:56Like, from the beginning of this trip to the end, you've just been amazing.
01:21:59Honestly.
01:22:00I don't want to miss you.
01:22:00I've absolutely loved it.
01:22:01Yeah.
01:22:01It's been a privilege.
01:22:02It's been a blessing.
01:22:03It's been a million years.
01:22:05Aw.
01:22:06I am definitely coming back to England very, very soon.
01:22:10Next time, I might be able to wake up in the morning with you.
01:22:12I know.
01:22:13There's that.
01:22:13If you let me.
01:22:14There's that.
01:22:15All right.
01:22:16But I have learned from past relationships not to go 100% balls to the wall.
01:22:22Oh, no.
01:22:23I'll be back, though.
01:22:23I'll be back very soon.
01:22:24With Wayne, I can take my time.
01:22:26We can get to know each other better, get more on an intimate level.
01:22:30And then if this is for me, then it's going to be for me.
01:22:34And if it's not, it's not.
01:22:35I'm always going to be okay.
01:22:37Hey, y'all are just so cute, but we have to go.
01:22:40Okay.
01:22:42Tell your kids I said bye to you.
01:22:43I will do.
01:22:44I'll tell you them, too.
01:22:45All right.
01:22:45All right.
01:22:46Let's go.
01:22:47I don't think anybody will ever understand how harshly I've judged myself, how I never
01:22:53thought I was really worthy of a really good love, and now that I'm there and I've lost
01:22:58all my weight, getting the teeth fixed next, and I have this wonderful man by my side and
01:23:03my sons with the hope of finding my daughter, life is pretty f***ing good.
01:23:15I'll be back in three months.
01:23:17See you later.
01:23:18See you, Wayne.
01:23:19Bye.
01:23:19See you.
01:23:20All right, bye-bye.
01:23:21See you.
01:23:30Next time on 90 Day, The Single Life Tell All.
01:23:34I'm Ross Matthews, and trust me when I tell you, I cannot be more excited to be with all
01:23:38of you tonight.
01:23:39I'm usually at home watching, too.
01:23:41I've got reason to be angry.
01:23:42I showed what a lying, cheating hoe you are.
01:23:44That ruined the whole trip.
01:23:49We're in territory I'm not prepared for.
01:23:53Liz.
01:23:54Why is your left hand so heavy?
01:23:56Ooh.
01:23:57I am engaged.
01:23:59Two.
01:24:00Um.
01:24:02Jasmine, come on out here.
01:24:04Hi.
01:24:05Oh.
01:24:06He's not happy to see me.
01:24:08Also welcome Gino's friend, Lexi.
01:24:12Gino's been very respectful to me.
01:24:14That's not the real Gino.
01:24:16You f***ing liar.
01:24:17Oh, there it goes.
01:24:19Lexi, run.
01:24:22Sophie and Pedro, have you seen each other since that vacation?
01:24:26Um, I feel this, this is the love all my life.
01:24:30Oh, f***.
01:24:31Pedro is a little bit naive.
01:24:34It's like you don't want him to be happy.
01:24:36Excuse me, Sophie.
01:24:37I am talking.
01:24:38Shut up.
01:24:39Courtney and Phil, you two broke up because of Colt.
01:24:43Yeah.
01:24:44No way.
01:24:46And in that time, Courtney, did you have any communication with Colt?
01:24:50Guilty.
01:24:52Guilty.
01:24:52And the plot thickens.
01:24:56Please welcome Vanya's boyfriend, Tony, and cousin, Cinella.
01:25:01I don't think she can count how many times she's on the floor crying.
01:25:05Sometimes my reactions are exaggerated.
01:25:08There shouldn't be any engagement talk.
01:25:11Whoa.
01:25:12He's my person, and I love you.
01:25:15I don't like the way they call treats the women around him.
01:25:18Who the f*** are you?
01:25:19Stop.
01:25:19You're a leech.
01:25:20I wouldn't respect a man that comes out here and attacks another man like a f***er.
01:25:26Wow.
01:25:27I'm sitting right here.
01:25:28Get up.
01:25:28What the f*** do you want to do?
01:25:30Oh, guys.
01:25:31You want to really do this?
01:25:32No, no, no, no, no.
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