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00:03Do you feel a bit rusty, Romance?
00:04Yes, very rustier.
00:06Definitely need a WD for our day.
00:09I need some help.
00:10It's hard out there.
00:12I am very single at the moment.
00:15I've run out of swipes.
00:16I've completed Tinder.
00:19In the heart of Britain's most romantic city.
00:22Aloha.
00:24Fred and his team.
00:25This is Captain Fur Potato.
00:27Are matching hopeful singletons.
00:29We're getting married, Merlin.
00:31In a place where love is always on the menu.
00:35I've got a bit in your finger.
00:36You didn't go that far down the strip.
00:40These daters.
00:41He probably thinks I'm having a poo or something.
00:43Are searching.
00:46For the one.
00:49Would you chase me around the bedroom?
00:50Absolutely.
00:51Get your coat.
00:52I'm in.
00:53For some, stepping into the unknown.
00:57Can lead to surprising sparks.
01:00I work in the adult industry.
01:02Do you have an office for that?
01:03I have a dungeon.
01:05But finding a connection.
01:07A love story is about to begin.
01:10Shut up.
01:11Isn't always easy.
01:13Please tell me you actually last longer than three minutes.
01:19Help me.
01:21In the end.
01:22Hi.
01:23It comes down to one.
01:25Nice to see you here.
01:26Big.
01:27Question.
01:29Would you guys like to see each other again?
01:31This isn't a total quiz, is it?
01:33This is The First Dates Restaurant.
01:44How are you?
01:45Terrified.
01:47Take a break.
01:48I think every single person that walks into our restaurant is nervous.
01:54You excited?
01:55You're shooting my pants.
01:56You have no idea who that person is.
01:59I'm so nervous.
02:00It's like high stakes gambling.
02:02Which is kind of exciting.
02:04And kind of nerve-wracking.
02:06Some of us are more confident than others.
02:09It's fine.
02:09Everything's fine.
02:11You can't give up on love.
02:13You owe it to yourself.
02:15And you've got to go for it.
02:19Hi, my name's Jack.
02:22Oh, this is sick.
02:24This is 23-year-old insurance salesman, Jack.
02:29Would you like to fall in love?
02:31Yeah, 100%.
02:31I like to fall in love.
02:33It's just taking its time.
02:35So what's your dating experience so far, though?
02:38I don't really do it, to be fair.
02:39In public, I will never make a move on a girl, I can't lie.
02:42Will you not?
02:42No, I'm just like a nervous wreck.
02:44And I'll be sitting there like, all right.
02:48I'm not the best, I can't lie.
02:51There's been girls, but it's never led to anything serious, basically.
02:54I struggle to find that emotional connection.
02:56It does get to me sometimes.
02:58What kind of girls do you like, Jack?
03:02Strong, independent, outgoing women.
03:03Right.
03:04I don't care if she's short, tall.
03:06I do like lips and eyes, though.
03:07Lips and eyes do attract me, I can't lie.
03:09Enjoy it.
03:10I'll come round and check on your new bit, OK?
03:11All righty.
03:12Do it.
03:12Shall I stand up?
03:15Oh, bro, I don't know.
03:20Hello.
03:2325-year-old Rochella works in communications,
03:26but can't seem to talk her way into a relationship.
03:30I have become the butt of the joke at the moment.
03:33I know that my friends love hearing about how bad my dates are,
03:36but it's getting to the point where it's like, this is just not funny anymore.
03:40You've got the biggest smile.
03:42Are you always like that?
03:42Are you just happy to see me?
03:43I'm just really happy to see you.
03:45Oh, that's very nice.
03:46Thanks, guys.
03:46Yeah.
03:48Oh, my days.
03:49So, have you been single for long?
03:50My whole life.
03:51I've never had a boyfriend, anything like that.
03:52Never had a boyfriend?
03:53No.
03:54It's not like I haven't dated or haven't had, like, a series of situationships,
03:58but that's not really what I want.
04:00I can't do another, like, Bumble match or Hinge match or Tinder.
04:04My, like, brain is just sick of them.
04:06I don't have the best luck.
04:08When I first meet people, I can be a bit shy and guarded,
04:10so I do think it takes me a little bit of time to warm up.
04:13Shall we go?
04:14Yeah.
04:14And on you go.
04:15Oh, here we go, here we go, here we go, here we go.
04:17Here we are.
04:18Hello.
04:19Hiya, nice to meet you.
04:19I'm Jack.
04:19Nice to meet you. I'm Rochella.
04:21Nice to meet you, Rochella.
04:22Oh, sorry.
04:23How are you?
04:23It's all good.
04:24I'm good.
04:24It's really hot in here.
04:25It is, isn't it?
04:26I was just thinking I might have to take this bad boy off.
04:29Hello, can I get you a drink?
04:30Can I get a mojito?
04:32Yeah, of course.
04:32Sorry, I should have asked what you were drinking.
04:34No, sorry, I'm on a non-alcoholic beers.
04:37OK.
04:38No fucking hell.
04:39I mean, I have, obviously, I'm a bit nervous,
04:41so I've had a little sip already.
04:42A little sip.
04:43No need to be nervous.
04:44Yeah.
04:48What do you do for work, then?
04:50I'm in communications.
04:51Oh, yeah, what's that about?
04:52Oh, everyone asks me that straight away,
04:54and I don't know how to give an answer,
04:55because it's literally everything, so...
04:57How about you? What do you do?
04:58Yeah, so I'm, um, I'm a salesman for life insurance.
05:02Oh, as in, like, death?
05:04Yeah.
05:05Sorry, that's the first thing I jump to, and I think...
05:07Yeah, that is literally what I'm chatting about all day.
05:09Yeah. Just, like, death, funerals.
05:11Oh, hello.
05:12How are you? I'm all good.
05:14How are you feeling?
05:14Yeah, I'm better now.
05:15Yeah, I'm all good now.
05:16Or is it a smile just making you feel relaxed?
05:19Yeah, it's a lovely smile.
05:20You can't complain.
05:20Yes, we've delivered, right?
05:22Yes, you have.
05:23Are you ready to go to your table?
05:24Yes, sir.
05:25OK.
05:25All righty, happy days.
05:27I love a timid man.
05:29I think it's really cute.
05:30I really do.
05:30I mean, I love a timid man,
05:32but I don't know if I would want to date a timid man.
05:34I would probably out-talk him in every aspect.
05:38Have you ever been to, like, a proper fancy restaurant like this?
05:41No.
05:42Mine either.
05:43It's got a big-ass ceiling.
05:45Yeah.
05:46Yeah.
05:50Good night.
05:52This is stable manager Louise.
05:55Having recently turned 60, she's on the hunt for unbridled romance.
06:00I've always really been into animals all my life.
06:04I had a horse when I was a teenager.
06:07When I was going through all my teenage angst,
06:10I just used to sit in my horse's stable,
06:12and I think that magnetic connection with animals
06:16has always remained with me.
06:18I just need to find a man that loves me
06:20as much as my horses do.
06:22Hello, Fred.
06:24How are you? I'm very good.
06:26You're looking so chic. It's like you're coming from Paris.
06:29Thank you. I come from a farm.
06:32Do you? I'm usually in wellies.
06:33So what, are your animals? Have you got land?
06:36Yeah, donkeys, Shetland ponies, horses, yeah.
06:39So you can't meet any farmers? Like a Jeremy Clarkson type?
06:42No, I can't seem to meet anyone.
06:45It's hard as you get older,
06:46because I think sometimes you forget
06:48that you are actually older yourself.
06:50When people turn up and they look very old,
06:54you feel like, oh, is that really my date?
06:57Have you been doing much dating or...?
06:59No, I've been having a break.
07:01Men broke my heart.
07:03Oh, okay. Hopefully not tonight.
07:04Definitely not tonight.
07:05I think my slogan for life
07:07is to be healthy, happy and horny.
07:10You're full of beans.
07:12Full of energy.
07:13Yeah, I am.
07:14This is good.
07:15I want a best friend with nice, kind, generous values.
07:20Shall I get you a little drink?
07:21Oh, yes, please.
07:22Could I have a glass of champagne?
07:24A glass of champagne?
07:24Yeah.
07:25I should have known.
07:25Yeah.
07:26Why did I ask?
07:28Someone that's got an adventurous side
07:31and energy to do stuff
07:33and has just got kind of a spirit about them.
07:37LAUGHTER
07:39White bow!
07:42Louise's date is former windsurfing British number one Simon.
07:46He's hoping to ride a new wave of love.
07:49I represent the Great Britain GPR team
07:52in 1988 Olympic Games in Seoul, Korea.
07:55The opening ceremony, closing ceremony,
07:57it was unbelievable.
07:58Just going through the tunnel
07:59and then suddenly the cheer,
08:00like, a couple of hundred thousand people in the crowd.
08:03I can still feel it on the back of my neck now.
08:05It's like, it gives me tingles.
08:07I'd love to have that feeling.
08:09In a relationship, Olympic level love,
08:11if not greater, gold medal love.
08:14How are you doing, sir?
08:14How are you? Nice to meet you.
08:16Congratulations to your daughter, by the way.
08:17Thank you very much.
08:18Yeah, because I was at 88 Games.
08:21Were you?
08:21What were you doing?
08:23I mean, surfing is such a cool sport.
08:26So is it difficult to find women being a surf man?
08:29Come on.
08:29I was married for a little while.
08:31Right.
08:31So it came out of that.
08:32Dating scenes changed quite dramatically.
08:35OK.
08:36So out of sync.
08:38I learned to find my person.
08:40I have not had that feeling in my life.
08:44I've come close.
08:45I thought I'd love somebody, but it was one-sided.
08:47I'll take you to your date.
08:48She's already here.
08:49Oh, OK.
08:50Sporty lady, too.
08:51Sporty lady.
08:52I want to find somebody for me, this equal.
08:54A partner in crime.
08:55A friend.
08:56Someone you can, like, enjoy life with.
08:59There she is.
09:01Hello.
09:02Hello.
09:02Hiya.
09:03Nice to meet you.
09:04Hi.
09:04Nice to meet you.
09:05I'm Louise.
09:06Hi.
09:07Thank you, Ali.
09:08This is the menu.
09:10Thank you very much.
09:11Enjoy.
09:11I appreciate it.
09:13I got you something.
09:15There you are.
09:16Oh, bless you.
09:18So you can remember it.
09:19I've actually got you something, too, but I left it on code.
09:23It's all right.
09:28And I actually haven't looked at the menu because I'm starving.
09:31Yeah, trust.
09:31I was just thinking that.
09:32We've been chatting, but we aren't actually letting.
09:35I didn't see that.
09:37I didn't see that.
09:37Of course you didn't.
09:38To see the table over there is the most nervous data I have ever seen in this restaurant.
09:45So this is going to be your table.
09:47Make sure you look after it.
09:48For sure.
09:49I'm kind of, like, drawn to the steak, but I don't know if I've ever had a steak in my
09:53life before.
09:54I mean, we can start it now.
09:55Okay.
09:56See you today.
09:56I'll get one as well.
09:58Hello, hello.
09:58Slide in here if that's all right.
10:00My pleasure.
10:01Do you want any recommendations at all?
10:03Do you need some time?
10:04I think we've decided on a steak.
10:06Okay.
10:06Great.
10:06We're going medium rare as well.
10:08Medium rare.
10:08Fantastic.
10:09I'm guessing you're not having wine.
10:11I'm okay so far.
10:12Yeah, great.
10:12If you change your mind, you let me know.
10:14Gorgeous.
10:15Thank you so much.
10:15Yeah, it's like, um, I don't drink anymore.
10:19Good for you.
10:20Do you smoke or something?
10:21Both kinds.
10:23Crack and cigarette.
10:24No, I'm joking.
10:25I've got my pipe right here.
10:29Yeah, nah.
10:29That's because, um, basically, a little trauma dump on you right now.
10:33That's good.
10:34Yeah.
10:34So, basically, I got diagnosed with epilepsy when I was 19.
10:38I went out with my mates.
10:40I had a pretty heavy sesh.
10:41And, yeah, I just drop.
10:43I was bail out.
10:45That's why I only drink this now.
10:47I'm sorry to hear that.
10:48Nah, that's calm.
10:49Yeah.
10:50After a pretty wild night out, I was just waiting for the bus the next day and I just...
10:55I dropped to the floor, basically.
10:58The thing is with epilepsy, it doesn't mean anything the first time.
11:01So, I thought nothing of it.
11:03And then I had another one after another night out.
11:05And then I got tested, basically, and I got diagnosed with it.
11:09It was pretty heartbreaking, to be honest.
11:11It was very sad.
11:12Because, obviously, I've got to take medication for the rest of my life now.
11:16And I used to be a really big drinker, socially.
11:19So, I've had to stop.
11:20That might be one of the reasons why I'm single as well, to be fair.
11:23I just can't make a move in public unless I'm plastered.
11:26So, that's kind of halted it.
11:29It was tough at the start.
11:30Yeah.
11:31Because it's just, like, denying it.
11:33But, like, now I've just come to terms with it, you know?
11:36Yeah.
11:36And I'm just chilling.
11:37Yeah.
11:38Yeah.
11:39You're a good looking guy.
11:40You've got a great sense of style.
11:42Yeah.
11:42What are you getting nervous about?
11:44I don't know.
11:44I think it's just, like, the fear of rejection and just, like,
11:48having to be in the bar or pub with that girl for the rest of the night.
11:51Knowing she said no.
11:52Like, that's just what runs through my mind.
11:54Do you do anything to, like, raise awareness or...?
11:56I posted on my Instagram.
11:58But that still takes a lot.
11:59Yeah.
12:00To do that, it's very...
12:01Yeah.
12:01Impressive.
12:03What's this?
12:04So, to start, we have a complimentary amuse boo.
12:06Amuse...
12:07What?
12:09It's a fancy word for starter.
12:10Cool.
12:11Thank you very much.
12:11Enjoy.
12:12Just eat it in one or...?
12:13Yeah, straight in.
12:13Okay.
12:16I'm just going to nab it in one, I reckon.
12:26It's gone the wrong way.
12:28It's gone the wrong way.
12:28Down the wrong hole.
12:41What are you doing, Molin?
12:43Toasting.
12:43I'm gonna set the whole house on fire it's actually going aphrodisiac in it
12:49oh yeah so that's exciting in there whoa that's quite spicy like me
12:57Louise thank you very much thank you how long have you been single way too long
13:06yeah work and that type of stuff and just takes a this toll on doing that I
13:11think I question my ability to actually choose the right person so hence the
13:15reason why I'm here you are hoping people would choose for you so how old are you
13:2158 oh god I'm not older than you I have turned 60 last year no way I know I had
13:30a
13:30real crisis about it as well because it feels so old and like I just thought I've
13:35not met anyone and then being single when you were 60 wasn't what I was
13:40imagining where my life was gonna be yeah sorry it gets emotional I thought
13:52that I was gonna end up being on my own for the rest of my life and I couldn't
13:58understand why I had never met the right person and I just felt like all these
14:07social pressures of being 60 that I should start thinking about retiring that
14:14I should downsize from living on a farm and you shrink as you get older and I
14:20wasn't ready to shrink now you've been married yeah I've been married but that
14:26was a long time ago 20 years ago since I was married yeah for some reason it all
14:32came crashing in last year and I had a little bit of a breakdown I started having
14:37panic attacks and anxiety I hadn't got in touch with my inner vulnerabilities and
14:43understood that I was missing having a partner because I've been on my own for
14:48years you miss the company the companionship I'm really happy I love my
14:54life and I've got lots of great friends and family yeah but be nice to do
14:59something with someone and be able to plan things and stuff yeah definitely yeah I
15:05want that this third act of my life to be the most exciting and and have a
15:10really great time and I want to share my life yesterday ting you're a new life
15:16new chapter yeah you look smart in your blue suit yeah this morning I woke up not
15:26feeling confident right and I do you ever do affirmations yeah I just affirmations
15:30I put this 15-minute affirmation on saying you are brilliant you are confident you
15:35are special you I all these things that by the end of the 15-minute thing I was like
15:40oh my god damn these things I was gonna do the exact same I have a habit well I have
15:49to eat chips in
15:50size order and in terms like smaller to bigger oh okay but it would be really insufferable to me
16:01everyone I've been on a date with is like when did you get diagnosed yeah what have your past
16:08relationships been like so my ex was four years ago now mm-hmm that was really it to be honest
16:14have you had any past relationships then I've never had a boyfriend before really yeah I think I
16:21missed like fun time for dating and I was thrown into it when it's like awful and shambolic yeah it
16:27is now and I just don't really enjoy it and I've never really met anyone that I want to be
16:31in a
16:31relationship I think I'm a very bottled up person and was really really really really shy as a kid
16:40I remember at school all the comments would be she doesn't talk to people I didn't really have many
16:46friends to hang out with so I would just always go to the library and just sit down and read
16:51books I
16:53never got that innocent kind of romance where someone fancies you in class as an adult here I
17:01never really got attention from guys it was always very negative so I'm like if anyone's giving me
17:08attention it must be for a bad reason or for a joke every time I'm on a date I'm just
17:14thinking
17:14what do they want from me rather than they want to be with me yeah I was like yeah I'm
17:21gonna throw
17:21myself out there I'm gonna date and then I'll be out there for like a minute and like I don't
17:26want to be here anymore it's not fun just like sucks I feel like I'm a very trusting person so
17:33I
17:33don't want to just go to someone and be giving them all this love and affection and then have it
17:38thrown back in my face I don't want to be hurt basically and I think I'm very guarded
17:44damn your first ever steak hmm see I have to leave that for last but now what you eat it
17:49in order
17:50yeah in order you eat your chips first well I save my chips for the end the meat is like
17:57if I'm an
17:57animal in the world I'd want to save that oh love that this is Scott hey costumier to the stars
18:13he loves a bit of dress up himself in his spare time he becomes the drag diva castor hex she
18:24is my
18:25gay suit of armor she is my stronger heart she's a time-traveling immortal sorceress who could snap
18:33her fingers and set someone on fire whereas me see how this goes I'm quite soft-looking I'm quite
18:46unassuming I'm not physically very strong or powerful that's so stupid how are you not bad
18:54comment allez-vous very good nice to meet you Scott you too tell me what you do for a living
18:58I work in costume for film and TV actually oh dear when I was little like I would draw dresses
19:04a bit of a nerd really yeah yeah so when was the last time you were in a relationship
19:08a couple of years ago it wasn't long summer fling kind of so why do you think you're sick of
19:16that's
19:17the million dollar question I think on paper I'm a catch I have a good job I love to cook
19:22I'm very doting there's lots about me that I think is great quite long that coat no worries thank
19:28you much I do want marriage and I would like kids that whole fairy tale why wouldn't you want to
19:37find
19:37magic and enchantment I said hello in Albanian Scott's magically enchanting date is hot linguist George I'm a bit wild
20:03I would describe myself as a fire
20:08you have to be able to handle the heat can I just say this is the most runway walk are
20:15you always
20:15walking like that like you're on a runway maybe maybe you're looking fabulous give me a twirl
20:21wow that class are you excited yeah I come across as very loud and outgoing and out there and and
20:31I'll
20:31talk to anyone I'm very sociable but when it comes to boys that is very much not the case
20:36what have I left to myself in my father
20:40I've not always felt super super confident in how I look I remember moving to Clapham and I was like
20:47wow I
20:47actually just look like a potato compared to all of other these men
20:50your date is here oh my gosh let's let's do it let's do it keep walking keep doing the runway
20:56walk
20:57I'll let you make your way hi hi are you right I'm good thanks how are you George lovely to
21:02meet you
21:02your hug person hello right I'm good I'm good I'm good sorry what was your name again George George
21:12sorry that's all good Scott this is wild yeah it is a bit wild oh my gosh so yeah um
21:23how are you
21:25I'm good I'm I'm good I've been I've had a great day a lovely lovely morning yeah nice nice what
21:32do
21:32you like do for fun like have you got hobbies I love to learn languages what ones so I speak
21:41English French Norwegian Spanish Serbian Albanian Italian German did I say German yeah I know Finnish
22:01Hungarian Hindi and learning Japanese to go to Japan that's fast that's so cool you're a polyglot
22:10I think that's the word I guess so that's so cool how is it going you're right yeah I'm good
22:20thank
22:21you how's your date a little bit of a connection oh we can laugh good luck yeah that's all you
22:25want in a
22:26relationship really no yeah yeah it's a really nice guy I'm not sure about the chemistry though like I
22:33really would love it to be good chemistry oh that's such a shame I know but I'm gonna work on
22:39it
22:39because he's a really lovely person I really like him and we're getting on really well
22:44anyway our best again bye
22:49hey loves I have a little surprise for you on me got a cheesecake to share thank you so much
22:54yeah I'll let you go first then no I'll let you go first we'll go at the same time get
22:59right into it
23:03we were just vibing the whole time which I really enjoyed personally lots of laughs going on yeah
23:09I'd say I'm fancier yeah I don't know I don't know I mean we were chatting loads but does that
23:16translate into ratings or not have we discussed what we'd like to do with the build I mean we don't
23:23need to anyway no no no genuinely that's fine don't let any of that machine would you like to
23:33see each other again I'd say ladies first rock paper scissors is it fantastic perfect thank you
23:39thank you very much thank you rock paper scissors shoot it's best of free time flies when you're
23:47having fun exactly yeah yeah I'm down to see you again yeah happy days all right let's get out of
23:56here it was all 10 tens around for me yeah have a good evening yeah you bounced off me very
24:05well yeah
24:05and didn't get too weirded out you rolled with it really nicely yeah you're just like a really
24:10interesting person yeah oh thank you I can't take it back I'd say I'll fancier yeah that's yum yeah
24:19all righty yeah happy days hey pickle Korean fried chicken yes thanks sir you got some champagne
24:30there's lots to celebrate yeah 100% breathing yeah so you've been busy oh yeah I'm always busy yeah
24:39well I live on a farm so I have horses and stuff yeah really yeah have you ever ridden a
24:44horse yeah
24:45when I was younger did you yeah but my passing sport was windsurfing what professionally what's it
24:51cool you went to the Olympic Games did you my club that's so impressive I was sailing a lot when
25:01I was
25:01younger watched the games 84 saw the windsurfing like that self-taught and then went to the games in
25:0888 that is a big achievement many moon ago now yeah growing up I had a bit of a broken
25:14family in school
25:16bullying and that type of stuff I was put on like closed hooks punched as soon as I finished school
25:23when sailing windsurfing put my fear and anguish into sport as soon as I came out of school just
25:31jumped on a board and freaked around yeah bullying nearly broke me on a lot of aspects but it made
25:38me
25:38who I am and that's something that I am proud of what about yourself I've always been a bit sporty
25:45in
25:45like I've always been horsey and I like I can see that you've got bigger guns than me
25:50like I can't say that
25:55I'm like very toned flies from my house always riding
26:16it's great chemistry the eye connection they ends up looking at each other I know and the way that they're
26:21sitting forwards yes like it's like they're
26:24leaning they're interested in each other yeah yeah Corsa I think it's gonna go well
26:28so do I yeah you got nice eyes
26:31did you I was just thinking exactly the same thing yeah it's my guy liner
26:41you have great eyes thank you so much
26:46that language thing is honestly so bewitching to me I love this vote of confidence I love languages
26:51I do dip into Latin that's really cool did you do that in school no mate I'm in Essex okay
26:59not like
27:00glamour Essex I'm from like slightly backwards homophobic kind of Essex being gay where I'm from
27:10really wasn't great it's a little town and it's a retirement destination so there's some older
27:18values which are not the fun kind of older values little anecdote I wore like a soft gray pink jumper
27:25and the F slur got yelled at me from across the street as much as you like to think you're
27:32rock solid
27:32it does chip away at you so I think I'd develop a bit of an icy prickliness maybe that's why
27:38I'm single
27:38I don't know where are you based normally um so I live in Clapham oh nice I've been there I've
27:46been
27:46I've been there a fair bit on a Clapham night out I've performed that one oh my god yeah I
27:54do drag
27:55well that's like my side career kind of thing I suppose as Scott I don't feel like I fit in
28:03with
28:03the world at large really but when you put on that inch of makeup and that wig and you tie
28:09the
28:09strings on that corset it transforms you in a way that you feel stronger what is your what's your drag
28:16name castahex castahex oh my gosh you're kind of like really witchy my character is kind of yeah
28:22witchy historical oh cool yeah so this is what I did last year a lot of pink butterflies fun that's
28:31supposed to be poison I don't know if it's like the best I feel like my style is a bit
28:34wild it's
28:35important that someone has like substance a bit of ambition yeah I find ambition quite sexy
28:47what's the craziest thing you've done I've only died 11 times 11 time car boats planes gosh I've
28:57done stupid things a few yeah surfed on top of a roof holding onto a board strap doing 70 mile
29:03an
29:04hour on a one of those buses dopamine jumping I thought windsurfing was on the sea yeah we have
29:10to get to events oh my god you sound like James Bond I haven't had a date like that with
29:17anyone
29:19not that I can actually remember she is a stunning lady how would you like to pay there you go
29:25he's
29:25being a gentleman I offered I did offer thank you very much there's a chance of having a second date
29:31on a scale of one to ten I'd hope it'd be a nine ten I'm hoping I read the room
29:37right
29:42I'll let the lady go first I've had the best date and I did and I don't think I've met
29:51anyone
29:51as warm and interesting as you for a really long time I don't know yet I felt really safe and
29:59like
29:59in a really good space with you so yeah I'm gonna do a selfie with you go this way right
30:08I have to get my
30:08camera I felt the same I'd like to see you again even if it's just like having a friends and
30:14then see
30:14how it goes let's do that let's see each other's friends and see where it goes I like the way
30:23that
30:23you dress the carry yourself the hair the way that you look after yourself oh thanks you won't think so
30:37I can't believe I'm actually sitting here part-time DJ Priscilla is looking for a plus one who can keep
30:48up with
30:48her on the dance floor oh god I could start a party in a peg bag come on paper bag
30:55let's start it off
30:58how are you nice to meet you I never met anybody called Priscilla well there you go
31:03my autograph yes I love that name what's your motto in life grab life by the short and curlies
31:10what do you mean you're short and curlies come with me I've always loved love I never is going to
31:20be
31:20somebody out there for me I mean what there's six billion is it in the world and you know there's
31:25going to be somebody out there how are you I'm good thank you how are you I'm very well you've
31:30got
31:31some interesting necklaces going on here so yes I've got rose quartz so that's that's crystal of
31:37that oh is it the crystal ball yeah love for me feels warm it's that warm comfortable feeling
31:45that safe feeling I'm here to find my forever man he needs to be ready for the party from the
31:53off maybe even before the off actually looking to dance his way into Priscilla's heart is 50 year
32:06old Raj I'm father of three so you could say I'm a fun dad or funjabi whatever you want to
32:14call it
32:17yeah I grew up in the East End watching Only Fools and Horses it's it's my happy place I love
32:25all
32:25of them young like lovely jubbly kush the morons too morons too bonnet the douche and all that
32:32how are you how you doing I'm fine how are you yeah very good I was dating for you it's
32:37been stop
32:38start so I'm trying to get the momentum going in and I thought this would be a great way to
32:44start
32:44let's see how it goes I've been single probably coming up to about two and a bit years being in
32:51a
32:51relationship for I think it's 13 years so you're at the game for so long I think I've got a
32:55pretty
32:56established situation now and I I think I'm I'm a pretty decent version of myself that I can now
33:02put out there as it were shall I take you to go and meet her yes please come on thank
33:08you I guess
33:09I have that typeways beautiful eyes and smile but for me it comes down to having a good heart
33:25thank you thank you thank you thank you very much you look lovely thank you very much
33:35so how are you feeling I think I'm okay I think I've got more nervous meeting Fred
33:47hello how are you guys I'm good I'm good how are you very well thank you are you coming to
33:51take
33:51order I've come to do everything have you can you sing and dance for me then as well oh wow
33:56we do it together I'll follow you let's do it what's your normal go-to song strumming my pain with
34:02his fingers one time oh sorry hello you okay when I was studying abroad I met loads of people from
34:18like from this like the Balkan region okay okay and I got really really into the pop music from this
34:24region okay it's like a mixture of like Middle Eastern River rhythms like Eurodance and gangster
34:30rap that's really funny I also weirdly am obsessed with Eminem me and my brother used to do the ramps
34:36when we were young I love that but I've not asked you what your star sign is Taurus what are
34:41you
34:41Aquarius Aquarius okay that works as long as you're not on Aries that's I always like the problem sign
34:48for you oh you always struggle with an Aries for me it's Gemini that's my there has been some some
34:56two-faced bitches some pretty interesting Gemini men in my life okay not being clear about their feelings
35:04or like just being a bit weird just bad vibes in a group of friends there was a boy there
35:13was chemistry
35:15I really wanted the excitement like the things that you see in films it's like budding romance
35:21and I was like oh my gosh this is what it's like this is what it's like and it feels
35:24amazing
35:26he kept sort of like giving me just enough and then someone else came on the scene and then he
35:33started paying them a bit more attention
35:37I'm so over that like game playing it's not yeah
35:43we were out ice skating and it's really romantic there's loads of like fairy lights and stuff
35:50and they were like skating together having their film moment
36:11like the phrase men are trash is it's there for a reason isn't it
36:18yeah I've shut myself off and I think now I'm ready to sort of open myself up again
36:26and put myself out there how do you say men and men are trash in serbian
36:38that gave me like Eastern European mafia vibes that's in the best way that's very
36:52thank you so much
36:55so what do you do it's a boring profession I'm a qualified accountant so I don't know how to make
37:00it sound any more interesting without you falling in your coffee you know gosh about me then I've had
37:05the corporate side of things um but I'm also part-time DJ yeah no we just took a left turn
37:14somewhere
37:15how did you navigate there once like two ends of the spectrum right so I'm 54 now when I was
37:2137 I
37:22had heart attack oh damn I'd gone to bed and then all of a sudden I felt like an ache
37:30in my head I
37:32felt this wave of heat rush all the way through me as well and I was thinking this doesn't feel
37:36right
37:37so I went to the hospital my left artery was a hundred percent blocked they couldn't believe that I'd survived
37:47for me it's like homing in on the silver lining rather than focusing on that cloud I'll get you
37:54yeah yeah for me that was my second chance at life I went through a huge healing journey I then
38:03learned to
38:04re-love myself again if you've come through anything you've survived for a reason and that's to live live
38:12your life and to love and to love yeah so yeah it's um I've got quite sort of a few
38:23facets to me if
38:24that makes sense so what do you want any music or 80s but the kind of like the the disco
38:3180s if that
38:31makes sense you know I love having a good time if there was some sort of like soul Motown disco
38:37that
38:38was happening down the road you know I'll be there that's not me I know what I like and if
38:46I go if
38:46I'm in a venue where I'm not feeling that music I'm not not me that's feel nice oh yeah yeah
39:01are you
39:03a cauliflower fan I do love cauliflower actually you want to try a bit yes please it's good thank you
39:10so
39:11much it's good how's everything going with the food dishes I'm struggling with this it just feels
39:16really chewy and and it was not really warm I'm only here because I'm hungry so I can stop it
39:23for
39:23maybe it's more piece of chicken or something absolutely thank you thank you thanks problem
39:29is it came cold but again I gotta eat it I'm starving can I please have one look like Korean
39:37fried chicken
39:38starter thank you so much what is it that you look for I'm trying
39:46to get into a relationship now I'm a romantic right so I really want to be settled down you're
39:52an Aries then aren't you yeah I'm by a sign yeah okay I'm more guarded I'm not gonna be oh
39:59please
39:59marry me like that it's very I'm gonna be more do you crush yourself as a slow burner then I
40:05wasn't
40:05used to be like that but I I'm more conscious that I am now growing up watching Bollywood romance
40:12those type of movies growing up and how they um kind of woo the lady there that never goes away
40:20how's the chicken much better you do eat chilies as well then my tolerance is not as good I want
40:28someone who's not given up on life like I'm 50 and I don't feel 50 I need someone who has
40:33the energy
40:34someone who can do a bit banter with me for me it's like the flavor after that you're just eating
40:39hot
40:40stuff with no flavor yeah and then if I haven't put any toilet roll in the freezer the next day
40:44I'm
40:45finished I'm doing handstands in the shower I would cheers you but in the Balkans it's unlucky to
40:56cheers with an empty glass like it's bad luck to give a purse without a coin in it you can't
41:01step over
41:02someone's legs or like you can't like you can't sit like naked on the bathroom floor or you can't have
41:07like a one of these like wild superstitions I love it and like the ladder thing don't go under ladders
41:13that's just common sense they've got paint up there so I mean oh my you're not gonna believe
41:23this so a new opportunity will present itself be ready to seize it mine says a love story is about
41:35to begin shut up I think it went okay I think I'm not 100% sure yet however when I
41:50opened my fortune
41:51cookie I couldn't believe what it said and then when his said a love story is about to begin I'm
41:57very
41:57much believing kind of like messages from the universe and I'm like thinking well maybe I shouldn't really
42:03completely write it off how's it going you're okay how would you like to play we don't just split
42:08or pee in full I'll pick it's a gentleman it's all right he is very much so thank you very
42:15much
42:24would you guys like to see each other again I'm gonna say I've met a fantastic human being and a
42:31fantastic inspiring story but romantically I can't see seeing you as a romantic ongoing situation for me
42:40I completely agree with what you're saying about the romantic spark not initially being there however
42:49I was willing to go on a second date just to see outside of all of this just to see
42:56if there was
42:57something untapped here I just feel like you would run towards karaoke and that kind of music and I'm
43:03not really that's not my go-to is what it is but do you know what it's been a really
43:08lovely evening
43:08oh yeah what I want thank you no thank you all the best all right okay see you later bye
43:15is there a karaoke song you can think of that describes this I will survive hey
43:39that's the worst isn't it choking a bunch of ice blocks just like the end of Titanic I've never seen
43:51I don't understand I don't know I don't know why I've never seen it I just don't show how many
43:57drag
43:57queens have performed that terrible off-key like recorded version of my heart will go on I know
44:02how many people have done that bloody love that stupid recorders so funny I've had fun it helps that
44:12you have great eyes thank you so much they're very expressive could be in silent movies maybe I
44:18was in a past all of them would you like to see something again yeah I mean if it works
44:30it works
44:31yeah yeah it was fun I had a lot of fun how do you want to handle this I don't
44:38mind getting this
44:38one that's very kind of you thank you it's all good it's been five years or so since I've been
44:45on a date with somebody I think sort of I was super nervous I was really like quite scared to
44:53put
44:53myself out there and thank you for creating like a wonderful space and making me feel like really at
44:59ease it was really nice oh that's really sweet oh great shoes by the way thank you I felt very
45:05not
45:05judged which is very important to me I'm glad so genuinely I really appreciate that you're
45:09you're welcome thanks
45:13now would probably be a good little time for a quick picky yes
45:24I don't hate that
45:29you've got shiny eyes what does that mean that's what I like in a woman
45:44I've decided where of the next day it's going to be already where um this little like cake shop
45:50in London I love a cake
46:03and I definitely wouldn't like to take your horse ride in
46:06I'd like to take a horse ride in definitely
46:09what you'd be a pony for me to start off
46:11I've got a shit then
46:13you don't need money don't take fame don't need no credit card
46:22thank you
46:23thank you
46:38so
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