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00:00music
00:04music
00:05music
00:06Good evening?
00:07This boy looks dangerous
00:09Hey Wales, how are you and be careful?
00:11How are you doing?
00:12Who here has a problem with friends betraying each other?
00:17And that's exactly what made us think
00:20In the idea of a friendly application
00:21A friend of the application helps you that you
00:23Buy your friend based on specifications
00:25Exactly what you need
00:27I want a player, I want a respectable man
00:28I want a good guy
00:31Because our motto is "He who has no friend"
00:33A friend buys it for him
00:34Can you tell us the size of your market and who your competitors are?
00:37Competitors are true friends
00:39And these countries are finished in the market.
00:40Everyone is busy, no one wants to go out
00:42According to the research we conducted, Ohio is very empty.
00:45International Stop Time
00:46Be careful, because Zamalek wasn't playing at that time either.
00:48This is a very clever and excellent idea, and we've needed it for a long time.
00:57All you have to do is log in to the application.
00:58Write down the specifications of your dream girlfriend
01:00We'll send you a well-trained employee who can be your good friend.
01:03And the return of the bites
01:05Can I know how much Revenue earns you per year?
01:07I'm asking you, how much do you earn at your company?
01:09Oh sir, we're just trying to make a living, sir.
01:11I'd like to know what you're making a living from.
01:13No, the numbers aren't important at all.
01:15Opportunity is important, especially in our market share.
01:18We invite you, whales, to be part of our dream.
01:22Can I know what this is for?
01:23Our stock is 45 million Egyptian pounds.
01:25In exchange for five percent of the company
01:27any?
01:28On what basis did you do what you did?
01:32It's normal, Adam, that's right
01:33We are in business
01:34I made this the over and the caterer
01:36I'm sorry, I just wanted to clarify. I said 45 million.
01:3945 million again?
01:41No, you've gone too far now.
01:42No, no, no, no, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, forget it. I came to listen to you, the waffles.
01:48Okay, I have a deco over
01:49It will give you all the money you want in exchange for 98% of the company.
01:53I agree with you on the offer
01:54That's a strong offer. If I were you, I'd take the advantage.
01:56Honestly, very
01:58Be careful, you'll be describing much more than that.
02:00If you're afraid of the administration's rights, then don't comment on our posts.
02:03Be aware that you will need to leave your job.
02:04Neglect your studies
02:05Leave your family
02:07I pray for you
02:08To make sure you're dedicated to the project
02:10I'm sorry
02:11Can I hear the overs now?
02:13No, look, I think your idea is a trick.
02:15Yes, I see that we really need this idea right now.
02:19Yes, that Egyptian friend is loyal by nature.
02:22So we will have this good protection.
02:25Honestly, you're delusional. Oh, I loved you and I loved your work.
02:29Yes, but I'm strong.
02:31I knew I wasn't going to buy anything.
02:34Okay, congratulations on your offer.
02:37I haven't agreed yet
02:38Oh, and then I still have my lifelong friend and partner.
02:41By 30%
02:42No, you'll betray him and the woman, and she'll be the app's first customer.
02:51Tariff or no tariff
02:52But I would
02:53Here, I just want to make it seem like this is my real friend.
02:57This is a lifetime of living
02:58Congratulations to the company
03:00Congratulations!
03:04May God bless you
03:12Here, like the viewers, peace and blessings be upon you first, welcome to a new episode of the Al-Daheeh program.
03:15In the late 1960s, Robert Gore created the Gortex
03:17This is a company he started in the basement of his house with a small number of people.
03:20And then, one day, the next year, the company grew and became a large factory.
03:24But one day, George fears the factory and finds the surrounding environment different.
03:28This isn't the dream I was having.
03:29These aren't the beginnings
03:30In the basement, the team was small and they knew each other.
03:32They understand each other, their hearts are with each other, they help each other without words.
03:34Friends, not workers
03:36Let's go together and give you what you want, Muhammad.
03:37Our friend has entered the factory now, unlike the old experience.
03:41He didn't see this emotional state
03:42The number of employees is so large that I don't even know most of them anymore.
03:45The workload has started to decrease
03:46Because there was still a Picarite employee
03:48An employee who lived the company's dream without knowing how it started
03:50And those around him don't represent anything to him.
03:52Just a place where he works next to it, my dear
03:55Gore will make a decision that he will change
03:56A unique case in sociology
03:58The number of workers in the factory will not exceed one hundred and fifty
04:00We now want more employees to build for them.
04:02A new factory, but only one factory
04:04The number will not exceed one hundred and fifty
04:06And what's with the "one hundred and fifty" nonsense? That was just talk.
04:08It's based on a specific study, and it doesn't react at 150.
04:11He tells you that this statement is based on
04:12Studying the world of Robin Dombar
04:14It says in it that man is capable of creating
04:18Limited number of humans
04:19It does not exceed one hundred and fifty
04:20Or what is now known as Berkhm Dombar
04:22Okay, Mr. Dombar, this is Abu Hamid, choose this number.
04:24Is there a specific study that supports it, or was it also interacting with it?
04:27We want to kill the brother of the person who conducted the study.
04:28The man traced the story of man before he became a son of polytheism.
04:30From the first group he lived in to be born
04:32Tribal or military attire
04:34The ancient villages of the Middle East are traced back to Kaban
04:36From over 6000 years ago
04:37Up to the English villages in the 18th century
04:39The man, Azizi, is a master of religions.
04:42Communities and villages
04:44Armies and anything with more than two members
04:47Remember it, my dear, even in the agricultural sector.
04:48I saw him carrying her
04:50And not so that these groups can
04:51It must be Maxima, with 150 people remaining.
04:55There are studies that support this statement.
04:56A study tells you that even if you book your wedding
04:58In the hall of squawking, you will get a Dunbar number.
05:01Al-Ahsa, my dear, tells us that the average
05:02The number of guests at the wedding was 148 people.
05:05Dunbar concluded that this clock
05:07Our minds are based on what we have studied.
05:08Social systems in primates
05:10The primate found that all the animal's brain
05:12The larger the social groups, the greater the
05:14Bigger than this is the owner of the brain.
05:16What's wrong with someone who isn't a fool?
05:17Are you talking to me, Abu Ahmad?
05:20Humanity is precious.
05:21I am a dear friend of people's cognitive limits
05:28For example, the 150 countries are the friends they have with them.
05:30Numbers of the sea and countries that will be invited after the wedding
05:32The circle is a little closer to you
05:33You won't exceed fifty, those are good friends.
05:35Countries that come to the football field barrier and show off with you in a wedding procession
05:38They were afraid and made noises, but
05:39After that, my dear, you go to fifteen
05:43Best Friends
05:45International, my dear, with whom you spend the good time
05:47The gang countries, or rather, some of them are part of the gang.
05:49The coffee shop crowd is the one that gets around.
05:58They should support you when the world is fair to you.
06:01The builder is not
06:02What do you prefer, my dear? (This is a nonsensical string of characters.)
06:04Until you reach almost one close friend
06:07Basana, Abu Hamil, I don't have that many people.
06:09Okay, my friend, we're talking about the maximum limit here.
06:11Maximum
06:12Your brain can't handle more than five close friends
06:15Even if someone new gets promoted, she won't be the close friend.
06:17So, as you say, he needs to be pushed behind him.
06:19If you are truly trustworthy
06:20But my dear, that's what people are saying in this field.
06:23These girls have ten besties
06:25And twenty-five packs
06:26This is outside the equation, this is outside the realm of science.
06:29You are the only ones close to the five.
06:31You might need at least three.
06:33Maybe you don't have two
06:33Okay? People are different, my dear.
06:35Each according to his ability
06:36And according to his abilities
06:37The number and intimacy of the people close to them vary.
06:40Because friendship is linked to the time and energy that one will invest in it.
06:44And this, my dear, asked us, I have a very limited currency.
06:46It is controlled by many things, such as our nature.
06:48For example, outgoing people tend to have more friends.
06:50But in this case, they are distributing less time over a larger number of people.
06:53He keeps walking in the street, my beloved, my father's son, my brother
06:55He doesn't know any of them.
06:56He's just being difficult because he doesn't know their divisions.
06:58I'm also very welcome, my dear. Anyone who comes, please meet me on our teacher's street.
07:00He's neither my teacher nor my uncle, and he doesn't leave a gap.
07:02Our group, the Intuite ones, invest more time with fewer friends.
07:06These countries, my dear, are two different ways to satisfy the same need.
07:09It is the feeling of companionship and the feeling of intimacy.
07:12Well, you said that, Mahmida.
07:13Our time and energy are a limited currency.
07:15Why don't we just invest them in ourselves and our activities?
07:17Why honor them with strangers?
07:18They are not related by blood, nor do they love each other or marry each other.
07:21Countries that are just friends
07:22Friendship, my dear, has imposed itself since the dawn of history.
07:25Her status is not just as a source of reverence among humans
07:26The animals have animal friends like dolphins, elephants, hyenas, and monkeys.
07:30That's because, my dear, we and the animals share the same story.
07:33The villain in it is a scary world
07:34It constantly threatens our existence
07:36And in order to survive, we need to talk and have friends.
07:39Because at that time there was fear of this world
07:40In a study, a hill was exposed to their students.
07:43The students are asked to evaluate
07:45This hill is very steep.
07:46They tilt the wooden board at the correct angle.
07:49The study found that the students who were answering this question
07:51They were looking at the hill with their friends
07:53They would have been less civilized if they had stayed; they would have answered.
07:55They alone will see it as more dangerous and precarious
07:57Having friends reduces our feeling of threat
07:59Not just from the nature around us
08:01But also, who among the people might visit him?
08:03Let's get to the important stuff, my friend.
08:05We will discuss the impact of friendship on
08:07Physical health. In a large study
08:09I tracked four hundred and eighty thousand people
08:11I found that people who lack friendship
08:12Or unhealthy interpersonal relationships increase the risk
08:15Her suffering from heart attacks and strokes
08:17The brain. In fact, the study...
08:19It predicts premature death
08:21For people who don't have close relationships
08:23At a rate of up to twenty-six percent
08:24Balsha ya Bahmad ya Rab3m, I need a friend in a hurry
08:26This was observed in a large number of experiments of various types.
08:28Just having a friend
08:30Avoid people who are doing any experiment
08:31This makes their heart rate more stable.
08:34What if they were alone? My dear friend, there's no way around it.
08:36A social network that supports you
08:37This reduces your risk of death by 45%
08:40Listen more, my dear, and hear this from your practice.
08:42For sports or the holistic diet
08:43A good friend is more important than food.
08:46Most important in the gym
08:46As long as you, my dear, keep ordering crepes at two in the morning
08:49Don't worry, you and your friend
08:51If there's only one cream left, I'll go down and smell it and burn it.
08:53That puts you in danger
08:54Friendship isn't just about casual relationships that fill free time.
08:57This is a necessity that fulfills a basic need.
09:00And at a time when we need affection in childhood
09:02Until we got back to tightening
09:03While companionship and companionship are eternal needs
09:06We will keep it and need it.
09:07Until death and destruction, we nurture it, not friends.
09:10I'll tell you, my dear, I've been thinking
09:11How do we choose our friends and make friendships?
09:14Let me tell you, I'm not your family or your daycare desk.
09:16And the name of the school I attended
09:18It's not her body that determines it.
09:20What does that mean, Abu Hamid? Right, Abu Hamid?
09:22This is a very logical answer that explains the quality of my friends.
09:24The black one is here, my dear, in the body
09:26With the genes that make the body
09:28In a 2018 study
09:28She found that the friends during
09:31Why are they watching ordinary videos?
09:32They appear to have similar systems.
09:34From the brain's activity in different parts
09:36Responsible for reward and attention
09:38Our response interface is very important
09:40It means that friends have the same needs.
09:42I'm trying to get his attention while I'm hiding.
09:44The saying goes that after a while, friends start to look alike.
09:46They have a secret language
09:47Inside jokes, my dear, are what happens between you and your friends.
09:50This similarity doesn't just come from the ten years.
09:52And the long time they spent together
09:53But what did the researchers who leaked the religion to hundreds of volunteers do?
09:56They found that friends remain
09:58More genetically similar
10:00Which two are simply ordinary?
10:01Our genes are what drive us
10:03And we throw away social structures
10:06Similar to us, as we say
10:07Birds of a feather flock together
10:08People in Aziz also say that studies show that even in marriage
10:11Money is the right thing to do, so your relationship will last better.
10:14With someone similar to you, not two people who complement each other.
10:16No, of course not, all of us
10:18We have differences and we have similarities.
10:19But everywhere there is more similarity, everywhere there is a greater chance of a relationship.
10:22It complements more
10:23This applies to the studies you have compiled from the words of childhood.
10:26Until the rest of it started working
10:27The charity you make as an adult begins with one sentence.
10:30You remind me of one of your friends
10:31In her book, Thirty, Dr. Marisa Franco says that the best place
10:34I made friends there easily, mostly at school.
10:36This is simply because at school you meet your friends every day.
10:39It doesn't create an advantage we call accumulation.
10:40The investment that is trying to attract
10:42My genes are full of strong friendships
10:44Once, Abu Hamad, you were talking about him.
10:46I'm not one of those people with the same genes
10:48No, this is companionship and acquaintance
10:50And the diaspora is divided into two parts.
10:51According to friendship coach Danielle Shaxson, there is a difference
10:54I want to meet new people and I want to play with friends.
10:56Friendship, as she described it
10:58Please write your opinion in the notebook.
10:59It is the art of developing a meaningful relationship.
11:02Why does it have no meaning, no sense of self-sufficiency?
11:04My dear friend, the words were similar, and by God, it was the same job as a friendship coach.
11:06Yalla Hop One of Three
11:07Raise your honor, courage, and sincerity
11:09He descended and became a rough, uncouth, and greedy person.
11:11Four in twelve and a relationship that grows
11:12We, my dear, have met someone in three days
11:15You think you understand, and he understands you.
11:16More than one person you know is sixty, a long time
11:18No, my dear, it might be true, but they wouldn't let him be a friend.
11:21For simplicity, time hasn't yet passed you by.
11:23The one who builds the friendship of the weak
11:25In a research study
11:26Dr. Dancy Nawal received all the brand
11:28People who believe that friendships are formed by luck
11:31They were the most numerous after five years
11:32Some people believed that friendship
11:34And I'll tell you something before you, my dear.
11:36Friendship doesn't just happen like that, you go along with it and then what?
11:38Our friends, we are not making an effort
11:40In a question during phone calls regarding the arrangement of outings
11:43Some outings fail and we go back
11:45We'll try to make up for it next week.
11:46Friendship is a responsibility, but that doesn't necessarily mean, my dear, that we are...
11:49Why did he have to start from scratch? Because there's a possibility
11:51Your new esteemed friend
11:52It will be closer to you than what you choose
11:54Jabsek suggests that you start with the people you know.
11:56Even if the effort you will put in
11:58For the sake of their friendship, they had a rather long experience.
12:00Or your attendance at social activities related to them
12:02After that, you maintain continuous contact.
12:04Make yourself readily available and don't give away money quickly.
12:07In a study of six workers, 18 from the University of Kansas
12:09I found that it takes us between forty and sixty hours to form a casual friendship.
12:13From eighty to one hundred, so you can be good friends.
12:15And at least 20 hours for me because you have a close friend
12:18This accumulation is a gradual process of getting reassured about one question.
12:22Can I be myself in front of this friend?
12:24It would be better if he saw me in my life, didn't judge me, and just left me alone.
12:27No, my dear, the one I call Dr. Melissa Franco
12:30Sharing our nests with others
12:32Mohammad, I see you on Twitter, you're maneuvering
12:35We are your friends
12:36It created a stacked effect and supported the viewers' emotions.
12:41My dear, we feel lonely not because of a lack of people in our lives.
12:44But because of the few people we could be ourselves with
12:47You have to have acquaintances to go out with on outings and visits
12:50And in front of them, she wears a cool face.
12:51Lana and your mother know very well, or that this isn't your real face.
12:55You're celebrating in the bathroom, or as Dr. Skylar Jackson puts it
12:57Without the nest, there is a pouring of friendship that cannot be surpassed.
13:01If you're not ready to be weak and vulnerable, you won't get a satisfying friendship.
13:05There will always be a ceiling that restricts you, but as long as you're cool and nice and nothing bothers you, there will be friendship.
13:10Peace be upon you, Muhammad
13:10So now you're advising me that the first thing I should do when I meet someone is to befriend them.
13:14I'll throw all my problems at him and expose my flaws.
13:16I don't feel like my grades are good.
13:17Being a hashish smoker isn't about talking about your problems.
13:19On the contrary, excessive participation might surprise the person in front of you.
13:22To the point where people might start with you and think they're just like you psychologically.
13:25The point here is that you should remain steadfast in your beliefs even if you're afraid that you won't be accepted.
13:28Say, if you need help, ask him.
13:29Don't pretend you brought it, ask for it, and if you have a pen, don't take it for yourself.
13:32If there is an opportunity suitable for participants
13:34One study also says that students who are emotionally and sentimentally dead
13:38To an excessive degree, they received less support for their meetings in the first year.
13:41From their university studies
13:43They found that they felt less close to others.
13:45They feel distant from people and less satisfied with their relationships.
13:49The question here
13:49Why do some people get encouraged to do this, but others don't?
13:52Why do some people prefer to isolate themselves and now want to share with others?
13:54Other people are reassured and do this easily.
13:56Tabrasels entered you, two new Tibets, a grocer inside
13:58Amal graduated, Dia's number is her uncle's.
14:00And they recited the opening chapter together
14:01Say if
14:01This is like what happens because each of us shapes our relationship with the other.
14:04According to the first method
14:06I offer her love from her family
14:08This method will do what is called
14:10attachment style
14:12Attachment Style
14:13This is according to a very, very, very large number of psychologists.
14:16He will control all his relationships from the beginning
14:18Friendships that extend to romantic relationships
14:20We all want to talk to you about attachment theory.
14:23The attachment theory
14:24This divides us according to our relationships with others.
14:26Up to three or four first
14:27The first pattern is secure attachment.
14:30People with this personality type feel that they are in their relationship
14:32Standing on solid ground, knowing that
14:34Those who love them might not be there.
14:36For periods this is perfectly normal, but
14:38He still loves them and when he returns he will give them
14:40This love and the exchange of trust
14:42This makes their friends trustworthy in the first place.
14:45If this person has been betrayed or the problem
14:47With his friend, instead of attacking him, he will have him.
14:48Sakaa Atef makes him fight his partner
14:51He listens to his response and understands.
14:52Whether this situation is manageable or not
14:55The second sleep, my dear, is avoidant attachment.
14:57International, my dear, is telling you
14:59By God, you might be a human being.
15:00I will never depend on anyone.
15:03I'll be self-sufficient, I won't do anything.
15:05Intimate relationships because it's possible he'll leave me
15:07What could make me want? I don't want anything.
15:09What am I doing? I'm a money-grubber and a shepherd.
15:11International, my dear, when they speak, their conversations remain superficial.
15:13This doesn't mean they aren't Askiya.
15:14No, they meant that there is a specific level.
15:17We won't let this pass without you learning more about me.
15:19I don't want to know any more about you.
15:20I don't want to get attached to you because you're dangerous to anyone you get attached to.
15:23It is a source of danger to me
15:24The avoidant insulted these people
15:26You only see the pressure and responsibility in relationships.
15:29Even if their partner threatened to leave them
15:31Or he did something that deserved criticism
15:33They feel here that they can suppress their feelings
15:35They make it seem like they're not interested, even though they are.
15:37In this episode, he will simply stop talking to him.
15:39He won't face thanks
15:40This is my dear Avoident, but the following pattern is
15:43Anxiety attachment
15:45International, my dear, people are trapped
15:47The idea of disappointment and the line of hope
15:49They are very, very busy with people.
15:51Those who are attached to them
15:53Does he love me or not yet?
15:54I need to make sure. Should I make sure? Or should I ask him?
15:56Well, I need something to prove to you that he's still...
15:59In the same situation in the relationship
16:00I must always strive to be the best, always making sacrifices.
16:02To make sure I'm in this relationship
16:04There is a constant anxiety among these individuals.
16:06If this person is let down
16:08He might go to the one who upset and let him down
16:10He asks him not to be upset with him.
16:12Yes, you made me... Yes, I'm with you, what's up, my love?
16:14Instead of thinking about explaining what happened
16:17I'm still afraid that this friendship might be over.
16:18Of course, these mothers' names aren't fixed.
16:21Not everyone is a strong white person or a strong black person.
16:23There are a lot of gray areas.
16:24And there are people who sleep with us who have a certain anxiety
16:27For example, you have a popular pattern
16:28It oscillates between attachment and alienation
16:30But we can say that there is a very, very large percentage
16:33These relationships are mothers
16:34It has great control over its details.
16:37Even if we weren't aware of this
16:38We find the influence of these mothers in many things.
16:40In a relationship, for example, do we wait?
16:42People are the ones who initiate our friendship
16:44Are we going to continue in toxic relationships?
16:51Honestly, at least they won't want to sit with us.
16:52If we showed him the weak side within us
16:55gloomy, sad
16:56I feel sorry for this poor man.
16:57Honestly, if I saw him in the street, I might get ten pounds.
17:00He felt that he was simplifying things first.
17:01It's a civilizing endeavor, my dear, and he's not up to it.
17:03Internet work, technology, and the work of armies
17:06The work of states, institutions, and civilization
17:08All this because he lives alone
17:10I want to be with someone, but
17:11Unfortunately, humans do not have certain perceptions.
17:13About the thoughts, feelings, and emotions of the people around him
17:16So one prefers to search unconsciously
17:17He's inside, so he can understand.
17:19This explains the parents' idea
17:20Why are our relationships with the people who love us the most?
17:23Or it means they're supposed to love us.
17:25Or it depends, too.
17:27So these countries are being converted to reference.
17:28Lana, I'll see how my relationships are doing now, like with Ma'a.
17:30Were those countries neglecting me and keeping me safe?
17:33Were these people not present at work?
17:35Those who are famous are other people, so I need them now.
17:37Oh my God, I need to stick to them or try to get their attention
17:40And they say, "No, look, I'm not interested."
17:42I'll be apathetic and uninterested and stuff like that
17:43Or were they waiting according to what?
17:45This is a summary of the theory, my dear, just so you know, if you're using totamine.
17:48But please rest assured, my dear, that I am your friend.
17:50And I won't leave you, the money for the road might leave you, so tell me
17:51And the season's luxury is halfway there, the road is impossible.
17:53Because I don't know, you're the one who will follow, you know I don't
17:55So we can say that our gaze is for our friends
17:58It's not always based on a fair assessment.
18:00For the sake of love, you understand how to evaluate your relationship.
18:02Your friend decides with your family
18:04During childhood, unconsciously
18:06These are the kind of people who exposed your friends
18:07And what you also shaped in your first experience
18:09With family
18:10Mohammed, allow me to ask you a question and interrogate you.
18:12And enter into your private matters
18:14Professor Mufid dedicated this to him
18:17Mohammed, allow me to ask you again
18:19Wadouzi on the Zenat and Istaqwabak
18:21Did you feel comfortable and safe with your family?
18:23A mother who grew up in a turbulent environment
18:25Do you know about the health limits?
18:27Abu Hamid should suppress his feelings and say
18:29His attachment is to preserve his own safety.
18:30Now we will find out in the talk of the town
18:33We all say to you, my dear
18:35And, Professor Mufid, the style
18:36Our attachment is not a life sentence.
18:39But it develops from one relationship to the next.
18:40Our new relationships have changed from turbulent
18:43To be safe or from one who is safe
18:44But before we choose our friends and become attached to them
18:47We need to understand how we actually get attached.
18:49We understand ourselves and the barriers
18:50The one who built it with our friend and how we imagined it
18:52About ourselves and about the world, it affects
18:54Our friendships and relationships
18:55Oh Abu Hamid, now I understand myself, I understand my genes, and I understand my family.
18:58And I understood the growth of attachment
19:00Okay, let's watch the episode. We'll see the previous episode; I know very well.
19:02What's this? What's going on? Wait, I'm not finished yet.
19:04Did our three daughters go down to the beach? No, wait.
19:06He's telling you, my dear, that friendship has another, more complicated side.
19:09And sometimes dark
19:10In the opening, Hatlat tells us, "See friendship from your perspective."
19:12And it's from your genes.
19:13Your old attachment to your family is what will control your choices.
19:16Your investment in friendship is your intention.
19:18But what about the other person you opened your heart to?
19:21Is this written inside you? This other person
19:22What else, my love, is coming to you with his genes and his genes?
19:25Attachment to Waqf and his companions
19:27His experience and effort are full of problems.
19:29And another burden of worries that she knows nothing about
19:31And you need to pay very close attention to this, that you
19:33It's possible that while you're near them you
19:35Why is he a victim, a prey to be devoured?
19:37In her book, When Friendship Trims
19:40Sociology solves
19:41Dr. Jean Yager, why so many
19:43Friendships aren't always perfect, and sometimes
19:45Your friend isn't happy about your experiences or achievements.
19:47It's like it's yours, but he sees it.
19:49Dr. Jean's multiplicity or competition
19:51It analyzes feelings like religion that developed among friends
19:53For example, you might have a friend who is very self-absorbed.
19:55He doesn't listen to you, he thinks he's better than you.
19:57And he said, "Is he more of your children?"
19:58My friend treats you well when you're alone, but when you're in a group
20:01I'll make fun of him and call him "Suhaila's guy".
20:03What kind of friends are these? A friend isn't...
20:05He has enough self-respect because he is confident in himself.
20:07He tailored it to show his superiority.
20:09You'll find other friends there who are brainwashed.
20:11They borrowed something that wouldn't hurt them.
20:12They help, but when you need them, they don't respond.
20:14He tells you, then he goes to a bar with my master, he tells you, "Syria, I didn't see the boy left."
20:17What does Amal see? He attracts nice people to his circle of friends.
20:19When you don't know how to say no because of a feeling you had in your childhood
20:21Financial deprivation or entitlement to more than the amount received
20:23Fatima wants to take more teaching assistants
20:25In an unfriendly way, a friend makes you feel like you hate her.
20:27And this will reach you in every opportunity you dream of
20:29However, you still want your friend.
20:30If you're going to come down, let's accept and see my face. Hello.
20:32Friendship is harsh; its possessor hides his desire for control.
20:35These, my dear, are all just examples.
20:36How can friendship be fragrant?
20:38Need to switch off
20:39Friendship can also become dangerous in another respect.
20:41Remember when I told you that friendships happen gradually?
20:43Those who give become similar to each other
20:45There is an attraction between them, like a camel, that makes them resemble each other.
20:47What would happen if gravity worked in the wrong direction?
20:50In 1995, researchers conducted a study on a group of children
20:53The study labeled them as deviants, or in other words, as they were considered unruly.
20:58Here, my dear, they discovered that deviants don't always associate with other deviants.
21:01In fact, those who associate with them, if they are not already deviant, turn them into deviants.
21:06The end result is that we have deviants associating with deviants.
21:09I don't understand how Shahla
21:10What remains is Hussein, who is holding up the boys' conversations. We tell him
21:12When someone talks about a deviant act, their friends talk about it.
21:15Or they respond positively
21:16He says to him, "I did such and such, I destroyed, I stirred, I messed up."
21:20His companions said, "This is so sweet, haha," and they joked.
21:22We are in the middle of the street, we are deviants and we love deviance.
21:25Therefore, this encouraged deviant behavior.
21:27This, my dear, is called
21:29Training for deviance
21:30These two brothers can predict an increased likelihood of smoking.
21:33That's why, my dear, you should listen to your wife.
21:35What this study is trying to say, my dear
21:36We are greatly, greatly, greatly influenced by our friends.
21:39Who told you that we would become like them?
21:40We absolutely, absolutely, absolutely need to take no
21:42Who will we resemble?
21:43Whose nature will influence us?
21:45Because deviance will pull you towards deviance.
21:47person
21:49Complaining and crying will attract you because you will remain a complainer and crybaby.
21:52The successful person is the one who proves that you are successful.
21:54A person who loves a particular sport
21:57It will attract you to follow a specific sport
21:58So that you can do these activities together
22:00So you need to choose your friend carefully, my dear.
22:02Because if you get away
22:04It will be similar
22:05My dear, I want you to look around you like this
22:06And you see your friends
22:07And I will ask a question whose answer is no
22:08Is this the problem of my friend's role?
22:10What was that?
22:11Mohammed, you made me fall in love with you.
22:13After you made me love her
22:14And now you've belched me out among my friends
22:16Tell me the solution
22:17The solution, my dear, is to urinate.
22:19First, you must understand the environment you are in.
22:22Tickets and understanding of the people around him
22:24What do they offer me?
22:25What do I offer them?
22:26And you realize a very, very important need, my dear, which is
22:28self-awareness
22:29I need to be self-aware
22:30What is my nature?
22:31What are my needs?
22:32What do I offer in the relationship?
22:33What could I possibly not offer in the relationship?
22:34I can't remain the toxic person.
22:35I can't remain the one who is psychologically abusive.
22:37I can't remain the person who discourages his friends.
22:39I can't remain the person who tries to climb to other people's level.
22:44And I'm trying to attract certain friends
22:47Easy for them to climb
22:48Achieving healthy relationships
22:49The people I'm involved with aren't necessarily normal people.
22:53Because if I'm not normal
22:54These Asian people won't stay with me.
22:55So I remained an abnormal person.
22:57And the people around me are not right
22:59It means obedience
23:00So what?
23:01Where do we go?
23:01This, my dear
23:02I'm sure the problem isn't with you.
23:03If you feel well
23:04I sat with the thrapist
23:06I sat with relationships that you see as harmonious
23:08And now we're sure, guys, the problem is probably not with him.
23:10I am a good person, God willing.
23:12Even if I'm not good, I work on myself to become good.
23:14So you need to see who the people around you are.
23:17Those who are not good
23:18And it deals with this
23:19The so-called
23:21guiding them
23:22We need a way to talk, guys.
23:23We need someone who understands each other
23:24Why did we behave this way?
23:26And what were the results?
23:27And what are its consequences?
23:28I need their permission for the things that are difficult
23:30And give them a chance to change.
23:31Guys, this behavior is forbidden
23:32Guys, this behavior is not comfortable.
23:34I don't like anyone calling me by the name you're using.
23:36Relationships, my dear, are always ebb and flow.
23:38I'll give you a little, you give me a little
23:40Until we reach the middle ground
23:41And there will be sheets in it that are not happy about our separation from it.
23:43The profession is necessary, and so on.
23:45Come on, my dear, friendship is an easy word.
23:47But it is much more complex than you can reduce it to a single concept.
23:50Or you could find a formula to choose good friends.
23:52Fish equations, my dear
23:53And one last thing, my dear, that we need to talk about is very important.
23:55It's because we live in the age of social media.
23:57This era makes it easier to meet people.
23:59So you imagine that building a friendship is an easy thing.
24:01It makes it easy for you to cut ties with people.
24:03While any friendship needs to be a meaningful friendship
24:06It requires a lot of effort.
24:08Whether you are building it or finishing it
24:10If I blocked and unfollowed you, that's it.
24:12Thank you, that's it, you've disappeared from my life in the relationship.
24:15It's natural that any relationship involving one person
24:16Disagreements are bound to happen, fights are bound to happen
24:18It's necessary to break up and get back together.
24:20We break up and then get back together
24:22Summary of the episode, dear one, dear one again
24:24About friendship, there is a very, very, very, very big topic.
24:26Rest assured, my dear, your friend is not perfect.
24:28And remember, you too are not perfect.
24:31Neither I nor anyone else is perfect.
24:32They're all just trying to make a living and that's it.
24:35So, my dear
24:36And you're thinking about all this
24:38You see the previous cases
24:39See the upcoming cases
24:40You look at the sources
24:41We are few, look, let's share the blame
24:42Abu Ameed, excuse me, the question now concerns a Facebook feature.
24:45The one who listens to you, so that you have a maximum
24:47Of five thousand friends
24:49Is Zuckerberg a trademark?
24:51And no excuse is based on scientific principles.
24:52And this is a number he was interacting with
24:54Malba'a, the number wasn't responding to it.
24:56But Aziz, I hope, Aziz, that you
24:57Don't watch this program anymore because you're counting on one.
24:59Don't keep the emitation.
25:01If you go out with your friends and do cool, awesome things
25:04But you choose awareness about sitting and you tea in this program
25:07This is the presenter, Abouna Brekla
25:09He distances himself from his friends and from his relationships.
25:11And it reduces its attachment
25:14It reduces the avocado attachment that sometimes causes it
25:17He is close to secure attachment in his relationships.
25:20And in it is He Himself
25:21Oh Lord, oh Lord, I'm starving from the security, oh Lord
25:24Oh Lord, oh Pescure, oh Lord, oh Lord