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Married at First Sight Australia - Season 13 - Episode 37
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00:00:02It's the morning after the last dinner party of the 2026 experiment and our couples are still
00:00:10processing the shocking exit of Gia and Scott who have left the experiment and will not continue to
00:00:17final vows. I can unpack it in one word, carnage. I'm not sure what it is that you're looking for
00:00:24Gia, but I can tell you're not the one for me. We are a different caliber of people. Sorry, but
00:00:32I'm done.
00:00:33Oh, Scott, Barty, no!
00:00:40It was a pretty epic crash and burn. Yeah. All she had to do was be honest, be genuine and
00:00:48focus on
00:00:49their relationship, but I didn't think they'd crash out that hard. So all of that time in the
00:00:55commitment ceremonies that they could have had working on their relationship, they've missed the
00:01:01opportunity. If he would have spiked up earlier, they probably would have split up earlier because
00:01:05the reality is Gia can't take any criticism. She thinks every time it's her being thrown under the
00:01:11bus. I did what I needed to do. I got Gia to that dinner party on purpose. Got her there.
00:01:19Got them, got them to have it out with each other. I'm very proud of myself, actually.
00:01:27So we can play at that game, honey.
00:01:32I came into this experiment looking for love. I definitely found what I've come here for.
00:01:39After three intense months,
00:01:43it all comes down to the final vows. The four remaining couples must make the life-changing
00:01:53decision.
00:01:56Here we go.
00:01:58Will they take their relationship into the outside world?
00:02:04Or will they say goodbye forever?
00:02:07I know this might be hard to hear.
00:02:12The four...
00:02:13Hi.
00:02:15One of the most magical moments the experiment's ever seen.
00:02:22Stella, I love you more than I ever thought possible.
00:02:52With the experiment ended, the time for final vows is the time for the final vows.
00:02:56The final vows is almost here for our remaining couples.
00:03:00Stella and Philip, Rachel and Stephen, Bec and Danny...
00:03:04It's nice that we're going to final vows together, you know?
00:03:08...and...
00:03:08...Alyssa and David.
00:03:12They'll now separate and spend time weighing up if they'll continue their relationship after the experiment.
00:03:19There's so much shit here.
00:03:22How did this happen?
00:03:24The next time they meet, they'll reveal their decision at final vows.
00:03:31Our couples must now go back to their respective homes to reflect on their time in the experiment
00:03:36before they make the life-changing decision on whether to remain as a couple or go their separate ways.
00:03:44This time will prove testing for our couples,
00:03:47as they will begin to question if their relationship is strong enough to continue
00:03:51when they leave the bubble of the experiment.
00:03:58Before everyone leaves their apartments, they're reflecting on last night's final dinner party.
00:04:05What about Dave and Alyssa?
00:04:06That was hard to watch.
00:04:08I saw a man coming in there, being vulnerable and getting rejected multiple times.
00:04:14It just doesn't sit well with me.
00:04:16Oh, I'm hurt. I'm hurt. Why? Why?
00:04:18Yeah.
00:04:19He haven't said or done anything wrong.
00:04:21It's a rejection. It's like...
00:04:23She kept saying...
00:04:25Finding one little thing that can be pinned on him and just, like, just focus on it.
00:04:31Like, come on.
00:04:33To take your ring off, that is a red flag for me.
00:04:36That, to me, is toxic.
00:04:38I never once took my ring off.
00:04:41Yeah, I think Alyssa's checked out.
00:04:43It was a hard watch, you know, seeing him like that.
00:04:45Like, he's actually really, really hurt.
00:04:49Poor David is there desperately trying to win her back and Alyssa's like...
00:04:55No.
00:04:57I actually feel bad for David.
00:04:59I think David's a good bloke.
00:05:00I think he's wore his heart on his sleeve.
00:05:03Alyssa's proven his point as to why he stayed quiet for so long
00:05:06because the second he spoke up, look at how it's gone.
00:05:09The poor bloke can't win.
00:05:11It's a dictatorship.
00:05:12It's not a relationship.
00:05:13Do you know what?
00:05:14I think in time, Alyssa might look back and regret that
00:05:16because David's a good bloke.
00:05:18She's got herself a good bloke there and they're hard to come across.
00:05:22And she's just shutting him out for something pretty minor, in my opinion.
00:05:29It's a lonely last morning for David.
00:05:32After the final dinner party, Alyssa and David retired to separate apartments,
00:05:38both spending their last night in the experiment alone.
00:06:12Today is such a sad day.
00:06:12I don't care if my husband comes for me, he can come for me, but he ain't coming for me.
00:06:16That's right, you know I'm boxing out.
00:06:17He ain't coming for me.
00:06:18I'd like to go out.
00:06:19Oh.
00:06:20Far out, man.
00:06:22I just gave you my feelings and you said lighten up.
00:06:25Prime example.
00:06:26No, that's just a joke, babe.
00:06:27It's all right, but that's how I feel.
00:06:29We were all just talking, getting to know each other.
00:06:31It was just, you know, chit chat.
00:06:33We all had a great day.
00:06:35No, I deserve more than that.
00:06:39I'm done too.
00:06:40Here you go.
00:06:43I'm done.
00:06:46Despite everything that's happened, I believe in our relationship and I wanted to fight for it.
00:06:52Last night, I put everything on the line, unashamedly chasing her, trying to get her back
00:06:59and show everyone that I wanted to fight for this relationship.
00:07:02And I'm here because I want to fight for this.
00:07:05I want you to know how much you mean to me.
00:07:07I walked away from someone that was the love of my life.
00:07:10I literally cannot walk away knowing that.
00:07:16She's giving him nothing.
00:07:17You're giving him nothing?
00:07:19It's just sad that I felt like no matter how hard I fought, she didn't want this.
00:07:24I'm literally here because I love this woman.
00:07:26Too late, though.
00:07:27I understand.
00:07:28Too late.
00:07:28I understand, but it's not too late.
00:07:30It's only too late if you want to throw three months down the drain.
00:07:33I feel like this dinner party's done.
00:07:35Babe, no.
00:07:36Honestly, it's done.
00:07:41Alyssa last night was someone I don't remember.
00:07:45Someone I don't recognize.
00:07:46She was cold.
00:07:48It felt like the relationship meant nothing to Alyssa.
00:07:52Like, I meant nothing to her.
00:07:56Right now, I'm questioning whether she ever wanted this to start with.
00:08:00No, I'm not going to marry you until you get down one ear and ask me to marry you.
00:08:04I can't tell if you're being serious.
00:08:07No, I am.
00:08:08So we're not doing the vows until I get down?
00:08:13Alyssa loves to be in control.
00:08:14She loves to be in the driving seat.
00:08:16And I was shut down.
00:08:19I function at a high frequency.
00:08:21And I feel like we're six weeks in.
00:08:24I'm missing that stimulation, that high frequency to make me happy.
00:08:31I'm a more high-functional person than you.
00:08:34Your experience is your experience.
00:08:35But someone on the outside listening in could take it differently.
00:08:39This is a me thing.
00:08:40And I don't know why you're dragging yourself into it.
00:08:42I'm really not dragging myself.
00:08:43I'm just having the conversation.
00:08:45This is a me thing, babe.
00:08:47She says she wants me to challenge her.
00:08:48But when I do challenge her, she doesn't like it.
00:08:51Looking back on it.
00:08:52Every time I challenged Alyssa, she shut me down.
00:08:56I can hardly get a word in.
00:08:58Talk to me.
00:08:59Well, I think I...
00:09:00Because, like, we need to voice.
00:09:02And that's what I need in this relationship.
00:09:04And you're not fulfilling that need for me.
00:09:06Well, all I'm going to say is...
00:09:08We should have gone there, but we haven't.
00:09:10And I haven't felt challenged enough.
00:09:14Well, she has...
00:09:15You did mention I was a weak man at one point.
00:09:17She called you a weak man?
00:09:20Yeah.
00:09:20So that's a problem?
00:09:23What's happened in this relationship is I've done a lot of listening.
00:09:25Alyssa has done a lot of talking.
00:09:27We're both adults.
00:09:28And I want to see that in her, that she has the ability to listen.
00:09:31I can't mind-read.
00:09:32It's not mind-reading.
00:09:33It's not mind-reading.
00:09:33Oh, my gosh.
00:09:33I can't.
00:09:34I cannot...
00:09:35I know.
00:09:35I can't mind-read, babe.
00:09:40I can't even explain the hurt from last night.
00:09:42You know, getting to bed after that dinner party was the hardest thing that I've had
00:09:47to do this whole experiment.
00:09:48Just knowing and replaying those moments where I heard Alyssa say things about me that showed
00:09:54she didn't care about me.
00:09:55It almost felt like she looked down on me for trying to fight for our relationship.
00:10:01I think, you know, you couldn't have asked for anything worse.
00:10:08Feeling much better today.
00:10:10Got a good night's sleep.
00:10:11I've woken up feeling much more relaxed and, yeah, I'm really looking forward to going
00:10:17home.
00:10:19The day's finally arrived where we're moving out.
00:10:23It's finished.
00:10:24The experiment is officially done and dusted.
00:10:29To see David take his ring off, it really hurt me because in real life, you don't do that.
00:10:34Like, I've never once taken my ring off.
00:10:37Even though they might be little things, they're big things for me.
00:10:40Yeah, I came here for love and I was falling in love with this person and then my feelings
00:10:46have changed because of the events that have unfolded this week.
00:10:49I know that he's sorry, but, yeah, there's a lot to process before making this decision
00:10:54in a few days.
00:10:58Down the hall, an emotional Rachel and Stephen are saying their goodbyes.
00:11:04I'm about to burst our little bubble, babe.
00:11:13Knowing that I'm going back to Melbourne and we'll be walking into an empty apartment tonight,
00:11:19it's just tough because Stephen's not going to be there and, you know, we are 900 kilometres
00:11:23apart.
00:11:24That concerns me because long distance, it's a hard one.
00:11:30Think of it as the next chapter starting.
00:11:32I know.
00:11:36Goodbye.
00:11:41This is it.
00:11:43I know.
00:11:46Oh, don't cry.
00:11:56I'm really lucky to have been able to do this and I'm really lucky to have met Stephen.
00:12:02Yeah.
00:12:04It's a couple of days.
00:12:06It's so sad that we're saying goodbye.
00:12:08We've built this little nest for ourselves and we've got to dismantle it and move apart
00:12:14and make a massive decision.
00:12:15Long distance is one of our biggest challenges.
00:12:18Going into final vows, that's definitely considered.
00:12:21I'm going to have some serious thinking to do.
00:12:23Oh, you're shaking.
00:12:25I know.
00:12:27See you soon.
00:12:28See you soon.
00:12:30Big travels.
00:12:31Bye.
00:12:33Bye.
00:12:52With the upcoming final vows weighing heavily on their minds, Alyssa and David have headed
00:12:58home to contemplate their decision.
00:13:01They'll spend the week apart, reflecting on whether to continue their relationship outside
00:13:07the experiment or leave their marriages for good.
00:13:11Coming home to Brisbane solo, it feels like a part of me has been taken away.
00:13:16There is so much good.
00:13:18There's so much light that has come out of this relationship.
00:13:22But I've still got the last week of our relationship looming over me.
00:13:30That last week of the experiment, I wore my heart on my sleeve and I felt like I kept getting
00:13:36pushed
00:13:36back and knocked back.
00:13:38This is one of the most uncertain places I've ever been in my life.
00:13:44I do love and care for this woman deeply, but at the same time, I have to decide whether
00:13:50I can forgive her.
00:13:56And in Adelaide, Alyssa is deliberating over whether to continue her relationship with David
00:14:02after the experiment.
00:14:04David has been so supportive.
00:14:06He's always had my back and I love that about him.
00:14:10But the last couple of weeks has taken a turn for us.
00:14:14The fact that as soon as he felt like it got hard, he took his ring off.
00:14:20I have to be able to see past this to be able to move forward into the real world.
00:14:26And my gut's telling me now, like, the little things are actually big things for me and
00:14:31they are deal breakers for me.
00:14:34David being upset with that final test date was a big red flag for me.
00:14:40Taking your ring off at the first sight of a, you know, seeing me having a good time socialising
00:14:46with other people, it's toxic.
00:14:48And I was like, nah, in the bin.
00:14:54If that moment didn't happen, maybe our relationship would be in a way better place right now.
00:15:02Maybe I would be in love right now.
00:15:05There's been a world of emotions lately.
00:15:07And I know that he's willing to fight for me.
00:15:10He got down on one knee, for God's sake, like, put my ring back on my finger.
00:15:15He's wanting this to work, but I am feeling the pressure of that.
00:15:34The moment has come for Alyssa and David to declare their feelings at final vows.
00:15:52I came into this experiment hoping to find love.
00:15:55I found love and I was hoping to leave here, you know, with a woman of my dreams and build
00:15:59a life and a family together in the future.
00:16:01So this decision today will be the start of the next stage.
00:16:12I love Alyssa and my feelings haven't changed for Alyssa.
00:16:17Coming into this decision, it's just finding that balance between my head and my heart.
00:16:21And I also don't know what's going to happen to me when I'm there, stood right in front of Alyssa.
00:16:28I don't know how I'm going to feel, so I'm a bit anxious.
00:16:32I've put everything into this relationship.
00:16:34I haven't held back.
00:16:36I did fall in love.
00:16:38When you love someone, you can't just switch off your feelings.
00:16:41That's the truth.
00:16:52David has made his intentions clear that he wants to make this work in the outside world
00:16:58and that he does love me and he doesn't want to lose me.
00:17:03So I feel like, I feel like he will be committed to the cause and he'll want to see this
00:17:09through
00:17:09into the real world.
00:17:13But, today is going to be tough for David.
00:17:21He missed the mark because he was a yes man.
00:17:29He told me he loved me.
00:17:31The ball is in my court today.
00:17:41And he breaks my heart knowing that I'm going to be breaking his heart at the end of this.
00:18:12Hello.
00:18:16Hello.
00:18:16Hello.
00:18:17How are you?
00:18:18I'm good. How are you?
00:18:20Beautiful.
00:18:24You're handsome.
00:18:26See? I've convinced you.
00:18:33Alright.
00:18:37Here we go.
00:18:38Hello.
00:18:41Melissa.
00:18:44Here we are.
00:18:46From the very beginning,
00:18:48our wedding day was something
00:18:50I'll never forget.
00:18:52The chemistry was instant.
00:18:54The banter, the laughs,
00:18:57the spark.
00:18:58It all felt effortless.
00:19:00And of course, how could I forget
00:19:02the moment when you looked me dead in the eye
00:19:04and said, I don't think I can marry you.
00:19:08Until you get down on one knee.
00:19:12What I saw wasn't just a bold woman
00:19:14making a big entrance,
00:19:16but someone who clearly wanted commitment,
00:19:19love, and something serious.
00:19:21The exact same things I came here for.
00:19:25You were strong, fiery, unapologetically yourself.
00:19:30And that energy instantly put my mind at ease.
00:19:35We never backed away from the challenges,
00:19:37and our connection deepened.
00:19:39Getting intimate and building trust.
00:19:42And week by week,
00:19:43it felt like we were just getting stronger and stronger.
00:19:46You reminded me what it felt like to care again.
00:19:49You broke down walls I didn't even realize that I built.
00:19:52You made me laugh, challenged me,
00:19:56and you opened up my heart to love.
00:20:02From the very beginning,
00:20:03you told me that the moment a man tries to control you,
00:20:07you run.
00:20:08So I listened.
00:20:10I did everything you said you wanted.
00:20:13I gave you space.
00:20:14I let you lead when you needed to.
00:20:17And I never tried to change you.
00:20:20But it was the final commitment ceremony
00:20:22where everything changed.
00:20:25I finally spoke up.
00:20:26I told you how at times I'd held back in this relationship,
00:20:29not because I didn't care,
00:20:31but because I was scared that being honest
00:20:33would push you further away.
00:20:36You accused me of blindsiding you,
00:20:38and in that moment,
00:20:39I realized something important.
00:20:41I wasn't being hurt.
00:20:43You couldn't see that I wasn't attacking you.
00:20:46I was finally standing up for myself.
00:20:48It wasn't about proving a point.
00:20:51It was about finding my voice.
00:20:54Despite your frustrations,
00:20:55I still wanted to fight for us.
00:20:58I vowed to let my walls down,
00:21:01be vulnerable,
00:21:02and express how I truly felt.
00:21:07I told you that I loved you.
00:21:11Something I'd wanted to say for a very long time.
00:21:15And although you couldn't say it back,
00:21:17I left feeling confident
00:21:18that there was still hope for us.
00:21:22Watching you back on the final test
00:21:24without alternate matches,
00:21:26you flirted,
00:21:27made inappropriate jokes,
00:21:29and spoke poorly about me behind my back.
00:21:32I felt betrayed and disrespected by what I saw.
00:21:37On our wedding day,
00:21:38you stated that you wanted to be challenged
00:21:39in this relationship.
00:21:41So that is what I did.
00:21:42I challenged you,
00:21:43and you shut me down.
00:21:45It felt as though you wouldn't take any accountability
00:21:49for how I had felt.
00:21:52We've had moments of laughter and deep affection,
00:21:56but we've also had moments where I felt shut down,
00:22:00controlled,
00:22:00and unheard.
00:22:03There have been times when I tried to express myself
00:22:05but was met with criticism or correction
00:22:08instead of curiosity.
00:22:11What I've come to understand
00:22:13is that with you,
00:22:14there was no version of me that could win.
00:22:18If I pushed harder,
00:22:20I would have been called controlling.
00:22:22If I held back,
00:22:23I was labeled disconnected.
00:22:26I've realized I can't be the man
00:22:28who constantly fights to be heard
00:22:30or to constantly fight to prove his worth
00:22:32to someone who is still deciding
00:22:34if I'll be enough.
00:22:38Throughout all this,
00:22:39I've been patient,
00:22:41and I've done a lot of the listening,
00:22:44but I'm done listening.
00:22:49So today,
00:22:53I'm not walking away
00:22:54because I've stopped loving you, Alyssa.
00:22:58I'm walking away
00:23:01because loving you shouldn't mean losing myself.
00:23:25You're not going to listen to my vows?
00:23:33That's a no.
00:23:39Wow,
00:23:40I just wasted three months of my life
00:23:41and he won't even listen to me.
00:23:58David.
00:24:00Wow.
00:24:01I can't believe we're here
00:24:03at the end of this experiment.
00:24:06Three months ago,
00:24:08we were complete strangers
00:24:09standing at an altar
00:24:11saying I do.
00:24:12The choice to walk away
00:24:13from final vows today for me
00:24:15was all about
00:24:17choosing myself
00:24:17in this relationship
00:24:18and making my voice heard.
00:24:21So much of this relationship
00:24:23has been about Alyssa
00:24:24and me putting her first.
00:24:26I ordered to myself
00:24:27to make my voice heard
00:24:29because most of the relationship,
00:24:31I was the one listening.
00:24:33I feel like I put all my cards on the table
00:24:36and all I was wanting from Alyssa
00:24:39was some accountability.
00:24:41Some wanting to fight for this.
00:24:45Then came our homestays.
00:24:47That's when the real world came crashing in.
00:24:49The pressure of my home,
00:24:51my business, my cat, my life in Adelaide
00:24:54and how I can't just pack up and leave
00:24:56in three months like we initially discussed.
00:24:59You said you'd move, that we'd make it work.
00:25:02It sounded perfect,
00:25:04but something in my heart felt off.
00:25:09There's been so much pain
00:25:11that I've experienced the last two weeks.
00:25:14You know, you can't love someone
00:25:16and unfortunately sometimes
00:25:19they're not ready to let you in.
00:25:22I feel tremendously heartbroken.
00:25:24She knew I wanted her
00:25:26and still,
00:25:27it felt like I was fighting
00:25:29for a relationship
00:25:31that someone wasn't willing to fight for.
00:25:39David, you are everything I wanted and more.
00:25:42You are strong.
00:25:43You are kind.
00:25:44You are compassionate.
00:25:46You are a leader.
00:25:47But standing here today,
00:25:48I can only be honest.
00:25:50I love you, David,
00:25:52for who you are,
00:25:53but not for me.
00:25:56.
00:26:34In Melbourne,
00:26:35Rachel has returned home
00:26:37where she will reflect on her relationship with Stephen
00:26:40ahead of the final vows.
00:26:42Being here at the end, it's great.
00:26:44It is a really nice feeling.
00:26:45I feel really united with Stephen
00:26:47and there's this really nice closeness,
00:26:50playful, flirtiness that we have in our relationship.
00:26:54I feel like we're both as goofy as each other.
00:26:56Oh my God, I might be good at this game.
00:27:01Yes, yes.
00:27:02Better make sure that's us.
00:27:06We have grown so much together
00:27:08and we have both been vulnerable.
00:27:11I do like you
00:27:12and I have caught up in my feelings for you.
00:27:17I've never had a deeply emotional,
00:27:21connected relationship before.
00:27:23And I've got one.
00:27:25But Stephen can't leave Sydney because of his business.
00:27:31We have grown together through this experiment,
00:27:34but moving out of the bubble into the real world concerns me.
00:27:40What are you scared of the most?
00:27:43I'm scared that Stephen will go back to his life in Sydney
00:27:47and it's just going to be easier for him to let me go.
00:27:52Because he is time poor and he has his business.
00:27:56And so it might be a burden
00:28:00to try and maintain our relationship with me.
00:28:03So he might just let me go.
00:28:07So, yeah.
00:28:10That's, that's my fear.
00:28:14I am concerned that we're going back to our lives.
00:28:19He might evaluate things
00:28:21and he might just see that as a,
00:28:23well, it's actually easier without you.
00:28:25And his decision could be,
00:28:29no, thank you.
00:28:31So, yeah, I am concerned.
00:28:33I am concerned.
00:28:42In Sydney, Stephen is looking back on his time
00:28:46in the experiment with Rachel.
00:28:51Despite sharing a strong emotional connection
00:28:54within the bubble of the experiment,
00:28:56Stephen is contemplating if that bond is strong enough
00:28:59to last the distance in the outside world.
00:29:04Rachel's patience and kindness
00:29:06and I've got to hand it to her.
00:29:09I feel like Rachel really saved the relationship.
00:29:14And reflecting on the relationship,
00:29:16I haven't always been the greatest husband.
00:29:21I don't remember getting a compliment from you
00:29:23on how I look today.
00:29:25You do look gorgeous.
00:29:26And I'm really sorry that I didn't say it when it mattered.
00:29:29Do you think Stephen is affectionate enough?
00:29:36No!
00:29:41We've had our ups, we've had our downs.
00:29:44There's quite a large part of the relationship
00:29:46where I was sort of dragging the chain
00:29:48and my feelings started quite late for Rachel.
00:29:52I look back at intimacy week and how I sort of rejected Rachel
00:29:56and one of the tasks there.
00:30:01I can kiss you, Rachel.
00:30:04I'm not too sure if it's going to make you feel something.
00:30:07I need to feel that romantic connection.
00:30:09And unfortunately, I haven't felt that romantic connection as of yet.
00:30:20I've realised that I've just been a little bit lacking in the relationship-wise.
00:30:26I've probably just got to be a little bit more proactive in my emotions.
00:30:33Being away from Rachel, I've realised that, yeah, I do have deep feelings for her.
00:30:40But at the same time, I guess my biggest fear is that I will not meet Rachel's expectations
00:30:47within our relationship in the real world.
00:30:51There's a lot more other challenges outside the experiment.
00:30:55Rachel's from Melbourne, I'm from Sydney.
00:30:57I've started a business here and, fortunately for now, I'm being a real pain in the arse
00:31:01and I'm saying to Rachel, I can't move from Sydney.
00:31:05When Rachel mentioned that she's going to move to Sydney,
00:31:08I am worried that she might regret it later.
00:31:11But I can see our future together.
00:31:15But it will not excuse the feelings of doubt that I've got,
00:31:21that we may not just make it because of these challenges that lie ahead of us.
00:31:32After nearly three months in the experiment,
00:31:36the time has come for Rachel and Stephen to decide
00:31:40whether to continue their relationship outside the experiment
00:31:44or part ways forever.
00:31:49I'm nervous because we've had a few hiccups along through the experiment
00:31:55and I haven't really been the greatest of husbands either.
00:32:07We've come so far and I've got someone I can be comfortable around
00:32:12and they like me for being me.
00:32:18I've missed Rachel.
00:32:19I'm excited to see her.
00:32:23But, you know, there is that thought in the back of my head going
00:32:26long distance, potential career changes.
00:32:30I've got these concerns that are polluting my head.
00:32:39It is a concern for me that we left on good terms
00:32:42but during our time apart,
00:32:44Stephen's life has been pulled into focus again
00:32:48of like what he has left behind.
00:32:53It scares me that Stephen's going to brush it off
00:32:56and then he's going to go, you know what, this is just too hard.
00:33:02But, at the same time,
00:33:04I've never had a guy make me feel as special as Stephen does.
00:33:11I've never had a guy make me feel as though I'm okay just being me.
00:33:17I am loud.
00:33:19I am a big personality.
00:33:22But Stephen's never asked me to be anything else.
00:33:27That's so rare to find in a partner.
00:33:30I'm hoping that I walk out of my final vows with Stephen hand in hand
00:33:35and we move forward and it all comes together for us.
00:33:47Still to come.
00:33:52Will Rachel get the commitment she's always wanted from Stephen?
00:33:57I won't lie.
00:33:58There have been moments in this experiment where I seriously questioned everything.
00:34:03An outpouring of emotion.
00:34:06You've made me believe in love against Stella.
00:34:09You've shown me what kindness, loyalty and genuine care look like.
00:34:15And Beck and Danny's final vows.
00:34:18But what will Danny decide?
00:34:24Beck.
00:34:25Beck.
00:34:25Beck.
00:35:25Look at that jacket.
00:35:26I love it.
00:35:26I know, look at you.
00:35:27You look beautiful.
00:35:29You look nervous.
00:35:31I am nervous.
00:35:33I feel like...
00:35:35Let's get into it.
00:35:36You ready?
00:35:37All right.
00:35:38As ready as I'm ever going to be.
00:35:40I'm not going to lie.
00:35:40I'm a little bit nervous myself.
00:35:42All right.
00:35:43Okay.
00:35:44All righty.
00:35:47Okay.
00:35:49Dear Stephen,
00:35:51Showing up to this experiment,
00:35:53I had experienced hurt in the dating world.
00:35:55Never been the chosen one
00:35:57and always left wondering why I wasn't enough.
00:36:00I came in knowing I'm not always easy.
00:36:02I'm strong, independent,
00:36:05and sometimes emotional,
00:36:08which meant I also had some learning to do,
00:36:11but I was willing to do the work.
00:36:14I showed up with an open heart
00:36:15and a deep hope
00:36:17that I might find real love
00:36:18and have my very own rom-com ending
00:36:21with a new leading man.
00:36:24Our journey hasn't been smooth sailing.
00:36:30During the honeymoon,
00:36:32I questioned your humour.
00:36:33Some jokes made me feel bad about myself.
00:36:35I started questioning my self-worth.
00:36:37Ultimately,
00:36:38I started to question our marriage.
00:36:41Affection was a big struggle.
00:36:43Intimacy week
00:36:44was one of the hardest moments
00:36:46in this experiment for us.
00:36:52I bravely opened my heart
00:36:54in such a vulnerable way.
00:36:56I felt exposed and rejected
00:36:58when you pulled away
00:36:59and didn't kiss me.
00:37:07Then at retreat,
00:37:08when I was excited about our progress,
00:37:10everything came crashing down.
00:37:13And because of that,
00:37:14I became emotionally raw,
00:37:16unravelling in front of you.
00:37:26But despite that,
00:37:27you stuck around.
00:37:28You supported me.
00:37:30You didn't try to fix it.
00:37:32You didn't walk away.
00:37:33You simply stayed with me.
00:37:35In that moment,
00:37:37my feelings for you deepened.
00:37:40I usually keep those parts of me guarded,
00:37:42covering the fears and hurt I carry
00:37:44to avoid being a burden to someone else.
00:37:48Because I have always believed
00:37:50that I might be too much to love.
00:37:53The final test
00:37:54with our alternate matches
00:37:55made me anxious.
00:37:56My insecurities
00:37:58of never being chosen
00:37:59began to resurface.
00:38:05But you proved me wrong
00:38:06with your words
00:38:08and your loyalty.
00:38:10It has been a slow burn.
00:38:13But it's allowed something
00:38:14rare to grow between us.
00:38:16A deep emotional connection.
00:38:19One I've never had
00:38:20with a man before.
00:38:22You've accepted me in ways
00:38:24I didn't know I needed.
00:38:26From getting emotionally
00:38:27attached to our fish.
00:38:29To singing the same line
00:38:31of a song on repeat.
00:38:33You've never asked me
00:38:34to tone it down,
00:38:36be less,
00:38:37or shrink myself
00:38:38to fit beside you.
00:38:39You've let me
00:38:41be me.
00:38:42Completely.
00:38:43And that's all
00:38:44I've ever wanted.
00:38:47I choose you, Stephen.
00:38:50No hesitation.
00:38:52No holding back.
00:38:55I want to walk out
00:38:56of this experiment
00:38:57hand in hand with you.
00:38:59Ready to keep building
00:39:00something messy.
00:39:01Something beautiful.
00:39:02Something real.
00:39:03And entirely out.
00:39:06I've never felt for anyone
00:39:07what I feel for you.
00:39:10And even with all the fears
00:39:12that whisper
00:39:12in the background.
00:39:14I want this.
00:39:16I want you, Stephen.
00:39:31Oh, man.
00:39:34I've missed that laugh, though.
00:39:37Calms me down.
00:39:38I love hearing it.
00:39:39I'm glad it makes you calm.
00:39:43Here we go.
00:39:47Rachel, on our wedding day,
00:39:49I turned around,
00:39:50we locked eyes,
00:39:51there was lots of laughter.
00:39:54A lot of laughter.
00:39:58But then the experiment kicked in.
00:40:00And wow,
00:40:01it's been one wild ride.
00:40:04We had moments
00:40:05that felt like pure magic,
00:40:07laughing until our cheeks hurt
00:40:09and discovering
00:40:10that we actually enjoy
00:40:11each other's weird,
00:40:13messy, chaotic selves.
00:40:16Those days were full of curiosity
00:40:18and exploring
00:40:19what it meant to be open,
00:40:22vulnerable
00:40:22and willing to give this
00:40:24a real chance.
00:40:27But of course,
00:40:28not everything was easy.
00:40:32I won't lie.
00:40:34There have been moments
00:40:35in this experiment
00:40:36where I seriously
00:40:37questioned everything.
00:40:38There were times
00:40:40where I spent nights
00:40:41lying away,
00:40:42thinking,
00:40:42can I really do this?
00:40:45Am I out of my depth?
00:40:50When the experiment began,
00:40:52I told myself I'd be open.
00:40:54But the truth is,
00:40:55old habits die hard.
00:41:01I was holding back
00:41:02and afraid of not being enough.
00:41:07But you challenged me.
00:41:09I wasn't used to someone
00:41:11expecting more from me.
00:41:12I remember the moment
00:41:14things shifted.
00:41:15It was the way you looked at me
00:41:16when I finally let my guard drop.
00:41:19The way you stood by me
00:41:20when I thought
00:41:21I didn't deserve it.
00:41:22I stopped trying to protect myself
00:41:24from being hurt
00:41:24and holding back
00:41:25in fear of rejection.
00:41:29You saw me.
00:41:31You accepted me.
00:41:33All of me.
00:41:34Steve-O.
00:41:36You've taught me
00:41:37that love isn't about perfection.
00:41:40It's about being real.
00:41:41Coming into this experiment,
00:41:43I had convinced myself
00:41:45that I was unlovable,
00:41:46too stubborn,
00:41:47too guarded,
00:41:48and too complicated.
00:41:50I had hope,
00:41:51but I also found it hard
00:41:53to imagine anyone ever
00:41:54loving someone like me.
00:41:56me.
00:41:58Rachel,
00:41:59you really changed that for me.
00:42:03You taught me
00:42:04that my heart wasn't broken.
00:42:06It was just waiting
00:42:07for the right person
00:42:08to see it.
00:42:09And that person
00:42:10is you, Rachel.
00:42:14So today,
00:42:15I'm standing here
00:42:16to tell you
00:42:18that I choose you.
00:42:22I choose your smile,
00:42:24your laugh,
00:42:25your smile.
00:42:29And I promise
00:42:30from this day forward
00:42:31to show up for you,
00:42:32take every risk with you,
00:42:34and to never stop
00:42:35choosing you.
00:42:39I am falling for you.
00:42:43Rachel,
00:42:44I choose you,
00:42:45and I'm diving in
00:42:48headfirst,
00:42:49fearless.
00:43:06Like a fairytale ending,
00:43:08isn't it?
00:43:09Like,
00:43:09to hear Rachel say,
00:43:10I choose you,
00:43:11it was,
00:43:12made me really happy.
00:43:14Oh my gosh,
00:43:15oh my gosh.
00:43:16I feel really good.
00:43:18I'm like,
00:43:19I'm very,
00:43:19very happy.
00:43:23Oh,
00:43:23you want to be
00:43:24my girlfriend?
00:43:24Yes,
00:43:24I want to be your girlfriend.
00:43:26Oh,
00:43:26there we go.
00:43:26Now it's official.
00:43:29Oh my gosh,
00:43:31oh my gosh.
00:43:32All right.
00:43:33Well.
00:43:35Where to be community,
00:43:36you two?
00:43:38Probably more passion.
00:43:46Rachel and Stephen
00:43:47are leaving the building.
00:43:49Oh my gosh.
00:43:51Yeah,
00:43:52we've worked hard
00:43:52in our relationship.
00:43:53We've,
00:43:54I feel like I've got
00:43:55massive,
00:43:55you know,
00:43:56personal development
00:43:57from the experiment,
00:43:58and I'm walking out
00:43:59with,
00:44:00well,
00:44:01a girlfriend.
00:44:04That's true.
00:44:16There'll be more
00:44:17of that later.
00:44:33With the experiment
00:44:34coming to an end,
00:44:36one of this year's
00:44:37most tumultuous couples
00:44:39is packing up
00:44:40and leaving the apartment.
00:44:42Beck and Danny
00:44:43will now individually
00:44:44head back home
00:44:46and weigh up
00:44:47whether they want
00:44:48to continue
00:44:48their marriage
00:44:49beyond the experiment.
00:44:52No,
00:44:52don't leave.
00:44:54No.
00:44:55No,
00:44:56you're not allowed
00:44:56to go home.
00:44:57Shut up.
00:44:57You're not allowed.
00:44:59Moving out today,
00:45:00it's bittersweet.
00:45:02Bitter because
00:45:04I just want to be
00:45:05in my love bubble
00:45:05with my husband.
00:45:06I don't like this.
00:45:08Shut up.
00:45:09You'll be all right.
00:45:11By far the best thing
00:45:13I've ever done.
00:45:14It's so sad.
00:45:15I don't like it.
00:45:20It's our place,
00:45:21you know.
00:45:22We've had
00:45:23some of the best
00:45:24memories in here.
00:45:25Some of the worst ones
00:45:26too,
00:45:26but some of the
00:45:27best memories.
00:45:30Babe,
00:45:31can you help me?
00:45:32I can't lift this
00:45:33off the bed.
00:45:34No.
00:45:35Over time,
00:45:38being with Danny,
00:45:39being married to him,
00:45:40living with him,
00:45:40I've seen that he
00:45:41is just such
00:45:42a sensitive soul.
00:45:44I'll see you later.
00:45:48Your face.
00:45:50And that
00:45:51whilst we both
00:45:52were a bit out
00:45:53of our depth
00:45:53in this experiment
00:45:54at times,
00:45:55the effort
00:45:56that he's put in
00:45:57and worked
00:45:58with me
00:45:59and us together
00:46:00on this relationship
00:46:01just shows
00:46:02that he's
00:46:03really serious
00:46:03about it.
00:46:07what have you got
00:46:08in there?
00:46:08Dead body?
00:46:11Probably the last
00:46:12couple of weeks
00:46:12has been really,
00:46:13really tough,
00:46:14I'll be honest.
00:46:15Nearing the end
00:46:16of the experiment
00:46:16and I feel like
00:46:18pretty drained.
00:46:19But look,
00:46:19I wouldn't change it
00:46:20for the world.
00:46:20It's been a once
00:46:21in a lifetime experience.
00:46:23We've had some
00:46:24amazing times here.
00:46:25We've had some
00:46:26horrendous times here.
00:46:27We've gone through
00:46:29stress together,
00:46:30happy times,
00:46:31sad times,
00:46:32tears,
00:46:33everything together.
00:46:33So it's been a
00:46:34rollercoaster,
00:46:35so to speak.
00:46:36But we're here,
00:46:37which is amazing,
00:46:39you know?
00:46:40I'm really going to
00:46:41cherish the next
00:46:42few days to actually
00:46:43sit down,
00:46:45go for some
00:46:46long walks,
00:46:47drink some coffee
00:46:48and see what's
00:46:50the right move
00:46:50for me moving
00:46:51forward,
00:46:52you know?
00:46:53I've got a
00:46:53business meeting
00:46:55to go to.
00:46:56Some bourbon
00:46:57massive tips.
00:46:58Oh, Daniel!
00:47:00It just reminds
00:47:01you of the journey.
00:47:02Like, three months
00:47:03ago we were
00:47:03strangers and today
00:47:06we're like,
00:47:07like, love has
00:47:09come up,
00:47:09and I am
00:47:11obsessed with him.
00:47:13I love him.
00:47:15See you later.
00:47:19We'll speak anyway.
00:47:20All right.
00:47:21See ya.
00:47:29After a few
00:47:30days apart,
00:47:31Beck and Danny
00:47:33are reflecting
00:47:33on their relationship
00:47:34before they head
00:47:36to final vows.
00:47:38I think
00:47:39Danny loves me.
00:47:40I think
00:47:41he does.
00:47:41I think
00:47:42that he
00:47:44is going
00:47:44to take
00:47:45this time
00:47:45away
00:47:47and realise
00:47:49that we
00:47:49make each
00:47:50other better
00:47:50people.
00:47:52I think
00:47:52he does
00:47:53love me,
00:47:53but I need
00:47:54to hear it
00:47:56from him
00:47:56and I think
00:47:56final vows
00:47:57is the place
00:47:58I need to
00:47:58hear it.
00:47:59I want to be
00:48:00loved
00:48:01and I want
00:48:01to be adored
00:48:02and I
00:48:02deserve it.
00:48:03While Beck
00:48:04is crystal
00:48:05clear in
00:48:05her decision,
00:48:07in his
00:48:07hometown of
00:48:08Melbourne,
00:48:09Danny is
00:48:10not entirely
00:48:10convinced of
00:48:11the decision
00:48:12he'll be
00:48:12making about
00:48:13his future
00:48:14with Beck
00:48:14at the
00:48:15final vows
00:48:16ceremony.
00:48:17I came here
00:48:17looking for the
00:48:18Bonnie to my
00:48:18Clyde and
00:48:19Beck has
00:48:20characteristics
00:48:21what I'm
00:48:22looking for,
00:48:23some of the
00:48:23best memories
00:48:24I've ever had
00:48:25in my life.
00:48:26How do you feel
00:48:26about the words
00:48:27I wrote?
00:48:28I love what
00:48:28you write.
00:48:29That's so
00:48:30cute.
00:48:30But when
00:48:31me and
00:48:31Beck is
00:48:32very much
00:48:32like that,
00:48:33it's very
00:48:33much up
00:48:34and down,
00:48:35the hardest
00:48:35thing in the
00:48:36experiment's
00:48:36definitely
00:48:37been conflict.
00:48:38One of the
00:48:39major doubts
00:48:40for me is
00:48:41when there's
00:48:41a problem
00:48:42which isn't
00:48:43even a big
00:48:43problem,
00:48:44it can
00:48:44escalate into
00:48:45a big problem
00:48:46because I
00:48:46don't feel
00:48:47I can really
00:48:47talk to
00:48:48Beck.
00:48:49Sometimes
00:48:49I'm met
00:48:49with like
00:48:52aggression
00:48:52and sometimes
00:48:53she can
00:48:54sort of
00:48:54get her
00:48:54back up
00:48:55pretty easily.
00:48:56Just take
00:48:57it on
00:48:57board
00:48:57and
00:48:58I'm
00:48:58taking
00:48:58it on
00:48:59board.
00:48:59And take
00:48:59what I'm
00:49:00saying.
00:49:03Don't say
00:49:03thank you.
00:49:04It's not
00:49:04about saying
00:49:04thank you.
00:49:05But take
00:49:06what I'm
00:49:06saying.
00:49:08As seriously
00:49:09stop saying
00:49:10thank you.
00:49:12Yeah,
00:49:12I'm done.
00:49:15It's
00:49:16fine.
00:49:16I mean,
00:49:18this is
00:49:19what I
00:49:19mean.
00:49:20Yeah,
00:49:21good luck
00:49:21for me
00:49:21for the rest
00:49:22of my
00:49:22getting
00:49:22crucified.
00:49:25Daniel,
00:49:26come and
00:49:26sit next
00:49:27to me.
00:49:32Daniel,
00:49:33stand here
00:49:34and look
00:49:34united with
00:49:35me.
00:49:36Don't tell
00:49:36me what
00:49:37to do.
00:49:38Beck does
00:49:38like drama.
00:49:39She's been
00:49:40involved in
00:49:40a lot of
00:49:41drama with
00:49:41the group.
00:49:42You've given
00:49:42me the
00:49:42ick.
00:49:43If you
00:49:43can't read
00:49:44the situation
00:49:44accurately and
00:49:45you misinterpret
00:49:46words, that's
00:49:47not really on
00:49:48me, that's
00:49:48on you.
00:49:49Oh honey,
00:49:50you're the
00:49:50one that
00:49:51wrote them
00:49:51and read
00:49:52them.
00:49:52It ain't
00:49:53me, I'm
00:49:53reading them
00:49:54how you
00:49:54said them.
00:49:55When we
00:49:56went to
00:49:56dinner party
00:49:57free and
00:49:57Beck went
00:49:58off at
00:49:58everyone, I
00:49:59felt so
00:49:59uncomfortable.
00:50:00I was
00:50:01embarrassed of
00:50:01her behaviour.
00:50:02Stare at me
00:50:03with your
00:50:03evil eyes.
00:50:05Danny looks
00:50:06embarrassed.
00:50:06Because neither
00:50:07of you have
00:50:08got any
00:50:08friends here
00:50:09anymore.
00:50:12And then
00:50:12trying to
00:50:13talk to her
00:50:13about it, I
00:50:14had to be
00:50:15very careful
00:50:16with the
00:50:16way I was
00:50:17worded my
00:50:17words.
00:50:18Seeing her
00:50:19behave that
00:50:20way, how did
00:50:20you feel?
00:50:22It's a
00:50:22tough question
00:50:23to answer.
00:50:24He's
00:50:24scared of her.
00:50:25Just answer
00:50:26honestly.
00:50:27Were you
00:50:28proud?
00:50:28Were you
00:50:29embarrassed?
00:50:32You were
00:50:32what?
00:50:33Maybe
00:50:33slightly
00:50:33embarrassed,
00:50:34yeah.
00:50:37We have
00:50:37been through
00:50:38hell and
00:50:39high water
00:50:40together.
00:50:40We've had
00:50:41each other's
00:50:41backs.
00:50:41There's been
00:50:42good points.
00:50:43But there's
00:50:44also been
00:50:44some really,
00:50:44really bad
00:50:45times.
00:50:46So I
00:50:47have to sit
00:50:47down as a
00:50:48man, assess
00:50:50if Beck's
00:50:51the right
00:50:51person for
00:50:52me.
00:51:06I cannot
00:51:07believe that
00:51:08I've come
00:51:08into this
00:51:09experiment,
00:51:10fallen in
00:51:10love and
00:51:12I'm standing
00:51:13here at
00:51:13final vows.
00:51:15Today could
00:51:15be absolutely
00:51:16life-changing
00:51:17for me.
00:51:17It could
00:51:18literally be
00:51:18the beginning.
00:51:19of the
00:51:20rest of
00:51:20my life.
00:51:34Me and
00:51:35Beck get
00:51:35along so
00:51:35well, we
00:51:36care about
00:51:36each other.
00:51:42Honestly,
00:51:42I've given
00:51:43this experiment
00:51:43everything I've
00:51:44got.
00:51:47But I do
00:51:48have to make
00:51:50the correct
00:51:50decision for
00:51:51my life and
00:51:52my future
00:51:52as well.
00:52:16I am manifesting
00:52:20that it's going
00:52:20to be the best
00:52:21to be the best
00:52:21day ever and
00:52:23that I'm going
00:52:23to hear exactly
00:52:24what I hope
00:52:25to hear and
00:52:26we run
00:52:27off into
00:52:28the future
00:52:28together.
00:52:30I love
00:52:31Danny.
00:52:32Even though
00:52:33we argue,
00:52:34that doesn't
00:52:35diminish the
00:52:36feelings that I
00:52:36have for him.
00:52:38We have
00:52:39overcome so
00:52:39many hurdles
00:52:40together and
00:52:42I can't imagine
00:52:43my life without
00:52:43him now.
00:53:09tell me what
00:53:12your number
00:53:13one ick is
00:53:13with a guy.
00:53:14Body odour.
00:53:15Body odour.
00:53:16When they
00:53:16just smell
00:53:17disgusting.
00:53:18Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:53:18Not a vibe.
00:53:19Yours?
00:53:20Guys in
00:53:21cars that
00:53:21have the
00:53:22loud engine
00:53:23make you
00:53:24so insecure.
00:53:25If you need
00:53:25that much
00:53:26attention on
00:53:26yourself,
00:53:27you must
00:53:28not have
00:53:28a personality.
00:53:29Or a
00:53:29really small
00:53:30person.
00:53:30Or 100%.
00:53:32Compensating
00:53:32but not.
00:53:33I do not
00:53:34care what
00:53:34you drive,
00:53:35mate.
00:53:35Don't
00:53:35care.
00:53:36You don't
00:53:36like the
00:53:36revs.
00:53:37You don't
00:53:37like the
00:53:37cars.
00:53:38Don't
00:53:38care.
00:53:38Another
00:53:39one for
00:53:39me is
00:53:40those
00:53:40no-show
00:53:41socks.
00:53:41Those socks
00:53:42that just
00:53:42go around
00:53:42the toes
00:53:43and the
00:53:43heels.
00:53:44That is
00:53:45no way.
00:53:46When me
00:53:47and my
00:53:47boyfriend
00:53:47started
00:53:47dating,
00:53:48he had
00:53:48some in
00:53:49his drawer.
00:53:50Literally
00:53:50got them
00:53:50through the
00:53:50mouth.
00:53:51There's
00:53:51no way
00:53:51you're
00:53:51wearing
00:53:51those.
00:53:52There's
00:53:52no way.
00:53:53Actually,
00:53:53you know,
00:53:53this is a
00:53:54funny one
00:53:54that you
00:53:54won't expect
00:53:55from me.
00:53:55I'm an
00:53:55athlete,
00:53:56but I
00:53:56don't like
00:53:57guys that
00:53:57do
00:53:57organised
00:53:58sport.
00:53:58If
00:53:59they're
00:53:59in a
00:53:59footy
00:53:59team
00:54:00or
00:54:00whatever.
00:54:00Oh,
00:54:01you
00:54:01don't
00:54:01like
00:54:01that?
00:54:01Because
00:54:02it
00:54:02basically
00:54:03just
00:54:03takes
00:54:03up
00:54:05guys
00:54:07in
00:54:08cars.
00:54:09Yeah,
00:54:09okay,
00:54:09big ick
00:54:10when guys
00:54:10yell at
00:54:10you from
00:54:11their
00:54:11cars.
00:54:12That's
00:54:12disgusting.
00:54:14But
00:54:14because
00:54:15it
00:54:15takes
00:54:15up
00:54:16their
00:54:16whole
00:54:17weekend
00:54:17and
00:54:18it's
00:54:18like,
00:54:18oh,
00:54:18sorry,
00:54:18I'm
00:54:18with
00:54:19the
00:54:19boys.
00:54:19It's
00:54:20not
00:54:20only,
00:54:20I'm
00:54:21going
00:54:21to
00:54:21put
00:54:21you
00:54:21with
00:54:21boys.
00:54:21like,
00:54:22well,
00:54:22now I've
00:54:22got drinks
00:54:22for
00:54:22boys.
00:54:23Now
00:54:23I've
00:54:23got
00:54:24whatever
00:54:24the
00:54:24boys.
00:54:30All
00:54:31right,
00:54:31shall
00:54:32we?
00:54:32Let's
00:54:33do it.
00:54:34Oh,
00:54:34my
00:54:34gosh.
00:54:36Daniel,
00:54:37come
00:54:37into
00:54:38this
00:54:38experiment.
00:54:39When
00:54:39I
00:54:39first
00:54:39met
00:54:40you
00:54:40with
00:54:40the
00:54:40end
00:54:40of
00:54:40the
00:54:41aisle,
00:54:41I'll
00:54:42be
00:54:42honest.
00:54:43Here we
00:54:44go.
00:54:45I
00:54:46didn't
00:54:46feel
00:54:46an
00:54:46instant
00:54:47spark.
00:54:47I
00:54:48remember
00:54:48thinking
00:54:48you
00:54:49weren't
00:54:49quite
00:54:49my
00:54:49type
00:54:50and
00:54:50maybe
00:54:51even
00:54:51that
00:54:51you
00:54:51were
00:54:51a
00:54:51bit
00:54:51of
00:54:52a
00:54:52boy.
00:54:55But as
00:54:55the
00:54:56days
00:54:56went
00:54:56on,
00:54:57I
00:54:57started
00:54:57to
00:54:57see
00:54:58something
00:54:58different.
00:54:58Someone
00:54:59kind,
00:55:00someone
00:55:00grounded
00:55:00and
00:55:01quietly
00:55:01protective.
00:55:02Our
00:55:03honeymoon,
00:55:04we had
00:55:04moments
00:55:04of
00:55:04laughter,
00:55:05connection
00:55:06and
00:55:06excitement.
00:55:08When
00:55:08we
00:55:08moved
00:55:09into
00:55:09our
00:55:09apartment,
00:55:10I
00:55:10felt
00:55:10hopeful.
00:55:11It
00:55:12started
00:55:12to feel
00:55:12like we
00:55:12were
00:55:12building
00:55:13something
00:55:13real.
00:55:14But
00:55:14then
00:55:15you
00:55:15told
00:55:15me
00:55:15we
00:55:15had
00:55:16low
00:55:16sexual
00:55:16chemistry.
00:55:18But
00:55:19we
00:55:20chose
00:55:20our
00:55:20relationship
00:55:20and
00:55:21instead
00:55:21of
00:55:22running
00:55:22away,
00:55:22we
00:55:22worked
00:55:22on it
00:55:23and
00:55:23tried
00:55:23to
00:55:23reconnect.
00:55:24One
00:55:25kiss
00:55:25every
00:55:25morning
00:55:25and
00:55:26one
00:55:26kiss
00:55:26every
00:55:26night.
00:55:29In
00:55:29intimacy
00:55:29week,
00:55:30the
00:55:30fantasy
00:55:31night
00:55:31changed
00:55:31everything.
00:55:32For the
00:55:33first time,
00:55:33I felt
00:55:34like we
00:55:34truly connected
00:55:34emotionally,
00:55:35physically
00:55:36and
00:55:36spiritually.
00:55:37It
00:55:37was a
00:55:37moment I
00:55:38realised this
00:55:38wasn't just
00:55:39an experiment
00:55:39anymore.
00:55:40It was
00:55:40something real
00:55:41and something
00:55:41worth fighting
00:55:42for.
00:55:43Of
00:55:43course,
00:55:44it
00:55:44hasn't all
00:55:44been smooth
00:55:45sailing.
00:55:45We've
00:55:45had our
00:55:46arguments.
00:55:48At
00:55:49the third
00:55:49dinner
00:55:49party,
00:55:50I let
00:55:50my emotions
00:55:51get the
00:55:51better of
00:55:52me and
00:55:53I could
00:55:53see the
00:55:54disappointment
00:55:54in your
00:55:54eyes.
00:55:56When you
00:55:56said that I
00:55:57embarrassed
00:55:57you,
00:55:58I was
00:55:58crushed
00:55:59because your
00:56:00opinion of
00:56:00me actually
00:56:01matters so
00:56:01much.
00:56:03You are,
00:56:04without a
00:56:05doubt,
00:56:05the funniest
00:56:05man I've
00:56:06ever met
00:56:06and I
00:56:07love that
00:56:07about you.
00:56:09You light
00:56:09up every
00:56:10room and
00:56:10every day
00:56:11with you
00:56:11brings
00:56:11smiles and
00:56:12laughter.
00:56:14Love isn't
00:56:15just about the
00:56:15good moments,
00:56:16it's about who
00:56:17you choose to
00:56:17stand beside
00:56:18when things
00:56:18get hard.
00:56:26Daniel,
00:56:27you're my
00:56:27best friend,
00:56:28my safe
00:56:28space.
00:56:29You make
00:56:29me a better
00:56:30person and
00:56:30you lift me
00:56:31up when I'm
00:56:31down.
00:56:32You're the
00:56:32kind of man
00:56:33everyone wants
00:56:33in their
00:56:33corner.
00:56:34You're
00:56:34loyal,
00:56:35funny and
00:56:35endlessly
00:56:36giving.
00:56:36I've watched
00:56:37you be the
00:56:37best friend
00:56:37to everyone
00:56:38around you,
00:56:39always the
00:56:39first to
00:56:40help or
00:56:40make people
00:56:40smile.
00:56:41My dog
00:56:42Coco loved
00:56:42you from
00:56:43the moment
00:56:43she met
00:56:43you and
00:56:44that told
00:56:44me everything
00:56:45I needed
00:56:45to know
00:56:45about your
00:56:46heart.
00:56:47my family
00:56:48adore you
00:56:49and seeing
00:56:49you with
00:56:49them,
00:56:50seeing how
00:56:50naturally you
00:56:51fit into
00:56:51my world
00:56:52has made
00:56:52me realise
00:56:53how much
00:56:53I want
00:56:53you to
00:56:54stay in
00:56:54it.
00:56:56I look
00:56:57at you
00:56:57now and
00:56:57I see
00:56:57the man
00:56:58I want
00:56:58to build
00:56:58a life
00:56:59with,
00:56:59a man
00:57:00who has
00:57:00made me
00:57:00see a
00:57:00future
00:57:01for myself
00:57:01that I
00:57:02didn't
00:57:02see before,
00:57:03the man
00:57:04who makes
00:57:04me laugh,
00:57:05challenges
00:57:05me and
00:57:05reminds me
00:57:06that love
00:57:06can grow
00:57:06in the
00:57:07most
00:57:07unexpected
00:57:07places.
00:57:09So
00:57:09today,
00:57:10standing
00:57:11here,
00:57:11I'm
00:57:12choosing
00:57:12you and
00:57:13I promise
00:57:14to choose
00:57:14you every
00:57:15day from
00:57:15here on
00:57:15out
00:57:16because
00:57:18simply
00:57:18put,
00:57:19I love
00:57:19you.
00:57:25Aw,
00:57:27thanks so
00:57:28much,
00:57:28that was
00:57:28beautiful.
00:57:38You okay?
00:57:39Shall I,
00:57:40do you want
00:57:40me to go
00:57:40now?
00:57:42Well,
00:57:42where's
00:57:43it gonna
00:57:43go?
00:57:56Beg,
00:57:58first and
00:57:59foremost,
00:57:59I want
00:58:00to start
00:58:00off by
00:58:00saying how
00:58:01much of an
00:58:02honor it's
00:58:02been to do
00:58:02this crazy
00:58:03experiment
00:58:03with you.
00:58:05I came
00:58:06onto this
00:58:06experiment
00:58:07looking for
00:58:08the Bonnie
00:58:08to my
00:58:09Clyde.
00:58:11Our
00:58:12wedding day
00:58:12was beautiful.
00:58:13We instantly
00:58:14seemed to
00:58:14get on,
00:58:15shared the
00:58:16same sense
00:58:16of humor,
00:58:17it put
00:58:17my mind
00:58:18at ease.
00:58:20Then we
00:58:20went to our
00:58:21honeymoon to
00:58:21beautiful
00:58:22Fiji.
00:58:23It felt like
00:58:24the experts
00:58:24had found me
00:58:25someone who
00:58:25aligned with
00:58:26me in so
00:58:27many ways.
00:58:27We could
00:58:28talk and
00:58:28laugh for
00:58:29hours.
00:58:32It was
00:58:32also where
00:58:34we had our
00:58:34first stumbling
00:58:35block.
00:58:35You accused
00:58:36me of
00:58:36looking at
00:58:37another
00:58:37woman.
00:58:39I
00:58:40felt like
00:58:41you were
00:58:41seeking out
00:58:42a
00:58:42negative,
00:58:44but I
00:58:44realized your
00:58:45insecurities
00:58:46were at
00:58:46play and
00:58:47realized how
00:58:47important it
00:58:48was to
00:58:48reassure you.
00:58:50Moving
00:58:50through the
00:58:51experiment,
00:58:51we struggled
00:58:52aligning on
00:58:52intimacy.
00:58:54It took me
00:58:54longer to
00:58:55find that
00:58:55spark, but
00:58:56through that,
00:58:57I was so
00:58:57proud of the
00:58:58way you
00:58:59and I
00:58:59dived head
00:58:59first into
00:59:00intimacy
00:59:00week.
00:59:02And I
00:59:02have to
00:59:02say, the
00:59:03night we
00:59:03painted each
00:59:04other's
00:59:04bodies was
00:59:04one of my
00:59:05favorite nights
00:59:05of the
00:59:06experiment.
00:59:06It brought
00:59:07out an
00:59:08emotional
00:59:08side of
00:59:08me that
00:59:09I didn't
00:59:09even know
00:59:09was there
00:59:10and attraction
00:59:11grew.
00:59:12I was so
00:59:13glad I stuck
00:59:14around and I
00:59:14thank you for
00:59:15that.
00:59:18We spent
00:59:19the next few
00:59:20weeks rarely
00:59:20getting to
00:59:21know each
00:59:21other,
00:59:21peeling back
00:59:22the layers,
00:59:24laughing non-stop
00:59:24and feeling
00:59:25more and more
00:59:25comfortable around
00:59:26one another.
00:59:27It started to
00:59:28feel like we
00:59:28were building
00:59:29something really
00:59:29special.
00:59:32Then at the
00:59:32third dinner
00:59:33party, I saw
00:59:34a different
00:59:34side of you.
00:59:36You were
00:59:37on the
00:59:37attack.
00:59:38You were
00:59:38vulgar.
00:59:39It seemed
00:59:40like you
00:59:40were seeking
00:59:40out drama.
00:59:41I will
00:59:42admit, I
00:59:43was embarrassed
00:59:44and uncomfortable.
00:59:45I questioned
00:59:46everything and
00:59:47whether this
00:59:47was the
00:59:48relationship I
00:59:48wanted.
00:59:50But still, I
00:59:51chose to
00:59:51stand by
00:59:52your side.
00:59:52I knew
00:59:53that we
00:59:53had so
00:59:53many good
00:59:54qualities worth
00:59:54fighting for.
00:59:57I was so
00:59:58proud of the
00:59:58way that you
01:00:00worked on
01:00:00yourself after
01:00:01that dinner
01:00:01party.
01:00:02You were
01:00:02kind, you
01:00:03were honest,
01:00:03and you
01:00:03made a real
01:00:04effort to
01:00:04make amends
01:00:05with everyone
01:00:05in the group
01:00:06that you
01:00:06had hurt.
01:00:09From there,
01:00:09we went from
01:00:10strength to
01:00:10strength.
01:00:11We had
01:00:11each other's
01:00:12backs, and
01:00:12everything felt
01:00:13right.
01:00:14You told me
01:00:14you loved me,
01:00:15but although I
01:00:16couldn't say it
01:00:16back in that
01:00:17moment, it
01:00:18didn't scare me
01:00:18away.
01:00:19It truly meant
01:00:20the world to me
01:00:20to hear how you
01:00:21were feeling in
01:00:22that moment.
01:00:24Going to
01:00:25Adelaide and
01:00:25seeing you in
01:00:26your home with
01:00:26your beautiful
01:00:27dog, Coco,
01:00:28showed me an
01:00:29even softer
01:00:30side of you.
01:00:30I could see
01:00:31us living
01:00:32together in
01:00:32Adelaide as
01:00:33a couple.
01:00:35It felt like
01:00:36everything was
01:00:37falling into
01:00:37place, and I
01:00:38felt excited for
01:00:39what our future
01:00:40could be.
01:00:43Then on the
01:00:44final night in
01:00:45Adelaide, I
01:00:45cracked a joke
01:00:46that landed
01:00:47wrong.
01:00:49In hindsight,
01:00:50perhaps I
01:00:50shouldn't have
01:00:51made that joke,
01:00:51and for that,
01:00:52I apologise
01:00:52again.
01:00:53Oh, babe.
01:00:54But you
01:00:55couldn't let
01:00:55it go.
01:00:56Rarely
01:00:56highlighted to
01:00:57me how our
01:00:58fight styles
01:00:59didn't align.
01:01:01Suddenly, all
01:01:02of the good
01:01:02energy from
01:01:03Adelaide disappeared
01:01:04and put major
01:01:05doubts into my
01:01:05head as to
01:01:06whether the
01:01:07move to
01:01:07Adelaide would
01:01:07be smart,
01:01:08because if
01:01:09these things
01:01:09were to happen
01:01:10outside the
01:01:10experiment, it
01:01:11would make me
01:01:12feel more
01:01:12isolated than
01:01:13ever.
01:01:15At the final
01:01:16task where we
01:01:17met our
01:01:18alternative matches,
01:01:19I approached
01:01:20it in a
01:01:20respectful manner.
01:01:21However, when
01:01:22I watched the
01:01:23video, I
01:01:24back of you,
01:01:24you ridiculed
01:01:25me for the
01:01:25shirt I was
01:01:26wearing and
01:01:28said that I'm
01:01:28not intimate
01:01:29enough with
01:01:29you in a
01:01:30vulgar way to
01:01:31a group of
01:01:32males that
01:01:32were strangers.
01:01:35You told me
01:01:36after the
01:01:36task that
01:01:37Gia's date
01:01:37basically forced
01:01:38you to take
01:01:38his number,
01:01:39but watching
01:01:40the video back,
01:01:41I saw that
01:01:41was a complete
01:01:42lie.
01:01:45When I
01:01:46tried to
01:01:46bring this
01:01:46up with you
01:01:47in a calm
01:01:48and respectful
01:01:48manner, I
01:01:49was met
01:01:49with conflict
01:01:50and you
01:01:50storming out.
01:01:51It was a
01:01:52stark reminder
01:01:53that our
01:01:53fight styles
01:01:54don't match
01:01:55in important
01:01:55discussions.
01:01:58I've always
01:01:59said that I
01:01:59want to start
01:02:00thinking about
01:02:00having kids
01:02:01soon.
01:02:01And when I
01:02:02think of
01:02:02bringing kids
01:02:03into the
01:02:03world, I
01:02:04want to bring
01:02:04kids into a
01:02:05stable relationship
01:02:06and a stable
01:02:07loving home,
01:02:08the same as I
01:02:09had when I
01:02:09was a child.
01:02:12Stepping away
01:02:13from the
01:02:13experiment in the
01:02:14last week, I
01:02:14rarely thought
01:02:15about how I
01:02:16felt having
01:02:17space on my
01:02:17own again.
01:02:19and as much
01:02:20as it breaks
01:02:20my heart to
01:02:21say this, I
01:02:23felt a weight
01:02:23come off my
01:02:24shoulders,
01:02:25particularly at
01:02:25a time where
01:02:26I knew I
01:02:27should have
01:02:27been missing
01:02:27you.
01:02:31I believe
01:02:31you can have
01:02:32multiple soul
01:02:32mates in
01:02:33life, some
01:02:34who are your
01:02:35best friends
01:02:35and some
01:02:35who are your
01:02:36lovers.
01:02:37Beck, I
01:02:37believe you're
01:02:38my soul
01:02:38mate as a
01:02:39friend, but
01:02:39I've come
01:02:40to realise
01:02:41there's doubt
01:02:41in my mind
01:02:42that if you
01:02:42are my soul
01:02:43mate as a
01:02:43lover.
01:02:50It's not
01:02:50only, oh I'm
01:02:51going to put
01:02:51you with
01:02:51the boys, it's
01:02:52like oh now
01:02:52I've got drinks
01:02:52for the boys,
01:02:53now I've got
01:02:54whatever with
01:02:55the boys.
01:02:55I'm not sure
01:02:55where I fit in
01:02:56that.
01:02:56Okay, it's
01:02:57making sense.
01:02:58It's not the
01:02:58organised sport,
01:02:59it's that do you
01:03:00even have time
01:03:01to see me?
01:03:02Everything's for
01:03:02the boys.
01:03:03I'm like I
01:03:03think you might
01:03:03want to date
01:03:04the boys.
01:03:05Yeah, actually.
01:03:06Another ick is
01:03:07like the guy
01:03:07for sure needs
01:03:09to be over six
01:03:09foot.
01:03:09So you're not
01:03:10a short king?
01:03:11No, I don't
01:03:11like a short
01:03:12king.
01:03:12I'm obviously
01:03:13incredibly short
01:03:14but yeah, I
01:03:14too like a
01:03:15tall guy.
01:03:16What's your
01:03:16cut off?
01:03:17Do you have
01:03:17a cut off?
01:03:18I'm sorry if
01:03:18you're close to
01:03:19my heart.
01:03:20No, but I
01:03:20don't, I mean
01:03:20being close to
01:03:21your heart would
01:03:21be pretty hard.
01:03:22But like guys
01:03:23for my heart,
01:03:24I'm just like I
01:03:25don't want to
01:03:25look at you in
01:03:25the eye.
01:03:26You know what
01:03:26I mean?
01:03:27Like I don't
01:03:27want to be
01:03:27looking up.
01:03:28Yeah.
01:03:29That's a vibe.
01:03:29Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:03:40I've always said
01:03:41that I want to
01:03:41start thinking
01:03:42about having
01:03:42kids soon
01:03:43and when I
01:03:44think of
01:03:44bringing kids
01:03:45into the world
01:03:45I want to
01:03:46bring kids
01:03:47into a stable
01:03:47relationship
01:03:48and a stable
01:03:49loving home
01:03:50the same as
01:03:51I had when
01:03:51I was a child.
01:03:53Stepping away
01:03:54from the experiment
01:03:55in the last week
01:03:56I rarely thought
01:03:56about how I felt
01:03:58having space
01:03:58on my own again
01:04:01and as much
01:04:01as it breaks
01:04:02my heart
01:04:02to say this
01:04:03I felt a weight
01:04:04come off my
01:04:04shoulders
01:04:05particularly at a
01:04:06time where I
01:04:07knew I should
01:04:07have been missing
01:04:11I believe you
01:04:12can have
01:04:12multiple soulmates
01:04:13in life
01:04:14some who are
01:04:15your best friends
01:04:15and some who
01:04:16are your lovers
01:04:17Bec I believe
01:04:18you're my soulmate
01:04:19as a friend
01:04:19but I've come to
01:04:20realize there's
01:04:21doubt in my mind
01:04:22that if you
01:04:22are my soulmate
01:04:23as a lover
01:04:26honestly from the
01:04:27bottom of my heart
01:04:27I'm so sorry
01:04:28to do this to you
01:04:29but I can't
01:04:29be your husband
01:04:30anymore
01:04:31I know this
01:04:32might be hard
01:04:33to hear
01:04:34but I think
01:04:35we both
01:04:35deserve a happy
01:04:36relationship
01:04:37and like
01:04:38a healthier one
01:04:43I'm so
01:04:43sorry
01:04:51okay
01:04:54I'm actually
01:04:55so sorry
01:04:56I never
01:04:56wanted to
01:04:57hurt you
01:04:57no
01:05:03I do
01:05:04honestly
01:05:04think
01:05:04you're my soulmate
01:05:05as a friend
01:05:07I don't think
01:05:08nothing more
01:05:09to say
01:05:10okay
01:05:13I'm so sorry
01:05:14no
01:05:14Daniel
01:05:17I don't think
01:05:47I don't think
01:05:49I don't think
01:06:27that was
01:06:28real
01:06:30she actually took it
01:06:32the way she took it
01:06:34made it
01:06:34actually worse
01:06:38I'd have actually
01:06:38rather her got angry
01:06:39or something
01:06:40the way she actually
01:06:41took it made it worse
01:06:42because she actually
01:06:43took it like such a
01:06:44lady look
01:06:46if she would have
01:06:46abused me and stuff
01:06:47it would have actually
01:06:48made it so much easier
01:06:49to be honest
01:06:50see like
01:06:51why couldn't she
01:06:51have been like that
01:06:52the whole way
01:06:52through the experiment
01:06:53and stay with her
01:06:55do you know what I mean
01:06:56that's what's so
01:06:57cooked about it
01:06:58like
01:06:58it would have been
01:06:59so much better
01:07:00if she just
01:07:00twatted me one
01:07:13look how
01:07:14flawlessly
01:07:14did she take that
01:07:15why couldn't she
01:07:16have just been like that
01:07:16the whole way
01:07:17through the experiment
01:07:18I'd be with the girl
01:07:20why's that other side
01:07:21got to be there
01:07:21there's a side
01:07:22that I just
01:07:23can't have
01:07:35I've been blindsided
01:07:37I just didn't think
01:07:40it was going to go
01:07:41this way
01:07:41I just didn't
01:07:43you know
01:07:46I just
01:07:47I'm shocked
01:07:48I'm really shocked
01:07:53I went out of here
01:07:56where's my phone now
01:07:58I went out
01:07:59I want to check
01:08:00that you're okay
01:08:00no
01:08:01I want my phone
01:08:03I want a flight tonight
01:08:04are you okay
01:08:05no
01:08:08get me out of here now
01:08:27still to come
01:08:28the most romantic
01:08:30moment of this
01:08:31year's experiment
01:08:32Stella
01:08:34I love you more
01:08:35than I ever
01:08:36thought possible
01:08:47Stella and Philip
01:08:49have proven to be
01:08:50this year's
01:08:50strongest couple
01:08:51I can't believe
01:08:53we're at the end
01:08:53here like just
01:08:54yeah
01:08:54and the final day
01:08:55of the experiment
01:08:56is stirring up
01:08:58emotions for the pair
01:09:02everything that we've
01:09:03been through
01:09:03every kind of
01:09:05awkward moment
01:09:07I'm glad to have
01:09:08done it with you
01:09:09no one else
01:09:10it's crazy like
01:09:12I actually do not
01:09:13want to spend
01:09:14a day
01:09:15without him
01:09:16he truly became
01:09:17a part of me
01:09:21we fell in love
01:09:22we built a beautiful
01:09:22relationship
01:09:23leaving the
01:09:24apartments
01:09:24is like
01:09:26stepping into
01:09:27the new chapter
01:09:30Stella and I've
01:09:31been joined
01:09:31at the hip
01:09:31these last
01:09:3212 weeks
01:09:32so it feels
01:09:34a little bit
01:09:34surreal
01:09:35to be moving
01:09:36out of
01:09:36this home
01:09:37it's been
01:09:37the place
01:09:38where Stella
01:09:38and I
01:09:39have been
01:09:39able to
01:09:39work on
01:09:40our
01:09:40relationship
01:09:40a lot
01:09:41of good
01:09:41things
01:09:41have come
01:09:42out of
01:09:42this
01:09:42I've got
01:09:42some really
01:09:43fond memories
01:09:43yeah
01:09:44it was
01:09:45it was
01:09:46amazing
01:09:46oh
01:09:47being alone
01:09:48is so nice
01:09:50before they
01:09:51part ways
01:09:52the experts
01:09:53have one
01:09:54last surprise
01:09:55for Stella
01:09:56and Philip
01:09:56okay
01:09:57hold the chat
01:09:59a look back
01:10:00at where it
01:10:00all began
01:10:01with their
01:10:02wedding video
01:10:03oh stop it
01:10:04I'm gonna
01:10:04cry
01:10:05are you ready
01:10:06no
01:10:08okay
01:10:17hey
01:10:24what's going
01:10:25on
01:10:25hi
01:10:27hi
01:10:27I'm Phil
01:10:28hi
01:10:28I'm Phil
01:10:29so what's your name
01:10:30Stella
01:10:30Stella
01:10:31nice to meet you
01:10:31nice to meet you
01:10:33hi
01:10:38you got this
01:10:39oh get me so
01:10:40emotional
01:10:40hey
01:10:41you got this
01:10:42such a cry
01:10:43baby
01:10:43it's ridiculous
01:10:44you're right
01:10:45you're good
01:10:45it's all good
01:10:46I'm here
01:10:47all good
01:10:49hi
01:10:50I'm Aista
01:10:51but please
01:10:51call me Stella
01:10:52in my language
01:10:53we say
01:10:57which translates
01:10:58to you hold
01:10:59the wheel
01:10:59and I'll bring
01:11:00peace to our
01:11:00journey
01:11:01to me
01:11:02that's real
01:11:02love
01:11:03balance
01:11:03safety
01:11:04freedom
01:11:04and fire
01:11:05today I don't
01:11:06just marry a
01:11:07stranger
01:11:07I marry possibility
01:11:08a possibility
01:11:09of something real
01:11:10one last thing
01:11:12I cry
01:11:13a lot
01:11:18no shit
01:11:19no shit
01:11:21man
01:11:21to understand
01:11:22me fully
01:11:23it's worth
01:11:24understanding
01:11:24my family
01:11:25I actually
01:11:26came to Australia
01:11:26from a small
01:11:27country in Europe
01:11:28called Croatia
01:11:28at eight months
01:11:29of age
01:11:30it's something
01:11:31that I admire
01:11:32about my parents
01:11:33to leave
01:11:34their hometown
01:11:34their family
01:11:35their friends
01:11:35starting over
01:11:36to give us
01:11:37kids a better
01:11:38life
01:11:39their 40 year
01:11:40commitment
01:11:40of teamwork
01:11:41love and patience
01:11:43have shown me
01:11:44that hard work
01:11:44does pay off
01:11:46just know
01:11:47that you can
01:11:48relax and
01:11:48unapologetically
01:11:49be yourself
01:11:50with me
01:11:51and lean into
01:11:52those things
01:11:53that light you up
01:11:53because I promise
01:11:54I will
01:11:55it lets
01:11:56hear your biggest
01:11:56cheers as I
01:11:57present to you
01:11:57for the very
01:11:57first time
01:11:58as newlyweds
01:11:59Stella and
01:12:00Philly
01:12:21it felt very surreal
01:12:23watching back
01:12:24at the wedding
01:12:25and meeting Phil
01:12:26for the first time
01:12:27seeing the sparks
01:12:29in both of our
01:12:29eyes
01:12:30and hearing
01:12:31the vows
01:12:32it was a very
01:12:34beautiful
01:12:34special moment
01:12:35special special
01:12:36day
01:12:38it was amazing
01:12:40watching the
01:12:41wedding video
01:12:42just made me realise
01:12:43how far
01:12:44Stella and I
01:12:44have come
01:12:45how special
01:12:46that day
01:12:47really was
01:12:48it just brought
01:12:48back a lot
01:12:49of good memories
01:12:50because that was
01:12:51the start of
01:12:52something really
01:12:52really special
01:12:53for Stella
01:12:53and I
01:12:54say hi
01:12:55to your mum
01:12:56and dad
01:12:56give hugs
01:12:57give a letter
01:12:58and I'll see you
01:12:59soon
01:12:59see ya
01:13:00I feel great
01:13:01going to the
01:13:01final vows
01:13:03love you
01:13:03love you
01:13:04I do see
01:13:05us being old
01:13:07and holding
01:13:08the hands
01:13:09and walking
01:13:09together
01:13:09like
01:13:10this is my
01:13:11person
01:13:18I'm gonna cry
01:13:19again
01:13:34before revealing
01:13:36his decision
01:13:37at final vows
01:13:39Philip returns
01:13:40home to
01:13:41Melbourne
01:13:41I came into
01:13:43this experiment
01:13:44looking for
01:13:44love
01:13:45I definitely
01:13:45found what
01:13:46I've come
01:13:47here for
01:13:47I always thought
01:13:48their vulnerability
01:13:49was a weakness
01:13:50but every single
01:13:51time I've opened
01:13:52up whether it
01:13:53be in front
01:13:53of Stella
01:13:54or the experts
01:13:55I've always
01:13:56been rewarded
01:13:56with like a
01:13:57stronger bond
01:13:58with Stella
01:13:59I asked the
01:14:00question of like
01:14:00alright if we
01:14:01go outside
01:14:01of the experiment
01:14:02how quick
01:14:02would you expect
01:14:03like a proposal
01:14:04or something
01:14:05like that
01:14:05just to like
01:14:05fully escalate
01:14:06things and Stella
01:14:07was just like
01:14:08ASAP
01:14:08so it's just
01:14:09kind of like
01:14:09I said the sooner
01:14:10the better
01:14:11the sooner
01:14:11the better
01:14:12this is the
01:14:13start of something
01:14:13pretty special
01:14:15I can't believe
01:14:16I'm walking out
01:14:17with the love
01:14:17of my life
01:14:18in Sydney
01:14:19Stella is
01:14:20counting down
01:14:21the minutes
01:14:21until the
01:14:22final vows
01:14:23ceremony
01:14:23as she looks
01:14:25back on her
01:14:25magical journey
01:14:26with Philip
01:14:27I asked the
01:14:29experts to be
01:14:30the love story
01:14:31and I got it
01:14:33my wish got
01:14:34granted
01:14:35quite early on
01:14:37I realised
01:14:37that I am
01:14:38forming strong
01:14:39feelings for
01:14:39Philip
01:14:39and I think
01:14:42the time
01:14:42and the guidance
01:14:43that we got
01:14:44from the experts
01:14:45we started
01:14:46to feel
01:14:46that pure
01:14:47unconditional
01:14:48love
01:14:48Philip
01:14:49I want you
01:14:50to turn
01:14:50to Stella
01:14:51and tell her
01:14:52how you feel
01:14:53you don't
01:14:53make me cry
01:14:56you 100%
01:14:57know that I am
01:14:57I am in love
01:14:58with you
01:14:59and that you
01:15:01shouldn't doubt
01:15:01anything
01:15:02decision process
01:15:03for the final
01:15:04vows is
01:15:05non-existent
01:15:06for me
01:15:06I have very
01:15:07clear writing
01:15:07on the wall
01:15:08he's my man
01:15:09that's it
01:15:29of all decisions
01:15:30that I had to
01:15:31make in my
01:15:31life
01:15:31this seems
01:15:32seamless
01:15:34it doesn't
01:15:34cause me
01:15:35any stress
01:15:35any anxiety
01:15:36I know
01:15:37what we have
01:15:38is extremely
01:15:40beautiful
01:15:40rare
01:15:41real
01:15:43it's magical
01:15:46I thought
01:15:47that I was
01:15:48never going
01:15:48to experience
01:15:48a love
01:15:49like this
01:15:50I am 100%
01:15:51in love
01:15:52with Stella
01:15:54and I want
01:15:55to be with her
01:15:55for the rest
01:15:55of my life
01:15:57I look at him
01:15:58and I see us
01:15:59growing old
01:15:59together
01:16:00when I look
01:16:01at her
01:16:01I'm like
01:16:02you could be
01:16:03the mother
01:16:03of my children
01:16:10we came
01:16:11as singles
01:16:12and we're
01:16:13coming out
01:16:13as a beautiful
01:16:14couple
01:16:16I'm very
01:16:17very hopeful
01:16:18for the future
01:16:20walking out
01:16:20of here today
01:16:21I could be
01:16:22in a position
01:16:23that I never
01:16:23thought I would
01:16:24be in
01:16:25it's going to
01:16:25change the
01:16:26course of my
01:16:27life
01:16:27definitely
01:16:45you look
01:16:47amazing
01:16:55you look
01:16:57right
01:17:01ready
01:17:05let's go
01:17:10you're good
01:17:11you're good
01:17:12you're good
01:17:15my dearest
01:17:16Philip
01:17:18when I stood
01:17:19before you
01:17:19on our
01:17:20wedding day
01:17:22there was
01:17:22an instant spark
01:17:23a pull
01:17:24a sense
01:17:25of home
01:17:25that I couldn't
01:17:26and I didn't
01:17:27want to resist
01:17:28our chemistry
01:17:29was undeniable
01:17:30and from the
01:17:31moment I saw
01:17:31you
01:17:32effortlessly
01:17:33it grew
01:17:33into something
01:17:34deeper
01:17:35we became
01:17:36inseparable
01:17:36not because
01:17:37we had to
01:17:38but because
01:17:39it felt
01:17:39impossible
01:17:40to be apart
01:17:41through every
01:17:42challenge
01:17:43every tear
01:17:44and every
01:17:45argument
01:17:45we kept
01:17:46choosing each
01:17:47other
01:17:48we had to
01:17:49look at one
01:17:49another
01:17:50and say
01:17:50I'm human
01:17:52I'm flawed
01:17:59but will you
01:18:00accept me
01:18:01as I am
01:18:05and you did
01:18:06every time
01:18:09you gave me
01:18:10safety
01:18:10and vulnerability
01:18:11and showing
01:18:12me what
01:18:12true partnership
01:18:13looks like
01:18:14one built
01:18:15on respect
01:18:16trust
01:18:16care
01:18:17and the
01:18:18deepest
01:18:18emotional
01:18:19intimacy
01:18:21I have
01:18:22this rare
01:18:23ability
01:18:23to make me
01:18:23feel both
01:18:24held
01:18:24and free
01:18:27to be truly
01:18:28myself
01:18:29whilst constantly
01:18:30inspiring me
01:18:31to grow
01:18:32now standing
01:18:34here
01:18:34at the end
01:18:34of this
01:18:35incredible
01:18:35experiment
01:18:36I can say
01:18:37with absolute
01:18:37certainty
01:18:38that we're
01:18:39soulmates
01:18:41I feel it
01:18:42in every
01:18:43heartbeat
01:18:43in every
01:18:44look
01:18:44in every
01:18:45moment
01:18:45I get
01:18:45to share
01:18:46with you
01:18:48as we
01:18:49step into
01:18:49our next
01:18:49chapter
01:18:50I promise
01:18:51to keep
01:18:51choosing you
01:18:52every day
01:18:52to meet
01:18:53your strength
01:18:54with softness
01:18:54your ambition
01:18:55with encouragement
01:18:57and to keep
01:18:58laughing with you
01:18:58learning from you
01:18:59and loving you
01:19:00in all your
01:19:01forms
01:19:02you are my
01:19:02partner
01:19:03my safe
01:19:04space
01:19:04my adventure
01:19:05and my
01:19:05greatest gift
01:19:06I came here
01:19:07to look for love
01:19:08and what I found
01:19:09was far more
01:19:09profound
01:19:10I found
01:19:11home in you
01:19:12and I cannot
01:19:13wait to build
01:19:14the rest of our
01:19:15life there
01:19:15with you
01:19:16I love you
01:19:18I love you too
01:19:19thank you
01:19:27Stella
01:19:27what a journey
01:19:29these last
01:19:30three months
01:19:30have been
01:19:32I never
01:19:32expected to
01:19:33fall in love
01:19:35I'd watch
01:19:36friends around
01:19:37me find it
01:19:37and thought
01:19:38maybe it was
01:19:39only reserved
01:19:39for other
01:19:40people
01:19:41but the moment
01:19:42I turned around
01:19:42on our wedding
01:19:43day and saw
01:19:44those piercing
01:19:44blue eyes
01:19:45that smile
01:19:46and your tiny
01:19:47shaking hands
01:19:48I knew my
01:19:49life was about
01:19:49to change
01:19:50your vows
01:19:51showed me
01:19:52your warmth
01:19:52kindness
01:19:53and heart
01:19:54from that
01:19:55moment
01:19:55I felt a
01:19:56connection
01:19:57that's only
01:19:57grown stronger
01:19:58with every
01:19:59day that's
01:19:59passed since
01:20:01on the
01:20:02honeymoon
01:20:02learning about
01:20:03each other
01:20:03sharing values
01:20:05and realising
01:20:06how naturally
01:20:07we fit
01:20:07it all confirmed
01:20:08that what we
01:20:09had was real
01:20:10but it hasn't
01:20:11been all smooth
01:20:12sailing
01:20:14I told you
01:20:15I loved you
01:20:16I'll never forget
01:20:17that simple
01:20:18perfect moment
01:20:18I hadn't said
01:20:20I loved you
01:20:20in years
01:20:20and I meant
01:20:21it with
01:20:22absolute
01:20:22certainty
01:20:24when you
01:20:24pulled back
01:20:25I struggled
01:20:26wondering if
01:20:27maybe I
01:20:27wasn't
01:20:27wasn't enough
01:20:30I felt
01:20:31helpless
01:20:31unsure
01:20:32of what
01:20:32more I
01:20:33could do
01:20:33to convince
01:20:34you that
01:20:34this was
01:20:35real
01:20:35but when
01:20:36you said
01:20:36you were
01:20:36in love
01:20:37with me
01:20:37too
01:20:37I realised
01:20:38I was
01:20:38actually
01:20:39worthy
01:20:39of someone's
01:20:40love
01:20:41and more
01:20:42importantly
01:20:42it was
01:20:43coming from
01:20:43a person
01:20:43I was in
01:20:44love with
01:20:44myself
01:20:48through
01:20:48through every
01:20:48struggle we
01:20:49ever
01:20:49encountered
01:20:50we have
01:20:50communicated
01:20:51we have
01:20:52listened
01:20:52and we
01:20:53have
01:20:53worked
01:20:53together
01:20:53ultimately
01:20:55every struggle
01:20:56saw us
01:20:56come out
01:20:57stronger
01:20:57than ever
01:20:58I have
01:20:59never wanted
01:21:00to move
01:21:00somewhere for
01:21:01someone
01:21:01but now
01:21:02I realise
01:21:03home is
01:21:04simply
01:21:04wherever you
01:21:05are
01:21:07you made
01:21:07me believe
01:21:08in love
01:21:08against
01:21:08Stella
01:21:09you show
01:21:09me what
01:21:10kindness
01:21:10loyalty
01:21:11and genuine
01:21:12care look
01:21:12like
01:21:13with you
01:21:14I feel
01:21:14seen
01:21:15accepted
01:21:16and inspired
01:21:17to be better
01:21:18every single
01:21:19day
01:21:20being with
01:21:21you is like
01:21:22nothing I've
01:21:22ever felt
01:21:23before
01:21:23I see our
01:21:24future so
01:21:25vividly
01:21:25a family
01:21:27a home
01:21:28and a
01:21:28beautiful
01:21:29life together
01:21:30you have
01:21:31empathy for
01:21:31everyone you
01:21:32meet
01:21:32you're loving
01:21:34and accepting
01:21:35every day
01:21:36you bring out
01:21:37the best version
01:21:38of me
01:21:38and it reminds
01:21:39me of what
01:21:39love truly
01:21:40is
01:21:50Stella
01:21:51I love
01:21:52you more
01:21:52than I ever
01:21:53thought possible
01:21:58and have
01:21:59never felt
01:22:00more certain
01:22:01of anything
01:22:02I know
01:22:03what my
01:22:03heart wants
01:22:09something
01:22:10just for
01:22:11us
01:22:11something
01:22:12that is
01:22:13truly
01:22:13ours
01:22:19there are
01:22:21you
01:22:23Stella
01:22:24I love
01:22:39you more
01:22:39than I ever
01:22:40thought
01:22:41possible
01:22:45and have
01:22:46never felt
01:22:47more certain
01:22:48of anything
01:22:48I know
01:22:50what my
01:22:50heart
01:22:51wants
01:22:56something
01:22:57just
01:22:57for us
01:22:58something
01:22:59that is
01:23:00truly
01:23:00ours
01:23:08there are
01:23:10you
01:23:17will you marry
01:23:19me
01:23:26will you marry
01:23:27me
01:23:29oh my god
01:23:50oh my god
01:23:53oh my god
01:23:56come you
01:24:07let's do this
01:24:08let's do it
01:24:09let's do this
01:24:10are you shaking
01:24:29yeah
01:24:36I love you
01:24:37I love you too
01:24:40you're the best
01:24:43you're the best
01:24:43honestly
01:24:45oh I can't
01:24:46believe this
01:24:48I feel like I
01:24:48have an
01:24:49out of water
01:24:49experience
01:24:51oh my god
01:24:54oh my god
01:24:56oh my god
01:25:02oh my god
01:25:02oh my god
01:25:06it all makes sense
01:25:07why it didn't work
01:25:08out in the past
01:25:10I waited for this
01:25:11person for 32
01:25:11years of my life
01:25:14did you think
01:25:15that I would
01:25:16I did
01:25:17I knew I will
01:25:18marry you
01:25:18I knew
01:25:18I knew this
01:25:20is it for me
01:25:21but I didn't
01:25:22I didn't think
01:25:22that you will
01:25:23do it
01:25:24here
01:25:24right here
01:25:25right now
01:25:25no
01:25:26but I knew
01:25:27you are my
01:25:27person
01:25:28I knew
01:25:28from very
01:25:29early on
01:25:30I knew
01:25:30yeah
01:25:31likewise
01:25:31some would
01:25:32say in
01:25:33three days
01:25:33I knew
01:25:36I do love
01:25:37you
01:25:37I love you
01:25:37too
01:25:37it's like
01:25:38it's ridiculous
01:25:39I knew
01:25:40I knew myself
01:25:40was waiting
01:25:41for you
01:25:41for 32
01:25:42years
01:25:42yeah
01:25:44it's hard
01:25:45to put
01:25:46words to
01:25:47the mind
01:25:48at the moment
01:25:49yeah
01:25:49and I think
01:25:50I need to
01:25:50kind of just
01:25:53I told you
01:25:54my person
01:25:54you saw me
01:25:57I can't wait
01:25:59for this
01:25:59I can't wait
01:26:01it's just
01:26:02the beginning
01:26:05three months
01:26:06ago
01:26:06I was
01:26:07single
01:26:08pringle
01:26:08doing the
01:26:09most unhinged
01:26:10thing
01:26:10in my
01:26:11life
01:26:11that I
01:26:12never
01:26:12thought
01:26:12I
01:26:12would
01:26:13go
01:26:13on
01:26:13TV
01:26:15and
01:26:15try to
01:26:16find
01:26:16a
01:26:17husband
01:26:17because
01:26:17I
01:26:18couldn't
01:26:19as soon
01:26:20as I
01:26:20jumped
01:26:21into this
01:26:21I didn't
01:26:22know
01:26:22that this
01:26:22would
01:26:22be
01:26:23the avenue
01:26:24I knew
01:26:25in the
01:26:25crazy way
01:26:26that this
01:26:26would
01:26:26actually
01:26:26work
01:26:27but I
01:26:27just
01:26:27didn't
01:26:27know
01:26:28that I
01:26:28would
01:26:28be
01:26:28gifted
01:26:28this
01:26:29person
01:26:32are we
01:26:33doing it
01:26:38let's go
01:26:48for my
01:26:49kids
01:26:49for my
01:26:50family
01:26:50yeah
01:26:51absolutely
01:26:51I want
01:26:52to be a
01:26:53dad more
01:26:53than ever
01:26:53I've got
01:26:54all the
01:26:54dad jokes
01:26:55cued up
01:26:55they're
01:26:56ready to
01:26:56go
01:27:09Sunday
01:27:10night
01:27:13the
01:27:14participants
01:27:15return
01:27:16for the
01:27:18traditional
01:27:19reunion
01:27:19dinner
01:27:20party
01:27:23legitimately
01:27:24yeah
01:27:24I got
01:27:25down
01:27:25on one
01:27:25knee
01:27:28true
01:27:29love
01:27:29true
01:27:30love
01:27:32and
01:27:33Beck
01:27:33is
01:27:33demanding
01:27:34answers
01:27:35who do
01:27:36you think
01:27:37you are
01:27:39who do
01:27:40you think
01:27:41you are
01:27:41you are
01:27:42you are
01:27:42who do
01:27:52who do
01:27:52who do
01:27:52who do
01:27:52you are
01:27:53who do
01:27:53who do
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