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Married at First Sight Australia - Season 13 - Episode 22
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00:00:00Previously...
00:00:01I'm done with this experiment.
00:00:02Stephanie and Tyson's time in the experiment came to a dramatic end.
00:00:09Our couples continued to grow and learn from the experts.
00:00:13You guys showed me that I was in the wrong very, very much.
00:00:17And while romantic progress was on display...
00:00:20You're grinning from ear to ear.
00:00:22Stella and Phillip's stalemate on who will say I love you first continued.
00:00:27A man has to say it first.
00:00:29What is holding you back, Phillip?
00:00:31It's, I don't know. Yeah, we'll see.
00:00:32Feeling hatred at times.
00:00:33Are you even listening to what I'm saying?
00:00:35Don't speak over Alessandra.
00:00:37Show some respect.
00:00:38Juliet was held to account...
00:00:40You talk in a very toxic fight style.
00:00:42You can't say sorry.
00:00:43I apologise.
00:00:44Not very well.
00:00:45And despite her choosing to stay, Joel drew his line in the sand.
00:00:50I will always treat you with kindness and I expect the same treatment back.
00:00:54Giving the couple one more week to turn their marriage around.
00:00:58Tonight.
00:00:59It's hard to say things like this.
00:01:01I definitely haven't been one to kind of lean into my feelings of emotions.
00:01:05Alessandra had a good point, yeah?
00:01:07Why can't you just verbalise it to each other, you know?
00:01:09Will Phillip finally say those magic words that Stella's been dying to hear?
00:01:15His leg is shaking. It's okay, baby.
00:01:18And then...
00:01:19Yeah!
00:01:20It's time for the annual couples retreat.
00:01:23Wee!
00:01:24Woo! Yay!
00:01:25Very, very content right now.
00:01:27How good is this?
00:01:28Our newlyweds are loving the brand new location.
00:01:32Let's get away from it all.
00:01:35And the happy couples are all singing Kumbaya.
00:01:38I feel like the group vibe's quite nice.
00:01:41Ladies and gentlemen!
00:01:42Can I have you guys over here, please?
00:01:44Until...
00:01:45It's the first night of retreat.
00:01:46We've had...
00:01:50One...
00:01:51Bad...
00:01:52Joke...
00:01:53I just wanna leave.
00:01:54Sends the retreat into meltdown.
00:01:57Stop!
00:01:57You called her a liar.
00:01:58I'm not being manipulated by you!
00:02:00What is the punchline...
00:02:02Guys, guys!
00:02:03...that will break bonds...
00:02:05She is a liar!
00:02:06I'm so sick of this.
00:02:07Stop attacking K-pop and walk away.
00:02:09...and derail the course of the experiment...
00:02:12Get me out of here.
00:02:13...forever.
00:02:14It made me feel like a piece of shit.
00:02:16It worked.
00:02:24We've crossed the halfway mark of the 2026 Married at First Sight experiment.
00:02:30And many of our couples are forming strong romantic connections.
00:02:35Working together to overcome relationship hurdles...
00:02:38...and crossing significant milestones in their marriages.
00:02:42One couple in particular...
00:02:44...is waking up after reaching an exciting new milestone of their own.
00:02:52Oh, what's so funny?
00:02:56Why are you gigging?
00:02:58So, mine and Stephen's relationship is really good.
00:03:06This is...
00:03:06Why aren't we clicking today?
00:03:08This is really bad.
00:03:10This is really...
00:03:11We're usually good at this.
00:03:14Yeah.
00:03:15Yeah.
00:03:15I know why.
00:03:17It's because it's something that we don't want to talk about.
00:03:22Big weekend that me and Rachel had.
00:03:25We're definitely moving things along.
00:03:31We haven't...
00:03:32We haven't had sex, but we've started fooling about.
00:03:37So that's fun.
00:03:39We get to talk about it and everyone's going to be asking questions
00:03:42and we're going to be saying, yeah, it was fantastic.
00:03:45What was fantastic?
00:03:50Despite sharing a positive emotional connection,
00:03:53the couple's most significant challenge so far
00:03:57has been forming physical intimacy.
00:04:00And Stephen's reluctance was highlighted during intimacy week.
00:04:10I can kiss you, Rachel.
00:04:13But I'm not too sure if it's going to make you feel something.
00:04:24Meeting with his family,
00:04:25Stephen was presented with some valuable insight
00:04:28from his brother, Dylan, and mum, Anna.
00:04:31I feel like she's like this on Steve
00:04:34and Steve's just sitting here like this.
00:04:35Yes. Yeah.
00:04:37Come on, dude.
00:04:37She obviously is really into you
00:04:40and I feel like maybe you've got to let your wall down a little bit.
00:04:45At last night's commitment ceremony,
00:04:47Stephen's newfound focus on his connection with Rachel
00:04:50didn't go unnoticed by the experts.
00:04:53Oh, look at you two all cuddled up on the couch there.
00:04:56Ooh, that's cosy.
00:04:58We noticed that.
00:05:00What's changed? What's going on?
00:05:02You know, we had a pretty good kiss
00:05:03and a bit of a chat and a cuddle on the bed last night
00:05:06so it's definitely a step in the right direction.
00:05:09Me and Rachel have developed intimacy just a smudgy more.
00:05:14It felt natural.
00:05:16Alessandra did say bring some more romance and stuff to it.
00:05:21And yeah, we both had fun.
00:05:23The girls would be really excited.
00:05:25Interrogating?
00:05:26No, I don't think the girls would be interrogating
00:05:28but there'd better be bottles of champagne or something
00:05:30because we would be wanting to pop some bottles and celebrate.
00:05:34I'm not going to go into detail but yeah,
00:05:36last night we just sat on the bed
00:05:38and we had like a really good chat about intimacy
00:05:41and then essentially Stephen had a shower,
00:05:44came back to bed and I just...
00:05:46took off.
00:05:48Yeah, you can tell the boys.
00:05:49Tell the boys.
00:05:51I can do this, hey boys.
00:05:52I made second base.
00:05:55Jesus Christ.
00:05:57I don't think he understands what the bases are.
00:06:03Stephen said for him to want to increase intimacy
00:06:07and want to go further with someone he has to have that,
00:06:10you know, emotional attraction.
00:06:12So he must have it.
00:06:13Which is really exciting.
00:06:22Very happy girl.
00:06:23Do what I can.
00:06:30Unfortunately, not everyone is happy in their marriage.
00:06:33Joel is feeling the effects from last night's tumultuous
00:06:37commitment ceremony.
00:06:38I've woken up this morning feeling pretty shit.
00:06:41The experts revealed some of the things Juliet said about me
00:06:44and that was like a knife through my heart.
00:06:47Your behaviour last night, it was mean and cruel.
00:06:54You called him a liar.
00:06:55You said he wasn't a man.
00:06:57You called him a little boy.
00:06:59You said he was embarrassing.
00:07:00And you found him unattractive.
00:07:05Is there hope moving forward with Juliet?
00:07:09I actually don't know.
00:07:10The onus is definitely on Juliet to repair the relationship.
00:07:13There's no doubt about that.
00:07:23Hey.
00:07:24Hey.
00:07:25How are you feeling?
00:07:26Been better?
00:07:28What's that?
00:07:31Look, I'm just really sorry.
00:07:35I guess I didn't realise how much you were hurting.
00:07:40when I say words like that it's when I'm really really hurting and I guess I use it as a
00:07:48way of
00:07:48releasing my pain not recognizing who's on the other side of that release and I'm really sorry
00:07:56for my actions I feel shit I was wondering this morning what Juliet's next step would be and I
00:08:07think she took the right one she came and apologized and it was heartfelt well it was a really really
00:08:14intense confronting session for both of us last night we can all say things that we don't mean
00:08:20even to loved ones when we're angry or whatever but I don't like to see you in pain I accept
00:08:27your
00:08:27apology it's okay it's okay I was expecting him to be a lot more angrier and upset this morning
00:08:38considering how angry he was on the couch last night I appreciate you forgiving me I think I
00:08:45just need to take some time to take care of my heart as well in this experiment it's it's been
00:08:51very emotional for you and and for me too but we're in this experiment together and I think
00:08:57that the best way forward is just to leave everything in the past you know and start fresh
00:09:04I think this morning showed the compassionate empathetic side of Juliet and that gives me
00:09:09hope for the future it's not in my nature to hold grudges and I'm willing to let the past stay
00:09:15in the
00:09:15past forgive thanks babes and move forward new page throw the old book out right down the hall
00:09:26David is still feeling blindsided after Alyssa's revelation at last night's commitment ceremony
00:09:33David he gives me a lot but there's some things that he can't give me I function at a high
00:09:40frequency
00:09:41and I feel like we're six weeks in I'm missing that stimulation that high frequency that I would
00:09:48normally get from my relationships to make me happy yeah I don't like the use of the word stimulated like
00:09:56I don't think you know that is appropriate when you're explaining that it's because you know you miss
00:10:01your friends and family and and all the noise in the outside I mean we're all here for the same
00:10:06reasons
00:10:07we all have all the noise in the outside your own experience is your experience but someone on the
00:10:11outside listening in would could take it differently because they they don't know you who how you feel
00:10:17inside of being unstimulated but if they think Alyssa and David are hanging out together spending every day
00:10:22with each other um and Alyssa feels unstimulated it's like uh who else it's like David's fault because
00:10:30he's being bored I feel like babe I feel like you're overthinking it because I sat down in front
00:10:34of the experts and I literally said this is a me thing and I don't know why you're dragging yourself
00:10:39into it like I'm really not driving I'm just having the conversation this is a me thing babe yeah I
00:10:44understand and I'm a more high functioning person than you my brain's like all the time like my
00:10:51frequencies vibrate higher than yours whereas you're more chill yeah you know you're the opposite what do
00:10:56you mean by your frequency like I'm a I'm a more louder outgoing sort of busy sort of person I
00:11:02feel
00:11:02like frequency again is a wrong stimulation that's something that I'm funny with frequency I feel like
00:11:07you're I feel like you are in a family today babe you were taking everything so personally I feel like
00:11:15I
00:11:15can't get my word across to David okay so obviously moving forward I think for the the lack of stimulation
00:11:22that I'm not getting in this you know in this environment then I'm gonna do things for myself
00:11:28you know like obviously we do amazing dates together um but for me personally I feel like maybe that might
00:11:36be a bit of self-care you know massage facial there are other ways that I can fill my cup
00:11:41up and
00:11:43and you know get that stimulation that I need in other ways but I'll always tell you yeah no I
00:11:49appreciate that that's good I feel like David and I are on the same page I feel like he finally
00:11:56understood what I meant at the table but it took him a while we got there we got there you
00:12:00are hard
00:12:02work today boy honestly as a brand new week gets underway how are you doing yeah good I'm pumped
00:12:18today's the day I'm packing my activities our couples are preparing for the next step in their
00:12:24relationships retreat day retreat day the relationship retreat is an exciting and important phase of the
00:12:31experiment it's a chance for our couples to leave their normal day to day and get a fresh perspective
00:12:37on their marriage in a different setting getting away and spending time in a new environment will help
00:12:43breathe life into relationships that might be in a rut it can help break negative patterns and progress the
00:12:49relationship gonna retreat we're getting out of here don't get me wrong this is a palace over here but
00:12:56we're gonna be substituting it for hopefully a little bit of coastline a lot more Sun and I think it's
00:13:02just gonna be a good break from whatever the experiments being dishing out I can see you got
00:13:06all the essentials there I got the cards I got the games I got the football ball the skipping row
00:13:11the
00:13:11booty band I'm bringing in other cards game I also packed astrology book to check everyone's matches too
00:13:20yeah you know the magician gets the hat yeah it just keeps coming it just keeps coming got uggies
00:13:27couple couple warm dresses couple cold uh toiletries and stuff you got all yeah good do that thank you
00:13:35oh my god are you excited oh I'm super keen Scott and I pretty solid as usual we had a
00:13:41really good
00:13:41weekend I just want to get away have some Sun relax this is gonna be so fun who are you
00:13:48um looking
00:13:48forward to seeing I think I'm a chance to meet everyone I think being a later couple like they're
00:13:53all have bonded with each other a lot I'm actually excited like when I'm in a social environment with
00:13:58Chris it's actually when I feel closest to him because we both like love that environment I see the
00:14:02best side of Chris yeah it'll be awesome I've got no beef with anyone you've got no beef with anyone
00:14:09I just want to steer clear of it all I'm just gonna sit back and watch Danny and I are
00:14:14in a really
00:14:14really good place at the moment so like you know I just I just want to protect our peace yeah
00:14:19no
00:14:20grenades being dropped by me you show you're not going to drop any no it's been a week you must
00:14:24be
00:14:24uh getting Daniel get in the edge Daniel no one thinks you're funny there's drama watch me sink
00:14:34back into the like Homer Simpson in into the bush like I don't want to be involved in any of
00:14:39it do
00:14:40you reckon there'll be any news I think the most interesting one will be the dynamic between Juliet
00:14:45and Joel they might be head over heels in love by now I'm you never know what's going to happen
00:14:50on
00:14:50this experiment surely not across the hall having packed for the couple's retreat there's something
00:14:58on Philip's mind what'd you think of last night it was great it was a good little chat what did
00:15:05you
00:15:05think about their feedback kind of what they're telling us I love that I needed to give a high
00:15:10five to Alessandra for the same views that the man needs to say I love you first so oh really
00:15:15yeah
00:15:16love it love that you agree with that there's something that I've been thinking about for the
00:15:23last few weeks I think there's one thing that she did kind of say that I was just like oh
00:15:29yeah you're
00:15:29right it was kind of brought forth on the commitment ceremony when Alessandra is like I don't understand
00:15:34the confusion here what's happening like you guys are obviously feeling it you are mentioning that you
00:15:40guys feel things and that you know because you know and you're communicating that by Morse code and
00:15:46looks but no words yeah we're tiptoeing around in this environment in another environment if you're
00:15:56feeling then you're feeling and I think that needs to be celebrated it's hard to say things like this I've
00:16:04definitely haven't been one to kind of lean into my feelings of emotions you know so there was something
00:16:09that kind of etched in my mind last night Alessandra I had a had a good point yeah you either
00:16:15feel it
00:16:16or not why can't you just verbalize it to each other you know if it's that obvious so the hesitation
00:16:22was a little bit of fear it's like a shake it's okay baby I haven't said this to anyone in
00:16:29six years
00:16:30what if you're coming on too strong and it's only you feeling it I had to think about what she
00:16:36said and
00:16:38yeah you're you are different you're special thank you and I am in love with you
00:16:50I knew
00:16:50what what what I knew good job
00:16:57yeah I can tell it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out it doesn't bloody take a rocket
00:17:03it doesn't take a rocket and I haven't said that in a while so where do you stand same spot
00:17:11it's what
00:17:12what is that being in love yeah
00:17:22coming up and what's got Stella holding back when we started to have those shots it kind of all got
00:17:30very very serious and that's becoming hard
00:17:33uh oh god I feel like I'm gonna cry
00:17:43this year for the very first time the annual couples retreat is heading two hours south of Sydney
00:17:50Sydney to the picturesque town of Kiama located on a sprawling property a stone's throw away from the coastline
00:17:59it will be a chance for our couples to embrace nature and gain further perspectives in a new environment
00:18:06and as always staking claim to a bedroom is top priority
00:18:23it was chaotic
00:18:28I'm going as hard as I can and they're just pulling away
00:18:33me and my short little stumpy legs and everyone's seven foot tall
00:18:37their one step is equivalent to six of mine
00:18:48oh yeah
00:18:54I got it
00:18:56Scott he got the he's got the king's palace up there he's got the bathtub looking out here
00:19:01sun shining through bed in the middle he's got a kitchenette
00:19:04no place to like home
00:19:06oh my room's pretty good
00:19:10coming at the perfect time for their intimacy development
00:19:14Stephen has secured a secluded room for he and Rachel
00:19:17so we got the guest house and it's away from everyone as well
00:19:23sorry son keep it up for the boys
00:19:29your boy did it
00:19:30you did
00:19:31I delivered
00:19:32I brought in the bacon
00:19:34in the oven
00:19:36we got it
00:19:37go go go go go
00:19:38this is nice
00:19:40this is so cute
00:19:41this is a lot
00:19:41I'm so happy boo
00:19:44babe you did so good
00:19:48I can't believe we're on the retreat guys
00:19:51we're a couple's retreat
00:19:53yay
00:20:02we got the best room
00:20:04oh this is comfy
00:20:06princess
00:20:07wow
00:20:07best room in the house
00:20:08oh yeah
00:20:09very very content right now
00:20:11we we he did very well
00:20:14honestly we're so lucky
00:20:15I feel like this retreat's gonna keep me and Gia close
00:20:18yay
00:20:20inseparable
00:20:20and like we're just here to enjoy this retreat as if it's a honeymoon
00:20:27hello
00:20:32hey what a nice little area to chill
00:20:34there's a little swing here
00:20:36oh hiya daddy hiya daddy
00:20:38yeah it is a pretty sweet pad though
00:20:41this is unreal
00:20:42this is unreal
00:20:42the view like so supported
00:20:43cool
00:20:44should be a good few days
00:20:49how stunning is that
00:20:52last week was a really really tough week
00:20:54and I think this week I'm just focusing on having tunnel vision of just me and Joel
00:21:00so that's the goal
00:21:03this is cute
00:21:04yeah this is a change of events
00:21:05yeah it cleared the air
00:21:07did you
00:21:09this is so good
00:21:11I'm excited for you
00:21:11no no no no
00:21:13Joel and Juliet
00:21:15um wow they've come lengths and bounds
00:21:17I did not expect to see that
00:21:19uh what is going on there
00:21:20are we good at the moment
00:21:22at the moment
00:21:23hopefully forever
00:21:24what you're seeing is uh is is genuine
00:21:28good
00:21:29so how are you feeling about um you know a few days of the retreat together
00:21:32well I think it's come at the perfect time
00:21:34perfect
00:21:34I agree
00:21:37um yeah wow
00:21:39yeah so this will be the first night in the together bed in the first night sleeping together
00:21:44since the first night of the honeymoon
00:21:45okay
00:21:45so uh I think uh this is uh honeymoon version two
00:21:49I really feel like we're very vibey with each other
00:21:53more power to you queen but like I don't know how you've turned it around from that dinner
00:21:56party to now but hey this could be the beginning of a beautiful love story
00:22:02perplexed but could be the beginning of a beautiful love story
00:22:05like it feels completely different which was what I wanted
00:22:08it feels natural
00:22:08it feels natural
00:22:09yeah good good good good
00:22:10and you feel good
00:22:12I feel great yeah
00:22:12you look good
00:22:13oh good guys
00:22:13yes
00:22:14it's puzzling to me how you can go from really hating your husband at a dinner party to
00:22:19completely flipping that round
00:22:22however if it's genuine more power to you
00:22:24we're all here for love
00:22:25so might have been to kick up the butt she needed
00:22:27you can't fake this
00:22:29you can't fake it
00:22:30you can't fake it
00:22:31the bounce back of the century
00:22:33this is exciting
00:22:35put your legs up
00:22:37don't send me flying though
00:22:39it's so peaceful now you know
00:22:41you can only hear the birds singing
00:22:45I don't know what that even was that a kookaburra
00:22:48or a pigeon
00:22:51was it a pigeon
00:22:55as the sun sets on the first day of the retreat
00:22:58our couples are coming together for the first night welcome drinks
00:23:02cheers guys
00:23:03cheers guys
00:23:04cheers guys
00:23:07cheers guys
00:23:20cheers guys
00:23:21cheers
00:23:21cheers
00:23:31it is the first night
00:23:47we have been rooting for Rachel and Stephen since day one so I'm so so happy that they are taking
00:23:54their relationship to the next level
00:23:57I've been rooting for Rachel and Stephen since day one so I'm so so happy that they are taking their
00:24:02relationship to the next level
00:24:02thank you thank you so much cheers to that
00:24:04yeah
00:24:05I've watched them go through this journey and they vulnerably sat down with us tonight and said hey we're at
00:24:11this stage in that relationship
00:24:13me and Stephen like we've just hit this really nice trajectory and I'm like I'm really excited about it
00:24:19so obviously that was a huge milestone for Rachel to be intimate with Steve
00:24:24and she is such a sensitive beautiful soul
00:24:27I'm just really happy for them
00:24:32there is so much love in the air tonight I feel like it's the country
00:24:36it brings people together
00:24:38it's good energy it's good vibes
00:24:39I love that
00:24:40this is why I love the country
00:24:44hang on has anyone asked how these two are going yet
00:24:47hey Phillip, Stella
00:24:49we haven't heard from you guys yet
00:24:51what's going on
00:24:52what?
00:24:52Phillip?
00:24:53has everyone heard the news?
00:24:55what news?
00:24:55what are you expecting?
00:24:56so when we were on the couch at the commitment ceremony
00:25:00Alessandra was just saying I don't get what's going on with you guys
00:25:04you guys seem to keep doing a dance feel like with your words and stuff like that
00:25:07and I just said I just got something to tell you
00:25:10I'll go I don't know how to say this but I love you
00:25:19yeah on your back
00:25:21and you said it first
00:25:22I said it first
00:25:23yes, yes, yes
00:25:25Stella did you say it back?
00:25:27yeah
00:25:27I'm good Stella
00:25:35what's going on?
00:25:36everyone's getting along
00:25:36it's perfect
00:25:37it's great
00:25:38it's great
00:25:43it's all very nice
00:25:44it's a fun night tonight
00:25:45yeah
00:25:46fun night
00:25:47yeah
00:25:47mate
00:25:49I'm just so telling you what you think about
00:25:51it
00:25:51you know the comment from Beck is
00:25:58it's just assuming
00:25:59it's just assuming like we never went into detail
00:26:02the comments like we did that action
00:26:04and it's you know
00:26:07it's just yeah it's just a vulgar thing to say
00:26:11we don't need to know the details
00:26:13unless you want to share
00:26:18until tomorrow night
00:26:23oh yeah that's just the classic
00:26:27Beck
00:26:29has a very like I guess like crude sense of humour
00:26:32to be honest like I'd be a bit like oh you know like a little bit frustrated
00:26:38sounds like I don't want to hear about this
00:26:40I don't want to hear about heterosexual sex
00:26:46it made me feel I guess a little bit awkward I mean I'm not very you know open about my
00:26:54you know sex life
00:26:59yeah I feel a little bit awkward around Beck
00:27:04I've felt awkward about Beck since day one really
00:27:08I don't like the comments but I said I feel like I'm just
00:27:12yeah
00:27:15I feel like I should have could have just said to Beck
00:27:18look let's not say the say it that way
00:27:22can we just be a bit more respectful and not say it's like that
00:27:27it's just like we progressed
00:27:31ladies and gentlemen
00:27:37Rach
00:27:38can I have you guys over here please
00:27:44guys
00:27:44I wanted to just sort of call us here tonight
00:27:48it's the first night of retreat
00:27:50and we've had I love you
00:27:54we've had a couple that I thought could not come back from the brink of hell
00:27:59bounce back
00:28:01and we've had finger bangs so like
00:28:24ladies and gentlemen
00:28:45we've had a couple that I thought could not come back from the brink of hell
00:28:54bounce back
00:28:55and we've had a couple that I thought could not come back from the brink of hell
00:28:56and we've had finger bangs so like
00:28:58and we've had finger bangs so like
00:29:02and we've had finger bangs so like
00:29:11anyway guys I just wanted to say that I think that this has been a great night of retreat
00:29:19night one
00:29:19night one
00:29:20Jesus
00:29:23I think we need to cheers to new friendships and getting to know each other
00:29:31drink up let's go to bed because tomorrow is a big day
00:29:41I didn't think it was funny
00:29:44she turns something that Stephen and I was so excited about telling others about and where
00:29:49we're at into a joke
00:29:55I get why Rachel got offended
00:29:59it's back she speaks like that it's just I don't know is it necessary it's not
00:30:11you know Rachel's a sensitive girl and she opened up and we know that she wouldn't really appreciate
00:30:17that sort of sense of humor so it doesn't really matter how you mean to say something
00:30:22if someone takes it a certain way and doesn't take it the way that you intended by saying it
00:30:27it deserves an apology
00:30:29beck a quick a quick a quick apology to Rach
00:30:36oh Rach I'm so sorry I apologize
00:30:38nah it's alright don't worry about it
00:30:39nah it's fine
00:30:40oh it was meant to be a bit of fun
00:30:41well it's not funny like I shared with you guys openly that we took intimacy to a new level
00:30:46which is really important for Stephen and I and you just made a joke of it
00:30:50no I didn't make a joke of it
00:30:52well you did
00:30:53okay
00:30:54and everyone laughed
00:30:57sorry if I offended you for me laughing babe
00:30:59it wasn't you guys who made the joke of it
00:31:01Bex was there and made the joke
00:31:03it's not a joke darling
00:31:04we'll celebrate you and your wins and we've been here through this and I have been here through this
00:31:10you're very very quick to turn
00:31:15no no no
00:31:16no no I think it was inappropriate
00:31:19and with Rach it was inappropriate
00:31:21I have been here
00:31:22my husband has been here
00:31:24R اب
00:31:25you're very quick to turn
00:31:27no no no I'm not having this back
00:31:28I'm not having this back
00:31:29I'm not having this back
00:31:30in that moment she could've like come to me and be like
00:31:32I'm really sorry
00:31:34but he's he wanted to turn around and make a fight out of it
00:31:39Go fight in a mirror, sweetie. You're going to get more joy. I'm not going to scream
00:31:43at you. I've every right to sit there and say that was not okay. You just made a joke
00:31:49of my relationship.
00:31:50We're here celebrating you.
00:31:52We all celebrate you.
00:31:54In that moment, it did not feel like a celebration.
00:31:57I apologise. It never meant to. We celebrate you all the time. That's what we're doing.
00:32:02Stop talking.
00:32:03Jesus Christ.
00:32:04Rage, rage, rage, rage.
00:32:05Yeah, cool. Anyway, I'm done with you tonight. Yeah, thanks, guys. Have a good night.
00:32:11I mean, Ho's husband's helped him get there. Mine. How do you think it got to this point?
00:32:17My husband going off the beers with him. Yeah.
00:32:23Get over her.
00:32:25May, she needs to calm down. She pops off so quickly. I'm over her. Look at her, going nuts.
00:32:32What? She's going off her head nuts right now. When Bec said that, I felt really hurt
00:32:38and disappointed. It felt vulgar and it felt just, like, I just felt like a piece of shit.
00:33:00I was so excited for a retreat. I just don't even want to be around here anymore.
00:33:09It just made me feel like a piece of shit all over again. I just...
00:33:14Don't feel that way, please.
00:33:17We've worked so hard. We've worked so hard in our relationship and we're on this amazing
00:33:25trajectory and I was so excited to share it with everyone. I just didn't expect that someone
00:33:31would just stand up there and cheapen it.
00:33:36She needs to relax. Jesus Christ.
00:33:40She's sensitive to it. She's sensitive. We're celebrating her always.
00:33:45Don't push anything more onto it. Do you know what I mean?
00:33:48It's just, like, she's sensitive to it. Honestly, she's too...
00:33:51She's just really hard work sometimes. Oh, God. She's going off her head.
00:33:56She's going absolutely off her head right now. Look at her in there.
00:33:59She's going off her head in there. I have supported her all night. I've supported...
00:34:05My husband is the one sitting with her husband every night, encouraging him to do it.
00:34:13I shouldn't laugh. She's really upset.
00:34:18I'm sorry. I shouldn't laugh. But, like, what planet am I on right now?
00:34:23Like, I understand, OK, your feelings are valid. You don't want me to make a joke of it.
00:34:27I'm not. My husband is the one that's encouraged your husband to finger bang you, darling.
00:34:31OK? So, let's just calm down.
00:34:34I'm going to get a T-shirt with finger bang across it.
00:34:36I'm going to wear it everywhere. Like, me. Who would have known?
00:34:39But I can't be bothered with it. Like...
00:34:46I'm so happy finally you've got some.
00:34:49You know? I'm celebrating you.
00:35:09OK, we'll have to... we'll... we'll... we'll... we'll... we'll... we'll... we'll talk to Beck and we're going to get through
00:35:13it, OK?
00:35:14We'll be right back, OK?
00:35:17We'll be right back, OK?
00:35:18We'll be right back, OK?
00:35:22After last night's welcome drinks ended in emotion,
00:35:26Stephen is supporting Rachel as she tries to understand
00:35:30why Beck made a joke of their intimacy.
00:35:33My personal opinion is that I found Beck's comment just,
00:35:36look, it's just disrespectful and a bit vulgar.
00:35:42I don't know if I believe that she was, like, intentionally trying to hurt us.
00:35:46I just think it was a very bad choice of words.
00:35:49And it was disrespectful.
00:35:50She could have just said,
00:35:51I'm happy for, you know, Rachel and Stephen
00:35:55that they've increased their intimacy over the weekend
00:35:58and I'm very happy for them.
00:36:00Well, it was a big thing for us to share.
00:36:02Like, we're being vulnerable with the group.
00:36:03We shared it as a celebration.
00:36:06And while she didn't do it with malice,
00:36:09we were a punchline in a joke.
00:36:14If Stephen and I were standing there
00:36:17speaking about our relationship in front of everyone in that way,
00:36:22go for it.
00:36:23But we weren't.
00:36:25It made me humiliated for being vulnerable with the group
00:36:29and sharing what I thought was exciting news.
00:36:33Yeah, I'm more than happy to hear what Beck's got to say,
00:36:35but Beck's also got to hear what I've got to say.
00:36:37And she's actually got to listen and understand
00:36:39and put herself in my shoes.
00:36:41When people have said things to her about her relationship,
00:36:44when I understand it's completely different from what was said,
00:36:47she was quite upset and that's okay.
00:36:49Last night I got upset
00:36:50and the first thing she wanted to do was turn and try and fight me.
00:36:54I would never stand up in front of a group, ever, and do that.
00:37:00Because if I did that to her and Danny,
00:37:02I'd be six foot under and you wouldn't find the body.
00:37:05I regret telling the group.
00:37:07I regret celebrating something in my relationship.
00:37:13Oh, morning.
00:37:14Morning.
00:37:16How are we?
00:37:17I'm good. How are you?
00:37:19Good, thanks.
00:37:20I slept so good last night.
00:37:21So well.
00:37:22You sleep good in the country, don't you?
00:37:25Yeah, it's beautiful.
00:37:26How funny was last night, babe?
00:37:28It's a funny night, isn't it?
00:37:29Oh my God.
00:37:30Full-blown meltdown.
00:37:32Yeah, obviously there's a little bit of drama now.
00:37:34That drama involves me, unfortunately.
00:37:37Hopefully she can maybe just move past it.
00:37:41You need to calm down.
00:37:42What was said as a joke in jest.
00:37:45I'm a woman.
00:37:46We do that.
00:37:49Oh, what a beautiful day.
00:37:52It's like, get a personality, will you?
00:37:54Oh, f***ing hell.
00:37:59Ah!
00:37:59Ah!
00:38:01Ah!
00:38:02Ah!
00:38:06Go 10.
00:38:07Go 10.
00:38:08You do 10?
00:38:09Yeah.
00:38:09Great work, brother.
00:38:12I'm going to perv.
00:38:14Shirts off, guys.
00:38:15Shirts off.
00:38:18Yeah, baby.
00:38:19Come on, you two.
00:38:20Chop, chop.
00:38:21Chop, chop!
00:38:22Last one, guys.
00:38:24Last one.
00:38:29Two.
00:38:30One.
00:38:31Two.
00:38:32One.
00:38:32Two.
00:38:35One.
00:38:36One.
00:38:39Two.
00:38:39Just the shirts need to come off.
00:38:45After an emotional night,
00:38:47Rachel and Stephen have taken some time away from the group to reconnect.
00:38:53I can see Rachel and Stephen having a little chit-chat over there.
00:38:59Maybe something really bad's actually happened
00:39:00because she's walking around really upset.
00:39:04Maybe she didn't get enough attention from the announcement that she made
00:39:08and then when I said it, it was like,
00:39:10oh, ding, ding, ding, here's my chance to get angry at someone
00:39:14and now everyone's going to be talking about me
00:39:16and there's the attention.
00:39:18You can't walk around like this all day, like...
00:39:23The joke has been amplified that much
00:39:26that it's actually affecting their relationship.
00:39:28Do you think Steve-O wants to be down there trying to cheer her up?
00:39:32Because his finger banged her.
00:39:34Like, f*** me.
00:39:35It should have made her happier.
00:39:39It's made her sadder.
00:39:40He's probably thinking, f*** that.
00:39:42I'm not going to finger blaster ever again.
00:39:44I can't take the risk.
00:39:47This is mad.
00:39:48Nothing bad actually happened.
00:39:50It's a good thing.
00:39:50It's a great thing.
00:39:51It's a good thing.
00:39:52I'm really happy for you.
00:39:53There was a joke made about a good thing.
00:39:55Yeah, a good thing.
00:39:56We just need to move forward.
00:39:57It's going to live on...
00:39:59Forever.
00:39:59Forever.
00:40:01It's just...
00:40:02I don't know.
00:40:03I'm going to get merch.
00:40:04I'm going to get caps and T-shirts.
00:40:06Yeah.
00:40:08Ha!
00:40:10Anywho, merch coming.
00:40:12I didn't really do anything wrong.
00:40:14Like, everyone knows
00:40:16that I did not mean that with malice.
00:40:18And then all of a sudden,
00:40:19it's World War III.
00:40:20Like, what is going on?
00:40:22I don't understand.
00:40:23Merch coming February 2026.
00:40:28Oh, my God.
00:40:29Yes, Sam.
00:40:30Oh, really?
00:40:32Were you by my merch?
00:40:33What is it?
00:40:34It's a merch.
00:40:35It's called Finger Bang Merch.
00:40:36Oh, my God.
00:40:37Absolutely not.
00:40:38Keep me out of that merch.
00:40:40Don't want any bad juju around me, babe.
00:40:43F*** off bad juju.
00:40:44Calm down.
00:40:45Calm your phone, bro.
00:40:47Calm?
00:40:47No.
00:40:48I'm going to send it to you anyway.
00:40:49You're going to wear it, bitch.
00:40:54I think some girls can just be a lost cause.
00:40:57The shit-talking she was doing
00:40:58about rage on the sunbeds.
00:41:01She's already been making jokes
00:41:02about putting that tagline on a T-shirt
00:41:05and selling it as merch.
00:41:06All of it was so unacceptable.
00:41:09This is very back behaviour.
00:41:11She kept going on about these disgusting comments
00:41:13and making merch for it.
00:41:15It wasn't nice.
00:41:19I'm literally doing it.
00:41:21You're the main model in the men.
00:41:23You're so good.
00:41:25Bec is not someone I would be friends with
00:41:26in the outside world.
00:41:28I feel like I have a lot of empathy for her.
00:41:30She tries a lot,
00:41:31but she just keeps f***ing it up
00:41:33by just thinking about herself.
00:41:36It's really quite selfish.
00:41:37It will be interesting to see
00:41:40how the whole Bec and Rach situation develops.
00:41:43Hopefully it comes to an end,
00:41:45but you definitely never know.
00:41:48Coming up...
00:41:49It was disrespectful.
00:41:50It was disgusting.
00:41:51And it wasn't helpful.
00:41:52It was a joke.
00:41:54How will Bec respond to questions from the group?
00:41:57But when are you going to be accountable
00:41:59for repeated behaviour?
00:42:08It's the Married at First Sight retreat
00:42:10on the New South Wales south coast,
00:42:13and our couples are getting ready
00:42:14for their boys' and girls' nights.
00:42:21And Joel is embracing Mother Nature
00:42:23to ensure all areas are well maintained.
00:42:27And we're done.
00:42:29Woo!
00:42:31Nice and groomed.
00:42:33A social event separating our couples
00:42:35is an integral part of this retreat.
00:42:38It allows them to speak freely with their peers
00:42:41and gain some outside advice
00:42:43for their relationships.
00:42:45Girls are boys' night.
00:42:46Yeah, I know.
00:42:47You've chosen the girls.
00:42:49I've been stolen away to the girls for the night.
00:42:51I am excited for tonight.
00:42:52Hanging out with the boys,
00:42:54whatever happened last night
00:42:55between Rachel and Bec,
00:42:56Do you think that that's...
00:42:57Is that still a thing?
00:42:58Is that something that's going to be spoken about tonight?
00:43:01It's definitely going to be spoken.
00:43:02Okay.
00:43:02Definitely.
00:43:03Yeah, because they haven't spoken today.
00:43:05All day.
00:43:06Okay.
00:43:06Yeah.
00:43:06They've been quite frosty with each other.
00:43:09But Bec's been pretty good with you today, hasn't she?
00:43:10She has said, like, a few comments again
00:43:13about how she wanted to make merch.
00:43:16Oh, merch.
00:43:17Yeah, she said she wanted to make merch.
00:43:18I think she's just joking, though.
00:43:20Like, she's not actually going to make merch, you know?
00:43:21No, but it's also just like,
00:43:22why are we still talking about this
00:43:24when we obviously know Rachel's so upset?
00:43:27Yeah.
00:43:28I'm wondering if Bec's going to apologise to Rachel.
00:43:32I think she should.
00:43:33But how many times is she going to keep saying sorry
00:43:35and then doing the same thing again to everybody?
00:43:36So, like, I think people are over it.
00:43:38I think people are too.
00:43:39Yeah.
00:43:41I'm a little bit nervous going to Girls' Night.
00:43:44We obviously still have the hangover of last night
00:43:47between myself and Bec.
00:43:49I think what I really need to see from Bec tonight
00:43:52is, like, empathy.
00:43:54Like, help me understand that you understand.
00:43:57But standing up for myself for some reason is hard.
00:44:02Oh, this is cute!
00:44:05I'm excited for Girls' Night.
00:44:07I think it's going to be a fun night
00:44:08and I think everyone seems to be in a pretty good place,
00:44:12so I don't know if there's going to be any argy-bargy.
00:44:15Woo!
00:44:16I feel like Rachel has put a bit of a cloud over the day.
00:44:19Like, I'm perplexed as to how it has affected her so much.
00:44:24It's very weird to me.
00:44:29Oh, my God!
00:44:31Oh, yeah!
00:44:32Hello, Bobby!
00:44:34Hey!
00:44:34Hey!
00:44:35Cheers!
00:44:36Woo!
00:44:37Cheers to girls!
00:44:38Cheers, guys!
00:44:39And thanks for having me.
00:44:41Woo!
00:44:41Cheers!
00:44:43Cheers!
00:44:44All right, lads.
00:44:44Cheers to boys.
00:44:45Love you, lads.
00:44:46Cheers to boys.
00:44:46Cheers to boys.
00:44:47Woo!
00:44:49And so what's the goss?
00:44:50How's everyone else's relationships going?
00:44:52Good.
00:44:53Um...
00:44:53J's?
00:44:54I know, the double J's, which I love.
00:44:56J, J.
00:44:57I love a J.
00:44:58Um, honestly, like, I'm so shocked at the turnaround about our emotional connection.
00:45:03I've only shared a bed with Joel once since starting the experiment, so last night was
00:45:09the second time.
00:45:11Nice.
00:45:11Hello.
00:45:13Yeah, so look, vibe check with Juliet.
00:45:16Vibe is good.
00:45:17Juliet and I had some romance last night.
00:45:19We shared some kisses.
00:45:20Yeah, I was excited when I saw him in his get-up tonight and the clean shave, and I was
00:45:24like,
00:45:25hottie-pottie.
00:45:26Thank God.
00:45:27Yes!
00:45:28Cheers to that!
00:45:29Cheers, cheers.
00:45:31Cheers to that.
00:45:32Cheers.
00:45:33Cheers, man.
00:45:33Cheers.
00:45:33Let's celebrate Stella and Phillip.
00:45:36Where we are with Phillip, um, it was obvious, obviously, how we are.
00:45:39Like, we obsessed with each other, we're so affectionate, we do plan our future together.
00:45:44When we started to have those chats, it kind of all got very, very serious, and, um, falling
00:45:50in love, as I realised, when it's a right person, and when I think you're ready, it's not
00:45:55that hard.
00:45:56What comes after that's becoming hard?
00:46:00Uh, oh God, I feel like I'm gonna cry.
00:46:02Aww.
00:46:03Oh, no, no, no.
00:46:04Good.
00:46:06Because the way I look at him, I do want him to be my forever partner, and I do really
00:46:10want to work on those things to that level.
00:46:12Yeah.
00:46:13But it's so much more deeper, and that's what I'm dealing right now.
00:46:17Fear of rejection, uh, not rejection, abandonment.
00:46:19Right.
00:46:19So I'm dealing with that right now, so.
00:46:21Okay, now.
00:46:24My parents had me extremely young.
00:46:26My dad then left to live in the UK.
00:46:30Um, my...
00:46:31My role models and people who raised me is my grandmother and my auntie.
00:46:36Growing up in Lithuania shaped me to be quite independent, even though that I know I'm craving
00:46:45connection.
00:46:45Like, I know I'm craving connection.
00:46:48That's...
00:46:48Mm.
00:46:52That's me getting teary.
00:46:57You just realize that it's a self-protection preservation.
00:47:00Um, initially I wanted to kind of distant myself, um, and I was like, why do I want to distant
00:47:08myself from this human?
00:47:09Like, he's such a beautiful human.
00:47:14Yeah.
00:47:14Why do you think this is coming up here?
00:47:18Is it because things are getting serious with you and Phil?
00:47:21That is the only reason why it's coming up, because it is getting serious and that is a coping
00:47:26mechanism for me to, um, maybe staying in a protective mode of not getting hurt if, you
00:47:33know, people decide to leave.
00:47:34Um, yeah, that's, I guess, my trauma response.
00:47:40So, yeah, it's a lot more to then just, oh, yeah, I'm in love, you know?
00:47:46Thanks for sharing.
00:47:47I know.
00:47:48I didn't expect to cry, to be honest.
00:47:50I'm going to give you a hug.
00:47:51That's what I was like, I'm a crier, but when it hits, it's like, yeah.
00:47:55You needed it, babe.
00:47:56We love you.
00:48:02So, Stephen and I are really good, as I shared with you all last night.
00:48:06Um, the intimacy with Stephen and I has increased, which is really, really exciting.
00:48:12And even though, you know, last night ended the way that it did, it's actually brought
00:48:15Stephen and I a lot closer even though.
00:48:18That tends to happen.
00:48:19That tends to happen.
00:48:20He really had me and, like, he, like, he could see how upset I was and just being able to
00:48:25come and support me and even though I was, like, breaking down, like, he just, he had
00:48:30me and I've just, I really appreciated that in a partner and, like, you know, going to
00:48:36bed and, like, getting really worked up.
00:48:37He's like, sweetie, like, he's like, he's like holding my hand and he's just like,
00:48:40Rach, I just need you to breathe.
00:48:43Just breathe for me.
00:48:45In that moment, I feel like coming here has really helped me value those small moments
00:48:52with Stephen.
00:48:54She's, she's been hysterical, been the same way all day today and it's like, what are
00:49:00you on about?
00:49:01Ugh.
00:49:04Everything's really, really good.
00:49:07So I'm, I'm very happy.
00:49:09Stephen makes me really, really happy.
00:49:10We're so mixed.
00:49:12And like, and silver lining that last night has brought you guys closer together.
00:49:15That's really lovely.
00:49:16That's definitely the silver lining of it.
00:49:18While last night should not have happened at all, it is the silver lining and I do appreciate
00:49:24that I have an amazing husband who is able to support me.
00:49:28Give it a rest.
00:49:30Relax, man.
00:49:31Get a personality.
00:49:33She's hard work.
00:49:35Rachel's hard work to be friends with.
00:49:37You know, like, aren't you happy I even mentioned you in my speech?
00:49:39Appreciate it.
00:49:41Cheers, guys.
00:49:42Appreciate it so much.
00:49:46I'm going to apologize.
00:49:47She's going to go, and I'm going to go, no worries, hug her out and be done.
00:49:52Like, I'm honestly, I'm over it.
00:49:55Yeah, just, I wish I cared more, to be honest with you.
00:50:03Girls' night and boys' night is well underway and the dramatic end to last night's welcome
00:50:08drinks is on everyone's mind.
00:50:10Steve, how did you feel about Beck's comment yesterday?
00:50:14What did it, how did it sit with you?
00:50:16Yeah, so, with Beck's comment last night, as everyone saw it, really upset Rachel.
00:50:23Yeah.
00:50:24Like, severely.
00:50:25And what made the situation sort of worse was not just the comment, it's just, I think,
00:50:30the reaction of Beck.
00:50:31It really upset Rachel.
00:50:33So, do you think she's blown it a bit out of proportion?
00:50:38Not to put words in your mouth.
00:50:39I'm just genuinely asking.
00:50:41Personally, personally, I didn't think she'd be that upset, to be honest.
00:50:45Like, I understand the walking out.
00:50:46So, do you think?
00:50:47I understand the walking out, because it's in the heat of the moment.
00:50:49I really want to get an answer.
00:50:50Do you think she'd blow it out of proportion or not?
00:50:52Yes or no?
00:50:53I don't think she did, because this means so much to Rachel.
00:50:57And speaking to the group, and getting the feedback from the girls, you guys, this progress
00:51:04means a lot to Rachel.
00:51:07I did need to stress to the boys that Rachel was really upset by this, and this was special
00:51:14for her.
00:51:15Doesn't matter what you think about it, she's upset by it.
00:51:18You've got to take that on board.
00:51:19It's not about, you're the spectator.
00:51:21This was aimed at her, so they need to understand that as well.
00:51:26Steve-O, did you find it funny?
00:51:28Be honest.
00:51:29Be honest.
00:51:31Look, I know that Beck didn't have ill intention.
00:51:36She wasn't attacking the relationship.
00:51:38I believe it was just a case of really poor judgement, poor choice of words, probably looking
00:51:43for a little bit of a laugh.
00:51:45You didn't answer the question, did you personally find it funny, or how did you find it?
00:51:51I didn't, look, I didn't find, me man, I don't find it, I don't find it, I don't find it
00:51:57funny, like it's just, it's just a, you know, poor comment.
00:52:00I just wanted to get your opinion on it, because that's sort of the common theme with Rachel,
00:52:05that she blows things out of proportion.
00:52:13So Rachel, I wanted to obviously address, like, I think we should start off with you,
00:52:17tell me how you feel, like, towards me, about it, talk to me.
00:52:22Becky humiliated me in front of the group last night.
00:52:25Yeah, okay.
00:52:25I felt like, whether it was malicious or not, you built it up, and you made the intimacy
00:52:32progress between Stephen and I, a punchline and a joke.
00:52:36Right.
00:52:37And then I sat there and was like, you've just made a joke of it, babes, like, I didn't
00:52:41appreciate that.
00:52:42And you instantly turned.
00:52:44I've just kind of said to you, like, this hurt my feelings.
00:52:49And I got the, I'm sorry, I've got to be honest, I feel like you were just saying
00:52:53sorry, because I brushed it off.
00:52:55I left because I was humiliated.
00:52:58Right, okay.
00:52:59And my relationship is not a joke.
00:53:01No.
00:53:02And that's why I was so upset, because I was like, that's my friend up there, and that's
00:53:09why I left, because I was humiliated.
00:53:11I think the thing for me, Rach, is that I thought that you would know, like, it was not meant
00:53:17to be, um, mean towards you.
00:53:21It was actually just a throwaway comment, and it was the wrong wording, and I apologise
00:53:27to you for the wrong wording that was used.
00:53:30I did not think that it would be as big of a deal as it was.
00:53:33I never would have said it.
00:53:34It is a big deal, though.
00:53:35I never would have said it.
00:53:36It's happening to you, Bec.
00:53:37It's happened to me.
00:53:38I understand.
00:53:38I never would have said it.
00:53:40It's a bound to situation, and I do apologise.
00:53:43It was disrespectful, the word finger bang.
00:53:44Correct, yeah.
00:53:44It was disgusting, and it wasn't helpful.
00:53:46It was, it was, it was a joke.
00:53:47You know that I support you and Stephen.
00:53:50Do I?
00:53:53You think it's intended with malice, and it wasn't.
00:53:55I never, I have said repeatedly, the joke was not intended with malice.
00:53:59Never.
00:53:59But when I told you you hurt my feelings, you turned on me instantly, and wanted to fight.
00:54:04Yeah, because, Rach, every two seconds you're angry at me.
00:54:06The majority of our relationship...
00:54:07No, that is a lie.
00:54:07But when are you going to be accountable for repeated behaviour?
00:54:11It's a pattern now.
00:54:12It's like, how many times are you going to do the wrong thing and say sorry?
00:54:15Sure.
00:54:17I feel bad for Rachael.
00:54:18Thank God us girls are there to listen to her and make her feel validated for her feelings,
00:54:23which are very normal.
00:54:25I think Beck needs to face the music.
00:54:27You can't do the things you're doing and not take accountability for your actions.
00:54:31You can't throw shit that you're throwing and not take the full force of consequences.
00:54:36I just don't think that's fair.
00:54:38Let's call bullshit, because if you support the relationship, why are you going around
00:54:42at the pool with Juliet and I saying you want to get merch?
00:54:50It was a joke.
00:54:51No, but you carried the joke on to the next day.
00:54:54That was bad.
00:54:55That part was killing me.
00:54:56You can't be sorry, but then carry it on the next day and keep going.
00:55:00It's one thing to do the wrong thing last night and apologise, but Beck took it on a whole
00:55:05other level by talking about it all day.
00:55:07And she tried to cover her ass saying, oh, well, you know, I take accountability.
00:55:11I'm sorry for what I said last night.
00:55:13Okay, but be sorry for what you said continuously throughout the day.
00:55:16You're not sorry.
00:55:17Why did today you kept making jokes about the merch?
00:55:20Because it was a joke.
00:55:21I didn't understand that that was the level of her feelings.
00:55:24I thought she was upset about one word that was serious.
00:55:26But you knew that.
00:55:27You said this morning, Rachel's upset and she needs to get the f*** over it.
00:55:30I'm making finger banging merch.
00:55:31I thought she was overreacting.
00:55:32And you're going to f*** wear it, b***h.
00:55:34It was a joke.
00:55:35But be accountable for the whole thing.
00:55:37It was a joke.
00:55:38It was said once and it was a joke.
00:55:38But be accountable for the whole thing.
00:55:40Not just more pick and choose.
00:55:41I didn't know that you were so upset, right?
00:55:43Guys, that's enough.
00:55:46I'm hurt.
00:55:48I'm the one you're talking about and it's disgusting.
00:55:52Stop talking about it.
00:55:54I just...
00:55:58You humiliated me, Bec.
00:55:59Yeah.
00:56:00And I know you're apologising.
00:56:02And I honestly like I said to you.
00:56:04And you don't have to be my friend.
00:56:05Let her talk.
00:56:06We don't need to have...
00:56:07You don't need to worry about it because you would only worry about it if it was your friend.
00:56:11It's fine.
00:56:11Like, I get it.
00:56:12But this has got to stop.
00:56:14We can't keep having these apologies, Bec, around this kind of stuff because...
00:56:18I apologise to Alyssa and I apologise to Joel.
00:56:20Yeah, but aren't you sick of apologising, babe?
00:56:24Alyssa, I need to apologise to you because my delivery of what I said to you was unacceptable.
00:56:31The way I spoke to you last night, I need to take accountability for how cruel I was.
00:56:37Obviously, like, I came in really angry last week.
00:56:40Yeah.
00:56:41I was angry.
00:56:42Yeah.
00:56:43And I came in here and I dropped bombs on everyone.
00:56:46And I do apologise.
00:56:48I'm genuinely sorry that your name has been brought up because at the end of the day,
00:56:53we shouldn't be talking about your relationship anyway.
00:56:56Bec, this is two weeks in a row.
00:56:58Why are you talking about their relationship?
00:57:01Do you know what?
00:57:01You're right.
00:57:02I know I'm right.
00:57:03But what I don't know is why you're doing that.
00:57:07Thank you for apologising.
00:57:09But again, my concerns is in, sure, the repeat behaviour.
00:57:14Bec's always saying, sorry, I didn't mean it.
00:57:17Rachel's trying to address the reoccurring behaviour.
00:57:20When is she going to wake up and just think before she speaks?
00:57:25I honestly feel like, honestly, last night I was like, my number was up.
00:57:29It was my turn to be put to tears by Bec.
00:57:32And I'm kind of like, well, when does this behaviour change?
00:57:35When do the I'm sorries actually become real?
00:57:42I'm out of here.
00:57:44I am.
00:57:45I don't want to see you.
00:57:46You should have to go.
00:57:47Oh, it's fine.
00:57:47I'm good.
00:57:49Come back.
00:57:49Can you come back?
00:57:56You can't go around and consistently talk shit about everybody that you're friends with and they get mad that they
00:58:02have a reaction to what you're doing.
00:58:03It's not okay.
00:58:04And I think again tonight is another example of Bec's new target getting pissed off and her not handling it
00:58:12and walking off like a PR move.
00:58:13This is what she does.
00:58:14There's nothing more to say.
00:58:18Get me the f*** out of here now.
00:58:19Don't leave, Baba.
00:58:20Get me out of here.
00:58:21Don't leave.
00:58:22Now.
00:58:28Get me the f*** out of here.
00:58:29Get me the f*** out.
00:58:41's going away.
00:58:47Get me the f*** out of here.
00:58:48Get me the f*** out of here.
00:58:49Come on.
00:58:52and solve complex issues, it's taught me so much
00:58:55that, like, me and Becca, at this moment in time,
00:58:59we're in a really good place.
00:59:00Daniel!
00:59:02Here she is.
00:59:03Oh, what?
00:59:04I'm speaking of the devil.
00:59:05Jesus Christ.
00:59:07I'm speaking of the devil.
00:59:08I'm speaking of the devil.
00:59:09And she's in red.
00:59:11You couldn't make it up.
00:59:12I'm sitting by the fight.
00:59:13It's been peaceful all night.
00:59:14Next thing, a silhouette of Becca comes out of the horizon.
00:59:19And then next thing, ambas start flowing into my face.
00:59:23The smoke's in my eyes, bellowing in my eyes.
00:59:26We all said Becca into the fire three times.
00:59:32What happened, Becca?
00:59:33How's the girls?
00:59:34I need to grab him for a second, please.
00:59:36Oh, God.
00:59:38Clearly, there's been some drama at girls' line.
00:59:41If Becca's rolling up, dragging me out of there, how are we?
00:59:46Not good.
00:59:50You have no idea what I've just gone through.
00:59:53What just happened?
00:59:55What just happened?
00:59:56We just...
00:59:56I was about to hug it out.
00:59:57We just lost a man.
00:59:58Okay.
00:59:59So I'm just going to fill you in quickly, because I've left girls' night, obviously.
01:00:04Because it was just, like, gang up completely.
01:00:08Um, basically, I'm just letting you know, Rachel got up and she goes,
01:00:12last night was the most humiliating night of my life.
01:00:16I have been made to be.
01:00:19My relationship is a joke.
01:00:22And I have never felt so upset and humiliated in my life.
01:00:28She's just sitting there, like, hysterical, being like, it's you.
01:00:31You need to change your actions.
01:00:34Right, right.
01:00:35I was just like, all right, like, whatever.
01:00:40It was, like, the worst thing that's ever happened to anyone.
01:00:44Rachel is still upset.
01:00:46Grow up.
01:00:47It was a passing comment.
01:00:48Grow up.
01:00:50Move past it.
01:00:51And Gia was, like, a dragon breathing fire.
01:00:57Couldn't look at me.
01:00:59And Juliet came at me.
01:01:01But, like, it was no point tonight, babe.
01:01:03Like, they were just, it was just all, like, me, at me.
01:01:07And that's fine.
01:01:08Like, I can handle it.
01:01:09Like, I'm not upset about it.
01:01:11But I just wanted to tell you what happened.
01:01:13And, yeah.
01:01:15I feel a bit frustrated, to be honest, with finding out what's going on at girls' night.
01:01:19Because it seems like a gang up.
01:01:22And ganging up on someone, I don't think that's right, to be honest.
01:01:27I'm pissed off at Steve.
01:01:29He's a fucking officer.
01:01:30I've helped the bloke.
01:01:32He's a charity case.
01:01:34You don't, you don't need to, you don't need to have an argument with him.
01:01:36Let me have it.
01:01:37No one attacks my wife and gets away with it.
01:01:39Not without me being there.
01:01:40If you're going to attack her, we'll have the big boss there.
01:01:43What's all that about?
01:01:45Who, it's like someone kicking your little brother.
01:01:47You mean kiss me, bro?
01:01:50That shit pisses me off.
01:01:52Like.
01:01:54Oh, she's foul, man.
01:01:59Let's do a chat.
01:02:00Let's do two on two.
01:02:02And let's have it like men.
01:02:07Hey, fellas, looks like there's a storm.
01:02:09Do you want to do it?
01:02:09Let's go.
01:02:10Let's go.
01:02:11Great.
01:02:12Let's go.
01:02:12Let's go.
01:02:13Get heavier.
01:02:14Let's go, boys.
01:02:16Let's go, boys.
01:02:17Let's go, boys.
01:02:17Quick.
01:02:19Steve-o, can we have a chat with you, me and Bex?
01:02:23Sorry, guys.
01:02:24Can you all go?
01:02:24Because we're going to have a chat.
01:02:25Is that OK?
01:02:26Oh, I'd love to say.
01:02:28I'm missing, yeah?
01:02:29That's OK.
01:02:29We've always wished to go to Miranda.
01:02:31Yeah.
01:02:32I really like that.
01:02:33Where's, is, is Rachel, can we get Rachel?
01:02:35But let me just explain to you.
01:02:37I think we get Rachel before you explain.
01:02:39OK.
01:02:40I think we do.
01:02:41Go get Rachel.
01:02:42Let's go get Rachel.
01:02:43OK.
01:02:45Yes.
01:02:46Yes.
01:02:47Yes.
01:02:47Yes.
01:02:47Yes.
01:02:48Yes.
01:02:48Yes.
01:02:48Yes.
01:02:49Yes.
01:02:49Yes.
01:02:50Yes.
01:02:50Yes.
01:02:51Yes.
01:02:51Yes.
01:02:52I just really hate that Bex's not here for this.
01:02:55Because I think, I think it would have been, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, regardless of what
01:02:58happened at the start of the night, it's a shame that she missed this bit.
01:03:01And it's really sad that one of us is not here.
01:03:03But Bex, she chose to leave.
01:03:04No, I get that, but regardless, it would have been nice if she was sitting here having
01:03:08these moments with us.
01:03:09And she can.
01:03:10Another day when things will feel better.
01:03:13Hey, Rach.
01:03:14Well, hello.
01:03:15We've got Stephen up at the house, and I think the four of us need to have a chat.
01:03:19Oh, OK.
01:03:20Well.
01:03:21Let's go.
01:03:22I guess, guys, I'm leaving girls night early.
01:03:25That's not my choice.
01:03:26Fantastic.
01:03:27You don't have to go, Rach, if you don't want to.
01:03:29You guys have pulled me out.
01:03:30I'm coming.
01:03:32Well, I don't think that this is actually really fair.
01:03:35Like, anyway.
01:03:37Hold on a minute, sweetheart.
01:03:38We're coming to get you out of respect, because we don't want to talk without you being there.
01:03:43We want to speak, all four of us.
01:03:45We don't want to speak three of us.
01:03:46So cut out the comments.
01:03:48There's no need for the bullshit comments.
01:03:51Just leave the room like a lady.
01:03:53That's fine.
01:03:54Thank you all.
01:03:54Have a lovely evening.
01:03:56Yeah.
01:03:56It's a resolution.
01:03:57Hey.
01:03:58No, well, I just, anyway.
01:03:59Goodbye.
01:04:01Where's your head at, babe?
01:04:02Just come leave the room.
01:04:03Be respectful.
01:04:05Love you all.
01:04:09I don't know why you've got to make comments like that.
01:04:22The four of us need to have a chat.
01:04:24Oh, okay.
01:04:25Well.
01:04:25Let's go.
01:04:27I guess, guys, I'm leaving girls' night early.
01:04:30That's not my choice.
01:04:32Fantastic.
01:04:33You don't have to go, Rach, if you don't want to.
01:04:35You guys have pulled me out.
01:04:35I'm coming.
01:04:37Well, I don't think that this is actually really fair.
01:04:40Like, anyway, I'm all good.
01:04:41I'll just...
01:04:42No, that's fine.
01:04:43Thank you all.
01:04:43Have a lovely evening.
01:04:44Yeah, it can be.
01:04:45It's a resolution.
01:04:47No, well, I just...
01:04:47Anyway.
01:04:48Yeah, babe.
01:04:49Love you all.
01:04:52I don't know why you've got to make comments like that.
01:04:58Oh.
01:05:10Oh.
01:05:11Oh.
01:05:11Oh.
01:05:12Oh.
01:05:12Oh.
01:05:18Oh.
01:05:29Firstly, I want to say, Rachel, the comments you just said in there wasn't called for.
01:05:34We brought you here out of respect because we wanted to have a four-way conversation.
01:05:38So comments like that, I'm being dragged away and all that.
01:05:41No, no, no, no.
01:05:41Because of us?
01:05:42It's respect.
01:05:43Can I step in?
01:05:44Can I step in?
01:05:45Rach, all I'm saying is we came in there polite and said,
01:05:49can we have a conversation?
01:05:50You didn't have to make a big melee out of it when you're leaving the group.
01:05:53We pulled you out there for respect because we didn't want to have this conversation with
01:05:57us.
01:05:58So I don't really appreciate that.
01:05:59Everyone just attacked me.
01:06:02I pulled Danny aside tonight and I can hold my own, right?
01:06:05I understand that I made a comment that was a throwaway comment that as we've all agreed,
01:06:11Daniel, you and Rachel and I all agree that the term that I used was not used with malice,
01:06:22but the poor choice of words, but it wasn't done in malice.
01:06:28And I, you know that, you know that, Rachel knows that, right?
01:06:31No worries.
01:06:34I think what hurt me tonight the most was that you've let everyone attack me,
01:06:41but when it's okay for you because you're being backed up, everyone's allowed to do that to me,
01:06:46that's not okay.
01:06:47You have to practice what you preach, honey.
01:06:50It just felt aggressive.
01:06:52Everything's on their terms.
01:06:54It's got to happen on their time, even though the actions of Beck are what have, you know,
01:07:01caused me to feel this way.
01:07:03I'll be honest, and this is my opinion.
01:07:05I think you've made a mountain out of a molehill because you kicked off in front of everyone.
01:07:10You went to Beck in front of the whole group.
01:07:11I kicked off a bit of a stretch.
01:07:12In front of the whole, did you or did you not say in front of the whole group?
01:07:15It's on camera.
01:07:15I didn't kick off, though.
01:07:17You shouted, you went to the whole group.
01:07:19I didn't kick off.
01:07:20I was like, okay, saying I kicked off is a bit, I was upset, and I said,
01:07:23hey, you've just made a joke of my relationship.
01:07:25Yeah, but you just said you didn't, what was your words, what you just said?
01:07:27I was like, you've just made a joke of my relationship.
01:07:30She said she didn't make a big deal.
01:07:31Yeah, but you did.
01:07:32Yeah, look, this means a lot to Rachel.
01:07:36It means a lot to me for you guys.
01:07:38It means so much.
01:07:40That's why she brought it up.
01:07:41That's why she sold everyone.
01:07:43That's why she, at the very beginning of the party, she brought this up.
01:07:47Then it turned into attacking.
01:07:49Then Rachel removed herself so she wouldn't make a big deal out of it.
01:07:53She removed herself from the situation.
01:07:56Yeah.
01:07:56She was incredibly hurt.
01:07:58You guys can say and do whatever you want.
01:08:01I can have a bunch of girls come at me, and I can sit there.
01:08:05I'm sorry, at the end of the day, I'm getting so many different stories to the point where
01:08:11I'm told I'm a joke because of the things that you've said.
01:08:14Who said that?
01:08:15Gia and Juliet, okay?
01:08:18Gia and Juliet are lying to you.
01:08:19It's a lie.
01:08:20You're saying one thing to me and said another thing to them.
01:08:24I never would have done that.
01:08:26So you've got liars bullshitting you, and you're going to take it and then attack her?
01:08:30I didn't take any of that and lie.
01:08:31Come on, you know she's a f***ing liar.
01:08:36Steve-O, do you think that what I said was said with malice because I'm confused?
01:08:42Let Steve-O answer.
01:08:43I'll answer the question.
01:08:44I said this to Rachel last night.
01:08:47I believe the comment was disrespectful, bad taste, just a poor choice of words, and all
01:08:55of the above.
01:08:55I don't believe there was any malice behind it.
01:08:58I don't believe there was malicious content behind it.
01:09:00I said that to Rachel last night, but it doesn't excuse the fact that it was still disrespectful
01:09:05and it was still a poor choice of words and all that.
01:09:08Everything there still stands.
01:09:10100% and I agree with you.
01:09:11I spoke to him this afternoon.
01:09:12I sat down with him in our lounge room and spoke to him and he said, do you know what,
01:09:15Bec?
01:09:16I really love you and I really love Rachel.
01:09:18Why are you talking to my husband off camera?
01:09:23Did I know that you two had a conversation this afternoon?
01:09:26No.
01:09:27Because you didn't tell me.
01:09:29Did you speak to Bec this afternoon?
01:09:34Did you guys speak this afternoon and patch all this up?
01:09:37We didn't patch it up.
01:09:40I just said to her what I thought her comment was, was disrespectful and everything.
01:09:43Exactly everything I said just then, I repeated.
01:09:46The conversation lasted 60 seconds.
01:09:48It doesn't matter.
01:09:50I'm actually feeling a little bit betrayed a bit here, babe.
01:09:53No.
01:09:54I've got to be right.
01:09:54I'm going to stop this conversation right now.
01:09:56I do feel let down by Stephen tonight.
01:09:59I feel really let down.
01:10:00Just like you needed to leave girls night, I now need to leave this.
01:10:05I feel quite hurt and disappointed.
01:10:08You know, we keep talking how we're united.
01:10:10We've got each other's back.
01:10:12You didn't have my back, babe.
01:10:15You didn't.
01:10:17And so now I'm kind of like, what else are you saying about me behind my back?
01:10:32Tomorrow night.
01:10:34No one's spoken to me at all today.
01:10:36Bec and Danny isolated from the group.
01:10:38A comment has been taken out of proportion so much.
01:10:42It's all man.
01:10:44Wherever Bec goes, misery follows.
01:10:47And Gia and Juliet seize the opportunity to further stir up the tension.
01:10:52I do not know why she does this.
01:10:54I don't think I could ever, ever, ever trust her again.
01:10:57I respect the victim.
01:10:59Can a romantic beach date help calm Stella's anxiety?
01:11:04Has either of you been sad?
01:11:05I really would appreciate if everyone just dropped it.
01:11:08Do you think that I did this to hurt you?
01:11:11And then at the final night drinks.
01:11:14You're not understanding.
01:11:15That's it.
01:11:15Mic drop, see you later.
01:11:17Tell me you don't accept my apology.
01:11:19Or accept it and move on.
01:11:21Lingering group tension.
01:11:23You two have both done wrong by me and my wife.
01:11:24How?
01:11:25Send the retreat into turmoil.
01:11:28Let's go.
01:11:29Bring it on.
01:11:29I'm so sick of this.
01:11:30You're the puppeteer.
01:11:32I'm not puppeteer.
01:11:33I'm done being manipulated.
01:11:34No one knows who you are.
01:11:35Stop manipulating me.
01:11:37I'm so sick of this.
01:11:38I'm so sick of this.
01:11:40I'm so sick of this.
01:11:41I'm so sick of this.
01:11:42I'm so sick of this.
01:11:42I'm so sick of this.
01:11:42I'm so sick of this.
01:11:44I'm so sick of this.
01:11:44I'm so sick of this.
01:11:44I'm so sick of this.
01:11:44I'm so sick of this.
01:11:45I'm so sick of this.
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