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Married at First Sight Australia - Season 13 - Episode 22

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00:00:00Previously...
00:00:01I'm done with this experiment.
00:00:02Stephanie and Tyson's time in the experiment came to a dramatic end.
00:00:09Our couples continued to grow and learn from the experts.
00:00:13You guys showed me that I was in the wrong very, very much.
00:00:17And while romantic progress was on display...
00:00:20You're grinning from ear to ear.
00:00:22Stella and Phillip's stalemate on who will say I love you first continued.
00:00:27A man has to say it first.
00:00:29What is holding you back, Phillip?
00:00:31It's, I don't know. Yeah, we'll see.
00:00:32Feeling hatred at times.
00:00:33Are you even listening to what I'm saying?
00:00:35Don't speak over Alessandra.
00:00:37Show some respect.
00:00:38Juliet was held to account...
00:00:40You talk in a very toxic fight style.
00:00:42You can't say sorry.
00:00:43I apologise.
00:00:44Not very well.
00:00:45And despite her choosing to stay, Joel drew his line in the sand.
00:00:50I will always treat you with kindness and I expect the same treatment back.
00:00:54Giving the couple one more week to turn their marriage around.
00:00:58Tonight.
00:00:59It's hard to say things like this.
00:01:01I definitely haven't been one to kind of lean into my feelings of emotions.
00:01:05Alessandra had a good point, yeah?
00:01:07Why can't you just verbalise it to each other, you know?
00:01:09Will Phillip finally say those magic words that Stella's been dying to hear?
00:01:15His leg is shaking. It's okay, baby.
00:01:18And then...
00:01:19Yeah!
00:01:20It's time for the annual couples retreat.
00:01:23Wee!
00:01:24Woo! Yay!
00:01:25Very, very content right now.
00:01:27How good is this?
00:01:28Our newlyweds are loving the brand new location.
00:01:32Let's get away from it all.
00:01:35And the happy couples are all singing Kumbaya.
00:01:38I feel like the group vibe's quite nice.
00:01:41Ladies and gentlemen!
00:01:42Can I have you guys over here, please?
00:01:44Until...
00:01:45It's the first night of retreat.
00:01:46We've had...
00:01:50One...
00:01:51Bad...
00:01:52Joke...
00:01:53I just wanna leave.
00:01:54Sends the retreat into meltdown.
00:01:57Stop!
00:01:57You called her a liar.
00:01:58I'm not being manipulated by you!
00:02:00What is the punchline...
00:02:02Guys, guys!
00:02:03...that will break bonds...
00:02:05She is a liar!
00:02:06I'm so sick of this.
00:02:07Stop attacking K-pop and walk away.
00:02:09...and derail the course of the experiment...
00:02:12Get me out of here.
00:02:13...forever.
00:02:14It made me feel like a piece of shit.
00:02:16It worked.
00:02:24We've crossed the halfway mark of the 2026 Married at First Sight experiment.
00:02:30And many of our couples are forming strong romantic connections.
00:02:35Working together to overcome relationship hurdles...
00:02:38...and crossing significant milestones in their marriages.
00:02:42One couple in particular...
00:02:44...is waking up after reaching an exciting new milestone of their own.
00:02:52Oh, what's so funny?
00:02:56Why are you gigging?
00:02:58So, mine and Stephen's relationship is really good.
00:03:06This is...
00:03:06Why aren't we clicking today?
00:03:08This is really bad.
00:03:10This is really...
00:03:11We're usually good at this.
00:03:14Yeah.
00:03:15Yeah.
00:03:15I know why.
00:03:17It's because it's something that we don't want to talk about.
00:03:22Big weekend that me and Rachel had.
00:03:25We're definitely moving things along.
00:03:31We haven't...
00:03:32We haven't had sex, but we've started fooling about.
00:03:37So that's fun.
00:03:39We get to talk about it and everyone's going to be asking questions
00:03:42and we're going to be saying, yeah, it was fantastic.
00:03:45What was fantastic?
00:03:50Despite sharing a positive emotional connection,
00:03:53the couple's most significant challenge so far
00:03:57has been forming physical intimacy.
00:04:00And Stephen's reluctance was highlighted during intimacy week.
00:04:10I can kiss you, Rachel.
00:04:13But I'm not too sure if it's going to make you feel something.
00:04:24Meeting with his family,
00:04:25Stephen was presented with some valuable insight
00:04:28from his brother, Dylan, and mum, Anna.
00:04:31I feel like she's like this on Steve
00:04:34and Steve's just sitting here like this.
00:04:35Yes. Yeah.
00:04:37Come on, dude.
00:04:37She obviously is really into you
00:04:40and I feel like maybe you've got to let your wall down a little bit.
00:04:45At last night's commitment ceremony,
00:04:47Stephen's newfound focus on his connection with Rachel
00:04:50didn't go unnoticed by the experts.
00:04:53Oh, look at you two all cuddled up on the couch there.
00:04:56Ooh, that's cosy.
00:04:58We noticed that.
00:05:00What's changed? What's going on?
00:05:02You know, we had a pretty good kiss
00:05:03and a bit of a chat and a cuddle on the bed last night
00:05:06so it's definitely a step in the right direction.
00:05:09Me and Rachel have developed intimacy just a smudgy more.
00:05:14It felt natural.
00:05:16Alessandra did say bring some more romance and stuff to it.
00:05:21And yeah, we both had fun.
00:05:23The girls would be really excited.
00:05:25Interrogating?
00:05:26No, I don't think the girls would be interrogating
00:05:28but there'd better be bottles of champagne or something
00:05:30because we would be wanting to pop some bottles and celebrate.
00:05:34I'm not going to go into detail but yeah,
00:05:36last night we just sat on the bed
00:05:38and we had like a really good chat about intimacy
00:05:41and then essentially Stephen had a shower,
00:05:44came back to bed and I just...
00:05:46took off.
00:05:48Yeah, you can tell the boys.
00:05:49Tell the boys.
00:05:51I can do this, hey boys.
00:05:52I made second base.
00:05:55Jesus Christ.
00:05:57I don't think he understands what the bases are.
00:06:03Stephen said for him to want to increase intimacy
00:06:07and want to go further with someone he has to have that,
00:06:10you know, emotional attraction.
00:06:12So he must have it.
00:06:13Which is really exciting.
00:06:22Very happy girl.
00:06:23Do what I can.
00:06:30Unfortunately, not everyone is happy in their marriage.
00:06:33Joel is feeling the effects from last night's tumultuous
00:06:37commitment ceremony.
00:06:38I've woken up this morning feeling pretty shit.
00:06:41The experts revealed some of the things Juliet said about me
00:06:44and that was like a knife through my heart.
00:06:47Your behaviour last night, it was mean and cruel.
00:06:54You called him a liar.
00:06:55You said he wasn't a man.
00:06:57You called him a little boy.
00:06:59You said he was embarrassing.
00:07:00And you found him unattractive.
00:07:05Is there hope moving forward with Juliet?
00:07:09I actually don't know.
00:07:10The onus is definitely on Juliet to repair the relationship.
00:07:13There's no doubt about that.
00:07:23Hey.
00:07:24Hey.
00:07:25How are you feeling?
00:07:26Been better?
00:07:27Jayla.
00:07:28What?
00:07:29Um...
00:07:31Look, I'm just really sorry.
00:07:35I guess I didn't realise how much you were hurting.
00:07:39Um, when I say words like that,
00:07:42it's when I'm really really hurting,
00:07:44and I guess I use it as a way of releasing my pain,
00:07:51not recognising who's on the other side of that release.
00:07:55And I'm really sorry for my actions.
00:07:58I feel shit.
00:08:02I was wondering this morning what Juliet's next step would be
00:08:06and I think she took the right one.
00:08:08She came and apologised and it was heartfelt.
00:08:12Well, it was a really, really intense confronting session
00:08:16for both of us last night.
00:08:18We can all say things that we don't mean even to loved ones
00:08:21when we're angry or whatever,
00:08:23but I don't like to see you in pain.
00:08:26I accept your apology.
00:08:28Thanks.
00:08:29It's OK. It's OK.
00:08:32I was expecting him to be a lot more angrier and upset this morning
00:08:38considering how angry he was on the couch last night.
00:08:42I appreciate you forgiving me.
00:08:44I think I just need to take some time to take care of my heart as well
00:08:48in this experiment.
00:08:50It's been very emotional for you and for me too.
00:08:54But we're in this experiment together
00:08:56and I think that the best way forward
00:08:58is just to leave everything in the past, you know,
00:09:01and start fresh.
00:09:04I think this morning showed the compassionate,
00:09:07empathetic side of Juliet
00:09:08and that gives me hope for the future.
00:09:10It's not in my nature to hold grudges
00:09:12and I'm willing to let the past stay in the past.
00:09:15Forgive.
00:09:16Thanks, babes.
00:09:18And move forward.
00:09:19New page.
00:09:20Throw the old book out.
00:09:25Down the hall,
00:09:27David is still feeling blindsided
00:09:29after Alyssa's revelation
00:09:31at last night's commitment ceremony.
00:09:33David, he gives me a lot,
00:09:35but there's some things that he can't give me.
00:09:38I function at a high frequency
00:09:41and I feel like we're six weeks in.
00:09:44I'm missing that stimulation,
00:09:46that high frequency
00:09:47that I would normally get from my relationships
00:09:50to make me happy.
00:09:53Yeah, I don't like the use of the word stimulated.
00:09:56Like, I don't think, you know,
00:09:57that is appropriate
00:09:58when you're explaining that
00:10:00it's because, you know,
00:10:01you miss your friends and family
00:10:02and all the noise in the outside.
00:10:04I mean, we're all here for the same reasons.
00:10:07We all have all the noise in the outside.
00:10:09Your own experience is your experience,
00:10:11but someone on the outside listening in
00:10:13could take it differently
00:10:14because they don't know
00:10:16how you feel inside of being unstimulated,
00:10:18but if they think Alyssa and David
00:10:20are hanging out together,
00:10:21spending every day with each other
00:10:24and Alyssa feels unstimulated,
00:10:26it's like, uh, who else?
00:10:28It's like David's fault
00:10:29because he's being boring.
00:10:31I feel like, babe,
00:10:32I feel like you're overthinking it
00:10:33because I sat down in front of the experts
00:10:35and I literally said,
00:10:36this is a me thing
00:10:37and I don't know why
00:10:38you're dragging yourself into it.
00:10:40I'm really not dragging myself.
00:10:41I'm just having the conversation.
00:10:42This is a me thing, babe.
00:10:43Yeah, I understand.
00:10:44And I'm a more high-functioning person than you.
00:10:47My brain's like,
00:10:48all the time.
00:10:50Like, my frequencies
00:10:51vibrate higher than yours,
00:10:53whereas you're more chill.
00:10:54Yeah.
00:10:54You know, you're the opposite of me.
00:10:56What do you mean by your frequencies?
00:10:57Like, I'm a more louder,
00:10:59outgoing, sort of busy, sort of person.
00:11:01I feel like frequency, again,
00:11:03is the wrong with stimulation.
00:11:05That's something that I'm funny with frequency.
00:11:07You are in a foul mood today.
00:11:09I feel like...
00:11:09You are in a foul mood today, babe.
00:11:11You are taking everything so personally.
00:11:14I feel like I can't get my word across to David.
00:11:17OK, so obviously moving forward,
00:11:19I think for the lack of stimulation
00:11:22that I'm not getting in this, you know,
00:11:25in this environment,
00:11:26then I'm going to do things for myself.
00:11:28Yeah.
00:11:29You know?
00:11:29Like, obviously we do amazing dates together,
00:11:33but for me personally,
00:11:35I feel like maybe that might be
00:11:36a bit of self-care.
00:11:37You know?
00:11:38Massage, facial.
00:11:39There are other ways that I can fill my cup up
00:11:42and, you know,
00:11:44get that stimulation that I need in other ways.
00:11:46But I will always tell you...
00:11:48Yeah, no, I appreciate that.
00:11:50That's good.
00:11:53I feel like David and I are on the same page.
00:11:55I feel like he finally understood
00:11:56what I meant at the table,
00:11:58but it took him a while.
00:11:58We got there.
00:11:59We got there.
00:12:00You are hard work today, boy.
00:12:04Honestly.
00:12:13As a brand new week gets underway...
00:12:16How are you doing?
00:12:17Yeah, good.
00:12:17I'm pumped.
00:12:18Today's the day.
00:12:20I'm packing my activities.
00:12:21Our couples are preparing
00:12:23for the next step in their relationships.
00:12:26Retreat day.
00:12:26Retreat day.
00:12:28The relationship retreat
00:12:29is an exciting and important phase
00:12:31of the experiment.
00:12:32It's a chance for our couples
00:12:34to leave their normal day-to-day
00:12:36and get a fresh perspective
00:12:37on their marriage
00:12:38in a different setting.
00:12:40Getting away
00:12:40and spending time
00:12:41in a new environment
00:12:42will help breathe life
00:12:44into relationships
00:12:45that might be in a rut.
00:12:46It can help break negative patterns
00:12:48and progress the relationship.
00:12:51Going on a retreat.
00:12:52We're getting out of here.
00:12:53Don't get me wrong,
00:12:54this is a palace over here,
00:12:55but we're going to be substituting it
00:12:57for hopefully a little bit of coastline,
00:13:00a lot more sun,
00:13:01and I think it's just going to be a good break
00:13:03from whatever the experiment's been dishing out.
00:13:05I can see you've got all the essentials there.
00:13:07I've got the cards,
00:13:08I've got the games,
00:13:09I've got the football ball,
00:13:10the skipping rope,
00:13:11the booty band.
00:13:12I'm bringing another card as a game.
00:13:14I also packed astrology book
00:13:15to check everyone's mattress too.
00:13:18Yeah.
00:13:21Do you know the magician gets the hat out?
00:13:23It just keeps coming.
00:13:24It just keeps coming.
00:13:26Got uggies,
00:13:27couple warm dresses,
00:13:28couple...
00:13:29Warm, cold,
00:13:31toiletries and stuff.
00:13:31You've got all...
00:13:32Yeah.
00:13:33Got to do that.
00:13:35Oh, my God.
00:13:36Are you excited?
00:13:37I'm super keen.
00:13:39Scott and I are pretty solid,
00:13:40as usual.
00:13:41We had a really good weekend.
00:13:42I just want to get away,
00:13:43have some sun,
00:13:45relax.
00:13:46This is going to be so fun.
00:13:47Who are you looking forward to seeing?
00:13:49I think I'm a chance to meet everyone.
00:13:51I think being a later couple,
00:13:53like, they're all...
00:13:54have bonded with each other a lot.
00:13:56I'm actually excited.
00:13:57Like, when I'm in a social environment with Chris,
00:13:59it's actually when I feel closest to him
00:14:00because we both, like, love that environment
00:14:02and I see the best side of Chris.
00:14:03Yeah, it'll be awesome.
00:14:05I've got no beef with anyone.
00:14:06You've got no beef with anyone.
00:14:09I just want to steer clear of it all.
00:14:12I'm just going to sit back and watch.
00:14:13Danny and I are in a really, really good place at the moment.
00:14:16So, like, you know, I just...
00:14:17I just want to protect our peace.
00:14:19Yeah, no grenades being dropped by me.
00:14:21You sure you're not going to drop any?
00:14:23No.
00:14:23It's been a week.
00:14:24You must be getting...
00:14:25Daniel.
00:14:26Getting the edge.
00:14:27Daniel.
00:14:30No-one thinks you're funny.
00:14:32If there's drama, watch me sink back into the, like, Homer Simpson
00:14:36and into the bush.
00:14:37Like, I don't want to be involved in any of it.
00:14:40Do you reckon there'll be any news?
00:14:41I think the most interesting one will be the dynamic between Juliet and Joel.
00:14:46They might be head over heels in love by now.
00:14:48I'm...
00:14:48You never know what's going to happen on this experiment.
00:14:50Surely not.
00:14:53Across the hall, having packed for the couple's retreat,
00:14:57there's something on Philip's mind.
00:14:59What did you think of last night?
00:15:01It was great.
00:15:02It was a great little chat.
00:15:04What did you think about their feedback?
00:15:06Kind of what they were telling us?
00:15:07I love that I needed to give a high five to Alessandra
00:15:11for the same views that the man needs to say I love you first, so...
00:15:15Oh, really?
00:15:16Yeah, love it.
00:15:17Love that.
00:15:17You agree with that?
00:15:18I...
00:15:21There's something that I've been thinking about for the last few weeks.
00:15:24I think there was one thing that she did kind of say
00:15:27that I was just like...
00:15:29Oh, yeah, you're right.
00:15:30It was kind of brought forth on the commitment ceremony
00:15:33when Alessandra was like,
00:15:34I don't understand the confusion here, what's happening?
00:15:36Like, you guys are obviously feeling it.
00:15:38You were mentioning that you guys feel things
00:15:42and that you know because you know
00:15:44and you're communicating that by Morse code and looks.
00:15:47But no words.
00:15:50Yeah?
00:15:51Yeah.
00:15:51We're tiptoeing around.
00:15:53In this environment, in another environment,
00:15:55if you're feeling, then you're feeling.
00:15:57And I think that needs to be celebrated.
00:16:02It's hard to say things like this.
00:16:04I definitely haven't been one to kind of lean into my feelings
00:16:06or emotions, you know?
00:16:08So there was something that kind of etched in my mind last night.
00:16:12Alessandra had a good point, yeah?
00:16:15You either feel it or not,
00:16:16why can't you just verbalise it to each other, you know?
00:16:19If it's that obvious.
00:16:21So the hesitation was a little bit of fear.
00:16:24His leg is shaking.
00:16:25It's okay, baby.
00:16:28I haven't said this to anyone in six years.
00:16:30What if you're coming on too strong
00:16:32and it's only you feeling it?
00:16:33I had to think about what she said
00:16:36and, yeah, you are different.
00:16:40You're special.
00:16:43And I am in love with you.
00:16:50I knew.
00:16:51What?
00:16:52I knew.
00:16:53Good job.
00:16:56Of course I knew.
00:16:58Yeah.
00:16:58I can tell.
00:16:59It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out.
00:17:02It doesn't bloody take a rocket scientist to figure it out.
00:17:05And I haven't said that in a while, so...
00:17:09Where do you stand?
00:17:11Same spot.
00:17:12So what is that?
00:17:13Being in love.
00:17:15Yeah.
00:17:22Coming up...
00:17:26What's got Stella holding back?
00:17:28When we started to have those chats,
00:17:30it kind of all got very, very serious
00:17:31and that's becoming hard.
00:17:35Oh, God, I feel like I'm going to cry.
00:17:43This year, for the very first time,
00:17:46the annual couples' retreat is heading two hours south of Sydney
00:17:50to the picturesque town of Kiama.
00:17:54Located on a sprawling property,
00:17:56a stone's throw away from the coastline.
00:17:59It will be a chance for our couples to embrace nature
00:18:03and gain further perspectives in a new environment.
00:18:07And, as always,
00:18:09staking claim to a bedroom is top priority.
00:18:23It was chaotic.
00:18:26Oh, I'm fighting.
00:18:28I'm going as hard as I can
00:18:30and they're just pulling away.
00:18:33Me and my short little stumpy legs
00:18:35and everyone's seven foot tall,
00:18:37their one step is equivalent to six of mine.
00:18:43Oh, f**k!
00:18:51Oh, yeah!
00:18:54I've got it.
00:18:56Scott, he's got the...
00:18:57He's got the King's Palace up there,
00:18:59he's got the bathtub looking out here,
00:19:01sun shining through,
00:19:02bed in the middle,
00:19:03he's got a kitchenette.
00:19:05No place to like home.
00:19:06Oh, my room's pretty good.
00:19:10Coming at the perfect time
00:19:12for their intimacy development,
00:19:14Stephen has secured a secluded room
00:19:16for he and Rachel.
00:19:18So we've got the guest house
00:19:20and it's away from everyone as well.
00:19:23Sorry, son!
00:19:24Keep it up for the boys!
00:19:29Your boy did it!
00:19:30You did!
00:19:31I've delivered!
00:19:32I brought in the bacon.
00:19:34In the oven!
00:19:36We got it!
00:19:37Go, go, go, go, go!
00:19:39This is nice.
00:19:40This is so cute!
00:19:41This is a lot.
00:19:42I'm so happy, boo!
00:19:44Babe, you did so good!
00:19:48I can't believe we're on the retreat, guys!
00:19:51Woo!
00:19:52We're a couple's retreat!
00:19:53Yay!
00:19:55There you go!
00:20:00Oh, keep it clean, baby!
00:20:03We got the best room!
00:20:04Oh, this is comfy.
00:20:06Princess.
00:20:07Wow.
00:20:07Best room in the house.
00:20:08Oh, yeah.
00:20:09Very, very content right now.
00:20:11He did very well.
00:20:14Honestly, we're so lucky.
00:20:15I feel like this retreat's gonna keep me and Gia close.
00:20:19Yay!
00:20:20Inseparable, and, like, we're just here to enjoy this retreat as if it's a honeymoon.
00:20:28Hello!
00:20:33Hey, what a nice little area to chill.
00:20:35There's a little swing here.
00:20:37Oh, hiya, daddy.
00:20:38Hiya, daddy.
00:20:39Yeah, it is a pretty sweet pad, though.
00:20:41This is unreal.
00:20:42The view, like, so supported.
00:20:44Cool.
00:20:44Should be a good few days.
00:20:49How stunning is that?
00:20:52Last week was a really, really tough week, and I think this week I'm just focusing on
00:20:58having tunnel vision of just me and Joel.
00:21:01So, that's the goal.
00:21:03This is cute!
00:21:04Yeah, this is a change of events.
00:21:06Yeah, to clear the air.
00:21:08Did you?
00:21:09This is so good.
00:21:11I'm excited for you.
00:21:11No, no, no, no.
00:21:13Joel and Juliet.
00:21:14Um, wow, they've come lengths and bounds.
00:21:17I did not expect to see that.
00:21:19Uh, what is going on there?
00:21:21Are we good at the moment?
00:21:22I love this.
00:21:23Hopefully forever.
00:21:25What you're seeing is, uh, is, is genuine.
00:21:27Okay.
00:21:28Good.
00:21:29So, how are you feeling about, um, you know, a few days of the retreat together?
00:21:32Well, I think it's come at the perfect time.
00:21:34Perfect.
00:21:34I agree.
00:21:34You know?
00:21:35Um, yeah, wow.
00:21:39Yeah.
00:21:39So, this will be the first night in the...
00:21:41Together.
00:21:42...bed in...
00:21:43First night sleeping together since the first night of the honeymoon.
00:21:45Okay.
00:21:45So, uh, I think, uh, this is, uh, honeymoon version two.
00:21:49I already feel like we're very vibey with each other.
00:21:53More power to you, Queen, but, like, I don't know how you've turned it around from that dinner
00:21:56party to now, but, hey, this could be the beginning of a beautiful love story.
00:22:02Perplexed, but could be the beginning of a beautiful love story.
00:22:05Like, it feels completely different, which was what I wanted.
00:22:08It feels natural?
00:22:08It feels natural.
00:22:09Yeah, good, good, good, good.
00:22:11And you feel good?
00:22:12I feel great, yeah.
00:22:12You look good.
00:22:13Oh, good, guys.
00:22:14Yes.
00:22:14It's puzzling to me how you can go from really hating your husband at a dinner party to completely
00:22:19flipping that round.
00:22:22However, if it's genuine, more power to you.
00:22:24We're all here for love, so it might have been to kick up the butt she needed.
00:22:28You can't fake this.
00:22:29You can't fake it.
00:22:30You can't fake it.
00:22:32The bounce back of the century.
00:22:33This is exciting.
00:22:35Put your legs up.
00:22:37Don't set me flying, though.
00:22:39It's so peaceful now, you know?
00:22:41You can only hear the birds singing.
00:22:45No, I don't know what that even was.
00:22:47Was that a kookaburra or a pigeon?
00:22:51Was it a pigeon?
00:22:55As the sun sets on the first day of the retreat, our couples are coming together for the first
00:23:01night welcome drinks.
00:23:03Cheers, guys.
00:23:03Cheers, guys.
00:23:04Great.
00:23:05Woo!
00:23:07Woo!
00:23:08Woo!
00:23:10It is the first night.
00:23:11I am so excited to connect with all the couples.
00:23:14It's like being close to the real world.
00:23:18I wanted to share an update in mine and Stephen's relationship.
00:23:22Woo!
00:23:24Woo!
00:23:24So, I think you all know, like, we've had, obviously, our trying times, but last night
00:23:30as our intimacy levels increased, while we have not banged yet, yeah, we still have.
00:23:38It's really exciting.
00:23:39And, yeah, I just wanted to share that with you all.
00:23:42Yay!
00:23:42Woo!
00:23:43Woo!
00:23:47Cheers!
00:23:48Cheers!
00:23:49I've been rooting for Rachel and Stephen since day one, so I'm so, so happy that they are
00:23:54taking their relationship to the next level.
00:23:56Yeah.
00:23:56Rachel is so happy.
00:23:57Yeah.
00:23:58Like, I feel like you guys are on the right track, and I'm really happy for you both.
00:24:02Oh, great.
00:24:02Thank you so much.
00:24:03Cheers to that.
00:24:04Yeah!
00:24:05I've watched them go through this journey, and they vulnerably sat down with us tonight
00:24:10and said, hey, we're at this stage in our relationship.
00:24:13Me and Stephen, like, we've just hit this really nice trajectory, and I'm, like, I'm
00:24:18really excited about it.
00:24:19So, obviously, that was a huge milestone for Rachel to be intimate with Steve, and she
00:24:25is such a sensitive, beautiful soul.
00:24:27I'm just really happy for them.
00:24:29Yeah, I love it.
00:24:32There is so much love in the air tonight, I feel like it's the country.
00:24:37It brings people together.
00:24:38It's good energy.
00:24:39It's good vibes.
00:24:39I love that.
00:24:41That's why I love the country.
00:24:44Hang on.
00:24:45Has anyone asked how these two are going yet?
00:24:47Hey, Phillip, Stella, we haven't heard from you guys yet.
00:24:51What's going on?
00:24:52What?
00:24:52Phillip?
00:24:53Has everyone heard the news?
00:24:54What news?
00:24:55What are you expecting?
00:24:56So, when we were on the couch at the commitment ceremony, Alessandra was just saying, I don't
00:25:02get what's going on with you guys.
00:25:04You guys seem to keep doing a dance, Phil, like, with your words and stuff like that.
00:25:07Oh, no.
00:25:08And I just said, I've just got something to tell you.
00:25:10I'll go, I don't know how to say this, but I love you.
00:25:15Oh!
00:25:19Yeah!
00:25:20On your back!
00:25:21And you said it first.
00:25:22I said it first.
00:25:23Yes, yes, yes.
00:25:25Stella, did you say it back?
00:25:27It's time for Stella!
00:25:29Woo!
00:25:32Woo!
00:25:32Woo!
00:25:33Woo!
00:25:35Woo!
00:25:36It's all right.
00:25:36Everyone's getting along.
00:25:37It's perfect.
00:25:38It's great, it's great.
00:25:40It's time.
00:25:40It's great.
00:25:43So, very nice, it's a fun night tonight, Gha.
00:25:46Yeah.
00:25:46Fun night, yeah, mate!
00:25:49I'm just so talented you think about it.
00:25:57You know, the comment from Bec is, it's just assuming, like, we never went into detail.
00:26:02The comment's like, we did that action, and it's, you know, it's just, yeah, it's just
00:26:08a vulgar thing to say.
00:26:11We don't need to know the details.
00:26:13But we don't.
00:26:14Unless you want to share.
00:26:18Until tomorrow night.
00:26:24Oh, yeah, that's just the classic.
00:26:29Bec has a very, like, I guess, like, crude sense of humor.
00:26:33To be honest, like, I'd be a bit like, oh, you know, like, a little bit frustrated.
00:26:38Sounds like, I don't want to hear about these.
00:26:40I don't want to hear about heterosexual sex.
00:26:46It made me feel, I guess, a little bit awkward.
00:26:49I mean, I'm not very, you know, open about my, you know, sex life.
00:26:59Yeah, I feel a little bit awkward around Bec.
00:27:05I've felt awkward about Bec since day one, really.
00:27:07Um, look, I don't like the comments, but I, like I said, I feel like I'm just, yeah.
00:27:15I feel like I should have, could have just said to Bec, look, let's not say the, say it
00:27:22that way.
00:27:22Can we just be a bit more respectful and not say it like that?
00:27:27It's just like, we progressed.
00:27:31Ladies and gentlemen!
00:27:37Rach!
00:27:38Can I have you guys over here, please?
00:27:44Guys, I wanted to just sort of call us here tonight.
00:27:48It's the first night of retreat.
00:27:49And we've had I love yous.
00:27:52Yes!
00:27:54We've had a couple that I thought could not come back from the brink of hell.
00:27:59Bounce back!
00:28:01And we've had finger bangs, so like...
00:28:05Yay!
00:28:07Yay!
00:28:09Yay!
00:28:25Ladies and gentlemen!
00:28:30Rach!
00:28:32Can I have you guys over here, please?
00:28:39Guys, I wanted to just sort of call us here tonight.
00:28:43It's the first night of retreat.
00:28:45and we've had I love you's we've had a couple that I thought could not come
00:28:52back from the brink of hell that's back and we've had finger bangs so like
00:29:11anyway guys I just wanted to say that I think this has been a great night of
00:29:17retreat night one Jesus okay I think we need to cheers to new friendships and
00:29:30getting to know each other drink up let's go to bed because tomorrow's a big
00:29:33guy I didn't think it was funny she turns something that Steven and I was
00:29:47so excited about telling others about where we're at into a joke I get why
00:29:57Rachel got offended it's back she speaks like that it's just I don't know is it
00:30:05necessary it's not you know Rach is the sensitive girl and she opened up and we
00:30:14know that she wouldn't really appreciate that sort of sense of humor so it doesn't
00:30:20really matter how you mean to say something if someone takes it a certain
00:30:24way and doesn't take it the way that you intended by saying it it deserves an
00:30:28apology back a quick a quick a quick apology to Rach
00:30:35all right I'm so sorry about it no it's fine oh it was meant to be a bit of fun
00:30:41it's not funny
00:30:42like I shared with you guys openly that we took intimacy to a new level which is
00:30:47really important to Steven and I and you just made a joke of it no I didn't make a
00:30:51joke of it well you did and everyone laughed
00:30:57sorry if I offended you for me laughing babe it wasn't you guys who made the joke of it
00:31:01Bex was there and made the joke it's not a joke darling we'll celebrate you and your wins and we've
00:31:07been here through this and I have been here through this you're very very quick to turn
00:31:30in that moment she could have like come to me like I'm really sorry but instead she wanted to turn
00:31:36around and make a fight out of it go fight in the mirror sweetie you're gonna get more joy I'm
00:31:43not
00:31:43gonna scream at you I've every right to sit there and say that was not okay you just made a
00:31:49joke of
00:31:49my relationship we're here celebrating you it wasn't it did not feel like a celebration
00:31:56I apologize it never meant to we celebrate you all the time that's what we're doing
00:32:01stop talking Jesus Christ yeah cool anyway I'm done with tonight yeah thanks guys have a good night
00:32:10I mean whose husband's helped him get there mine she needs to calm down she pops off so quickly I'm
00:32:29over her look at her going nuts she's going off the head nuts right now when Bex said that I
00:32:37felt
00:32:37really hurt disappointed it felt vulgar and it felt just like I just felt like a piece of shit
00:33:00I was so excited for a treat I just don't even want to be around
00:33:07here anymore it just made me feel like a piece of shit all over again I just don't feel that
00:33:15way please we've
00:33:17worked so hard we've worked so hard in our relationship and we're on this amazing trajectory and I was so
00:33:27excited to share with everyone I just didn't expect that someone would just stand up there and cheapen it
00:33:36she needs to relax Jesus Christ she's sensitive to it she'll move on don't push anything more
00:33:46onto it that I mean it's just like she's sensitive to it honestly she's true she's just really hard
00:33:52to work sometimes oh god she's going off her head she's going absolutely off her head right now look
00:33:59at her in there she's going off her head in there I have supported her all night I've support my
00:34:06husband
00:34:06is the one sitting with her husband every night encouraging him to do it she's really upset I
00:34:19I shouldn't laugh but like what planet am I on right now like I understand okay your feelings
00:34:25are valid you don't want me to make a joke of it I'm not my husband is the one that's
00:34:29encouraged
00:34:29your husband to finger bang you darling okay so let's just calm down I'm gonna get a t-shirt with
00:34:35finger bang across it I'm gonna wear it everywhere like me who would have known but I can't be bothered
00:34:40with her like I'm so happy finally you've got some you know what I'm celebrating you
00:35:09okay well we'll talk we'll talk to Beck and we're gonna get through it okay
00:35:22after last night's welcome drinks ended in emotion Stephen is supporting Rachel as she
00:35:28tries to understand why Beck made a joke of their intimacy my personal opinion is that I found Beck's
00:35:35comment just look it's just disrespectful and a bit vulgar I don't know if I believe that she was
00:35:44like intentionally trying to hurt us I just think it was a very bad choice of words and it was
00:35:49disrespectful she could have just said I'm happy for you know Rachel and Stephen that they've
00:35:56increased their intimacy over the weekend and I'm very happy for them well it was a big thing for us
00:36:01to share like we're being vulnerable with the group I shared it as a celebration and while she didn't
00:36:08do it with malice we were a punchline in a joke if Stephen and I were standing there speaking about
00:36:18our
00:36:18relationship in front of everyone in that way go for it but we weren't it made me humiliated to being
00:36:28vulnerable with the group and sharing what I thought was exciting news yeah I'm more than happy to hear
00:36:34what Beck's got to say but Beck's also going to hear what I've got to say and she's actually got
00:36:38to listen and
00:36:39understand and put herself in my shoes when people have said things to her about her relationship and I
00:36:44understand it's completely different what was said she's quite upset and that's okay last night I got upset and the
00:36:51first thing she wanted to do was turn and try and fight me I would never stand up in front
00:36:56of a group ever and do that because if I did that to her and Danny I'd be six foot
00:37:03under and you wouldn't find the body
00:37:04I regret telling the group I regret celebrating something in my relationship
00:37:13oh morning morning how are we I'm good how are you good thanks slept so good last night so well
00:37:22you sleep good in the country don't you yeah it's beautiful how funny was last night babe it's a funny
00:37:29night moment oh my god full-blown meltdown um yeah obviously there's a little bit of drama now that
00:37:34drama involves me unfortunately hopefully she can maybe just move move past it you need to calm down
00:37:42what was said as a joke in jest I'm a woman we do that
00:37:49oh what a beautiful day it's like get a personality will you oh hell
00:38:06go ten go ten you do ten yeah right work brother
00:38:12I'm gonna perv shirt's off guys shirt's off
00:38:18yeah baby come on you two chop chop chop chop last one guys last one
00:38:39just the shirts need to come off
00:38:45after an emotional night Rachel and Stephen have taken some time away from the group to reconnect
00:38:52oh I can see Rachel and Stephen having a little chit chat over there maybe something really bad's
00:39:00actually happened because she's walking around really upset maybe she didn't get enough attention
00:39:06from the announcement that she made and then when I said it it was like oh ding ding ding here's
00:39:11my
00:39:12chance to get angry at someone and now everyone's gonna be talking about me and there's the attention
00:39:18you can't walk around like this all day like like the joke has been amplified that much that it's
00:39:26actually affecting their relationship but do you think Steve-o wants to be down there trying to cheer
00:39:31her up because like because his finger back it should have it should have made her happier
00:39:39it's made her sadder he's probably thinking that I'm not gonna finger blaster ever again I can't take
00:39:45the risk nothing bad actually happened it's a good thing like it's a great thing it's a good thing when
00:39:52there was a joke there was a joke made about a good thing yeah a good thing we just need
00:39:57to move
00:39:57forward it's gonna live on forever forever it's just I don't know I'm gonna get I'm gonna get caps
00:40:05and t-shirts anywho merch coming I didn't really do anything wrong like everyone knows that I did
00:40:16not mean that with malice and then all of a sudden it's World War three like what is going on
00:40:21I don't
00:40:22understand merch coming February 2026 oh my god absolutely not keep me out of that merch don't
00:40:41want any bad juju around me babe bad juju calm down calm your phone bro no you'll be but I'll
00:40:48send it to
00:40:49you anyway you're gonna wear it bitch I think some girls can just be a lost cause the shit
00:40:58talking she was doing about rage on the sunbeds she's already been making jokes about putting that
00:41:03tagline on a t-shirt and selling it as much all of it was so unacceptable this is very back
00:41:10behavior
00:41:10um she kept going on about these disgusting comments and making merch for it it wasn't nice
00:41:24beck is not someone I would be friends with in the outside world um I feel like I have a
00:41:29lot of
00:41:29empathy for her she tries a lot but she just keeps it up by just thinking about herself it's really
00:41:37quite
00:41:37selfish it will be interesting to see how the whole Beck and Rach situation develops hopefully
00:41:43comes to an end but you definitely never know coming up it was disrespectful it was disgusting and it
00:41:51wasn't it was it was it was a joke how will Beck respond to questions from the group but when
00:41:59are you
00:41:59going to be accountable for repeated behavior it's the married at first sight retreat on the New South
00:42:11Wales South Coast and our couples are getting ready for their boys and girls nights and Joel is embracing
00:42:22mother nature to ensure all areas are well maintained and we're done
00:42:30nice and groomed a social event separating our couples is an integral part of this retreat
00:42:38it allows them to speak freely with their peers and gain some outside advice for their relationships
00:42:45girls are boys night yeah I know I'm um you've chosen the girls I've been stolen away to the
00:42:50girls for the night I am excited for tonight hanging out with the boys whatever happened last night
00:42:55between Rachel and Beck do you think that that's is that still a thing is that something that's going
00:43:00to be spoken about tonight it's definitely going to be spoken okay definitely yeah because they haven't
00:43:04spoken today all day okay yeah they've been quite frosted with each other but Beck's been pretty good
00:43:10with you today hasn't she she has said like a few comments again about how she wanted to make merch
00:43:16oh merch yeah she said she wanted to make merch I think she's just joking though like she's not
00:43:20actually going to make merch you know but it's also just like why are we still talking about this when
00:43:24we obviously know Rach is so upset yeah I'm wondering if Beck's going to apologize to Rachel I think she
00:43:32should but how many times is she going to keep saying sorry and then doing the same thing again to
00:43:36everybody so like I think people are over it I think people are too yeah I'm not right now that's
00:43:43going to girls night we obviously still have the hangover of last night between myself and Beck I
00:43:50think what I really need to see from Beck tonight is like empathy like help me understand that you
00:43:55understand standing up for myself for some reason is hard oh this is cute I'm excited for girls night I
00:44:07think it's going to be a fun night and I think everyone seems to be in a pretty good place
00:44:11so I
00:44:12don't know if there's going to be any argy-bargy I feel like Rachel has put a bit of a
00:44:18cloud over the
00:44:18day like I'm perplexed as to how it has affected her so much it's very weird to me
00:44:49and so what's the girls how's everyone else's relationships going good um I know the double
00:44:55J's which I love JJ I love a J um honestly like I'm so shocked at the turnaround about our
00:45:03emotional connection I've only shared a bed with Joel once since starting the experiment so last
00:45:09night was the second time nice yeah so look vibe check with Juliet vibe is good Juliet and I had
00:45:18some
00:45:18romance last night we shared some kisses yeah I was excited when I saw when I saw him in his
00:45:22get up
00:45:23tonight and the clean shave and I was like hotty potty cheers for that cheers cheers let's celebrate
00:45:34Stella and Phillip where we are with Phillip um it was obvious obviously how we are like we obsessed with
00:45:40each other we're so affectionate we do plan our future together when we started to have those chats
00:45:45it kind of all got very very serious and um falling in love I as I realized when it's a
00:45:52right person
00:45:53and when I think you're ready it's not that hard what comes after that's becoming hard
00:46:00uh oh god I feel like I'm gonna cry
00:46:05because the way I look at him I do want him to be my forever partner and I do really
00:46:10want to work on
00:46:11those things to that level yeah but it's so much more deeper and that's what I'm dealing right now
00:46:17fear of rejection not rejection abandonment right so I'm dealing with that right now so
00:46:23my parents had me extremely young my dad then left to live in UK um my my role models and
00:46:33people who
00:46:34raised me is my grandmother and my auntie growing up in Lithuania shaped me to be quite
00:46:40independent even though that I know I'm craving connection like I know I'm craving connection
00:46:47that's mmm that's me getting teary
00:46:57you just realize that it's a self-protection preservation um initially I wanted to kind of
00:47:04distance myself um and I was like why do I want to distance myself from this human he's such a
00:47:10beautiful human
00:47:14why do you think this is coming up here is it because things are getting serious with you and
00:47:20Phil that is the only reason why it's coming up because it is getting serious and that is a coping
00:47:26mechanism for me to um maybe staying in a protective mode of not getting hurt if you know people decide
00:47:33to leave um yeah that's I guess my trauma response so yeah it's a lot more to then just oh
00:47:43yeah I'm in love
00:48:02so Stephen and I are really good as I shared with you all last night um the intimacy with Stephen
00:48:09and I has
00:48:09increased which is really really exciting and even though you know last night ended the way that it
00:48:14did it's actually brought Stephen and I a lot closer even though that tends to happen that tends to happen
00:48:20he really had me and like he like he could see how upset I was and just being able to
00:48:25come and
00:48:25support me and even though I was like breaking down like he just he had me and I've just I
00:48:32really
00:48:32appreciated that in a partner and like you know going to bed and like getting really worked up he's
00:48:37like sweetie like he's like he's like holding my hand he's just like right I just need you to breathe
00:48:43just breathe for me in that moment I feel like coming here has really helped me value those small
00:48:51moments with Stephen she's she's been hysterical been the same way all day today and it's like what
00:48:59are you on about everything's really really good so I'm I'm very happy Stephen makes me really really
00:49:10happy we're so mixed and like and still the lining that last night has brought you guys closer together
00:49:15that's really lovely that's definitely the silver lining of it um while last night should not have
00:49:20happened at all um it is the silver lining and I do appreciate that I have an amazing husband who
00:49:26was able to support me give it a rest relax man get a personality she's hard work Rachel's hard work
00:49:36to be friends with being like aren't you happy I even mentioned you in my speech appreciate it thank
00:49:40you cheers guys appreciate it so much I'm gonna apologize she's gonna go and I'm gonna go no worries
00:49:50hug her out and be done like I'm honestly like I'm over it yeah just I wish I cared more
00:49:56to be honest
00:50:01with you girls night and boys night is well underway and the dramatic end to last night's welcome
00:50:08drinks is on everyone's mind Stephen how did you feel about Bec's comment yesterday what it yeah so
00:50:18with Bec's comment last night as everyone saw it really upset Rachel yeah like severely and what made
00:50:26the uh situation sort of worse was not just the comment it's just I think the reaction off deck
00:50:32really upset Rachel so do you think she's blown it a bit out of proportion not to put words in
00:50:39your
00:50:39mouth I'm just genuinely asking personally personally I didn't think she'd be that upset to be honest
00:50:45like I understand I understand the walking out because it's in the heat of the moment I really want
00:50:50to get an answer do you think she'd blow out of proportion or not yes or no I don't think
00:50:54she did
00:50:54because this means so much to Rachel and speaking to the group and getting the feedback from the girls
00:51:02you guys this progress means a lot to Rachel I did need to stress to the boys that Rachel was
00:51:12really
00:51:12upset by this and this was special for her doesn't matter what you think about it she's upset by it
00:51:17you got to take that on board it's not about you're the spectator this was aimed at her so they
00:51:23need to
00:51:23understand that as well Stevo did did you find it funny be honest be honest look I know that Beck
00:51:34didn't have ill intention she wasn't attacking the relationship I believe it was just a case of really
00:51:40poor judgment poor choice of words probably looking for a little bit of a laugh you didn't answer the
00:51:46question did you personally find it funny or how did you find it I didn't look I didn't find me
00:51:54man I
00:51:55don't find it I don't find it funny like it's just it's just a you know poor comment I just
00:52:01wanted to
00:52:01get your opinion on it because that's sort of the common theme with Rachel that she blows things out of
00:52:13proportion so Rachel wanted to obviously address like I think we should start off with you to tell
00:52:18me how you feel like towards me about it talk to me Becky humiliated me in front of the group
00:52:24last night
00:52:24yeah okay I felt like whether it was malicious or not yep you built it up and you made the
00:52:31intimacy
00:52:32progress between Stephen and I a punchline and a joke right and then I sat there and I was like
00:52:39you've just made a joke of it babes like I didn't appreciate that and you instantly turned I've just
00:52:45kind of said to you like yeah this hurt my feelings and I got the I'm sorry I've got to
00:52:52be honest I feel
00:52:52like you're just saying sorry because I brush it off I left because I was humiliated right okay and
00:52:59my relationship is not a joke no and that's why I was so upset because I was like that's my
00:53:07friend
00:53:07up there and that's why I left because I was humiliated I think the thing for me Rach is that
00:53:15I thought that you would know like it was not meant to be um mean towards you it was actually
00:53:22just a
00:53:23throwaway comment and it was the wrong wording and I apologize to you for the wrong wording that
00:53:28it was used I did not think that it would be as big of a deal as it was I
00:53:33never would have said it
00:53:35it's happened to me I understand I never would have said it it's a bound to situation and I do
00:53:42apologize but you can it was disgusting and it wasn't it was it was it was a joke you know
00:53:48that
00:53:48I support you and Steven do I you think it's intended with malice and it wasn't I never I
00:53:56have said repeatedly it was joke was not intended with malice never when I told you you hurt my
00:54:01feelings you turned on me instantly every two seconds you're angry at me the majority of our
00:54:18Rachel thank God us girls are there to listen to her and make her feel validated for her feelings
00:54:23which are very normal I think Beck needs to face the music you can't do the things you're doing and
00:54:29not take accountability for your actions you can't throw shit that you're throwing and not take the
00:54:34full force of consequences I just don't think that's fair let's call bullshit because if you support the
00:54:41relationship why are you going around at the pool with Julia and I saying you want to get merch it
00:54:50was a joke that was bad that part you can't be sorry but then carry it on the next day
00:54:59and like
00:54:59keep going it's one thing to do the wrong thing last night and apologize but Beck took it in a
00:55:05whole
00:55:05another level by talking about it all day and she tried to cover her ass saying oh well you know
00:55:10I
00:55:11take accountability I'm sorry for what I said last night okay but be sorry for what you said
00:55:15continuously throughout the day you're not sorry why did today you kept making jokes about the match
00:55:20because it was a joke I I didn't understand that that was the level of her feelings I thought she
00:55:25was upset about one word but you knew that you said this morning Rachel's upset and she needs to get
00:55:29the over it I'm making finger banging merch and you're gonna work bitch it was a joke but be
00:55:41you know that you were so upset right guys that's enough I'm hurt I'm the one you're talking about
00:55:50and it's disgusting stop talking about it I just you humiliated me back yeah and I know you're
00:56:01apologizing and I honestly like I said to you and you don't have to be my friend let her talk
00:56:06we don't
00:56:06need to have you don't need to worry about it because you would only worry about if it was your
00:56:10friend it's fine like I get it but this has got to stop we can't keep having these apologies back
00:56:16around this kind of stuff because I apologize to Alyssa and I apologize yeah but aren't you sick of
00:56:21apologizing babe Alyssa I need to apologize to you because my delivery of what I said to you was
00:56:30unacceptable the way I spoke to you last night I need to take accountability for how cruel I was
00:56:37obviously like I came in really angry last week yeah I was angry and I came in here and I
00:56:45dropped
00:56:45bombs on everyone and I do apologize I'm genuinely sorry that that your name has been brought up because
00:56:51at the end of the day it we shouldn't be talking about your relationship anyway Bec this is two weeks
00:56:57in a row why are you talking about their relationship do you know what you're right
00:57:02I know I'm right but what I don't know is why you're doing that thank you for apologizing but
00:57:09again my concerns is in sure the repeat behavior Bec's always saying sorry I didn't mean it Rachel's
00:57:17trying to address the reoccurring behavior when is she gonna wake up and just think before she speaks
00:57:25I honestly feel like honestly last night I was like my number was up it was my turn she'll put
00:57:31to
00:57:31tears by Beck and I'm kind of like when does this behavior change when do the I'm sorry's actually
00:57:37become real I'm out of here I am sure you should have to go it's fine good come back can
00:57:50you come back
00:57:56you can't go around and consistently talk shit about everybody that your friends with and they
00:58:01get mad that they have a reaction to what you're doing it's not okay and I think again tonight is
00:58:06another example of Bec's a new target getting pissed off and her not handling it and walking
00:58:12off like a PR move this is what she does there's nothing more to say get me out of here
00:58:19now don't
00:58:20leave Bubba get me out of here don't leave no boring Danny hey how are you and Beck on like
00:58:44honestly it's just gone from strength to strength it's proved you can build sexual chemistry you can
00:58:49work through really hard problems you can talk for hours and solve solve complex issues you have
00:58:54to hear it's taught me so much that like me and Becca at this moment in time we're in a
00:58:59really good
00:59:00place and Daniel this year you couldn't make it up I'm sitting by the fight's been peaceful all
00:59:14night next thing a silhouette of Beck comes out of the horizon and then next thing amber stuff flowing
00:59:21into my face the smokes in my eyes bellowing in my eyes we all said back into the fire three
00:59:28times
00:59:32what happened Beck how's the girls I need to grab him for a second please oh god clearly there's been
00:59:39some drama a girl's line if Beck is rolling up dragging me out of there how are we not good
00:59:50you have no idea what I'm just going through what just happened what just happened we just about to
00:59:56hug it out we just lost a man okay so I'm just gonna fill you in quickly because I've left
01:00:02girls
01:00:02night obviously because it was just like a gang up completely um basically I'm just letting you know
01:00:11Rachel got up and she goes last night was the most humiliating night of my life I have been made
01:00:18to
01:00:18be my relationship is a joke and I've never felt so upset and humiliated in my life she's just sitting
01:00:28there like hysterical being like it's you you need to change your actions I was just like alright like
01:00:39whatever he was like the worst thing that's ever happened to anyone Rachel is still upset grow up it
01:00:47was a passing comment grow up move past it and Gia was like a dragon breathing fire and look at
01:00:57me
01:00:59and Juliet came at me but like it was no point tonight babe like they were just it was just
01:01:04all
01:01:05like me at me and that's fine like I can handle it like I'm not upset about it but I
01:01:11just wanted to
01:01:12tell you what happened and yeah I feel a bit frustrated to be honest to her finding out what's
01:01:18going on at girls like because it seems like a gang up and ganging up on someone I don't think
01:01:25that's right to be honest I'm pissed off at Steve oh he's like he's a f***ing officer I've helped her
01:01:31Blake he's a cherry case you don't you don't need to you don't need to have an argument let me
01:01:36have
01:01:37it no one attacks my wife and gets away with it not without me being there if you're gonna attack
01:01:41her
01:01:41we have the big boss there what's all that about who yeah it's like someone kicking your little
01:01:47brother he kicks me for that shit pisses me off like oh she's foul man let's do a chat let's
01:02:01do two
01:02:01on two and let's have it like men hey fellas looks like there's a storm do you want to do
01:02:09it let's go
01:02:20can we have a chat with you me and Ben sorry guys can you all go because we're going to
01:02:25have
01:02:25a chat is okay where's what is is Rachel can we get Rachel but let me just explain to you
01:02:37I think we
01:02:37get Rachel before you explain okay I think we do mine go get Rachel let's go get Rachel okay
01:02:48I'm really happy with girls night yeah yeah it turned around I just really hate that Beck's not
01:02:54here for this yeah because I think I think no no no no regardless of what happened at the start
01:02:59of the
01:02:59night it's it's a shame that she missed this bit and it's really sad that one of us is not
01:03:03but she
01:03:03chose to leave no I get that but regardless it would be nice if she was sitting here having
01:03:08these moments with and she can another day when things are feel better hey right hello we've got
01:03:15Steven up at the house I think the four of us need to have a chat oh okay well let's
01:03:22go I guess guys
01:03:23I'm leaving girls night earlier that's not my choice fantastic you don't have to go right you
01:03:29don't want you guys have pulled me out I'm coming well I don't think that this is actually really fair
01:03:34like anyway hold on a minute sweetheart we're coming to get you out of respect because we don't want to
01:03:42talk without you being there we want to speak all four of us we don't want to speak free of
01:03:46us so cut
01:03:47out the comments there's no need for the bullshit comments just leave the room like a lady that's
01:03:53fine thank you all have a lovely evening yeah it's a resolution hey no well I just anyway where's your
01:04:01head at babe just come leave the room be respectful love you all don't know why you've got to make
01:04:10comments
01:04:21like that the four of us need to have a chat oh okay well let's go I guess guys I'm
01:04:29leaving girls
01:04:29night early that's not my choice fantastic you don't have to go right you know it's fine you guys have
01:04:35pulled me out I'm coming well I don't think that this is actually really fair like
01:04:40anyway I'm good I'll just no that's fine thank you all have a lovely evening yeah it's a resolution
01:04:46no well I just anyway love you all
01:04:52I don't know why you've got to make comments like that
01:05:00uh
01:05:28Firstly, I want to say,
01:05:31Rachel, the comments you just said in there wasn't called for.
01:05:34We brought you here out of respect
01:05:36because we wanted to have a four-way conversation.
01:05:38So comments like that, I'm being dragged away and all that.
01:05:41No, no, no, no.
01:05:41Because of us?
01:05:42It's respect.
01:05:43Can I step in? Can I step in?
01:05:45Rachel, all I'm saying is,
01:05:47we came in there polite and said,
01:05:49can we have a conversation?
01:05:50You didn't have to make a big melee out of it
01:05:52when you're leaving the group.
01:05:53We pulled you out there for respect
01:05:55because we didn't want to have this conversation with us.
01:05:58So I don't really appreciate that.
01:06:02I pulled Danny aside tonight and I can hold my own, right?
01:06:05I understand that I made a comment
01:06:07that was a throwaway comment that as we've all agreed,
01:06:11Daniel, you and Rachel and I all agree
01:06:15that the term that I used was...
01:06:20..not used with malice but the poor choice of words,
01:06:25but it wasn't done in malice.
01:06:28And you know that, you know that, Rachel knows that, right?
01:06:31No worries.
01:06:34I think what hurt me tonight the most
01:06:37was that you've let everyone attack me,
01:06:40but when it's OK for you because you're being backed up...
01:06:44No, honey.
01:06:44..everyone's allowed to do that to me, that's not OK.
01:06:47You have to practise what you preach, honey.
01:06:50It just felt aggressive.
01:06:52Everything's on their terms.
01:06:54It's got to happen on their time,
01:06:56even though the actions of Beck
01:07:00are what have, you know, caused me to feel this way.
01:07:03I'll be honest, and this is my opinion,
01:07:05I think you've made a mountain out of a molehill
01:07:08because you kicked off in front of everyone.
01:07:10You went and baked in front of the whole group.
01:07:11I didn't. A kick-off's a bit of a stretch.
01:07:12In front of the whole...
01:07:13Did you or did you not say in front of the whole group?
01:07:15It's on camera.
01:07:16I didn't kick off, though.
01:07:17You shouted.
01:07:17You went to the whole group.
01:07:19I didn't kick off.
01:07:20I was like, OK, saying I kicked off is a bit...
01:07:22I was upset, and I said,
01:07:23hey, you've just made a joke of my relationship.
01:07:25Yeah, but you just said you didn't...
01:07:26What was your words to what you just said?
01:07:27I was like, you've just made a joke of my relationship.
01:07:30You're just like...
01:07:30She said she didn't make a big deal.
01:07:31Yeah.
01:07:32But you did.
01:07:32Yeah, look, this means a lot to Rachel.
01:07:36It means a lot to me for you guys.
01:07:38It means so much.
01:07:40That's why she brought it up.
01:07:41That's why she sold everyone.
01:07:43That's why she, at the very beginning of the party,
01:07:45she brought this up.
01:07:47Then it turned into attacking.
01:07:49Then Rachel removed herself,
01:07:50so she wouldn't make a big deal out of it.
01:07:53She removed herself from the situation.
01:07:56Yeah.
01:07:56She was incredibly hurt.
01:07:58You guys can say and do whatever you want.
01:08:01I can have a bunch of girls come at me,
01:08:03and I can sit there.
01:08:05I'm sorry.
01:08:05At the end of the day,
01:08:07I'm getting so many different stories
01:08:09to the point where I'm told I'm a joke
01:08:12because of the things that you've said.
01:08:14Who said that?
01:08:15Gia.
01:08:16Well, there you go.
01:08:18Gia and Juliet are lying to you.
01:08:19It's a lie.
01:08:20You're saying one thing to me
01:08:22and said another thing to them.
01:08:24I never would have done that.
01:08:26So you've got liars, bullshit in you,
01:08:28and you're going to take it and then attack it.
01:08:30I didn't take any of that and lie.
01:08:31Come on, you know she's a f***ing liar.
01:08:36Steve-O,
01:08:37do you think that what I said
01:08:39was said with malice
01:08:40because I'm confused?
01:08:42Let's see the answer.
01:08:43I'll answer the question.
01:08:44I said this to Rachel last night.
01:08:46I don't...
01:08:47I believe the comment was
01:08:49disrespectful,
01:08:51bad taste,
01:08:52just a poor choice of words,
01:08:54and all of the above.
01:08:55I don't believe there was any malice behind it.
01:08:58I don't believe there was malicious content behind it.
01:09:00I said that to Rachel last night,
01:09:02but it doesn't excuse the fact
01:09:04that it was still disrespectful
01:09:05and it was still a poor choice of words
01:09:08and all that.
01:09:08Everything there still stands.
01:09:10100%, and I agree with you.
01:09:11I spoke to him this afternoon.
01:09:12I sat down with him in our lounge room
01:09:14and spoke to him and he said,
01:09:15do you know what, Bec?
01:09:16I really love you
01:09:17and I really love Rachel.
01:09:18Why are you talking to my husband off camera?
01:09:23Did I know that you two
01:09:24had a conversation this afternoon?
01:09:26No.
01:09:27Because you didn't tell me.
01:09:29Did you speak to Bec this afternoon?
01:09:34Did you guys speak this afternoon
01:09:36and patch all this up?
01:09:37We didn't patch it up.
01:09:40I just said to her
01:09:41what I thought her comment was
01:09:42was disrespectful and everything.
01:09:44Exactly everything I said just then,
01:09:45I repeated.
01:09:46The conversation lasted 60 seconds.
01:09:48It doesn't matter.
01:09:50I'm actually feeling a little bit
01:09:52betrayed a bit here, babe.
01:09:53No.
01:09:53I've got to be ready.
01:09:54I'm going to stop this conversation right now.
01:09:56I do feel let down by Stephen tonight.
01:09:59I feel really let down.
01:10:00Just like you needed to leave girls' night,
01:10:03I now need to leave this.
01:10:05I feel quite hurt and disappointed.
01:10:08You know, we keep talking how we're united.
01:10:10We've got each other's back.
01:10:12You didn't have my back, babe.
01:10:15You didn't.
01:10:17And so now I'm kind of like,
01:10:20what else are you saying about me behind my back?
01:10:32Tomorrow night.
01:10:34No one's spoken to me at all today.
01:10:36Bec and Danny isolated from the group.
01:10:38A comment has been taken out of proportion so much.
01:10:44Whatever Bec goes, misery follows.
01:10:47And Gia and Juliet seize the opportunity to further stir up the tension.
01:10:52I do not know why she does this.
01:10:54I don't think I could ever, ever, ever trust her again.
01:10:57I respect the victim.
01:10:59Can a romantic beach date help calm Stella's anxiety?
01:11:04Has I love you been sad?
01:11:05I really would appreciate if everyone just dropped it.
01:11:08Do you think that I did this to hurt you?
01:11:11And then at the final night drinks...
01:11:14You're not understanding.
01:11:15That's it.
01:11:15Mic drop.
01:11:16See you later.
01:11:17Tell me you don't accept my apology.
01:11:19Or accept it and move on.
01:11:21Lingering group tension...
01:11:23You two have both done wrong by me and my wife.
01:11:24How?
01:11:25...sends the retreat into turmoil.
01:11:28Let's go.
01:11:29Bring it on.
01:11:29I'm so sick of this.
01:11:30You're the puppeteer.
01:11:32I'm not puppeteer.
01:11:33I'm done being manipulated.
01:11:35No one knows who you are.
01:11:35Stop manipulating me.
01:11:42You're the puppeteer.
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