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Married at First Sight Australia - Season 13 - Episode 13
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00:00:0418 singles from across the country
00:00:07Will you marry me?
00:00:08Took the ultimate leap of faith
00:00:10Let's go!
00:00:11This is the one I've been looking for
00:00:13This is a true love story right now
00:00:16I don't want to be with anyone that gets arrested
00:00:18Where's my husband?
00:00:20Sorry I'm late everyone
00:00:21He was chewing gum sort of with his mouth open
00:00:25Alessandra's intimacy week
00:00:27Definitely has brought me closer to Luke
00:00:29Helped some couples progress their relationships
00:00:32How was it?
00:00:33It was good
00:00:35Intimacy comes in many shapes and forms
00:00:38But things stalled for Rebecca
00:00:40He doesn't want to try it
00:00:41It's just all lip service
00:00:43Before Alessandra helped Steve to account
00:00:46I don't have an earpiece in my ear
00:00:47I'm not waiting for someone to tell me what to say
00:00:49Really tread lightly
00:00:50I don't take to this well
00:00:53And in a dramatic turn of events
00:00:55Brooke made a sudden exit
00:01:00Only to make a surprise return to the dinner party
00:01:03Just 24 hours later
00:01:05I think you're a very rude bitch
00:01:08Brooke went on the attack
00:01:10This is an ass
00:01:11Shut up Alissa
00:01:12Loser!
00:01:15Oh!
00:01:16Leaving her husband isolated and confused
00:01:19Brooke is not back for me
00:01:22And then
00:01:23He says I'm strong
00:01:25A shock allegation about Danny preferring Gia
00:01:29There was nothing of that I ever said
00:01:30Why would I make that up?
00:01:32Caused Beck to spiral
00:01:33You made a fool of my relationship
00:01:35Unsure whether to believe her husband or not
00:01:39You should trust me first
00:01:40I'll take offence to that
00:01:43Tonight
00:01:44Are you falling in love?
00:01:46I think
00:01:46Yeah
00:01:47Love is in the air
00:01:49It's been really good
00:01:51That's when the kissing started
00:01:52Made her blush
00:01:53So
00:01:53Some will celebrate incredible breakthroughs
00:01:57This morning
00:01:57I kissed him
00:01:59As Mel and Luke's transformation continues
00:02:02We're doing so good
00:02:04I don't even know who you are
00:02:06The experts unpack the question on everyone's lips
00:02:10Did you say that Danny?
00:02:12It threw me that she'd even believe a comment like that
00:02:15Absolutely not
00:02:16You're not going to gaslight a woman right now
00:02:18You know what you said
00:02:19You have zero credibility
00:02:21She wouldn't make that up dude
00:02:23And
00:02:24Obviously
00:02:24Yeah
00:02:25Got carried away
00:02:26The experts call out Brooke's bad behaviour
00:02:30In all my years working on Married at First Sight
00:02:34I have never experienced a woman
00:02:37Be so vicious toward other women
00:03:02It's the morning of the second
00:03:04Commitment ceremony of the experiment
00:03:07And our couples are feeling the shockwaves
00:03:10Of last night's intense dinner party
00:03:14Glad we dressed up for that
00:03:16I could have gone in my jammies
00:03:18Might as well have
00:03:19At least I would have been comfortable
00:03:21That was a wild night
00:03:23I would describe that as unhinged
00:03:26A lot of insults thrown from Beck, Gia, Brooke
00:03:31Towards, you know, Stella
00:03:33Towards Alyssa
00:03:35And it was hard to listen to
00:03:37It did bother me
00:03:38I didn't like it
00:03:38But I've definitely felt bad for Alyssa
00:03:41Because like
00:03:41I just see this girl
00:03:42That's just getting slammed
00:03:43And it's pretty intimidating
00:03:44I'd imagine
00:03:47I care about what people think
00:03:50I care about people's feelings
00:03:52You know
00:03:53I don't want to have this conflict
00:03:57You know
00:04:03Man, if I could sum up last night's dinner party
00:04:06I feel like it was a pack of wolves
00:04:09Let loose on a village
00:04:11All they wanted to do
00:04:13Was come in and tear everything apart
00:04:17Alyssa is really rocked
00:04:18By the dinner party
00:04:21And I just want to support her right now
00:04:23Like it feels crap
00:04:26You know
00:04:26This is damage control right now
00:04:31I feel like
00:04:32You know
00:04:32I just need to be the hands
00:04:34Around her
00:04:35And just to comfort her
00:04:35Because it's been a rough night
00:04:40Oh, God
00:04:43Brooke is bullying
00:04:45I'm not going to the war zone again
00:04:47Last night was enough
00:04:48I put on a front
00:04:49And I handled it
00:04:52But I'm not doing it again
00:04:56It's mean
00:04:58And if you can't find anything nice to say
00:05:00About someone
00:05:00Just say nothing
00:05:02You don't even know me
00:05:03You don't know David
00:05:05I don't have to sell you
00:05:07This relationship
00:05:09I don't have to sell it to you
00:05:12Because this is my love story
00:05:16And it's me
00:05:21Alyssa wasn't the only one
00:05:22At the receiving end
00:05:24Of Brooke's unsolicited attacks
00:05:26Cheers
00:05:27Cheers
00:05:28Good morning
00:05:28Good morning
00:05:30Oh, what a night
00:05:34Literally
00:05:35In a way
00:05:36You're just bringing to her top of mind
00:05:39She's like
00:05:39Oh, hang on
00:05:40I didn't get what I want in this experiment
00:05:41And it pisses her off
00:05:42I don't know
00:05:43Like it would be only her
00:05:45That knows the reasons
00:05:46Why
00:05:48Um
00:05:50I don't know
00:05:51What was their beef with you?
00:05:53Why did they turn on you?
00:05:54What's your crime here?
00:05:56Um
00:05:59The funniest thing
00:06:00That there was no crime
00:06:01There was actually no crime
00:06:03They just needed to create a drama
00:06:05In
00:06:06Out of thin air
00:06:07And
00:06:07They did it
00:06:11I did have my heart rate up
00:06:12Absolutely
00:06:14I'm not psychopath
00:06:16You know
00:06:16But
00:06:18I do not give power to people
00:06:20To antagonise me
00:06:21In any way, shape or form
00:06:22If I lower myself to your standard
00:06:25I lost
00:06:27Obviously there's something
00:06:28For her to deal with
00:06:29Her
00:06:29With herself
00:06:30Internally
00:06:32She's got work
00:06:32She's got work to do
00:06:34Work to do
00:06:34This is just childish behaviour
00:06:36It's not even worth the air
00:06:38It's not even worth
00:06:40The effort
00:06:41That's
00:06:42That's
00:06:43No good
00:06:44That's not good
00:06:45It's not good
00:06:46It's not
00:06:53It's not good
00:06:53Despite Chris's best efforts
00:06:55During intimacy week
00:06:56Brooke left the experiment
00:06:58But made a surprise appearance
00:07:01At last night's dinner party
00:07:03With some unfinished business
00:07:05To attend to
00:07:06The runaway bride returns
00:07:07The runaway returns
00:07:11The funniest thing is
00:07:12I didn't have a plan
00:07:13Going into the dinner party
00:07:14Last night
00:07:15I was like
00:07:15I'm just going to surprise everyone
00:07:17And see how the night takes me
00:07:18There was some crazy emotions
00:07:21Yesterday
00:07:22I mean I was going with a bang
00:07:24And I definitely did that
00:07:25You did the whole night
00:07:26Well you can hear it in the hallways
00:07:28Everyone's like
00:07:30Crying and shit
00:07:31Oh really
00:07:32Yeah
00:07:32Being called a bully
00:07:34I then react to that
00:07:36Which I need to not react to that
00:07:38But I can't help it
00:07:40I don't regret having a voice
00:07:42And speaking my opinion
00:07:45But at the end of the day
00:07:47Obviously I'm glad
00:07:48That's over and done with
00:07:49Ship sale
00:07:49I'm dropping that now
00:07:51How are you feeling about Chris?
00:07:54I don't even know
00:07:55I just don't feel it
00:07:57I don't know if Chris is ready
00:07:59To let this go
00:08:01But it doesn't change anything for me
00:08:03I still feel how I feel
00:08:05And I'm not ready for this
00:08:06And he's not either
00:08:07But I still went in here
00:08:09With 100% effort
00:08:10And it's not like I didn't
00:08:14As Brooke looks back on last night
00:08:18An even bigger accusation
00:08:20Came to light
00:08:20That rocked the experiment
00:08:23I reached out to Brooke this morning
00:08:25After the dinner party last night
00:08:27Just to see where she's at
00:08:30And I said
00:08:31How are you going?
00:08:32And she said
00:08:33Not good
00:08:34You've ruined my relationship
00:08:35I'm devastated
00:08:37Leave me alone
00:08:45Did it happen or not?
00:08:52Shut up
00:08:54Be honest
00:08:55Be honest Danny
00:08:55Watch your mouth girl
00:08:58I'm being honest
00:08:59Don't lie about me
00:09:00But you said that
00:09:01But you said that
00:09:03In the outside world
00:09:04You would be my type
00:09:05That is what Danny said
00:09:09Brooke obviously was on
00:09:10One last night
00:09:13Brooke said it
00:09:14Told her not to
00:09:14Brooke said what she said
00:09:17And now
00:09:18For some reason
00:09:19This is all my fault
00:09:20That they're not
00:09:20They're not good
00:09:21Can you make that make sense?
00:09:23For your man saying
00:09:24Something Saturday night drunk
00:09:25In front of me and a girl
00:09:26And the girl brings it up
00:09:27So why is this my fault?
00:09:29I just think it's
00:09:30Bec's insecurities coming out
00:09:31Because she's trying to
00:09:32Protect her own relationship
00:09:34She's acting as if
00:09:35I lured Danny in
00:09:37And said
00:09:37Do you want to sleep
00:09:37With me in the bathroom?
00:09:39I have no interest in Danny
00:09:42He's disgusting
00:09:43Yuck
00:09:44Their relationship's a bit fake
00:09:46And full of it
00:09:48So she'll put it on
00:09:49Other people's relationships
00:09:50Why don't you look at
00:09:51Your own relationship?
00:09:53Bec's going to bring it up
00:09:54Tonight
00:09:54And she's going to
00:09:56Use me as a way to
00:09:58I guess bring them
00:09:59Back together
00:10:00In a way so that
00:10:01She can blame someone else
00:10:02Other than her
00:10:03And Danny
00:10:03Because you're scared
00:10:05To really face the fact that
00:10:06Maybe he isn't into you
00:10:08I hope at the
00:10:09Commitment ceremony
00:10:10They're open
00:10:10And they actually tell us
00:10:12What's going on
00:10:13Danny's a liar
00:10:14And that's all there is to it
00:10:16He's going around
00:10:18Doing everything
00:10:19But being accountable
00:10:20And I'm sick of it
00:10:21And she's a fool
00:10:23A total fool
00:10:26Danny was frustrated
00:10:27With Bec
00:10:28For believing
00:10:29Gia last night
00:10:30And slept in
00:10:31A separate apartment
00:10:32Um Bec
00:10:33What's happening this morning?
00:10:43Gia and Brooke
00:10:43Have definitely set out
00:10:44To rock my relationship
00:10:45And they are succeeding
00:10:47I've not felt this low
00:10:50For years
00:10:54Gia and Brooke
00:10:54Have made this up
00:10:55It's not true
00:10:57I know it's not true
00:10:58I knew it wasn't true
00:10:59Last night
00:11:02He would never have
00:11:03Said that to her
00:11:07Ever
00:11:08Ever
00:11:09Don't accuse me
00:11:10Of doing things like that
00:11:11But there's no
00:11:12Truth in that whatsoever
00:11:13I need to ride or die
00:11:14You should trust me first
00:11:15I knew that you were
00:11:16Going to do this
00:11:17I'm done
00:11:29What's going on?
00:11:31How are you?
00:11:34Not the best
00:11:35How are you?
00:11:36Alright
00:11:36I'm always good
00:11:39How was your night?
00:11:41Shocking
00:11:41How was yours?
00:11:44You want me to start?
00:11:46Yeah
00:11:46Okay
00:11:48Last night
00:11:51When Gia whispered to me
00:11:53At the dinner party
00:11:54At the dinner party
00:11:55That you had supposedly
00:11:57Told her on Saturday night
00:12:00That on the outside world
00:12:03She would be
00:12:03You would want to be with her
00:12:34I didn't believe it for a second
00:12:35God
00:12:36Is this
00:12:36Is this a thing
00:12:38And then I brought myself
00:12:39Back down to earth
00:12:40And thought
00:12:40No it's not
00:12:41You
00:12:42I'm obviously not the man
00:12:43You think I am
00:12:44For you to believe that
00:12:45Oh Daniel
00:12:46Stop it
00:12:47That's what I believe
00:12:48And I have to say the truth
00:12:49Bec
00:12:49This hurts me as well
00:12:50Do you not think I'm hurting?
00:12:52It was like a dagger
00:12:53Through the heart
00:12:54For you to believe her
00:12:55For one millisecond
00:12:56Over your husband
00:12:57I know
00:12:57You threw
00:12:58You threw
00:12:59Our trust away
00:13:02For her to believe
00:13:03A blatant lie
00:13:04Over her husband
00:13:06It just hurt
00:13:07And I just need a space
00:13:08Simple as that
00:13:10Like what I said
00:13:11At the end of the aisle
00:13:12When I married you
00:13:13Was like
00:13:14The number one thing
00:13:15I want in a relationship
00:13:17And with a wife
00:13:18Are two things
00:13:18Trust and ride or die
00:13:21Like
00:13:21Because
00:13:22I am ride or die
00:13:24Ride or die
00:13:25Is not believing a lie
00:13:26About me for one second
00:13:27That's ride or die
00:13:30I view women
00:13:31How I view my mum
00:13:32My mum would never
00:13:33Ever betray my dad
00:13:34Not in a month of Sundays
00:13:35Not if a thousand people
00:13:36Were saying bad things about him
00:13:37She'd never believe it
00:13:38For one second
00:13:39And that's how I
00:13:40I view women off my mum
00:13:42Because that's what
00:13:43I grew up watching
00:13:44That's what I'm looking for
00:13:45In a woman
00:13:45A ride or die
00:13:46Like my mum
00:13:47So what does this mean for us?
00:13:49I don't
00:13:49But I honestly
00:13:50Like to be honest
00:13:51My head's scrambled
00:13:52Like
00:13:53With all due respect
00:13:54Like you did betray me
00:13:55In that moment
00:13:56Like
00:13:58What do you want me to do
00:13:58Is sit here in line
00:13:59Say everything's fine
00:14:00Bec
00:14:01Everything's fine
00:14:01I don't care
00:14:02I'm done
00:14:04What I need from Bec now
00:14:05Is to prove to me
00:14:06That she is ride or die
00:14:07And I don't know
00:14:08How she's going to do that
00:14:09She's just got to
00:14:09Come up with something
00:14:12I can't go
00:14:17I just don't know how
00:14:22A comment
00:14:24Which is a lie
00:14:27That I believe for a minute
00:14:30And then rectified
00:14:34Could take us from being
00:14:35Where we were
00:14:37To where we are now
00:14:46I feel like we've worked so hard
00:14:48To get to where we are
00:14:51And now I just feel like it's ruined
00:15:07Our couples are getting ready
00:15:09For tonight's commitment ceremony
00:15:12The stakes have never been higher
00:15:15We are lions
00:15:17And you know
00:15:18Lions don't worry about
00:15:19What mice have to say
00:15:21Can I say a smile on that doll?
00:15:23I don't feel like smiling today
00:15:26It's a sad day
00:15:29What's the aftermath of
00:15:30What you guys have chosen to do?
00:15:32Like they made a choice last night
00:15:34And so are they happy
00:15:36With how things have gone?
00:15:45Will they stay
00:15:47Or leave the experiment?
00:15:55But for one couple
00:15:56There has been a complete 180 overnight
00:15:59We went through some challenges
00:16:01In intimacy week
00:16:02It's a bit rough around the edges
00:16:04That's fair
00:16:05But there were some really beautiful moments
00:16:07As well
00:16:08Grayson and I
00:16:09Really did tie up
00:16:11Our intimacy week
00:16:12In quite a beautiful way
00:16:13We have shared our first kiss
00:16:15Which was really beautiful
00:16:17Yeah it kind of naturally happened
00:16:18I just sort of
00:16:20Lent in
00:16:21And here we are
00:16:24I'll see you there
00:16:25Hopefully there's not as many fireworks tonight
00:16:27He is hoping
00:16:30Should we
00:16:31Get this show on the road
00:16:32Say goodbye to you
00:16:33See you there
00:16:34Bye
00:16:36I'm going to get in there
00:16:38Look amazing
00:16:39You too
00:16:39You look like a good snack
00:16:56Greetings gents
00:16:57Hello
00:16:58How are you?
00:16:59Hello boys
00:16:59How are you doing?
00:17:01Good to see you all
00:17:02Watch yourег10 W software
00:17:10Good to see you all
00:17:12How are you doing?
00:17:19How are you doing?
00:17:23How are you doing?
00:17:24How are you doing?
00:17:27Being a technology
00:17:30Bye
00:17:31Hey
00:17:55Welcome everybody to the second commitment ceremony and if last night
00:18:02dinner party is anything to go by tonight we have a lot to get into. Now just a heads up
00:18:11our lovely
00:18:12expert Alessandra has indeed lost most of her voice and therefore tonight you may hear a limited
00:18:23amount from her and if she feels the need to jump in she certainly will try.
00:18:31First up on the couch, Alissa and David. Hello, hello. Hey you two.
00:18:45Last night was pretty heavy going for the two of you. Yeah, absolutely. What was it like for you?
00:18:56Oh, I'm just, uh, I'm pretty disgusted.
00:19:13Last night was pretty heavy going for the two of you. Yeah, absolutely.
00:19:27What was it like for you, Alissa?
00:19:35Oh, I'm just, uh, I'm pretty disgusted.
00:19:41Just the disrespect. The low grade comments. High school, mean girl, energy.
00:19:53It was yelling, screaming, storming off, banging on the table. It was toxic behaviour.
00:20:01Last night was really hurtful. Like really disgusting, disrespectful behaviour and I am just gutted.
00:20:13I just didn't want to be here today. I did not want to walk into this room but I would
00:20:17be letting
00:20:18my husband down if I didn't show up for him and if I didn't stand up for myself.
00:20:29What is it about your relationship that you think is getting under people's skin?
00:20:35I don't know and I don't know where the comments are coming from.
00:20:42I haven't said one nasty thing towards any of these people sitting in this room.
00:20:50If there was a reason to come at me, come at me but talk to me. Let's resolve this as
00:20:54adults.
00:20:55Like, we're not in the high school playground. Like, let's just talk.
00:21:02Yeah, it's really hurtful.
00:21:08Alissa, I need to apologise to you because my delivery of what I said to you was unacceptable.
00:21:14The way I spoke to you last night, I need to take accountability for how
00:21:19cruel I was to both of you.
00:21:27I'm sorry for the way that I spoke to you last night. It wasn't acceptable.
00:21:31It was mean and I can assure you it won't happen again.
00:21:36And I'm really genuinely sorry to you both that that's the way that I came at you.
00:21:44I mean it's, yeah, what's your response to that?
00:21:50I just am lost for words.
00:21:53I actually don't even want to sit at a table with half of the people in this room because I'm
00:21:57embarrassed.
00:21:59I'm embarrassed to sit at the table and share space with the disrespectful, the cattiness,
00:22:04the fire starting, the interrogation.
00:22:08That is just immature behaviour and I'm just not here for it and I'm not standing for it.
00:22:17The three of us observing you were so impressed.
00:22:22Watching the two of you work as a team,
00:22:25not buy into the comments, stand your ground as a couple.
00:22:31You turned toward each other, you supported each other and you were a real team.
00:22:40You showed real dignity and grace.
00:22:43It was so incredibly impressive.
00:22:48So credit to you both.
00:22:50At the end of the day, you can talk crap, throw all those stupid insults all you want.
00:22:56Doesn't mean anything, but if you're gonna come at my wife and, you know, talk about women that way,
00:23:03it says a lot about you.
00:23:04Interesting.
00:23:05You know, she's a sensitive person.
00:23:08She comes across as very bubbly, outspoken, but when you get to know her,
00:23:13she's really a sensitive soul, so I think she didn't deserve that.
00:23:20You know, I'll thank myself for sitting on this couch next to my husband and, you know,
00:23:25standing up for us and what we've felt along the way.
00:23:30So things seem to be going pretty well.
00:23:32Honestly, fantastic.
00:23:34I feel like last night made us even stronger.
00:23:37Closer together again.
00:23:38It just made us stronger.
00:23:39It's like nothing's gonna stop us.
00:23:40Just go away.
00:23:41Don't burst a bubble.
00:23:43Like, just leave us alone.
00:23:44Like, we're here because we are totally into each other and we are giving this 100%.
00:23:52I'm actually falling for this man.
00:23:55I'm falling hard for him.
00:23:59I feel the exact same way.
00:24:01We are definitely on that cups of falling in love and it's crazy, it's crazy to actually say that.
00:24:08And I have so much more to offer her and I'm just grateful that, you know, you guys matched us
00:24:13together.
00:24:13And, um, yeah, I'm definitely falling for her for sure.
00:24:21So with that said, we're gonna go to a decision.
00:24:25Let's start with you, David.
00:24:27Oh, okay, knew it was coming at me.
00:24:30Well, I mean, I've already said a little bit of what I want to say about this woman.
00:24:34She is an amazing woman and I can't wait to see how the rest of this experience goes.
00:24:39And I am really falling for her.
00:24:41So with that said,
00:24:46pretty obvious.
00:24:47Strong statement.
00:24:48Love it.
00:24:51And to Alyssa.
00:24:52I'm not here for the BS and I'm here to really test this relationship and to find
00:24:58something rock solid.
00:25:00This man keeps showing up for me every day and I really am falling for you.
00:25:05So stay with a love heart.
00:25:11Look, the two of you just keep doing what you're doing.
00:25:13Keep turning toward each other wherever you can block out that external noise.
00:25:18Because as you've said, what's important is what's here between the two of you.
00:25:22So continue focusing on that.
00:25:24Thanks so much.
00:25:25Well done, you too.
00:25:26Well done.
00:25:36Our next couple up on the couch.
00:25:41Mel and Luke.
00:25:46We've been looking forward to talking to you guys too.
00:25:52It's a whole new couple right here.
00:25:55Well, I don't want to speak for both of us, but I feel like a different person.
00:25:59You look and sound like a different person.
00:26:02I don't even know who you are.
00:26:04I don't know either.
00:26:05It's so crazy, isn't it?
00:26:09What feels different for you, Mel?
00:26:11Well, I just feel more positive.
00:26:14I feel lighter.
00:26:16And do you know why?
00:26:17It's because obviously at the first commitment ceremony, I listened to everything you all said to me.
00:26:22I acknowledged your advice.
00:26:24I took it on board.
00:26:26I changed my attitude.
00:26:28I changed my outlook.
00:26:30And that's why it's changed our relationship.
00:26:31We're doing so good.
00:26:35We just have just been more curious with each other,
00:26:38more open-minded.
00:26:40When we're speaking to each other, we've got eye contact.
00:26:43Just keep in mind, like, us a week ago, we didn't even look eyes.
00:26:47Oh, we know.
00:26:48Yeah.
00:26:50Kind to each other, positive with each other.
00:26:54Love that.
00:26:54We love it, too.
00:26:56We love it, too.
00:26:56Seriously.
00:26:58Yeah.
00:27:01Mel, I'm so impressed with you.
00:27:04Thank you, John.
00:27:05I really appreciate that.
00:27:06You had checked out.
00:27:08I was.
00:27:09You listened.
00:27:11And you let go of, I guess, all your sort of expectations.
00:27:17And you said, I'm going to begin now.
00:27:20Yeah.
00:27:21We really, really did reset.
00:27:25We drew a line in the sand and we said, we're not going back and looking at anything that's
00:27:29happened in the past.
00:27:30We can not forget what's happened, but there's no point talking about it.
00:27:34So we tried to keep it super light.
00:27:36Super light, yeah.
00:27:36Super positive.
00:27:38And that's about it.
00:27:41Mel, you intrigued me when I first met you because you talked to me about pink and blue
00:27:47jobs in a relationship, which I'd never heard of before.
00:27:51Do you understand what we're talking about?
00:27:53No.
00:27:53No.
00:27:54No.
00:27:54Can you tell them, please, Mel?
00:27:55Yeah.
00:27:56Basically what it is, being pink makes you feel feminine.
00:28:00It makes you feel girly.
00:28:02It makes you feel light.
00:28:04It makes you feel like a pretty fairy, basically.
00:28:07And then a blue person makes you feel that way because they take sort of the weight off
00:28:13your shoulders.
00:28:17Is Luke someone who is a blue guy that makes you feel pink?
00:28:24If you asked me a few weeks ago, I'd have been like, no, Luke doesn't make me feel pink
00:28:29at all because I wasn't sort of in my feminine energy.
00:28:32I was really in that sort of negative energy and negative mindset.
00:28:38But yeah, Luke is definitely a blue guy.
00:28:43It's cute.
00:28:46Wow.
00:28:48I gather you two haven't been living together this week.
00:28:51No, we haven't.
00:28:52Are you ready to make that next step of moving back in?
00:28:56I'd be, I'd be fine to do it.
00:28:57I just feel like I'd want to move in if I felt wanted to move in.
00:29:04Yeah, right.
00:29:07I definitely do feel nervous about it.
00:29:10We've actually developed a great relationship.
00:29:13What if it just goes bad again?
00:29:18You know what?
00:29:19You'll never know until you do it.
00:29:23I mean, the experiment is all about getting out of your comfort zone.
00:29:26Yeah, that's really all right.
00:29:28Moving forward.
00:29:29You may as well keep going with that process because it's working.
00:29:33Exciting.
00:29:34We've got a plan.
00:29:35Yeah, we do got a plan.
00:29:38How about we go to a decision?
00:29:39Yes, let's do that.
00:29:40I'll say first, well, it's an obvious one.
00:29:42I wrote stay because we've had such a good week.
00:29:44Yeah.
00:29:45So it makes sense.
00:29:48I also think that because we've had such a good week,
00:29:51it'd be silly for me to write anything else but stay.
00:29:54Look at that.
00:29:54Love that.
00:29:55Good stuff.
00:29:58Thanks, guys.
00:29:59Can I also say it's a great example for the rest of the group
00:30:02that they were critical.
00:30:05They were ready to break up last week.
00:30:08A week on, look at them now.
00:30:10So it is possible to turn it around if you invest and go with it.
00:30:15I see great things.
00:30:17Go back to the group.
00:30:18I can't wait to see you next week.
00:30:20Yeah, me too.
00:30:21Cheers.
00:30:21Bye bye.
00:30:22Enjoy.
00:30:28Still to come.
00:30:30A surprising breakthrough.
00:30:32I kissed him.
00:30:35And later...
00:30:36Did you say that, Dani?
00:30:38Absolutely not.
00:30:39Of course not.
00:30:40Dani doubles down.
00:30:41You know what you said.
00:30:43Why the hell would I say...
00:30:44Gia, Gia, Gia.
00:30:45Stop.
00:30:45I'm talking.
00:30:54All right, let's get our next couple up on the couch.
00:31:02Rebecca and Steve.
00:31:07All right.
00:31:09Help us understand what's going on.
00:31:13I don't know where to start, John.
00:31:14Like, I'm...
00:31:15Okay.
00:31:16Sorry, guys.
00:31:16Um, I don't want to...
00:31:18Take your time.
00:31:19Tell us what particularly has been disappointing for you.
00:31:24I came into this experiment wanting to find love.
00:31:27I was open.
00:31:28I've been authentic.
00:31:29I was here for all the right reasons.
00:31:32When I first met Steve, like, we had a connection.
00:31:34I was...
00:31:35Thought the experts have got it right.
00:31:39We had a great wedding, great honeymoon.
00:31:42As soon as I started saying to my knee, this from you, really voicing my needs and my wants.
00:31:48Telling him how I...
00:31:50I said, please let me finish.
00:31:51Sorry, it was just...
00:31:52Yeah.
00:31:55I felt unheard in the relationship.
00:31:58I felt like every time I tried to voice how I was feeling, I was getting shut down and spoken
00:32:04over.
00:32:05I feel like he wasn't vulnerable.
00:32:07He didn't show up for me.
00:32:08And I just feel that I've been matched with someone that hasn't been all in with me.
00:32:15How hasn't he been all in?
00:32:17He's too concerned about what everyone else's perceptions of, Steve.
00:32:21The intimacy week, we didn't do a lot of it.
00:32:24And when I ask him, why not?
00:32:26It's like fruit salad, just lip service.
00:32:28It didn't make any sense.
00:32:30Steve, what do you say to that?
00:32:32I just disagree.
00:32:34We did have, again, what I would consider to be a personality clash on...
00:32:39Just stop you there.
00:32:42You use the term personality clash.
00:32:45That's a cop-out.
00:32:48What do you mean by that, though?
00:32:49I'll tell you what I mean.
00:32:50Yeah, please.
00:32:51What is the clash?
00:32:53What is it about the personality?
00:32:54It's a very general term.
00:32:55It's a throwaway comment.
00:32:57Get specific.
00:32:59The discussion started off being around, you know, look, I'm sure a lot of people have,
00:33:04you know, not come in here with, you know, knowing that they're going to find the one.
00:33:09Surely they've got, you know, other motives and whatnot.
00:33:12Rebecca said, not me.
00:33:14I came in here for love only.
00:33:15And, you know, it became very fiery.
00:33:18Both of us, we don't communicate well in those circumstances.
00:33:24There's a complete disconnect with how Rebecca sees a situation and how I see it.
00:33:30To be honest, there's no winning or losing in that conversation.
00:33:34It's almost like...
00:33:34OK, so you're...
00:33:35It's not about personality.
00:33:37Well, maybe not.
00:33:37It's actually about a communication style.
00:33:39Yeah, OK.
00:33:40And everyone has different patterns, but they can certainly be adjusted.
00:33:46After the last commitment ceremony where I said to you,
00:33:49you've got your partner sitting there saying, I don't feel desired.
00:33:53Mm-hmm.
00:33:54Do something about it.
00:33:55Mm-hmm.
00:33:55What have you done?
00:33:58I got in touch with Rebecca and invited her to lunch on the Sunday.
00:34:04Rebecca decided to go out with other people on the Saturday,
00:34:06and I got cancelled on Sunday morning.
00:34:09It emotionally sets you back a little bit,
00:34:11and so we didn't get to bond when other people had some time together.
00:34:16And then we had a good Monday when we came back together.
00:34:19I think all came good together.
00:34:20So, Steve, after the commitment ceremony, you had the ability to Monday, Tuesday, today.
00:34:27What have you done?
00:34:29He hasn't done anything for it.
00:34:31I know.
00:34:32It's ridiculous.
00:34:34Well, Tuesday we had the dinner party, so we didn't really...
00:34:37Steve, since you last saw me sitting on this couch...
00:34:41Yeah, yeah.
00:34:41It's a very simple question.
00:34:43Have you taken her out for coffee, a walk, woken up, saying,
00:34:47how was your sleep, and shown the nice gestures yet?
00:34:49Because I haven't heard it.
00:34:50Always.
00:34:52I have done that.
00:34:53Rebecca, has he done any little favours to show that he's interested?
00:34:57No, Scott, he hasn't.
00:34:58Here's your answer.
00:34:59I get up in the morning, I give you kids, and I get you a coffee,
00:35:01or I say, can I go get you coffee and bring you takeaways?
00:35:04He has made me a coffee a couple of times.
00:35:06What have you done to make her feel desired?
00:35:09Apart from the organising lunch, nothing.
00:35:13Why?
00:35:15Because I'm not romantically, you know, wanting to lead Rebecca on.
00:35:21I was kind of given the impression that I now have to be a bit more genuine with myself
00:35:25and with Rebecca, and so after meeting with Alessandra, it did make me think,
00:35:30be honest with myself.
00:35:32I'm going to take you back to the first time you and I met via video.
00:35:37Yes.
00:35:38And we had a pretty open conversation about your past relationships.
00:35:41Yeah, we did.
00:35:41And the fact that you described yourself as being pretty selfish in past relationships.
00:35:45It was all about you and your needs as opposed to your partner.
00:35:49You made yourself a bit of a promise was that you were going to come into this experiment
00:35:52and try things differently.
00:35:56How do you feel about that now?
00:35:58I think I've tried very, you know, in my own way.
00:36:01I think I've tried and I think I've tried to progress faster than...
00:36:04You think you've been selfish in this relationship?
00:36:06No, I don't think I've been selfish.
00:36:08No, I don't.
00:36:10I've always asked Rebecca to be herself.
00:36:12I said, you do you, you know.
00:36:14Look at her now.
00:36:16Look at her now.
00:36:17What's that?
00:36:18Look at her.
00:36:19Yes, I know.
00:36:20And I've been literally with Rebecca for the last few weeks, and I've always been there
00:36:25for her when she's feeling this way.
00:36:28Oh, can I say, it's all left service, all fruit salad and Caesar salad and Greek salad,
00:36:32all mixed in.
00:36:33All right, all right.
00:36:33It really is, it really is.
00:36:36Steve, you tell us now, how have you contributed to the problems in this relationship?
00:36:42Oh, I miscommunicate with Rebecca as much as she miscommunicates with me.
00:36:45It's half-half.
00:36:46I want you to stop talking about her because that's a real problem.
00:36:49Okay.
00:36:51Spotlight is on you.
00:36:52Yep.
00:36:53What do you do to contribute to the problems in this relationship, you alone?
00:37:03I don't know.
00:37:05That's why I ask you, because you should know.
00:37:09What we hear now is a guy that's sitting there going, you know, I'm not selfish.
00:37:17I've given it my all.
00:37:19I don't think you have given it your all.
00:37:24You are not able to answer the question.
00:37:27I thought I had answered the question.
00:37:29You haven't.
00:37:29You've just said...
00:37:30I don't know the other reasons.
00:37:32So from your expert point of view, tell me what you've seen that I'm not doing and what I need
00:37:36to do.
00:37:36I need you to tell me.
00:37:37I'm not sure.
00:37:38I can't give you the answer.
00:37:41Other than the fact that I thought I was trying.
00:37:45This is a very important time for you, Steve, because this moment you can actually start looking inwards.
00:37:55What else might be a problem in terms of this relationship and what you contribute to it?
00:38:03No, obviously I've said no.
00:38:08If we pivot and go to the intimacy week, there was an exchange between you and Alessandra.
00:38:14Yes.
00:38:14Can you tell me why it is that you became so fixed against what Alessandra was telling you about?
00:38:22Um, I don't know if I wasn't sure if I was fixed against what you were saying.
00:38:26To refresh your memory, what actually happened.
00:38:30You had a very difficult time listening to an opinion that differed from yours.
00:38:35It was about not Steve's desires and Steve's space, but understanding what Rebecca wanted.
00:38:42And you pushed back hard.
00:38:44You spoke over me.
00:38:45You disrespected me with your words and also with the tone of voice that you spoke.
00:38:49You were skirting around issues.
00:38:51And of course, when you don't give clear, concise answers, I will push back and try and get something precise
00:38:58from you.
00:38:58And that was impossible to get from you.
00:39:02And tonight, it's been pretty impossible, again, for you to give any precise definitions
00:39:09to these things that sound very much like lip service.
00:39:13Okay.
00:39:16Rebecca has been very forthright about liking the possibility of creating something with you,
00:39:23wanting to move forward, really championing and cheering for that.
00:39:26And you putting the brakes.
00:39:28And if it's not at your pace, then it becomes a problem.
00:39:32Every time she's tried to speak up, it has become a problem.
00:39:35So I think you have a little reflection to do as to where this miscommunication really stems from
00:39:40and how it is that you get here.
00:39:43Okay.
00:39:52Well, look, I think it's time that we go to a decision with the two of you.
00:39:56Steve.
00:39:57John.
00:39:58We started off fantastically well.
00:40:01And since then, it's been going downhill.
00:40:06I chose to leave.
00:40:10And to you, Rebecca.
00:40:12Okay.
00:40:14Well, thank you for finding me a match.
00:40:17Hasn't quite worked out.
00:40:19Came here for love and I didn't get what I wanted.
00:40:22I'm not going to settle and waste any more of my time.
00:40:26I wrote, leave with a kiss.
00:40:33I think this experience is going to bring up some opportunities for reflection.
00:40:39I really hope that there are some, you know, really valuable lessons here that you can take
00:40:44on board in terms of moving into this next chapter.
00:40:46You both know what you need in your next relationships.
00:40:50Go out and get it.
00:40:52Thank you so much.
00:40:52Thank you all of you.
00:40:53And Alessandra, I never meant to, you know, any, you know, speaking over you, I apologise.
00:40:59It was something I need to get better at and that's something I've taken on board.
00:41:03I really have.
00:41:04So, you know, thank you for the feedback.
00:41:07While there's apologies going around, is there an apology for me for being,
00:41:10robbing me off of the experience?
00:41:11No, I've enjoyed being doing this with you.
00:41:14You know that.
00:41:14We've had some great times.
00:41:16We have.
00:41:17It's been amazing.
00:41:17I just, anyway.
00:41:18It's not the ideal finish, but we've been doing well.
00:41:22It's been f***ing fight.
00:41:34Well, let's get our next couple up on the couch.
00:41:39Grayson and Julia.
00:41:40Yay.
00:41:42Hello.
00:41:43You look so amazing.
00:41:45Aww.
00:41:45I need this outfit.
00:41:47Well, I've got to say, the energy between the two of you is very different from last week.
00:41:53Yeah?
00:41:54Okay.
00:41:55What's going on?
00:41:58So, um, this morning, I kissed him.
00:42:02Oh.
00:42:02Yay!
00:42:06Grace seems happy about that.
00:42:10Well, what did the kiss do to your relationship?
00:42:13Yeah, it was very unexpected for me.
00:42:15I was like, this isn't going to happen unless I let him know that I'm open to that.
00:42:21Yes.
00:42:21And so that felt really necessary for me to be the one to do that.
00:42:25And I think it was necessary for Grayson to have that very clear cue that this is now okay.
00:42:31Yeah.
00:42:33So, in having the kiss, did you feel there was chemistry between the two of you in that sense?
00:42:38Yeah.
00:42:39Yeah, yeah.
00:42:39I love the way both your faces light up when you talk about this kiss.
00:42:43Which is lovely to see.
00:42:45And with that being the case, let's get to the decision.
00:42:48You first, Grace.
00:42:49Me?
00:42:50Alright.
00:42:51Stay or leave?
00:42:52I'm fully in this, so I'm going to stay.
00:42:54Good.
00:42:57Jules, what are you going to do?
00:42:58Stay or leave?
00:43:00So, I've written stay.
00:43:01Great.
00:43:02Oh, a little love heart.
00:43:03So, here's to more snogging.
00:43:05Well done, guys.
00:43:06Good stuff.
00:43:10All right, let's get our next couple up.
00:43:12Rachel and Stephen.
00:43:13Woo!
00:43:14I love it.
00:43:15Let's go.
00:43:17Hello.
00:43:18Hello, you two.
00:43:20Hello.
00:43:21Oh, Johnny, how are you going to go?
00:43:24Got a story to tell you.
00:43:27So, tell us about this intimacy week, because clearly it had an impact on you in a positive way.
00:43:33I rejected a simple kiss on that ultimate fantasy and essentially rejected her.
00:43:41She was standing there vulnerable and I hurt her feelings and I felt terrible how I made Rachel feel.
00:43:49When it comes to intimacy, I'm a bit of a dope when it comes to it.
00:43:54But I took Alessandra's advice on very seriously through the workshop.
00:43:59And I'm really leaning into the tasks now.
00:44:04Intimacy week has made me feel a lot more comfortable around Rachel.
00:44:10Fantastic.
00:44:11Um, it's a step forward for me.
00:44:13It's a massive step forward.
00:44:15Today, after your workshop, Alessandra, turns up at my door, 12 long stem roses.
00:44:20Aww.
00:44:20What's a girl to do but swoon?
00:44:22Like, I'm sorry.
00:44:24She was floating like a school girl.
00:44:27What I love is that you persevere and move closer to her.
00:44:32There are times when you drop the ball.
00:44:34But what you don't do is give up.
00:44:37And you can see him doing that.
00:44:38I can.
00:44:39That's why, look, it's why I'm still here.
00:44:41It's why I moved back.
00:44:43Yeah.
00:44:43Because I could feel him trying.
00:44:45I could feel it.
00:44:46So you did move back in?
00:44:47I'm back in the house.
00:44:49You're back in.
00:44:49And I was very happy to be back.
00:44:51And how's it been?
00:44:51It's been good.
00:44:53It's been really good.
00:44:54That's when the kissing started.
00:44:57Made her blush, so.
00:45:00Made me blush a bit too, I think.
00:45:04I don't know.
00:45:04I thought it was a sweet, sweet moment.
00:45:06Well, that's nice.
00:45:07And that's a nice way to describe it.
00:45:08Yeah.
00:45:09So, Rachel, how do you feel about Stephen right now?
00:45:12I like Stephen.
00:45:13The crush grows for me.
00:45:15The feelings are growing.
00:45:15The crush grows.
00:45:16The crush grows.
00:45:17It grows.
00:45:19It's getting bigger.
00:45:19And that's because he's trying with me.
00:45:24All right.
00:45:25Let's go to the decision.
00:45:27Rachel.
00:45:28I said to Stephen that I'd give him a chance to show me that he's trying.
00:45:33And he has.
00:45:34I'm staying.
00:45:36Love it.
00:45:37Fantastic.
00:45:38Stephen, over to you.
00:45:39I don't want to be a quitter.
00:45:41I know I'm going to stuff up along the way.
00:45:43And I hope I don't stuff up much more.
00:45:45Stop.
00:45:46I've done a few stuff ups.
00:45:47And, you know, hopefully next week is a much better week.
00:45:50And I can come in and go, I aced it.
00:45:53And no road to stay.
00:45:54Yes.
00:45:55Yes.
00:45:57You are going to make mistakes, both of you.
00:45:59Yeah.
00:46:00Don't quit.
00:46:01I'm not going to be perfect.
00:46:02I'm just going to try here.
00:46:03And if I make mistakes, I'll pick myself up.
00:46:06I'll keep going forward.
00:46:07Thank you, guys.
00:46:08Thank you all so much.
00:46:09Well done.
00:46:10Good on you.
00:46:11Good work.
00:46:11Thanks, John.
00:46:13Beautiful, Rachel.
00:46:21All right, let's get our next couple up.
00:46:24Gia and Scott.
00:46:25Oh, we're here.
00:46:26Let's go.
00:46:31Good evening.
00:46:33Evening.
00:46:34Hello.
00:46:37Where do you want to start?
00:46:40Firstly, I want to apologise to the entire group.
00:46:43Yesterday, my behaviour was really not OK.
00:46:49Especially, I want to focus on Alyssa and David, though, because I really...
00:46:52I came at you and I didn't have enough information to go off.
00:46:56I went crazy and I really want you to know that I am genuinely sorry.
00:47:00And I think, you guys are like this.
00:47:03And I'm really happy for you guys.
00:47:06And Stella as well.
00:47:07I'm sorry about last night joining in with Brooke and like going over the top.
00:47:11Like it was just not OK, my behaviour.
00:47:14So, sorry.
00:47:16Well, thank you for that, Gia.
00:47:18Your behaviour last night was ugly.
00:47:22It was mean.
00:47:24This is something that you need to take on board.
00:47:28I cannot stress that enough.
00:47:31Yeah.
00:47:33I am curious to know where that came from, because I haven't seen that before.
00:47:38Um, I've had quite an emotional few days.
00:47:41Like, we had our first argument.
00:47:44Ah.
00:47:45Yeah.
00:47:46Um...
00:47:46We'll be able to have one.
00:47:47It was going to happen.
00:47:49But, you know, we went out.
00:47:50He was really tired and wanted to go home.
00:47:52Obviously, he doesn't drink.
00:47:54So, you know, sober person in a room full of drunk people is like not always a fun time.
00:47:58And I probably should have listened to him and gone home at eight o'clock when he said.
00:48:01And I didn't...
00:48:02I totally apologised to him.
00:48:04I was accountable for my behaviour.
00:48:06And it, like, would never do that again.
00:48:08It, like, made him uncomfortable.
00:48:11And what did that do to the two of you?
00:48:14Um...
00:48:16In reflection of the weekend, it's actually taught me a lot on a positive note.
00:48:22Because I've experienced now social environments.
00:48:25And just how do we handle one another around people.
00:48:28And I think it was just...
00:48:29It was more the aftermath.
00:48:31You know, a big night.
00:48:32The next day, emotions start coming out.
00:48:34And just, you know, some things hurt me a bit.
00:48:38Which we communicated with.
00:48:39And I faced it straight away because it really did hurt me.
00:48:42And what sort of things?
00:48:47Just, um...
00:48:48And it could be a thing of emotions start coming out.
00:48:51But words I didn't appreciate was,
00:48:54you don't like me, you're here for the wrong reasons,
00:48:56and I can get any guy I want.
00:49:03Coming up...
00:49:04I just wanted to do the right thing.
00:49:07I have never experienced a woman be so vicious toward other women.
00:49:14What the heck?
00:49:15I have never experienced a woman be so vicious.
00:49:23Words I didn't appreciate was...
00:49:27You don't like me, you're here for the wrong reasons,
00:49:29and I can get any guy I want.
00:49:36I'm not putting you on the bus.
00:49:37It's because I really care about you.
00:49:38Wait, you're talking about what I said when I was drunk?
00:49:40No, this is the next day.
00:49:44And it could be a thing of, you know, it's been a big night.
00:49:47Yeah.
00:49:48You know, words do hurt me.
00:49:51And that's kind of what's taken me a step back.
00:49:55Do you explain to me why you would say to Scott
00:50:00that you could get any guy you want?
00:50:05I do tend to self-sabotage.
00:50:08If something's going too well, I find a reason to, like, push back a bit.
00:50:13Oh, it's too good, like, it's not, you know,
00:50:15let me throw some shit at it and see what happens.
00:50:18And you certainly did that, yeah.
00:50:20It was, like, self-destructive behaviour.
00:50:23So do you feel like you're testing him a little bit?
00:50:25A little bit, yeah.
00:50:26And I know it's bad, but I feel like I am to see, like,
00:50:29if he'll hang around.
00:50:32You're doing these self-sabotage type of behaviours.
00:50:36And I'm wondering what you're scared of.
00:50:39I'm, like, scared to fully let him in because I'm scared I'm going to get hurt.
00:50:45It's hard for me because, like, in my previous relationship,
00:50:49the wall had to stay up because I was never protected.
00:50:54I don't want to go into this and do the same thing,
00:50:56but it's just, it's harder for me to pull the wall all the way down.
00:51:00It's really scary for me, to be honest.
00:51:02I can see that.
00:51:03Yeah.
00:51:05What are you afraid that might happen if you let the wall down?
00:51:10That I'll get hurt.
00:51:17But if you notice how I speak to your daughter, I speak to your mum,
00:51:22I show efforts, I'm there every day for you, like,
00:51:24there's no reason to not allow me in.
00:51:28It's one of them things where, like, we're still a little bit early in the experiment.
00:51:31We've now had a hurdle.
00:51:33We've had such a beautiful time.
00:51:36Like, I keep saying I'm all in on this, and I see so many more positives.
00:51:42Some things that weren't meant to be said happened, and I know you don't mean it,
00:51:47but as long as you're self-aware, I just don't want it to happen again.
00:51:50But it's very important what you've heard from Gia tonight is that she's testing you,
00:51:56not because she doesn't like you, but you're also pushing him away.
00:51:59Yeah.
00:52:00And so you're on notice with that.
00:52:03Yeah.
00:52:03You've got a guy that adores you right now, who fits exactly what you want,
00:52:09but if you keep doing what you're doing, he's going to start to lose interest.
00:52:16Gia, how do you feel about Scott?
00:52:21I really like Scott.
00:52:24Everyone would probably agree, like, genuine, kind-hearted.
00:52:30I've let him in my whole life, and I mean, he's met my daughter on FaceTime.
00:52:34Yeah, I don't want it to end, to be honest.
00:52:38It's funny, because I feel like we're in a 10-year marriage already,
00:52:41the way we carry on our lifestyle and our routine, you know what I mean?
00:52:44Like, we wake up in the morning, as soon as we get up,
00:52:47we're both in the other side, we pull the sheet over.
00:52:49It starts there, and it's like, we're aligned.
00:52:51It makes me feel complete, because it's like, that's what I was missing,
00:52:54and I just can't stop smiling.
00:52:57Let's go to the decision.
00:53:00Gia.
00:53:02I'm obviously going to stay.
00:53:04Good.
00:53:06Scott?
00:53:07Stay or leave?
00:53:09Of course I'm staying.
00:53:10Good.
00:53:14Well done.
00:53:14Well, you've learned a lot.
00:53:15You kind of know exactly what direction you need to go in.
00:53:18Yep.
00:53:18I'm going to let him in.
00:53:19I know it's scary, but that's where the fairy tale lies.
00:53:23Yep.
00:53:24And you've got to embrace it if you want it.
00:53:25Yep.
00:53:26All right.
00:53:26Back to the group.
00:53:27Well done, you guys.
00:53:33Our next couple up on the couch.
00:53:37Bec and Dani.
00:53:43Hi, guys.
00:53:43Hello.
00:53:44How are we?
00:53:47We're doing pretty well.
00:53:48What about you two?
00:53:51Not good.
00:53:54Bec, you look like you're really struggling.
00:54:01Help us understand what's going on.
00:54:05We had like the best week.
00:54:08Alessandra's intimacy week was amazing for us.
00:54:12And then last night, Gia made a comment to me that on Saturday night, Dani said to her,
00:54:22in the outside world, you would be the type of girl that I would be interested in, not me.
00:54:30Did you say that, Dani?
00:54:32Absolutely not.
00:54:33Of course not.
00:54:37I walked off, and then he stayed somewhere else last night.
00:54:42And then today, when he came in, he basically said to me that,
00:54:47we've got no trust, because, because he wants someone that's a Bonnie and Clyde kind of love.
00:54:58And that, because I believed him for a minute,
00:55:04that, basically, I have to rebuild the trust, and he doesn't know what I can do to do that.
00:55:18Sorry.
00:55:26It's horrible for her that he's just making her believe it's her fault.
00:55:32So, Dani, you were saying that Bec had broken your trust.
00:55:36For me, obviously, when we spoke this morning,
00:55:41it was just like, it threw me that she'd even believe a comment like that.
00:55:50And Bec, where do you sit on this? Do you believe Dani at this point?
00:56:00I don't think he would do that, because I know how loyal he is,
00:56:03and that's something that we're basing our whole relationship off of.
00:56:06And I know I've broken your trust, and I'm sorry.
00:56:11I was just in a, on a different, I was a space cadet last night.
00:56:15I was on a different planet.
00:56:19Sorry.
00:56:23You're joking.
00:56:29Absolutely not. You're not going to gaslight a woman right now.
00:56:35You know what you said.
00:56:36You know what you said.
00:56:36Why the hell would I make...
00:56:37Gia, Gia, Gia.
00:56:38Stop. I'm talking.
00:56:50Absolutely not. You're not going to gaslight a woman right now.
00:56:55You know what you said.
00:56:57You know what you said.
00:56:57Why the hell would I make...
00:56:58Gia, Gia, Gia.
00:56:59Stop. I'm talking.
00:57:02Why would I make this up?
00:57:03I'm so happy in my match and my relationship.
00:57:08You're making her feel like she can't trust you now when you've lied.
00:57:13Gia, you have zero credibility.
00:57:15I swear on my daughter's lies. Do not lie.
00:57:19You and I both know the truth, and you know what you said.
00:57:23And now you're trying to cover your ass.
00:57:28Scott.
00:57:30You was there with me the whole night.
00:57:32She wouldn't make that up, dude.
00:57:36Gia, Gia.
00:57:37No, I'm not going back and forth on this.
00:57:39Can I just say one thing?
00:57:40I'm not interested anymore.
00:57:41You're not interested.
00:57:43It's going to go around and around.
00:57:45Like, he's never going to admit it.
00:57:46He's never going to.
00:57:47He's saying I lied. Why would he lie?
00:57:50Please get a lie detector test. Please.
00:57:54So, Danny, you're saying that Gia's description of you didn't happen?
00:57:59That didn't happen, no.
00:58:02It's just weird how no one else heard it.
00:58:05And, Bec, if you did say that, would that be something you could move past?
00:58:11No.
00:58:13No, it's not.
00:58:15Why is that?
00:58:17It's hard for me because we've had such a good week
00:58:20where it felt like the connection was so intense and amazing.
00:58:25And I feel like we've got a real connection.
00:58:28So, like...
00:58:32No, I'm not going to believe that.
00:58:35I'm not going to believe it.
00:58:39I would be doing our relationship an injustice
00:58:41if I didn't believe him and respect him.
00:58:45We're in this relationship.
00:58:48I'm so dumb with her. I'm sorry.
00:58:51Do you trust me?
00:58:54Yeah, I do.
00:58:57Why do you say that?
00:59:02Because, like, I do.
00:59:03I don't think she'd betray me on no major level.
00:59:07It frustrated me. Do you know what I mean?
00:59:09But it's not nothing that can't be fixed.
00:59:12That's why I'm still here.
00:59:15All right.
00:59:17What you're going to need to do this week, particularly,
00:59:20is be kind.
00:59:22To have that mindset.
00:59:24That's all you've got to focus on.
00:59:26Make sure you're there for each other.
00:59:32We're going to go to the decision.
00:59:34We're going to start with Danny.
00:59:35Stay or leave?
00:59:36Um, obviously, it's been a bit of a rough 24 hours,
00:59:39but I still want to stay and work through this.
00:59:41Oh, it's good.
00:59:41I like that.
00:59:44And for you, Bec?
00:59:47It's 100% stay, and there's a little adore you next to it.
00:59:55On that, you can go back to the group.
00:59:56Thanks, guys.
00:59:57Thanks, guys.
01:00:02I love the beach beach.
01:00:08Next up on the couch...
01:00:13Stella and Philip.
01:00:15Hi. How are we going? I'm good?
01:00:19How are you?
01:00:21Great. How are you?
01:00:22How are we going? All right?
01:00:23I'm just... Yeah.
01:00:25Stella, you know, last night was, you know, pretty intense for you.
01:00:31The spotlight hit and they came for you.
01:00:39I watched closely to see how you would act
01:00:42under that sort of intense challenge.
01:00:46And you didn't react.
01:00:49You stayed very calm.
01:00:52And you were very mature.
01:00:55And it was quite outstanding to watch.
01:01:00Now, you've had some apologies since then.
01:01:04How's that landed? How do you feel about it?
01:01:07The apologies?
01:01:08Apologies? Yeah.
01:01:10Um...
01:01:13Hmm.
01:01:24Look, apology...
01:01:26Apology is worth nothing without changed behaviour.
01:01:34So...
01:01:37Unfortunately, I can't witness changed behaviour just yet, if ever.
01:01:44I don't hold grudges, but yeah, you know, apology without changed behaviour is nothing.
01:01:54And what did that do to you, Philip, when you saw her in that sort of situation and how she
01:02:00responded?
01:02:00When she's getting pressed and when, you know, when things are not comfortable, you know, she keeps her cool.
01:02:08But I just really want to put it out there and just say, uh, I really respect how you handled
01:02:13yourself.
01:02:13Like, how you talk to people and approach life, I dare say that that's like your greatest superpower.
01:02:20She held her own and, and like, yeah, and now we just choose to, we're just in our own lane.
01:02:25We've got the horse blinkers on, we're just doing our thing.
01:02:27Yeah.
01:02:27You know, like, we're just up in each other's grill, having a good time and it's good.
01:02:33Stella, how deep are your feelings for him now?
01:02:39Um...
01:02:43Whatever future holds...
01:02:44It's good, yeah.
01:02:45Yeah, I've never met a man like him.
01:02:48Wow.
01:02:49How I'm feeling, it just unlocks so much more beauty to my life.
01:02:54Like, so, as much as it feels surreal, I feel like, um, it was just meant to happen.
01:03:04So, are you falling in love?
01:03:06I think, yeah.
01:03:08Wow.
01:03:09I feel very mushy, very vulnerable, you know, and that obviously means, that obviously means that, you know, so, yeah.
01:03:21What about you, Philip? Do you feel the same way?
01:03:24Um...
01:03:27She knows that I definitely feel a certain way about her, and, um, yeah, it's, I can definitely see myself
01:03:33starting to fall for her.
01:03:36For sure, definitely.
01:03:38Well, I don't think, uh, there are going to be any surprises here, but we're going to go to the
01:03:44decision.
01:03:44Stay or leave, and we're going to go with you first, Stella.
01:03:50Obviously, not a question, right?
01:03:52So, great.
01:03:54A mere formality.
01:03:55Uh, for you, Philip.
01:03:58Every week keeps getting better and better with you, no doubt.
01:04:02Uh, and I'm looking forward to the next one.
01:04:05So, I'm going to write on stage.
01:04:09Love it, guys.
01:04:10Off you go.
01:04:11Yay, guys!
01:04:17And last up on the couch, Brooke and Chris.
01:04:24Love to you.
01:04:25Thanks.
01:04:28Hello, you two.
01:04:29Hello.
01:04:31Hi.
01:04:32Hi.
01:04:34Hi.
01:04:37All right.
01:04:39Where do we start with you two?
01:04:44Oh, gosh.
01:05:05All right.
01:05:06Where do we start with you two?
01:05:10Oh, gosh.
01:05:12Um, before we start, I just want to say, um, especially to Alyssa, Stella, I'm extremely
01:05:21sorry for my actions last night.
01:05:24I feel so much guilt and, um, you know, regret today.
01:05:29Um, I, you know, I did take it too far last night.
01:05:35Um, um, there's no excuse for that behaviour and I'm really sorry.
01:05:40I took it too far and I should not.
01:05:42So, I'm sorry.
01:05:53Hello.
01:06:01Well, just on that, Brooke, why did you react like that at the dinner party?
01:06:05Um, I think for me walking in, there was a lot of things that I was a little bit upset
01:06:09with that had happened.
01:06:12And there were things that I wanted to vocalise, but my emotions got the better of me and I
01:06:17came out and attacked.
01:06:20Um, no one's perfect.
01:06:22I know I'm definitely not perfect.
01:06:24Um, that's not who I am.
01:06:26I don't even do that in the outside world.
01:06:28So, I was like, why did I do that in here?
01:06:33I mean, I can only apologise and take accountability, so.
01:06:38Mm-hmm.
01:06:38Um, I wasn't even going to be there to start with.
01:06:42Um, well, just on that, Brooke, you decided to up and leave.
01:06:46Yeah.
01:06:46Take us there.
01:06:47What was that all about?
01:06:49Um, since the video, I have had my guard up still.
01:06:53I had tried to let it go down.
01:06:56Um, I felt really sad.
01:06:58I think also sad because I know how hard Chris is trying as well, um, to, you know, get us
01:07:04progressing.
01:07:04But at the same time, there's things and actions that Chris has done that I can't move past.
01:07:10As much as I've got a lot of work to do on myself, um, you know, Chris and I have
01:07:14discussed
01:07:15he's got a lot of work to do on himself as well.
01:07:17We get along like a house on fire.
01:07:19We enjoy each other's company, but it's friends.
01:07:24Chris, if I jump in, what impact did it have on you when Brooke left?
01:07:28I just, it was just a little bit rushed.
01:07:30And that was probably the only part that sort of made me a little bit uneasy, but saying
01:07:35that again.
01:07:35Did it hurt?
01:07:37Not, not, not hurt, no.
01:07:40It wasn't like I was blindsided in any means.
01:07:46What would be the feeling?
01:07:47Just the feeling of that void that was left.
01:07:52Did you feel rejected?
01:07:54Not really rejected.
01:07:56Purely because I knew to get to where we are now has been mostly my fault.
01:08:01I know that Brooke is, is an amazing person and giving as much as she can.
01:08:08I know, I know that I've been more or less the problem in this.
01:08:14So I've never, I've never once felt blindsided by Brooke.
01:08:27Chris, do you have romantic feelings for Brooke?
01:08:31Um, describe, I've got, I've got feelings for Brooke, yes.
01:08:36Romantic ones?
01:08:36What, what defines romantic?
01:08:39Well, more than a friend.
01:08:43I care, I care, I care a lot about her, yeah.
01:08:47If she was interested in exploring that with you, is that something that you'd be keen to do?
01:08:53I think, I think, throughout the experiment we've had issues, obviously with the video and things like that.
01:09:00That it's, it's gotten Brooke to this point where she, her guard is up and she just doesn't really see,
01:09:05especially in this experiment, anything progressing with us.
01:09:09I know exactly how she feels towards me and towards this whole experiment, so it means to feel...
01:09:14How does she feel towards you?
01:09:16She knows she's got a lot of care and, and, and emotional respect for me.
01:09:22We just know that it won't work in here.
01:09:24But I'm, I'm more at the point where I'm like, it's not that it won't work in here,
01:09:29it's the fact that it's like, it won't work on the outside either, Chris.
01:09:35I'm not saying that, like, we're ending this and we're going to be 100% on the outside.
01:09:39Like, that's not it.
01:09:40Like, you're going to go off, live your life, do better for you, you work on yourself.
01:09:45If you want to do whatever you want to do, do that, and I'll do the same with me.
01:09:49You know, we have such a beautiful friendship.
01:09:51And there's things and actions that Chris has done that I can't move past.
01:09:56I have had to hold your hand the last couple of weeks.
01:09:59I have to ask you to apologise to people and, like, things like that.
01:10:03And I'm not, I didn't come here to hold your hand.
01:10:06And in my life, I've always had to hold my own hand.
01:10:09And so I want my hand to be held now.
01:10:12Just fair.
01:10:15You're alright.
01:10:18And Brooke, why did you come back?
01:10:21Um, I mean, I left within, like, two hours of being home,
01:10:25as much as I was enjoying the sun and the Gold Coast.
01:10:27Just, I felt guilty for leaving Chris.
01:10:29I had guilt that I'd left and I was like, I need to get back there.
01:10:33And so that's why I decided to come back.
01:10:38I just wanted to do the right thing.
01:10:44Just whatever.
01:10:51Can I share an observation with you, Brooke?
01:10:55So you're saying that, you know, you felt guilty about leaving Chris,
01:10:58so you wanted to come back.
01:11:00But observing you coming into the dinner party,
01:11:05you quickly acknowledged him
01:11:06and then shifted your focus to the rest of the room.
01:11:10And we didn't see you interacting with Chris much.
01:11:13Could you see how it might have looked like
01:11:15you came back to have a go at people?
01:11:18A hundred percent.
01:11:23Why do you think you did that?
01:11:26Why did I not talk to Chris at the beginning?
01:11:29Yeah.
01:11:32Obviously, yeah, got carried away.
01:11:40So at the last commitment ceremony, when we were here,
01:11:43you had some issues with the way Chris spoke about women
01:11:46in his audition video.
01:11:49I guess I'm just reflecting on last night
01:11:51and observing you, Brooke.
01:11:52I know, and I've taken full accountability.
01:11:55And the way that you spoke to women.
01:11:58Can you see how that feels a little bit at odds
01:12:01with the attitude you were having toward Chris last week?
01:12:03A hundred percent.
01:12:04And I get that you're sitting here and saying that,
01:12:06but I'm like, also, it was a tough week
01:12:08and I wasn't feeling myself, you know,
01:12:12it was a difficult situation.
01:12:13Like, there's been a few things
01:12:15that I've just kind of struggled to get past
01:12:17in this experiment.
01:12:19But I've still gone out of my way to go and apologise.
01:12:23Sorry, can I just jump in there?
01:12:25I've got to say, in all my years
01:12:28working on Married at First Sight,
01:12:29I have never experienced a woman
01:12:33be so vicious toward other women.
01:12:36Oh.
01:12:47In all my years working on Married at First Sight,
01:12:51I have never experienced a woman
01:12:54be so vicious toward other women.
01:12:58Oh.
01:13:02It was relentless.
01:13:04Mm.
01:13:05And to continue doing that for several hours
01:13:10without barely taking a breath,
01:13:12it was vicious.
01:13:14Mm.
01:13:23I'm going to go to the toilet, quickly.
01:13:25She's coming back.
01:13:27Guys, please don't leave, sorry.
01:13:30Sorry.
01:13:31What the heck?
01:13:32Um, hello.
01:13:35I'm just going to the loo.
01:13:46Oh, dear.
01:13:49So dramatic.
01:13:59Oh, it's not a good look for her, you know?
01:14:02You've got a, you've got a carpet, unfortunately.
01:14:04You've got a carpet.
01:14:04You've got to just run up.
01:14:06You've got to deal with it.
01:14:07You've just got to...
01:14:09come up with my back time.
01:14:15No.
01:14:39She's been ages in the toilet.
01:14:47She shouldn't be taking this long, like, it's not good.
01:14:49No, I think, well, it's gone.
01:14:50I don't think she's coming back.
01:14:52I didn't know there was a runaway bride, too.
01:14:55Hopefully not.
01:14:59What's happening?
01:15:00I don't know.
01:15:01I don't know.
01:15:13Oh, jeez.
01:15:16We're okay.
01:15:17Yeah, thanks, man.
01:15:18Yep, yep, yep, yep, yep, yep, yep.
01:15:35Oops, Tyler.
01:15:38Can you put that behind you?
01:15:40Yeah, once we'll get back.
01:15:49I think she's late.
01:15:50Mel said, I've never seen a woman be so vicious to another woman.
01:15:53And she was like, see you later.
01:15:55She knew they were about to get into her and she went and ran.
01:15:58Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:16:05Chris, I've got some news.
01:16:09Unfortunately, Brooke is not coming back.
01:16:18She's decided to do a runner.
01:16:23I'm like, no.
01:16:25No.
01:16:27Oh, no, no, no.
01:16:30It's a hurt man.
01:16:40Yeah.
01:16:41He's whipped.
01:16:43Oh, he's so, he's so into her.
01:16:45It's really sad to see.
01:16:46It's remarkable.
01:16:48But not surprising.
01:16:50Far out.
01:16:52It's just not how it should have ended for them.
01:16:55It just shouldn't have ended that way for them.
01:16:59Tomorrow night.
01:17:01The experiment enters its next exciting chapter.
01:17:07To fall in love with this experiment would mean everything.
01:17:10Over two big nights, love will be in the air.
01:17:14I'm definitely ready to share my life with someone.
01:17:17When three brand new couples enter the experiment.
01:17:21I'm just ready to go all in.
01:17:25First, we meet the regimented groom who's struggling to find true love.
01:17:31She needs to bring femininity.
01:17:32I want submissive vibes.
01:17:34If they have children.
01:17:35That's the first red flag.
01:17:37I'm not here to look after someone else's kids.
01:17:39That's not my job.
01:17:40If the person across from me today embraces woke culture, we'll have a problem.
01:17:46Plus.
01:17:48Is that a sign?
01:17:50This outgoing bride is looking for her eccentric class clown.
01:17:55Shall we get married?
01:17:56I'm hungry.
01:17:58But will the groom's wedding vows.
01:18:00I've actually got many floors.
01:18:02Carpet.
01:18:02Tiles.
01:18:03Wood.
01:18:04You name it baby.
01:18:07Or his mother's unusual tribute.
01:18:10And you turn into a gluttonous pig.
01:18:13Derail the wedding day.
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