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First Dates Ireland - Season 11 - Episode 02
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00:09It's fine, it's cool
00:12You can say that we ain't nothing, but you know the truth
00:17And guess I'm the fool
00:20With your arms out like an angel through the car's unreal
00:26And I cry, it's not fair
00:29I just need a little love and I just need a little hair
00:35I think I'm gonna call it love, even if you call it love
00:39I just love someone who calls me, baby
00:42You can crush on me, boys and boys
00:46Shoot another shot, try to stop the feeling
00:50You can say it's just the way you are
00:55Making no excuse for the stupid reason
00:59Good luck for you
01:01Well, good luck for you
01:02You're out to stop the world
01:05Just to stop the feeling
01:07Good luck for you
01:09Well, good luck for you
01:11You're out to stop the world
01:13Just to stop the feeling
01:15I'm gonna call it love, even if you're out to stop the feeling
01:45And sisters Gigi and Edgy
01:47They're not identical, but when it comes to love
01:51They are single-minded
01:53There have been moments where, you know, like in the white chicks
01:56Where you're like, you were thinking it, but you said it
02:00And we glance at each other
02:02And we're like, I know, I know what you're thinking
02:05About this situation
02:06Yeah
02:11Try this one
02:12Yeah
02:12Yeah
02:15We got the door
02:16Hello
02:17Hi
02:17Hi
02:19Sisters
02:20Yeah, twins
02:21Yeah, twins
02:22Yeah
02:22You're in the comfort zone because we're together, which is lovely
02:25Hey, do you think your dates will react?
02:27They won't even know they're on a double date
02:28Let's know which one
02:29Oh, so they don't know that's a double date
02:31Oh, that's fun for us
02:33Starting with a double whammy, are we?
02:35Hi, Neil, how are you?
02:37How are you?
02:38I think it comes down to the guy
02:39He's like, is he a secure guy?
02:41You both look fine, you're very coordinated, I love it
02:43If a guy's easily intimidated, it's like
02:45You want someone who's strong enough to hold that space
02:50Oh, this is clashing
02:51I think I'm gonna, I think I'm just gonna take it off
02:55Jimmy can hold that space
02:57And fill it
02:59With pure, unadulterated, Jimmy
03:02And then just put it on the nipple
03:08What are you looking for?
03:10Someone who gets me
03:11I'm sorry, mom
03:15There's a lot of girls, you wouldn't blame them
03:17They just feel like, you're really weird
03:20My body's too bootylicious for you, baby
03:25I think that's one of the guys
03:27He's got a flower
03:28Look, he's so cute
03:31Nice to meet you
03:32Your name?
03:33Jimmy
03:33Your rose is here, yeah?
03:34That's a rose
03:35Yeah, yeah
03:36We're doing it for
03:37Listen, I have two girls at the bar
03:41Two for me?
03:42What's the deal here?
03:46Hi!
03:47How are you?
03:48How are you?
03:48Hi
03:49Hello
03:50Hello
03:51There's two of us
03:53There's two of us
03:54There's two of you
03:55Take your pick
03:55Take your pick
03:56I'll come back soon
03:56Okay
03:58How are you?
03:59I'm Edgy
04:00Edgy?
04:01Yeah
04:01Jimmy's my name
04:03Gigi
04:03Yeah
04:04Lovely to meet you
04:04I'm on a date with two
04:08Holy smokes
04:09We're actually twin sisters
04:10Are you?
04:11And you look great, the two of you
04:13Thank you
04:14How are we?
04:15Curveball
04:15Two for the price of one
04:19Would you consider yourself someone confident?
04:22No
04:23Yeah, I am confident
04:24Is it going to be a double date or what?
04:26Technically, technically we're waiting for one more
04:28I like making people laugh straight away when I meet someone
04:32I want to have that impact
04:33Gigi Hadid
04:35Edgy Gonzalez over there
04:3850% would find me annoying
04:4150% would love me
04:43I'm from Wicklow
04:44Wicklow
04:44I'm actually not even Irish
04:46Where are you?
04:47Zimbabwe
04:48Zimbabwe
04:49But I left there when I was like three
04:51Then I moved to Paris, French
04:53Which is actually my first language
04:54No way!
04:54Salut, comment ça va?
04:56No, I don't
04:58Don't remember anything
05:05Okay, so tell me, how long have you been single?
05:08Six years now
05:09Six or seven years, yeah
05:10Kinda lost count after three
05:15Life is a journey
05:16And Sorcha's on her way from here
05:19To happy ever after
05:21Anything could happen
05:22Anything could happen
05:24Anything could happen
05:25Anything could happen
05:25It would be so nice if this was the final
05:28The forever one
05:30Anything could happen
05:33Anything could happen
05:51All right, you are
05:51Thank you so much
05:52I made an effort today
05:53Yeah
05:54Should I take your jacket?
05:55Yes please, if you don't mind
05:56Yeah, yeah, no problem
05:56I'm so excited
05:58I really am excited about it
05:59I'll have a Heineken actually
06:01I'll have a Heineken actually please
06:01Thank you so much
06:02I appreciate it
06:04It's nice to just be myself
06:06And go in and you know
06:08And let it happen
06:11Jennifer
06:11Jennifer
06:12A great date
06:13Waiting to happen
06:14And better still
06:16She's not about to wait
06:23I always like to treat a girl on a first date
06:28Wine and dine
06:29And do all that kind of jazz
06:33So you're not afraid to be forward
06:35No!
06:38No one's coming to my front door saying
06:40Hi, I'm your person
06:42So I have to go out and find it
06:47Hello sir, how are you?
06:49I'm very good
06:50My name is Jenny
06:51That's for me
06:52I'll give you one
06:53No, no, no, no
06:54That's not for me
06:55That's for your date
06:55For a special someone, yeah
06:57I've been single for two years now
06:59I hate it
07:00I'm an absolute lover girl
07:02I like being in relationships
07:04Shall we get you to your date?
07:05Absolutely please
07:07Yes, yeah
07:07The next relationship that I go into
07:09I want that to be the one
07:10Love
07:12Hello
07:13Hi, how are you?
07:14Good, how are you?
07:15Nice to meet you
07:15I got these for you
07:16My mother actually met them
07:18Stop it, really?
07:19They're so cute
07:20Thank you
07:21I'm Jenny by the way
07:22I'm Sorsha
07:23Nice to meet you
07:23Nice to meet you
07:34Thank you
07:38Cheers guys
07:39Cheers
07:39Cheers
07:40To whoever the other guy is
07:43Who gets the flowers
07:44That's the thing
07:45The question is
07:45Do the other guy bring flowers?
07:47I hope not
07:48Cause then I'll be like
07:49If he comes in with a bigger bunch
07:51Why don't you just
07:52Tell him not to come
07:53I have this under control
07:59When folk need their pipes fixed
08:02They call Craig the plumber
08:04Lately though
08:06He's had a bit of a dry spell
08:08I won't say I had a proper day in a long time
08:10Like you know
08:10Something like this is new
08:12So do you feel like you're throwing yourself at the deep end?
08:14I think so, yeah
08:15At least I can swim
08:18Oh
08:19Is this the dude?
08:20Yeah
08:20The other guy is coming in
08:22Does he have a flower?
08:23He doesn't
08:24Oh no
08:24You look cool man
08:25Yeah sure
08:26You're ready for the date you are
08:27Yeah
08:29You know yourself
08:30You're gonna meet somebody new
08:31Yeah
08:33Let's do it
08:34It's nice
08:34Don't go there
08:35Yeah
08:36We have
08:38Oh we have to
08:39We have three people there
08:41Oh so which one of them
08:42Follow me
08:45You're gonna have fun
08:46You're gonna have fun
08:47You're gonna have fun
08:47Make some room
08:48Hi how are you guys
08:49How are you?
08:51I'll leave you here enjoy
08:52Hello how are you?
08:53Craig nice to meet you
08:54Craig
08:54I'm Gigi
08:55Nice to meet you too
08:56How are you?
08:58How are you?
09:00I'm after forgetting all the names already guys
09:03You've walked into it of a party have you?
09:05I think so yeah
09:06I told you there's twins there by the way
09:08What?
09:09There's twins
09:10We're getting set up here
09:12What's up?
09:13I like to think I'm a bit fun
09:14I like to have a group of people around us
09:17And have a bit of laugh with everybody
09:18And yeah I like to think I'm comfortable to be around
09:21I'm a dental nurse
09:22And she's a hairdresser
09:23And by day and by night
09:25We do a bit of music on the side
09:27So it's like we perform together
09:28No way
09:29She's making music
09:30I rap and she sings
09:31We make like a drum amazing hip hop kind of stuff
09:33Hip hop duo
09:34Yeah
09:34Oh cool that's interesting
09:35I'm into music myself now as well
09:37Well like I used to do DJing years ago
09:39But like now I want to get back into the sound engineer now
09:41We have a gift coming up if you want to come check us out
09:43Hello
09:44Hi
09:44How are you doing?
09:45We have a busy bar here now don't we?
09:48Yeah
09:48Well you've sat quite well
09:49Because I'm going to take Gigi and Jimmy with me
09:52Okay
09:53That's alright
09:53Hello
09:54Cheesy indeed let's go
09:55Let's go
09:57Oh flower
09:58Oh yes
09:58So give me your flower then
09:59You can officially give it
10:00That's for you love
10:01Thank you
10:02Thank you
10:03Craig you should have thought about it
10:06You should have thought about it
10:07Hey look
10:08See that vase there
10:09Just grab it
10:09I was like here you go sorry
10:12We kept yours in water
10:17I'm back home living with my parents at the moment
10:19Yeah
10:20I'm hoping by next year I'll have a deposit for a house
10:23That's the ideal goal
10:24I just want a little bungalow
10:26I want like a little two bedroom bungalow
10:28I love that yeah
10:29That's all I need
10:29Two bedroom that's it
10:31That's it
10:31One for me and then one for my niece
10:33When she wants to come visit me
10:35Really?
10:35And I'll do it all look really nice for her
10:37Oh my god I love that
10:42And she loves the image of me as well
10:43I said to my sister last night
10:45I said can we get her a mullet
10:46And the father was like no she's not getting a mullet
10:50She's three and then my sister is pregnant at the moment
10:52Oh nice
10:53With a little boy
10:54Yeah
10:54So it'll be exciting for them
10:55They've gone through an awful hard time recently
10:57Right
10:57Nice had a lot of health struggles
10:58So she was born with down syndrome
11:00And then she had a hole in her heart
11:03So when she was one she had heart surgery
11:05And then at Christmas we found out she had leukemia
11:08Oh god I'm so sorry
11:10So she did six months of chemo
11:11But she got the all clear
11:12And kind of end of May
11:14Right
11:15That's good
11:15So she's getting fat again
11:17Her hair is growing back again
11:19Yeah
11:19Like she's really coming too
11:20Nice
11:21So it's nice to have baby boy coming
11:23Because it just feels like she's going to be thriving at that stage
11:27I love that
11:27You know what I mean
11:28I see like how much joy my niece brings to like all of our lives
11:32And like I think I'd be a really really good mother someday
11:35So I'd love to meet someone like you know
11:37Buy the house, have the family
11:39You know get old together
11:40Retire, travel
11:42Like do all of those things
11:44I live with my mum and dad as well
11:46Oh brilliant
11:47Yeah
11:47So my nieces and nephews obviously come to Nanny's house all the time
11:50And my sister is actually, we're very close
11:53Good
11:54But me little minions are my best friends
11:56I know
11:56That's really important
11:57How many have you got?
11:58I have five
11:59Wow
12:00We're having such a huge family
12:02I want somebody that has that same value as well
12:05And doesn't kind of look down on me for how valuable I take my family
12:09Would you like to have family yourself?
12:11Yes I would
12:12I love that idea of like settling down with someone
12:14Coming home from work
12:15Of course
12:16I'll have your dinner waiting for you
12:17Yeah
12:18That would be nice
12:19I think that's a little bit of pressure though because I don't cook
12:21I cook
12:22Oh do you?
12:23I cook, I clean, I'm very good
12:25Nice
12:26I'm a cat, I don't know why no one's caught me yet
12:31Do you want to order for me?
12:33I can't remember what you were eating again
12:34I was going to get the avocado strawberries emble
12:37Yeah
12:37Do you remember what I was going to get for the main?
12:40The supreme of chicken
12:41Yes
12:41You got one
12:4250% went in
12:43That's good
12:44We're halfway there
12:45Thanks guys
12:46Thank you
12:47What about yourself? Do you have any siblings?
12:49No, I have a son
12:50You have a son?
12:51Yeah, yeah, yeah
12:52I was young having him, I was 18 and he's 13 now
12:55No way, that's so crazy
12:57Like to say I'm a 13 year old son
12:59Yeah, I know
13:00And it feels like only a while ago I was that age
13:03What's life like when you're, I guess you're still growing up at age?
13:07Gosh
13:08Yeah, yeah
13:09Geez, you don't know what you're doing really
13:10Like you know
13:11All of a sudden you're cooking it
13:12And you're doing the washing
13:13You're doing the night feeds
13:14Everything happens so fast
13:15But it was great at the same time
13:17Because you grow up differently
13:18You become more mature
13:19And then when you go out there you're like
13:21I can't really stay out too long lads
13:23You know
13:23I can't really do this anymore
13:26What do you have one with me?
13:28I'm not going to have the oysters, I'm sorry
13:30No
13:30My god, it's rotten
13:31Why did you order if you think it's going to be bad?
13:34Because I never had them before
13:35And I wanted to do it for the crack
13:40Is it okay?
13:42I didn't go down to it while it was over
13:44I like to keep cards close to my chest
13:46Have you tried this?
13:47It's so nice
13:48You can finish it though
13:50I want to kind of let the guy make the effort
13:53What's like your little pick up line?
13:54To a girl's
13:55I don't have one
13:55You don't have one?
13:56I was asking my cousin like what should I say
13:58Say something about a penguin breaking the ice
13:59Or something like that
14:00I was like what?
14:01Isn't it a bear though?
14:03Isn't it the bear that breaks the ice?
14:05Yes
14:05That's it
14:05Yeah, yeah, yeah
14:06For me it's
14:08You're a nine out of ten
14:11Because I'm the one you need
14:13Yeah
14:13That's a good one
14:15That's a good one
14:43You play games
14:44Play games?
14:45Yeah
14:45Trying to get into fitness
14:46Gym girly?
14:47No, because I don't want people to be looking at me sweating when I'm like working out
14:51I'm kind of the same like when it comes to the chair obviously
14:54Yeah
14:55If I'm in the gym or whatever it's like everybody goes boom
14:58Do you know?
14:59It's not comfortable
15:00Do you find that people judge you because of it?
15:02Not really
15:02I find that a lot of people it's kind of the thing of like Jesus isn't that great
15:06She's getting out of the house
15:08I never lost my ability to walk, I never had it
15:10So I never knew any different
15:12I've never really been treated differently than my sisters are
15:15Like that
15:16You know?
15:16Yeah
15:17I was always brought up to the point of
15:20You can do it but try, try
15:22I think I kind of, I find pride in it a little bit like it's like different you know
15:26I don't want to be like everybody else
15:28I like that you're authentically yourself, that's very attractive
15:32My disability is probably the least exciting thing about me
15:37But if I say it on Tinder, if I say it online
15:39Not a lot of questions I would get would be about me
15:42Rather than, well can you do this and can you do that and you know and stuff like that
15:47So yeah, dating is hard
15:49I'm free on the bus though, or on the train
15:52Have you got a plus one free?
15:53Yeah
15:53Okay, perfect, we're grand so
15:56I drive anyways
15:57Oh do you?
15:58It's gonna be my passenger printer
15:59Does a wheelchair fit in your car?
16:01Do you know what, I need to buy a new car so I'm gonna make sure I buy a big
16:04one
16:04Oh really?
16:04Yeah
16:07My dad was in the SAS, you know what the SAS is?
16:10No actually don't
16:11Special Forces
16:11Okay
16:12He was away and stuff, a lot of moving around, a lot of moving around
16:17When I came to Ireland, I didn't speak a word of English
16:19I was the quietest kid for a long long time
16:22And now I'm obviously making up for that time
16:26In Lithuania we had a good time growing up and stuff
16:28We always had each other, not everyone has literally a built-in best friend
16:32We were very energetic children
16:35So our parents sent us to every possible theatre, you know, choir
16:39Dancing
16:40And dancing
16:40So I was 11 years old
16:42Myself and my sister were 11 when we moved over
16:44When we moved to Ireland there wasn't a lot of that
16:46Because we moved into a very small town
16:48And didn't have like any particular classes to offer
16:51My parents broke up when I was like 13, 14
16:54Oh, starting to come into a teenager yourself
16:57And like not really having a dad in my life after that
16:59Because he wasn't really connected and like he was quite detached
17:02So my dad moved back to Lithuania and it was kind of weird
17:06It was like it was a hard time and then he passed away
17:10When we were 17
17:12That was something that we went through as children
17:15Like I suppose teenagers are still a child
17:18Like when you're a teenager you're kind of trying to work out your feelings
17:20About like where you stand with your father, with your mother
17:23A lot of unanswered questions because my dad had moved back to Lithuania
17:26There wasn't much of a connection there and then he passed away
17:30They're so young, how do you deal with like losing a parent?
17:33How do you?
17:34You're never going to be ready for something like that
17:35There's no answer
17:36You just have to keep your head above the water
17:38To be 17 and kind of lose a parent is like it's a difficult time
17:42And music was a very big part for us to process a lot of those feelings
17:46We needed some channel to like process our emotions
17:49And it kind of got us started making music
17:51Even just writing a few verses, a few rhymes
17:54You're doing the rapping then?
17:55I do the rapping, yes
17:56Oh wow, I can't wait to hear it
17:56Oh, you're gracious
17:58Thank you
17:59Are they listening to the music over there by the way?
18:01I think so
18:02I think they are
18:03I think they are
18:03Are you watching the music?
18:05We're waiting for a live performance
18:06Oh yeah
18:13Here comes Ciara with a message for all mankind
18:18Get over yourself
18:20Boys don't like been told that you're not like rearranging your whole schedule for them
18:25Oh, they're divas
18:27We are supposed to be like, oh my god, thank you so much for asking me
18:31Yes, I will move my whole week around to accommodate you
18:41Hello
18:41That was a smooth move
18:43I know my auntie texted me, she's like, get that left door
18:46I said I will
18:48I said I will
18:49Why have you come to the first taste restaurant?
18:51It was initially a bit of crack with the girls
18:53Which has turned into me actually been here
18:57Damn, even the fire brigade couldn't put this out
19:00Oh stop
19:00I'm just saying
19:02Don't flatter me
19:03Do I look that silly?
19:05Hopefully these compliments continue for the rest of the night, huh?
19:09I don't know
19:09I actually don't do well, but compliments you know
19:12Neither do I
19:12No
19:13Of course you don't, you don't get them
19:16Mr. Suave
19:17I need somebody that can keep me kinda on my toes
19:21Chin chin
19:22Good thing you need to be able to make me laugh
19:24Or I'm going to be bored
19:26What do you do?
19:27Tell me about yourself
19:27What's your interest?
19:29So I am a nurse
19:29I shoot
19:30I go to shooting ranges
19:32Clay pigeons
19:33Oh, and they go pull
19:34Yeah, yeah, that's me
19:36Well, let's hope you're gonna do that tonight
19:37Ha ha
19:44It's not like Dara to take a shot at romance
19:48Usually he stays out of range
19:50If you were out, would you chat somebody up?
19:53I don't know, like
19:53It's not really a done thing anymore
19:56Like you don't want to be annoying people if they're out enjoying themselves
20:00I don't mind chatting up and out, fella
20:01I love chatting to outlets
20:02At the bar you learn a lot of stuff from them
20:06Oh my god
20:09I may go home now
20:10No, don't judge
20:11I may go home now
20:12All right
20:12Good to see you
20:13How are things?
20:14Yeah, it's all right
20:14Your name?
20:16Dara
20:17You're looking good, man
20:18I hope so, yeah
20:19Took a lot of time
20:20Planning, no?
20:21Yeah, yeah, yeah
20:21I would like to find someone to go on dates with
20:24See where things develop
20:25Your date is at the bar
20:26Oh, she's already here?
20:27Yeah, yeah
20:27It's time to perform
20:28Yeah
20:29You have the moment
20:30It's yours
20:31But if all goes down the toilet
20:32Would be a good story to tell people in years to come anyway
20:34Now, Ciara
20:36Hello Mateo
20:37Nice to crack
20:38How are you?
20:38Hello, how are you?
20:39Good to meet you
20:39I'm Ciara
20:40Ciara, nice to meet you, Dara
20:41How are things?
20:42Dara, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
20:43How are things with you?
20:44Good, good, how are you?
20:45Yeah, I'm all right
20:46Your man's afternoon runner
20:47The barman?
20:48Yes
20:48Oh, there he is
20:49Speak to the devil and he shall appear
20:51What would you like?
20:52I'm going to have a glass of white wine
20:53A glass of white wine?
20:54A glass of white wine?
20:55Yeah
20:55Really?
20:58Would you like a shot of Jaeger?
20:59Yes, you would
21:00I'd love a shot of Jaeger
21:02You're going to need it, I'd say
21:03Do you think so?
21:04I know
21:06I'm full as a bingo bus already, will you stop?
21:08I'm full as a class
21:10I don't take things overly seriously
21:11Like a little bit of slagging to be fair
21:13Where are you from?
21:14I'm from Cork
21:15I thought that, alright, yeah
21:16I could smell the Cork off you
21:17No, that's just a drink
21:20You need to be able to take it as well
21:22Like, Jesus
21:22Someone who picks up on that
21:23And kind of can go with the crack and stuff
21:25Is fairly important
21:26Otherwise they'll get lost fairly lively
21:27Where are you from?
21:29Wexford
21:29Living up here or?
21:30Yeah, living up here
21:31I live up here as well, yeah, yeah
21:33What's brought you up here then?
21:34Don't know
21:35The capital
21:35Are you guys all not like
21:37Oh, we're the actual capital?
21:38You guys
21:39I suppose it's real capital
21:40But
21:41We're not going to get into politics just yet
21:47I moved over to the UK like six years, seven years ago
21:50I did my Erasmus year over there
21:52And I met my ex-partner then
21:54On my Erasmus year
21:55So I came home
21:56Graduated
21:57And then just moved back
21:58And then we like moved in together
21:59And stuff like that
22:00Fast
22:01No, it wasn't too...
22:04Oh, look
22:06I think with relationships between two women
22:09We naturally are going to like drop those walls
22:11So it's very, very easy
22:13To kind of say I love you after a month
22:15Because you've actually been so vulnerable
22:18That I don't think straight couples get to that point until like a year
22:21We were engaged actually
22:22Yeah
22:23No way
22:24We were together for about five years
22:27I was in relationships from like 16 to 25
22:30And I was like, you know what, let me go be single
22:32And then I very, very quickly realised like that's not for me
22:35I actually do like monogamous relationships
22:38And like just having that person
22:40I kind of have been putting a lot of work into my life over the last two years
22:44And I've gotten myself to a point where I'm kind of happy in every aspect
22:48And then I'm just missing that one thing
22:50Yeah
22:50So I'd love
22:52That extra, you want that extra puzzle piece?
22:54I want that extra piece
22:55I like that
22:56Yeah
22:56Nice
22:58Tick
22:59Tick, tick, tick, tick
22:59See on ticking boxes, I told you
23:02It's not very deep all of a sudden
23:03Yeah, but you know, that's lesbians for you
23:05Yeah, isn't it?
23:06Do you know what I mean?
23:07I'll be booking the U-Haul at the end of this
23:09He will
23:17How's yours?
23:18Yeah, he's nice
23:18I think he's lovely
23:20Like we actually have him
23:20Ah, Jimmy's lovely as well
23:22Curve all in half
23:23Why?
23:24Two Colleen's, one Jimmy
23:25When I rocked up, I swear to God
23:28I only f***ing shut my pants up
23:29Did you think you were getting two of them, didn't you?
23:31And Jimmy's like, I'm in there
23:33How's it going with you?
23:35Gran, happy
23:35Yeah, yeah, you?
23:36Yeah, same
23:37She's a real nice girl
23:38Yeah, it's nice to chat to him
23:39How old do you think they are?
23:42I know the age, 32
23:43How old are you?
23:4431
23:4431
23:45And you?
23:4529
23:46Geez, Jimmy, you look older
23:49He's a really interesting background as well
23:51Very interesting actually, yeah
23:53What do you get for me?
23:54Steak
23:55Same
23:55What way do you like yours?
23:57Medium
23:57Same
23:58We've stuff in common too, Jimmy
24:00F***ing me
24:01Let's just swap
24:03Let's say me and you just
24:05Oh, Jimmy
24:06Oh, Jimmy
24:09Change of plan, guys
24:10Craig having a date now, is that?
24:15Hey guys
24:16He's a good cracker
24:18He is
24:18Are you dating or?
24:20No
24:20Just mates
24:21Yeah
24:21You're making friends with everyone in here, aren't you?
24:24It's funny
24:25He's talking to everyone
24:26Yeah, yeah
24:27I got these custom made first dates
24:29Are you serious?
24:31I'm gonna get a picture of that
24:32Did you see shoes?
24:33Oh my god
24:34Did you see them?
24:35Yeah
24:35I just saw those walking over
24:40What do you do?
24:41Erm
24:42Guess
24:43Do you know where Eddie?
24:44Oh, she does?
24:44Oh, I do, yeah
24:45I know her own life story
24:46I was on a date with Neil before you actually
24:49That's grand
24:50That's grand
24:50Go on, guess away
24:51Go on, go on
24:52Are you an accountant?
24:54F*** off, do I love how you're an accountant?
24:56Solicitor
24:58I don't know, so
24:59I'm allowed
24:59Nurse
25:00Nurse?
25:01What kind?
25:03Children's
25:03I think I come across a very hard shell
25:06You can't be overly emotional all the time in the job that I'm in
25:09Or you're just gonna walk around in tears all the time
25:12That, and I suppose been brought up in the countryside
25:15In the High School of Brothers
25:16I think I've had to fend for myself quite a bit
25:18I've never been on a first date as a dinnerer
25:21No, me either
25:21What would you usually do on a first date?
25:23I am a b***h for an activity
25:25Like what activity?
25:26Someone with a helmet?
25:27Yeah
25:28But you're...
25:30It's too much of a guessing game with ye women like
25:33What?
25:33How?
25:35Sure, like other people
25:36Like you'd ask them to go on an activity day
25:38Like and it'd be like you'd be
25:40F***ing Casper the Friendly Ghost
25:41Like
25:43I am a little bit daunting to men if they approach me
25:47I know what I want and what I don't want
25:49And I can be very abrupt
25:50So why are you single at 28?
25:54Yeah, it's a good f***ing question
25:55Yeah
25:55Probably have huge underlying issues or something like that
25:57Mummy issues?
25:59No
25:59Daddy issues?
26:00Don't think so
26:01Just all other issues
26:03All other issues
26:04All other issues
26:05Very much go with the flow I think
26:07I don't have an agenda Jesus going into dates or anything
26:12Just see how it goes
26:14We have to figure out why they match us
26:16I feel like
26:18Yeah, you're questioning that big time
26:20Like
26:20No, don't be paranoid
26:21Don't be paranoid
26:23My fingernails left over here like
26:24I'm intrigued to know people's impression of me
26:26Because a lot of my friends didn't like me when they first met me
26:28Really?
26:29Yeah
26:29What's your kind of vibe?
26:30They're probably similar enough ways
26:32I can see where they're coming from like
26:34Yeah, you can see why
26:38Do you think I'm your type normally?
26:40Yeah
26:40Yeah
26:41Yeah
26:42Definitely, definitely
26:43What about me?
26:44Definitely
26:45No, you're a bit me
26:47You gorgeous eyes
26:51Stop it
26:52Yeah, you're looking good
26:53Thank you
26:54Like your snack
26:55Yeah
26:56Dessert
26:57My mom killed me
26:58I need to behave because my mother was like
27:00You do better not be f***ing talking dirty
27:02My sister said don't kiss and tell you
27:04Oh my friends all said do kiss
27:06They were like if we don't see you shifting in the smoking area
27:08It's a fail
27:09If there's a vibe and it comes naturally
27:12I don't think there's anything wrong with having a kiss
27:14I don't think so either
27:18You can go red now
27:20Earlier I was so nervous and I actually was so grateful
27:23When I seen all he is there
27:24We didn't know what we were going to get
27:25No, of course not
27:26We didn't know what we were going to get
27:27Yeah, yeah, were you happy what you got?
27:31I couldn't even get that out there
27:32I'm not unhappy with what I got
27:37What's usually your type?
27:39Do you have a type?
27:40I kind of
27:41I do and I don't
27:43Am I your type?
27:46You don't have to answer that question
27:50Many previouses?
27:51Many previouses
27:52How hurt are you?
27:53On a scale of one to ten
27:54Are we here already?
27:56Each relationship teaches you something about yourself
27:59And I think there's just certain mistakes that I don't want to repeat
28:01I think sometimes people put a lot of pressure on their partners
28:04In such a way where it's like you become like the entirety of that person's world
28:08Yeah
28:09If I just pull that plug, all of a sudden this person's world is just
28:12Comes tumbling down
28:14That's what happened to me before
28:15And it's not good
28:17I used to just fall so quick, so hard
28:19Lose myself
28:20Lose what I was doing
28:23And then as soon as that relationship ended
28:25It was like the whole world was destroyed
28:27My world was never
28:30Good enough
28:32So when someone came into my world and became this new world
28:37It was like everything for me
28:41But I wasn't a good boyfriend at all
28:45I was drinking terribly
28:48So I was cheating
28:49Now I'm not putting that as an excuse but
28:52That was my real issue
28:54I've had a pretty rough enough life
28:57I can't lie to you
28:58I've never felt comfortable in this world
29:00I've never felt comfortable in my skin
29:02I've never actually wanted to be here
29:05When I was like 17, 18
29:07I was like a volcano
29:09Everything just came up
29:11Once I had started drinking
29:14Yeah
29:15I just fell in love instantly
29:16Because it suppressed everything
29:17Yeah
29:18It just progressed rapidly
29:21I wanted to escape the way I felt, you know
29:24And I was drugs and alcohol and gambling
29:28It brought me down some dark, dark roads
29:31And dark, dark paths
29:34And my friends used to say to me
29:35We used to wake up every day
29:36And not sure if we were going to get a text
29:39Saying, you know, Jimmy's passed
29:41And my mum said the same thing
29:46In 2021
29:48I got this new treatment
29:51It was like someone had pulled a sheet over my face
29:54And everything was like bright
29:56It was no longer dark
29:57And I was like, I actually want to live now
30:01It was life changing
30:04Ever since then
30:05I've obviously had tough days
30:08But it's nothing like it used to be
30:10Not even close
30:12And would you be part of like a support group
30:15Or would you just do it on your own
30:24I get you
30:25Did you catch my vibe?
30:26I do catch your vibe
30:27Like I never thought I would get to the day
30:29Where I was just like, I'm sober
30:31And I'm happy, truly
30:34I didn't think it was possible
30:37It's hard to tell people you've changed
30:41Or that you've recovered and you're a different person
30:44But it's mainly about showing
30:46That's the only way
30:50Are you going home tonight?
30:53Not anytime soon
30:54I'll make sure you're on the last bus home or whatever
30:56That's all
30:57As long as I get the last bus taxi after
31:01Or you can sleep on a sofa in my friend's house
31:04Which is where I'm sleeping tonight
31:05Is their house accessible?
31:08No
31:10Hmm, didn't think so
31:11My house is
31:13Yeah
31:15My bungalow will be
31:19God, we're jumping ahead
31:21That's lesbians for you
31:25Can we skip to the good part?
31:31Would you like to see each other again romantically?
31:35Definitely
31:35Yeah, I 100% would
31:38It's been so nice having you two
31:39Thanks for coming
31:41Yeah, I know
31:41It's been awesome
31:42Do you fancy each other?
31:44Yeah
31:45Yeah
31:48Any jackets?
31:49Yeah, I did
31:51Definitely feel the chemistry between us
31:53Go quick
31:54It does go quick
31:55I feel like I had a smile on my face the whole time
31:58And still
32:00Thank you so much
32:02See you
32:02Bye
32:03Bye
32:03I feel like there's a lot more to talk about
32:04There's a lot to explore there
32:06And I think we should go for a drink now
32:07Keep talking
32:09What are you thinking for a second date?
32:11Cinema
32:12Shifting into cinema
32:14Yeah, yeah
32:15Yeah?
32:18So can we skip to the good part?
32:28I think we're getting more to talk about
32:29Iconic
32:30Iconic sexy bastard
32:33He was touching my shoulders earlier
32:34I was waiting for him
32:36I didn't get a hug though
32:37I was like
32:37You're even stronger than I thought you were going to be
32:39Yeah?
32:40Yeah
32:41We'll see what he's doing after
32:47get that idea come on like give me a chance
32:53like go on no could be the one not interested i've done plenty of dates off day enough sometimes i
33:03think like on both sides people think people on apps aren't real like you know i hate it
33:09it's the worst i got bored i'm like fuck off perfect that wasn't a thing to you that's just in
33:17general
33:17you know what to tell your story i'm done playing with you now some people come to a first date
33:21and
33:22they're like okay well i'm i want to be married in the next three years they're like whoa and then
33:26these people that you're just looking for you know a bit of fun nothing too serious i'm getting a cramp
33:33my leg there never seems to be that person that's like let's just see how it goes
33:39how'd you get here then i got the dart you just have shithouse mates have you they dropped me to
33:44the
33:44dart station to be very for the hair they should have dropped you in though do you get dropped in
33:48yeah
33:48but you're a bit more of a princess than i'd be like oh no you're definitely more of a princess
33:53than i am
33:56wait i'm definitely more masculine than you are believe it or not
34:01what how are you more masculine oh i definitely am jesus christ whoa whoa that was a crazy low blow
34:09like
34:09there's no one need to come out with that leg
34:28take care of each other all right
34:43we're not there already are we what
34:47nothing else to talk about like no i have to get to the gab the upper yeah right go on
34:55what's your question i don't have any questions around i don't care no questions about me don't
34:58care oh don't care all right perfect perfect nurse wexford what's the third thing like on the
35:06the tombstone like what else to do like i can shoot shoot as in like with a gun yeah
35:12as in like clay page and shoot yes absolutely yeah very good how'd you get into that so my dad
35:18has
35:18a gun shop at the house i've been doing clay target shooting since i was about 15 16 i've competed
35:27at a
35:27national level so i've represented wexford and then i've been fortunate enough to compete for
35:32ireland then on an international scale too are you going to be in the olympics too much money hold on
35:37now
35:39i'll pitch in we'll talk about finance later don't worry about that fellas that i've been
35:46with before they're like oh well i want to spend like every weekend with you because i'm off every
35:50weekend or whatever and i'm like no this is this is my thing i'll come back to you and we'll
35:55have
35:55a few pints if i win something all right but apart from that no so what do you do on
35:59your weekends
36:00i play harold we'd be training the whole time next one is that up here yeah it's good
36:06correct to be fair the lads are all selling like like we're north of like as soon as we go
36:10to
36:10train like i have the thickest north open accent of all time like relax you don't have to go to
36:16the
36:16train it's it's grand like that's the fucking look off you like so this is my issue my face speaks
36:23before my rentals yeah oh your face has been done a lot of speaking has it yeah like obviously the
36:29ja calendar is fairly hectic don't even exactly have a wild pile of time to be dating and stuff so
36:34someone that understands the logistics that that would be good open up
36:42that was awful like you're gonna have the one that's not been on the floor let's see how
36:47ship a Harley arena right will you open it a bit more will you come on you're not even giving
36:52me any
36:52you have to go only oh right in those
37:01my dad he lives in caldera with my brother and his sister lovely family like really nice but we just
37:07never really got as a family unit i suppose when i was growing up so we started got back in
37:13contact
37:13with each other when i was like 18. so it's hard to you know it's hard to gain a relationship
37:17with
37:17someone that you don't really know you know what i mean yep who now are the biggest supports in your
37:22life um i'd like to say my son have him on the weekends up during the week and i mean
37:27his mom
37:27gone very well like all co-parenting everything worked out perfect i haven't been in a long-term
37:31relationship in a good while like a good few years for example really having a kid young you do want
37:35to make sure like when you're settling down in a relationship you just want to make it right you
37:38know when you go out with somebody now you want to look at the bigger picture where i am with
37:42my life i
37:42think i'm in a good place and uh yeah relationship now i think would be the perfect time i would
37:47see
37:47myself definitely having like a kid at some point um i think it's important because my parents broke up
37:54at such a young age i guess you can never predict the future but i would like to be with
37:59someone
38:00that i feel like we have a good foundation i have had a few relationships there's been a definitely a
38:05theme of like on and off kind of thing maybe it's to do a little bit with the fact that
38:09my dad was like
38:09a lorry driver so he was kind of an inconsistent male energy he would go away for like a month
38:16or two
38:16he'd come back for a couple of days and then he'd be on the road again so maybe there's a
38:21little bit
38:21of me sort of like that pattern in my relationships you kind of think about stuff and you're like oh
38:27wow like because of the family dynamic yeah it's an interesting thing to become aware of i've learned
38:33something about myself or learned something about relationships um and it's got me closer to
38:38figuring out what i'm looking for do you want some chips i'll have one chip yeah i will i will
38:44it's just
38:45that you kind of you can use the sauce as a dip if you want
38:56so my hinge went off at the table yeah i did it is yeah he was like oh go on
39:02answer that i nearly died i was
39:05like fuck sake but like that's just like i'm a single girl sitting in front of you i'm obviously on
39:11apps is he good looking though yeah no he is he's handsome like but um yeah i felt like he
39:21was a little
39:21bit defensive or something maybe it was that i'm more masculine than you are comment that kind of sent it
39:27that way is he getting your sense of humor i don't know not a lot of people get my sense
39:31of humor i think
39:32that's why i'm single yeah go easy go easy guys i wouldn't write him off because of that but i
39:39didn't
39:39feel like he was overly excited about me being at the table would she be your normal type have you
39:47seen
39:47her she's gone she's gorgeous oh yeah she's a bit of crack as well i think it's going all right
39:53like yeah
39:53we'll see like chats are good yeah i think yeah i don't know hopefully of course you don't know you
39:58can never tell like no i think there was a good spark yeah she said she couldn't go to the
40:03olympics
40:03because of funding so i might have to get on the olympics board about that like i'll pack her little
40:06hills like
40:09delicious all right i am all good how are you amazing do you think she fancies you yes i don't
40:19know
40:19i don't know i don't have high hopes but maybe someone might be looking out from very like
40:28what do you prefer that that that's nice do you want it no it's all yours if you want to
40:36like no i'm good
40:38i'll give you the word like don't give me the heck i'm working overtime tonight
40:50it's all right craig it's time to get your trousers off in the toilet come on
40:54do you want to sit with me yeah yeah geez you can sit with me for a bit where where
41:00is the toilet
41:00i don't know guys your bathroom is just through there until i promise not to try any of your steak
41:05there work away try some try some craig is just happy happy to share everything honestly he's just
41:11like literally he's like you can eat everything here that's so sweet is there anywhere do you like her
41:16yeah do you do you love her oh man love her first night jimmy both of the lads are lovely
41:22we we got
41:23lucky didn't we yeah yeah all good how do you buy he's been matched up with a man
41:31craig has a son 13 years old yeah because how old is he he's 31 he had him when he
41:37was like 18.
41:38today he's a good father he seems like a really responsible type
41:41hey how's it going oh it's going good yeah i know it is going good he's in love he does
41:45know what to do he's pitching a tent in his pants and everything he's walking around trying to keep
41:50it together we met great people anyway i think dylan i don't really like raspberries they're a bit
41:57hairy for me would you eat a kiwi with the skin on no would you yeah masculine like that lift
42:04off manly
42:06okay anyway ciao anyway so anyway what there'll be fucking cooley on that now hold on put the bib on
42:20shut up and open your mouth ah score
42:30hello thank you so much we're not splitting the bill come on now don't embarrass the two of us now
42:34thank you very much amazing date what a date no it happened the best first dinner day i've ever
42:43been on you've never been on a dinner date before so shut up like a new set the bar
42:49so would you like to see each other again romantically
42:55have you carry right no i'm letting you go first oh yeah i would yeah
43:03um i don't know if there was like a lot of chemistry going on
43:07fair thanks yeah so don't don't make me no don't make me feel bad that's fair i'll trust her opinion
43:17like
43:20thank you not at all thank you very much i think you were a little bit standoffish with me i
43:25think so
43:25yeah you'll start with the cars like you're looking like that like will you give me a break like
43:31jesus thanks a million see you out there nice one good work this bump yeah good work bro yeah well
43:37done bro
43:40that's fair like i suppose don't win them all like
43:42would you do it again like would you do it again yeah i would if you rang me tomorrow and
43:45said would
43:46you come next to her yeah we've someone we've someone better be it tomorrow
43:52okay i am not shaking your hand
43:54fuck out nice to meet you it is what it is like if there's no spark then no spark the
44:01sun will come up tomorrow
44:12how old are you by the way
44:14i will say um 33. oh why is that bad 29. stop it's just i feel like you're so worldly
44:26wise
44:27you're older you're so mature for your age
44:31did you like my little save would you say that you fancy tim yeah lovely smile
44:37that's the first thing a dental nurse notices do you have anything in my teeth
44:44it's like it nearly felt a little bit like like we've known each other for a while
44:48it felt so comfortable from the beginning what do you think well old craigie boy
44:54he's going to be doing well yeah yeah do i have anything stuck on my teeth
45:01yeah something there i do no you're lying come on we're laughing we're joking you know so
45:10i think it went perfect to be honest it's like i'm running out of water
45:14do you want my one you're just open to sharing everything of course yeah yeah it's nice to
45:20take the shirt off my back maybe later relax relax
45:30oh that's chocolate you want it is it chocolate yeah yeah stop what do you like to get up to
45:35when
45:35you're off when it is just bought a boat like two weeks ago what is with guys and their boats
45:40what is
45:41fishing love to fish would you like to see each other again romantically gonna let them go first
45:48yeah sure yeah absolutely i'd love to see you again yeah i'd like to see you too rock on easy
45:54easy
45:55easy lemon squeezy in terms of hobbies i'm a golfer do you know what i've always wanted to get into
46:01golfing let's do are you any lessons are you any good i'm pretty hot are you doing your own horn
46:07now
46:07though we had a lovely time when it requires no energy to just chat and be with someone yeah then
46:17you've won how are you lads all right getting the band back together again
46:24guys both your bills are there for you yeah thank you so much a few minutes for you all right
46:29all right izzy how are you hi good i'll get the bill you want to get the bell yeah yeah
46:34well thank
46:34you no worries no worries we got it the lads are looking after you yeah yeah would you guys like
46:41to
46:41see each other romantically again who goes first i i would like to say so yeah yeah yeah yeah
46:50i would say yeah i think the day continues i think so yeah i was up for all going out
46:56together
46:56do you know what i love a game of poo gg gets very competitive we actually could fall out you
47:02have
47:02no idea how competitive i get there will be some egos bruised after this so and it won't be mine
47:09oh it's so worried about you might be if they're gonna be forced on winning we'll we'll take a step
47:15back it's going downhill from here guys it's only going up like what's in your pants
47:26when you guys saw us both which one were you hoping to get matched with craig
47:52what are your plans for second date so go for a nice walk and then we can get talking and
48:00get
48:00so yeah but tonight we'll have to crack city likes fishing so many of them oh you're one of those
48:09guys you already got yourself a catch
48:29i think we got the right crew together though you know that i think anyone together you got we are
48:33so
49:02back
49:03i'm very busy i'm very busy very busy try to get something scheduled
49:31you've been
49:37so
49:44so
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