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Married at First Sight Australia - Season 13 - Episode 28
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00:00:00Previously, feedback from their peers...
00:00:03Steve-O needs to put on his captain's hat.
00:00:05...allowed some couples to deepen their connections.
00:00:08There's two ways to a woman's heart.
00:00:11Chocolate or cheese.
00:00:13Only the best for my wife.
00:00:15I'm excited by you taking the lead.
00:00:18It reminds you are appreciated.
00:00:22Want a nacho kiss?
00:00:23Thank you for sending tasks that really understand the dynamic of Stephen and I
00:00:28and what we needed.
00:00:30Probing questions reinforced some were on the same page.
00:00:34Yes, I do see as a father of my children.
00:00:36Once again, Danny avoided direct questions from Beck.
00:00:40Do you think you will fall in love with me and why?
00:00:43I want to be very careful I'll answer this question.
00:00:49Um...
00:00:49Chris and Sam were caught in a tense stalemate.
00:00:52Not getting defensive at all.
00:00:54Even like a little sorry it felt like that way for you, Sam.
00:00:56I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:00:57Yeah, cool.
00:00:57Yeah, I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:00:58Lead with that.
00:01:00And despite Scott's willingness to get fresh perspective...
00:01:04I'm definitely going to take it on board and I hope Gia does too.
00:01:07No thanks.
00:01:08Gia was less than impressed.
00:01:10Hi.
00:01:12We're just going through this.
00:01:13Oh, I want to get out.
00:01:14I love you.
00:01:15As her and Scott pulled off a disappearing act.
00:01:19Tonight.
00:01:20I feel like I have been caught up in the Gia room, Beck.
00:01:24What?
00:01:24It's been toxic from the start.
00:01:26I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:01:29Alissa's reached her limit and is standing her ground.
00:01:33I've had enough.
00:01:34And it's the first time she'll come face to face with Beck after those text messages.
00:01:41The vibe with Alissa was icy cold.
00:01:43It was vile and vicious.
00:01:45Very different vibe tonight, Alissa, doesn't she?
00:01:47Hang on, hang on a minute.
00:01:48Hang on, hang on.
00:01:49Oh, God.
00:01:50Stop using me!
00:01:52Why are you laughing?
00:01:54What bombshell has Sam dropped on Chris right before the dinner party?
00:01:58I'm fuming.
00:01:59I feel uncomfortable.
00:02:00I feel betrayed.
00:02:02I've never had someone do this to me.
00:02:05And then...
00:02:05That needs to stop.
00:02:07That needs to stop.
00:02:08Has Danny reached his breaking point?
00:02:10I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:02:13Two months ago, Danny.
00:02:14Two months ago.
00:02:15I can't believe it was ten years ago.
00:02:27After a week of honest feedback about their relationships,
00:02:31tonight our couples are coming together
00:02:34to reflect and unpack at the sixth dinner party.
00:02:39And after feedback week,
00:02:41Stella and Phillip's relationship is going from strength to strength.
00:02:45Would you like a coffee?
00:02:47Just peppermint tea.
00:02:48Just peppermint tea.
00:02:49Please.
00:02:49A bit of honey.
00:02:50A bit of honey.
00:02:51Yeah, why not?
00:02:51Just spice it up a little bit.
00:02:54Feedback week was amazing, to be honest.
00:02:56Trying to understand each other,
00:02:57and that's definitely deepened our connection.
00:03:00I think feedback week was one of the best weeks.
00:03:03Yeah, it was good.
00:03:03It still really was.
00:03:04It was a good week.
00:03:05Yeah, everything's going great.
00:03:07Ready to rumble?
00:03:09I thoroughly enjoyed it, so hopefully everyone else got much out of it like we did.
00:03:16For Rachel and Stephen, feedback week brought plenty to smile about.
00:03:22I'm actually excited to share with the group, like, what a good week we've had.
00:03:26It was fun.
00:03:27It was flirty.
00:03:28We were really lucky.
00:03:30Yeah.
00:03:31I feel like we've really leant into feedback.
00:03:33Like, Stephen's definitely stepped up.
00:03:35It's time to let Steve-O put his captain hat on and lead for the day.
00:03:41Are you making me a microwave meal?
00:03:43Only the best for my wife.
00:03:47No one makes nachos like me, though, do they?
00:03:51No.
00:03:52And maybe they shouldn't.
00:03:59I like that task.
00:04:01I'd love to do it for more than one day, actually.
00:04:03You know, you'd be waking up, and I'll have my sailor's hat on,
00:04:05and you'd be like, oh, what's this guy up to?
00:04:09Oh, that was exactly what you're up to.
00:04:20After a bizarre disappearing act over the weekend...
00:04:26..Gia and Scott have returned to their apartment.
00:04:33I hated feedback week.
00:04:35I don't know, I just think everything got to me.
00:04:36..and I just wasn't feeling really good, and I wanted to leave.
00:04:40I can see the difference in you with, um,
00:04:43being away from the experiment, like...
00:04:45Yeah, I know.
00:04:46I don't think Gia's good at, um, you know,
00:04:48taking feedback from anyone.
00:04:50So I planned ourselves a nice little weekend getaway,
00:04:53and I feel like it was the best thing we've ever done.
00:04:55I think the weekend away did really well for Scott and I.
00:04:59I feel much better today after our weekend.
00:05:01Yeah.
00:05:02Everything's been reset.
00:05:03I feel like we had a factory reset.
00:05:05And I guess the topics of tonight will probably be...
00:05:08Feedback week.
00:05:10The only issues that Scott and I have in our relationship
00:05:12are that we're in this experiment with people that we don't like.
00:05:15And also, uh, I don't take advice from people doing worse than me either.
00:05:21So, that's the only drama.
00:05:23Whenever these setbacks happen for me and Scott,
00:05:25I think it makes us stronger.
00:05:27Going into this dinner party with a smile on a doll
00:05:30and a spring in our step.
00:05:32Yeah.
00:05:33Moving forward, I just want to focus on Scott and I
00:05:35and have fun with a few people that are here now.
00:05:38Are you ready to hit the road, hit this dinner party, or what?
00:05:41Let's do it.
00:05:44Gia and Scott weren't the only couple
00:05:46who had a difficult feedback week.
00:05:51I...
00:05:52I've been anxious all weekend.
00:05:54Um, you know, I've been holding in some stuff with Chris
00:05:57that I'm not really happy with how, uh, feedback week ended.
00:06:01At the last commitment ceremony,
00:06:03Chris's plan for Sam to move to Sydney took him by surprise.
00:06:08Are you starting to think about life outside the experiment?
00:06:12I think what it would probably look like is he'd go to Sydney.
00:06:14I would stay primarily at the farm
00:06:16and then maybe we can float back and forth for a bit
00:06:18from Sydney to the farm.
00:06:20But when Sam raised the issue with Chris...
00:06:23Oh, that's the first time I heard that plan
00:06:25and it was kind of like you've just, like, made a decision
00:06:27on how this is going.
00:06:28Well, no, actually, no.
00:06:30That's not true.
00:06:31I feel like you're getting really, like, defensive with me now.
00:06:34I'm not getting defensive at all.
00:06:35Well, even, like, a little sorry it felt like that way.
00:06:37I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:06:38OK, cool.
00:06:41That comment was maybe misconstrued or whatever.
00:06:45I'm happy to, like, just, like, move forward from it.
00:06:47Even now, I feel like you're getting defensive.
00:06:49I'm not getting defensive.
00:06:50I'm having a conversation.
00:06:51Leaving things unresolved.
00:06:55I just feel like Chris isn't understanding me.
00:06:58Like, he basically told the experts a plan
00:07:01of how it's going to work after the experiment
00:07:03without consulting me at all.
00:07:04And that just made me feel like I didn't really have a voice
00:07:06and I wasn't being heard
00:07:07and I didn't have much empathy around
00:07:08how this was all going to end.
00:07:10The next day, he tried to turn the whole thing around on me
00:07:13and gaslight me.
00:07:15And the only reason I've held it in
00:07:17is because I just can't feel like I can get through to him by myself.
00:07:21Yeah, going into tonight,
00:07:23I'm feeling really anxious about bringing this up.
00:07:25And the anxiety comes from I don't think
00:07:26it's going to be received well from Chris.
00:07:29I can see Chris cutting me off tonight
00:07:31if I try to talk about it.
00:07:32So I just need that group dynamic to bring it up.
00:07:35But hopefully, with the support of the group,
00:07:37maybe we can get there.
00:07:41Over the weekend,
00:07:43Feedback Week has prompted a change
00:07:45in Bec and Danny's relationship status.
00:07:48What about the fact that I'm not only a wife,
00:07:51but I'm a girlfriend now?
00:07:54Like, it still doesn't make too much sense to me,
00:07:57but whatever we roll with it.
00:08:01Danny and I talked about, you know,
00:08:04are we going to call each other husband and wife after this?
00:08:06And he was like, well, yeah, you're my wife.
00:08:08And I was like,
00:08:09what about the security of actually being your girlfriend?
00:08:12And he was like, will you be my girlfriend?
00:08:14And I was like, do you want me to be?
00:08:16And he said, absolutely.
00:08:18So I'm a girlfriend and a wife.
00:08:21Double parked.
00:08:23I think it's the security of, like,
00:08:25when we leave,
00:08:26we'll still be husband and wife, right?
00:08:29Well, yeah, of course.
00:08:31Yeah.
00:08:31So, but...
00:08:32If I just kind of whip the ring off and be like,
00:08:34right,
00:08:36we're mates.
00:08:38But, um...
00:08:38It's just the security of it, I think.
00:08:40It's nice.
00:08:42Interesting, isn't it?
00:08:43Tonight, I'm walking to a dinner party,
00:08:44not only as a wife in the experiment,
00:08:46but as a girlfriend overall,
00:08:49it proves that, you know,
00:08:50he's got my back.
00:08:51We're ride or die.
00:08:52And this is really serious.
00:08:54It's never been done before.
00:08:56No.
00:08:56There's not a wife who's a girlfriend.
00:08:58Yeah.
00:08:59Well, except from you now.
00:09:01But, yeah.
00:09:02I like it.
00:09:05Well, when a woman's your wife,
00:09:09to go back to being a girlfriend
00:09:10almost seems like you're downgrading.
00:09:13You know, men, a lot of the time,
00:09:14we do things we don't want to do
00:09:16or...
00:09:17Not that I didn't want to do it,
00:09:18I'm not saying that,
00:09:18but we just do things
00:09:20to make these women feel good.
00:09:22So, that's what it was.
00:09:25How are we feeling
00:09:26about going to the dinner party, boo?
00:09:28Feel good.
00:09:28Feel relaxed.
00:09:29I actually feel pretty good as well.
00:09:31Going into this dinner party
00:09:33is probably the least stressed I've been,
00:09:35but then again,
00:09:35that could be a really bad omen.
00:09:37Obviously, like,
00:09:38I've been on apology tours.
00:09:41Like...
00:09:42You've apologised more than OJ Sims.
00:09:44I know I have.
00:09:45It's a...
00:09:46And I'm still apologising now
00:09:48for messages that were wrote
00:09:49two and a half months ago.
00:09:50It's a disaster.
00:09:51Suck it up, champ.
00:09:53If Alyssa, you know,
00:09:54brings it up tonight,
00:09:55then I'm just going to sit
00:09:56as quiet as a field mouse.
00:09:58I'm not going to defend someone
00:09:59who's in the wrong.
00:10:00Yeah, I don't condone bad behaviour,
00:10:03even if it's from my wife,
00:10:04I don't condone it.
00:10:05But this should be the last time,
00:10:07I'd assume.
00:10:08It can't keep coming up.
00:10:09It has to.
00:10:10Yeah, I hope we can get
00:10:12to the end of the sorries.
00:10:13Do you know what I mean?
00:10:14Let's get to the end of them sorries
00:10:16because I didn't come
00:10:17on this experiment
00:10:19to just hear sorry.
00:10:25While Beck and Danny
00:10:26are hoping to move on,
00:10:28little do they know,
00:10:30the texts have since been circulated
00:10:33to the entire group.
00:10:49Yeah, the text messages
00:10:50are pretty bleak.
00:10:54Very descriptive, polarising.
00:10:57It was so long ago.
00:10:58It was two months ago
00:10:59that I wrote this message
00:11:00when I was furious
00:11:01after I'd gotten off the phone
00:11:03to Gia and Scott,
00:11:04being told that Alyssa and David
00:11:07were saying that Daniel's not into you,
00:11:10you're in a fake relationship,
00:11:12you're this, that and the other,
00:11:12and I was like,
00:11:13f*** you, you know?
00:11:14Regardless if it was six,
00:11:16eight, ten weeks ago.
00:11:17A month ago, two months ago.
00:11:19You still sent it,
00:11:21you still said it,
00:11:22and what you said
00:11:23was really, really horrible.
00:11:27Gia did this on purpose.
00:11:29She's taken the worst of me,
00:11:32right?
00:11:33And left the worst of her out of it.
00:11:38Gia's sitting there scot-free,
00:11:39but actually...
00:11:44..she's venomous.
00:11:46I wrote that message, right?
00:11:48I was angry.
00:11:49I did it.
00:11:49At the end of the day,
00:11:51she's hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:53Gia, you're hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:58Oh, here we go again.
00:12:00Obviously, I'm feeling pretty hurt still
00:12:02from reading the messages
00:12:03that were sent to me.
00:12:06I don't even want to use the words
00:12:08and the language
00:12:08because it's completely foul.
00:12:11And, yeah, I feel like
00:12:13it really needs to be addressed.
00:12:17Bec, I read the receipts.
00:12:19You said those things
00:12:21about David and I.
00:12:23Why?
00:12:24Like, what sparked that fuel
00:12:26and how does something so hatred
00:12:28come out of your mouth?
00:12:29I'm going to call it out.
00:12:31100%, and you should...
00:12:32You don't deserve to be treated
00:12:33the way they've treated you.
00:12:35Since the beginning of the experiment,
00:12:38Alyssa and David have been the target
00:12:40of unwanted scrutiny.
00:12:42Because I will say,
00:12:43I think it's a fake showmance.
00:12:45100% agree.
00:12:46I'm sorry, got to agree.
00:12:48Alyssa came under fire
00:12:50at every opportunity.
00:12:53Excuse me, that's not nice.
00:12:55Alyssa, shut up.
00:12:57Shut up, Alyssa,
00:12:59you ratchet idiot.
00:13:01So, ultimately, girls...
00:13:03But ultimately, I wanted to be fake
00:13:05as usual.
00:13:07And nowhere was safe.
00:13:10We've literally been staying up
00:13:11for late hours just talking.
00:13:13Sounds like an infomercial.
00:13:15Selling hair products.
00:13:17Desperately 3am on your TV.
00:13:20Even when it got too much
00:13:22for Alyssa...
00:13:23I care about what people think.
00:13:25I care about people's feelings.
00:13:27You know?
00:13:28I don't want to have
00:13:29this conflict.
00:13:31The blows kept coming.
00:13:35There's a bit of chatter
00:13:36around Adelaide
00:13:39about Beck trying to actually
00:13:41dig shit up on Alyssa.
00:13:45Are you talking to people
00:13:46in Adelaide, like,
00:13:48about Alyssa?
00:13:49No.
00:13:51You're not digging up information?
00:13:53No.
00:13:53Not at all.
00:13:55With the texting drama
00:13:56being the latest
00:13:57in a long line of attacks.
00:13:59Why do you think
00:14:01people are coming after you?
00:14:03Ask them.
00:14:05I don't know.
00:14:07I don't know.
00:14:12I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:14:14You know?
00:14:15And be that
00:14:15horn in the middle.
00:14:17I don't care what's
00:14:18going to happen
00:14:19between Beck and Gia.
00:14:20You have to speak your truth
00:14:22and I know you will.
00:14:23Going into tonight,
00:14:25we've got each other's backs.
00:14:26Boys.
00:14:27I have never said
00:14:28a bad word
00:14:29about anyone.
00:14:31So,
00:14:32I'm not going to
00:14:33tolerate it anymore.
00:14:34Enough is enough.
00:14:35The behaviour
00:14:36needs to be addressed.
00:14:39Tonight,
00:14:40I am done.
00:14:42I just
00:14:43had enough.
00:14:44Had enough.
00:14:57Today is a good day.
00:14:58Walking to a dinner party.
00:15:00We're reset.
00:15:01We're refreshed.
00:15:03Vibes are high.
00:15:05And...
00:15:07Hold for sorry.
00:15:07Don't know about that.
00:15:10You told me.
00:15:20Dinner party number six.
00:15:21Now,
00:15:22they're coming off
00:15:22feedback week,
00:15:23which is always
00:15:23a pivotal part
00:15:24of the experiment.
00:15:25How does that make you feel
00:15:26knowing that someone loves you?
00:15:28It's good.
00:15:30It's some giggling.
00:15:33They all have
00:15:34pretty much
00:15:35a front row seat
00:15:36to each other's relationships.
00:15:38They're so intertwined by now.
00:15:39So,
00:15:39it'll be really interesting
00:15:40to see
00:15:41how they've
00:15:42taken on the feedback
00:15:43from the other people
00:15:44in the experiment.
00:15:48I think everyone's
00:15:49going to kind of discuss
00:15:50what letters they got,
00:15:51how their date went.
00:15:52Danny,
00:15:52it might be like,
00:15:53why didn't you turn up
00:15:54to the date?
00:15:54And I'll be like,
00:15:54because you're a wanker.
00:15:57Give me your hands.
00:16:02Oh,
00:16:02that was so smelly.
00:16:04It was so cute.
00:16:05Couples are starting
00:16:06to talk about
00:16:07beyond the experiment,
00:16:08which brings up
00:16:09even more.
00:16:10And I think
00:16:10it's a good time
00:16:11to be having
00:16:12those conversations
00:16:13before they go
00:16:13into home states
00:16:14so they can really
00:16:15prepare themselves
00:16:16to ask that question.
00:16:17Is this relationship
00:16:19going to survive
00:16:19outside the experiment?
00:16:20You look like
00:16:21an absolute queen today.
00:16:23And that's the highlight
00:16:24of my night already.
00:16:26And we haven't even
00:16:26started the dinner party.
00:16:29Hopefully,
00:16:30I can get a,
00:16:31you know,
00:16:32a couple bites
00:16:33of food down before
00:16:35someone raises
00:16:35their glass
00:16:36and ding,
00:16:37ding, ding, ding.
00:16:38I've got something
00:16:39to say.
00:16:43Let's go, babe.
00:16:44Oh, it's busy in here.
00:16:46Vic and Danny.
00:16:48How good does my wife look?
00:16:50Give everyone a 12.
00:16:52Not that there's
00:16:53no one in it, ever.
00:16:54Looking fancy
00:16:54and looking very together
00:16:55and very comfortable.
00:16:57Yes.
00:17:00Thanks, baby.
00:17:02I'll have a little one
00:17:03with you.
00:17:03Okay.
00:17:04That's cute.
00:17:04Not the tension
00:17:05that we saw
00:17:06from these two last week
00:17:07walking into that
00:17:08cocktail party.
00:17:09At least we're coming
00:17:10into this dinner party
00:17:12in such a good spot.
00:17:13Hmm.
00:17:14You didn't run away?
00:17:15I didn't run away.
00:17:15I always show up.
00:17:16You always show up, babe.
00:17:18Unlike Gia.
00:17:19I mean...
00:17:21Big news this week is
00:17:22you're now my wife
00:17:24and my girlfriend.
00:17:27Any wonder
00:17:28Bec's looking so happy
00:17:29and relaxed.
00:17:30She got a whole lot
00:17:32of validation.
00:17:34Danny asking me
00:17:35to be his girlfriend
00:17:35definitely gives me
00:17:36reassurance.
00:17:37It just feels like
00:17:39it's not just the experiment,
00:17:40but it's real life
00:17:41and it's really important.
00:17:44Is it important to you
00:17:45or not?
00:17:46I'm not going to lie.
00:17:46Not that important
00:17:47because, like,
00:17:48I take this experiment
00:17:49seriously anyway.
00:17:50Yeah.
00:17:50So, like,
00:17:51when we got married,
00:17:53getting married on national TV
00:17:54is about as serious
00:17:54as it gets.
00:17:55Do you know what you mean?
00:17:56So, I was just like...
00:17:57But, yeah.
00:17:58If it's important to you,
00:17:59it's important to me.
00:17:59That's right.
00:18:00It's one of them ones.
00:18:01That's right.
00:18:02I'm just not looking forward
00:18:03to having to, um...
00:18:06deal with the text messages.
00:18:08Well, one text message
00:18:09that I sent from two months ago
00:18:11to a group of women
00:18:12that I thought were my friends
00:18:13that I've obviously seen
00:18:14that aren't.
00:18:16Bec shouldn't have
00:18:16sent the messages.
00:18:17I've said that to her.
00:18:19It's hard for me
00:18:20to defend her.
00:18:21As a husband,
00:18:22it puts me in a bad situation
00:18:24because I feel like
00:18:25I'm letting her down
00:18:26when I don't defend her,
00:18:27but it's also
00:18:28I don't condone that behaviour
00:18:29so I don't want to defend her.
00:18:31I have all these text messages
00:18:33that Gia's written
00:18:33about these people,
00:18:34but I wouldn't stoop
00:18:35to that level
00:18:35of sending them out to people
00:18:37because as much as Gia annoys me,
00:18:40I don't want to hurt
00:18:40all these other people
00:18:41that she's talked about.
00:18:43Gia's come to war with me.
00:18:45Like, she just needs to stop.
00:18:48I'm sick of it.
00:18:50Hey!
00:18:52Hey!
00:18:53Oh, look at you!
00:18:55Oh, Stella and Phillip.
00:18:57Here we go.
00:18:58Another happy, confident entrant.
00:19:00Yes.
00:19:01Great to see.
00:19:03You guys had a good week?
00:19:04Yes, we did.
00:19:05Yeah, we had a good week.
00:19:06It was probably
00:19:06one of the best weeks,
00:19:07to be fair.
00:19:08They've seen.
00:19:10Oh!
00:19:11Hey!
00:19:12Hello.
00:19:14Rachel and Steve.
00:19:16Keeping out of trouble?
00:19:17Trying to.
00:19:18Nah, I'm keeping out of trouble.
00:19:20Oh, you're good.
00:19:20Nah, I'm screwing with you guys.
00:19:21Nah, it's been good.
00:19:22Hold the chat.
00:19:25I didn't just become a wife.
00:19:27I'm now a girlfriend.
00:19:28Oh!
00:19:31Okay.
00:19:32Okay.
00:19:34Cheers, God.
00:19:35Oh, and it's empty class.
00:19:36But, like, cheers.
00:19:37Okay.
00:19:37Cheers to that.
00:19:38Congratulations.
00:19:39That's cute AF.
00:19:41Excuse me.
00:19:41You didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:43I did.
00:19:44You didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:45Yes, yes, I did.
00:19:45And what did you tell me?
00:19:46What?
00:19:47Well, we're not going backwards.
00:19:48Okay, yeah.
00:19:49Okay.
00:19:49Hey, yeah.
00:19:50Yeah.
00:19:51Yeah.
00:19:52Yeah.
00:20:00We're proud of you showing up tonight.
00:20:02We're just there to show that you are a strong person and not because you need to tear other
00:20:07people down.
00:20:09I've never done that.
00:20:10We've always been kind and I don't understand the why.
00:20:15I just want some clarity.
00:20:17Yeah.
00:20:17I think we all deserve that clarity.
00:20:19We just need some clarity and just to put it to bed for once for all.
00:20:35Oh, Alyssa and David, all smiles.
00:20:39They're very cute.
00:20:40Always so affectionate.
00:20:42Love the blue liner on your eyes.
00:20:44They're so sexy.
00:20:50I saw Bec and I'm always kind.
00:20:53I'm going to say hello.
00:20:54I'm going to give her a hug.
00:20:57You look like JLo.
00:20:58Yeah.
00:20:59Oh, I see too much of the blue.
00:21:01But inside, I'm like, oh, this person has stabbed me so hard in the back.
00:21:09I've seen the messages.
00:21:12How vicious and how hurtful they were.
00:21:17I don't know what's going on here, but I'm not playing a game anymore.
00:21:23So, I feel like there is a lot to be said.
00:21:27How was your week?
00:21:30It was...
00:21:33It was an interesting week.
00:21:35I feel like it was a big one.
00:21:36It was a big one.
00:21:37Yeah.
00:21:39She has a very different vibe tonight, Alyssa, doesn't she?
00:21:42She's quiet.
00:21:43She seems inside her head.
00:21:44Yes.
00:21:46I don't know.
00:21:47Unless she has an issue with Bec because of the texts that have gone on in the past.
00:21:51True.
00:21:53So, do you feel like...
00:21:55Because can I...
00:21:56I don't want to talk about it right now.
00:21:58We'll talk about it at the dinner table.
00:22:01The vibe with Alyssa is icy.
00:22:03It's icy cold.
00:22:05She's been quite cold in a sense that she didn't even want to speak to me.
00:22:09Can I tell you guys something?
00:22:11My husband didn't get to do the task where he met with someone.
00:22:15I met with David.
00:22:16He didn't get to do it.
00:22:18Gia refused to and he was quite upset about it.
00:22:21Bec had a lot to say about Gia.
00:22:24And I'm thinking, do I pull out the screenshots?
00:22:28She's probably going to say, Alyssa, that was like four, five weeks ago.
00:22:32It doesn't matter.
00:22:35Regardless of if it was four weeks ago or yesterday, it doesn't matter.
00:22:39Take some accountability for your f***ing bad behaviour.
00:22:45We're not friends, girl.
00:23:35We're not friends, girl.
00:23:45Just a heads up, I'm not super happy with how things ended last week.
00:23:50And the only reason I haven't spoken about it is because I didn't feel like I was getting through to
00:23:53you just by myself.
00:23:54And I feel like I need some people around to give us both an outside perspective on the situation.
00:24:00Is this in relation to the comment that I said to Mel?
00:24:03Is that, that's what I brought up, but it's the whole defensiveness from that?
00:24:10I just don't feel like you're hearing me and I don't feel like you're genuine with your apology.
00:24:15I don't feel like you really understand what you've done wrong.
00:24:19And I've tried to explain it, but we're just, there's not, I'm just not.
00:24:22I'm fuming.
00:24:28I'm angry because my husband and my partner has just dropped a bombshell on me five minutes before entering a
00:24:37social gathering.
00:24:38Make it seem like I don't leave a space that's safe for you to come up and feed back for
00:24:43me.
00:24:43And that's basically like the definition of gaslighting is turning the situation around to me.
00:24:49I feel uncomfortable.
00:24:50I feel betrayed.
00:24:54I'm anxious and nauseous because I f***ing hate standing up for myself like this.
00:24:58I thought this was all over, so this is all new to me.
00:25:02I had no idea what was going on and I could feel the awkwardness yesterday when I got home and...
00:25:08I'm afraid.
00:25:09Now we're walking to a dinner party and getting everyone involved.
00:25:11I just got called a gaslighter and got told that my apologies weren't genuine.
00:25:16I've never had someone do this to me.
00:25:42Oh.
00:25:44Oh.
00:25:45Oh.
00:25:46Very distant walk-in.
00:25:48Chris and Sam, very separate.
00:25:50Why are they not holding hands?
00:25:52I've never seen this from them.
00:25:55Hello, my man.
00:25:57Sam and Chris, we just look like two mates walking in, to be honest, or not even good mates.
00:26:02Hi, honey.
00:26:04That was frosty.
00:26:05It looked disconnected, disinterested.
00:26:09It was shocking, to be honest.
00:26:12This is new.
00:26:14Something's happened.
00:26:16Oh, babe, yucky.
00:26:17Yuck.
00:26:18What's going on, babe?
00:26:20Um, where do I start?
00:26:22Um, I'm sure he wants to do it in this forum, so you'll hear all about it.
00:26:25I just got told five minutes before entering the dinner party by Sam that he will be bringing
00:26:31up in front of the whole group that my four apologies weren't genuine enough on the back
00:26:35end of calling me a gaslighter.
00:26:36So I've just walked into the dinner party, hoping to have some drinks with my friends and catch
00:26:40up with everyone and he has, um, just dropped a bomb on me in the car, like five minutes
00:26:45before walking in the door.
00:26:46Like, amazing.
00:26:49How you been, mate?
00:26:51It's been a rough week, man.
00:26:52You look flat as a pancake.
00:26:54What's up?
00:26:57Um, so basically, sitting on the commitment ceremony, Mel asked, like, what's the plan
00:27:01after the experiment?
00:27:02And Chris, like, said, well, Sam's going to move to Sydney and then you can do this, move
00:27:05there, move that.
00:27:06Like, this is how it's all going to work.
00:27:07We had never discussed a plan.
00:27:09Oh, really?
00:27:10At all?
00:27:10At all?
00:27:11At all?
00:27:11At all?
00:27:11At all?
00:27:13At all?
00:27:13At all?
00:27:13At all?
00:27:13By watching it, I just assumed you'd had them conversations.
00:27:15Yeah, so we hadn't.
00:27:16And at the end of the day, it's fine.
00:27:17Like, he might have been excited or whatever, but then in feedback week, I, like, just wanted
00:27:21to say, I just wanted to say to him, like, hey, man, like, when you made the plan
00:27:27of, like, how it's already made, and he just goes, that's not what I said.
00:27:30What I said was, like, dismissing, shutting you down.
00:27:32Do you get quite aggressive?
00:27:34That conversation went awfully.
00:27:35Then, basically, I was like, he's like, what do you want me to do?
00:27:39I was like, can you just say sorry?
00:27:40Like, the apology just comes with defensiveness.
00:27:43Like, he apologised in the same voice that he was defensive.
00:27:46Yeah.
00:27:46Like, it's like, it's not genuine.
00:27:47I don't feel it.
00:27:48Yeah.
00:27:49And he's just so defensive with me today as well.
00:27:51And I'm like, all I'm trying to do is be heard.
00:27:53And, like, he's upset that I've spoken up.
00:27:55Yeah.
00:27:57That's not okay.
00:27:58Balcony.
00:27:58Yeah.
00:27:59Yeah.
00:28:01Hi!
00:28:02Hi!
00:28:04Lucky loss.
00:28:06Ah, and here's Gia and Scott.
00:28:08We didn't know if we wanted to come, you know?
00:28:10Nice for Gia to show up tonight, do you know what I mean?
00:28:13She's got one of them robes, what Harry Potter has,
00:28:16where she goes invisible from time to time.
00:28:18How are you?
00:28:19How are you, mate?
00:28:19Good, mate.
00:28:20Good to see you.
00:28:21How are you going?
00:28:21Yeah, how are you going?
00:28:22How are you?
00:28:23Surprising to see Gia and Scott actually hugging Beck and Danny.
00:28:27Particularly Scott, who made it very clear that he didn't want to have anything to
00:28:31do with Beck.
00:28:32Oh, thank you.
00:28:33Oh, you look nice.
00:28:34You look beautiful.
00:28:37Oh, look at your men.
00:28:37You guys look duffer.
00:28:39Danny, how are you?
00:28:40Good to see you.
00:28:41You too.
00:28:41Hello.
00:28:42Hello.
00:28:43Good to see you.
00:29:01Hi, babe.
00:29:02Hi.
00:29:03Love you.
00:29:03We got separated.
00:29:04What?
00:29:05Yeah, hold it.
00:29:05It's on.
00:29:06It's on.
00:29:06Do you want to grab a drink?
00:29:07Yeah.
00:29:07Yeah.
00:29:08I was so happy to see Chris.
00:29:09I knew he'd been stressing.
00:29:11The way he ran, it was like, he needs to talk to his girl.
00:29:14We were in the car on the way over, and we have not spoken all day.
00:29:17It's been awkward as f***.
00:29:18And then in the car, he called me a gaslighter.
00:29:23I never really liked Sam from the minute I saw him.
00:29:27Sam doesn't play his cards how his cards really are.
00:29:32He's waited until tonight to do this.
00:29:35This is a, like, this will happen last week.
00:29:37Yeah.
00:29:38Very calculated.
00:29:39Very super calculated and cruel.
00:29:40But I'm going to back myself.
00:29:42I'm not apologising again.
00:29:43I've apologised four f***ing times.
00:29:45How much more can you do?
00:29:47Yeah.
00:29:47It's just, it's childish.
00:29:50You want to play games like a little boy?
00:29:53Sorry.
00:29:54No, you're not doing that to Chris.
00:29:56Obviously, he's going to have, like, back on his side, so...
00:29:58Well, yeah, it's him.
00:29:59Yeah.
00:29:59Yeah.
00:30:01So, us versus them?
00:30:02That's right.
00:30:03Mmm.
00:30:06Dinner is served.
00:30:13All right.
00:30:14Bon appétit.
00:30:16Oh, the table's compressed.
00:30:18I think tonight we're going to see some of the consequences of that feedback week playing out.
00:30:25And with a small amount of couples left in the experiment, the dinner parties become much more intimate.
00:30:29Yes.
00:30:30You're very much a part of all of the drama that unfolds.
00:30:36It's a lot easier to have one conversation in the group rather than a variety of them going on at
00:30:41the same time.
00:30:42It puts a lot of pressure on what they actually choose to talk about.
00:30:59Wow.
00:31:00The red one is you on that stage of so group.
00:31:15Oh, there's a tension in there, isn't there?
00:31:18There is tension.
00:31:24It was very awkward at the start of the dinner party.
00:31:30There were crickets.
00:31:31I could hear them.
00:31:32I was sitting, cutting my steak, and I could hear...
00:31:36I'm looking at Beck, and I already know what she said about me and my husband behind my back.
00:31:43Obviously, Gia's hurt me too, but nothing can top the screenshots of the messages that Beck said about David and
00:31:50I.
00:31:54Have you been, Alyssa? Are you OK?
00:31:57I've had enough of this yaya, these individual conversations and sweeping shit under the rug.
00:32:02I feel like it all needs to be brought to light, and I feel like the other couples need to
00:32:06know as well.
00:32:06So, if everybody wants to listen in, so there were, obviously, some receipts from the last commitment ceremony
00:32:18that Juliet received from Gia.
00:32:26And after that commitment ceremony, Juliet was like, Alyssa, I really need you to see these messages.
00:32:32Um, and I guess reading those messages brought up a lot of hurt.
00:32:37Because, you know, this happened weeks ago.
00:32:41This happened, like, four or five weeks ago.
00:32:44Five weeks ago.
00:32:46Two months ago.
00:32:47I've got some dates on there.
00:32:48Two months ago.
00:32:50Yeah, anyway, whatever.
00:32:51But it doesn't matter, babe.
00:32:52Like, it doesn't matter because they were the most vicious, vulgar.
00:32:58Yeah.
00:32:58I would never say that to someone in real life, let alone in a message.
00:33:04Like, people at this table don't even know that I was called a rat.
00:33:10Ooh.
00:33:10My husband's a rat.
00:33:17My head is so far up my ass and how much of a I am.
00:33:24Ugh.
00:33:29Um, and we're licking .
00:33:34Oh, no.
00:33:45They were the most vicious, vulgar.
00:33:49Yeah.
00:33:49I would never say that to someone in real life, let alone in a message.
00:33:55Like, people at this table don't even know that I was called a rat.
00:34:02My husband's a rat.
00:34:05My head is so far up my arse and how much of a I am.
00:34:12We're licking .
00:34:16Oh, no.
00:34:18Why, why, why would you do that?
00:34:22Why would you do that?
00:34:24Really vile language.
00:34:27That's really destructive.
00:34:29Incredibly disappointing.
00:34:32Gia played a part in them as well, but what came out of your mouth?
00:34:35I'm telling you, I was in tears.
00:34:37It was vile and vicious, babe.
00:34:39I've seen repetitive behaviour, not just with me, but with other people at this table where you've come at them.
00:34:44And I'm just like...
00:34:45Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:34:46Like, there's been hurt, babe.
00:34:47Hang on, hang on a minute.
00:34:47Hang on, hang on, hang on.
00:34:48Alyssa, I don't think you can say that the people at this dinner table...
00:34:52I know, but everybody's been affected by your behaviour, babe.
00:34:54Hang on, wait.
00:34:54I'm sorry.
00:34:55Everyone at this table at some point has been affected by your behaviour.
00:35:01And I know that you're saying sorry.
00:35:03And I know that you've said sorry, but I'm saying right now...
00:35:06Listen to me for one second.
00:35:11I feel like Alyssa was really trying to hold her own, but Bec keeps talking over the top of her.
00:35:17We saw it at retreat with me.
00:35:19It's just really frustrating.
00:35:22I understand what you're saying.
00:35:24I'm just trying to have one...
00:35:25Like, just let me have a piece.
00:35:26I understand what you're saying, right?
00:35:29I agree that the messages that I wrote were unacceptable.
00:35:33They were disgusting.
00:35:34And they were disgusting.
00:35:35Yeah.
00:35:36The reality of the situation is that you've seen snippets, right?
00:35:40Snippets.
00:35:40Well, then what else is there?
00:35:41But I'm not going to do that.
00:35:43There is no excuse for what I wrote.
00:35:46I am sorry to you for what I wrote about you.
00:35:49Would I ever say that to your face?
00:35:51Never.
00:35:51Did I?
00:35:52Do I think that?
00:35:53No.
00:35:54Definitely not.
00:35:56Bec controls conversation.
00:35:57Bec controls the narrative.
00:35:59I could just feel this beside me being like,
00:36:01accept some accountability and stop deflecting to everyone else.
00:36:06Is it okay?
00:36:07No.
00:36:10But I'm not going to send you the messages everyone else has said about you
00:36:14to hurt you to get to her, because that makes me just as bad.
00:36:21She isn't able to take on any sort of accountability for her actions.
00:36:29This is what Bec does.
00:36:31Yeah.
00:36:31She is wrong and tries to think of anyone else who's involved that she can then blame for
00:36:38her actions.
00:36:39We have a war, right?
00:36:41But Gia sent them to Juliet and Juliet's going to shit on everyone.
00:36:45And what that's done is hurt you two when you guys don't deserve to be hurt.
00:36:50You don't have to trust me.
00:36:52You don't have to believe me.
00:36:54But I am apologetic to both of you sincerely.
00:37:00Bec wanted to do what she always does, which is sweep things under the carpet.
00:37:06But the important thing is Alyssa stood up for herself.
00:37:10In the real world, if you read messages like that, you'd never go back.
00:37:13You'd never trust that person.
00:37:14You'd cut them off.
00:37:15Obviously, because of this experiment, we're faced with the fact we have to still be cordial.
00:37:20But you understand how, like, in the real world, there's no coming back.
00:37:24There's no...
00:37:24You can't trust someone and be friends with.
00:37:27Those text messages were vile.
00:37:30And I don't think anyone would ever accommodate for people in their lives that talk about them
00:37:37like that at any period of time.
00:37:41I know that you've said sorry, but this shit is...
00:37:48I just want to stay out of it.
00:37:50This could have exploded, escalated and got very hostile.
00:37:54It's interesting that Alyssa, she's essentially stayed at a conversational tone
00:38:00and this has not escalated at all.
00:38:02Yeah.
00:38:03It's very mature of her.
00:38:06It's just noise.
00:38:07I've heard this before.
00:38:09Beck and I have tried to work on our relationship.
00:38:14And I'm sorry, but I think I've given her way too many chances.
00:38:20I'm here for my husband.
00:38:22You know, I'm so lucky that I have David.
00:38:26Ultimately, like, I'm just going to put her to bed.
00:38:30I'm pretty disgusted in the behaviour.
00:38:33And I'm not here for mean girl shit.
00:38:40Coming up...
00:38:41Coming up...
00:38:41I have to change my whole life to fit into your life.
00:38:45Do I get any say in how this is going to work at all?
00:38:49And Beck's behaviour takes its toll on Danny.
00:38:56I just want you to be wary about what you say.
00:39:00I'm very wary.
00:39:01I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:39:14You too...
00:39:16You too...
00:39:18Look at Stella and Philip.
00:39:20So much love.
00:39:25So just in sync.
00:39:27Oh, yeah, mate.
00:39:28No, you made my face.
00:39:29Oh, yeah, damn.
00:39:32So relaxed.
00:39:33A lot of swag.
00:39:34Yes.
00:39:35And so together.
00:39:39Philip and Stella, we haven't heard about, like, your feedback week.
00:39:43Like, what's going on?
00:39:45We'd just come up for a really good week and it was awesome.
00:39:48We had good probing questions.
00:39:51And, yeah, we were just going back and forth.
00:39:53It was almost like the honeymoon box.
00:39:55They were really good probing questions.
00:39:57But, yeah, it was a good...
00:39:58It's a great week.
00:39:59I'm excited.
00:40:02Clearly, some couples have actually embraced the feedback
00:40:07and have got closer together.
00:40:08But for others, it's just absolutely unravelled them.
00:40:17Can I just say something?
00:40:20Chris and I are going through something that's actually internal.
00:40:24I can't get to a conclusion with just the two of us
00:40:27and that's why I kind of wanted to bring that up tonight
00:40:29so if we could get that sort of...
00:40:30Yeah, let's do it.
00:40:31Yeah, let's start out of the way.
00:40:32All right.
00:40:33If you don't mind, I'm going to kick it off.
00:40:35Obviously, my energy is not great tonight.
00:40:37This is not my usual vibe.
00:40:38You know that.
00:40:40I'm going to just give you a bit of background on what happened.
00:40:42Sam and I had an issue mid-last week,
00:40:44which I thought we had squashed.
00:40:46On the drive over here, Sam mentioned to me
00:40:50that he wanted to bring this issue up
00:40:51in front of the whole group.
00:40:53And then on the back end of that...
00:40:55Why? Why did I want to...
00:40:56Can I just please talk?
00:40:59And the back end of that insinuated that I was a gaslighter.
00:41:05A gaslighter is a very strong word to throw around,
00:41:09so obviously my energy is f***ing off.
00:41:11I feel like I've been thrown under the bus.
00:41:14So I'm going to let Sam speak and I'll hear him
00:41:16and then you can get my version of the events.
00:41:25Basically, when Mel asked us on the couch last week,
00:41:29like, what's the plan after this?
00:41:31She said, what does life look outside the experiment?
00:41:34OK, can I talk?
00:41:35Sure.
00:41:40Um, and Chris said, well, the best way it could work
00:41:43is, like, Sam can move to Sydney.
00:41:47But the thing is, is, like, Chris and I
00:41:50had never, ever discussed a plan
00:41:52of how it was going to work outside the experiment.
00:41:58So then to hear him say to Mel, like,
00:42:00this is how the plan was going to work,
00:42:01I'm like, do I get any say in how this is going to work at all?
00:42:07Feedback week, I thought, would be a really good time
00:42:09for me to bring this up.
00:42:11So we're sitting on the couch and I say,
00:42:13Chris, when you said this to Mel,
00:42:15I just felt like I didn't have a voice
00:42:16and he cut me off and he goes, I didn't say that.
00:42:18You could have spoken up.
00:42:19You had every opportunity to speak just as much as I did.
00:42:22And then I said, I wish there was just more empathy
00:42:24around the fact that I have to change my whole life
00:42:28to fit into your life.
00:42:31I was like, could you say you're sorry?
00:42:32And he goes, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I hate your feelings.
00:42:34I'm sorry, like, I'm sorry, I hate your feelings.
00:42:39I haven't had a genuine apology.
00:42:41And when I try and bring it up,
00:42:43I'm just met with defensiveness
00:42:44and I feel like right now my feelings
00:42:46have been shut down about it.
00:42:48There's no recognition, no acknowledgement
00:42:50of the other's experience.
00:42:54And unfortunately, like,
00:42:55this wasn't the first time I've witnessed you shutting me down,
00:42:58but it's the first time that I've spoken up about it.
00:43:02And me speaking up about it has just caused you to, like, hate me
00:43:06and just be, like, off me.
00:43:08And I just don't understand what I've done wrong.
00:43:12Hate?
00:43:13See, they're in a terrible way, aren't they?
00:43:17OK, let me talk.
00:43:19My turn.
00:43:21Hand on heart, I apologised three times
00:43:23and I said, I'm so sorry, I did not mean to make you feel that way.
00:43:27I then apologised two more times.
00:43:29He thinks it wasn't genuine.
00:43:30I'm telling you, it was.
00:43:32Why I'm so off Sam
00:43:33is because he's chosen to do it in this forum
00:43:36in front of everybody.
00:43:37He's thrown this at me ten minutes prior
00:43:39to entering the dinner party
00:43:40on the back end of calling me a gaslighter.
00:43:42Sometimes, yes, I am fiery.
00:43:44Sometimes I do get defensive.
00:43:45But there's got to be some point
00:43:46where I've got to back myself.
00:43:48For him to throw me under the bus...
00:43:50Do you think he's throwing you under the bus, though?
00:43:53I feel like this could have been done in a different way.
00:43:55I would have preferred to do it privately.
00:43:57We tried that.
00:43:59We speak to the experts in front of the whole group every week
00:44:02to help our relationships.
00:44:03I think where Sam was trying to speak to you
00:44:05was in front of the whole group
00:44:07because he felt like he wasn't getting nowhere.
00:44:12So I think he thought if he had the group involved,
00:44:15he could get some opinions
00:44:16and it could help your relationship.
00:44:18Chris, if you give a genuine apology...
00:44:20I get that, Sam.
00:44:21I am genuinely sorry that I hurt your feelings.
00:44:24I did not want to put pressure on you.
00:44:26Why are you laughing?
00:44:36Sam was trying to speak to you in front of the whole group
00:44:39because he felt like he wasn't getting nowhere.
00:44:42So I think he thought if he had the group involved,
00:44:44he could get some opinions
00:44:45and it could help your relationship.
00:44:46Chris, if you give a genuine apology...
00:44:48I get that, Sam.
00:44:49I am genuinely sorry that I hurt your feelings.
00:44:52I did not want to put pressure on you.
00:44:55Why are you laughing?
00:44:58Because I asked you to do this this morning...
00:44:59No, I'm doing it again.
00:45:01I'm doing it right now.
00:45:02This is what you wanted.
00:45:02You want it in front of the group
00:45:03and you won't even let me finish the apology.
00:45:06Watching Sam and Chris,
00:45:09they're both valid in what they're saying.
00:45:11They're both valid in their feelings.
00:45:13They're both hurting.
00:45:17I was actually very surprised to hear
00:45:19how Chris was talking about things,
00:45:21how Sam was talking about things.
00:45:23To see them behaving in that manner,
00:45:25it's a shame.
00:45:26A week ago, I was like,
00:45:28Sam and Chris are super strong.
00:45:30But now, I think the boys are in real trouble.
00:45:34I am genuinely sorry that I hurt your feelings
00:45:37and I put pressure on you.
00:45:38That was not my intention.
00:45:39I'm sorry that I was defensive.
00:45:41I just feel like there's got to be a point
00:45:43where I apologise three times
00:45:45and then again the next morning.
00:45:46That's the first time you apologise for being defensive.
00:45:50They're in real, real dire straits, you know, these two.
00:45:56But what it has done
00:45:57is it's opened up their issues in their relationship
00:46:00that we can actually target
00:46:02at the next commitment ceremony.
00:46:06It just shows how powerful emotional tone is
00:46:10when couples are trying to deal with conflict and repair.
00:46:16It's like a dagger to the heart.
00:46:18I feel like my heart's been stabbed.
00:46:21I've done so much to be in this experiment
00:46:23to find love and a husband
00:46:25and to have this argument
00:46:27over the authenticity of my sorries,
00:46:30which were five,
00:46:31and then be laughed at in the face.
00:46:32It's a f***ing joke.
00:46:36OK, how about...
00:46:37Hey, how about a positive note?
00:46:40That was feedback week for you guys.
00:46:41Yeah, look, feedback week was really good for Stephen and I.
00:46:45Positive.
00:46:46Personally, I feel that way.
00:46:47I hope Stephen feels the same way.
00:46:50But, yeah, it's been good.
00:46:53Alyssa, love the catch-up.
00:46:56We had lots of fun and everything.
00:46:58A bit of advice from Alyssa
00:47:00that I really took on board
00:47:01was to be a little bit more masculine
00:47:03and bring some leadership
00:47:06into the relationship,
00:47:07which I'm definitely going to put
00:47:10my captain's undies on and hat
00:47:12and, you know, lead.
00:47:16Captain undies!
00:47:17And what else did I tell you, babe?
00:47:25Oh, do I have to mention that?
00:47:26No.
00:47:27Well, do you know what?
00:47:27No, because I respect Rachel as my bestie.
00:47:30And we're not going down that road.
00:47:32On that topic,
00:47:34I'm probably going to say this right now
00:47:35in front of everyone,
00:47:37that I feel like me and Rachel's sex life
00:47:40has been in the spotlight
00:47:41for way too bloody long.
00:47:46Now, yeah, we've had our troubles
00:47:48and we're getting closer,
00:47:51like, intimately, right?
00:47:52However, now it's gotten to the point
00:47:55when I get close to Rachel,
00:47:57if Rachel gets close to me,
00:47:58we've got this thought
00:47:59in the back of our mind now.
00:48:01It's starting to get to the point now,
00:48:03like, are we doing this,
00:48:05you know, because we want to
00:48:07and it's a passionate moment
00:48:08or are we doing this
00:48:09because we're getting told to
00:48:10and there's pressure on it?
00:48:12Because I feel like
00:48:13there's so much pressure on,
00:48:14can you two have sex already?
00:48:16Do you need to have sex already?
00:48:17So, on that note,
00:48:19we've heard everyone loud and clear
00:48:21when the moment comes.
00:48:23You all know.
00:48:24We'll set fireworks off
00:48:25from the balcony, all right?
00:48:27All right.
00:48:29Good on you, Steve-o.
00:48:30This is the first time
00:48:31that I've seen him taking, like,
00:48:33a stance about the relationship,
00:48:35kind of taking the lead.
00:48:36You guys are taking steps forward, hey?
00:48:39Yeah.
00:48:40When it comes to our sex life,
00:48:43they can say what they bloody want.
00:48:46I'm not here for the drama,
00:48:49not here for anything else besides Rachel, so...
00:48:53And on the last night of our feedback week,
00:48:55we had nachos
00:48:56and watched a fishing video on YouTube.
00:48:59Oh, my God, it's wild!
00:49:06Can I...
00:49:07Gia, can I ask you...
00:49:09Obviously, we was meant to have a meeting
00:49:11or whatever you want to call it,
00:49:12but...
00:49:14What was the reason, just out of interest,
00:49:16why did you not show up?
00:49:19Because we had a really tough week
00:49:22in our relationship, to be honest,
00:49:23and I was packing my bags,
00:49:25trying to leave up between the ceremony.
00:49:25She tried to leave,
00:49:26and it's the whole week,
00:49:27so it's a snowball, not just you,
00:49:28it's everything, the tasks.
00:49:28It was really hard.
00:49:29Like, it was just really hard.
00:49:30I feel like anything's been coming at us,
00:49:31so she wanted to leave,
00:49:32and she tried to leave,
00:49:32and I didn't let her...
00:49:33He was like, no, you can't.
00:49:37Hmm.
00:49:39In my mindset,
00:49:40it was to go into it
00:49:41and really talk positive.
00:49:43I actually don't have no negative feedback
00:49:45between yours and Scott's relationship.
00:49:46I think Scott's been really honourable,
00:49:48how he's, like,
00:49:49took your daughter on board
00:49:50and stuff like that.
00:49:51I think you guys have got a good relationship,
00:49:52you back each other.
00:49:54I've only got blokes in my life, really.
00:49:57Yeah.
00:49:57of, like, my mum and everyone's back home,
00:50:00so, like, it would have been nice
00:50:01to get some advice from a woman
00:50:02in the experiment for, like, a third party.
00:50:05Danny is a liar.
00:50:07He's full of shit.
00:50:08It would have been probably a screaming match.
00:50:10We would have been arguing.
00:50:11Do I need to be doing that right now?
00:50:12No.
00:50:13Like, it was just a bad week,
00:50:14and I think I couldn't personally
00:50:16take any more at that point
00:50:17because I was like,
00:50:18like, I'm damned if I do,
00:50:19damned if I don't.
00:50:20If I go and me and Danny argue,
00:50:21I'm going to look terrible.
00:50:27Maybe just next time,
00:50:29like, try and look at it more positively
00:50:30because I wouldn't have come at you
00:50:31with no disrespect.
00:50:32No, and honestly,
00:50:32it wasn't that it was like,
00:50:34oh, my God, it's Danny.
00:50:35F*** that.
00:50:35It was like,
00:50:36we had a really tough week
00:50:38in our relationship, to be honest.
00:50:41She didn't turn up to speak to Danny
00:50:42because, you know, she lied about Danny
00:50:44when you said that my husband
00:50:46wants to be with you.
00:50:47I think Gia cares about Gia
00:50:50and taking people out.
00:50:52You're the one sending screenshots to people
00:50:54and throwing people under the bus
00:50:56and being vicious and manipulative.
00:50:58So we had the commitment ceremony.
00:51:00Juliet was yelling.
00:51:01I don't know if you guys...
00:51:02Yeah, we heard.
00:51:03We heard.
00:51:04So over her and her fake two-facedness,
00:51:12what was the reason for sending
00:51:14the messages to Juliet
00:51:16because you don't know Juliet,
00:51:19you don't trust Juliet,
00:51:20but you've sent messages to her
00:51:23about Alyssa and David,
00:51:25but was the point to take me down?
00:51:27Like, is that the point?
00:51:28Was that the point?
00:51:33Well, you tried to take me down,
00:51:35so I gave it back to you.
00:51:37Oh, God.
00:51:48What was the reason for sending
00:51:50the messages to Juliet
00:51:52because you don't know Juliet,
00:51:55you don't trust Juliet,
00:51:56but you've sent messages to her
00:51:59about Alyssa and David,
00:52:01but was the point to take me down?
00:52:03Like, is that the point?
00:52:04Was that the point?
00:52:09Well, you tried to take me down,
00:52:11so I gave it back to you.
00:52:13Oh, God.
00:52:16I'm still feeding that dynamic
00:52:19that we've been trying to call out
00:52:21for weeks now.
00:52:23How?
00:52:23How?
00:52:24How did I try and take...
00:52:28Stop using me!
00:52:30Stop using me as a porn!
00:52:32I don't know what the f*** is going on here,
00:52:34but I'm not playing a game anymore.
00:52:38Do you have your own bag?
00:52:39They can just hate each other forever.
00:52:41Ultimately, my main focus is David.
00:52:43I want to give my husband my everything
00:52:45and I don't want to get caught up
00:52:46in the ah-yah anymore.
00:52:49Once again,
00:52:50Alyssa is the collateral damage
00:52:53in other people's fights.
00:52:56And it's so unfortunate
00:52:57because it really is
00:52:59generating distress in other couples.
00:53:01Yes.
00:53:02I don't want to engage anymore.
00:53:03I'm actually done with this conversation.
00:53:05How did I try and take you down?
00:53:07I can't do any more drama, Bec.
00:53:08It's going to go around and around
00:53:09and I'm not doing it.
00:53:10Thank you so much.
00:53:18I just needed to know
00:53:20whether or not the whole point
00:53:22was to take me down.
00:53:23That's all I wanted to know.
00:53:24Yes, it was
00:53:25because you girls
00:53:26ultimately
00:53:27throw each other under the bus
00:53:29every f***ing time
00:53:30and you use it.
00:53:31Do you know what?
00:53:32Do you know that's even worse?
00:53:33What's worse
00:53:34is your collateral damage
00:53:35for a war.
00:53:39Which is f***ing...
00:53:40That needs to stop.
00:53:41That needs to stop.
00:53:42Well, well,
00:53:44direct it that way.
00:53:46More drama.
00:53:49I don't know how to feel about it.
00:53:51My feelings are strong for Bec.
00:53:53I care about Bec a lot.
00:53:55Sometimes I feel
00:53:56that I'm more focused
00:53:57with drama
00:53:58than it is on our relationship.
00:54:01I just wanted to know
00:54:02if the whole point
00:54:03was to throw me under the bus
00:54:04and you guys are collateral.
00:54:05I just had to ask the question.
00:54:06That was it.
00:54:07That's all I needed to know.
00:54:14I feel like Bec and Deer
00:54:16are out for, like,
00:54:16top dog spot
00:54:17and I'm sorry,
00:54:18there is no top dog here.
00:54:20Let's remember why we're here.
00:54:21To meet a match.
00:54:23To have the opportunity
00:54:24to find love.
00:54:25So, if you're more busy
00:54:27about, like,
00:54:28sending shitty messages
00:54:29about people,
00:54:30sending out screenshots
00:54:31and, like,
00:54:32oh, you said this
00:54:33and you said this,
00:54:34meh, meh.
00:54:35Then why are you here?
00:54:50Hi, Barry.
00:54:51Jeff, are you here?
00:54:51Yeah.
00:54:52Are we OK?
00:54:53What's going on?
00:54:53Is this all...
00:54:54Yeah.
00:54:55Are you sure?
00:54:57I'm sick of the drama,
00:54:58but I came here
00:54:59to focus on a relationship
00:55:01and stuff.
00:55:02At a dinner party,
00:55:03there's drama.
00:55:04Yeah, obviously,
00:55:05a bit ashamed of Bec,
00:55:07to be honest.
00:55:07I'm not going to lie.
00:55:08I'm not going to candy-coat it.
00:55:10Um, frustrated
00:55:11because I know
00:55:12that's not how Bec is
00:55:13as a person.
00:55:14How would you feel
00:55:16in the same situation
00:55:17if every week,
00:55:19every single week,
00:55:20you were coming
00:55:21to a dinner party
00:55:21and there was something else?
00:55:23I don't care how long
00:55:24of that was
00:55:24or what the circumstances is.
00:55:26I don't really care
00:55:27what would you expect.
00:55:28How would you feel
00:55:28in the same situation?
00:55:30Please answer the question.
00:55:31Yeah, of course.
00:55:32It would be frustrating.
00:55:33OK.
00:55:33And that's all.
00:55:34I'm fine.
00:55:35We're in an experiment, babe.
00:55:36100%.
00:55:36With vicious, vicious vipers around.
00:55:38Do you think
00:55:39that this is what life is
00:55:40outside of this experiment?
00:55:42I didn't come here for drama.
00:55:44I came here for love.
00:55:46I want to talk about
00:55:47how can I become
00:55:48a better partner
00:55:49and a better husband.
00:55:50I feel like sometimes
00:55:51all I do is talk about drama.
00:55:53I'm just saying,
00:55:54from my point of view,
00:55:55I need help
00:55:57as a man
00:55:58with our relationship.
00:55:59I struggle with a lot
00:56:00of these things.
00:56:00You know that.
00:56:01That's why I came on
00:56:02this experiment,
00:56:03because I've failed
00:56:03in the real world.
00:56:04But I'd rather get
00:56:05these dinner parties
00:56:06towards positive things
00:56:07and not drama.
00:56:08That's not where
00:56:09I'm from as well.
00:56:12Oh, no.
00:56:14This is a troubling sign,
00:56:16isn't it?
00:56:16That Danny
00:56:16has started
00:56:18to second guess
00:56:20his commitment
00:56:20to Beck.
00:56:21Mm.
00:56:22And these text messages,
00:56:24while he knew
00:56:25they were out there,
00:56:26they've come up again
00:56:26and he's really now
00:56:29retreating.
00:56:29Yep.
00:56:31I don't know
00:56:32why you're getting
00:56:32in the chat.
00:56:33I'm just saying,
00:56:34my peers...
00:56:35You're also right
00:56:35or die and you're...
00:56:36I am right or die.
00:56:37You're throwing me
00:56:38under the bar.
00:56:39I'm not throwing you
00:56:40under the bus.
00:56:40I'm not throwing you
00:56:41under the bus.
00:56:41I'm right or die.
00:56:42You're throwing out
00:56:43of the retreat.
00:56:44You're throwing out
00:56:44of the retreat.
00:56:46Beck and Danny's
00:56:47relationship has been
00:56:48so much stronger
00:56:49the past few weeks.
00:56:50So to see this now
00:56:51at this point
00:56:52in the process
00:56:54is very discouraging.
00:56:56Because I want us
00:56:56to have a really
00:56:57good relationship.
00:56:58We have a really good...
00:56:59We do.
00:56:59Daniel, do not sit here.
00:57:00Do not sit here.
00:57:01I didn't say we did.
00:57:02Just relax.
00:57:03Do not sit here.
00:57:04Don't be sassy.
00:57:05Don't sit here and say,
00:57:07I want us to have
00:57:08a good relationship.
00:57:10But we don't
00:57:11because of drama.
00:57:12Did I say we don't?
00:57:13No, I just want you
00:57:14to be wary about what you say.
00:57:15Did I say we don't?
00:57:17No.
00:57:17I said I want us
00:57:18to have a good relationship.
00:57:19I just want you to be wary
00:57:19about what you say.
00:57:20I'm very wary.
00:57:22I want you to be wary
00:57:23about what you text people.
00:57:26Sure, two months ago, Daniel.
00:57:27Two months ago.
00:57:28It was ten years ago.
00:57:31I'm done.
00:57:32I've got to go.
00:57:35Has no one ever
00:57:36f***ed up before?
00:57:37We've been talking about this
00:57:37for nearly two months.
00:57:40I can't.
00:57:43Oh.
00:57:55Don't sit here and say,
00:57:57I want us to have
00:57:58a good relationship.
00:58:00But we don't
00:58:00because of drama.
00:58:01It didn't cut it.
00:58:02Did I say we don't?
00:58:03I want us to have
00:58:04a good relationship.
00:58:05You have to be wary
00:58:05about what you say.
00:58:07I'm very wary.
00:58:08I want you to be wary
00:58:09about what you text people.
00:58:11Sure, two months ago, Daniel.
00:58:12Two months ago.
00:58:14ten years ago.
00:58:17Oh, man.
00:58:18I'm done.
00:58:19I've got to go.
00:58:31Oh.
00:58:33I'm done.
00:58:34I'm not going back in.
00:58:36I'm done.
00:58:37I want out now.
00:58:39I'm done.
00:58:44I'm not going back
00:58:46into that dinner party.
00:58:48I want some join down here.
00:58:49Let's go to the couch
00:58:50for a sec.
00:58:53I want out.
00:58:54Take me downstairs.
00:58:56I want out.
00:58:57Get me out of here.
00:58:59F*** you, mate.
00:59:02How are you feeling?
00:59:05I feel like I'm wasting my time
00:59:08at a dinner party
00:59:09talking about abusive text messages
00:59:11that are sent.
00:59:12I came here to work
00:59:13on my relationship
00:59:15and to try and be
00:59:16a good husband and stuff
00:59:17and it's like I can't
00:59:18voice my opinion
00:59:18because then she says
00:59:19I'm throwing her under the bus.
00:59:23He says,
00:59:24oh, we're ride or die.
00:59:24We're ride or die.
00:59:25We're not.
00:59:26We're not ride or die.
00:59:29We're not ride or die.
00:59:31This is not okay.
00:59:33Every single week
00:59:35I come to these dinner parties.
00:59:37Every single week.
00:59:38And it's,
00:59:39this has happened.
00:59:40This has happened.
00:59:41Do you have said this to you?
00:59:42It's like,
00:59:43I don't care no more.
00:59:45I'm here for a wife
00:59:46and a relationship.
00:59:47I'm not here for drama.
00:59:50Do not,
00:59:51do not
00:59:52sit there in front of everyone
00:59:53and not show solidarity to me
00:59:55because I've had to
00:59:57apologise to someone.
01:00:02Pretend.
01:00:03Just pretend
01:00:04for the sake of
01:00:05me.
01:00:07F*** pretend
01:00:08for two minutes.
01:00:12Sunday night.
01:00:14It's the second last
01:00:15commitment ceremony.
01:00:17You ask a question of like,
01:00:18all right,
01:00:19if we go outside
01:00:19of the experiment,
01:00:20how quick would you expect
01:00:21like a proposal?
01:00:23I say the sooner the better.
01:00:24Wow.
01:00:24And some
01:00:25are already locking in
01:00:27plans for married life
01:00:28outside of the experiment.
01:00:30My man is leaving
01:00:31and he is actually
01:00:32starting to show me
01:00:33what my life here
01:00:34in Sydney
01:00:35could look like.
01:00:36And then.
01:00:37So last week
01:00:38you said that
01:00:39the noise from
01:00:40the group
01:00:41and around Gia
01:00:42doesn't affect
01:00:43your relationship.
01:00:44Do you still believe that?
01:00:46Will Scott speak up
01:00:48and confess how he feels
01:00:50in front of Gia?
01:00:51I will admit like.
01:00:56The question,
01:00:57what was it like?
01:00:58It was a bit.
01:00:59Could you see yourself
01:00:59falling in love with me?
01:01:01Why is Danny
01:01:02dodging the question?
01:01:05Um.
01:01:07Well.
01:01:10In one of the most
01:01:12confronting couch
01:01:13sessions ever seen.
01:01:15It's a pretty
01:01:16black and white question.
01:01:20Before the blind side
01:01:25that will leave
01:01:26the room
01:01:27speechless.
01:01:29I just can't believe it.
01:01:32And now,
01:01:34the fallout
01:01:35after the dinner party
01:01:36only on Stan.
01:01:38I just can't believe it.
01:01:38I just can't believe it.
01:01:41I just can't believe it.
01:01:42I just can't believe it.
01:01:43I just can't believe it.
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