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90 Day- The Single Life S05E13
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00:01Previously on The Single Life.
00:03Cheers, mate.
00:04Cheers, mate.
00:06Wayne is everything I hoped for.
00:08Are you dating now?
00:09No.
00:09Really?
00:10No.
00:10But the real test will be tomorrow when I introduce him
00:14to Jamal.
00:15I really, really hope that he gives Wayne a chance.
00:18Best date ever.
00:21Let me touch it.
00:24Oh, wow.
00:25OK.
00:26I feel like being in the DR is what I'm supposed to be doing.
00:29Like, there's so many good-looking guys here.
00:31I just want to have fun and experience
00:33being single in my 20s.
00:39I love you, Courtney.
00:40Oh, my god.
00:41I don't want to party again.
00:42I think I was trying for, like, a month.
00:44This man has no shame.
00:47I am never going to give him another chance.
00:52New adventures begin.
00:54I'm halfway through my girl's trip to Europe.
00:56Here we go, Ibiza, bitches.
00:59And last night, Tony started blowing up my phone.
01:02Why is there a need to party every night?
01:04Every time we're apart, you blow up.
01:06And this is not OK.
01:17I'm not a lawyer, but I could fake it.
01:21Yeah, I can act it out.
01:24Got to get all the gravy.
01:28That's where the real flavor is.
01:31I'm not a hater.
01:33But let me show you how.
01:35It doesn't matter the way you are.
01:43I'm here still in Orlando.
01:45I've been here for about two months now.
01:47I got a surgery on my leg to fix my five fractures around my knee and my broken femur.
01:56But the good news is, I can walk.
02:08I can walk.
02:10I can walk.
02:11I can walk again.
02:15You have no idea how useful these things are until you don't have them anymore.
02:22Yeah.
02:24I need to stay in Orlando for the next few months to do follow-up appointments with my doctor
02:29and to do physical therapy.
02:31Hello, Philip.
02:32Hi, Colt.
02:33How are you feeling?
02:33How's the leg?
02:34A little better every day.
02:37Thankfully, I've met Philip, a very kind and older gentleman that has decided to let me
02:42live with him as I recover from my surgery.
02:45He's divorced and he has older kids, so he has a spare bedroom.
02:49You look like you're doing much better.
02:51It's nice to regain some of that mobility.
02:53I'll do this one for you.
02:55Appreciate it.
02:57You know, Philip, you're the best.
02:58I really appreciate everything.
02:59You know, you've been very kind to me and with everything, you know.
03:03It's been our pleasure.
03:05You got any plans for later?
03:07Yes.
03:08Courtney and I are going to dinner and then we're going to go play pickleball.
03:13Yep, Philip is Courtney's new 66-year-old boyfriend and I'm living with him.
03:20Bet you didn't see that one coming.
03:22Well, you know, if you need another guest, want some company.
03:27We're going to go to pickleball afterwards and it's kind of a romantic night for us tonight.
03:31I understand that.
03:32It's good you want to woo your woman.
03:35They met at a bar and started dating about two months ago.
03:38She decided to move in pretty quickly and she invited me to move in too.
03:42It's kind of a weird three's company, a menage a knot.
03:47Where is Courtney anyway?
03:49She's out with her friends right now. She'll be back soon.
03:52Courtney and I are a good match because she likes to be romanced.
03:56I like romancing her.
03:57I agreed to let Colt move into the house because Courtney felt responsible for him getting injured.
04:05And I didn't like Courtney going to help him in these nasty hotels.
04:09And I was worried that he would be trying to get back with her all the time.
04:14The best solution was for him to be here and then I would know what's going on all the time.
04:19You know, I was thinking maybe I could get a cat, you know, a little kitten.
04:24I feel kind of lonely.
04:26I believe Courtney's allergic to cats.
04:28Shoot.
04:29We'll get you a cat as a housewarming gift when you move.
04:34I'm going to do my physiotherapy.
04:37Okay, enjoy.
04:39I don't mind helping Colt out, but it does put a big strain on our relationship.
04:43We don't have much privacy.
04:45We don't sit in our own living room because it's right outside his bedroom door.
04:49It's been a while and I think it's time for him to move on.
04:53Courtney and Phillip have a little untraditional relationship.
04:57I think it's best classified as a sugar daddy and a sugar baby.
05:04I don't know.
05:06Who am I to say?
05:07I wish them the best.
05:15I've got the news.
05:16I speak the truth.
05:19I'm like a mystic coming through to you.
05:22Hello, governor.
05:24Good morning.
05:24Hi.
05:25How are you?
05:26Good, how are you?
05:27Long time no see.
05:28I know.
05:28I haven't seen you since yesterday.
05:29How was yesterday?
05:30It was fabulous.
05:31Yeah?
05:32Yeah.
05:32It's everything I thought it would be.
05:34Yeah?
05:34Yeah.
05:44You're gonna open the door for me?
05:46That's the least I can do.
05:47Thank you, governor.
05:48Hello, sir.
05:53You're gonna like him, I think, tomorrow.
05:56I won't kiss him in front of you or anything.
05:58I don't care.
06:00Yesterday was my first date with Wayne, and it went really well.
06:04Like, the conversation didn't stop.
06:05I found out he's not dating anybody, so, whew, on that one.
06:10The vibe was good and very natural, and I felt very safe, you know?
06:15That's good.
06:16Sounds like he's a good guy.
06:18So far.
06:19Today, Jamal and I are meeting Wayne at a blacksmith workshop.
06:23At first, I was like, are we gonna put horseshoes on horses?
06:26Because isn't that what they do?
06:28But when Wayne explained that there were no horses involved,
06:31and this is like a popular date thing in England,
06:33I was like, okay, I can do this.
06:36I think we're here.
06:37Yes, sir.
06:38There he is.
06:42Thank you so much.
06:44Mr. Wayne.
06:45How you doing?
06:45What's up, man?
06:46You all right?
06:47Nice to meet you.
06:48Yeah, nice to meet you, too.
06:48How are you?
06:50Yeah, I'm good, thank you.
06:51Hi, how are you?
06:52Yeah, I'm good.
06:53How are you?
06:54Good to see you.
06:55You look warmer today.
06:56How are you warmer today?
06:57My mom told me you had a good day yesterday.
06:59Yeah, yeah.
07:00It's been really nice here.
07:00I appreciate it.
07:01Really good, brilliant day.
07:02And the flowers.
07:03I honestly might have to take some lessons from you, dude.
07:06I need to learn a little bit.
07:07I'll give you some blacksmith lessons.
07:08Yeah, let's do it.
07:09Come on, then.
07:09Let's have a look.
07:10I don't know what to expect.
07:13I don't know what to expect.
07:20Walking into this blacksmith workshop, I'm like, did I step back in time?
07:25Like, where am I?
07:26Has anyone done any blacksmithing before?
07:28Never.
07:29I've seen it on TV.
07:30Hidden metal.
07:31A little bit, yeah?
07:31Yeah, yeah.
07:32Come, gather this way.
07:34They have these big ovens and all these big, like, medieval tools and everything.
07:39And it's really cool.
07:40I didn't even know people still made things like this, like, from scratch.
07:44Today, we're going to be making coat hooks.
07:46Oh, it's like a couple's hook.
07:48Like a his and hers.
07:49Yeah, exactly, yeah.
07:50So you'll each make your own coat hook, hopefully.
07:53I don't know if mine will turn out that nice, but we'll try.
07:55No, I believe in you, it will.
07:57Yeah.
07:58So first, what we want to do is we want to put our steel flat in the fire.
08:07Ah, it's yellow.
08:09Okay.
08:09Oh, God.
08:15Wayne is surprisingly good at this blacksmithing thing.
08:18I think it's kind of hot.
08:19I like a man who works.
08:21I kind of like that fire.
08:27Oh, doing it.
08:32Ah, it looks good.
08:33What's up with yours?
08:35I'm done.
08:36You're done?
08:36Yeah.
08:37Yours looks more like a toothpick.
08:39Yeah.
08:39It's a wand.
08:40It's great.
08:41You're like Harry Potter now.
08:43Yeah.
08:44I don't think Jamal is into this, but I'm having a great time.
08:48You got to yell, strike.
08:50Strike.
08:51Oh.
08:55Jamal, what are you doing?
08:56Did you not enjoy that?
08:58It was great.
08:59I just, I don't know.
09:00I got bored.
09:00I was lonely.
09:01It wasn't ready for you, was it?
09:02This is what we've made.
09:03Oh, I can definitely tell Wayne made this one.
09:06I made that one.
09:07Oh, what?
09:08He made this one.
09:09I like this one.
09:09Yeah, this one's better.
09:10If his scroll is better, that looks like a weapon.
09:13I don't think you'll be able to take that on the plane.
09:15Do you want it?
09:16Yeah, I can use it for picking my fire.
09:17Fire figure.
09:18I know I didn't pick the best activity for you.
09:20What?
09:21Tonight, hopefully you'll come to the pub.
09:23Yeah, I love a pub, dude.
09:24Yeah.
09:24I have a pint.
09:25You'll get to meet my two daughters as well.
09:27Oh, yeah.
09:27Your daughters become an asshole.
09:28We'll make it a little family affair.
09:30That'd be cute.
09:31Yeah.
09:31Yeah.
09:32I think at heart I'm just not a blacksmith, but Wayne seems like a really nice guy.
09:37That was so much fun.
09:38Hey, thank you, man.
09:39Pleasure.
09:39I'll see you later.
09:40Yeah, see you later.
09:41I definitely like seeing my mom with someone close to her age than someone closer to my
09:44age.
09:45See ya.
09:46Okay.
09:47I'll see you later.
09:48He's not someone I'm going to call bro, you know?
09:50It's great.
09:53See you later.
09:53I love it.
09:54See you, Jamal.
09:55That was so cool.
09:58So, what did you think of Mr. Wayne?
10:00Wayne's great, man.
10:01You like him?
10:02Yeah, he gives really good vibes so far.
10:04He does.
10:04I just feel really happy when I'm around him, like very peaceful, you know?
10:07Yeah.
10:09I still have to tell him a few things if we decide we're going to be in a relationship,
10:13you know?
10:14Mm-hmm.
10:14About the kids and stuff.
10:19Yeah.
10:20I mean, not tonight with his daughters around.
10:22I think it has to be a me and him conversation, you know?
10:24Well, I'm not going to lie about anything.
10:26I'm just letting you know that now.
10:28I didn't ask what?
10:29Well, if they ask, like, how was it growing up and only child?
10:32Oh, do you wish you had siblings?
10:34What do you want me to say?
10:35I really didn't think they would ask you something like that.
10:38But, I mean, if they ask it, I'm not going to just, like, blurt it out.
10:42I think it's a conversation I need to have with Wayne first.
10:45Well, I'm not going to lie.
10:46I'm just going to look at you, and if you lie to him, that's on you.
10:49I don't want to say it with his daughters there.
10:51Well, if I was in your shoes, I would have already told him.
10:56Honestly, I'm getting really frustrated that my mom's getting so defensive
10:59about this truth of my siblings.
11:01She just needs to tell everyone it's time.
11:04I just met him yesterday for the first time.
11:06You met him.
11:06You know that.
11:07You've been talking to him for months.
11:08Well, you can't.
11:08It's not something you say over the phone, Jamal.
11:12If people cannot accept the fact that my mom has other children,
11:17then they should not be in her life at all.
11:20You're upset, and it's like...
11:21It does upset me because I didn't...
11:22Well, bro, you have the kids.
11:24But you don't have to be a dick about it, though.
11:26I'm like, you're the one that's having an attitude.
11:27Oh, Jamal, stop it.
11:29Well, bro, stop it.
11:29It's so difficult.
11:30Stop it.
11:30You're getting all worked up when this is all on you.
11:36I came here with every intention of telling Wayne
11:38once we're in a relationship.
11:40But I have to handle things my own way.
11:43And now I'm really scared
11:45because when we meet Wayne and his daughters tonight,
11:47how do I know Jamal's not going to try to slide this
11:49into the conversation?
11:52I'm always the bad guy.
11:53No matter what I do, I'm always the bad guy.
11:55No, I'm calling you a bad guy.
11:57Stop projecting.
11:58Jesus Christ.
12:15I've been seeing Vanya in almost three weeks
12:18since she left for the vacation.
12:20Can't miss that.
12:22We've had little issues during our travels,
12:24and I want to make sure that we're just over
12:26some of the issues that we had before.
12:27So definitely excited, but a little bit still on edge.
12:44Oh, my God.
12:46It's crazy.
12:48Finally, finally, finally.
12:51Oh, my God.
12:53Oh, my God.
12:53I missed you too much.
12:55I missed you too much.
12:56Yeah, I'm done.
12:57Mmm.
12:58After our big blow-up argument on a video call,
13:02I was devastated.
13:04But Tony reached out, and he apologized.
13:08He just got very emotional because he missed me.
13:11He said that he was out of line,
13:13and I saw a total shift in Tony's behavior.
13:17Going forward after that, things between us have been great.
13:21My baby.
13:22I'm so glad I'm back, and I get to touch you,
13:25and feel you, and kiss you.
13:29I think I thought that the trip would just kind of
13:31just go by quickly and did it.
13:34And I just realized that, you know, I'm lucky to have you.
13:37I'm blessed to have you around me all the time.
13:39And like, yeah, there's going to be times
13:40where we're not going to be together all the time.
13:42Like, you know.
13:43Yeah, I think it's important for us to trust each other,
13:45and we should be able to live our life and just communicate
13:48and be open and not hold things back.
13:51I think that's the key here.
13:53I just really think we're in a better place, you know?
13:55And I missed you too.
13:57As much as I hated the fact that Tony and I argued
14:00on this trip, he really cares about our relationship.
14:03And I think Tony realizes that he's just scared
14:06of being abandoned.
14:07He gets affected easily by anything
14:10that he might perceive as threatening our relationship,
14:12and he reacts because he feels uncomfortable.
14:15And that's not what's happening here.
14:17Home sweet home.
14:19Absolutely.
14:20I feel like everywhere I went,
14:22every museum I walked into, every meal I had,
14:25it just, everything reminded me of him.
14:26And it just really made me realize how much I care for him
14:30and how excited I am to come back home to him.
14:33Two and a half weeks has been too much, too long.
14:36So did it make you realize even more how much you love me?
14:39This just makes the heart grow fonder.
14:41Going away on this trip,
14:43it made me realize how sad I am without you,
14:46how you occupy all of my thoughts.
14:48And I think we are at a stage where we feel comfortable
14:50with each other, we feel safe,
14:52and we feel such crazy strong love for one another.
14:56So I think it's only natural
14:58that things progress to the next level.
15:03Absolutely.
15:04If you're comfortable,
15:05we can start to advance to other things
15:08and, you know, not just enjoy movies together.
15:12Yeah.
15:16So should we take this to the bedroom?
15:29I'm just going to go freshen up real quick, okay?
15:32Okay. Do you need any help?
15:35I don't need any help.
15:37I'll be right back.
15:39I haven't been physical with a man in a very long time.
15:42What if we're not compatible?
15:44What if it sucks?
15:45What if it's a deal breaker for him?
15:47I mean, that's why I'm essentially celibate all the time
15:50because it could change so much in a relationship
15:54and it's a little scary.
16:19But I'm willing to take that risk with Tony
16:22because these cupcakes have been in the oven long enough.
16:24They're ready to be frosted.
16:27I'm waiting for the day to make me yours.
16:31Just waiting till the time that you'll be mine.
16:35What is this?
16:37Welcome to High Abode.
16:38We had a long trip.
16:39I think you should lay down.
16:42Oh my goodness.
16:43This is the best homecoming ever.
16:46Me as well.
16:53You look so beautiful, babe.
16:55Thank you, honey.
16:55You really are.
16:56I'm so lucky.
17:04You are excited to see me come home.
17:22I think we want to do the pretzel bites with beer cheese.
17:25Of course.
17:25No problem.
17:25I got you guys.
17:28Which courts are we going to?
17:30Court five.
17:31Save that for later.
17:33Everything I want.
17:35That is you, babe.
17:37Tell me when to jump.
17:39And I'll do it.
17:40I can't let it go.
17:42And I'll prove it.
17:43I wanted the light.
17:48I'm ready.
17:56Woo!
17:58So Phil is my new boyfriend.
18:00We met about a month ago at a bar.
18:03He's 66 years old.
18:05He's been married a few times.
18:07He has four kids in their 30s.
18:09And then he has two granddaughters.
18:12You have to do your pickleball dance.
18:15So after Colt, I started listening to relationship advice.
18:19And this lady said, girl, you need a man that's older.
18:23Like, that has cataracts.
18:25That needs to pull out his little reading glasses.
18:28So he's not able to see a girl from across the bar.
18:30He's, like, so in love and worships you.
18:33And that's how I feel with Phil.
18:34Like, he opens the door for me.
18:36He pays for a date.
18:38Like, that is sexy.
18:40I think we gotta hit it harder.
18:42Excuse me?
18:43I got your stuff right over here.
18:44Oh, thank you so much.
18:45No problem.
18:46And sex is great with Phillip.
18:48He doesn't need any medication.
18:50If I'm like, hey, do you wanna do it?
18:51He's like, yep, I'm ready to go.
18:54I love date night.
18:55I love date night, too.
18:56Aw.
18:57I got it all over your lips.
19:06Guess who tried to crash tonight?
19:08I'll give you three guesses.
19:10Colt?
19:11Yeah.
19:13Yeah, the living arrangement, it's not the best situation.
19:18But I was tired of transporting him every week to a new motel.
19:23I think Colt has a thing for you still.
19:25Babe, you do not have to be jealous of me.
19:29I don't trust him.
19:31Do you trust me?
19:33Of course I trust you.
19:34Then don't worry about him.
19:36He's asking me these questions I have to answer.
19:38Okay, then tell him, like, none of your business.
19:40I'm never going back to him.
19:42Me and Colt had discussions.
19:44I would assume he knows there's boundaries,
19:46like living in my boyfriend's house.
19:48But I think Phillip has valid reasons to be leery of Colt
19:52because he is a snake.
19:55I just want him to be able to walk around so he could be out of our lives.
19:59And I don't want this guilt hanging over me.
20:02I've seen him walk.
20:03He's doing pretty good.
20:04You think he's just pretending?
20:07I think he wants to be with you.
20:10He's a snake.
20:11No, I think that too.
20:13We need to get him out of our home.
20:16I just don't want him to feel like we're kicking him to the curb.
20:19It's time to make him a little uncomfortable.
20:23I already kicked Colt out of my house once.
20:26And I'd hate to do it again.
20:28But I don't want to jeopardize my new relationship with Phillip
20:30by prioritizing Colt.
20:32But then at the same time, it's like, you need help.
20:35How are you going to do this without me?
20:37Like, I don't know.
20:40Did you think it was going to be this long?
20:42I mean, he has nobody else to take care of him.
20:49It's time for us to have this conversation with him.
20:51Let's just talk to him, see where he's at, see how things are going.
20:55We've met your obligations.
20:57Time for him to move on.
21:02When I was 20, I got a woman pregnant.
21:05I did get married because I thought every child is a father figure
21:07and a mother figure as well.
21:09Wayne might think, oh, she has two children that she placed for adoption.
21:13She's the most selfish person on earth.
21:28Bro, what the ?
21:31What's up, Papa?
21:33You look miserable.
21:37I set it on fire, fire, fire.
21:45What's going on?
21:47It's a lot, bro.
21:48I've just been kind of stinking all day.
22:04My whole situation with Liz, everything felt right.
22:07I feel like we connected so well.
22:09And then we talked yesterday.
22:12She asked somebody back home.
22:18What?
22:18Yup.
22:19Yup.
22:25Yup.
22:26You look sad.
22:28I know.
22:29Bro, you feel it felt for her.
22:31Yeah.
22:33What you want to do?
22:34That situation back at her home, you know, it doesn't,
22:38that has nothing to do with me.
22:42If you thinking there is a chance, fight for it.
22:49What about you?
22:50What's going on, man?
22:52Yesterday, meet Sophie.
22:53We had a conversation.
22:54I asked him what she wanted to do.
22:56Said we had some fun tonight.
23:00She told me she had another plan, bro.
23:02What was she doing?
23:04She told me she had a freaking date with someone else, man.
23:07She wanted a date with somebody else?
23:10And they got me so pissed, bro.
23:13So pissed.
23:16I've been patient, giving to her whatever she asked for.
23:22They feel that she really like me.
23:24I don't know what she wants, man.
23:27But I know what I want.
23:29Yeah, I know what you want.
23:30I want somebody that can be with me.
23:33They can talk to me, you know, can be there for me.
23:35Yeah.
23:37I spent the last 24 hours to try to calm down,
23:41but I can't let it go.
23:43I feel completely, completely betrayed.
23:47But I don't want to let her go, because I know inside of her
23:52she has something very special.
23:53I need time to reflect if I want to spend the rent
23:57on the street trying to get things better,
23:59or I go my own way.
24:02I really like her, but I don't have time to play around, bro.
24:09You can save it now, cause I'm gone.
24:12Here we are.
24:13You finally realize you're wrong.
24:16And it's too late now, you won't see
24:21Everything you want me to be
24:23Before we go in, I'm sorry that I yelled at you in the car.
24:26I'm really sorry about that.
24:27It's just I do get really defensive.
24:28I can't help that.
24:30It's all good.
24:31I'm sorry, though, but I love you.
24:33And I'm really anxious about me and his daughters.
24:35I just want to have a good time.
24:36Let's go take a shot, get a drink, show up.
24:38Well, you can take a shot.
24:39Let's show up. All right.
24:40All right.
24:40I've got so much left to say.
24:44I'll take my words and walk away.
24:47There's only so many sorries that I've been saying
24:50Before you took my words and walk away.
24:54Lady of the hour.
24:55How are you?
24:56You all right?
24:56Yeah, I'm fine.
24:57Hiya.
24:58Good.
24:58Hiya, Jamal. You all right?
24:59Good to see you again.
25:00Yeah, good to see you.
25:01I already like this place better than the blacksmith.
25:03Do you?
25:04Yeah.
25:05It's a lot warmer for you, isn't it?
25:07Yeah.
25:07Can I get anyone a drink?
25:08Yeah, can I have a lager, please?
25:10Lager, yes.
25:10What do you want?
25:11I'm going to do the cider.
25:13Wayne's daughters are meeting us at a pub tonight,
25:15and I was really excited until Jamal decided to lose his damn mind.
25:20Here's the lager.
25:23The nurse is not meeting your daughters, yeah.
25:24Oh, you'll be fine.
25:25We'll be nervous.
25:26They're coming in the bed.
25:27He wanted to know what he should say
25:29if Wayne's daughters were to ask him if he had any siblings.
25:33Now I'm stressed out because these questions could really come up,
25:36and that makes me anxious as hell.
25:39Your mom told me that you've got concerns about her meeting somebody.
25:42That's why you probably come out here,
25:44just to make sure she's safe and she's all right.
25:46So how do you feel about it now?
25:51Um...
25:54I just want to make sure she doesn't make the same mistakes
25:57that she did before.
25:58Yeah.
25:58But with you, I mean, it is like,
26:01you seem like a genuine guy, you know.
26:03And this is his first long-distance relationship, too.
26:06Oh, how do you feel about that?
26:07Wait, are you on a relationship?
26:09We're getting there.
26:10Yay!
26:10We're getting there.
26:11We're not there.
26:11We're not there yet.
26:13I don't really like to rush into things
26:14because when I was younger, I was 20,
26:17I got a woman pregnant,
26:20and the thing to do, I thought, was to get married.
26:23And one of the reasons why I did get married
26:24is because I thought it was the best thing for my unborn child
26:28to grow up with a mum and dad.
26:32I thought that was the right thing to do.
26:35And we had a good marriage.
26:37We was married for 14 years.
26:38Wow.
26:39But it got to the point...
26:40I mean, that's a good amount of time.
26:42The point where I wasn't happy,
26:44and I could see she wasn't happy,
26:46so we both drifted apart.
26:48And the main thing what we've done,
26:50we've kept a family unit.
26:52That's great.
26:53Because every child needs a father figure,
26:55and every child needs a mother figure as well.
26:58You could have learned a thing or two from this, man.
27:00Could have. I should have met you.
27:00Well, it wasn't her fault.
27:01My dad still.
27:02Should have met you years ago.
27:03I knew Wayne became a father at a young age,
27:06and he sacrificed so much to be in their lives,
27:08and it sounds like that's how he views family.
27:11Like, you do anything and everything
27:13to keep your family together.
27:14I love that.
27:15But he might think,
27:16oh, she has two children that she placed for adoption.
27:19She's the most selfish person on earth.
27:21She might not even think of them.
27:23But, you know, since we are on this path
27:25to, you know, a relationship,
27:28I do want to talk to you, like, tomorrow privately
27:31about a couple things.
27:43Today, I'm actually going to be meeting
27:45Tony's parents for the first time,
27:47and I have to say I'm a little nervous.
27:49It's really important for me, for them to like me.
27:52So I hope I get to make a good impression today.
27:55So I'm looking forward to meeting them.
28:17So I brought these for your mom.
28:20She'll love these.
28:21Yes.
28:22And some cupcakes, of course.
28:23Perfect.
28:23I'll grab them for you.
28:24Yes.
28:25Last night, being intimate with Tony for the first time
28:28was incredible.
28:30I freaking loved it.
28:31It was very sensual and passionate,
28:34and it was not boom, boom, done.
28:36Okay, let me just put it to you that way.
28:39You got to take a look at the cupcakes.
28:41Oh, this is...
28:42No.
28:43They all got moved.
28:45Oh, my gosh, babe.
28:46Yeah.
28:46All the frosting is messed up.
28:49This one kind of took a beating.
28:51They're all going to taste amazing.
28:53Trust me, they will look at the effort.
28:56Perfect cupcake.
28:56This one's for your mom,
28:57because I know she loves flowers.
28:58The best one?
28:59This one is perfect.
29:00It hasn't been ruined.
29:01Tony and I have crossed this new level of intimacy,
29:05and tonight, if we're going even further,
29:08I am about to meet Tony's parents.
29:10Are you excited to meet the parentals?
29:13Yes, I'm very excited and very nervous.
29:17So what do you think will be important to them?
29:19There's a lot of, not protocol,
29:22but there's a lot of things that have to be really brought up
29:24before things kind of evolve,
29:27meaning initial conversations about religion
29:30and kind of, you know, what happens in the future.
29:33Uh-oh.
29:34You didn't prepare me for any of that.
29:39What I know about Tony's parents is they are very sweet,
29:42very kind, very loving, very family-oriented.
29:45They love Tony to death, and they're very religious.
29:49And I am not.
29:52Especially for my mom, who's very devout Catholic.
29:55She might bring up, are you going to church?
29:57Are you religious?
29:58Do you pray?
29:59Because I don't see her just kind of overlooking that.
30:02Right.
30:04But I wouldn't worry too much.
30:08I have a totally different perspective on religion than a lot of people,
30:13because I am a war survivor, and it was a religious war.
30:20I lived in Yugoslavia, which was a country that had three different religions,
30:25Catholic, Orthodox, Christian, and Muslim.
30:28A war broke up, and now the country is broken into six different countries.
30:34And people who used to be families, neighbors, are now considering each other enemies.
30:42Being a war refugee, I have experienced death and near death over religious differences.
30:48And I just couldn't understand it as a child, and I don't understand it as a grown-up as well.
30:58Oh, they're here.
30:59Oh, my God.
31:00You ready?
31:00Okay, okay.
31:01Wait, wait, wait.
31:01Kiss, kiss, kiss.
31:03Yes, yes.
31:04A smart strategy.
31:05Okay.
31:05All right.
31:07God, that's scary.
31:10Hey.
31:11Hi, Tony.
31:12How are you?
31:13Good, good.
31:14Yeah.
31:14All right, so Vanya's here.
31:16So, Vanya, this is...
31:19Hello.
31:19Hi.
31:20How are you?
31:21It's so nice to meet you.
31:23Nice to meet you.
31:24Yeah.
31:25Nice to meet you.
31:25Hi, Vanya.
31:26Nice to meet you.
31:26Oh, you're so sweet.
31:27Thank you so much.
31:28Look, you guys match.
31:30This is lovely.
31:30Yeah, yeah.
31:32That's so beautiful.
31:33Thank you, aren't you?
31:34I love the jewelry.
31:35Oh, look at that one.
31:36That's gorgeous.
31:37I love it.
31:37You guys go ahead, sit down.
31:39Yeah, sure.
31:40Have a seat.
31:41We'll bring the dessert here.
31:43Yeah, I made some cupcakes, so hope you'll like it.
31:46Oh, really?
31:47In our time in India, we had an arranged marriage.
31:51We met only three or four times before the marriage.
31:55Now it is 45th year.
31:57Yeah, 45 years.
31:5945 years.
32:0045 years.
32:00So, this is for you, because Tony told me you love flowers.
32:04Sure.
32:05Ooh.
32:06Nice.
32:06Beautiful.
32:08Thank you so much.
32:10I want Tony to get the same thing, peaceful and happy.
32:15I'm praying every day.
32:17I want to get the right religious, hardworking, loving girl who can love him.
32:23Mmm.
32:24Let me try.
32:27Mmm.
32:29It's good?
32:30It is so good.
32:31It is delicious.
32:33Thank you so much.
32:34So, on top of being a vegan baker, Vanya actually does medical sales.
32:38Oh.
32:38And then she also does professional dancing, too, as well.
32:42Really?
32:42She's a gel of all trades.
32:44She does quite a bit.
32:45Oh, she's really smart girl.
32:46What type of dancing are?
32:49I do belly dance, Bollywood, Bhangra, all kinds of stuff.
32:53Yeah.
32:55Yeah.
32:55Yeah.
32:59I also dance, Vanya.
33:01Really?
33:01We can dance together.
33:02What kind of dance do you do?
33:03Wow.
33:05In our church, we have...
33:07That's amazing.
33:08...more different functions.
33:09So, my parents are very active in the church.
33:12So, they do many of the activities and a lot of the South Indian traditions, too, as well.
33:16That's great.
33:17And what about you, Vanya?
33:19Did you practice anything in the church?
33:28No.
33:29No, I was not raised in a religious household.
33:32Oh.
33:33I see.
33:34Yeah.
33:35Mm-hmm.
33:37Do you want to come to church and see how we are doing?
33:48I would probably prefer to stay away.
33:51Oh.
33:52Yeah.
33:53My response is always going to be no.
33:56It's never going to change.
33:57And I'm scared to death that this is going to be a huge problem.
34:16The day yesterday went well.
34:18I mean, it's honestly kind of what I've been wanting to do this whole time.
34:22It was just nice to, like, fly a bit, you know, and feel like, oh, I'm actually single
34:26and actually I'm able to live my life a bit, you know?
34:29Shake it, move it.
34:32How you work it?
34:33Shake it, move it.
34:35How you work it?
34:39This morning the guy texted me.
34:40He was like, nice to meet you, bye.
34:42I was like, nice to meet you too, bye.
34:46Like, that's how not serious that was.
34:48The guy I went out with last night, Brian, you know, he was hot and he was a good kisser.
34:53It's just we didn't really have much in common.
34:55I need more than just, like, a good body.
34:57Should I wear that or should I not wear that?
35:01And by the end of the night, I actually was missing Pedro.
35:07Even though I don't think I'm ready for a relationship yet, me and Pedro do have a connection.
35:12I'm not ready to let that go.
35:14So I asked him to meet me at the beach and thankfully he said yes.
35:18Don't you stop that feeling so bring it all to me, yeah.
35:23If you feel that then bring it all to me, yeah.
35:27I want to show Sophie my ballot.
35:30Everything that you're looking for is here.
35:32You know how to look somewhere else.
35:35When Sophie asked me to meet up today, I knew her date was probably awful.
35:41If she get the dating harder system and she say, oh no, I don't want to date nobody else that
35:45was dying and didn't like,
35:46It's very possible that we can still save the relationship before the district ends.
35:53Hi.
35:54Good morning.
35:55Good morning.
35:56How are you?
35:56Good.
35:57How are you?
35:57I'm good.
35:58Good?
35:59Yeah, it's Wendy today.
36:00It's a little Wendy.
36:01That's trying to fly away.
36:04What is that?
36:05This machete.
36:07Now that you're here in the yard, you need to know how to open a coconut.
36:12Okay.
36:17Let's play the coconut here.
36:20How you have the machete, you know.
36:24Machete.
36:24Watch out.
36:26Okay.
36:26I'm scared.
36:30Hi there.
36:32It's hot.
36:33Yeah.
36:34It's hot.
36:34Right there.
36:36Is it right there?
36:37Yeah, it's right there.
36:39Yeah.
36:41Close off you go.
36:42Right there.
36:42You got it.
36:43You got it.
36:43You got it.
36:44Yeah.
36:45Bam.
36:47Yes.
36:47Bam.
36:48Yay.
36:50Nice.
36:50I did it.
36:52The cocoa.
36:53You got cocoa.
36:54Magic cocoa.
36:56This wing here is crazy.
36:58Super Wendy.
37:00Now coming down here, I didn't think you'd be in such a happy mood.
37:03I kind of expected you to be, like, not happy after our last conversation.
37:08Yeah.
37:09It was a little hard for me.
37:11Um, because I want to spend more time with you.
37:17How was your day?
37:18Tell me.
37:20It was a fine day.
37:22Did you kiss the guy?
37:27Why are you asking me questions like that?
37:29I want to know.
37:30Why?
37:31You guys want to know.
37:32Why?
37:33And then what?
37:34And then what?
37:35I want to know.
37:37I thought that your mood is already, like, completely switched.
37:42You kiss him.
37:43Yeah.
37:44Yeah.
37:44Okay.
37:47That's nice that you want to go to work.
37:50Kissing a random guy.
37:52This first time that you meet him.
37:53I don't know how you've been talking to him.
37:56I say been five months and you only been kissing me, like, I go kiss one time.
38:02I want to love you, protect you, helping you, be there for you.
38:08You don't see the value that I bring into you.
38:10I do see your value.
38:11You're not seeing it because you've been in a date with a guy, seeing one time, and kiss him.
38:15Because I told you I want to have time being single.
38:18You have time to be single, too.
38:20Yeah, yeah, but that's what you want?
38:22You want your time to heal?
38:23I've been saying that, yes.
38:25You want your time to do what you want to do?
38:27Yes.
38:27Yes, literally, yes.
38:28I'm not going to wait for that, for real.
38:30Like, if that's what you want to do, bye.
38:40Now I feel how luck felt every time I run away.
38:43And it is actually really childish.
38:46I invited to my country to share my country.
38:49It should be looking another guy for my country.
38:52What the hell?
38:56this.
39:00You know, this is what I was afraid of.
39:02Like, he's just acting like he just got cheated on.
39:06I've been open about it from the beginning.
39:08I told him I didn't lie.
39:10And he's still acting like I just did the worst thing in the world.
39:17You know?
39:17And I care about him, and he thinks I don't because I went on one date.
39:21One date.
39:21I went on one date.
39:25He's making me feel like I'm the most person in the world.
39:28And I'm not.
39:29I'm not.
39:30Like, I just, I'm not ready for a relationship.
39:32Like, that's all it is.
39:33I'm not ready for a relationship.
39:36this.
39:36This is crazy.
39:38She crazy.
39:39She nuts.
39:44Next time on The Single Ice.
39:46This is pheromone spray.
39:48To attract the ladies.
39:50And I've met someone that I'm really interested in.
39:53Can we start with your ID, please?
39:55Aren't you going to ask me for my ID?
39:57I am 56 years old, and Lexi is 30.
40:02You are older than my dad.
40:06Oh, my goodness.
40:08Look at this light.
40:10Looking at homes with Tony as just a boyfriend feels very weird to me.
40:17If you're not sure about if you want to marry me, then how are you sure that you want to
40:21share a home together?
40:22I never said that.
40:23I never said I wasn't sure.
40:24I don't want a roommate.
40:26I want a husband.
40:28Obviously, you're not ready.
40:31Now that you can walk, what plans have you made?
40:34Well, it's time for that talk, huh?
40:36Cole over saying his welcome has been hurting my relationship with Phil.
40:40It's time to kick him out.
40:42So, once you've moved out, I think I need to cut off communication with you.
40:46That stains.
40:47You were my ride or die.
40:51So, how do you think this week went?
40:52So far, so good.
40:54I'm getting really, really nervous to tell Wayne about the children I placed for adoption.
40:58Like, is he going to accept me for everything that I am?
41:01There is one thing before we continue that I want to tell you about.
41:04I have other children I put up for adoption.
41:06Oh, wow.
41:07Please don't judge me.
41:10Julia told me that you and Pedro aren't talking right now.
41:13And he's just not texting me.
41:14I think he's just being very spiteful and, honestly, very emotionally immature.
41:19Sophie's been texting to me.
41:21Naya stopped saying yesterday,
41:24just suddenly leave me alone.
41:27She's chatting my hand in pieces.
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