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90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 04: The Act of Breaking Girl Code
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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:02You guys remember B, right?
00:04Wait, wait.
00:05I'm going to him.
00:06Ah!
00:07People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.
00:10Like, it's just cobwebs down there.
00:12But I'm like, hello, come to Kim.
00:15Oh my gosh, it's got massage on it.
00:17Torture me, baby.
00:19All right, you asked for it.
00:20I thought Natalie and I were going
00:21to have this romantic, sexy weekend together.
00:25What the hell?
00:25But you just showed me how the bed works.
00:27That's my bed.
00:28Yeah.
00:29This is your bed.
00:29So I'm really disappointed.
00:32Good night, Gino.
00:33Sweet dreams.
00:34I feel like we're having such an awesome time.
00:38But I just, I'm a little confused.
00:41We had a kiss.
00:42Does that mean that we're more than friends?
00:44There's a lot at stake here because once we have
00:47this conversation, there is no going back.
00:49Our friendship will be changed forever.
00:51I can't say right now that I can fully commit to being
00:56exclusive and can't say yes to us right now.
01:00Sophie's been talking about me.
01:02You're thinking that she really want this.
01:05She's in the beginning stages of trying to discover where she's at.
01:09She's still killing.
01:11This made me think that Sophie's not ready for a legend shit.
01:14That made me feel like a freaking idiot.
01:16I was talking to Liz.
01:17She told me like, maybe I do have another guy in your mind.
01:20I just say, like, be careful.
01:24I invited Liz to the Dominican Republic.
01:26I thought we was friends.
01:27And then to go behind my back, she knows this up.
01:31That's breaking girl code.
01:33Like, you don't do that.
01:35I'm really pissed.
01:51What do you think of my toes?
01:53I mean, they're toes.
01:54They're feet.
01:55So if I asked you, I mean, would you ever suck my toes?
02:03No.
02:04One by one?
02:05No.
02:06Nope.
02:13Did you sleep well?
02:18Oh, my God.
02:18I slept like a baby.
02:19You got some big balls coming into this bed last night.
02:23I will give you that.
02:24Last night, you know, Natalie put me to sleep in the living room.
02:30But I felt a little lonely.
02:32So I thought it would be a kind of romantic gesture
02:35to sneak into Natalie's bedroom.
02:38We did cuddle, and we enjoyed each other.
02:42It was actually intimate without even having sex.
02:45So if you don't mind, my skin overall
02:48is a little dry sometimes.
02:49OK.
02:50And I was wondering if you could put some lotion on my back.
02:54I have some dry skin lotion.
02:56Absolutely.
02:57I'll do it.
02:58You'll do it for me?
02:59Yeah, of course.
03:00That's great.
03:02So I'm going to have to take my hat off and shirt off quick.
03:08And all right.
03:11Turn your back towards me.
03:12Wow.
03:13Is this OK?
03:14Yep.
03:15It's going to be cold.
03:16I tried to warm it.
03:16Oh, my gosh.
03:17Warm your hands.
03:18Stop.
03:19Warm your hands.
03:20Stop.
03:22Waking up next to Geno is a little awkward.
03:25And honestly, I really don't know how I'm feeling about it.
03:28If he wants to have a relationship with me,
03:30it's not going to happen overnight.
03:31He has to earn back my trust, you know,
03:33earn back his place in my heart, in my bed.
03:40Oh, my God.
03:40That feels good.
03:41But he's got this kind of swag to him that, I don't know,
03:45for some reason, I can't resist it.
03:47So what would you like to do today?
03:50Well, I actually already have plans today.
03:51I have a potluck set up with the girls at work
03:54and some of their husbands.
03:55We do that about once a month.
03:58So if you want to come, you can.
04:00All you got to do is bring a dish.
04:02I came here to see you.
04:04Of course I want to go.
04:05OK.
04:05OK.
04:06The fact that Natalie is introducing me
04:09to her friends so quickly could be either good or bad.
04:14Either we're jumping back into it and didn't miss a beat.
04:19Or it could be a bad thing where she
04:21wants to introduce me to her friends
04:23to kind of get, like, a second opinion.
04:26So tonight is really important.
04:28And it can decide a lot for us.
04:30I got to get ready, so you're kicking me out of the room.
04:34Bye.
04:45Going to the big party.
04:47Are you nervous?
04:49Yeah, a little bit.
04:50I mean, like, I don't know what your friends are going to be asking me.
04:53Is it going to be positive, negative?
04:55After everything that happened in Michigan, which kind of was out of my control, but...
05:00Well, I mean, not all of it.
05:03I'm worried Natalie's friends are going to have this preconceived notion about me.
05:10And they might not even give me a chance.
05:19Hi!
05:20Hello!
05:21How are you guys?
05:22How are you?
05:23So beautiful.
05:24Oh, thank you.
05:26How are you?
05:27Hello.
05:28Nice to meet you.
05:29Nice to meet you.
05:29Nice to meet you.
05:29What's your name?
05:30Carla.
05:31Nice to meet you, Carla.
05:32Hi, Gino.
05:33Hi.
05:33Nice to meet you.
05:34Nice to meet you.
05:34They're twins.
05:35I'm hoping my friends can see what I see in Gino.
05:39I think we should take these over to Melanie.
05:41And I'm hoping that Gino can also prove to them that he deserves another chance.
05:47This is Melanie.
05:48Okay.
05:49I'm Gina.
05:50Nice to meet you, Gino.
05:51Nice to meet you.
05:52Melanie's one of my really good friends.
05:54We work together.
05:54I trust her opinion.
05:56She looks out for me.
05:57She has my back.
05:59So he brought some sandwiches that he has to cook.
06:03Who wants a sandwich?
06:04There you go.
06:05I'm cooking a ham and cheese sandwich.
06:07Hey, Dave.
06:08Dave.
06:09Ladies, would y'all like one?
06:10What's up?
06:11What's up?
06:11What's up?
06:11What's up?
06:11This is my specialty.
06:14I don't think the pan is on the heat.
06:17He's got this.
06:18Okay.
06:19There we go.
06:19When I was a short order cook back in the day, I would cook simple things like a ham
06:25and cheese sandwich.
06:26And man, I can cook a really good one.
06:28I'll tell you.
06:30Oh my God.
06:31My cheese is sticking to the...
06:32Oh no.
06:33That's not good.
06:35The cheese is sticking to the ham.
06:37But for some reason, after assembling these sandwiches and traveling over to the party,
06:44the freaking cheese and the ham was stuck together.
06:48Oh.
06:49That screws me.
06:49I can't cook like that, man.
06:52Is that cheese soup?
06:55The cheese is dripping.
06:57I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing.
06:59It's dripping, but it's going to be great, Crescent, when you taste it.
07:02Do you have a clean plate?
07:03I really want the first one to look good.
07:05Sure.
07:05Of course.
07:05Yeah.
07:06It's all about that first serving.
07:08What's the single?
07:09Your first.
07:09I need to go.
07:10Let's see how it goes.
07:16Any condiments in here?
07:18Any condiments at all?
07:20Cheese and meat.
07:21That's what we're going with.
07:24It's pretty obvious that Gino doesn't go to many potlucks because ham and cheese sandwiches
07:32is not a normal option by any means.
07:36Whew.
07:36Yeah.
07:37How embarrassing.
07:38It's getting hot in here.
07:39I'm going to go outside.
07:40Yeah.
07:41I hope that's melted enough.
07:44Yeah.
07:44Is there any plate?
07:45Yes.
07:46Up there.
07:47Yeah.
07:49So how long have you been friends with Natalie?
07:52So far about a couple of years.
07:54Couple of years?
07:55Yeah.
07:55Couple of years.
07:56She has talked about you a little bit, so...
07:59Only a little bit.
08:00Just a little bit.
08:03Okay.
08:03Oh my gosh.
08:05Well, I understand because we kind of stopped talking for a bit after all this stuff went
08:10down to Michigan.
08:10Right.
08:10She did tell me that.
08:11The fact that she brought you here, I mean, that's a big plus.
08:17She doesn't just bring anybody here, so...
08:20Oh, really?
08:21Yeah.
08:21I mean, she's talked about guys, but not...
08:24Oh, she has?
08:24I've never met...
08:25Yes.
08:26But you're saying she's dating other guys?
08:28No, she's not dating other guys.
08:30Are you talking to other women or are you...
08:33Um, well...
08:36There are some girls that are writing me because they know my marriage is over.
08:43And are you writing back to them?
08:45Are you entertaining that?
08:47Well, I talk to them, but I don't...
08:49I haven't met anyone.
08:51And does Natalie know that?
08:53Uh, I don't know.
08:56I am not feeling a good vibe right now with Melanie.
09:00I understand she's trying to protect Natalie, but this is feeling like an interrogation.
09:06And I'm very worried that I could have just blown the whole thing.
09:10Now I'm having a second thought about you.
09:47I'm very sad because I have a strong feeling for Sophie, but she told me she want to date
09:53in other people.
09:54And now she's been telling me not to stop.
09:57Like, how you doing?
09:58Are you okay?
09:59Are you mad?
10:00Why you care?
10:03I am so confused.
10:05I need some advice.
10:18Why are you here alone?
10:22Eh?
10:23Take a drink.
10:24Oh my God!
10:25You look great!
10:27You're so beautiful, eh?
10:28Thank you!
10:29This is soul.
10:30Soul?
10:30You look great!
10:32My sister Nicole, she's very protected.
10:35Because when I dating a girl, she told me all the time,
10:38and you are a little dumb.
10:42Ah, you want to take her for a walk?
10:44She doesn't like to walk enough.
10:45She doesn't like to walk enough.
10:46She doesn't like to walk?
10:47She hates it.
10:48But it turned out my sister was all the time right about my ex-wife, Chantel.
10:53What's your problem with me?
10:57Oh, no.
10:58Estoy dormina.
10:59Adios.
11:00Oh, okay.
11:01After my divorce, I promise to myself that I'm not going to be with somebody else, you
11:06know?
11:07That it's not getting along with my family.
11:09How you doing?
11:11How you been?
11:11I'm good, and you?
11:12Ah, it's a lot of things going on here right now.
11:16What is the girl?
11:18Huh?
11:18Sophie?
11:19Yeah, Sophie.
11:20She's been, like, kind of off.
11:24You know, she's with her friends right now.
11:28Like, she's been a little decent right now.
11:30And, you know, that's making me a little worried.
11:33Like, yesterday, we got a little conversation regardless, you know, what we're here for.
11:39Mm-hmm.
11:40She tell me that she's not ready dating.
11:43That she won't want talking because there's been a lot going on in her life.
11:47That's past relationship.
11:49That she has been healed.
11:50If you've not been healed before, why you try to approach to me?
11:53Because I try to be a good man, you know?
11:57I know, I know.
11:57Send the flowers two times a month, you know?
12:01Yeah, you know.
12:03You're really in love.
12:05You are really in love.
12:07So...
12:08Don't tell me like that because that may make me, like, stupid.
12:10No, no, no, no, no, no.
12:11You are not stupid.
12:13It's not your fault.
12:13You are doing anything you can do to make her happy.
12:18And she doesn't appreciate that.
12:21It's the first time after Pedro divorcing from Chantelle, he's in love with someone else.
12:28And I feel so, so frustrated right now because I love my brother.
12:32And I know how good guy he is.
12:36But Sophie cannot say that.
12:38I need to protect him because I want to see him living his best life with a woman who really
12:44loves him.
12:45And have commitment.
12:48I don't feel, like, appreciated enough.
12:51Exactly.
12:52I don't be appreciated enough.
12:53I don't feel like she's taking me for for granted.
12:55Or she's taking me like I'm playing.
12:57I'm not playing.
12:58I was seriously from the beginning, like...
12:59It's frustrated.
13:00Yeah, that's a little frustrating.
13:01It's frustrated.
13:02Yeah.
13:03Let's go.
13:04You are too good.
13:05Let's walk.
13:06I need to walk.
13:07I don't know.
13:09Come on.
13:10You got her?
13:11Come on, babe.
13:12Being honest.
13:12Being honest, Pedro.
13:15I don't like this.
13:16She's so immature.
13:18Yeah.
13:18How old is she?
13:20She's 26 at the moment.
13:2126.
13:22She is not a woman.
13:25She is acting like a little girl.
13:28Like, I don't know what I want.
13:31Believe me.
13:32When a woman is really interested in a man,
13:37she is going to do anything she can do
13:39to impress this man and be with that man.
13:44You know?
13:45Yeah.
13:46Yesterday, I said, okay,
13:47if you were someone and you want to entertain other people,
13:51how do you entertain me?
13:52Exactly.
13:53Oh, yes, of course.
13:54I said, what the ?
13:55Maybe she's confused.
13:57Confused people hurt people.
13:59It's the most dangerous people in the world.
14:02You are going to suffer, and you are going to be,
14:05you're going to be, like, collateral damage.
14:10I feel that I have to listen to Nicole,
14:12because she always write about my relationship with Chantal
14:15in the past.
14:16But at the same time, I really, really want to suffer.
14:18She has part of my heart already.
14:22But I don't know if I can not be exclusive with her,
14:25and that's going to make me, like, sad.
14:28She wants to date another guy.
14:30Maybe I have to walk away.
14:34Anything you decide about Sophie,
14:36I will be there for you, okay?
14:39Because I want to see you happy.
14:40You are my only brother.
14:43Oh.
14:43And I love you.
14:44But being honest,
14:47I think you are going to ruin your life again.
14:53This is Kimberly.
14:54Hi.
14:55How are you?
14:56My friends have been trying to set me up with Joe for a while,
14:59and it's been a long time since I've even met anybody
15:01that's, like, relationship material.
15:03You're a beautiful woman.
15:04You're charming.
15:06You're charming.
15:07I like you.
15:08Why would you tell Pedro that he should be careful with me?
15:11He told me you were just sick.
15:12He said, I had a conversation with Liz,
15:14and Liz said, you're doing all this for Sophie,
15:16and she doesn't appreciate it.
15:18You were scared because you're scared.
15:19You've never had it.
15:21You're trying to tell me that I'm trying to sabotage you and Pedro?
15:24Like, yeah, this is bull .
15:41I'm in a stage of my life where I see what I want,
15:44and I go after it,
15:46because I don't want those confusing, blurry lines.
15:49But I just can't say yes to us right now.
15:53I've already seen the world
15:56I'm not just some little girl
16:05I can't say right now that I can fully commit to being exclusive,
16:10and I feel overwhelmed with just making a decision on the spot.
16:17This is super disappointing.
16:20You know, I've put myself out there.
16:22I let him know how I feel,
16:24and he's essentially saying no.
16:26I thought we were kind of on the same page.
16:28Maybe I misread the signs that you were giving me.
16:33It's very disheartening,
16:35because what I see in Tony is something very, very special.
16:38Our life goals are the same.
16:40We have the trust.
16:41We have the closeness.
16:42We have the bond.
16:43Like, seriously, what more can this guy want?
16:48You mean so much to me,
16:50and I've dated so many other guys
16:52who I feel like they totally destroyed my sense of trust
16:57and things like that,
16:58and I feel like I have that with you,
17:00and this makes sense.
17:03For me, it's a title.
17:05Putting a title to it, to me,
17:07is kind of very restrictive,
17:08because it just, you have these expectations then.
17:11This is what's so confusing to me,
17:13is I feel like you're giving me such mixed messages.
17:16So what is even today?
17:18Is this we're just hanging out?
17:20Or is this a date?
17:21I mean, did you have fun still today?
17:24If I called it a date, or if I called it a hangout?
17:25But I want to know what you look at it as.
17:28I want to know what do I mean to you.
17:31Is this all coming from the kiss that we had last week?
17:35Is that why?
17:35I mean, that helped kind of spark my thoughts about everything,
17:39because you're not making a move,
17:41so I was the one that instigated the kiss,
17:44and now I'm wondering if I didn't,
17:46would it have ever even happened?
17:48I can't answer your question.
17:50If you didn't kiss me what I've kissed you,
17:51I could have, you know?
17:52But you didn't.
17:56Sometimes I think Vanya, she just jumps right in.
17:58She throws all her emotions into everything.
18:00She wants to commit right away.
18:02I like to take a lot of time when I date.
18:05I want to be sure a thousand percent that she's the one.
18:09Obviously, there's no rush for anything,
18:11but I just want to make sure that we're aligning,
18:13and I know that you make me happy,
18:15and I think I make you happy.
18:18I feel the same way, and I want to have more dates,
18:21and I want to get to know you better.
18:24I'm not trying to rush in.
18:25I'm not trying to...
18:26Yeah, me too.
18:27I want to know everything about you
18:28before I make that final step,
18:29and if that's something you're on board with,
18:31I think that's something I can commit to.
18:33I mean, I would like a little bit more
18:35of a defined situation,
18:37but I guess it's the step in the right direction.
18:42It's definitely better than I know.
18:45Right.
18:46Well, I thought that Tony has had feelings for me
18:49this entire time,
18:50and I thought that once I laid out for him that,
18:53hey, I'm interested too,
18:54that he would just sweep me into his arms,
18:56and we would ride off into the sunset together,
18:59and that's not what happened.
19:02So till our next date?
19:03Yes.
19:08I've already wasted so much time in my life
19:11on men in the past who have commitment issues,
19:14who don't know what they want out of life.
19:17So if Tony is not ready to make a commitment,
19:20then I'm done.
19:21Done with that.
19:22I don't know the treasure map.
19:24X marks the spots in my heart.
19:26You got to start.
19:32I'm a little bit salty and I'm not a bit sweet.
19:35If you come to my table, you better know what I need.
19:38I love what you mean.
19:41I'll never be a snack.
19:43I'm a four course for you.
19:45Not bad, too.
19:47Not bad for 55.
19:48Alright, let's go partay.
20:00Thank you so much.
20:01I'm meeting some single men tonight.
20:09Hi!
20:10Oh my God, oh my God!
20:11Kimberly!
20:12Kimberly in a skirt.
20:14What is this?
20:14Kimberly in a skirt?
20:15You look beautiful.
20:16Are you excited?
20:17I am excited, yeah.
20:18I love seeing you in a skirt.
20:19What are we doing?
20:20So my friends Jody and Laura, they throw these fabulous parties like every couple months.
20:25So I decided to get up off the couch, leave my cats at home and forget about the family
20:29stuff for one night.
20:30So how'd it go with B?
20:34Last time you saw him.
20:35I mean, I got my needs met.
20:37Right?
20:38But you know, I've always had feelings for B, you know what I mean?
20:41You're a long time guy, kind of.
20:42Yeah.
20:43So like, even since the last time I saw him, I've just really been thinking about what
20:46I want.
20:47You know what I mean?
20:48And I think he's just always going to be this bachelor guy that, you know, and I just
20:52need more than that now.
20:55B is always going to have a special place in my heart.
20:57Like, always.
20:58But with everything that's going on in my life, the adoptions and everything coming to light,
21:03I really need somebody who is, like, emotionally stable enough to deal with all of my .
21:10Jody, come here, because I know this is the first lay you've had in a while.
21:14Yeah.
21:15The lay.
21:15Like seven years.
21:16Oh, I want to get laid!
21:18I don't know when last time you got laid.
21:20You're crazy.
21:20Oh, God.
21:20It's...
21:21I don't even know.
21:22Yeah.
21:23Let's get this party started.
21:25Let's get this party started.
21:27Woo!
21:29Here comes the party!
21:31Yay!
21:32Hi, guys!
21:33I'm Kim.
21:33How are you?
21:34Nice to meet you.
21:35What's up?
21:36Oh, you need to get laid.
21:37Oh, my God.
21:38I remember you.
21:39Hi, Neil.
21:41Hello.
21:42I haven't seen you in a long time.
21:46I just lost, like, 50 pounds, so I just started wearing skirts with little slits, and I'm
21:51like...
21:52I really like your slits.
21:53Okay.
21:54Cheers for that.
21:55Okay.
21:56Okay.
21:56Hi, Jody.
21:58Hi.
21:59How are you?
22:00Good.
22:00How are you?
22:00I'm doing good.
22:02Hello.
22:02Hi, Joe.
22:03How are you?
22:04Nice to see you as well.
22:06Oh, this is Kimberly.
22:07Hi.
22:07How are you?
22:08Nice to meet you.
22:09Nice to meet you as well.
22:10Hey, Joe.
22:10Let's get you laid first.
22:12Let's do it.
22:12Let's do it, Don.
22:13Take care of business first.
22:15I feel so much better now.
22:16Do you?
22:16You just got laid.
22:17You should feel so much better.
22:19Hey, guys.
22:20It's limbo time.
22:23Woo!
22:24Thanks, Joe.
22:26You're so shy.
22:27Good luck.
22:28Yeah.
22:29My friends have been trying to set me up with Joe for a while, but he's a little bit on
22:33the short side, so I've been a little leery.
22:35Come on, Kim.
22:36You know you can talk.
22:37All right.
22:37I'll go.
22:38I'll go.
22:39I'll go.
22:39I'll go.
22:40Damn it.
22:40Let me make this clear.
22:41I am five foot nine.
22:43Your girl is tall, okay?
22:44And I'm not saying you have to be six foot seven or anything, but at least be my height.
22:48I don't want to feel like an Amazon.
22:50Come on, little one.
22:52Come on.
22:52Let's go.
22:53If my hip pops out in this bitch, I'm telling you right now.
22:56Ready?
22:57One, two, three.
22:58Oh.
22:59Hey!
23:02But now that I'm seeing him in person, he's kind of cute.
23:05Not really at eye level, but he's cute.
23:07Kim, are you from here?
23:09I'm from San Diego.
23:09Yeah.
23:10Okay.
23:10I'm originally from Philadelphia.
23:12Are you?
23:13I know.
23:13Can't tell, right?
23:14No.
23:14I've gotten stoff since I've been here in California.
23:16Is that what happens?
23:17Yeah.
23:18I lived in Virginia for like 25 years.
23:20I moved back home when my mom started having health problems and stuff.
23:23So I moved back home 10 years ago.
23:25So then, yeah, I've been here ever since.
23:27Do you have any kids?
23:28I have a daughter.
23:29We're best of friends.
23:29It's like, we're very cool.
23:30That's how I am with my son.
23:31I have a son named Jamal.
23:33He works for this modeling agency with his friends, and he's so good looking.
23:37I mean, this is a job for him.
23:38So he takes after his mom, huh?
23:40You're a charm.
23:41I like you.
23:42I'm saying you're a beautiful woman.
23:43You're charming.
23:44I am charming.
23:45I get told that all the time.
23:47It's so funny.
23:48My first impression of Kim is that she's a breath of fresh air.
23:52She's a woman that's full of life.
23:54You feel her energy, you know?
23:55And it seems like we had known each other for years.
23:57So what do you do on your free time?
23:59I write music.
24:01I produce music.
24:02Wow.
24:02I love music.
24:03I have to ask you something.
24:04I have to interrupt.
24:04Are you a Michael Jackson fan?
24:05Yes, absolutely.
24:06From the time I was a little kid, the very first album I ever bought was ABC by the Jackson
24:095.
24:10So crazy.
24:10I have a tattoo of him on my arm.
24:12Do you really?
24:12I do.
24:13It's the hat.
24:14It's the hat and the glove.
24:15Wow.
24:16That is so cool.
24:18You know there's a movie coming out, right?
24:19Honey, I know all about it.
24:21I'm sorry.
24:21I'm sorry.
24:22I should know.
24:23So my short king loves the king of pop.
24:26Okay, Joe.
24:27I see you.
24:28He gets major points for that.
24:30Should we mingle?
24:31Honey, otherwise we just stay here the whole night.
24:32I know.
24:33Let's just go.
24:33Okay.
24:34Let's go mingle.
24:35I'll talk to you soon and we'll change numbers.
24:37Yeah, I'll hook up people for you.
24:38Okay.
24:38Okay.
24:39I like him.
24:40He's so nice.
24:41He was like, you're so pretty.
24:42Blah, blah, blah.
24:43Did he have a connection?
24:45I felt it.
24:45I felt it.
24:46And I was really surprised, you know, but I just, I felt like really, like, safe.
24:50Oh, my.
24:51You know?
24:51I love that feeling.
24:52Oh, my God.
24:52That's the best feeling.
24:54Yeah.
24:54Joe said all the right things.
24:56Like, complimenting me on my outfit, complimenting me on how pretty I am.
24:59And he made me feel really beautiful.
25:03You know, it's like, when you first meet people, you just don't hear that.
25:07It's always, they pick out the flaws in me before they see the beautiful Kim.
25:11Ready?
25:11One, two, three.
25:17And I think that's like a game changer for me, you know?
25:20It's like, green flag, green flag, green flag, green flag.
25:23So, yeah.
25:23I like them.
25:24How are you getting home?
25:26I'm taking an Uber because I live in the boondocks.
25:29Okay.
25:30You mind if I walk you out as you go?
25:31No, I would love that.
25:33Okay.
25:33Are you ready to go?
25:34Yes.
25:34Okay.
25:35Thank you for walking me out.
25:36Of course.
25:38Don't have too much fun tonight.
25:40Huh?
25:40Don't have too much fun tonight.
25:42Shut up.
25:43I'm going home.
25:45I don't want to put like any unrealistic expectations onto Joe, you know?
25:50But he seems like such a good, like a genuine soul.
25:54Do you mind if I give you a hug?
25:55No, of course not.
25:57So nice to meet you.
25:58Nice to meet you.
25:59So nice to meet you.
25:59I look forward to talking to you.
26:01I know, me too.
26:02Are you going to text me?
26:03I will talk to you.
26:04Okay.
26:04Absolutely.
26:05I really want to find love.
26:06And it's been a long time since I've even met anybody that's like relationship material.
26:11But at the same time, it's like terrifying to think that I could get close with someone,
26:16tell them all about my past, and that could make somebody walk away from me.
26:22All right.
26:23Bye, Joe.
26:23Bye-bye.
26:24Nice to meet you.
26:24You too.
26:27It was really nice.
26:30Are you normally one who kind of takes charge?
26:32Yeah, definitely chivalrous guy.
26:36He is definitely the type of person I want in my life.
26:39But I haven't told him yet about my cancer.
26:42I'm afraid that it might make him just want to run.
26:45Are you making me nervous?
26:46Why?
26:47Bye.
27:09right now i'm texting via and i'm letting him know that i am on my way to meet him at
27:17kayaking the dr is beautiful the rain has let up and yeah day two
27:38how are you i'm good how are you good good i bought you some shoes
27:45wait i didn't even know we need shoes okay well i i kind of figured that so that's why i
27:50got them
27:50for you i'm the master kayaker here i had a great first date with via we went surfing and now
27:58we're
27:58going kayaking and i love that he wants to go out and do these things with me
28:06you know what you're doing oh no no you don't you know you don't in all my past relationships
28:16the focus was never really on anything i wanted to do when i was with ed he was such a
28:22princess it was
28:23always fine dining bottles of wine cappuccino steak and then a nightcap at home we never got out we
28:31were never active with each other how about we like hit it hard right now
28:39go slow down and when i was with jason he just was a homebody the most exciting thing we did
28:44was every
28:45wednesday we went to go get chicken wings and then we came home and went to bed
28:50this is fun i'm actually really enjoying this you've been single for a year and a half yeah about
28:56a year and a half i tend to jump from like serious relationship to another one
29:02like i don't regret any of my past relationships but they definitely weren't easy yeah i've always
29:09been one to kind of end up being like the dominant in the relationship and never been able to like
29:13really be feminine in a relationship are you normally one who kind of takes charge
29:19yeah definitely definitely definitely a chivalrous guy
29:25like all your chivalry is like so new to me it's a big culture thing
29:30yeah because my dad was very traditional and very macho
29:38via is very chivalrous this is exciting for me it's something different i've always felt like
29:44the man in the relationship like there's times when i would open ed's door or help him into the
29:49car you're gonna jump in there i'm jumping in but via is very attentive i feel safe i feel comfortable
29:58and i realize especially since i've gotten sick that via is definitely the type of person i want
30:03in my life i'm enjoying my time here for sure i'm glad i met you like i said so unexpected
30:17it makes me nervous why you're smiling a lot right now
30:40i think i'm really falling for via it's like almost this like fairy tale dream come true
30:49that was nice
30:53okay but i haven't told him yet about my cancer i'm afraid that it might make him just want to
31:00run
31:01well i think i have girls night around two tonight okay i don't know what i'm doing but
31:08i'll definitely let you know it's kind of like am i even worthy to date am i worth someone taking
31:14a
31:14chance on me because i mean i wouldn't even know if i'd want to date someone knowing that they're sick
31:21right now it's such a complicated hard experience i never thought i'd have to be sharing this this is
31:27supposed to be my getaway are you taking her seriously i'm not a player or anything like that
31:37that's just saying but are you sure if natalie's friends don't like me this can destroy our relationship
31:45he seems like he does like you but i think he's hiding something
32:10are you talking to other women or are you i talked to him but i don't i haven't met anyone
32:18and does natalie know that uh i don't know i told mel that i'm speaking with other girls
32:27because i wanted to be honest with her but i'm realizing that i up now i'm gino the player instead
32:36of being this really good guy if natalie's friends don't like me this can destroy our relationship
32:45now i'm having a second thought about you are you taking her seriously though oh am i taking yeah
32:52of course i am okay of course yeah it's not like i'm not a player or anything like that that's
32:58just
32:58saying but are you sure all right how you going all do hey how's it going man good good good
33:09so
33:11i was talking to gino okay um so how has it been since he's been in dc i mean it's
33:20been good we get
33:22along really well he's been very flirtatious i mean he was even in my bed last night oh yes but
33:28i have my
33:29guard up with everything he seems like he does like you but when he's talking to me he's not really
33:39looking at me eye to eye right and i think he's hiding something he was telling me that there was
33:47woman writing to him okay is he talking to other women he is yeah to find out that he's talking
33:56to
33:56other women is disappointing we're not in an exclusive relationship but like this is exactly the problem
34:02that i had with him in the first place he thinks if he you know omits something just because he
34:07didn't
34:07tell you he doesn't think that's lying we actually we really haven't sat down and talked to each other
34:13about that but what i do know is that i'm not going to
34:21put myself in a situation where i get hurt again absolutely not i see yeah do you not like him
34:29be
34:29honest do you like him or not like do you i really don't okay i really don't you don't like
34:34him you know
34:35i don't like him i'm looking at this whole weekend like it's a big test for gino i want to
34:41believe
34:42that he can be truthful i want to believe that he can be honest that all of this is because
34:47of his
34:47past trauma his relationship everything that he's gone through i don't want to keep looking i don't want
34:52to keep searching i don't want to keep asking i don't want to keep wondering i want to believe him
34:59how are you how are you how are you good what were you all talking about out there
35:04nothing real stuff just work stuff but if he thinks he's going to make a fool out of me again
35:11i mean he's crazy that's that's not going to happen all right
35:19like i really like pedro but for me it's really important to enjoy my freedom so i think tonight
35:25i'm going to focus on that this trip is just not going how i hoped at all pedro just goes
35:30to me and
35:30not even replaying to any of my messages my name is nice to meet you but this hot guy has
35:35already
35:35come up to me trying to flirt with me yeah i kind of like it this is what i needed
35:39cheers
36:12this trip is just not going how i hoped
36:15so far like i feel like the first night was just awkward and weird and then liz my friend spoke
36:21negatively about me to the guy i'm talking to so i'm still pissed off at her and now pedro's not
36:26even replying to any of my messages gracias thank you thank you gracias now i'm like well i guess he's
36:35just decided to ghost me and that's it then thank you but i'm not going to spend my night stressing
36:40about it i just want to have fun arriba abajo a central central and in your mouth
36:52do you see some cute guys around oh yeah i've already seen two and i just got here already good
36:58it's good i'm excited like i really like pedro but for me it's really important to also enjoy my
37:05freedom you know and so i think tonight i'm going to focus on that good good so maybe when today
37:11you go home not alone i mean chill chill chill
37:19oh my god he's looking at me okay if you end up with somebody tonight
37:24you should take him to the my room because my room is messy
37:29no they need to know the real me if i'm not the first night he needs to see my room
37:33not the first night hello hi sorry girls for coming like that okay julia my name is nice to meet
37:41you
37:41i'm sophie you are here on vacation yeah okay where you come from uh we both live in america oh
37:48how
37:48long you've been here four days and what you do in that four days i'm come here to support sophie
37:56because
37:56she are have a difficult time she are divorcing so and now i'm supporting her single funny life
38:07so we have a girl street yeah what are you doing here i am general doctor afterward i come in
38:15take
38:16a drink like relax a little bit this hot doctor guy has already come up to me trying to flirt
38:21with me
38:23he talks very slow and mysteriously you know so yeah i kind of like it this is what i need
38:29it
38:30on the mask who will they be not coming in oh you're spanish also oh yeah i used to live
38:37in
38:37Spain in spania and not not fluent but quickly i'm going to give us a little bit
39:03i just arrived at the bar and sophie's not acknowledging my presence at all
39:11she immediately takes off to the other side of the bar with this guy she's being cold
39:17sophie please don't talk me let's go into girls talk we can go into right here somewhere it doesn't
39:23feel good yes okay quick question do you like doctor as soon as he said he's a doctor i'm like
39:31you're safe
39:32people i'm like like his personality is very kind i like him okay wow i think i need a lot
39:40to be caught up
39:40what's been going on what's been going on with pedro
39:45he text you tonight let me check it
39:50he hasn't tagged me that's an answer yes so the past like more than 24 hours he's kind
39:58of been ghosting me i what happened
40:04yesterday we had a conversation and it didn't go well because he came into that like thinking i had
40:11a boyfriend or something and i was like why do you think that and he told me this made me
40:16feel like
40:17there's another guy and he should be careful because he's going to get his feelings hurt
40:22with me because i'm not ready well sophie i was obviously drinking but if i do remember he told me
40:29you
40:29he didn't leave it but why would you tell him he should be careful with me i was trying to
40:34make it
40:35note okay well she's not used to this so don't be like pushed away from it but everything i told
40:42you he knows and i feel bad then why would you tell him that he should be careful with me
40:47if i said
40:47be careful i didn't mean it that way i don't give a about pedro i'm worried about sophie getting
40:54hurt i want him to be careful with her heart take it slow i'm not trying to sabotage you
41:03yeah this is
41:06so technically all of this conversation because
41:09i had a conversation with liz and liz said you're doing all this for sophie and she's not ready she
41:17doesn't appreciate it because you're scared you've never had it i haven't had it you're correct i
41:23just felt for your pain and everything i'm sorry you don't remember you feel the pedro's pain because
41:28i could tell you i don't feel from pedro's pain you told me that she doesn't deserve it because she's
41:32not ready i don't know what the is going on i feel like sophie's looking for someone to blame for
41:38her relationship problems with pedro but she's not going to put the blame on me
41:43i've invited you here as a friend at the end of the day girl you should have my back not
41:47his back
41:52next time on the single life i really like this i'm feeling so like can you look at her eyes
41:58i'm
41:58trying to that's how beautiful you look you don't need to bounce them i found the perfect outfit for
42:04my first date with joe but i have to say i'm a little nervous i need you to do something
42:09goofy or
42:09sexy i'm not doing anything sexy i don't know you ready joe seems really really really great like a
42:16great guy but they all started out sweet usman started out sweet got it okay i should do love
42:23your dress thank you the fact that i haven't told via yet about my cancer makes me extremely anxious
42:29because i don't know how he'll react but with the way i'm feeling with via i know i have to
42:34i don't share with a lot of people like how i'm like sick right now
42:40a lot happened at once and suddenly it's like not only are we dating but it's like we're married or
42:45something there's just a lot are you kidding me after everything i've done for you you piece of
42:54you have erectile dysfunction you can't walk you're homeless you're jobless the level of disrespect is insane
43:02you've never had my back yes i have you never had enough enough pedro's goes to me probably will
43:09never talk to me again so at this point i'm just done with liz and i'm just done with this
43:13whole trip
43:14bye liz go home bye adios
43:18she just it all up it's just a horrible person
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