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90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 03: The Art of the Situationship
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00:01Previously on The Single Life.
00:03Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?
00:05No, there you go, there you go.
00:08Via is very good looking.
00:10I think we need a drink to that.
00:12I think we need a shot.
00:14This is my Dominican fling that I've been looking for.
00:17Nice to meet you, I'll never see you again.
00:21I'll see you tomorrow, okay?
00:23I didn't like the way it ended for us.
00:25Neither did I.
00:26And I'm a little bit more recovered, I guess.
00:29Well, that's good.
00:30Now I am.
00:30If Chino wants something romantic with me,
00:32he's gotta prove that he's gonna be honest.
00:34He's gotta prove that he really wants this.
00:40He's having issues right now.
00:42Like, he's not able to get, like, up.
00:45So I'm trying to be supportive.
00:47But then, yeah, I do have, like, doubts or fears.
00:50Like, what's he doing behind my back?
00:51Oh, .
00:53There is a girl I was talking to
00:55before I even went to the resort.
00:58Oh.
00:59Yeah.
01:00Here we go again.
01:01Diana and I met a year ago online.
01:04Are you still in contact with Diana?
01:07I still talk to Diana.
01:09This might be an opportunity for you to do the right thing.
01:12I don't know, man.
01:16I want to figure out what I want.
01:18I don't know what it is.
01:19I like things clear, you know?
01:21I've been clear to you.
01:23No, you didn't.
01:24I don't want Sophie to play games with me
01:27and I'm interested in that .
01:29I have never once told you I have healed
01:31and I'm ready for relationship.
01:32I have never told you that.
01:33Sophie.
01:34No, never told you that.
01:34No.
01:35No.
01:36Hell no.
01:37Not with me.
01:59I don't like rain.
02:01Sophie.
02:05Hello.
02:06Did you order strippers?
02:08Yes.
02:08Come in.
02:08Yay!
02:14We're just getting started.
02:16Oh, nah, nah.
02:18We've got places to be.
02:21Let's jump in a bit.
02:23Hey!
02:24Hey!
02:26I have to, like, cover my boobs when I jump.
02:30Why?
02:30They want to blow up?
02:31No, because my implant, like, hurts.
02:33But you have to protect them.
02:38Oh, my God!
02:41That is like a rock.
02:43It's squishy.
02:45That's squishy.
02:46No, it's squishy.
02:47It's just, like, it's still an implant.
02:50So it's just, I don't know.
02:52I don't know.
02:52I'm not a doctor.
02:58Is that my food?
03:01Tonight was supposed to be a girls' night out,
03:03but there's just crazy rain outside.
03:05The power's down in parts of the area,
03:08and the streets are flooded.
03:09Yes, yes.
03:09So me and Julia just decided to stay in
03:12and order room service.
03:15So, how are your day with Spendrum?
03:18Because I want to hear you tell me
03:19you're going to tell me everything.
03:21We ate at a restaurant at the beach,
03:23and he told me that Liz went and told him
03:26basically everything I told you guys.
03:29She was telling him how I'm not ready,
03:31and, like, he should be careful.
03:33Be careful?
03:34Like, he's so nice.
03:35He does all these things for me,
03:36and I'm not even ready, like, pretty much.
03:38It sounded like she was kind of warning him about me.
03:41Okay, what the ?
03:44She just like, hey, let's start this
03:46between them two.
03:49It isn't her place.
03:51Liz has just given reason to Pedro to think, like,
03:55I'm just a huge red flag.
03:56Even though I'm not ready for a relationship,
03:58I am still trying to get to know him,
04:00and I actually do like him.
04:01And as my friend, you should only say good things about me.
04:05She should say, oh, Sophie's great.
04:07Like, you're lucky.
04:08That's what friends say.
04:09Like, girlfriends don't tell a guy, like, watch out.
04:14So then I was like, even though I've had this discussion
04:17with him before, I felt like, let me, again,
04:19just reiterate, like, where I'm at, you know?
04:22I'm getting to know you, but, like, you can talk to people,
04:25I can talk to people.
04:26And right at the end, he's like, you know what, Sophie?
04:28If I'm being real with you,
04:29you never said any of this to me,
04:30and all of what you just said is rubbish.
04:33I'm used to my last relationship always saying I'm lying
04:36and making things up and gaslighting me.
04:37So when he did it, it triggered me, and I was like,
04:40I don't want to do this again,
04:41where someone's convincing me something never happened that did.
04:44We definitely both just did not mesh well at the end
04:48and communicate well.
04:49It flipped so quick that I was like,
04:51what the hell was that?
04:53Now he feel like it's, like, so sad
04:56because you are, like, technically saying he's, like,
04:58a rob in your last relationship.
05:01I text him often.
05:03I was like, hey, like, you know,
05:04I apologize if I offended you.
05:05What can I say?
05:06He's ignored me since the day.
05:09I sent him a one-minute voice note.
05:12Okay, but...
05:12One minute.
05:14That's so...
05:16Scene!
05:18He's seen it!
05:19Show me.
05:19No, it says seen.
05:21And played.
05:22Ah, now you're interesting.
05:25I'm like...
05:26Wait, he's ghosting me?
05:27Let me call him.
05:29Oh, my gosh.
05:31Up until this point, I'm used to hearing from Pedro
05:33multiple times a day.
05:35So, because he stopped texting me back,
05:38I'm starting to miss him.
05:39But he's really ignoring me.
05:41Hold on, there's one more question mark.
05:42If you're gonna...
05:43Stop!
05:45Don't!
05:45I said, I said...
05:45No, let me understand it.
05:46Let me give him space.
05:48It's a little bit of space for me to, like,
05:50think about him and remember I like him.
05:53And I want to talk to him.
05:55Maybe he didn't give up.
05:56That's why he stopped texting me?
05:57Mm-hmm.
05:58You think so?
06:01I'm really pissed off at Liz.
06:02Like, I feel like she might have just instigated
06:04the end of me and Pedro.
06:05Like, what if he just...
06:07ghost me forever and that's that?
06:18You're the best of the best
06:20You're the cream, the cream
06:22And the more that you do
06:24The better it gets me
06:26I'm stopping and stare
06:28No one else can compare
06:30You're the best that's ever been
06:33The cream, the cream
06:34There is no such thing as too much glitter
06:37Yeah
06:39The world wraps around your finger
06:42You got the know-how
06:44Best that's ever been
06:47The cream, the cream
06:49This is perfection.
06:51I wish I could just walk like this every day.
06:53Mm-hmm.
06:54I am Vanya, I'm 42 years old
06:56I live in Orlando, Florida
06:58I'm a Jill of all traits
06:59I wear many, many hats
07:01I do medical sales
07:03I'm a vegan baker
07:05And I'm a professional belly dancer
07:10Hi!
07:10Oh, she's here!
07:12How are you?
07:12Good!
07:12She's here, she's got her wings
07:13How was it? How did it go?
07:15Oh, it was good
07:16Great crowd, by the way
07:17So, is it packed?
07:18Yes, definitely
07:19So, how have you been, my darling?
07:21Uh, I'm okay
07:23Uh, I have a weird date
07:25Let's hear it
07:27Oh, my God
07:28I went out with this guy
07:30And it started out okay
07:32But then, like, we started sitting down to eat
07:35And he just kept picking his nose
07:37What?
07:39What am I supposed to do with that?
07:40It's so gross
07:41The dating apps are just overwhelming
07:45I know
07:46So many times I match with somebody
07:48And I'm thinking, okay
07:49The conversation is going great
07:51And then, you know, thing
07:53You get a notification
07:54A picture came in
07:55And I open it
07:56It's a d*** pic
07:58Like, who thinks that's gonna work?
08:01What do they envision?
08:02I get a d*** pic
08:03And I go, oh my God
08:04I must marry this guy
08:07I have been single for about a year
08:10And what I'm looking for is somebody who is optimistic
08:13Who is accomplished
08:15Who is driven
08:16And that's hard to find, apparently
08:19All right, girly
08:20I am going to go get my little shamadan ready for the show
08:25All right, I'll see you out there
08:26Break away
08:27Thank you, girl
08:28I'm starting to get really frustrated
08:31I want to find my forever partner
08:33And it's not like I haven't been trying
08:35Heck, I'd even went to another country in search of love
08:41You're a wonderful creature
08:43And everything you do
08:45It's so loveable
08:46Amazing
08:47I'm dying
08:48Two years ago
08:50I met a guy from Croatia online
08:52And his name is Boža
08:55Vanya!
08:57Oh my God
08:58Oh my God
08:59He's dead
08:59He's dead
09:01Woo
09:03But I was only in Croatia for a couple of days before things just blew up
09:08In a, how do you say, romantic way?
09:12I don't feel it right now
09:14You know, I can't believe that this guy that I was talking to for eight months online turned out to
09:20be something totally different
09:22I should have just never come
09:23I should have listened to my friends and to my cousin
09:26I should have never come because of this
09:31After everything fell apart with Boža, I ended up going back on a dating app and I ended up matching
09:36with Yoshiko
09:38It was an immediate connection
09:40I love it
09:42It's perfect
09:43Thank you
09:43It's the rest of you
09:46What a great line
09:49I have been celibate for six years prior to Yoshiko because I feel like your body is the most precious
09:58gift you can give to somebody
10:00At the time it felt right, but looking back, I really wish it didn't happen
10:05Without my knowledge, he took a video of us while we were being intimate
10:12Violated my privacy, my body
10:15Yes I did
10:20And obviously I went back to my celibacy because I'm not going to be breaking it for just anybody ever
10:28again
10:40I should be jaded at this point, but despite all the negative stuff that's happened, I'm still here, ready for
10:47love
10:48I'm easy to talk to, I'm easy to read, I wear my heart on my shoulder, and I am unapologetically
10:54me
10:57On top of all of that, I'm still single, can you believe that? Because I can't
11:02Woo!
11:03Hi!
11:05Hi!
11:05Oh my goodness
11:06So beautiful
11:07We were just talking, you were so good
11:09So beautiful
11:09We got you a drink
11:10You guys are awesome
11:12Cheers girls
11:13Cheers
11:13Girls night out, this is awesome
11:18So what did you think?
11:19You're amazing
11:21I think this guy over here is looking at you
11:24Where?
11:25He's smiling
11:26He's definitely looking
11:28He's kinda cute
11:29I don't know
11:30There's this other guy
11:32Oh
11:32Excuse me
11:34I know
11:35Well, his name is Tony
11:37Is that your friend Tony?
11:39Yeah
11:39Wait, I'm Tony? Who's Tony?
11:42Tony's actually a doctor
11:43A year and a half ago, he invited me to dance at his holiday party
11:48And we ended up just hanging out after that as friends
11:51Like, all the time
11:53Tony's an amazing person
11:55I always thought that he was very handsome
11:57And very intellectually stimulating and attractive
12:06So, I'm starting to wonder if after all the searching
12:09The guy for me has been right in front of me this whole entire time
12:13We've been friends for a year and a half at this point
12:16And he's never made a move
12:17This hot mama
12:18And no move?
12:21Nothing
12:22And then finally I get sick and tired of it
12:24And then I made the move
12:25No way
12:27Okay
12:27I kissed him
12:29Oh my God, girl
12:31Get it
12:32But it's kinda like now we're in this limbo situation
12:36We haven't made it clear if we're exclusive, if we're dating
12:39It's just we're two friends who kissed
12:42Oof
12:43I don't like this zone of unknown
12:49When it comes to relationships, Vanya can be very optimistic
12:53She really, really wants it to work
12:55I hope that it goes well
12:56But the fact that Tony hasn't made a move yet
12:59Gives me a little pause
13:00And I just hope she's not imagining something with Tony that's not really there
13:06I don't wanna see you get hurt again
13:08I don't wanna see you hang on to something that's not really there
13:11You need to have a conversation with him
13:15I really want our friendship to blossom into a relationship
13:19But I just don't know if I'm ready to take this risk and potentially lose my best friend
13:26Because if I have this conversation, there is no going back
13:31Our friendship will be changed forever
13:33We get to the bottom of it
13:35No more wishy-washy wondering
13:42Hi
13:43Hey
13:44If we came here and spent all this money on a hotel
13:47Just to play with his gummy worm all night
13:50I'm gonna be annoyed
13:53Oh, yes
13:57I just keep seeing you have this online battle deal with Jasmine back and forth
14:03If she wouldn't post anything, there wouldn't be any back and forth
14:07Any type of emotion, whether it be positive or negative
14:10Is still an emotion attached to that person
14:12There's a thin line between love and hate
14:23Show me how to make it real
14:27I never hide it down
14:31What are you doing? It's my tiara
14:35Beautiful
14:36Oh, you look pretty
14:37Thank you
14:38Let me suck stuff out of your face
14:43Oh, it's like you're giving me a little kiss
14:52Thank you
14:53Thank you
14:53I feel 10 years younger
14:54And beautiful
14:55You are beautiful
14:57I really want this relationship to work with Colt
15:00But we have major issues
15:02His leg is broken
15:03Trust issues
15:05His erectile dysfunction
15:06We're not able to have sex
15:09We don't get wrinkles
15:11We gotta keep it young
15:12Forever young
15:14But I still want to be with Colt
15:16He makes me feel good
15:17He makes me happy
15:18I enjoy spending time with him
15:21I love who I am when I'm with him
15:24I need a spa, damn
15:26Come in
15:28Hey you two
15:29Hey
15:30What the heck are you doing?
15:32He's trying to make me look more beautiful
15:34I see it's working
15:36Oh, thank you, you're sweet
15:38I'm gonna head to bed
15:40Oh, you have a good night
15:42Alright
15:43So, lights off in 10 minutes, Courtney
15:46Okay
15:46You know the rules
15:48That's good devil
15:50You have a good night
15:51Good night
15:51Thank you for everything
15:5610 minutes, huh?
15:57Yeah
15:58That's still enough time
16:00We could do it in 30 seconds, yeah
16:02Probably could
16:04Alright, I'm gonna go to bed
16:06Oh
16:08Night, babe
16:09Night
16:11Good night
16:12Good night, Courtney
16:24Wow
16:26Good afternoon, how are you doing today?
16:28Good, how are you?
16:28Very well, thank you for asking
16:30What reservation is the name under?
16:31Colt
16:31Courtney and I booked a hotel room for tonight
16:34To get away from her parents' house
16:36So we can have more alone time
16:37Oh, wow
16:38Wow
16:40This is so nice
16:41Three months, by far, is the longest
16:44I've ever been with somebody without having sex
16:47Oh, champagne
16:48Hey
16:50But knowing her parents could come in at any time
16:52Really has made any intimacy between Courtney and I impossible
16:59Probably why my performance as of late has been spotty
17:04Well, cheers to you
17:06Cheers
17:08That's nice
17:14So what do you want to do now?
17:23I guess I'm gonna change and get ready
17:27I love that Colt had the idea to come to a hotel
17:29But if we came here and spent all this money just to play with his gummy worm all night
17:36I'm gonna be annoyed
17:38I'm not a miracle worker
17:41Colt tells me he loves me, but if he can't get it up, that makes me question
17:45Does he really love me, or he's just saying that?
17:53Hey
17:54Hey
17:55Hey
17:57I was doing some research and, like, different ways to get creative
18:01Yeah
18:03What the hell is this?
18:06Whoa
18:07You're, like, in the carpet for this one
18:10I guess this is, like, doggy style for, like
18:12Lazy dog
18:16This is probably, like, the most practical one, I guess
18:19Oh, this is simple
18:21You just go straight to the target
18:25This one looks like you'd have to really have some upper body strength
18:29Right?
18:30No, I think I'm probably down
18:31Wait, am I up from the ceiling?
18:34Why can't you just do it like this?
18:35Yeah, like that
18:36I don't think I'm flexible enough to do a handstand, like, on your
18:41Some of these seem a little complex and you need a lot of upper body strength and I don't know
18:45if we could do that
18:46Yeah, I'm like, what are these people doing? Like, maybe the handicap world's freaky
18:55Hi
18:55Hey
18:57Why'd you tie the rope for a new chest?
18:59Wait
18:59I don't know how to tie this
19:02Oh, yes
19:04What do you think?
19:05Sexy
19:06Yeah
19:08We found a little bow tie that's cute
19:10Do you like it?
19:11Aw
19:13Don't break your lip
19:14I already did that
19:19Aw
19:20I love you
19:20I love you too
19:22You don't have to be afraid or nervous or anxious about anything
19:25Just have fun, enjoy our life together
19:29It means a lot to me that Courtney has been there for me
19:32I mean, we're so close in so many ways
19:35I feel this love for her
19:37Cheers to that
19:38Cheers to that
19:43We just don't have the passion, the intimacy, the fire
19:48So I really do feel like that's why I'm still talking to Diana
19:52For me, having sex with a woman makes me feel validation
19:56I need that in my life from Courtney
20:03Why don't you show me that massage, the back massager you got?
20:12It's nice
20:14Oh
20:20You know the right spot
20:25We're gonna go do some surfing
20:26Surfing?
20:27Yeah
20:27Last night I met Pedro's friend Villa
20:30And we completely hit it off
20:32You wanna help me?
20:34Is it too tight here?
20:36I'm showing your abs
20:38I'm having butterflies
20:40I haven't felt these emotions in such a long time
20:43We're definitely gonna fall
21:03We're gonna go do some surfing
21:13Surfing?
21:14Yeah
21:14I've got some water because I know it's like humid out
21:15I've never surfed before
21:15I've never surfed before
21:15How does that sound?
21:16I've never surfed either, so let's do it
21:26Okay
21:44Hola
21:45No bathrooms here
21:47No bathrooms here, so just straight to it, I guess
21:49Avia's hot
21:50But talking to him was so easy and I think that that's what hooked me
21:55You wanna help me?
21:58Is it too tight here?
21:59Are you sure this is
22:00Are you gonna be able to move?
22:05Oh my gosh
22:06You look good
22:07I like it
22:07It's showing your abs
22:08You got some muscles going on
22:10Yeah, yeah, we're good
22:11Okay
22:12My life is really upside down right now
22:14So you guys can lay down
22:16And we're gonna start
22:17I have health issues going on
22:20So I have to be careful who I let into my personal space
22:25But anything I can possibly want in someone
22:29He's already showing it to me
22:31Okay, you guys ready to go in the water?
22:34We're definitely gonna fall
22:35I think we're gonna hit some water
22:44Last night when I met Liz
22:47I just felt she had something about her
22:57Great energy
22:58The vibe is awesome
22:59How are you doing?
23:01Good
23:02Yes, very good
23:04I need you
23:05This is how
23:14I have a really good suit
23:15Awesome, me too
23:16This is out of my character
23:18But I would like to hang out with me
23:20I would love to
23:21Yeah
23:21I would, yeah
23:22Maybe tomorrow or something
23:24You tell me when, where, I'm there
23:25Okay
23:26So I'm so down
23:27Okay
23:27Yeah
23:29All of this is completely unexpected
23:31I'm having butterflies
23:32I haven't felt these emotions in such a long time
23:36Do you need help?
23:37Yes, please
23:38Please, yes, I can't
23:40I'm only day two into this vacation
23:42And
23:44All I can think about
23:45Is spending time with Via
23:46And getting to know him
23:48I'm definitely
23:49100%
23:50All in
23:51To see where this can go
23:52I guess I will see you tomorrow
23:54Will do
23:55Yeah
23:55It was so nice
23:57I had a great time
23:58Me too
23:58I do
23:59I do
24:00I do
24:00She can hug
24:01Are we shaved
24:03Come between
24:04I have a smile
24:05I don't know what you're into
24:06I don't know what you want to
24:07I don't know what you've been through
24:10But I know just where you are
24:12It was a good day
24:14yes it's raining but hey i'm with you so my day is bright oh okay well that's good you know
24:21it's like sunshine next to me stop natalie is my sunshine oh my god
24:43let me give you a tour i can't believe i'm here with natalie in her apartment
24:49it's taken a lot of work to get to this point a lot of text and calls and putting on
24:56my
24:56geno charm all right come on over here this is the bedroom this is the bedroom yep lay on the
25:05bed
25:05all right this is my side i guess right here we go oh my gosh it's got massage on it
25:11torture me torture me baby you asked for it there we go oh yeah oh yeah don't stop
25:21i'm a very bad boy you're a very bad boy and you need some serious discipline
25:32so whoa i got a surprise for us we're all hearts tonight so let's get you comfy because we're going
25:39to have a spa night spa night so you get a choice oh we can use that thing scary we
25:45could use the
25:46master blaster for like the back and larger areas and this is for like the face and scalp and i
25:52have
25:52the blaster oil oil yes so you kind of have lubricated up so that it glides wow you sound
26:01really dirty tonight the fact that natalie is offering to give me a massage with her little toys
26:09maybe something good is going to happen tonight i'm really hoping so that would be awesome on the
26:14first night connecting wouldn't it you're gonna have to take your hat off oh my gosh well you're
26:22safe you're in a safe space don't worry okay um all right there perfect see there you go this is
26:31by no
26:31means any foreplay or a way to get him aroused or the way to get sexy time so how does
26:38that feel
26:39freaking awesome yeah i was an esthetician for 10 years i know how to get people to relax and be
26:45comfortable and kind of tell me their deepest darkest secrets very relaxing i know that gino can get
26:52defensive so i want to pamper him to let his guard down so that i can ask him some tough
26:57questions and
26:58i can actually get some honest answers from him you know i'm i'm happy that you came here um i'm
27:04happy that
27:05we reconnected but um i just keep seeing that you have this online battle still with jasmine back and
27:13forth there's a lot of emotions still left there one thing that's concerning me about gino is he is
27:24battling jasmine constantly on social media she's making accusations he's defending himself
27:35she's rebuttaling that and i think they just both look really stupid um see the problem is she's
27:42saying lies about me so i had to defend myself i can't let her lie about me um you know
27:48in public
27:49it's just not fair now if she wouldn't post anything there wouldn't be any back and forth to me it's
27:58a
27:58red flag because any type of emotion whether it be positive or negative is still an emotion attached
28:04to that person does he have these unresolved feelings for jasmine there's a thin line between
28:11love and hate all right well i think it's time to go to bed i will um be right back
28:27oh my god what the hell that turns into a bed or you seriously but you just showed me how
28:38the bed
28:39works that's my bed i'm gonna go in my bed this is your bed i thought things were really going
28:47good
28:47and natalie and i were gonna have this romantic sexy weekend together there we go so i'm really
29:00disappointed
29:01this is not bad oh my god there you go i just ain't bad at all all right i'm gonna
29:07get to bed
29:09you're gonna what i'm gonna go to bed oh you're going to bed i'm gonna go to bed oh okay
29:14bummer
29:16okay good night
29:19there was no way in hell this man was going to be invited into my bed and sleep with me
29:25the first
29:26night he's here i don't think he understood how much he hurt me by not being transparent about him
29:31and jasmine's relationship good night gino sweet dreams sweet dreams i feel a connection with gino i
29:39feel like we could have a future together but trust is earned and he hasn't earned it yet
30:00i feel like there's a lot at stake here because if we give it a try and it doesn't work
30:09out we're
30:09risking of losing our friendship i i just i'm a little confused we we had a kiss
30:15so where is your head
30:34i always wanted a pink heart it is pink and it is sparkly and that i think it finally matches
30:40my
30:44personality
30:44going to meet tony and we're going to an amusement park there's a lot happening in my head because
30:51things are kind of unclear you know is this a date are we just hanging out so i would like
30:56to um get to
30:58the bottom of the bottom of that with him
31:12there she is hi let's see you again oh my goodness absolutely you ready which way do we go this
31:19way
31:19i met vanya two years ago where i actually invited her to a party that i was hosting and she
31:25danced for
31:26some of my work colleagues and we kept in touch ever since at that time i did meet someone else
31:32and i
31:32actually had a very short marriage and after my divorce it took me a while before i could start
31:37thinking about even pursuing someone else again i haven't been on a roller coaster in like over 10
31:44years now well it's about time we break that streak but i think with banya she makes my my worst
31:52days
31:52feel amazing oh the front seat yeah we're always laughing she's very easy to talk to
31:58we have a lot in common how romantic to me it's the best thing ever i've never been in the
32:03front seat
32:04before oh my gosh oh my gosh oh my gosh oh my gosh oh my gosh oh my gosh i
32:30can see all of our
32:35oh my gosh tony is definitely different than guys i normally date the past two relationships
32:45that i've had the guys were very much uh athletes into fitness but what i love about tony is that
32:51he's so cerebral and he's so smart and he's able to keep up in a conversation about anything and everything
32:58oh that was so cool and he's just he's he's incredible i think we should do one of these
33:06oh let's do one of these things how are you with a gun i'm not good with a gun perfect
33:11i think we should
33:12try that then i feel like there's a lot at stake here because i value our friendship so much he
33:18means
33:18the world to me and i know that if we give it a try and it doesn't work out we're
33:23risking of losing
33:24our friendship all right let's see if you can win me something but i don't want to look backwards
33:30and say like oh my god this could have been one of the best relationships of my life but i
33:35didn't
33:35give it a try because i was scared of losing out on a friendship we have a winner number six
33:41that's me
33:46man wow
33:50okay ready i'm gonna pop up here take a little break huh yes all right i feel like we're having
33:56such an awesome time um but i i just i'm a little confused we've been friends for so long we've
34:04been
34:04hanging out for so long but you know like we we had a kiss so what does that mean does
34:11that mean that
34:12we're more than friends that how do you feel about that is that something that you feel like you want
34:17to try to pursue or where's where's your head i mean we've been like best friends for over a year
34:28and a half now you know and it's not an easy decision for me though um for me to commit
34:35to the next step
34:37i worry that we might lose what we have i can't say right now that i can fully commit to
34:45being
34:45exclusive and you know saying that we're in a relationship and i mean obviously i don't want
34:52you dating other people but i feel overwhelmed with just making a decision on the spot where so you are
34:57able to see other people but i'm not i wouldn't say that either but i just can't say yes to
35:02us right now
35:03i hope i'm not imagining a romantic connection with tony that's simply not there that would
35:09just be completely devastating to me
35:14i'm sorry i feel like you're using her i don't know how i'm using her
35:19are you worried that i'm just gonna leave once i'm healed or something
35:23i'm really starting to think what the am i doing with him
35:38should we do a ski shot really yeah yes shots shots
35:43we have to keep moving to keep warm
35:59this is the most exciting two days i've had in months like last night the hotel with colt now i'm
36:05out to the bar with my friends let's go out there it's too cold in here this is the first
36:10time colt's
36:10meeting with them so i'm a little nervous where's colt hey hey my friends have already expressed
36:19their doubts and told me i'm crazy for being with him but i'm hoping once they hang out they see
36:24all
36:25the good things that i see in him hey how's it good nice to meet you and josh nice to
36:30meet you uh this
36:31my wife marie oh hi pleasure to meet you hi hi hi i'm sandy i'm colt sandy and lexi pleasure
36:39to meet
36:39you both how are you feeling i'm okay a little tired a little hard to get around but i feel
36:44like
36:44i'm doing okay corny's been a really great help i'm like a classy housewife on the now the classiest
36:52what is that like though living together like so fresh with her parents the parents are great
36:58but it's been difficult you know and her and i want to be close then you know that's that's awkward
37:04and i i can't do much with my leg either so he can't stand on it he can't kneel i
37:09can't put weight on
37:10it basically that takes away every position it takes a lot of them out they're just riding the cowboy
37:15that's it that's all you can do well that's one thing you can do our hotel date we had yesterday
37:22wasn't a total disaster we attempted to have intercourse we tried we tried we got closer yeah
37:30we got closer than it's like approaching a black hole we get definitely close each time but what's the
37:35black hole i'm gonna suck you into my black hole that's the idea and we basically just scissor
37:45and oral but we together we literally together we literally together we're just going through a lot
37:56right now we're having a lot of issues not a lot but some what's the biggest struggle right now that
38:04you
38:04feel trust the trust
38:12at the resort he was talking to like three other girls maybe two three
38:19two or three or five might be more nobody knows wow so but now you're fully committed to courtney
38:27at this point at this point so you're not talking to anybody else
38:34no just courtney that's courtney
38:42i know right now i'm in kind of a gray area talking to diana from brazil but she's been in
38:47my life for a year now and to be perfectly honest i have feelings for her
38:54but i love courtney so i'm trying to keep things platonic
39:00i don't know i just feel like a lot of problems in such a short amount of time
39:04you're like living in her house you guys are not even intimate i'm sorry i feel like you're using her
39:13um i mean like are you i don't know i don't think i'm i don't know how i'm using her
39:18are you worried
39:20that i'm just gonna leave once i'm healed or something but you've spent all this time worrying
39:25about things that might may or may never happen and i assure you i'm not gonna cheat on you i'm
39:28not
39:29using you but i can't convince you a part of me can't blame courtney's friends for grilling me alive
39:37but honestly i don't need to tell him anything i mean i need to tell courtney that i'm talking to
39:42diana
39:42and i plan on telling her eventually but that's not happening right now
39:50so what are you guys doing after that so we're gonna go to a bar yeah you guys could come
39:54tag along we'll drive you i'm pretty tired i was hoping to go home actually
40:00you want to go out yeah i'm going out so what's your plan are you going to go home guess
40:06i'll uber back
40:10tonight sucked i think my friends are like what are you doing what value is he bringing to your life
40:17this man you don't trust like he can't even keep his
40:21hey babe have fun it's like i'm torn i see his potential but then i also see it through their
40:28eyes you'll be fine though i'll be fine all right there's a part of me that loves him but i'm
40:34really
40:34starting to think what the am i doing with him well that was fun this time on the single life
40:45one two three this is kimberly hi kim is a breath of fresh air you're a beautiful woman you're
40:56charming it's like i'm charming i like you i really want to find love but it's terrifying to think my
41:02past could make somebody walk away from me i'm in a stage of my life where i see what i
41:09want and i go
41:10after it i just can't say yes to us right now i've already wasted so much time on men who
41:18don't know
41:18what they want out of life i'm done with that hi hello i'm worried natalie's friends are going to have
41:27this preconceived notion about me and not even give me a chance are you talking to other women well
41:37do you not like him i really don't i think he's hiding something why are you here alone what is
41:46the
41:46girl sophie she's been kind of off shipping a little distance right now my sister nicole she's very
41:54protected maybe she's confused confused people her people i feel that i had to listen to nicole because
42:02she always write about my religion which i'm telling the past i think you're going to ruin your
42:07life again maybe i have to walk away what's been going on with pedro he hasn't texted me everything
42:15i told you he knows i've invited you here at the end of the day you should have my back
42:21not his back
42:22i don't know what the going on i feel like sophie's looking for someone to blame for her relationship
42:29problems with pedro but she's not going to put the blame on me this is
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