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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 17: Welcome to Your Destination
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:37I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife,
00:00:44then that's all I wanted.
00:00:46Can we have sex?
00:00:51On our second anniversary.
00:00:54You forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being a romantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:06I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:08Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:16Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:24If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You blow it.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:34This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:38Because she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:42My trust is broken right now.
00:01:46I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:53I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
00:01:59Today, not yesterday, you have to decide it.
00:02:02But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:08I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:12Hey, guys.
00:02:13Am I crazy or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:19She's a psycho.
00:02:21Good luck.
00:02:24You all right?
00:02:24Yeah.
00:02:25Are you okay?
00:02:26So cute.
00:02:27You run to her after this, right?
00:02:29Asshole.
00:02:31I feel like I was falling in love with her.
00:02:33But that I'm done.
00:02:57Come to the gym?
00:02:58No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:03:00Rough night.
00:03:01Another one?
00:03:03Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:05She went off yelling at the, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:09How many people were there?
00:03:10Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:11Oh, f*** off.
00:03:12She stands up and she's like, how do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another
00:03:18girl financially?
00:03:19I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:22Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:25I just don't know what to do.
00:03:26I'm confused.
00:03:33It's going to be hard to come back from that.
00:03:35It's pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:36Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:41This morning I'm really deflated.
00:03:43That was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:48I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:51Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:55That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:04:00I don't know how much damage she realizes she's done.
00:04:03It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:04So, that's a lot to think about.
00:04:08I'm f***ing.
00:04:11Hurting.
00:04:13And for s***ing.
00:04:14Angry.
00:04:15Angry.
00:04:17Hey.
00:04:19Elise.
00:04:20How are you?
00:04:24I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:30I couldn't sleep and I just am embarrassed.
00:04:34I should not have acted that way.
00:04:42Is that a, is that a sorry?
00:04:44Is that a...
00:04:45I'm, I'm sorry.
00:04:47I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:48Like, I'm, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:54Did you realize what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:58I don't like embarrassment or personal s*** coming up.
00:05:01I acted a f***ing fool and I, I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:05I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:09The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions
00:05:13for me and sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me and I'm just worried now where
00:05:21that's where this makes us stand.
00:05:28That s*** should never happen once.
00:05:31There's gonna be a common occurrence.
00:05:34s*** that.
00:05:36You know, I'm out.
00:05:44Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:52Are we still gonna go to the zoo?
00:05:59Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon.
00:06:01I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:08I would understand if you don't want to take me, I, I, I, whatever, but you can go to the
00:06:14zoo.
00:06:17I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:19For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:23But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me
00:06:27or he really likes it.
00:06:28But I think it was a massive overreaction.
00:06:31Couldn't have been worse, really.
00:06:33And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the relationship.
00:06:40I gotta get ready.
00:06:41Can I have a hug?
00:06:43Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:51I think I actually really embarrassed Josh big time.
00:06:56I'm sorry.
00:06:58Yeah.
00:07:01But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:07:06My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:11Well, good luck with that.
00:07:14My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:16And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:20really am,
00:07:21I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:31Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:33Mmm, they're cute.
00:07:36Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:37Uh, yes.
00:07:38I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:41100%, yeah.
00:07:42Hi!
00:07:43Her name is Kamira.
00:07:45Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:47She is very cute.
00:07:48Can I touch her?
00:07:49We can't touch her here.
00:07:51We are completely hands off.
00:07:52She does like people a lot.
00:07:54Hi!
00:07:55Oh, really?
00:07:57Hi!
00:07:58She's like a little teddy bearer.
00:08:00She is like a little teddy.
00:08:01Most people probably think with animals in Australia, they think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:08:07We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:09Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:11Fun fact, I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:16Really?
00:08:18Yes.
00:08:20Thank you so much.
00:08:21Thank you so much.
00:08:22It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:23Anytime.
00:08:23Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:25Bye.
00:08:27Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:29We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:32We can.
00:08:35I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time, but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you know,
00:08:39everything that went on last night.
00:08:50So weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:54Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet, or are we okay, or, like, I'm trying to just,
00:09:01I don't know how, like, to interact right now.
00:09:05I don't know what to do.
00:09:09I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, and how much you mean to
00:09:13me, and then f*** what.
00:09:15You go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:20And that was completely wrong, and I will own that, and I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise
00:09:26last night was, like, that's not, that's not cool.
00:09:30And I'm sorry.
00:09:32All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:35You are so much different to her.
00:09:37She's a friend.
00:09:38You are my girl.
00:09:41You embarrass her.
00:09:42You f***ing embarrass me.
00:09:44And you're supposed to be the one?
00:09:46Like, I don't know if I can be with someone after that.
00:09:52The f***ing thing is, like, I'm falling in love with you.
00:09:56Like, I am.
00:09:58But things like last night makes me hesitate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:10:09I think the bottom line is, I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her,
00:10:16and it's just bringing up a lot of emotions.
00:10:19And I think just the...
00:10:20You got answers.
00:10:21You got answers.
00:10:24You're just not willing to accept them.
00:10:32I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:35I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:37It will not happen again.
00:10:44No, I appreciate that.
00:10:47You're giving me another chance.
00:10:53I'm not very confident.
00:10:56See how convincing you are.
00:10:59I'm sorry.
00:11:01When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing.
00:11:06And it scares me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:11:11Baby, they're so cute.
00:11:13Can we feed them?
00:11:15I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh.
00:11:20And that's not fair to him.
00:11:22You are so cute.
00:11:25I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance and not throw this
00:11:30all away for one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:35But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:53I feel like I'm not going to be able to do this.
00:12:33Earlier today, I met with Laura's friend, best friend, Michael.
00:12:42I can't believe what he told me.
00:12:46She let me believe that Michael was the one who made the move, and she made the move.
00:12:56I always think that Michael has feelings for Laura, but now I see that she is the one who
00:13:04wanted to be more than friends.
00:13:07How do I know she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:13:12Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:17Honestly, it's a big deal for me.
00:13:22Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:25Maybe there was a lot of lies, and maybe soul a lie.
00:13:34Hey, baby.
00:13:35Hey.
00:13:36How was your day?
00:13:38Perfect.
00:13:39Was it okay?
00:13:40Yeah.
00:13:40Yeah.
00:13:40I'm curious about it.
00:13:41I enjoyed it.
00:13:45Did you really?
00:13:46Yeah.
00:13:47He's a good guy.
00:13:50I've been saying that, that's a relief to hear.
00:13:53Why?
00:13:54He's a good guy.
00:13:56But it turns out, you were not so good.
00:14:04Why?
00:14:05Why?
00:14:05What did I do?
00:14:09He told me that you made a move on him.
00:14:31I didn't say anything because it was like, literally nothing to tell.
00:14:42You make me think like, Michael is the enemy, he's trying to break us up.
00:14:46I didn't make you think that.
00:14:47You thought that all on your own.
00:14:49But you did not avoid it.
00:14:52It was almost a year ago.
00:14:55I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:59This is a little thing.
00:15:00Are you sure?
00:15:00It is a little thing.
00:15:01It is not a little thing.
00:15:02It's 100% a little thing.
00:15:04It was one tiny little thing.
00:15:06We got drunk.
00:15:07We were on the couch.
00:15:08I tried to kiss him.
00:15:09Big deal.
00:15:13One night, almost a full year into our friendship.
00:15:16And before I met BeerCon.
00:15:19Michael and I were watching TV and we both had pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:24Pretty soon we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch.
00:15:29And I tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:32He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:36Although it was really hurtful in the moment.
00:15:38Michael and I never talked about it after that.
00:15:41It's not something that ever came up again.
00:15:43And I never told BeerCon that I once tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:48Because I knew if I did, he would never be okay with Michael and me staying friends.
00:15:56I don't trust you.
00:16:01This is your obligation to tell me your path.
00:16:06You tried to kiss me.
00:16:08Okay?
00:16:09Yeah, I did.
00:16:10That means you had feelings for her.
00:16:13You wanted something.
00:16:15They couldn't have it.
00:16:17Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:16:21He is still in your life.
00:16:22And you kept this from a secret.
00:16:25Nothing happened.
00:16:27And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:30It doesn't matter.
00:16:31You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:36What would you like me to say?
00:16:39Maybe you would like, sorry.
00:16:43I was drunk.
00:16:44I tried to kiss him.
00:16:45But he refused me.
00:16:47But we are still friends.
00:16:52That was hard?
00:16:53Nope.
00:16:54You didn't want it to say.
00:16:59I'm trying to change my country.
00:17:01I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:17:06Now, I'm thinking about, maybe I shouldn't.
00:17:12This is so ridiculous.
00:17:19I'm surprised at Birkan's massive reaction.
00:17:24I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell Birkan.
00:17:29I mean, let's be real.
00:17:31He's kept a lot of secrets from me.
00:17:33And I'm still here.
00:17:35That pisses me off.
00:17:39You're missing all the points.
00:17:42I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:45Nothing is going on.
00:17:46Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:49Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:55I...
00:17:55No.
00:17:57Just admit it, you're wrong.
00:18:00Or just don't talk.
00:18:02Maybe when you grow up a little bit, you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:18:06You wanted a young husband.
00:18:08Deal with it.
00:18:10You know what?
00:18:12I wish we never met.
00:18:14I don't have to go through all of this.
00:18:16I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:18You wish that who never met?
00:18:21Us.
00:18:22You and me?
00:18:23Yeah.
00:18:25I can trust you.
00:18:28That's fine.
00:18:28I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:38If you care this much...
00:18:40No, I don't.
00:18:41You cross the line.
00:18:43If you're gonna tell me that you wish we never met,
00:18:46I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:48Okay.
00:19:03There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:19:08What's that?
00:19:09Oral sex.
00:19:12Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex.
00:19:15I am not a woman.
00:19:17I have my...
00:19:21There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:27My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:19:33Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:39We both needed some space away from my mother.
00:19:43But I'm terrified to tell her that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:19:48It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
00:19:51Not just following her orders around.
00:19:57When you know, you know.
00:19:59That's how the story goes.
00:20:02I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:20:04Then you came and made it so easy.
00:20:07I got this in a globe.
00:20:09It looks like we're gonna get wrapped up in bananas.
00:20:12Woo! Banana?
00:20:14You gonna put me at the plate?
00:20:15Yeah.
00:20:24Oh!
00:20:25Oh!
00:20:26Hello, everyone.
00:20:28Hello.
00:20:28Hello, Pa.
00:20:30Welcome.
00:20:30Hello.
00:20:31Good afternoon, Pa. Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:35This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir.
00:20:37Because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:40Go on.
00:20:40We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:41Alright, thank you. Yeah, thank you.
00:20:45Should I really need to remove my tops or something? No.
00:20:48If you want, ma'am.
00:20:49It's okay.
00:20:50It's okay.
00:20:51Last night, she and I, having the night away with each other,
00:20:55getting a chance to be with each other intimately,
00:20:58it was definitely something that we both needed.
00:21:01And I'm hoping the spa treatment is gonna help us de-stress.
00:21:05Okay.
00:21:07Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines,
00:21:10and I have a lot of hard decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:21:16And then, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to your body, ma'am.
00:21:20Very great.
00:21:22Oh, wow.
00:21:23I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:21:26I'm extra, extra long.
00:21:31This is my first time that I've done this banana leaf treatment,
00:21:34and it feels like you're being placed on, like, as a food.
00:21:38Which is, most people in my country, they would use banana leaves to wrap food around.
00:21:43It's kind of funny.
00:21:46How's things looking up there, ladies? Pretty good?
00:21:49It's okay, sir.
00:21:50Yeah.
00:21:51I feel like a giant wrapped tamale here.
00:21:55Tamale, bro.
00:21:55They're gonna throw me in the oven next.
00:21:57I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:22:00They're gonna steam you.
00:22:02This is so strange.
00:22:03Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:22:07Oh, my goodness.
00:22:08But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move
00:22:15as the sun blasts me in the face and melts off my woes.
00:22:23It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:22:27Well, honey, this is quite relaxing.
00:22:30Yeah, I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:22:32And it's starting to rain.
00:22:35Oh, yeah, I love the rain.
00:22:37Yeah.
00:22:38Gotta love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:22:40Oh, the banana leaf.
00:22:44Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:48Yeah.
00:22:50I've been thinking about everything.
00:22:53And I feel like last night just strengthened the urge to be with you more.
00:22:58And so maybe I could get a job and start working here for the next few years.
00:23:05Wow.
00:23:06I kept praying for you to stay here.
00:23:09I love you, baby bear.
00:23:11I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:23:15I would try to help you find a job.
00:23:17If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:23:22I'll do what I can, my love.
00:23:25Sheena and I, from the very start, have always dreamed about making our lives in the United States together.
00:23:31But at this point, living in the Philippines is, I feel, the best option.
00:23:37It means I get to be with Sheena faster.
00:23:41I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things that
00:23:47are way out of my bounds.
00:23:50It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her just rips up my heart and tears
00:23:56out my soul.
00:23:58I personally believe you're my wife, even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any, you know, church.
00:24:05You're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:24:10And I hope that your mom would happen to respect that as our decision to make, not hers, but to
00:24:18us only.
00:24:21Well, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:24:27Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I proposed to Sheena, I felt like
00:24:34I needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:24:40That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:24:48My mom has always been a very controlling person, and I'm terrified to tell her and Dev that I'm planning
00:24:54on staying in the Philippines.
00:24:58I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:25:01Babe, mom would strangle everything that she can just to get rid of our relationship, even though I happen to
00:25:10try to do many things for her.
00:25:12It's time for you to grow up and be a man and try to tell mom that you want to
00:25:17do some things that you wanted to do, not just following her orders, her orders around.
00:25:23You have to make your own decisions.
00:25:28My mother, she's always been my safety net, but her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
00:25:35I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines because it's going to definitely give me some space away
00:25:42from my mother.
00:25:44Hello, ma'am, sir. Excuse voice. Time's up.
00:25:46Okay, thank you.
00:25:48But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything my mom has told me not to do, and
00:25:55I'm scared.
00:25:59I'm tired of waiting, and I'm ready to start a life together.
00:26:03It's your time to shine, honey. I'm there for you.
00:26:17You have to decide it, yes or no, but if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:26:32You have to decide it, you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:41Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:26:45You have to decide what they can do.
00:27:14You just want the answer.
00:27:16You want to have a baby or not.
00:27:32My uncle said, we are strict about having children because they represent our family
00:27:39line continuing.
00:27:42That's what we believe, and it's not going to change.
00:27:46So we only wait for you, and you know that.
00:27:52In their culture, having a baby is the most important thing.
00:27:59I understand that, and I would hate for Trish not to be respected by her community over
00:28:04this.
00:28:05If Trish didn't have a baby, I feel like she would be ashamed.
00:28:12I would feel awful if she looked at herself in that way.
00:28:26But at the same time, I'm feeling like I'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker.
00:28:34You don't feel like I'm being forced to make a life-changing decision in such little time.
00:28:47I know how important it is to the family, and I really know how important it is to Trish.
00:28:57Trish, if we're going to be together and get married, then I want to make you happy.
00:29:05I want you to feel like your life is complete.
00:29:12So, I have to say yes.
00:29:18So you're saying yes now?
00:29:21Yes.
00:29:22Why you change your mind like that?
00:29:25I didn't fully understand, you know, before.
00:29:47I'm really shocked that Rick said yes suddenly, because he was not sure about his answer.
00:29:55Maybe because of my uncle's pressure, but I'm really excited.
00:30:02And also my family is very excited to hear that response.
00:30:12So when are we going to have the baby?
00:30:20I will file for the visa.
00:30:23Yeah, it's going to take at least eight months to a year.
00:30:27And then once she's approved, after we get married, then that's when we're going to start planning our family together.
00:30:36What's the purpose of the wife?
00:30:40Yes.
00:30:41What's the perfect thing that what's the right level of this life?
00:30:46Yes.
00:30:47What's the right level?
00:30:48Yes.
00:30:49The right level is the right level.
00:30:52We're getting there and it's going somewhere we've got the right level of the life.
00:31:03It's a good reason why we're fighting.
00:31:04Say quick and quick and make peace and quick.
00:31:12So what if it's after 20 years, you start?
00:31:16By the end of August, in about three months,
00:31:20then I will propose to Trish.
00:31:24So in three months, we are going to be engaged,
00:31:29and you will start the process?
00:31:32If everything goes in the direction
00:31:34that it's been going in the last few days, then yes.
00:31:38That's what's going to happen.
00:31:55They are going to give a blessing
00:32:01for everything.
00:32:03This is great news.
00:32:06I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:32:11Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision,
00:32:14because I really wanted to be with Trish,
00:32:18and the only way that I would be able to is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:32:24But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is, it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:32:37I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities of having this family with Trish.
00:32:45She would be a great mother, and I'm actually starting to envision it, and things are looking really good.
00:32:55Her happiness is all I want.
00:33:08When you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:33:13I'm going to do that, but you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:33:21Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:33:24I can't even spend money anymore.
00:33:26I'm done.
00:33:39We have to snuggle before we get up.
00:33:41One last snuggle.
00:33:44Show me your love.
00:33:46Show me your love.
00:33:47Let me show you my love.
00:33:49Show me your love.
00:33:50Say how you carry my own.
00:33:52Can we have moral sex with you?
00:33:53Before you go.
00:33:54Before you.
00:33:56I hope so.
00:33:59Let me see.
00:34:00Baby.
00:34:01Baby.
00:34:02There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:34:05One promise.
00:34:07What is that?
00:34:08Oral sex.
00:34:09Oh.
00:34:11Why are you putting it off?
00:34:14I know you like it.
00:34:15And you've been talking.
00:34:16You've been hammering on that.
00:34:18There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:34:21And that's a major one right there for me.
00:34:24It's major for me.
00:34:27I've never had oral sex with Lisa.
00:34:30Because I've never tried it before.
00:34:32I don't know how to do it.
00:34:34Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex she wants.
00:34:38And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:34:41I am not a woman.
00:34:43I have my .
00:34:46Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:51When we get married, I'll make it up to you.
00:34:53Okay?
00:34:54Promise.
00:34:55I promise you.
00:34:56You better keep this promise because I've done so much.
00:34:59I'm sorry.
00:35:01Okay?
00:35:02I'll make it up to you.
00:35:06I wish it's possible for us to stay like, spend like one more week.
00:35:12It's not possible.
00:35:14You've got to start getting ready.
00:35:18Okay.
00:35:19I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:35:24And more than half of my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies.
00:35:29And then I had to make up for all those lies.
00:35:34And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:35:36Everything is done.
00:35:38I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:35:40I don't want to go home.
00:35:45Baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you before you left.
00:35:51I sent you to help us to find my papers.
00:35:55So that means when you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I'll get to America,
00:36:01right?
00:36:01I'm going to do that, babe.
00:36:03My first step is to get back to work.
00:36:05And then I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:36:09Okay.
00:36:10We are going to find out which is better, the K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:36:16Which one is going to get you to America faster?
00:36:19That would be nice.
00:36:20Okay? So that's what we'll do.
00:36:22Yes, I can.
00:36:25But, babe, you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:36:33At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer getting you to America, doing what we need
00:36:41to do.
00:36:41I cannot send any more money. I can't even spend money anymore. I'm done.
00:37:03You have to try not to because I have to save for us to get you to America.
00:37:09Um, babe, there's no problem about that. I have you.
00:37:15So we have a game plan now?
00:37:17Yes.
00:37:18Hmm.
00:37:22All right, I have to get dressed. You have to get dressed. We have to get going.
00:37:25Yes.
00:37:27She said she's not going to give me money anymore. Fine, because I'm not getting married to her because of
00:37:32the money she's giving me. No.
00:37:34I'm getting married to her because she's the one I want to settle down with.
00:37:40She has good plans for me. She's the one possessing my visa to come to America.
00:37:45She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:37:48Babe, this is so funny.
00:37:50Are you going to wear it today?
00:37:53Do you know what women will say to me?
00:37:55What?
00:37:55They will say, your wife is wicked.
00:37:58Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:38:00Oh, my God.
00:38:02So, um, she deserves an applause. She's, she deserves a good, you know, good things.
00:38:07That's why I'll wait for you forever.
00:38:16All I want is love. And she has been giving it to me. I will miss her, um, her soft
00:38:22kiss. I will miss everything about her.
00:38:27Even the sky is crying. It's raining.
00:38:31You're my husband. I love you.
00:38:33I love you.
00:38:38I knew it was going to be hard. I didn't know it was going to be this hard.
00:38:42Last time we were here, I got engaged to you.
00:38:48Oh, my God, baby.
00:38:56This trip was nothing what I expected.
00:38:58I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed.
00:39:01I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing.
00:39:04I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:39:09I didn't imagine any of this. I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:39:13I mean, none of this I never could have experienced without coming here.
00:39:23I don't want to go.
00:39:27But I have to go.
00:39:31I can't wait to do with you.
00:39:33It'll happen soon.
00:39:35When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:39:55It's okay, baby.
00:40:00It's okay, baby.
00:40:02It's okay, baby.
00:40:03I love you so much.
00:40:05I love you so, so much.
00:40:19I feel that I will not see her again because anything can happen she might go back to her
00:40:28country and she might change her mind on most of the promises like bringing me to her country you
00:40:33know um the visa I am hoping she would do it but we are not married legally yet so it
00:40:41is very hard
00:40:42for me to say goodbye I miss you so much I love you baby I can't do it you have
00:40:51to walk away from me
00:40:51I can't do it
00:41:06okay I'll go I'll go
00:41:12it's very hard I feel like I'm not going to see him again even though I know I'm going to
00:41:16I'm making these plans but I'm thinking what if they fall through
00:41:22what if it's more than six months what if it's more than a year what if what if what if
00:41:27it's two
00:41:28years what happens between Daniel and I I don't know
00:41:49it's nice a big house we can have sex in a lot of rooms
00:41:55I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night but she's trying to
00:42:00make it up to me you know I've never used the kitchen in my house so the fact that I'm
00:42:04doing
00:42:04this must mean I really like you
00:42:13you said let's turn the heat up I said you play with my heart you said you're fine with the
00:42:20cheap stuff
00:42:20it tastes the same in the dark in the light of the cold grey cries for the old days it's
00:42:29a match in the dark
00:42:31okay we have everything you think
00:42:33yep okay to a trip it's just us
00:42:37Chris gets the place to himself now
00:42:50blue mountains
00:42:53what's this it's called deodorant
00:43:00I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night but Elise has realised
00:43:05she
00:43:05was in the wrong and she's trying to make it up to me and she's organised a two night stay
00:43:10at the
00:43:10blue mountains take me away the blue mountains are known for their hiking and waterfalls and
00:43:16it's a different part of nature besides the beaches that Sydney has so I'm excited you know
00:43:21I've never even been I wouldn't say all is forgiven but she's trying and this is a good start
00:43:38oh my god are we here we are here
00:43:43nice it's a big house we can have sex in a lot of rooms
00:43:48yes we can
00:43:52I knew absolutely nothing about the blue mountains but Josh has always spoken about it and how much
00:43:58she wanted to go so I decided to book us a trip and there's hot tubs there so I was
00:44:02like love that
00:44:05look baby look what I got us whoa oh wow a lot of space for a lot of activities you're
00:44:13the best I know
00:44:15I thought it was a great idea to get out of Bondi away from Nat away from Chris away from
00:44:21boats
00:44:22I just want for us to really unplug and just be with each other more
00:44:28get out of the kitchen I was cooking for you
00:44:33you know I've never used the kitchen in my house so the fact that I'm doing this for
00:44:38you must mean I really like you that does mean a lot this should be fun
00:44:52this is not the worst stuff I thought was going to be in my mouth
00:45:08half of it went in my mouth my face my boobs maybe should I take it off
00:45:16why isn't this coming to a boil I don't know how to turn on the soap
00:45:20oh which pasta do you want that's so embarrassing what packet was that in
00:45:28I'm making you two types of pasta perfect
00:45:35nope not ready oh god this feels really good
00:45:47I read somewhere I heard that you'll know if pasta's ready if it sticks to the wall so like
00:45:53if you cook pasta and then it sticks to the wall then you know it's ready like
00:45:56yeah but I don't think that's the same with penne pasta
00:46:02let's throw in the pasta
00:46:05oh my god there's water in here oh I think I just ruined the sauce
00:46:11baby
00:46:13the kitchen is definitely not her element but I love seeing the side of Elise that's
00:46:18doing something that she's not used to doing
00:46:22at least she keeps me on my toes I don't like it when things get stagnant or boring or stale
00:46:29and I know it's not going to be dull with her let's see how we go
00:46:34is it good?
00:46:35it's not that bad
00:46:42it's horrible
00:46:44be honest
00:46:45I'm not picky
00:46:46it was the most fun I've had making dinner
00:46:50I laughed my head off and I needed that
00:46:52me too
00:46:54you know what's so cute about Josh is like when I f*** up or I do something stupid
00:46:59or I feel really awkward
00:47:00like he makes so light of it
00:47:02I don't know it's like it's the little moments like like then that I'm like you know what
00:47:06like I feel like he could be my forever
00:47:10but there's just one thing he hasn't followed through on and it's been constantly playing
00:47:14in the back of my mind
00:47:15I don't know if I can go back to Florida
00:47:20not having met your son
00:47:22to see how you are as a father
00:47:25you would have you would have met him already I would want you to
00:47:27but he's moved away
00:47:29so for now
00:47:30like can we FaceTime all that work
00:47:33yeah
00:47:35I'm not trying to harp on him again after everything that we've went through
00:47:38but I'm leaving soon and I haven't met anyone in his family
00:47:41I haven't met his son
00:47:43and this is a huge part of his life that I'm completely missing out on
00:47:47so I really really hope that it can happen before the end of my trip
00:47:53pretty full
00:47:54me too
00:47:59I'm looking for wedding bands
00:48:01I like classic stuff
00:48:04it is really important for me to have the wedding ring
00:48:09$268
00:48:10I think he's not sure
00:48:14you don't want someone mistaking me as you know still available single woman
00:48:20they can have you
00:48:21okay
00:48:22okay
00:48:47you really wanted that don't you
00:48:51here we go
00:48:53weee
00:48:54ready boom
00:48:56wooo
00:48:57wooo
00:48:58woooo
00:48:59whooo
00:48:59whooo
00:49:03whooo
00:49:03that ticked out to my voz
00:49:18that was fun yeah that was so fun oh look at those jobs that's where you can find very nice
00:49:27wedding gowns and dresses like really pretty nice can't wait for the anniversary party yeah
00:49:39thanks with giovanni and i are really good and now in a couple of days we're having our
00:49:45anniversary party where we're going to renew our vows
00:49:51since we never had a wedding in person basically it's just like a second wedding to me you know
00:50:00because last time we didn't get to touch each other face to face
00:50:04i've been dreaming about this and now it's happening and i just can't wait
00:50:15okay are you ready yeah i guess so
00:50:21now that we're going to bring you our vows good afternoon we decided to look at rings
00:50:31we've been married almost three years and sometimes i still can't believe that jubon
00:50:37hasn't put a ring on it yet i feel like i'm the only woman in the world that got married
00:50:44without
00:50:44a wedding band hi hello what are you looking for uh we're looking for wedding bands we have
00:50:53different style okay what are you prepared for well i'm okay with a simple plain wedding band i want it
00:51:01more classic i like classic stuff
00:51:09this one
00:51:14it is really important for me to have the wedding ring my symbol of love you need a ring to
00:51:21symbolize
00:51:22that i assume you don't want some men mistaken me as you know still available single woman they can
00:51:28have you okay okay she's on the market i'll go i'm playing you relax when is your wedding
00:51:38well we're actually married already but we don't have an official wedding rings yet we did our marriage
00:51:46online that's why you know to be fair you know i did get you a ring okay you send me
00:51:56your money and i
00:51:57bought a ring that's under 100 that's turned my finger green but that's what i thought no i thought
00:52:07it's just a substitute drink how about poor sir what do you think when it come to bands like i
00:52:15prefer like black like this silver in the middle kind of sporty but they don't sell that
00:52:22i already bought myself a non-expensive ring before we got married and i like it a lot
00:52:33i'm not a jewelry person and i really don't want to spend money on something i don't need or want
00:52:44i don't want to spend money on something i don't want to spend money on something i don't want to
00:52:48do you have something that's a little bit wider i have different kind of design okay listen
00:52:58this one is good i like this one more simple but really looks like i'm married
00:53:05you know what i mean how much is this per gram no yes 15 5 10 in peso 15 5
00:53:1410 how much is that
00:53:15us that's 268 in dollar 268 yeah do you have anything budget no we didn't really have a budget but
00:53:28he's not sure are we gonna buy this we mean today yeah i could come back
00:53:45we can come back yeah because i gotta sort out my bank stuff okay
00:53:55why would you bring me bring shopping if we're not gonna buy anything anyway what's the point of going
00:54:04out just to get an idea of what you want
00:54:15thank you so much bye bye
00:54:19i feel so humiliated i can't even have the cheapest ring it's not just a jewelry it's a symbol of
00:54:30our
00:54:30marriage i waited six years to be together in person he never applied for spousal visa and now i still
00:54:41don't have a ring
00:54:44once again he is making me feel like he's not invested in our relationship
00:55:06i don't know why he insists that i'm in love with him i really don't i mean you did jump
00:55:13on a plane and
00:55:14come to my rescue i don't think he's the only person that thinks that there's a lot of layers there
00:55:23and i mean
00:55:44oh hey hey what concern from that phone call you gave me yeah me too
00:56:01i'm assuming you've talked in beer con yeah i did it was super great thanks for that
00:56:07i kind of partly blame you okay
00:56:13i don't know he's you don't know i don't know what was said between you and him
00:56:18i only know my end of the story okay so we have to come together
00:56:22okay super curious what was going through your head telling him that i hit on you
00:56:31like i don't understand what how that even came up we never did anything and he's pissed off about it
00:56:38because i didn't tell him told me that he wishes he never met me and i kind of feel like
00:56:44there was
00:56:45zero reason for you to bring that up okay and i'd like to know why you did okay
00:56:53i'm brought it up because beer con was under the impression that i was in love with you that man
00:56:59kept pushing and pushing and pushing and at some point i need him to understand
00:57:06that i said no to us having a relationship but you were the one that asked and from that he
00:57:14got very
00:57:14upset and i tried to reassure him it was a year ago it didn't i mean it was before you
00:57:19met him
00:57:19i feel like honestly it feels like a backhanded way of trying to sabotage it
00:57:27how long have you been here with him how long have you been here with him two and a half
00:57:32weeks
00:57:33and in two and a half weeks you cannot convince him that was not a threat
00:57:43but that's not on me i did everything i could to defuse that situation
00:57:49i don't know why he insists that i'm in love with you
00:57:53i really don't i mean you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue
00:57:59i don't think he's the only person that thinks that
00:58:05there's a lot of layers there but no that's not something i want to happen anyhow
00:58:13we're friends i don't want to anymore
00:58:18at the end of the day i want you to be happy all i ever heard was little stories here
00:58:23and
00:58:23there about him from you you said all these bad things and just why does she keep talking to this
00:58:29guy so i came to meet him to see all the other good stuff and you don't have to worry
00:58:35about him and
00:58:41i don't even know what to do right now like there's part of me that just wants to like go
00:58:45have another
00:58:46conversation with him but i don't even know what to say because he just told me he wishes he never
00:58:50met me okay but the opposite of love is not anger it's apathy so angry means he still loves you
00:58:58i don't believe michael when he says he doesn't have any feelings for me at all romantically
00:59:05but i think ultimately he does have my best interest in mind and i think he does care about
00:59:11the future of my relationship with beer con beer con is the person i need in my life and i
00:59:18want to
00:59:19fix this i just don't really know how to go about it so what do i do i feel like
00:59:26he never could
00:59:27understand that i didn't feel like that was that big of a deal he acknowledged that he felt the way
00:59:33he
00:59:33did it didn't matter it didn't matter whether he was right or not no i never said that at the
00:59:38end
00:59:38of the day the relationship is more important than the argument which means somebody has to say i'm sorry
00:59:49it's amazing how the words i'm sorry when said truly can diffuse the situation okay i see your point
00:59:58i guess i'll go give him a call and see if i can fix that thank you
01:00:08i'll let you know how it goes thank you yeah
01:00:30how are you i'm good okay how are you i'm okay
01:00:37um i was just wondering if we could talk
01:00:44uh-uh not today i'm sorry did you say not today yeah
01:00:55am i not supposed to come back to the apartment i'm sorry just give me that space
01:01:04okay i guess i will get a room somewhere okay we both need time and we both need to think
01:01:15about what's
01:01:15what's going on okay okay okay bye bye
01:01:32i don't want to force you but like am i ever going to meet your son
01:01:37when elise asked to meet my son i can see that she really really cares
01:01:41but honestly after all the fighting with elise i've had my doubts about trying to let her in
01:01:46the most important part of my life
01:01:56oh my god oh that's hot oh that's nice right oh it's really hot
01:02:03that's burning me oh you found the champagne i got it it did sound good
01:02:08i think we should open it wow cheers to that
01:02:25what a perfect ending to a perfect little guy good drives good cooking
01:02:34it's so funny huh so funny okay i tried
01:02:39so am i making it up to you am i doing a good job so far yeah absolutely well have
01:02:46i made it up to
01:02:47you enough that like you can let me in your own world yeah well i want to be with you
01:02:57and i'm scared
01:02:59that i've came literally around the world and all i've met is like a few friends and i don't want
01:03:05to force you but like am i ever going to meet your son
01:03:14when elise asked to meet my son or you know talk to my son i find that endearing but honestly
01:03:20the last
01:03:20couple of days after all the fighting with elise i've had my doubts about whether i'll introduce him
01:03:25or not obviously i'm very protective of my son so i want to be confident that this relationship is
01:03:32going to work i understand he's young and it's like a video call and it's probably like a lot to
01:03:40explain to him yeah i do want to prove how much you mean to me but um that's been playing
01:03:49on me heavily
01:03:51what's been playing on you heavily explain that it's just been a tough year i didn't i didn't move
01:03:59him away but you know he's an hour and a half plane ride and i don't see him as much
01:04:05as i want
01:04:07i still feel like he thinks i can get up there a lot more than i can so it's just
01:04:15a guilty feeling for me at the moment i miss him you know especially when you're here you know
01:04:23really well yeah well because when you're here i think you know if if he was here as well it'll
01:04:27be like i'd love you two to get along and then it'd be like perfect little world
01:04:35i guess it's just painful to to think about it it's okay to have feelings it's okay to be upset
01:04:44if you weren't emotional about your son and you didn't feel this way i would be worried
01:04:49i'd be very very worried that means you're a good dad and it means you care
01:04:59you know it's like having a son's a responsibility and like excitement and you do things with him
01:05:03and then when something like that gets taken away from you you're like i feel like i lost myself
01:05:10yeah i feel like i've sort of lost a bit of myself
01:05:15my relationship with my son we're really tight i've been there since he was born he's my little
01:05:21partner in crime um we go camping we go fishing surfing you know we kick footballs we go and play
01:05:27golf it's such a good part of my life so it really did hurt this year when i didn't have
01:05:35that
01:05:37i want to help make you feel like you're back together
01:05:43i want to be that rock for you
01:05:47how are you gonna do that be there for you support you in any way i can but you have
01:05:53to
01:05:53let me into your life i can't do that without getting brought into your life
01:06:01this is very emotional because being away from my son affected me you know more than i thought
01:06:07but i don't want that to hold me back from bringing elise fully into my life
01:06:10i can see that she really really cares she's shown that she's worthy of you know getting to know my
01:06:16son but at the same time it is scary to let her in the most important part of my life
01:06:23what if things don't work out you know that's going to be pretty devastating for all of us
01:06:28well i'm here for you now
01:06:51i mean after getting her family's approval
01:06:59i just it up
01:07:03i don't want anything
01:07:25i don't want anything
01:07:35My family is happy that you're going to give me a baby.
01:07:48Hello, man.
01:07:49Wow.
01:07:50Thank you for your blessing.
01:07:52Oh, my God, they're crying.
01:07:54Hello, man.
01:08:00I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them yes,
01:08:03and I'm willing to have a child.
01:08:06But it felt great to get Trisha's father's blessing.
01:08:10Overall, I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's family,
01:08:13but I'm sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo.
01:08:18Now Trisha and I, we can sleep together
01:08:20and, you know, take a nice, warm shower together
01:08:23and not have to worry about the eyeballs on us.
01:08:29They were really happy.
01:08:31You see, all of them...
01:08:33Oh, wasn't it?
01:08:33Wasn't it?
01:08:36I thought there was going to be, like, fireworks set off
01:08:39after I said that, after I agreed to have that baby.
01:08:44They're so sweet.
01:08:46God, I miss them.
01:08:50I'm ready to have a baby.
01:08:52But what if you change your mind?
01:08:59Mary, as long as we're going and moving in the right direction,
01:09:04I'm all on board with having a baby with you
01:09:07because I know that it'll make you happy
01:09:09and that's what you really want.
01:09:14I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind
01:09:18about whether or not I'm financially ready to have another child.
01:09:23But I know that if I don't follow through with my promises,
01:09:28this could put Trish in a very bad situation with her family.
01:09:33I know how much her family means to her.
01:09:36So I feel like I have to keep my word.
01:09:41I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation
01:09:44to financially support another child.
01:09:50Yeah, I'm kind of banking on that.
01:09:54Looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out, huh?
01:09:58Our future.
01:10:04You're...
01:10:05Do, Mom.
01:10:07Baby, I love you more than anything.
01:10:20Do you have to use the restroom or anything?
01:10:23No, I don't.
01:10:24I don't eat anything like this dog or the chicken.
01:10:32Well, damn.
01:10:35My flight's been delayed.
01:10:37That's it.
01:10:38We wait for one hour.
01:10:41Hope this mad boy's going straight to Tana.
01:10:45A couple of days in Tana
01:10:46before my baby
01:10:50is gonna go back.
01:10:55That's a really sad story.
01:11:28We were waiting on our flight, and it just kept getting delayed.
01:11:33The whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her.
01:11:37I kept telling her, yes, I love you.
01:11:41Eventually, she says, you know why I'm asking?
01:11:45And then Trish demanded that I give her my phone.
01:11:52It kind of hit me that I noticed she kept looking over at my phone,
01:12:00and she probably saw that my ex had texted me.
01:12:05Is this the same ex you went to see in Columbia?
01:12:10Yes.
01:12:24A few days ago, I got a text message from my ex.
01:12:31And then she was telling me that, you know,
01:12:34she misses the times that we had together,
01:12:38and I responded, and I responded inappropriately.
01:12:47Why did you just told her your message?
01:12:52It was Wednesday.
01:12:53Today is Saturday.
01:12:55Why?
01:12:57I would never hide something.
01:13:00This is what I'm talking about.
01:13:02You never told me what's really great.
01:13:04You didn't tell me if I didn't ask.
01:13:10Why?
01:13:18He told me that he's not talking to his ex,
01:13:21that it's just completely over between Rick and that girl.
01:13:27But they start talking while we are at my father's house.
01:13:42He makes me sad.
01:13:51Like, I love him.
01:13:54We talk about the babies, the future.
01:13:59And I, we just, my dad just give him blessing.
01:14:18I mean, after getting her family's approval,
01:14:22everything just felt, it felt different than it did the whole couple weeks prior.
01:14:28How did I come so close to getting what I wanted?
01:14:34And then I just up.
01:14:40And I'm not sure if I'll get another chance to make things right with Trish.
01:14:44And it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter.
01:14:58Are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the United States?
01:15:04We are leaving tomorrow.
01:15:06I know my mom is not going to accept it,
01:15:09but I'm ready to do what I need to do to ensure Shannon and I are together.
01:15:13I have decided I'm going to stay here in the Philippines.
01:15:18This is our choice.
01:15:20What the , you just came out of your mouth?
01:15:27Can you make things much more,
01:15:34that it doesn't give any sense at all?
01:15:43Man, I'm super glad we were able to sleep in today.
01:15:45I know he feels relaxed when mama sitting around
01:15:48in her bed and a turnover.
01:16:02So when I talked to Forrest, he's like, oh, surprise, mom.
01:16:06I went and met with a lawyer, and the lawyer says he has to have, like, a certain amount
01:16:11of income, something like that.
01:16:14He didn't do anything right at all.
01:16:18I'm upset right now.
01:16:20Forrest is coming back, and for the last few days, Dev and I haven't heard anything from
01:16:25Forrest or Sheena, and we've just felt like we've kind of been left in the dark.
01:16:30You know, I don't know what to expect when they get back from their little rendezvous
01:16:37romantic vacation.
01:16:39I don't know what the conversation is going to be.
01:16:45Hey, we're supposed to be flying out tomorrow, and we're not sure what they're thinking or
01:16:52planning at all.
01:17:01Hey, mom.
01:17:04How's things going?
01:17:06It's going pretty good.
01:17:07How are you guys?
01:17:12Well, I think we need to have a talk.
01:17:15Yeah.
01:17:16I think we need to figure things out a little bit.
01:17:18Yeah.
01:17:20That's kind of why we're here.
01:17:24Today was supposed to be my last day in the Philippines, but Sheena and I have made the
01:17:30decision for me to stay here and basically start a life here with her.
01:17:35You ready?
01:17:36Yeah, we're going to have to go.
01:17:38Let's go.
01:17:38All right, guys.
01:17:39I know that my mom is not going to accept it, but she has to understand that I'm not
01:17:46the child that, you know, she's seen all these years.
01:17:49I have changed a lot this trip, and I'm ready to do what I need to do to ensure Sheena
01:17:55and
01:17:55I are together.
01:18:05Sheena and I are together.
01:18:24Sheena and I are just going to be able to do something and speak.
01:18:25It's just such a...
01:18:26It tells a whole story.
01:18:27Yes.
01:18:27Just a damn.
01:18:28I agree.
01:18:29Oh, my goodness.
01:18:30Oh, look at that.
01:18:31Yay!
01:18:33Oh, thank you.
01:18:35Oh, that's beautiful.
01:18:36That's awesome.
01:18:37Good job, guys.
01:18:38That's awesome.
01:18:39Well, you realize you have to be not only in a rhythm with the bamboo, but you have to
01:18:44be in a rhythm with your partner, too, at the same time.
01:18:48Kind of like life.
01:18:50Well, I think Sheena and I were worth moving in perfect rhythm.
01:18:57Yeah, definitely.
01:19:03So, Sheena, do we get menus, or how does it work?
01:19:07I think there's a set menu that's going to be prepared, so you can try, guys.
01:19:11Oh, good.
01:19:15Oh, my God.
01:19:17Thank you so much.
01:19:21So, with the...
01:19:23Where you guys went, just fill me in what happened and give me all the details.
01:19:30Um, yeah.
01:19:32I feel like me and Sheena, we really bonded in more ways than one.
01:19:39Mm-hmm.
01:19:46You had sex, didn't you?
01:19:52You know what?
01:19:53Yeah, we did.
01:19:56About time.
01:19:58I enjoyed it.
01:19:59It was fun.
01:20:01Yeah.
01:20:04You guys think that you have a good physical connection with each other?
01:20:10Yeah.
01:20:11Yeah.
01:20:11Yeah.
01:20:12I feel like our souls have really connected, and now we can really understand each other.
01:20:18Mm-hmm.
01:20:19Yeah.
01:20:22I'm happy that, you know, my son finally lost his virginity.
01:20:26Finally, you know.
01:20:28Nookie, nookie, nookie.
01:20:29Bang, bang, bang, bang.
01:20:32Then, also, too, that's an important aspect, to know if they had compatibility on all aspects, including sexuality.
01:20:42Well, that's good.
01:20:44I'm glad you guys are both de-virginized, finally.
01:20:47That's...
01:20:47Yeah, Mom.
01:20:52Well, you know it's a sad thing that we have to leave you and that Forrest has to leave you
01:20:58tomorrow.
01:20:59But it must be very painful.
01:21:03But are there plans being made and arrangements made somehow to try and get you over to the United States?
01:21:14Did you guys talk, make any plans?
01:21:18Because this is, we are leaving tomorrow.
01:21:25Yeah, we talked a lot yesterday.
01:21:27Oh.
01:21:29With the K-1 visa, I found out that being on disability, I don't make enough money.
01:21:37So, Sheena and I have decided that I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:21:46Forrest?
01:21:48I'm tired of being alone.
01:21:50Oh, my God.
01:21:51I did not expect to be staying here long term.
01:21:56Oh, you didn't expect to fall.
01:21:59I want my love with me in my second half.
01:22:01This is our choice.
01:22:04What's that that you just came out of your mouth?
01:22:07Mom.
01:22:08Where's your list of pros and cons that you wrote out?
01:22:11Was that in between the ?
01:22:13Excuse me.
01:22:15You could say one thing something you want to say, but for me, I have him. He had me.
01:22:19I don't care if you're here for my son.
01:22:20I'm doing my best for my part for your son.
01:22:22I want to be here for my son.
01:22:22Because I love your son, and I've worked everything hard for him for our future.
01:22:26I want you to trust your son for once in a while.
01:22:33I trust my son.
01:22:35I don't trust you.
01:22:41I'm sorry. I just want to need space.
01:22:44I'm sorry.
01:22:46I'm sorry.
01:22:47I'm sorry.
01:22:47Excuse me.
01:22:54Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:22:57When do you plan on applying for the fiance visa so I can live in buildings?
01:23:02I thought you were going to apply for me in the U.S.
01:23:07No.
01:23:09Stig never mentioned wanting to move to the U.S.
01:23:12It's two hours before I'm leaving.
01:23:14It's just really weird timing.
01:23:16You won't be able to make any money.
01:23:17I saw you going to be my sugar mama.
01:23:21I wish we could have talked it out last night.
01:23:24You've been texting with him this morning?
01:23:26What has he been saying?
01:23:26I asked him if we could talk and he said sure.
01:23:31So.
01:23:31I want to show him that my feelings for him are so much stronger than how I ever felt about
01:23:38Michael.
01:23:39Why did you mislead me when Michael made the move?
01:23:42I was worried you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him.
01:23:49Can you do that?
01:23:53Are you excited about today?
01:23:55I think I should ask you that question though.
01:23:59I just don't know what I'm going to say for my vows.
01:24:02It's just going to be like the basics.
01:24:05I just wanted today to be full of love.
01:24:10But it just feels like any other day for him.
01:24:14I don't know.
01:24:15I can't pretend that everything is fine.
01:24:21I love your son and I'll do anything my best for him.
01:24:24Love doesn't pay the bills, Gina.
01:24:26You know, I'm like in panic mode that he's going to move to the Philippines.
01:24:31It's not going to work.
01:24:32It won't work.
01:24:33How much do you think that you're going to make working here?
01:24:37Where are you going to live, Forrest?
01:24:39Have you even factored how much it's going to cost?
01:24:43I don't know what to do.
01:24:47All the messages in the text.
01:24:49Why did you betray me?
01:24:52Why don't you block her?
01:24:54If you want this relationship, tell her that you don't want her anymore.
01:24:59That I'm with you.
01:25:00I love Trish, but love isn't so black and white.
01:25:07I need to be honest about my feelings.
01:25:11I don't know what to do.
01:25:15Oh, my God. Stunning.
01:25:17I don't think Elise realized, you know, what she'd signed up for.
01:25:22I'm done, baby. I'm so done with her.
01:25:25Come on, baby.
01:25:27What did I do?
01:25:28Yeah, at first, I'm just thinking she's being a drama queen.
01:25:33And I started to think, oh, is she okay?
01:25:38Help me!
01:25:39Help me!
01:25:39Help!
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